Psychotherapist REACTS to XXXTentacion Revenge

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  • @TherapistReactsOfficial
    @TherapistReactsOfficial  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    XXXTentacion Reaction Playlist th-cam.com/play/PLuDseweo69qckk6c98gJD37jorhoQLal4.html

    • @HDC_3874
      @HDC_3874 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You did know he was dead when you recorded this right? 🙏 Rip Jahseh Onfroy 1998-2018

    • @rosebridger2660
      @rosebridger2660 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm pretty sure the "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is like that thing "if we go down then we go down together"

    • @Jack_Savage4
      @Jack_Savage4 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      2:57 is real confusing to me on why you’re confused, he legit says for him and who ever broke him-

    • @grxpe3627
      @grxpe3627 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      incase you dont know the song joceyln flores by x is named after a girl he flew out for a buisness trip she and her freind were very excited but due to some stuff x had to fire them and fly them back out to a hotel so joceyln flores ended up hanging herself and the freind that was there sore the bathroom light was locked so she just left it but the next morning it started to smell so she got the hotel people to open and they found her body... this song revenge.joceyln flores,remedy for a broken heart,everybody dies in there nightmares, most of the 17 album was about her im pretty sure but revenge and joceyln flores are 100% about jocelyn and incase you didnt know XXXTentacion has been dead for 6 years he also has a son who was born a few months after x was shot

    • @ryangames20YT
      @ryangames20YT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      xxx is dead

  • @BabyRogerCDR
    @BabyRogerCDR ปีที่แล้ว +3913

    When you said " To answer your question X " like he was still here with us I started crying It hurts so much man

    • @creeperyoda4163
      @creeperyoda4163 ปีที่แล้ว +322

      people say he got famous cause of his death but he was a really talented kid ? was one of the best albums I've ever heard

    • @brianstablein3248
      @brianstablein3248 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Same

    • @tommasomansueto9346
      @tommasomansueto9346 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      same fucking thing

    • @BabyRogerCDR
      @BabyRogerCDR ปีที่แล้ว

      I never got this, I was a fan since day one but ppl hate so much for no reason..@@creeperyoda4163

    • @KrupekXD
      @KrupekXD ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So sad 😢 🕊️

  • @deanheins9092
    @deanheins9092 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1139

    To really understand X's music, you have to experience something like how he has experienced. Whether it's a bad break-up, depression issues, or the loss of a loved one. Anything that has permanently scared you. Physically, like me, or mentally.
    To me, X helped me through a hard time, and I wish I could've said thank you.
    I'm not the therapist here, but to me music is the most powerful thing, and X's music just hits different during certain times in life.
    Goodbye X. Goodbye Juice. Goodbye Peep. Goodbye, Mac. Fly high guys, you changed lives 🕊
    Edit: Thank y’all for so many likes! It’s hard coping with these emotions and it’s a bittersweet feeling that so many people can relate.

    • @Brownchickenfr
      @Brownchickenfr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Fr man

    • @Unequalbook789
      @Unequalbook789 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yo you forgot pop smoke but yeah rest in peace X, juice, peep, Mac, and pop smoke

    • @tktv12
      @tktv12 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your right I can understand it I also do have trama

    • @solarist648
      @solarist648 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      No you dont, just need human emotions.

    • @Yuki.Airsoft
      @Yuki.Airsoft 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      amen

  • @williusmac891
    @williusmac891 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    The I've dug two graves is a reference to the quote "before you embark on the journey of revenge, dig two graves" basically meaning that trying to get revenge will be bad for you as well

    • @rwaddleofficiall8414
      @rwaddleofficiall8414 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I thought the quote was “He who seeks revenge digs two graves”

    • @rwaddleofficiall8414
      @rwaddleofficiall8414 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Damn. You right. I just searched it up

    • @WorLCommunity
      @WorLCommunity 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Knowing this hits even harder. Damn what a prophet

    • @NXIR101
      @NXIR101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      stolen

    • @katsatena
      @katsatena 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      isn’t that about jocelyn flores who k1lled herself while at X’s house?

  • @KHABlB
    @KHABlB ปีที่แล้ว +1221

    “Before you embark on your journey of revenge, dig two graves “

    • @BrokenNat
      @BrokenNat ปีที่แล้ว +96

      This isnt a song about revenge, despite the name being that. This song is about how he dug a grave for a relationship. He feels guilty, its literally his first words... Why would someone who feels guilty about doing something wrong want to take revenge? I feel wronged but i also did wrong, will i act on my revenge. He says all of this in the song. That is the whole moral of the story he is trying to tell.

    • @theminime3574
      @theminime3574 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Fire quote for a tattoo ngl

    • @e9xr93
      @e9xr93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@theminime3574 but too long tbh

    • @2kyoshi
      @2kyoshi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@BrokenNatthey said if your going to seek revenge start by digging 2 graves

    • @Heisuc
      @Heisuc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@BrokenNat You missed the point mate

  • @nickskateandlove
    @nickskateandlove 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    He’ll rot in his grave because he’s waiting for her. He’s dug two graves after all. He could act on revenge and be with someone else. Some kill some steal and some break your heart. In his heart he’s so in love it feels guilty to want to move on, he doesn’t want to, he doesn’t want to hurt her or show her. He rather lay in his grave and rot, still he wants to act on his revenge out of anger. His pain is her freedom, she’s free while he’s in pain. This song calls to me and is jarringly overwhelming. One of my favourite melancholic melodies.

    • @kalexyx556
      @kalexyx556 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      this. i believe "is all of my pain your freedom?" is referring to the fact he is in pain when seperated from her, but the seperation is her freedom from him.

  • @union5086
    @union5086 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I remember crying in my car when I heard that he passed away. I’ve listened to him since his first release on sound cloud. Florida local here, he was a major part of Florida culture during his time. Long live this legend of an artist

  • @KVKZ_Volt-fn
    @KVKZ_Volt-fn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    “Ive dug two graves for us my dear” basically saying he doesnt want to be seperated from this person even in death.

  • @The999thFilip
    @The999thFilip ปีที่แล้ว +256

    X was one of the most talented artists i've personally ever seen wich shows in his music
    some of fav songs by him are "Depression & Obssesion","Fuck Love" and especially "What Are You So Afraid Of" wich is like a comfort song to me i always come back to when i feel giving up on everything

    • @itsjello8815
      @itsjello8815 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Since you like a lot of the guitar songs of him i recommend “before I close my eyes” it’s one of my comfort songs

    • @iheartabis
      @iheartabis 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      right bro out of the 15 best songs ever imo like five of them are x

    • @butterflygirl01
      @butterflygirl01 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@itsjello8815yea but that song is too sad especially because he passed away

    • @itsjello8815
      @itsjello8815 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@butterflygirl01 the commenter i replied to clearly likes X’s “sad songs” so i dont think what i recommend would do any harm.

  • @Abe_spytime
    @Abe_spytime ปีที่แล้ว +876

    im not a Psychotherapist but like I feel there is a deeper meaning to this song then he explains here

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +318

      I imagine so. Sometimes I think it’s easy for us to try and over analyse which I don’t feel is fair having never met him etc based on some song lyrics

    • @Max-ez7jx
      @Max-ez7jx ปีที่แล้ว +44

      thought the same he didnt even understand the line ive dugged to graves for us my dear

    • @n.f.lcobra6878
      @n.f.lcobra6878 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      As a musician there’s always a deeper meaning sometimes the artist don’t see it either

    • @zuly_yt1172
      @zuly_yt1172 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@Max-ez7jx exactly 😂😂

    • @desmondkaczynski8190
      @desmondkaczynski8190 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      It does have a meaning, it’s about his ex and him not being ok with letting her go but she is hurting him and he’s saying he’ll rot but she’ll come with him, also it’s about his uncle who killed himself while x was in the house and x found his body

  • @M1ZD01
    @M1ZD01 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    When you said “well to answer your question X” i just started thinking that if X was still here he would’ve appreciated it. R.I.P X, we will all miss you forever. Fly high 🕊️❤

  • @repnotic4550
    @repnotic4550 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    “Before You Embark On A Journey Of Revenge, Dig Two Graves” - Confucius

  • @aidentrivett8302
    @aidentrivett8302 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    If you didn't know the actual meaning behind the song is obviously to forgive yourself and move on for the mistakes you've made in the past and the song is explaining how tentaction is willing to accept his punishment in the grave if his ex can move on and enjoy her life without pain or having to worry what he has done in the past

  • @Obanaiiguros1fan
    @Obanaiiguros1fan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Everytime I hear this song I can’t help but burst into tears. I’ve loved X for so long and his death shook me and everyone that knew him. Rip Jah💔

  • @umbertofabrizi5390
    @umbertofabrizi5390 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    X was such a poet

  • @Duva_
    @Duva_ ปีที่แล้ว +310

    if i may recommend some more songs by him: depression & obsession, jocelyn flores, sad, the remedy for a broken heart, changes
    list might go on for a while so this is it for now, i appreciate you and what you are doing here

    • @wastyd
      @wastyd ปีที่แล้ว +16

      these are like the worst recommendations you could give sad is like one of his worst song imo get him on some older shit like 777, I spoke to the devil in Miami or in the end

    • @jhdyyn
      @jhdyyn ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wastydBro, it's not about his best songs, these are the easiest songs to give a reaction to as a therapist reaction channel

    • @coldsun29
      @coldsun29 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@hurricaneyouth4227 I love all those songs but nah bros list is better for the psyche. The songs you listed are lyrical but the only one I can see being good from yours is 777. The others aren't songs you can really analyze from psychiatrist perspective. Another recommendation I would suggest is slipknot because he's talking about how his uncles death fucked him up.

    • @wastyd
      @wastyd ปีที่แล้ว

      @@coldsun29 that means you don’t understand i spoke to the devil in miami properly look into it more

    • @Duva_
      @Duva_ ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@coldsun29 that is exactly what i went for with this list, thank you.
      if it wasnt specifically to analyse the psyche this list would look a whole lot different, trust

  • @notarealcolor5620
    @notarealcolor5620 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i just love his reaction
    "Yeah X forgiving yourself it's pretty helpful"
    I've dug two graves for us my dear
    "oh god"

  • @craiglovessonar6547
    @craiglovessonar6547 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    6/18/2018 was a horrible day. Losing this young am at the age of 20 when he has his whole life and career ahead of him. He was already a legend. And he never got to meet his son. Losing him is one of musics biggest tragedies. I can only imagine the beautiful music we would have gotten. So happy his killers were caught and will rot in jail forever

    • @robloxgaming2720
      @robloxgaming2720 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And he died 7 months before he got to meet his son 😢

    • @anthonyezeh7511
      @anthonyezeh7511 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro, jail isn't enough for the people who took ex from us neither is death.
      No punishment is equivalent to the crime they have committed.

    • @RoadToAesthetics
      @RoadToAesthetics 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@anthonyezeh7511 There are a few punishments, i could come up with that be even worse than that, but what they did is inexcusable. To take a lot away from the world as a whole is messed up on so many levels. Drake still needs to be arrested for killing x.

  • @d1amond6513
    @d1amond6513 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    noo bcuz i almost started crying when he said “well, to answer your question X,” because it made it feel like hes still here..

  • @wuastbrot8360
    @wuastbrot8360 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's crazy how fast time goes by. I just realized it's been about half a decade since X's death and with Juice it's a bit less, but still it feels like it was not THAT long ago.
    🕊️ RIP

  • @MrSpazzy.
    @MrSpazzy. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    There is so much more to X's music, you really have to understand what he has been through to listen to his songs to realize their all mainly about the same topic of his ex leaving him and telling him that he rot in hell with X saying he dug two graves for them both saying as she will rot with him.
    X has really gotten me through some tough times.
    Fly high X

  • @jacobgullicksen4626
    @jacobgullicksen4626 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It was THIS song that REALLY put me onto Jah. I thought he was just a delinquent before this song. He showed his talent for singing and brought up deep questions that are usually only asked by the sub-conscious and later recognized consciously in what he says. But he was insanely troubled. I dont think he would of lasted long anyways if it wasnt for his strong morale. Sadly he was murdered and a legend was stripped from us before it was born.

    • @Alice-jj2rt
      @Alice-jj2rt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Legend was born

  • @carolinedimitry4172
    @carolinedimitry4172 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this is off his album "17", it has a way deeper meaning than you alone can gather because if you were to listen to his intro into the album, you would know that he says that "17" is his number and that this album has his whole mind in it and it is literally us listening to his mind and thoughts, this reflects his mental state at the time of the album coming out and says so much about him

  • @b1ten
    @b1ten ปีที่แล้ว +250

    This song was dedicated to Jocelyn Flores after she committed suicide. Jocelyn along another girl were involved in a photoshoot with x for his clothing brand, someone stole from x and he didnt know who to thrust, so he decided to fly them back. The girls were supposed to stay in their room until the were flying back. One of x's friends was accompanying Jocelyn in the room when she went to the bathroom, he ended up falling asleep, and the next day the light in bathroom were still on. They contacted the hotel staff to open up the bathroom door, to find her dead body. After Jocelyn's death, x was pretty devastated, it was second person that he found after suicide. First one was his uncle when x was younger, he came back from school to find his uncle hanging from the balcony.

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Thanks for sharing, the gives a lot more context

    • @ItsKennedy
      @ItsKennedy ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Revenge was dedicated to his Ex girlfriend Genevea not Jocelyn Flores, but The song Jocelyn FLores By X was.

    • @b1ten
      @b1ten ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@ItsKennedy nope, both Revange and Jocelyn Flores were dedicated to her. As for songs dedicated to Geneva from album 17, that was the Ayala (outro).

    • @boredasf17
      @boredasf17 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      bro its so sad that he had to see such horrifying and heartbreaking things while growing up

    • @damroyaltyxxii
      @damroyaltyxxii ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Jah previewed this song 3 days before Jocelyn passed away brotha, it was originally written for Geneva, the the whole situation with Jocelyn happened days after

  • @virgo212
    @virgo212 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Even if he's dead, he's still alive, this is Gekyume. Don't cry bacause he died, smile because he existed

  • @ShadyDogg
    @ShadyDogg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The song is not about "I cant have you, so no one can" - its actually somewhat simple.
    Its just about being hurt & wronged and then carrying the anger, because you cant let go of the feeling. He knows he's suffering because of it but cant help that he cant let go of the pain & bitterness, therefore he'll rot.
    Hes even saying he doubts he'd act on any revengeful feelings, reinforcing the anger is totally pointless and serves only as poison to himself. The song is supposted to be cathartic for people going through the same, hence the ending.
    The digging 2 graves things is only there because he thinks that he wronged her as well - or maybe also because of his failure to let go.

    • @yourname66444
      @yourname66444 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      tentaction is willing to accept his punishment in the grave if his ex can move on and enjoy her life without pain or having to worry what he has done in the past

  • @ninjameko5636
    @ninjameko5636 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Im not dead till im forgotten.
    ~X

    • @deanheins9092
      @deanheins9092 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And that’s why real legends never die

  • @sxkyfx7697
    @sxkyfx7697 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    get them juice wrld reactions in 🙏🏽❤

  • @JoeyVanwinkle-lk8fh
    @JoeyVanwinkle-lk8fh ปีที่แล้ว +9

    X is truly a genius. May he rest in peace🕊️🙏

  • @da3va
    @da3va 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    personally i think the ending asking about his pain being your freedom relates to how we as a community we consumed his content
    alot of us looked to him to help regulate the emotions we felt in our darkest times through his music
    this couldve been his realization of that

  • @joeb23jh48
    @joeb23jh48 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think think that in this song X is trying to express how he wants to be together with a loved one forever but they together seem to have some difficulties.

  • @grantwilson2884
    @grantwilson2884 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    To me it sounds like that instead of bringing this "other person" into the "the grave" he has dug for them, he prefers to let them go. This hurts causing him pain but gives them freedom. X feels like letting them go is unfair to him so he contemplates revenge but in the end decides to self loathe ("rot in the grave").

  • @shoshia.996
    @shoshia.996 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I have a different way of interpretate eh song, on a way more of like; him burying a part of him alongside of his partner, as if everything remains in the past kind of thing... But he's introspective tells that he's probably the only one that couldn't get out of the misery that break up left him. "You thouht that I would let it go and let you walk", talking about her being on his mind, he could not let it go, he trapped a memory in him... "In my grave I'll rot", he burried all of himself in his grave, symbolising that he couldn't move on from there, he got stuck in the sadness.

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That makes sense, that’s a great interpretation thanks for sharing

  • @boredasf17
    @boredasf17 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The worst and most heartbreaking part about his death was that he suffered immensely from depression and wanted to take his own life but someone else took his life when he was on the road to recovery...

  • @Idklx
    @Idklx 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The meaning “I’ve dug two graves for us my dear” means he’s going to die and the second grave is for his loved one once they die

  • @MommyAngel.
    @MommyAngel. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The lyrics of “Revenge” touch upon themes of regret, heartbreak, and the desire for revenge. In the opening lines, X acknowledges his past mistakes and attempts to forgive himself. It’s a vulnerable admission that many of us can relate to-the struggle to come to terms with our own flaws.
    X sings, “I’ve dug two graves for us, my dear / Can’t pretend that I was perfect, leaving you in fear.” These lines convey a sense of guilt and an acknowledgement of the pain he may have caused someone he cared about. The repetition of this verse emphasizes the weight of his regrets.
    The chorus, “In my grave, I’ll rot,” serves as a metaphorical expression of the pain and suffering he carries within himself. It’s a haunting reminder that our actions have consequences and can leave lasting scars.
    “Revenge” is a song dedicated to X’s late friend, Jocelyn Flores, who tragically took her own life while visiting him. Through the song, X reflects on the profound impact her death had on him and explores his own feelings of guilt and grief. It’s a deeply personal and cathartic piece that allows him to process his emotions.
    The release of “Revenge” as the single to promote his debut album, 17, highlights its significance to X’s overall artistic vision and the importance he placed on honoring his friend’s memory.
    As a listener, I find solace in the vulnerability and honesty of this song. It serves as a reminder that we all have our own battles to fight and that music can be a cathartic outlet for processing our pain. “Revenge” will forever hold a special place in my heart as a testament to the transformative power of music.
    Rest in paradise, Jahseh Onfroy, known to the world as XXXTentacion. Your impact on music and the lives of many will be remembered. Your raw talent and emotional depth resonated with countless fans. Though you may have left us, your legacy lives on through your music and the profound influence you had on those who connected with your art. You will be dearly missed, but your voice will continue to echo through the ages. -With love, Angel.

  • @CharlieMccarroll-d2f
    @CharlieMccarroll-d2f 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    X didn’t deserve to die bet his music would be so good for rn and his music still hits after 6 yrs

  • @chrisgrim1904
    @chrisgrim1904 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    thank you so much Stu! hearing you validate his emotions in these songs is so relieving. especially when you react to Juice WRLD, my favorite artist. Would love to hear you react to Sometimes - Juice WRLD, and Feel Alone - Juice WRLD. i know you get many suggestions but these two are gold !!

  • @TylerB1318
    @TylerB1318 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    mother I sober by Kendrick Lamar is absolutely perfect for what you do. It is a very deep and personal song that talks through Kendrick’s trauma that he had to deal with growing up and how it effects him now. Really hope you can get to this song it is so important for people to hear especially with how healing the song truly is. Would love for you to check it out, appreciate the videos

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thanks Tyler, added to my list.

    • @israellongoria2397
      @israellongoria2397 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TherapistReactsOfficialI completely agree with that recommendation

  • @damroyaltyxxii
    @damroyaltyxxii ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you so much for keeping his name alive bro

  • @glavniyshaman752
    @glavniyshaman752 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    rest in peace X i'm sure that if you keep this channel up you will have more subscribers really soon. goo luck man

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks. To be honest I just enjoy doing it, and people seem to like it so I’m gonna keep doing it.

  • @DoonDogbm
    @DoonDogbm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A bit late here, and someone's probably already said it, but X always said he just wanted his music to help people. The "Is my pain your freedom? Enjoy." I think is directly to the listener. He's hoping that by sharing his pain through music someone else might find solace in it. In knowing they are not alone in their pain. That's how I interpreted it anyways.

  • @seba9150
    @seba9150 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    from my point of view hes is not singing to a broken relationship hes talking about the thought of having revenge against someone or something and about the mixed feelings hes going through while he contemplates hes decision making. again this is my point of view nice reaction !

  • @SoulSentMe
    @SoulSentMe ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I think when he says is my pain your freedom he is talking directly to us …….asking if him sharing his pain allows us freedom from our own then almost as a response he says enjoy

  • @74moorey
    @74moorey 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    17 has always had a special place in my heart because some of his experiences are not too different to some of mine and the lyric from revenge which I always think of is ‘broken hearts break bones’ bc that has been a recurring theme every time u have a breakup whether it’s from my time in drugs and I got worse or self harm or what but I always end up with something broken

  • @Coldzone
    @Coldzone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I interpret the ”I’ve dug two graves for us my dear“, more as in that his issues pulled his significant other down with him, due to the follow up ”can’t pretend that I was perfect leaving you in fear“.

  • @TydeFN
    @TydeFN 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I Believe this song is a reference to his Jocelyn Flores who committed suicide. He speaks about broken hearts because of his her passing. He says is my pain your freedom because he is in pain on the earth while his she supposedly gave herself freedom from life. The line "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is saying he might take his own life in his grief. And finally he is talking about revenge because he is mad at her for taking her life.

  • @anthonyezeh7511
    @anthonyezeh7511 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's almost impossible to get the messages of these songs in real time. Most of the time, you'd have to actually experience it in real time then it's in that moment you'd realise damn this was what X was talking about!

  • @GrizzlyBS
    @GrizzlyBS ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I cant wait anymore for those Juice Reactions. Im checking every single day if they are out.

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh okay, I’ll get one uploaded in the next few days! I’ve got a few reactions that I’ve filmed but I need time to edit the video screen record and my camera etc. I’ll prioritise the juice wrld ones !

    • @GrizzlyBS
      @GrizzlyBS ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TherapistReactsOfficial jes dont stress jourself, take your time to make the best video possible

  • @tezzah94
    @tezzah94 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know nothing about X but my take from this song has always been that he was in a toxic, volatile relationship, maybe violent (i left you in fear, broken hearts break bones so break up before that happens) but he cant let it go, so he'll "rot" over it now its over. But the intro shows the hope that hes moving on and forgiving himself for his own toxic behaviour. I find it really nice actually, sometimes people just arent good for each other and it doesnt mean they are inherently bad or can't grow.

    • @MGZ.Twostep
      @MGZ.Twostep 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His friend took her life in a hotel bathroom. He fell asleep and she went into the bathroom, and the next day she was still in the washroom, they found her dead in the bathroom. Jocelyn flores and revenge are about that girl who committed suicide.

  • @143ba
    @143ba 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    from what i know X felt very alone and depressed for much of his childhood and would fight and get into trouble on purpose to get attention from his Mom, and in terms of trauma at an age no older than 15 he came home from school one day to see his uncle hanging by his neck… fucking brutal to say the least. i really wish he had a longer life to prove that he could become a positive person to spite the conditions from which he came from. Rip Jahseh, i still miss you dearly

  • @kevinuntainted1547
    @kevinuntainted1547 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The song is about revenge and there's a japanese saying that goes like " before you go seeking revenge you should dig two graves" or atleast that's what I think

  • @Kgames2783
    @Kgames2783 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When in the song he says “I’ve dig two graves for us my dear” he saying if I’m going to take my life I’ll also take yours

  • @Zeebrum
    @Zeebrum 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “Is my pain your freedom” his meaning behind it is her making him suffer makes her happy

  • @SeniorGojo5639
    @SeniorGojo5639 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When he Said to answer your question X fr it hurts so bad that his no longer with us but will Stay in our hearts

  • @luau9
    @luau9 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like the term "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is him saying that he's planned death for him and his s/o in the relationship, but since something happened, he'll rot in grave alone.

  • @Terror-Hyena
    @Terror-Hyena ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You should hear "Orlando" or "save me" by xxx tentacion those are a must to listen to since ur a therapist

  • @LilmeMusic
    @LilmeMusic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are overthinking the two graves thing. There is this famous quote- "before you embark on a journey on revenge, dig two graves". X just means he's gonna take revenge on whoever hurt him. "In my grave I'll rot" is just a testament of his dedication to take vengeance

  • @anthonysalinas969
    @anthonysalinas969 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think Jah is speaking to his fans and listeners when he says "is my pain your freedom", for me his music gave me conform that I wasn't alone, many of you may agree to this being true, especially with X's music. then he says enjoy LLJ🕊

  • @bigg-tasticbrothers1783
    @bigg-tasticbrothers1783 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think you have a great point with if your neighbor is playing music too loud you ask them to turn it down 4:40 my friend was playing music at 7:00 pm and his neighbors called the cops on him so I agree act with respect before acting violent

  • @ceaserdom
    @ceaserdom 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To answer your question, sir, "I've dug two graves for us my dear" means "We'll go together beyond death" or "we go down together." And "broken hearts break bones" is a metaphore which means "broken heart break you entirely" which means you're fallen after a heartbrake.

  • @andriaabramishvili-t2t
    @andriaabramishvili-t2t 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    nah man this song made me cry when he said i've dug two graves for us my dear' man that hurts me so much
    R.I.P. legend

  • @residentofabox9037
    @residentofabox9037 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Really enjoying your reactions. I’m looking forward to seeing more Juice Wrld and Xxxtentacion! It’d be really great to see you react to Yungeen ace he has a lot of content for you to break down, his song “Pain” would be a great one to start with. Excited to see more videos from you

  • @sheloveslost
    @sheloveslost ปีที่แล้ว +10

    xxtentation JOCLEYN FLORES OR REMDEY OF A BROKEN HEART !

  • @rosebridger2660
    @rosebridger2660 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I can't even imagine a therapist reacting to my playlist 😂

  • @Shadow-driftairsoft
    @Shadow-driftairsoft 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The slow version made me cry

  • @omgwind5217
    @omgwind5217 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This makes me want to listen to X again

  • @RileyMacc
    @RileyMacc ปีที่แล้ว +1

    to myself, "ive dug two graves for us my dear" means he felt the hole he dug for himself directly effected the other person, jocelyn flores took her life around the time this music was made

  • @Illusion_Buddha
    @Illusion_Buddha 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That "in the grave ill rott" knowing you cant and would never get or would actually want revenge but wanting it, so you'll think about it and rott with it 😢😢 then the point is to break up what he said, "if I could act on my revenge.. ohhh would iiii" like most people it's a thought not reality , he can't but he wishes he could, even tho he knows it's painful so hurting him or the other party isn't right.

  • @costthebro1242
    @costthebro1242 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Face to face by Juice wrld is a song that, i personally believe explores some interesting and common struggles with sleep paralysis and it would be cool if I could hear your take on the song. Just found the channel and think the vids are awesome. Keep up the awesome content!

  • @Go_Damarquos
    @Go_Damarquos ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Juice and him is so alike but from x u should listen to 777 he talks about a lot and juice wrld listen to dark place very sad

    • @exoacehj
      @exoacehj ปีที่แล้ว

      777 is some real fan shit

  • @viloxetic
    @viloxetic ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “in my grave i’ll rot” means to sit and dwell on the past that mollified you and to grow onto it and learn, expressing and learning about life and how to avoid these things instead of being petty and seeking out revenge to harm the individual in mention to the most of his capabilities.

    • @viloxetic
      @viloxetic ปีที่แล้ว +3

      X, was quite the character and philosopher despite him not having experience in the job.

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks, that makes sense.

  • @mr.cleans.father397
    @mr.cleans.father397 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i think the point x was trying to convey here was that instead of revenge he has learned forgiveness he mentions he dug two graves which is his seeking revenge and then states he will rot in his grave which is a kind of change of heart he isnt talking about a past relationship but could be about his mother that couldnt do as much as she or he wanted to as a kid and instead of him hating his mother he accepted and knew the entire time that he should love her and respect the decision and way his life hw was brought up and let his past not change but make him who he was before he passed away

  • @ksy1111
    @ksy1111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    X was a really interesting individual and currently still my biggest idol. I would recommend you watch the "look at me" documentary (about his life). It's here on youtube and offers great insights, especially on his toxic, abusive relationship

    • @TherapistReactsOfficial
      @TherapistReactsOfficial  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh I’ll certainly check that out. Didn’t know that was a thing so thanks for sharing

  • @dohrirhri
    @dohrirhri 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love how he vibes to it😂

  • @ZorianGodfrey
    @ZorianGodfrey 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My pain is your freedom. it basically means his pain gets put into a song for us to enjoy and free our minds. Something for us to relate to ig.

  • @Pacmanpro321
    @Pacmanpro321 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    rip XXXTENTACION fly high 🕊🕊😭😭🕊🕊

  • @NamesTragic
    @NamesTragic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When he says “in my grave I’ll rot” the line before he says “I don’t want to let it go”. So I think he is being aware of his two beings, his soul and his body. I think he is saying that he (his body) will rot away and he will stay (his soul) on earth. A lot of times it is said souls stay on earth due to a held on grudge. Maybe this is what he is referring to in his song ? Because this girl broke up with him and broke his heart but apparently she led this relationship on for a long time because he says “broken hearts break bones so break up fast”.

  • @xZyvon
    @xZyvon 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Long story short:
    X flew over 2 girls for a photo shoot, one of those 2 stole quite a bit of money that was laying around, neither girl confessed and so X cancelled the shoot, then one of the 2 killed themselves (Jocelyn Flores) this song (Revenge) and the song "Jocelyn Flores" (named after the girl) are both about her & his thoughts after those events

  • @underratedszn6549
    @underratedszn6549 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The line where he said “I’ve dug two graves for us my dear” is believed to be a reference to the famous Chinese philosopher Confucius quote “before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves”

  • @gurrag1234
    @gurrag1234 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you seem like a genuine dude keep doing what ur doing!

  • @samhuisman7192
    @samhuisman7192 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think what he meant with dug two graves like, they werent perfect for eachother so kind of did bring eachother down, but then again they love eachother alot so they are burried together

  • @EvelinAbrego-w3y
    @EvelinAbrego-w3y ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My intake when listening to revenge iv dug two graves for the pain we go thru together ride or die feeling due to Aquarius's value very much friendships and relationships

    • @mamakass4132
      @mamakass4132 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ofc he’s an aquarius (as an aquarius i should’ve known ❤)

  • @TydeFN
    @TydeFN 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The line "I've dug two graves for us my dear" is speaking about his friend who committed suicide

  • @YuNg_Productions
    @YuNg_Productions ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi i just wanna answer your question at 7:42 what Jah means is when he makes this music about his pain and his deppresion, we as his fans use it to escape our own pain making us free thats why hes asking if his pain is our freedom (and also digging two graves he means that he dug two so when both are dead their bodies/souls can be together )PS im a big X fan

  • @dxrks-226
    @dxrks-226 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Revenge is just something else

  • @Philosophygrid
    @Philosophygrid 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    0:52 song starts😊

  • @smu2752
    @smu2752 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He says “Then, oh would I?” Not “Then would I?” The “oh” implies that he 100% would act on his revenge, and that it’s not even a question.

  • @ramenvampz
    @ramenvampz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so genuine, he sees both sides of X

  • @songgoodgoodgames
    @songgoodgoodgames 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    X still tries to help and speak to us through his music.

  • @alxka.f40
    @alxka.f40 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It takes a lot to be able to understand these lyrics, either from being a fan of Jah, or going through something similar to him. Usually the people would listen to his music is people who can relate to his songs and the things he says.

  • @tommalaga248
    @tommalaga248 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i believe the enjoy goes with what he said before in the end and means enjoy my pain as your freedom. since its most probably about a relationship there is no single answer what he means with is my pain your freedom. it is art and everyone can think of their own way to interpret it just like in a painting. we are just not used to that in music since we mostly only know it from paintings

  • @dayelinwhittaker8642
    @dayelinwhittaker8642 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Juice and x helped me make it thru 🙏🏽

  • @Mvrcus1
    @Mvrcus1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i was literally crying and then he said in his wonderful british accent "Break bones"

  • @JJWolford
    @JJWolford 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When you dig to graves it means that even if you get rid of your enemy you better be ready to bury yourself as well, or known that you won't make it out of the situation unscathed. The guilt will eventually consume you, someone that knows who you killed will eventually come for you, or the law will eventually come for you. In the end you too will be dead in one way, or another.

  • @JuliusStrong-vx2hj
    @JuliusStrong-vx2hj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The way u said “ to answer your question X” I broke down because you said it like he was still with us and if he was but he’s not 😔

  • @Yo_isthatskippy
    @Yo_isthatskippy ปีที่แล้ว +29

    i take the end as a message to his fans struggling with pain, he knew he was helping people

  • @GNXRLY.
    @GNXRLY. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I honestly think he’s saying he’s enacting revenge on himself for her, he dug 2 graves one for him and one for her but he will rot in his so that she can live freely, his pain is her freedom

  • @johnmoderie2000
    @johnmoderie2000 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No joke I cry sometimes when i think about X, I never knew him personaly but his music was always something that hekped me, Hurts to think about him

  • @Yo666kid
    @Yo666kid 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The line 'I've dug 2 graves for us my dear' refer to jocelyn flores death (cause: suicide) after she was evicted from x's apartment and im pretty sure that was her 5th or 6th suicide attempt