My wife passed away 7 years ago. She had bipolar disorder. Hated her meds. Loved her kids and me. She was the best. She was the worst. I’d take every shitty day twice over again. Every bruise. Just to see her at her best one more time.
I’m sorry, truly. Wish you and kids are able to grieve properly but also move forward with life and grow. I’m that wife. I’m that Mom. I’m not bi polar, I have borderline personality disorder. I’m being treated and on the proper medication (as of now) I hate the ways I’ve hurt my family, but many times I feel I have no control at all over my words, feelings, actions, thoughts.
This is my song filled with trauma, I would listen to this song during the worst times. I've gotten used to listening to if but deep inside I still remember those times vividly
@@solaria5513 every song has a different meaning to each person and music is something quite personal. Honestly, no one gives a fuck about what you got to say because that’s how they’ve already linked the song, so might as well stfu.
I'll never forget my wife's first listen. 🎶 . She laughed when chino said "you're married". The words "...to me" were uttered. Her smile immediately gone.
shits a domestic horror movie in 3.44 minutes & dat line is tha final devastating twist. they can b hardcore & brutal n shit, but its they nuance n subtlety & like, idk, emotional delicacy which allowed tha tones to survive & thrive beyond tha end of tha 00s numetal fad
@@truthandlies333 i think this part youre married to me is just ending to whole song and song was about bad relationship that ended and words yorue married to me are like he thinking about what happend bad in this relation and thinking that they were married and all of the stuff hapend was this bad
I feel soon I will sink Into you What do you think? 'Cause there's still blood In your hair Got the bruise Of the year But it's something about her Long shady eyes I'm all about her Shade tonight I hate your tattoos You have weak wrists But I'll keep you 'Cause it's something about her Long shady eyes I'm all about her Shade tonight Well it's too bad It's too bad It's too bad You're married, to me
This song reminds me of my feeling of devastation. It’s a feeling so low, you feel shame. “You’ve got weak wrists” It gets better. Just low moments. Some advice. When you and your partner get into a fight so bad there’s screaming, pain and hurting yourself. It’s not always toxic, what makes a relationship toxic is if it keeps repeating. You and your partner/friend will not always make each other happy. You will miss a moment where they need you, they will miss when you need them. You both sometimes won’t ever be on the same page on one or two things. Relationships are a lot more sophisticated compared to when you look at it from a child point of view. Arguing or disagreeing doesn’t mean toxic right of the bat. Coming from someone who grew up around physical abuse in my family and in a relationship now, what someone would call toxic. My family repeated the abuse, there was never a moment of stopping verbally or physically. They never cared to resolve the pain, they never promised to stop. Whereas me and my boyfriend fight. Sometimes we get so upset we do stupid stuff. He’s never hurt me physically but he says things verbally and so do I. Grown up, I realized since I met my boyfriend whether I meant to or not I picked up bad habits from my family. Sometimes I am inconsiderate, come off cold or sometimes push him away without realizing. He does his things. But we both apologize meaningfully and feel remorse and try not to let it happen again. We’ve had some ugly fights because of pain, but we always apologize and stop. Toxic relationships are repetition, causing arguments for no reason, wanting your partner to feel pain, not feeling remorse. Just please relook how you look toxicity in relationships. No one will ever be perfect, love is loving someone through their mistakes. I’m also not saying to ignore toxicity or Red flags. I wrote this because there’s so much inside. Mostly towards my mother and boyfriend. My mom says my boyfriend is toxic when she was with a man who didn’t hesitate to hurt her in every way possible. It baffles me. I’ve grown up and my boyfriend helped me see my vision was twisted. He noticed I didn’t care about myself and taught me self love, He made realize my mom isn’t all there in the head anymore. I always knew but I guess I wanted to hold on to seeing the best in her. Me and my boyfriend have ups and downs but he is gentle with me, he genuinely loves me and feels remorse when we fight. He feels remorse for doing the littlest thing to me. I love him very much. I care for everyone but sometimes it’s draining to care for everyone. It’s my fault for acting like I could handle the weight while not caring for my own well being. That’s why I listen to this song now, I have no energy to love anyone but my boyfriend. Family too crazy to love at the moment.
Lmao yall saying "idc" and all that stuff in the reply like they are talking to yall personally, they r Just spreading a message to help ppl not fall in the same mistakes, sucks yall thing yall r the centre of life or smth 💀
No it doesn’t!! Have absolutely loved this track since 1st hearing it back around 2000-01. Sometime around just before White Pony came out. Yeah, was a late bloomer when it comes to becoming/calling myself the diehard fan I am of the Sacramento boys today! Never looked back from that morning when borrowing the ATF LP from a friend & jamming it on the way to work. From then on, I just can never get enough of the great wicked ass sounds these guys can consistently deliver to all of us!
One of my favorite songs from deftones, I was 10 when I 1st heard it.listening to all the music I grew up on as an adult now makes them so better I actually understand them.
If you knew the true meaning of the song, it's actually funny. H/W wipe out harmlessly and she bitches at him but doesn't care because they're married.....nothing deep, just haunting rhythms
Well It’s too bad. It’s too bad. It’s too bad. You’re married.. To me.. The fact that (2:50) is the most replayed by a large margin just proves that I’m not the only one massively obsessed with the feeling I get hearing that outro. It’s gritty, cold, sexy, devastating wrapped in a chained up lock box. SO GOOD. 🫦
Putting effort in and ending up here. Almost giving up...but also looking for a reason to be. Sometimes the easiest way out is putting yourself at fault. Life longs will see through it.
Although very informative nobody cares what's the fucking point of this 3 am methamphetamine ramble. Here's Tom with the weather 😮. No I feel you I can relate to almost everything you meant to say here.
You ruined the suprise with the last lyric, it was perfect up to that, the way you showed us little bits of lyrics on their own and on the last lyrics where its most needed for the dramatic effect you didnt
Ante Mrva you Dumass are you making millions of fans ... Money then keep your opinion to yourself only real Deftones fans here. It's not always about the vocalist the whole band is what makes the sound
Bro, he's talking about the dude who made this video. He isn't dissing deftones, he's dissing the fact that the video maker put the lyrics "it's too bad you're married to me" too early in the video. He should've have waited til the end of the song before putting that lyric since it ruined the suspense.
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I can always tell when something is a deftones song. It's so distinctive, it makes the hairs on my neck rise
Such raw emotion
My wife passed away 7 years ago. She had bipolar disorder. Hated her meds. Loved her kids and me. She was the best. She was the worst. I’d take every shitty day twice over again. Every bruise. Just to see her at her best one more time.
Rest in peace ❤
I’m sorry, truly. Wish you and kids are able to grieve properly but also move forward with life and grow.
I’m that wife. I’m that Mom. I’m not bi polar, I have borderline personality disorder.
I’m being treated and on the proper medication (as of now)
I hate the ways I’ve hurt my family, but many times I feel I have no control at all over my words, feelings, actions, thoughts.
I’m sure she loved you all very much, just in her own way, the best she could.
I'm sorry for your loss, i hope she's in better place now
@@christinegrillo914
You're a good person, it's not your fault and keep trying to heal, your family needs u and loves u 🤍
This is my song filled with trauma, I would listen to this song during the worst times. I've gotten used to listening to if but deep inside I still remember those times vividly
Tripping on acid in my garage with my gun just inches away. I Still get overwhelmed but I'm with you, hearing this takes me straight there again.
@@saranoma6910 don’t you fucking dare do that , you’re more and you’re special and you deserve respect
Why do you cheapen good songs with retarded experiences in your life
@@solaria5513 every song has a different meaning to each person and music is something quite personal. Honestly, no one gives a fuck about what you got to say because that’s how they’ve already linked the song, so might as well stfu.
@@miachrst thanks
This song sounds like pure devastation
Yeah especially at the end
my heart 😰💣
Some relationships really are
I'll never forget my wife's first listen. 🎶 . She laughed when chino said "you're married". The words "...to me" were uttered. Her smile immediately gone.
shits a domestic horror movie in 3.44 minutes & dat line is tha final devastating twist. they can b hardcore & brutal n shit, but its they nuance n subtlety & like, idk, emotional delicacy which allowed tha tones to survive & thrive beyond tha end of tha 00s numetal fad
i dont get that last past to be honest with yall. someone explaing it would be AMAZINGGGGG
@@truthandlies333 i don’t get it either if ur talking abt the story haha
@@truthandlies333 i think it means she was unhappy being married to them/unhappy in the marriage ?
@@truthandlies333 i think this part youre married to me is just ending to whole song and song was about bad relationship that ended and words yorue married to me are like he thinking about what happend bad in this relation and thinking that they were married and all of the stuff hapend was this bad
I feel soon
I will sink
Into you
What do you think?
'Cause there's still blood
In your hair
Got the bruise
Of the year
But it's something about her
Long shady eyes
I'm all about her
Shade tonight
I hate your tattoos
You have weak wrists
But I'll keep you
'Cause it's something about her
Long shady eyes
I'm all about her
Shade tonight
Well it's too bad
It's too bad
It's too bad
You're married, to me
This song reminds me of my feeling of devastation. It’s a feeling so low, you feel shame. “You’ve got weak wrists”
It gets better. Just low moments.
Some advice. When you and your partner get into a fight so bad there’s screaming, pain and hurting yourself. It’s not always toxic, what makes a relationship toxic is if it keeps repeating.
You and your partner/friend will not always make each other happy. You will miss a moment where they need you, they will miss when you need them. You both sometimes won’t ever be on the same page on one or two things.
Relationships are a lot more sophisticated compared to when you look at it from a child point of view. Arguing or disagreeing doesn’t mean toxic right of the bat.
Coming from someone who grew up around physical abuse in my family and in a relationship now, what someone would call toxic.
My family repeated the abuse, there was never a moment of stopping verbally or physically. They never cared to resolve the pain, they never promised to stop.
Whereas me and my boyfriend fight. Sometimes we get so upset we do stupid stuff. He’s never hurt me physically but he says things verbally and so do I.
Grown up, I realized since I met my boyfriend whether I meant to or not I picked up bad habits from my family. Sometimes I am inconsiderate, come off cold or sometimes push him away without realizing. He does his things. But we both apologize meaningfully and feel remorse and try not to let it happen again.
We’ve had some ugly fights because of pain, but we always apologize and stop.
Toxic relationships are repetition, causing arguments for no reason, wanting your partner to feel pain, not feeling remorse.
Just please relook how you look toxicity in relationships. No one will ever be perfect, love is loving someone through their mistakes. I’m also not saying to ignore toxicity or Red flags.
I wrote this because there’s so much inside. Mostly towards my mother and boyfriend. My mom says my boyfriend is toxic when she was with a man who didn’t hesitate to hurt her in every way possible. It baffles me. I’ve grown up and my boyfriend helped me see my vision was twisted. He noticed I didn’t care about myself and taught me self love, He made realize my mom isn’t all there in the head anymore. I always knew but I guess I wanted to hold on to seeing the best in her. Me and my boyfriend have ups and downs but he is gentle with me, he genuinely loves me and feels remorse when we fight. He feels remorse for doing the littlest thing to me.
I love him very much. I care for everyone but sometimes it’s draining to care for everyone. It’s my fault for acting like I could handle the weight while not caring for my own well being.
That’s why I listen to this song now, I have no energy to love anyone but my boyfriend.
Family too crazy to love at the moment.
U explained it perfectly
Dude….. nobody cares
Lmao yall saying "idc" and all that stuff in the reply like they are talking to yall personally, they r Just spreading a message to help ppl not fall in the same mistakes, sucks yall thing yall r the centre of life or smth 💀
@jmathis2aug and don't blame people when nobody cares about you when you at your lowest time someday, lol
Are you a pisces by any chance ?
Never gets old
No it doesn’t!! Have absolutely loved this track since 1st hearing it back around 2000-01. Sometime around just before White Pony came out. Yeah, was a late bloomer when it comes to becoming/calling myself the diehard fan I am of the Sacramento boys today! Never looked back from that morning when borrowing the ATF LP from a friend & jamming it on the way to work. From then on, I just can never get enough of the great wicked ass sounds these guys can consistently deliver to all of us!
has it gotten old after eptxgreg
This song feels like a distinctive memory to me. A painful one.
Deftones always makes amazing songs.
One of my favorite songs from deftones, I was 10 when I 1st heard it.listening to all the music I grew up on as an adult now makes them so better I actually understand them.
2:46 Too amazing in my eardrums. Such a banger
This song is probably the most perfect thing I have ever heard.
Chino made this song for his wife and she had no initial reaction
Fucking perfect song
You're either listening to this because You're Depressed and Sad, Or you're Madly In Love
The second one fs
Nah im just here to find that part that turned out to be at the end because im making an edit
@@thewisedaddy6460bye
Both
All 3
Those last few lines😩
this song makes me feel so high
This is a mood
Perfect mood
I've always said Deftones isn't a band. They are a whole mood.
@@stevenhammer7126 your a mood lmao
One of my fav deftones song
Seriously how have I never heard of deftones before
Welcome to our fandom bro
My wishs will be fulfilled when someone posts me to this amazing song💌 have a great day everyone
get that cheerful attitude outta here
@@sundigest1121 hahahahahahahah this made me scream xD
I just posted @thatonegirlinmyclass with this song
girl same
@@sundigest1121 😭😭
that outro though...
Chino's voice in this song.. does things to me 🖤
Love this song sm, 2:33 reminds me of my parents ❤️
You shouldn't be married to your parents...
ur dad would evily taunt ur mom in a creepyass singsong voice how it unfortunate she married 2 him lmao?? 🙁🙁🙁
@@thecoconutgum lmao
@@thecoconutgum 🤣🤣
@@thecoconutgum they are talking about their mom and dad’s relationship I think lol
ill never forget when I played this at graduation 😩🙏
NO WAY THATS SOCOOL BRO😭
@@Jillickle 😭
no wayyy, do u record it?
@@Kangugi no 😔 i was too shocked that they allowed me to play it at all and i was just hardcore singing and dancing
Song is helpin me little by little!
this song is everything
I feel this song so much, makes me skibidi fr
makes me skibidi??? what does that even mean
@@infinitum211skibidi toilet
Brain rot 😭😭😭
Erm, what the sigma
@@infinitum211his head is in the toilet
3:00 for that guitar riff
If you knew the true meaning of the song, it's actually funny. H/W wipe out harmlessly and she bitches at him but doesn't care because they're married.....nothing deep, just haunting rhythms
Idk why people dont like this song
Young love is precious
Beautiful.
dis song always goes so hard
2020, going into 2021 anyone?!
yes, hello
Yasss!
Yup
hello🧏🏻♀️
2021 going into 2022
This song is so fucking good man
This song is just pure badass 🔥🔥🔥
GREATNESS!!!
First song ive heard by deftones, been listening to them consistently this year
Worse part of the song:
3:44
love it
Chico Moreno...
@@michelmonier8489 chico? 😭
idk what yall talkin ab this is a sensual love song ..
this song is so good mann
this is the best song on planet earth
R.I.P.
Julie Carr
2:50 don't mind this edit timestamp
thanks
still love this song
It's the dream
2:33 is the best part for me
Only liking people’s comments to bring em back to this song
Lmao I made my boyfriend make this my song 😂
ahahahahah
@Ace Yoder ok
Lucky boy
Tell him to post if your still with him and he mastered the song
@@richardurbina2901 married to him now lol
deftones me hace olvidar de todo lo malo
Well It’s too bad.
It’s too bad.
It’s too bad.
You’re married..
To me..
The fact that (2:50) is the most replayed by a large margin just proves that I’m not the only one massively obsessed with the feeling I get hearing that outro. It’s gritty, cold, sexy, devastating wrapped in a chained up lock box. SO GOOD. 🫦
Ağustos böceğim severmiş böyle müzikleri
I remember sitting in the back of the cop car on the way to the mental hospital. The cop let me listen to Deftones on the way there :)
I got my dad into deftonesss
Congrats
i love you chino
Deftones for life
@@mondeoford1562 yes
2021 -Sinking into--->2022
this songs about his wife 🤖
Ruben Contreras this song is about every fucker's wife.
Too bad she didn't appreciate it
this ins't so hard to realise bruh
1 of many
@@lydiarodriguez3927 I mean it's not exactly a love song lol but it's a good song
I don't know why, but is voice tends to freak me tf out
LOLL
Its sexy
@@jacky8129 Ikr omg😭
It's so chilling yet so seducing
Same but I like it
2:50 😩😩😩
i love desiree
This song is my song
cause ther somting about her
somtimg
@@chaz-12 ther
@@zors1900 HELP LMFAOOAOA😭😭
Putting effort in and ending up here. Almost giving up...but also looking for a reason to be. Sometimes the easiest way out is putting yourself at fault. Life longs will see through it.
i was the 7k th like on the video
AND THERES SOMETHING ABOUT HER!
beautiful
So real
No stop.....your making songs better
Chino 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
Tell me if you combine the music at 3:00 with the rdr2 with micha or not.
Starts at 0:28
what you can't sit through 30 seconds of an intro?
essa é boa
very good
bigges plot twist in the rock history
it is too bad you are married to me...
666th like. I've got weak wrists.
10 years ago wtf man
No bc why he kinda fine 😭😭
🤘🏽
dog too
nice👍👍
smash
💀💀💀
😄 it's Friday
Fr
💗
Although very informative nobody cares what's the fucking point of this 3 am methamphetamine ramble. Here's Tom with the weather 😮. No I feel you I can relate to almost everything you meant to say here.
2:50
ILoveMarissa!
It reminds me of my ex, I give it a lot more feeling
💀💘🤘
waiting for him
00:00
Banana
Real
You ruined the suprise with the last lyric, it was perfect up to that, the way you showed us little bits of lyrics on their own and on the last lyrics where its most needed for the dramatic effect you didnt
Ante Mrva you Dumass are you making millions of fans ... Money then keep your opinion to yourself only real Deftones fans here. It's not always about the vocalist the whole band is what makes the sound
Bro, he's talking about the dude who made this video. He isn't dissing deftones, he's dissing the fact that the video maker put the lyrics "it's too bad you're married to me" too early in the video. He should've have waited til the end of the song before putting that lyric since it ruined the suspense.
@@fredopabon9700 HAHAHAHA Wtf dude, he isnt dissing deftones XD LMAO
It's a lyric video, not a cinematic masterpiece lmao
No way emos listen to deftones. This is way to cinematic for the “feels” its gotta be in a apocalyptic universe somewhere
100
pur 2:57
💔
dog sadge but
The last chord was stolen from satan himself. Heavy shit
This reminds me of ranboo in a movie
The voice though 💀💀💀
it sounds good wtf u on
are u okay?
wdym
chino has the sexiest voice what r u on
huh??