Every single one of my relationships has been with broken men. Even when I don't want them they find me. I try to date "normal men" but it's like they don't see me.
I’m extremely damaged myself. Who I am to put myself above damaged people? I’m one myself. I understand better damaged, lonely and excluded people than the ones who’ve had an easy life, aren’t broken in some ways and don’t have a depth in their character as a consequence. I simply don’t understand normal people, I don’t relate to them. I’m of course working on healing myself, I’ve been doing it for years now but there’s no guarantee that I’ll ever be whole. Whatever that even means. I don’t have to be. This might take a lifetime and I’m okay with that.
So very true. It's like I get bored with trying to understand or communicate with 'normal' people and I think that's why we're drawn to trauma, because we need it and we need to work with it in this lifetime.
What's the point? it's easier to read them to listen to them, then keep your head down and move along...one foot in front of the other❤ , if the thought becomes too much, don't suppress emotions...feel it, and let go. Ty💖
I too have felt that total engulfing unconditional love once and it also lasted for about 1 minutes. I thought maybe I’m crazy but after you sharing your experience I believe it was real.
This video really moved me as a Scorpio rising. Couldn't believe how a lot of it is true. The pain and love is truly profound and meaningful. In all honesty, it's kinda sickening to constantly experience that and wishing it would stop, especially being a Gemini, but it's who I am. Thank goodness I have the resilience and strength to suck it up and prevail.
I’m grateful I have Venus in Gemini. I’m so over people and their issues. Always the healer, never actually appreciated or seen or heard or understood. Love yourself first Scorpio risings! 🤍
Another observation is that when you cultivate an internal happiness that no one can touch as a Scorpio Rising, you will literally radiate light and it will repel/attract the right people effortlessly. I think of it as holding a ball of light inside of me haha that no one can affect. We need to trust ourselves/inner voice and be open with it. You will be amazed with the shift of things that are attracted to you, opportunities/people, etc. For example, I have a coworker that is truly unhealed/unevolved. As soon as I realized this and shifted my energy to always be positive and happy and never let anything he said or did affect me, he's changed. I think he's realized it's him that has negative energy.
Everything is so on point! My loves consisted of Mental Illness Addiction Personality Disorder I think you might have just helped me with unresolved pain by explaining the fact this emerged within them. Subcouniously I'm thinking I've been blaming myself without knowing. Thank You 💚💚💚
Wonderful video. As a Scorpio Riser I love listening to your reflections. And you know we understand what you are saying because it is our truth. The pain I felt in all my relationships is not because they were hurting me, but because they didn't want to work on their inner pain, their trauma's as much as needed in order to bring the relationship on a next level. They had gold in their hands with me. And today it is still like that. Even just friend relationships, they don't always realize that turning their back to me is actualy turning their back to themself. This is not my ego who's speaking now, it is the plain truth . thank you for you beautiful video, dear Jeremy.
Jeremy, this was so powerful and profound. I kept tearing up. I’ve listened to it a few times over the last few weeks and it just hits deeper and deeper. Thank you 🙏
This was during a vulnerable time in my life, and sorrow has a way of sharing its wisdom with us during the dark night of the soul. Thank you for sharing your appreciation 🙏
I FEEL SO SEEN!!! Thank you for making this. There aren't words to express how validating and deeply nurturing it is to hear these reflections. I DO feel like no one loves deeper than me! I DO witness people back away from me because they're afraid of loving themselves. I DO feel that through every loss I am arriving at a higher love, a fuller connection to the same energy of unconditional love you expressed here. I feel better after hearing this because I can stop judging myself for being clingy with my ex lovers and accept the feelings I have are real and true while still letting them go to be free and choose their own path, even if it isn't with me. I would love to find lasting love, and I guess I will have to accept that it may not be possible to find it in human form...
Started crying at minute 8 - the truth in this is unreal. Started talking to someone I work with because I was drawn to his energy for some reason and vice versa and basically unconsciously recognized the love he needs and knew how to give that to him through words. Not even in a relationship or anything and we've only been talking more frequently in the last few weeks. He recently revealed something crazy about his past and expected me to reject him on that basis. I realized that what your saying about my presence is so true and allowing him to feel safe/trusting in some sort of way to reveal that to me. We really are healers because we aren't meant to judge and we only learn this through going through deep pain and trauma ourselves and having felt so alone/deep in that pit and need to work on this special ability every day because it is part of our purpose here on earth. We are strong enough to hold others' trauma and not break down if we release control and the outcome and know everything isn't our burden.
I’m literally watching this again and I can’t stop crying because It Really does hits different for us, the love that we are runs the deepest of the deepest and you are so right about everything in this video, when we thought we found our soulmates, we can’t just stop loving them so easily as other people can, we have put our soul into these people, it’s not a game for us, not to at the least bit! I’m hurting right now and I don’t usually be vulnerable but I don’t care, I am healing, this is healing! 🫶🏾🤞🏾
I find that allowing myself time grieve the loss of what was and what could of been comes in like waves 🌊. Some days I can surf 🏄♂️ them find and others days I allow the water 💧to wash over me in a flood of vulnerability. Not trying to justify or explain my hurt and hope is also part of this healing journey- to just be human like everyone else and not super Scorpio Rising. I will say a prayer for peace and stillness for your nerves and emotions. 🙏🙏🙏
@@TheBirthdayCoach Thank you so much and you are so right, I also like how I said Super Scorpio Rising lolz I guess I’m just used to being perceived as the “strong one” that I have to remember that I am having a human experience just like others and it’s perfectly normal ,grieving is normal lolz. Finding my tribe is a goal, people that truly gets me. In the mean time, im done shouting and crying out for somebody, anybody to understand me, instead give all of that love, compassion and understanding to the person that needs it the most, Myself. 🙏🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾💕🥹
I cried watching this! I just separated from a toxic 12yr relationship with 4 kids. I’m tore up about it and truth is I still love him but I can’t be with him. I see his soul I know for a fact that there is love there but I just couldn’t get to him, I couldn’t help or heal him, he kept running from it. I am a Scorpio rising, Pisces moon, and Libra Ascendent/sun. I’m trying to heal myself at this time. I’m lost on relationships and who should I be with, etc. 😔
Healthy love is something everyone Pisces moon deserves and moving away from damage people in our love life can be so hard and painful but healing damaged people can be our ministry to others not just out in our personal marriage or committed relationships. I am holding you up in my intentions and prayers. 🙏💯🙏
Wow this was really good! Scorpio rising here with venus, saturn, jupiter and pluto in the 12th and my moon in the 8th. I met my husband who's a cancer rising when I was 16. We were both looking for a real true relationship. I had a horrible relationship before meeting him. Wow! And yes, my love allowed his wounds to surface and yes, it was so freaking hard. But I'm thankful we stuck it out and worked through it all. Will be together 28 yrs this July. Also, there was a time I wanted to leave but I KNEW there was so much more to him. There was so much hurt in his heart. So much pain.
00 Scorpio rising. I completely relate to this. I have always had relationships with damaged people. And nothing this far has worked out. I’ve always had to let them go. But I have love for all still even though the injustice and pain. I carry no shame nor regret for anyone of them.
Thank you for diving deep in the fact that you said we bring light into the trenches and understand our lovers. So on point we do get into the nooks and crannies because of ourr tough skeleton we can access theses dark toxic toxic areas of our partners.💛 🦂⬆️
Wowza…… I’m a Scorpio rising. I can’t thank you enough for this video. I’m a Taurus sun with a Scorpio rising as you know they are opposite in the zodiac. This video enlightened me on my journey of love. Not just for others but love for thyself. ❤ I’ve lost myself in love, by going beyond for the one you love.
Good Gods this explains so much and this is why I LOVE astrology! I have always been drawn to those who were wounded mentally and, especially (blaming my Mars Cancer + Venus Virgo ruling my Libra Jupiter/Saturn/Pluto/Juno) emotionally and felt unloved. I used to write romantic fantasy fiction about this type of love. I would even choose the wounded romantic characters in video game! I used to hold on to real life people for dear life to who needed healing, a safe space, saving, understanding or support because I wanted so so badly for them to KNOW, not just "know", but KNOOOOW, they are loved. I would lose myself, my self worth, my power, everything to these people and neglect myself because I did not know how to come back out of the "hell" I went into with them. Yet I would wonder why I was in deep depression. It did take a Libra Sun, swore he was a "twin flame", to come into my life for me to wake up and realize what I was doing and how to have healthy boundaries with love, relationships, and myself.
Thanks for this reality check . I have to be honest it just made me feel worse then I already do . All I want to experience is reciprocated love like the one I show others. I’m so many ways this message is giving me, that it will never happen. There are so many struggles for me and I’m tired.
Scorpio riser here. This makes so much sense. Puts perspective on what has happened in my life regarding relationships. Horrific describes the last relationship I was in & have subsequently been single for 6 years since. Extreme abuse on all levels.
I think I’d rather stay single than ever go through the kind of relationship I found myself in. I sacrificed myself to the devil and he spat me out. I’m so grateful that I would rather die than conduct myself in that way. I pity him.
One of the most healing and loving things in the world for me, is to actually feel like I have really been seen, heard and understood. This comment made making the above video worth it !! 💯🙏💚
I’m a Virgo Sun ☀️ Scorpio rising. Literally I search for love that has depth I cannot have a shallow love. I reconnected w/ a Taurus guy which is a Virgo soulmate sign. Basically to make a long story short I thght he was everything I needed and became obsessed w/ him 🥴… unfortunately I ran him off due to my intense self 🙄. Idk what the universe is trying to tell me cause I see his name everywhere again ! I haven’t even thght about him. And they literally built a store right across from my house with his name on it !!! Literally rolling my eyes at the universe 😂 idk wt it means. Although he keeps coming back he never stays I think he knows he’d have to change his ways in order to be with me. But I deserve a for sure love. With someone who’s willing to let go of addictions and so on to be with me. Cause I’m not going for that shit anymore ! We’re too damn grown for little grown man kids. Period.
Scorpio rising here! Married three libra suns! I have to say this reminded me of the Adam Sandler song in the Wedding singer “ somebody kill me” 🤣 love yous Scorpio risers!
It betrays my own heart to not side with the underdog , but the proof has shown itself so many times, every time I finally get back on the boat I help someone who is drowning and they just drag me back in to the deep depths.
Virgo Sun Scorpio Rising, here. Scorpio Moon and Virgo Venus. I wish I knew how to stop trying to self sabotage but the damage is deep. Hoping my fellow Scorpio Rising can understand and hang in there. I tried to tell him… the brain knows better but doesn’t always believe, and even worse the heart is hoping it works out but (tries) to tell itself it won’t hurt *that* bad if the person can’t hang.
Aqua with Scorpio rising, I always meet people who need healing. I love unconditionally , I have been letting go of people lately. I do hold on and still pray for connections until I can let go of the spiritual connection. I love people but I would love a mutually healthy healing partnership. ❤
Yes Minister to damaged people but don’t marry them 💕. Definitely seeing the warning signs of unhealthy people quicker and moving away from them faster!! 💯
This is definitely true, makes sense why I always feel emotional and cry in their presence with no trigger. So what happens when your sun and Pluto falls into a Scorpio risers 12th house? Seems like they run away 😢
I am a Sagittarius rising but it's only at zero degrees and I feel scorpio energy as well on my rising. I resonate with both. I am also a virgo sun. I always attract damaged men with addictions .
Title - yes, 100% true, especially if we carry our own trauma. Scorpio Rising/Neptune in Scorpio/Pisces Sun, Venus, Saturn and Chiron/Jupiter in Taurus/Virgo Moon, UranusR, MarsR, Pluto. I'm in the middle of healing my trauma and so is my last partner. He was my 3rd alcoholic partner, but the only one who got sober. I'm sober as well, too. This makes so much sense. I always thought it was just my trauma. Thankfully, I'm working really hard on myself, in Trauma Therapy. You have touched me deeply with this video. Yes, I've been searching my whole life for The One. Out of my 2 marriages and past partner, this last one is different, a deeper connection than i have ever felt before. we are both healing our addictions. The emotional pain is still very deep. We are currently separated, but meet next month. We'll see where it goes. I don't know I have the heart energy to do this again if he decides to walk away.
For many many years ,Scorpio rising here Anuradha sidereal astrology - I have struggled with relationships of the romantic kind. I’m in my mid 50s now,and because of Astrology -Saturn in Pisces in 5th house with Chiron in Pisces and Venus in Libra in my 12th house.. I have come to realize that that is my karmic journey. I understand free will. But that’s for another time. I am truly grateful for the lessons. I am embracing this process. And yes I have closed that chapter. As I celebrate my birthday next month ,Sun in Jupiter will be reborn . Thank you Jeremy. I truly appreciate your knowledge and your willingness to be open to share and for being you. I no longer feel guilt for my past because it’s made me who I will be in the future. 🙏
I just got out of a 3 year Rs a month ago, with a very damaged sick person and even if I got out, ( and everybody told me to do so) ,im feeling extremely depressed and suicidal. I can’t sleep anymore and my body hurts everywhere. I have obsessive ideas all day about wether it was the right person or not. It. I still love her very much and im ruined. I cheated on her multiple times, she slept with a friend and gave me his std, she was raped by another friend of mine she has a serious physical condition, she was always talking about rape in a very ambivalent way. almost ruined my career posting a fight we had texting on metoo chats. I had to file a complaint against her to protect myself from diffamation…God help me
God help sounds like the best prayer any of us can pray. I sometimes like, to also pray God heal my fear base thinking 💭 🙏 From what you have shared, it is understandable the pain, hurt and fear that you are experiencing in this moment in time. I will pray for your emotional strength, and physical well-being. May your name, reputation and life be protected from all negativity. 🙏
You answered a question I've been looking fo for decades.....I used to say what is this they graduate from school. And they leave me...again after 25 yrs it's happened again..to top it of. Stellium in q2 house of libra moon in leo....I never feel I can escape this...I've been put into hospital and end up helping people....staff looks at me with their mouth open....every relationship that I have had. Has ended in my hurt....even one dying in my arms....you've helped me see its not me....thank you. Love and light John
Maybe I need a Scorpio rising like me to feel less misunderstood. I love deeply and I love someone who is really ill, I tried to stay even when I didn’t have more reasons to, I tried help him in what I could but as I was healing I realized that wasn’t good for me. At the end he left, disappear and I felt like a fool for loving him so much and giving him my all. However I believe probably was higher protection that removed him from my life cause maybe wasn’t strong enough to let him go. Now I see things more clearly and wisely about my ways in relationships.
Thank you ! I'm a scorpio rising and that's the video i was looking for !! Everything as been said, i'm single and ready to fall in love again but not with sick people again this time. Do you think that I can run away from this kind of karmic love situations ? I have Mars in balance in the 12th house but as you said now i have reached a higher love, my love has healed me and I have a better understanding of myself now and of others, sometimes when I look at people in the street they are either afraid of me or they run away or they admire me like a sunshine I Can see it in their eyes. Amazing ! 😍
Yes you can have healthy relationships! I hope you do find a meaningful relationship again that is neither toxic or painful for you. Making sure that you are more mindful of who the person actual is, versus what you think they can be with your help can go along way in guiding all of us in making wiser choices in matters of the heart.
I often find my lovers obsessing over me, it’s like they can’t let go. That’s kind of scary to me to be honest. It’s tied to how my mother died. She had someone obsessed with her too mixed with other issues.
I can see how people can obsess over Scorpio, rising, or other strong Scorpio placements. My question would be, that you’re choosing lovers who clearly have them healthy boundaries, which is part of the lesson is the Scorpio rising is learning, when love how to say healthy boundaries. Thanks for watching and sharing your personal experience.
@@TheBirthdayCoach I chuckled at your response because as a Virgo sun I’m always screaming about my damn boundaries haha 😆 I have to admit, I find myself defending my boundaries that at times I get sick of my damn self with all that hollering. Oh geesh!! Jeremy darling am I doomed ?🙃.
That innate groaning of searching for “soul mate” is real. And from my personal perspective the nagging and going deep is what makes us attracted to people with issues, working to uncover the truth and rescue them.
I relate to this. I have Venus in libra to. I’m choosing to just embrace it. My best friend just passed she was also a Scorpio rising she had the same issues.
Thank you! What you are saying is so true and I didn’t know about the soulmate and love in 12th house.. I really want to have a committed relationship but it seems impossible.. is there any solution to this? Is it when come to committing the 7th house will rule the situation? And it will not be soulmate love? I hope you can explain this to me..
@@TheBirthdayCoach scorpio rising with Capricorn moon and pluto in the first is hard to deal with so I’m checking all your videos so I can help myself a lil better so thank you very much
03/27/2023 Taurus Sun Libra Moon Scorpio Rising Tell my bizness why don't you! I grew up in a home full of a variety of abuse. My partner in my early adult life suffers from substance abuse... most of my friends suffer from some form of substance abuse.... My most recent ex suffer from substance abuse issues. I attract people (like a moth to a flame) who are suffering... .....May be my addiction. I'm moving this summer to get away from it BUTT what you're telling me IS its in ME..... to be a source of light for those who suffer. JESUS! Namaste Fam! Peace!
@@TheBirthdayCoachWhen I found out my ex was going tyo propose to me, I prayed on it.... God said no! I'm still dealing while healing from this.... #TraumaticMuch
Ya it is true i m a scorpio riser but i cared for girl for 2 to 3 years personally. I felt her as soulmate. I proposed her. She is 10 years younger than me. As she got into college, she changed. She broke with me and made another bf. When i asked her DOB. Then came to know she is also scorpio riser and zodiac too. Bcoz she has moon in the lagna I checked her horoscope, i found out she has planets to cheat. She has jupiter in 10th house aspected by saturn of 8th. Jupiter is actually the owner of 5th house as per her kundali. I cant believe i made sacrifices for her but she changed her personality and dont care me now. She has transformed😢😢😢
Betrayal in love is the one of the worst feeling to go through. I know that you can heal deeply and live life fully again one day. I said a pray for your heart and soul 🙏🙏🙏
@@TheBirthdayCoach thnx. I dont hate her. I want her back. She was very excited one who teased me everytime. I like her and her teasing. But she left. she made another bf. I had sacrificed my career for her. I am struggling to live a normal life. I cant forgive myself to fall into the trap of fake love. I love her till now but she broke me completely. I cry daily throughout the day without being noticed. And cant even feel hunger. My bp goes down and up again and again. I tried to explain her but she is not interested in me. Life always puts me in the crisis. Even i solved her crisis but she put me in the new crisis and i dont have any clue how to get out of it. I have no career 😭😭😭😭. Bearing losses. What crime did i make to get punishments like this in my life
Yes I have experienced "God's love many times" but this Agape love moment was like nothing I have ever experienced and know completely that all is love when we cross over from this life to the next. No need for any specific religion or meet expectations. 🙏🙏🙏
Well - it would take both people connecting to their higher power, focusing on doing good for others (besides just being worried about themselves) and wanting to work on their child issues and other emotional pain.
Possible in-laws or your soulmate can inflict pain, look to the placement of Mars , Pluto, and South Node to learn more about where this loss comes from 🙏
Everybody in Astrology has 12 houses 🏠 in their Natal Chart . Weather there are planets 🪐 in a house or not. Every house is control by one zodiac sign .
@@TheBirthdayCoach I have no planets 🪐 in 7th house I have 7th house 🏡 I’n Taurus ♉️ I have my Neptune and Venus in Capricorn ♑️ 3rd house and, I have my Jupiter in 4th house in Aquarius ♒️
@@TheBirthdayCoach which is funny my girlfriend a Taurus ♉️ and, I’m a Aquarius I think we connect because I have Scorpio rising and a Capricorn ♑️ stellium in 3rd house
@@bighead2848 I would look to date people much older or younger then you. Maybe someone who is in charge of some type of Communications business or Nom-Profit or possible a huge real estate developer…..
Every single one of my relationships has been with broken men. Even when I don't want them they find me. I try to date "normal men" but it's like they don't see me.
I’m extremely damaged myself. Who I am to put myself above damaged people? I’m one myself. I understand better damaged, lonely and excluded people than the ones who’ve had an easy life, aren’t broken in some ways and don’t have a depth in their character as a consequence. I simply don’t understand normal people, I don’t relate to them. I’m of course working on healing myself, I’ve been doing it for years now but there’s no guarantee that I’ll ever be whole. Whatever that even means. I don’t have to be. This might take a lifetime and I’m okay with that.
So very true. It's like I get bored with trying to understand or communicate with 'normal' people and I think that's why we're drawn to trauma, because we need it and we need to work with it in this lifetime.
What's the point? it's easier to read them to listen to them, then keep your head down and move along...one foot in front of the other❤ , if the thought becomes too much, don't suppress emotions...feel it, and let go. Ty💖
Scorpio rising here. Yes! I'm attracted to a damaged person and that's not the 1st time in my life 🙈 I feel the need to help them 🤷🏼♀️
Same 😢
Could it be also that we as Scorpio risings are not afraid of darkness? Great video.
I too have felt that total engulfing unconditional love once and it also lasted for about 1 minutes. I thought maybe I’m crazy but after you sharing your experience I believe it was real.
Never forget it, remind yourself of this experience you had often. Thank you for sharing this with me 🙌🏻💯🙏
This video really moved me as a Scorpio rising. Couldn't believe how a lot of it is true. The pain and love is truly profound and meaningful. In all honesty, it's kinda sickening to constantly experience that and wishing it would stop, especially being a Gemini, but it's who I am. Thank goodness I have the resilience and strength to suck it up and prevail.
I’m grateful I have Venus in Gemini. I’m so over people and their issues. Always the healer, never actually appreciated or seen or heard or understood. Love yourself first Scorpio risings! 🤍
Same same same.
Another observation is that when you cultivate an internal happiness that no one can touch as a Scorpio Rising, you will literally radiate light and it will repel/attract the right people effortlessly. I think of it as holding a ball of light inside of me haha that no one can affect. We need to trust ourselves/inner voice and be open with it. You will be amazed with the shift of things that are attracted to you, opportunities/people, etc. For example, I have a coworker that is truly unhealed/unevolved. As soon as I realized this and shifted my energy to always be positive and happy and never let anything he said or did affect me, he's changed. I think he's realized it's him that has negative energy.
great advice with the ball of light and not allowing others energy to dictate yours - well said 🙏💯🙌🏻
Male nurse with Scorpio rising ... been told that I heal everyone around me by absorbing the dark energies of others
@@TheGodfather-bm3ow That's amazing!! It's definitely a special feeling. Thank you for saving lives!
Everything is so on point! My loves consisted of Mental Illness
Addiction
Personality Disorder
I think you might have just helped me with unresolved pain by explaining the fact this emerged within them. Subcouniously I'm thinking I've been blaming myself without knowing.
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That comment made this doing Video worth it ! 💚💚💚
The personality disorders is something found in many of Scorpio Rising family, friends and love relationships - thanks for mentioning that 💯
Wonderful video. As a Scorpio Riser I love listening to your reflections. And you know we understand what you are saying because it is our truth. The pain I felt in all my relationships is not because they were hurting me, but because they didn't want to work on their inner pain, their trauma's as much as needed in order to bring the relationship on a next level. They had gold in their hands with me. And today it is still like that. Even just friend relationships, they don't always realize that turning their back to me is actualy turning their back to themself. This is not my ego who's speaking now, it is the plain truth . thank you for you beautiful video, dear Jeremy.
Yes, yes you get it 🙏
Jeremy, this was so powerful and profound. I kept tearing up. I’ve listened to it a few times over the last few weeks and it just hits deeper and deeper. Thank you 🙏
This was during a vulnerable time in my life, and sorrow has a way of sharing its wisdom with us during the dark night of the soul. Thank you for sharing your appreciation 🙏
I FEEL SO SEEN!!! Thank you for making this. There aren't words to express how validating and deeply nurturing it is to hear these reflections. I DO feel like no one loves deeper than me! I DO witness people back away from me because they're afraid of loving themselves. I DO feel that through every loss I am arriving at a higher love, a fuller connection to the same energy of unconditional love you expressed here. I feel better after hearing this because I can stop judging myself for being clingy with my ex lovers and accept the feelings I have are real and true while still letting them go to be free and choose their own path, even if it isn't with me. I would love to find lasting love, and I guess I will have to accept that it may not be possible to find it in human form...
Started crying at minute 8 - the truth in this is unreal. Started talking to someone I work with because I was drawn to his energy for some reason and vice versa and basically unconsciously recognized the love he needs and knew how to give that to him through words. Not even in a relationship or anything and we've only been talking more frequently in the last few weeks. He recently revealed something crazy about his past and expected me to reject him on that basis. I realized that what your saying about my presence is so true and allowing him to feel safe/trusting in some sort of way to reveal that to me. We really are healers because we aren't meant to judge and we only learn this through going through deep pain and trauma ourselves and having felt so alone/deep in that pit and need to work on this special ability every day because it is part of our purpose here on earth. We are strong enough to hold others' trauma and not break down if we release control and the outcome and know everything isn't our burden.
I’m literally watching this again and I can’t stop crying because It Really does hits different for us, the love that we are runs the deepest of the deepest and you are so right about everything in this video, when we thought we found our soulmates, we can’t just stop loving them so easily as other people can, we have put our soul into these people, it’s not a game for us, not to at the least bit! I’m hurting right now and I don’t usually be vulnerable but I don’t care, I am healing, this is healing! 🫶🏾🤞🏾
I find that allowing myself time grieve the loss of what was and what could of been comes in like waves 🌊. Some days I can surf 🏄♂️ them find and others days I allow the water 💧to wash over me in a flood of vulnerability. Not trying to justify or explain my hurt and hope is also part of this healing journey- to just be human like everyone else and not super Scorpio Rising. I will say a prayer for peace and stillness for your nerves and emotions.
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@@TheBirthdayCoach Thank you so much and you are so right, I also like how I said Super Scorpio Rising lolz I guess I’m just used to being perceived as the “strong one” that I have to remember that I am having a human experience just like others and it’s perfectly normal ,grieving is normal lolz. Finding my tribe is a goal, people that truly gets me. In the mean time, im done shouting and crying out for somebody, anybody to understand me, instead give all of that love, compassion and understanding to the person that needs it the most, Myself. 🙏🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾💕🥹
Leo 🌞, Cancer 🌘, Scorpio Rising - Finally something that resonates deeply. Thank you 🙏
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I cried watching this! I just separated from a toxic 12yr relationship with 4 kids. I’m tore up about it and truth is I still love him but I can’t be with him. I see his soul I know for a fact that there is love there but I just couldn’t get to him, I couldn’t help or heal him, he kept running from it. I am a Scorpio rising, Pisces moon, and Libra Ascendent/sun. I’m trying to heal myself at this time. I’m lost on relationships and who should I be with, etc. 😔
Healthy love is something everyone Pisces moon deserves and moving away from damage people in our love life can be so hard and painful but healing damaged people can be our ministry to others not just out in our personal marriage or committed relationships. I am holding you up in my intentions and prayers. 🙏💯🙏
@@TheBirthdayCoach Thank you so much!
Wow this was really good! Scorpio rising here with venus, saturn, jupiter and pluto in the 12th and my moon in the 8th. I met my husband who's a cancer rising when I was 16. We were both looking for a real true relationship. I had a horrible relationship before meeting him.
Wow! And yes, my love allowed his wounds to surface and yes, it was so freaking hard. But I'm thankful we stuck it out and worked through it all. Will be together 28 yrs this July.
Also, there was a time I wanted to leave but I KNEW there was so much more to him. There was so much hurt in his heart. So much pain.
Congrats on your coming 20 years !!!! That is amazing commitment, compromise, and compassion!!!!! 💕💯🫂
Wow…thank you so very much for shedding much needed light on who I am as a Scorpio Rising…your message was such a gift to me today! Thank you! ❤️
Thank you for sharing your support 🙏
00 Scorpio rising. I completely relate to this. I have always had relationships with damaged people. And nothing this far has worked out. I’ve always had to let them go. But I have love for all still even though the injustice and pain. I carry no shame nor regret for anyone of them.
Thank you for diving deep in the fact that you said we bring light into the trenches and understand our
lovers. So on point we do get into the nooks and crannies because of ourr tough skeleton we can access theses dark toxic toxic areas of our partners.💛
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Wowza……
I’m a Scorpio rising.
I can’t thank you enough for this video. I’m a Taurus sun with a Scorpio rising as you know they are opposite in the zodiac. This video enlightened me on my journey of love. Not just for others but love for thyself. ❤ I’ve lost myself in love, by going beyond for the one you love.
I'm a Taurus sun and Scorpio rising as well. Still putting myself together after almost a decade.
Good Gods this explains so much and this is why I LOVE astrology! I have always been drawn to those who were wounded mentally and, especially (blaming my Mars Cancer + Venus Virgo ruling my Libra Jupiter/Saturn/Pluto/Juno) emotionally and felt unloved. I used to write romantic fantasy fiction about this type of love. I would even choose the wounded romantic characters in video game! I used to hold on to real life people for dear life to who needed healing, a safe space, saving, understanding or support because I wanted so so badly for them to KNOW, not just "know", but KNOOOOW, they are loved. I would lose myself, my self worth, my power, everything to these people and neglect myself because I did not know how to come back out of the "hell" I went into with them. Yet I would wonder why I was in deep depression. It did take a Libra Sun, swore he was a "twin flame", to come into my life for me to wake up and realize what I was doing and how to have healthy boundaries with love, relationships, and myself.
Thanks for sharing and glad your in healthy relationships with boundaries now 🙏
Thanks for this reality check . I have to be honest it just made me feel worse then I already do .
All I want to experience is reciprocated love like the one I show others. I’m so many ways this message is giving me, that it will never happen. There are so many struggles for me and I’m tired.
The answer lies in loving Spirit fully and choosing people who are also healthy enough to love you back fully🙏.
Scorpio riser here. This makes so much sense. Puts perspective on what has happened in my life regarding relationships. Horrific describes the last relationship I was in & have subsequently been single for 6 years since. Extreme abuse on all levels.
Hope the next is your best!!
I think I’d rather stay single than ever go through the kind of relationship I found myself in. I sacrificed myself to the devil and he spat me out. I’m so grateful that I would rather die than conduct myself in that way. I pity him.
Pisces sun Scorpio rising this is exactly true and I just find myself alone and never finding love
I hope you find purpose in doing things that make you feel uplifted and supported 🙏
This made me feel SO SEEN! Thank you so much!
One of the most healing and loving things in the world for me, is to actually feel like I have really been seen, heard and understood. This comment made making the above video worth it !! 💯🙏💚
Yes love is everything, I’ve received the download on love as well. Scorpio rising loves in a way most don’t understand.
I’m a Virgo Sun ☀️ Scorpio rising. Literally I search for love that has depth I cannot have a shallow love. I reconnected w/ a Taurus guy which is a Virgo soulmate sign. Basically to make a long story short I thght he was everything I needed and became obsessed w/ him 🥴… unfortunately I ran him off due to my intense self 🙄. Idk what the universe is trying to tell me cause I see his name everywhere again ! I haven’t even thght about him. And they literally built a store right across from my house with his name on it !!! Literally rolling my eyes at the universe 😂 idk wt it means. Although he keeps coming back he never stays I think he knows he’d have to change his ways in order to be with me. But I deserve a for sure love. With someone who’s willing to let go of addictions and so on to be with me. Cause I’m not going for that shit anymore ! We’re too damn grown for little grown man kids. Period.
Yes we are to grown for that and yes you deserve a equal committed giving and loving relationship 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Exactly, I don’t search to be loved in return when i love inconditionally.
Scorpio rising here! Married three libra suns! I have to say this reminded me of the Adam Sandler song in the Wedding singer “ somebody kill me” 🤣 love yous Scorpio risers!
Did that and he set out to destroy me. He destroyed my life. I’ve also befriended underdogs, stood by them only to be betrayed by them.
It betrays my own heart to not side with the underdog , but the proof has shown itself so many times, every time I finally get back on the boat I help someone who is drowning and they just drag me back in to the deep depths.
Yes we must make sure to learn the lesson of boundaries and choosing wisely who, when and how to help and how much.
Thank you for this ❤ I really needed to hear this. It's been a joyous rough journey thus far.
You got this!
Yes, this is the depth of understanding love and therefore self, I feel daily as Scorpio Rising
19:30 so true I find that ppl self sabotage with me. They know the love is beyond real yet they feel they are undeserving
Yes this!
Pisces with a Scorpio Rising .. oh boy
Virgo Sun Scorpio Rising, here. Scorpio Moon and Virgo Venus. I wish I knew how to stop trying to self sabotage but the damage is deep. Hoping my fellow Scorpio Rising can understand and hang in there. I tried to tell him… the brain knows better but doesn’t always believe, and even worse the heart is hoping it works out but (tries) to tell itself it won’t hurt *that* bad if the person can’t hang.
Aqua with Scorpio rising, I always meet people who need healing. I love unconditionally , I have been letting go of people lately. I do hold on and still pray for connections until I can let go of the spiritual connection. I love people but I would love a mutually healthy healing partnership. ❤
Yes Minister to damaged people but don’t marry them 💕. Definitely seeing the warning signs of unhealthy people quicker and moving away from them faster!! 💯
This is definitely true, makes sense why I always feel emotional and cry in their presence with no trigger. So what happens when your sun and Pluto falls into a Scorpio risers 12th house? Seems like they run away 😢
Your Soul boundless deep 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for putting us into words. It made me truly feel special with your interpretation of us.
I am a Sagittarius rising but it's only at zero degrees and I feel scorpio energy as well on my rising. I resonate with both. I am also a virgo sun. I always attract damaged men with addictions .
Well from one Virgo to Another - let's change that :)
Well said. I now understand myself and the why, my life has been like this. ❤ I am Little wiser and brighter than yesterday. Thanks to you. 🎉🙏
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Title - yes, 100% true, especially if we carry our own trauma. Scorpio Rising/Neptune in Scorpio/Pisces Sun, Venus, Saturn and Chiron/Jupiter in Taurus/Virgo Moon, UranusR, MarsR, Pluto. I'm in the middle of healing my trauma and so is my last partner. He was my 3rd alcoholic partner, but the only one who got sober. I'm sober as well, too. This makes so much sense. I always thought it was just my trauma. Thankfully, I'm working really hard on myself, in Trauma Therapy. You have touched me deeply with this video. Yes, I've been searching my whole life for The One. Out of my 2 marriages and past partner, this last one is different, a deeper connection than i have ever felt before. we are both healing our addictions. The emotional pain is still very deep. We are currently separated, but meet next month. We'll see where it goes. I don't know I have the heart energy to do this again if he decides to walk away.
Congrats on working towards your healing and health 🙏🙏🙏 My you heal deeply and live fully 💯
This is so on point, I am a Leo Sun Leo Moon and Scorpio Rising with a grand fixed cross 😭
For many many years ,Scorpio rising here Anuradha sidereal astrology - I have struggled with relationships of the romantic kind. I’m in my mid 50s now,and because of Astrology -Saturn in Pisces in 5th house with Chiron in Pisces and Venus in Libra in my 12th house.. I have come to realize that that is my karmic journey. I understand free will. But that’s for another time. I am truly grateful for the lessons. I am embracing this process. And yes I have closed that chapter. As I celebrate my birthday next month ,Sun in Jupiter will be reborn . Thank you Jeremy. I truly appreciate your knowledge and your willingness to be open to share and for being you. I no longer feel guilt for my past because it’s made me who I will be in the future. 🙏
I just got out of a 3 year Rs a month ago, with a very damaged sick person and even if I got out, ( and everybody told me to do so) ,im feeling extremely depressed and suicidal. I can’t sleep anymore and my body hurts everywhere. I have obsessive ideas all day about wether it was the right person or not. It. I still love her very much and im ruined. I cheated on her multiple times, she slept with a friend and gave me his std, she was raped by another friend of mine she has a serious physical condition, she was always talking about rape in a very ambivalent way. almost ruined my career posting a fight we had texting on metoo chats. I had to file a complaint against her to protect myself from diffamation…God help me
God help sounds like the best prayer any of us can pray. I sometimes like, to also pray God heal my fear base thinking 💭 🙏
From what you have shared, it is understandable the pain, hurt and fear that you are experiencing in this moment in time.
I will pray for your emotional strength, and physical well-being. May your name, reputation and life be protected from all negativity. 🙏
This is facts, thank you so much for posting.🙌🏽😇
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My god! Thank you! You’ve helped me be seen ❤
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Thank you for doing this video. ❤
Your welcome 🙏 thank you for watching .
You answered a question I've been looking fo for decades.....I used to say what is this they graduate from school. And they leave me...again after 25 yrs it's happened again..to top it of. Stellium in q2 house of libra moon in leo....I never feel I can escape this...I've been put into hospital and end up helping people....staff looks at me with their mouth open....every relationship that I have had. Has ended in my hurt....even one dying in my arms....you've helped me see its not me....thank you. Love and light
John
Bless you for letting your love be a light 🙏
Maybe I need a Scorpio rising like me to feel less misunderstood. I love deeply and I love someone who is really ill, I tried to stay even when I didn’t have more reasons to, I tried help him in what I could but as I was healing I realized that wasn’t good for me. At the end he left, disappear and I felt like a fool for loving him so much and giving him my all. However I believe probably was higher protection that removed him from my life cause maybe wasn’t strong enough to let him go. Now I see things more clearly and wisely about my ways in relationships.
i think many of us scorpio rising have felt and experienced what you shared dear soul sister . much healing and light 🙏💯🦂
@@TheBirthdayCoach thank you so much 🙌🏻
so accurate.. ❤️
Thank you ! I'm a scorpio rising and that's the video i was looking for !! Everything as been said, i'm single and ready to fall in love again but not with sick people again this time. Do you think that I can run away from this kind of karmic love situations ? I have Mars in balance in the 12th house but as you said now i have reached a higher love, my love has healed me and I have a better understanding of myself now and of others, sometimes when I look at people in the street they are either afraid of me or they run away or they admire me like a sunshine I Can see it in their eyes. Amazing ! 😍
Yes you can have healthy relationships! I hope you do find a meaningful relationship again that is neither toxic or painful for you. Making sure that you are more mindful of who the person actual is, versus what you think they can be with your help can go along way in guiding all of us in making wiser choices in matters of the heart.
Great reading!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Wow you truly a great astrologer. I feel very understood. I can't believe you know me so well.
Greatly appreciate you!
Glad you feel seen and validated 💯🙏❤️🩹
I often find my lovers obsessing over me, it’s like they can’t let go. That’s kind of scary to me to be honest. It’s tied to how my mother died. She had someone obsessed with her too mixed with other issues.
I can see how people can obsess over Scorpio, rising, or other strong Scorpio placements. My question would be, that you’re choosing lovers who clearly have them healthy boundaries, which is part of the lesson is the Scorpio rising is learning, when love how to say healthy boundaries. Thanks for watching and sharing your personal experience.
@@TheBirthdayCoach I chuckled at your response because as a Virgo sun I’m always screaming about my damn boundaries haha 😆 I have to admit, I find myself defending my boundaries that at times I get sick of my damn self with all that hollering. Oh geesh!! Jeremy darling am I doomed ?🙃.
@@Self-helper415 no your not doomed 😂. When is your birthday again ?
Me too unless they aren’t that in to me then I obsess over them. So much fun 😅
I love the comments and us! Lol 😂
Im a cancer sun cancer moon scorpio rising. This video really touched me. My soulmate is a Taurus sun. We have such an incredible bond and connection
I'm a Scorpio rising and I'm madly in love with a gemini sun and aquarius moon and scorpio rising
Wow 😢😳
That innate groaning of searching for “soul mate” is real. And from my personal perspective the nagging and going deep is what makes us attracted to people with issues, working to uncover the truth and rescue them.
I’ve vowed to never do that again. It destroyed my life which is now a wasteland.
Yep yep yep and yep. Though I fear most of us are casting Pearl before swine
Very often that is lesson in self-love we must learn, not to kill our spirits for those who never were meant for our gold.
Cancer sun scorpio rising my pluto in the 1st house and NN oooweee🥲🥲🥲
And my jupiter in the 12th too cusping with my 1st
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OMG 💔💔
Scorpio rising with Uranus in first house of Scorpio at 29 degrees and Pluto in my 12th house of Libra smh.
Uranus 29 degrees in scorpio in 1st house! That's extreme has they come!
I relate to this. I have Venus in libra to. I’m choosing to just embrace it. My best friend just passed she was also a Scorpio rising she had the same issues.
condolences on the passing of your friend 🙏🙏🙏
@@TheBirthdayCoach thank you. I’m healing but I think it will be one that stays with me forever. My progressed Venus is moving out of scorpio soon.
@@Northofyoualwaysjdhdnkdj that's nice 🙂
Thank you! What you are saying is so true and I didn’t know about the soulmate and love in 12th house.. I really want to have a committed relationship but it seems impossible.. is there any solution to this? Is it when come to committing the 7th house will rule the situation? And it will not be soulmate love?
I hope you can explain this to me..
Being the energy of love to yourself and all others is what will truly bring peace to all of our lives.
1 John 4:8 ❤
I’m not really attracted to damaged ppl bc I am already one so I need to heal myself first 😂
yes - I am not advocating dating damage people. But all of us have healing to do and self healing work is wise investment! Much healing to you 🙏🙏🙏
@@TheBirthdayCoach all that you said make sense to me.. even if I don’t want to It’s inevitable..
@@TheBirthdayCoach scorpio rising with Capricorn moon and pluto in the first is hard to deal with so I’m checking all your videos so I can help myself a lil better so thank you very much
03/27/2023
Taurus Sun Libra Moon Scorpio Rising
Tell my bizness why don't you!
I grew up in a home full of a variety of abuse. My partner in my early adult life suffers from substance abuse... most of my friends suffer from some form of substance abuse.... My most recent ex suffer from substance abuse issues.
I attract people (like a moth to a flame) who are suffering...
.....May be my addiction.
I'm moving this summer to get away from it BUTT what you're telling me IS its in ME..... to be a source of light for those who suffer. JESUS! Namaste Fam! Peace!
My best advice is ministry to damage people but don’t marry them 🙌🏻💯🙏
@@TheBirthdayCoachWhen I found out my ex was going tyo propose to me, I prayed on it.... God said no!
I'm still dealing while healing from this.... #TraumaticMuch
I have Saturn and Mars Conjunct my Ascendant in Scorpio. Ooof...it's been a doozy.
🙏 be gentle on you self 🙏 thanks for watching 🙏
Ya it is true i m a scorpio riser but i cared for girl for 2 to 3 years personally. I felt her as soulmate. I proposed her. She is 10 years younger than me. As she got into college, she changed. She broke with me and made another bf. When i asked her DOB. Then came to know she is also scorpio riser and zodiac too. Bcoz she has moon in the lagna
I checked her horoscope, i found out she has planets to cheat. She has jupiter in 10th house aspected by saturn of 8th. Jupiter is actually the owner of 5th house as per her kundali. I cant believe i made sacrifices for her but she changed her personality and dont care me now. She has transformed😢😢😢
Betrayal in love is the one of the worst feeling to go through. I know that you can heal deeply and live life fully again one day. I said a pray for your
heart and soul 🙏🙏🙏
@@TheBirthdayCoach thnx. I dont hate her. I want her back. She was very excited one who teased me everytime. I like her and her teasing. But she left. she made another bf. I had sacrificed my career for her. I am struggling to live a normal life. I cant forgive myself to fall into the trap of fake love. I love her till now but she broke me completely. I cry daily throughout the day without being noticed. And cant even feel hunger. My bp goes down and up again and again. I tried to explain her but she is not interested in me. Life always puts me in the crisis. Even i solved her crisis but she put me in the new crisis and i dont have any clue how to get out of it. I have no career 😭😭😭😭. Bearing losses. What crime did i make to get punishments like this in my life
I am Virgo sun cancer moon Scorpio rising libra Venus ,
Wow .....
Its called agape love. Its the higher love
Yes I have experienced "God's love many times" but this Agape love moment was like nothing I have ever experienced and know completely that all is love when we cross over from this life to the next. No need for any specific religion or meet expectations. 🙏🙏🙏
scorpio rising but venus in taurus 👀
Hey mate I'm a Scorpio rising as per vedic. Are you following the same? Or the western, in which case I would be Saggi rising?
I practice both systems . The western is how your environment shape you / The eastern is how your higher nature is.
If your a sag rising in western go watch my sag rising video 🙏.
North node in Libra 12 house and married to a Libra
North node in libra, can mean marriage was a part of your destiny. How is his health? What makes your marriage work.
What is stronger love or pleasure?
What say you Alchemist Star?
Scorpio rising in the house im pluto & mars i dont have venus on my charts
Where is your Venus ?
As Virgo sun w Scorpio rising, I’ve been single for 30+ years. I’m trying to figure it out.
I don’t think we ever fully figure it all out in this lifetime 😃🙏
How you transcend through this to both parties having wholeness
Well - it would take both people connecting to their higher power, focusing on doing good for others (besides just being worried about themselves) and wanting to work on their child issues and other emotional pain.
Maybe as Scorpio risings we should dater other Scorpio risers 😊
I am sure there are some out there, but two scorpio rising brings twice the life intensity lol
What if my Scorpio rising in my 12 thouse and libra in my 11th house
Possible in-laws or your soulmate can inflict pain, look to the placement of Mars , Pluto, and South Node to learn more about where this loss comes from 🙏
I don't have any 12th house in my chart. I don't have a lot of numbers in my chart 😐
Everybody in Astrology has 12 houses 🏠 in their Natal Chart . Weather there are planets 🪐 in a house or not. Every house is control by one zodiac sign .
I don’t have any Pisces in my chart besides Pisces in the 5th house
You have Venus ruling your 12th if your a Scorpio Rising - which is like saying Venus in Pisces.
I have Libra ♎️ in 12th house but no planets 🪐 there I also have Pisces ♓️ in 5th house and no planets 🪐 there what does this mean ?
Look and see where your natal Venus, Jupiter and Neptune are to get an idea about your love life.
5th house is dating life - 7th house is married life. Do you have planets in the 7th house and where houses have venus and neptune?
@@TheBirthdayCoach I have no planets 🪐 in 7th house I have 7th house 🏡 I’n Taurus ♉️ I have my Neptune and Venus in Capricorn ♑️ 3rd house and, I have my Jupiter in 4th house in Aquarius ♒️
@@TheBirthdayCoach which is funny my girlfriend a Taurus ♉️ and, I’m a Aquarius I think we connect because I have Scorpio rising and a Capricorn ♑️ stellium in 3rd house
@@bighead2848 I would look to date people much older or younger then you. Maybe someone who is in charge of some type of Communications business or Nom-Profit or possible a huge real estate developer…..
and this is why I'm in 🥷🏼 MODE now.