Honestly, nothing has helped me to get to my feminine energy more than becoming religious over the past year. I learned to stop controlling everything because I have my worries to God and had faith in Him to help me. Since then, surrendering that control to God has helped me to be a happier person. And you know who that has also helped? My husband. Our relationship has been so much better because of all of this. Thank you for your videos! They have been a huge help too with looking at myself and areas that I could change to be better.
@@maryamjahangir4839she’s a Christian imo and you seems like a Muslim from your name, I would suggest doing your own research according to your religion
Another great tip she gave me when I was feeling this way was "to just slow down". Walk slower, think and process before speaking, slow your speech, slow your mind, slow down your walk🩷 It has really changed me and even helped with my anxiety! I hope this helps you too~
The divider "trick" works perfectly for me. First it was hard to let the old part of me stay in the past, so I wrote her a letter. And that really helped❤
First: I needed this video like I need my next breath. It was right on time for me. Thank you. Next: the aesthetic of your video is such a vibe. I see every little thing in the background that suggests elegance, ease, and abundance. The cutesy but somehow also classy pop-ups are now stuck in my mind, with all the key points of this video. And you are so easy to understand and follow that I feel like I’m just sitting on the bed with my best friend talking about life. So-whatever program you use for your videos, if you are doing your own editing or hiring it out, whatever it is-it’s good. It’s really really good. Thank you, Jillz. 💖
"Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it." - Bruce Lee Maybe it's from being a water sign astrologically, but letting go of control and going with the flow is usually really easy for me. At the same time though, I have a stubbon streak and have been compared to a mule when it's something I really want done. Pick your battles. It is what it is. And my personal favorite... Micro-managing everything leads to stress. Stress causes wrinkles. Is it really worth a wrinkle? No!
This is your best video yet! You just keep getting better and better! It's so nice to see an attractive, intelligent woman talk so compellingly about inner growth and flow!
As the eldest, I'm used to being the advice-giver, both to my siblings and colleagues. But I've always wished I had someone to offer me the same kind of support and guidance I provide to others. Your videos feel like a conversation with a wise friend who understands my challenges and offers insightful advice that truly resonates. Thanks Jillz. Grateful to you ❤
This conversation is so needed!!! I agree with the title. This is the number one thing we as women need to remember, and the more we practice releasing control the more life flows the way it is meant to for us 🥰 can confirm from my own life experience.
Please, can you do how to stay in feminine energy while you're the leader in college or boss at work. How to stay in feminine energy while still be competent and assertive. Please🥺 I'd like to hear your insights on that. I can't find anyone talking about feminine energy as being a leader.
I agree with this! Esp when balancing the need to progress things forward without “taking control”. I could give endless examples where the easier thing to do, is just simply to do the thing. To take the action.
I'm a big believer in looking at patterns in my life and trying to determine the underlying root causes of these patterns. Your video today Jillz helped me remember some things that brought an epiphany for me. Whenever I get really anxious (usually when I feel my life is starting to get out of control) I start focusing more on cleaning, organizing, and throwing out excess stuff as a way to "order" my external environment. This frantic need to put things in their place always comes at times when I am excessively worried about many things in my life. Your video really helped me see that I need to calm my central nervous system first before trying to "fix" what is wrong in my environment. Thank you so much! You are definitely a Godly gift to us all. The Bible says "Wisdom comes from God!" So I think you are a spiritual light in this world! Thank you!
Omg Jillz .. You are my bright wonderful guardian angel. This video is for meeeee. (Next to billions of women) i send a huuuge wave of positive energy and gratitude to you 🫶🌹
Jillz your content has helped me a lot for the last couple of years that and I´ve been following you and I just resonate so much with your every word! Like at the end of this video, the focus was the letting go of control but at the same time that´s the KEY to manifestation and a happy life and that´s just pure gold information explained in such a simple way, thank you so much. Also, I wanted to say I loveee your new video formats and addtions!! Congrats to you and your team. PS: You´re GLOWING friend, even more than before you look more and more beatiful each new video!♥ PS2, a phrase I read once I think could sum this concept up is ¨A girl must only focus on feeling hot and happy, that´s it¨☺
There is a time and a place for relaxing, a significant amount of time and brain power goes into staying on top of things in these volatile and expensive times when single...
Controlling creates anxiety and suffering. Surrendering means choosing to trust rather than controlling. We never have control of anything so we just unnecessarily stress ourselves when we try to control.
Hi Jillz, thank you for another great video. I’ve been stepping more into my feminine energy by letting go of the need to control. Yoga & meditation has helped me a lot. 🧘♀️ 💕
Beautiful Jillz! This was such a wonderful reminder! I’ve learned so much from you over the years!! I’m finally getting back to creating here on YT and am much more mindful about my energy and how I show up for my family and for my audience. I used to be in my masculine and it showed 🙃 thank you for always sharing your wisdom with us! ❤️🙏🏼🥹
Well Liz,being raised by a single mom this is how you view life😢:needing controll bc you are the only breadwinner. And if you can't provide you cant feel safe. So you can't be in your feminine energy. My mom is one and was her kid:And I had a very. Very feminine energy even as a kid. But growing up and we are both trying to make ends meet I'm slowly becoming like her😢.My body holds so much tension I barely sleep. My muscles twitch. I remember when I once was a very creative kid and teenager,music singing dancing and painting. And the worst is that all this has been ingrained in my by my mom,that :Life is cruel. Nobody helps you. You have to work hard to barely make a living. That rich people didn't work but inherited their money. That rich men don't fall for girls like me bc im poor. That people won't ever value my talents (artistic)because I'm poor and don't have the artistic background. I'm 29 and nowhere In life. I need to be my own anchor and get out of this rut that my mom thrives in yet at the same time I need healing and a slow life. Seems like I can't have both bc I need financial stability so bad. I see everything as a threat or as disappointment 😞. I have seen this in myself and I promise to try to change all this by myself😢😅🎉
Hey, try finding a slow and easy job even if it's not much, just for you to relax a little bit and can calm your mind. Try putting yourself first at everything! I send you great things to your path. A hug and a kiss. ❤️😘
It’s an enormous help if a woman has a good partner next to her who helps her, even in small things like cleaning. Doing everything alone is just too draining and too difficult. Not to mention dealing with stress alone… :( Getting hugs when one is stressed or the partner surprises with some relaxing program makes it easier to manage stress…
Don't believe everything is your fault or job. The problems you face should be considered collective issues. I know many think collective approach is " communist" but I think this the right approach. Where I live single mothers get double paid maternity leave. These are the kind of things we need to think about as a society. If we then as individuals want to work on " feeling feminine" that is fine ( I am watching this after all). But the challenges you face can not be just your business.
@@falkeys single mom here. Don’t know how old your kiddos are, but it will benefit them when they see you caring for yourself. Remove any unnecessary burdens and stress where possible and do less for anyone or anything outside of you or your kids. I hope that helps!
I don’t try to control much, just my dirty dishes and laundry, getting to dentist on time and money overspending - but none of this works, if I let go I will just die in dirt and be late everywhere… I don’t really get how to manage life and constantly feel like I need a nanny (I’m 35)
Releasing control matters a lot and absolutely, our controlling parts do stem from the lack of a felt sense of safety, but for many women, particularly those who have experienced trauma or a traumatic childhood, it's not as simple as "choosing" to let go because these experiences live in the body and the nervous system, not the mind. I actually think this message to "let go" can be harmful in some cases (and certainly was for me), because if letting go doesn't come easily, as easily as simply choosing, you can feel like there's something wrong with you. You can feel like you're a controlling b*tch, or whatever expletive you want to insert (AKA the worst and most undesirable thing a woman can be). And if you don't understand where the controlling parts come from, well, then you can feel crazy if "choosing" to let go doesn't work, or only works so far. I'd recommend looking at science-backed approaches to healing via attachment styles//patterns alongside lifestyle changes and adopting positive mindsets like the divider concept. Psychotherapist Jessica Baum's book Anxiously Attached is especially good for healing control and understanding why you might control in the first place.
I would really love to have your videos’ audio as a podcast to listen to your smart words while walking and engrave them in my brain to remind me to chilllll more 😅 Much love🫶
I feel you, I've been there when I was younger. The only thing that worked for me was trying to drown the noise around me, stop trying to make toxic people change, and just focus on myself. What can I do to better myself in order to be able to leave this situation as soon as possible? I know it's easier said than done but I promise when you make it happen, it feels liberating
Thank you for all the advice. I’m stressed because I don’t have friends, and even my husband makes me feel lonely. How can I start gaining self-esteem? It’s affecting me deeply.
Love this but struggling to apply it as a mother to little kids! Mother’s do almost everything for their kids and homes and if they don’t it won’t get done…kids won’t be fed, drop offs won’t be done, clothes won’t be cleaned etc…the job requires control. Is there a different perspective on this to help me bring my feminine energy to motherhood?
I got the notion template and I love it! I'm hoping to let it keep me on track with all these things. Highly recommend ladies!
So glad you’re loving it! It’s a game changer!
I want to be as chill as the dog in the background
Haha me too 😂
😂
LET THEM! Focus on being the best version of yourself, and let other adults be adults. Self control is the only thing you can control!
Honestly, nothing has helped me to get to my feminine energy more than becoming religious over the past year. I learned to stop controlling everything because I have my worries to God and had faith in Him to help me. Since then, surrendering that control to God has helped me to be a happier person. And you know who that has also helped? My husband. Our relationship has been so much better because of all of this. Thank you for your videos! They have been a huge help too with looking at myself and areas that I could change to be better.
MAy you explain from what refrences you study about religion and GOD?
MAy you explain from what refrences you study about religion and GOD?
Totally totally agree! Daily Bible study has changed my life this year!
@@maryamjahangir4839she’s a Christian imo and you seems like a Muslim from your name, I would suggest doing your own research according to your religion
Exactly 💯 💯 ❤
I love how elegantly this woman carries herself. She definitely has the right energy.
Pretty sure she’s married there, Nick😉😂
@@ariacalatinie8750 Lol. I'm just glad she has a big following. Maybe I'll meet one of her disciples someday and we'll fall in love.
I was just thinking I wanted to start stepping into my feminine again. I’ve been hustling hard lately and have forgotten to show myself love.
Another great tip she gave me when I was feeling this way was "to just slow down". Walk slower, think and process before speaking, slow your speech, slow your mind, slow down your walk🩷 It has really changed me and even helped with my anxiety! I hope this helps you too~
Acupunture and massages helped me a lot in that situation. Sometimes you have so much stress in your body that you need some help to release. :)
This has been me for the past few years, and I also want to start slowing down and pull myself towards myself a little more.
@@annie3131these are such good tips. Thank you for sharing.
@@blablabla-g3zlove this. Maybe I should book myself a massage. I am sure guided meditation might also be helpful.
The concept of confidence in " The Art of Seductive Power" book completely explains this. I wish I read it sooner.
wow, amazing book!
This book help me a lot!
Thank you!
❤❤
much love!
Your dog is definitely relaxed and thriving 😂 didn't even notice it until 10:25
The divider "trick" works perfectly for me. First it was hard to let the old part of me stay in the past, so I wrote her a letter. And that really helped❤
Love this tip! I think that I need to do the same
This channel has changed my life. Love you Jillz x
🫶🫶
First: I needed this video like I need my next breath. It was right on time for me. Thank you.
Next: the aesthetic of your video is such a vibe. I see every little thing in the background that suggests elegance, ease, and abundance. The cutesy but somehow also classy pop-ups are now stuck in my mind, with all the key points of this video. And you are so easy to understand and follow that I feel like I’m just sitting on the bed with my best friend talking about life. So-whatever program you use for your videos, if you are doing your own editing or hiring it out, whatever it is-it’s good. It’s really really good. Thank you, Jillz. 💖
"Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it." - Bruce Lee
Maybe it's from being a water sign astrologically, but letting go of control and going with the flow is usually really easy for me.
At the same time though, I have a stubbon streak and have been compared to a mule when it's something I really want done.
Pick your battles. It is what it is. And my personal favorite... Micro-managing everything leads to stress. Stress causes wrinkles. Is it really worth a wrinkle? No!
Jillz, this couldn’t come in a better time. Thank you for the video, this is a topic that I really needed to hear. Wish you the best ❤
You are so welcome 💕💕
This is your best video yet! You just keep getting better and better! It's so nice to see an attractive, intelligent woman talk so compellingly about inner growth and flow!
As the eldest, I'm used to being the advice-giver, both to my siblings and colleagues. But I've always wished I had someone to offer me the same kind of support and guidance I provide to others. Your videos feel like a conversation with a wise friend who understands my challenges and offers insightful advice that truly resonates. Thanks Jillz. Grateful to you ❤
This conversation is so needed!!! I agree with the title. This is the number one thing we as women need to remember, and the more we practice releasing control the more life flows the way it is meant to for us 🥰 can confirm from my own life experience.
So glad you agree! It’s ironic how surrendering is what actually gives us freedom 💕
@ Exactly 😁 thank you for your fantastic videos Jillz always so empowering!
Please, can you do how to stay in feminine energy while you're the leader in college or boss at work. How to stay in feminine energy while still be competent and assertive.
Please🥺 I'd like to hear your insights on that. I can't find anyone talking about feminine energy as being a leader.
I agree with this! Esp when balancing the need to progress things forward without “taking control”. I could give endless examples where the easier thing to do, is just simply to do the thing. To take the action.
@carissa6602 That's right. And when you're the one in charge, you can't help but to take over and take control to get things done.
you are a woman, you will always be feminine no matter what you do. Being a leader doesn't make you manly.
You’re the best person talking feminine energy, thank you 🌹❤️
I'm a big believer in looking at patterns in my life and trying to determine the underlying root causes of these patterns. Your video today Jillz helped me remember some things that brought an epiphany for me.
Whenever I get really anxious (usually when I feel my life is starting to get out of control) I start focusing more on cleaning, organizing, and throwing out excess stuff as a way to "order" my external environment. This frantic need to put things in their place always comes at times when I am excessively worried about many things in my life.
Your video really helped me see that I need to calm my central nervous system first before trying to "fix" what is wrong in my environment. Thank you so much! You are definitely a Godly gift to us all. The Bible says "Wisdom comes from God!" So I think you are a spiritual light in this world! Thank you!
Great topic. I needed the reminder. Learning that I'm responsible for the effort and not the outcome was so freeing.
Yesss ma’am!! Now can you please do us all a favor and talking about your filming set up? Or a film room tour? Your videos are flawless
you are literally my comfort person. love you!!
😘😘
Listened to this already twice - each time heard different things I needed hear. Thank you for this Jillz 💕
Hey Jillz
I want u to know that it was incredibly beneficial for me to hear that women couldent brush off compliments….
Thank u girl.
U work miracles
Let go and relax; have faith in best outcomes - thank you so much!
Thank you so much for reminding me stop control everything, it's just drain me everyday😢 Thank you for reminding, I will stop my bad habits😅
I am from Egypt 🇪🇬 and l watch you to learn
You look so beautiful ❤❤
Your videos are so beautiful and light, that they have reached here in Brazil! ( I am a Brazilian admirer of your videos) 💌
Omg Jillz ..
You are my bright wonderful guardian angel. This video is for meeeee. (Next to billions of women) i send a huuuge wave of positive energy and gratitude to you 🫶🌹
😘😘😘
Grateful for your advice ❤
This channel slowly becomes my most favourite one❤❤❤
Such a wonderful video for all the women out there❤😊 Thank you so much Jillz.
I needed this reminder to get me back in the Goddess flow.
Thank you so much ❤😭
Jillz your content has helped me a lot for the last couple of years that and I´ve been following you and I just resonate so much with your every word! Like at the end of this video, the focus was the letting go of control but at the same time that´s the KEY to manifestation and a happy life and that´s just pure gold information explained in such a simple way, thank you so much. Also, I wanted to say I loveee your new video formats and addtions!! Congrats to you and your team. PS: You´re GLOWING friend, even more than before you look more and more beatiful each new video!♥ PS2, a phrase I read once I think could sum this concept up is ¨A girl must only focus on feeling hot and happy, that´s it¨☺
Thank you so much! 🥰💕
I needed this video todayyyy. Thank you
There is a time and a place for relaxing, a significant amount of time and brain power goes into staying on top of things in these volatile and expensive times when single...
Loved this message so much Jillz❤❤❤
Jillz, you are really good in what you do. Thank you for all the clips and tips, they really help
Controlling creates anxiety and suffering. Surrendering means choosing to trust rather than controlling. We never have control of anything so we just unnecessarily stress ourselves when we try to control.
Smooth sailing sipping champagne ❤ my favourite quote
Amen, Sister! Well said. Thanks for the reminder! I'm way too controlling and I feel exactly the way you describe and not feminine at all.
Hi Jillz, thank you for another great video. I’ve been stepping more into my feminine energy by letting go of the need to control. Yoga & meditation has helped me a lot. 🧘♀️ 💕
Jillz, can you share your haircare routine please? 🌸
Divine timing 🥺
❤️
I’ve been following you since you’ve had less than 1k subscribers. I love all of your videos and I love watching your channel grow 🎉❤
Omg! Thank you for sticking around for so long 🥹 so grateful for you!!! 💕
Your words come at the right time I need to hear such phrases❤❤❤
I feel like I'm not ready for this yet. But It's an important message. Thank you. You're brilliant as always🌸💖
Beautiful Jillz! This was such a wonderful reminder! I’ve learned so much from you over the years!! I’m finally getting back to creating here on YT and am much more mindful about my energy and how I show up for my family and for my audience. I used to be in my masculine and it showed 🙃 thank you for always sharing your wisdom with us! ❤️🙏🏼🥹
Thank You
Well Liz,being raised by a single mom this is how you view life😢:needing controll bc you are the only breadwinner. And if you can't provide you cant feel safe. So you can't be in your feminine energy. My mom is one and was her kid:And I had a very. Very feminine energy even as a kid. But growing up and we are both trying to make ends meet I'm slowly becoming like her😢.My body holds so much tension I barely sleep. My muscles twitch. I remember when I once was a very creative kid and teenager,music singing dancing and painting. And the worst is that all this has been ingrained in my by my mom,that :Life is cruel. Nobody helps you. You have to work hard to barely make a living. That rich people didn't work but inherited their money. That rich men don't fall for girls like me bc im poor. That people won't ever value my talents (artistic)because I'm poor and don't have the artistic background. I'm 29 and nowhere In life. I need to be my own anchor and get out of this rut that my mom thrives in yet at the same time I need healing and a slow life. Seems like I can't have both bc I need financial stability so bad. I see everything as a threat or as disappointment 😞. I have seen this in myself and I promise to try to change all this by myself😢😅🎉
Hey, try finding a slow and easy job even if it's not much, just for you to relax a little bit and can calm your mind.
Try putting yourself first at everything!
I send you great things to your path.
A hug and a kiss. ❤️😘
You're the best Jiilz! Thank you so much for your words - this is probably my favorite video from you 😍😍🤗🤗
It’s an enormous help if a woman has a good partner next to her who helps her, even in small things like cleaning. Doing everything alone is just too draining and too difficult. Not to mention dealing with stress alone… :( Getting hugs when one is stressed or the partner surprises with some relaxing program makes it easier to manage stress…
How to be in your feminine energy as a single mom when you have to hustle and do everything 😢 it’s hard to find balance
Don't believe everything is your fault or job. The problems you face should be considered collective issues. I know many think collective approach is " communist" but I think this the right approach. Where I live single mothers get double paid maternity leave. These are the kind of things we need to think about as a society. If we then as individuals want to work on " feeling feminine" that is fine ( I am watching this after all). But the challenges you face can not be just your business.
@@falkeys single mom here. Don’t know how old your kiddos are, but it will benefit them when they see you caring for yourself. Remove any unnecessary burdens and stress where possible and do less for anyone or anything outside of you or your kids. I hope that helps!
Single mom here and I’ve been in survival mode for me and my child for the last 15 years. I don’t even know where to start. So hard 😞
I released the control and they stole my life.
That is a belief you need to reprogram in your mind. Start telling yourself NO ONE can steal your life from you. Reclaim your power. ❤
@ thank you🥹
It can happen with toxic or abusive people for sure! Sending you healing.
@ thank you 🧚🏻♀️
I don’t try to control much, just my dirty dishes and laundry, getting to dentist on time and money overspending - but none of this works, if I let go I will just die in dirt and be late everywhere… I don’t really get how to manage life and constantly feel like I need a nanny (I’m 35)
Thank you Jillz 🫠
Thanks a lot for bringing up such informative topic💕✌
Thank you Jillz for this. I appreciate you very much. I needed to hear this today.
You are glowing Jillz~
I feel I need to watch your videos every 2 weeks because I go back into Hustle energy as my auto mode 😂
תודה!
Thank you ❤️
@JillzGuerin This was very helpful :)
Releasing control matters a lot and absolutely, our controlling parts do stem from the lack of a felt sense of safety, but for many women, particularly those who have experienced trauma or a traumatic childhood, it's not as simple as "choosing" to let go because these experiences live in the body and the nervous system, not the mind. I actually think this message to "let go" can be harmful in some cases (and certainly was for me), because if letting go doesn't come easily, as easily as simply choosing, you can feel like there's something wrong with you. You can feel like you're a controlling b*tch, or whatever expletive you want to insert (AKA the worst and most undesirable thing a woman can be). And if you don't understand where the controlling parts come from, well, then you can feel crazy if "choosing" to let go doesn't work, or only works so far. I'd recommend looking at science-backed approaches to healing via attachment styles//patterns alongside lifestyle changes and adopting positive mindsets like the divider concept. Psychotherapist Jessica Baum's book Anxiously Attached is especially good for healing control and understanding why you might control in the first place.
Thank you for the book recommendation 🙂
Thank you so much ❤❤
Love it! 💕
Anxiety is ruining my life, i need to be in control of everything sos
The video is simply brilliant
Giiiiirl the quality of your videos just goes up and up 📈
i’m literally so obsessed with you! thank you ❤️
Thank you 🤍
Thank you for this message! Your hair is always so beautiful, I'd love a video about your hair styling routine
Agree completely 💕
I would really love to have your videos’ audio as a podcast to listen to your smart words while walking and engrave them in my brain to remind me to chilllll more 😅
Much love🫶
Thank you.
How can I be in my feminine energy if I am surrounded by toxic people? I cannot be away from them because I am still dependent on them.
I feel you, I've been there when I was younger. The only thing that worked for me was trying to drown the noise around me, stop trying to make toxic people change, and just focus on myself. What can I do to better myself in order to be able to leave this situation as soon as possible? I know it's easier said than done but I promise when you make it happen, it feels liberating
This was helpful, thanks!
Love these topics. Love this channel ❤
Hi Jillz! Love your videos. I suggest a subject for a new video: how to identify when a cicle ended? In normal life, not only in toxic environments.
Super love this video!! Really learned a lot, very helpful in reframing my mind and do better. You say the right words I need to hear!
Dear Jillz
i listen often to your evening meditation
and i rewatch the miami vlog
thank you
much love
💕
Love you sis ❤️🫂
Your videos are the best ❤
Thank you! Your videos are so inspiring and you exude so much vibracy and feminine energy that's a pleasure to watch 😊❤
Aw thank you! 🥰
I would really love more content about birth control. I can't find anything online and I'm really struggling with that aspect of my life
Im a first class girly good points made. Thank you Jillz.
One of your best videos❤ really helped me thank you!
Thanks for an awesome video at just the right time for me. Total game changer!!!
Loved the vid- could u make a winter themed one where u give tips and tricks to avoid the “winter blues”?
These are great points, loved this video
Thank you ❤. Such a powerful video.
I still ❤️ your videos
I had to hear this
Hi Jillz, Thanks a lot for this one i really needed a reminder to myself 🙂 u really made my day
Hello new follower ❤❤
Hello Jillz, thanks for the video
Could you make a video about how to balance masculine and feminine energy as a female ?
Thank you for all the advice. I’m stressed because I don’t have friends, and even my husband makes me feel lonely. How can I start gaining self-esteem? It’s affecting me deeply.
Love this but struggling to apply it as a mother to little kids! Mother’s do almost everything for their kids and homes and if they don’t it won’t get done…kids won’t be fed, drop offs won’t be done, clothes won’t be cleaned etc…the job requires control. Is there a different perspective on this to help me bring my feminine energy to motherhood?
Felt like you were talking to me. Thank you 🙏🏼✨
Thank you for sharing such inspiring contents 💖✨🎀
I love your hair
Thanks you so so much for this I needed it a lot you are amazing and beautiful 💖💖💖