Watch the tears start pouring out when she meets up with the fiance and she notices 1. How GORGEOUS she is 2. Her preggo baby bump 3. Notices how kind and thoughtful and caring she is Then, she's gonna be even more depressed and humiliated that she went down this rabbit hole. *Remember the fiance did say, "Someof the questions, I refuse to answer bcuz of THE WEIGHT of them." I suspect, she means BABY WEIGHT. WE NEED AN UPDATE ON THIS She's gonna say to her
My brother dated a girl for seven years. He broke up with her because she was hinting about marriage. Within a year he was married to someone else. He hadn’t been cheating. The reason he married his wife was because her parents were rich. No joke. He was so materialistic. Her parents owned loads of properties, they trained racehorses and owned shares in multiple horses. He was a horrible selfish narcissist.
With love I say. Let it go, closure is sometimes a myth the answers you get might not be what you wanted to hear end up hurting your feelings even more. He’s done you have to move on. You know the woman you are and it’s his loss! Good luck but don’t do it sounds sketchy.
If a man left me and was en engaged in 4 months I’d make the following phone calls 1. Mum/sister/bestie to chat & cry it out 2. Therapist to work out my feelings of rejection. Get healthy and move along in your life.
If I sincerely wanted for my fiance's ex to have closure I would have just given her the answers right then and there and told her to message me anytime. Meeting in person does seem sketchy. Especially since she did not answer any of the questions. I would consider having a friend or two possibly come along that could been nearby in the same establishment but not necessarily next to you
I can promise u that she will regret meeting up with the fiance when she is face to face with the woman her ex is gonna marry bcuz she's gonna be in her head n either think, "I'm hotter than her, so why didn't he marry me?" or "Wow, she's absolutely gorgeous!!" And she'll feel just as bad and that's before aby words are spoken. Best & worse case scenario is if the fiance says, "All I'll say is this is the date we started dating and u let me know if yall were still together." Once the ex discovers that he didn't meet her til after the break up n it truly was one of those "When you know, you know" situations she's gonna feel horrible. And if they met while they were still together n he decided to break up with her bcuz he knew he wanted to marry the fiance, she still will feel horrible. There is no possible outcome that the ex won't feel shifty about. She just needs to enroll in therapy to deal with the breakup n accept that that man came across someone he knew he wanted to marry and accept the unfortunate fact that u didn't have that experience.
Any person who would marry 1) someone they were cheating with, if it were so or 2) someone who JUST broke up with someone they were with for 6 years is either really desperate or really stupid. Don't waste your time on it. They'll be divorced by next year.
She didn’t have a relationship with the now ex’s fiancee. Is the exBF such a coward that he can’t be honest with his ex? 4 months and engaged seems very rushed. He knocked her up.
I would not meet with this chick. If she really wanted to help she would just answer her questions. There is something else going on. Theses relationships definitely overlapped.
My 20 year old self understands her pain and questions. My 40 something year old self has a different perspective… be sad and morn then be thankful for the split and move on. He was never going to marry you so go, do you and find someone who genuinely wants to be with you.
Watch the tears start pouring out when she meets up with the fiance and she notices 1. How GORGEOUS she is 2. Her preggo baby bump 3. Notices how kind and thoughtful and caring she is Then, she's gonna be even more depressed and humiliated that she went down this rabbit hole. *Remember the fiance did say, "Someof the questions, I refuse to answer bcuz of THE WEIGHT of them." I suspect, she means BABY WEIGHT. WE NEED AN UPDATE ON THIS She's gonna say to her
What a waste of energy. Whatever the situation is, you can't unring that bell. Work on your self esteem and never ever stay with someone who can't lock it down within a short period of time! If he's not willing to marry you inside of a year,let go and move on. If he's serious about you,he isn't waiting for someone else to snatch you away. A man will make his move. If he doesn't, again, man or woman don't lose your youth on a gamble.
This guy is a moron. It took him 6 years to realize they weren’t right for each other? Had he ever realized this hasn’t she pushed for commitment? I really get where she is coming from however I feel that my pride wouldn’t let me do this. I would close the chapter and move on. If the guy she dated for 6 years wasn’t able to provide her with closure then how can his new fiancé of 4 months?! Sometimes we need to see these things as blessings. I was devastated every time a relationship ended but when I came to my senses I could see I dodged a bullet every single time.
This is LUDACRIS. The only relative question I'd answer is "When was the start of ur relationship?" Anything beyond that contact ur ex or go to therapy or both. This guy just dodged a psycho. Who the hell wants an interview with ur exes fiance?
I wouldn’t respond if I were the fiancé. I would tell my fiancé to handle that and not have her contact me again unless she wants some problems. Leave me the f alone.
Is there an update on this one?!?! I need to knowwww
Omg! I’m DYING to know!!!!! Please follow up with April!
Watch the tears start pouring out when she meets up with the fiance and she notices 1. How GORGEOUS she is 2. Her preggo baby bump 3. Notices how kind and thoughtful and caring she is
Then, she's gonna be even more depressed and humiliated that she went down this rabbit hole.
*Remember the fiance did say, "Someof the questions, I refuse to answer bcuz of THE WEIGHT of them." I suspect, she means BABY WEIGHT. WE NEED AN UPDATE ON THIS
She's gonna say to her
We NEED an update for this one
My brother dated a girl for seven years. He broke up with her because she was hinting about marriage. Within a year he was married to someone else. He hadn’t been cheating.
The reason he married his wife was because her parents were rich. No joke. He was so materialistic. Her parents owned loads of properties, they trained racehorses and owned shares in multiple horses.
He was a horrible selfish narcissist.
Ohhf, he was cheating. Agree the new girl has questions about the time-line 👀
Where is the update ?
I can’t be the only one that feels they’ve been left hanging
FOLLOWING
With love I say. Let it go, closure is sometimes a myth the answers you get might not be what you wanted to hear end up hurting your feelings even more. He’s done you have to move on. You know the woman you are and it’s his loss! Good luck but don’t do it sounds sketchy.
I, too, would oblige the ex, especially with those questions. Because sis may just have some info I need.
My guess is he lied to the fiance and she wants to talk to his ex and learn the truth! She might want to break up once she knows!
If a man left me and was en engaged in 4 months I’d make the following phone calls 1. Mum/sister/bestie to chat & cry it out 2. Therapist to work out my feelings of rejection. Get healthy and move along in your life.
@AnastasijaPopeyou have assumed way too much sis. Yes it happened to me. The bonus was that I lost weight, looked hot and met my husband.
If I sincerely wanted for my fiance's ex to have closure I would have just given her the answers right then and there and told her to message me anytime. Meeting in person does seem sketchy.
Especially since she did not answer any of the questions. I would consider having a friend or two possibly come along that could been nearby in the same establishment but not necessarily next to you
Please, please follow up? I need to know what happened!
I can promise u that she will regret meeting up with the fiance when she is face to face with the woman her ex is gonna marry bcuz she's gonna be in her head n either think, "I'm hotter than her, so why didn't he marry me?" or "Wow, she's absolutely gorgeous!!" And she'll feel just as bad and that's before aby words are spoken. Best & worse case scenario is if the fiance says, "All I'll say is this is the date we started dating and u let me know if yall were still together." Once the ex discovers that he didn't meet her til after the break up n it truly was one of those "When you know, you know" situations she's gonna feel horrible. And if they met while they were still together n he decided to break up with her bcuz he knew he wanted to marry the fiance, she still will feel horrible. There is no possible outcome that the ex won't feel shifty about. She just needs to enroll in therapy to deal with the breakup n accept that that man came across someone he knew he wanted to marry and accept the unfortunate fact that u didn't have that experience.
Don't wait for 6 years for someone to propose to you. Problem one.
I got a message from the woman that my ex cheated on me with and who he married on my birthday… I ignored it and blocked her!
Any person who would marry 1) someone they were cheating with, if it were so or 2) someone who JUST broke up with someone they were with for 6 years is either really desperate or really stupid. Don't waste your time on it. They'll be divorced by next year.
Only like 3 minutes in but it’s also possible he got her pregnant…
That was my thought and I'm just starting the video.
Any uodates on this one guys?
Girl this sounds sketch. If you go bring a friend with you cause you never know.
She didn’t have a relationship with the now ex’s fiancee. Is the exBF such a coward that he can’t be honest with his ex? 4 months and engaged seems very rushed. He knocked her up.
Since he didn't seem excited about a proposal, maybe he just was done with seeing her.
I would not meet with this chick. If she really wanted to help she would just answer her questions. There is something else going on. Theses relationships definitely overlapped.
Does anyone have an update for us??
This one came up in suggested videos again. Did April meet with the fiancee?
Is there a follow up to this one at all?
I’m with the Majority-Is there an update ?
UPDAAAAATE please! 🙏
Was there ever an update?
My 20 year old self understands her pain and questions. My 40 something year old self has a different perspective… be sad and morn then be thankful for the split and move on. He was never going to marry you so go, do you and find someone who genuinely wants to be with you.
Watch the tears start pouring out when she meets up with the fiance and she notices 1. How GORGEOUS she is 2. Her preggo baby bump 3. Notices how kind and thoughtful and caring she is
Then, she's gonna be even more depressed and humiliated that she went down this rabbit hole.
*Remember the fiance did say, "Someof the questions, I refuse to answer bcuz of THE WEIGHT of them." I suspect, she means BABY WEIGHT. WE NEED AN UPDATE ON THIS
She's gonna say to her
What a waste of energy. Whatever the situation is, you can't unring that bell. Work on your self esteem and never ever stay with someone who can't lock it down within a short period of time! If he's not willing to marry you inside of a year,let go and move on. If he's serious about you,he isn't waiting for someone else to snatch you away. A man will make his move. If he doesn't, again, man or woman don't lose your youth on a gamble.
The movie "GOOD LUCK CHUCK"?🤔
😂 I really don’t understand why ppl do this 🤦🏽♂️ it’s over move on 🤷🏽♂️
This chick is psycho. She wants an entire interrogation from a complete stranger. The DELULU is strong with this one 😂😂😂😂😂
Yup, I already like the new chick
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Update
This guy is a moron. It took him 6 years to realize they weren’t right for each other? Had he ever realized this hasn’t she pushed for commitment? I really get where she is coming from however I feel that my pride wouldn’t let me do this. I would close the chapter and move on. If the guy she dated for 6 years wasn’t able to provide her with closure then how can his new fiancé of 4 months?! Sometimes we need to see these things as blessings. I was devastated every time a relationship ended but when I came to my senses I could see I dodged a bullet every single time.
This is LUDACRIS. The only relative question I'd answer is "When was the start of ur relationship?" Anything beyond that contact ur ex or go to therapy or both. This guy just dodged a psycho. Who the hell wants an interview with ur exes fiance?
Abby is spot on. Sorry but this is how life goes sometimes.
I wouldn’t respond if I were the fiancé. I would tell my fiancé to handle that and not have her contact me again unless she wants some problems. Leave me the f alone.