Thank you for saying that about the newly peaked. We need to get away from this 'time served' mentality because surely what we want is for everyone to end up peaked, that takes time.
My very wise sister, (who is not a psychologist, but we all agree that she would have been a really good one), always keeps reminding me that you don’t REACH people by being angry at them, or shouting at them. I think it’s still got its place, absolutely. Like for instance, when a group of people are all angry about the same thing, the anger can be used to further bond them and motivate them! But if you end up on the OUTSIDE of someone’s anger, and instead being SUBJECTED to it..? That may very well be fair, and you may very well have deserved it, (or not!), but it’s still not going to convince you to change your ways. Or.. maybe OCCASIONALLY it will. But I imagine it is not a very common occurrence. Plus it doesn’t work for making people change their MINDS, either. If I get chewed out and told I’m horrible for not being a Christian, or a TRA, or a vegan..? That will only make me want to join their ranks even LESS! And that also works in the other direction, clearly. Although even with that being said..? I have definitely had my own non-constructive blowups at TRAs. Especially online. Because.. human. And I still don’t regret any of what I’ve said. But I think it’s about HOW we say it! Like for instance, if you want to convince a newly peaked person to stop using fake pronouns for people..? “You are HORRIBLE for still doing that! How dare you???” doesn’t work. But: “using fake pronouns is actually very harmful, and further pushes and validates the very ideology that we are trying to oppose! I bet that is not what you want, either? Here is an essay about it that you can read.” works much better. And yeah… It is definitely NOT a simple flick that people can switch! Absolutely not! In the beginning, you don’t even realize it is an issue, or that there are any problems, whatsoever. Like, I SINCERELY did not know the difference between GC vs. “bigoted, conservative, religious homophobe”. I had heard the word “TERF”, and all I knew about those people was that they were all absolutely HORRIBLE, and should be avoided at all cost! (Lulz. 😝) Basically the spawn of ZE DEVIL himself. 😛 And then at one point I started asking questions, and doing research. But it was absolutely NOT like a switch that I could flick! And even more so, peaking was NOT a conscious choice! It was a steady trickle, trickle, drip, drip, over YEARS and years, until my inner cup finally overfilled, and then everything EXPLODED. At which point, I no longer had any say in the matter. Because then those scales came off my eyes, and I finally truly SAW this stuff for what it is. Which.. THAT part of it was much like a flick being switched! But I did not CHOOSE to flick it! It happens when it happens, and you can’t force it. Sort of like berries or fruits ripening in their own time. And during the steady trickle process, for all those years leading up to it..? People could have fed me additional drops, to try to speed it up, absolutely. But it was still not going to be FULL “scales off” until I myself was literally UNABLE to cope with the increasing cognitive dissonance / pressure buildup in ANY other way anymore, and I literally had NO other choice than to peak! For as long as I COULD still handle the increasing cognitive dissonance without seeing it..? There you go, add another drop my ENORMOUS inner cup, and: “there are some issues here, yeah, but I am still a very good ALLY», etc. ..Just felt like writing about the mechanics of that, in case it’s useful, to someone who has never been through it themselves. And I mean.. I started out as a fully brainwashed TRA, who was convinced that if I rejected this worldview, it would mean I was an absolutely HORRIBLE person! Hence there was a lot MORE invested in not seeing it than I imagine there is with the average normie… I need to read more about what the normie peaking process is like! 😛 But I imagine they also likely experience a certain level of resistance and cognitive dissonance. (Just much less than me.) Plus they are usually also a combination of uninformed and misinformed, which is why they haven’t seen it yet. Indeed, we should appreciate it when they actually DO wake up! And hope they help spread it to others. 🙂❤
@@catherinerobilliard7662 I can't they have my Routers IP or something, they blocked my son too as soon as he tried to make an account with his email address.
I have to be careful what I say about the surgery carried out because it gets blocked but how did anyone think that medically transitioning children was ok.
Just like a tsunami, transgender ideology hit us with great force & depth, many people & institutions "captured" by the ideology, and now as the wave slowly recedes we can see the damage left in it's wake !! From the medical to the educational, there is a big job to be done to clear out the whole mindset / ideology / belief, that children are born in the wrong body.
I'm sorry, what? They didn't have the child's medical files? What? Omg! 😮
Afternoon Barry keep up the fabulous work ❤
Thank you for saying that about the newly peaked. We need to get away from this 'time served' mentality because surely what we want is for everyone to end up peaked, that takes time.
Thank you Barry for the important work you do.
Transitioning children is profound child abuse.
Why isn't the Labour Party ejecting them? Because the party agrees with them.
As an Irish Mammy this makes me so hopeful.
Thanks
Thank you so much Richy, let's keep at it!
I saw it straight away. Does that make me ‘speshul’? Great essay btw
Charlie's a good one. This isn't the first time he's asked about Irish children referred to the Tavistock.
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My very wise sister, (who is not a psychologist, but we all agree that she would have been a really good one), always keeps reminding me that you don’t REACH people by being angry at them, or shouting at them. I think it’s still got its place, absolutely. Like for instance, when a group of people are all angry about the same thing, the anger can be used to further bond them and motivate them! But if you end up on the OUTSIDE of someone’s anger, and instead being SUBJECTED to it..? That may very well be fair, and you may very well have deserved it, (or not!), but it’s still not going to convince you to change your ways. Or.. maybe OCCASIONALLY it will. But I imagine it is not a very common occurrence. Plus it doesn’t work for making people change their MINDS, either. If I get chewed out and told I’m horrible for not being a Christian, or a TRA, or a vegan..? That will only make me want to join their ranks even LESS! And that also works in the other direction, clearly. Although even with that being said..? I have definitely had my own non-constructive blowups at TRAs. Especially online. Because.. human. And I still don’t regret any of what I’ve said. But I think it’s about HOW we say it! Like for instance, if you want to convince a newly peaked person to stop using fake pronouns for people..? “You are HORRIBLE for still doing that! How dare you???” doesn’t work. But: “using fake pronouns is actually very harmful, and further pushes and validates the very ideology that we are trying to oppose! I bet that is not what you want, either? Here is an essay about it that you can read.” works much better.
And yeah… It is definitely NOT a simple flick that people can switch! Absolutely not! In the beginning, you don’t even realize it is an issue, or that there are any problems, whatsoever. Like, I SINCERELY did not know the difference between GC vs. “bigoted, conservative, religious homophobe”. I had heard the word “TERF”, and all I knew about those people was that they were all absolutely HORRIBLE, and should be avoided at all cost! (Lulz. 😝) Basically the spawn of ZE DEVIL himself. 😛 And then at one point I started asking questions, and doing research. But it was absolutely NOT like a switch that I could flick! And even more so, peaking was NOT a conscious choice! It was a steady trickle, trickle, drip, drip, over YEARS and years, until my inner cup finally overfilled, and then everything EXPLODED. At which point, I no longer had any say in the matter. Because then those scales came off my eyes, and I finally truly SAW this stuff for what it is. Which.. THAT part of it was much like a flick being switched! But I did not CHOOSE to flick it! It happens when it happens, and you can’t force it. Sort of like berries or fruits ripening in their own time. And during the steady trickle process, for all those years leading up to it..? People could have fed me additional drops, to try to speed it up, absolutely. But it was still not going to be FULL “scales off” until I myself was literally UNABLE to cope with the increasing cognitive dissonance / pressure buildup in ANY other way anymore, and I literally had NO other choice than to peak! For as long as I COULD still handle the increasing cognitive dissonance without seeing it..? There you go, add another drop my ENORMOUS inner cup, and: “there are some issues here, yeah, but I am still a very good ALLY», etc.
..Just felt like writing about the mechanics of that, in case it’s useful, to someone who has never been through it themselves. And I mean.. I started out as a fully brainwashed TRA, who was convinced that if I rejected this worldview, it would mean I was an absolutely HORRIBLE person! Hence there was a lot MORE invested in not seeing it than I imagine there is with the average normie… I need to read more about what the normie peaking process is like! 😛 But I imagine they also likely experience a certain level of resistance and cognitive dissonance. (Just much less than me.) Plus they are usually also a combination of uninformed and misinformed, which is why they haven’t seen it yet. Indeed, we should appreciate it when they actually DO wake up! And hope they help spread it to others. 🙂❤
Can I just say that I am still banned from Twitter after calling this out for the C word it is years ago
I went back under another name but isn’t it galling that the predators are the ones protected?
@@catherinerobilliard7662 I can't they have my Routers IP or something, they blocked my son too as soon as he tried to make an account with his email address.
I have to be careful what I say about the surgery carried out because it gets blocked but how did anyone think that medically transitioning children was ok.
Just like a tsunami, transgender ideology hit us with great force & depth, many people & institutions "captured" by the ideology, and now as the wave slowly recedes we can see the damage left in it's wake !!
From the medical to the educational, there is a big job to be done to clear out the whole mindset / ideology / belief, that children are born in the wrong body.