Relationship Obsessive-compulsive Disorder (ROCD): Tormenting Doubts re: Partners and Relationships

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @thaLAangel
    @thaLAangel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    you literally have a video for every single obscure problem i've ever had lmao

    • @gigi9301
      @gigi9301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know this one has my name written All Over It!!

  • @blaqobsydian44
    @blaqobsydian44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you!!! This has perfectly and beautifully broken down exactly what went wrong in my last situationship, even down to her becoming abusive to test how I felt about her. Crazy how that lightbulb just went off in my mind and stayed on the entire video. I’m truly grateful for this information.

  • @emilylavelle
    @emilylavelle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sam you are an invaluable gift to this earth

  • @Prashant131090
    @Prashant131090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I feel as if I am unable to express my happiness in words for your "seriously traumatic sessions" on TH-cam. If I ever could become, I would say it feels like the "dawn" after a "nightmarish and darkest night"....
    Thank you, Professor.
    To me, you are the Sun and all my daily routines evolve around you. (Touching your feet 🙏)

  • @adulio98
    @adulio98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nice to see you shedding some light on this still poorly understood illness. I think it's worth mentioning that ROCD is not a separate diagnosis in the DSM or ICD, but something clinicians call a 'theme' or 'subtype' (it's an unofficial name not reflected in taxonomy). OCD is OCD; the 'subtypes' are just names given to different presentations of the disorder, e.g. HOCD (homosexual; 'am I gay?'), POCD (pedophilia; 'am I a pedophile?'), and so on. Having such terms helps sufferers (they learn that what they experience has a name and is a treatable illness). It's also not uncommon to see the theme change over time, e.g. someone experiencing relationship obsessions suddenly develops homosexual obsessions (while the previous theme becomes completely irrelevant).
    I was also very pleasantly surprised you mentioned the latest research on dissociation in OCD. For some other cutting-edge research on OCD, I recommend: Dar, R., Lazarov, A., & Liberman, N. (2021). Seeking proxies for internal states (SPIS): Towards a novel model of obsessive-compulsive disorder. Behaviour Research and Therapy, Volume 147.

  • @SWEskL1
    @SWEskL1 ปีที่แล้ว

    This has been an amazing video. I’m very grateful to you for uploading this video

  • @mspdino
    @mspdino 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Okaaaaay, Shoshannim

    • @dianamorariu9763
      @dianamorariu9763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha

    • @loislane7958
      @loislane7958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love it, the way Vaknin says it. Always makes me laugh.

  • @earthwalkerportal
    @earthwalkerportal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sam Vaknin Thank u for everything! If u come to south Africa one day u are welcome visit.

  • @knolan2356
    @knolan2356 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My ex had this, then I developed it and we could never just ‘be’
    She had so many qualities but always the OCD and ROCD overrides all else
    Thank you for your wisdom and candour Professor - nobody says it like you do.

  • @ceciliacoulombe-judkins2311
    @ceciliacoulombe-judkins2311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing your experience and knowledge

  • @Zerflef
    @Zerflef ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m so ROCD that I have acquired a ‘phd level’ of understanding of personality disorders just to understand my ex and finally figure out I have ROCD. 😂

  • @nafissforghani3866
    @nafissforghani3866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you, another great video. so informative .

  • @tatianaponomareva7016
    @tatianaponomareva7016 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you

  • @doveoflove8582
    @doveoflove8582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you.....the person i am with is not the right one....and you have made me realise that......onwards and upwards xx

  • @cameogutierrez3466
    @cameogutierrez3466 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @vildanb8038
    @vildanb8038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for the grate info !!!

  • @psychedelic-aesthetic
    @psychedelic-aesthetic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Profound. Thank you Sam 🖤

  • @RAralar
    @RAralar 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Honestly the people I never ROCD moments with. … were on the surface really difficult people. Why didn’t I have it with them … cause they got me. The ones I got debilitated with … deep down inside I knew we were mismatched

  • @indigosmyth7475
    @indigosmyth7475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You just described me

  • @bedadays1763
    @bedadays1763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can ROCD be started by a hurt from your gf that leads to retro jealousy?

  • @throughtheshadow9013
    @throughtheshadow9013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you this was very helpful

  • @donnasmith5400
    @donnasmith5400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hmm interesting... i wonder if i have this.
    My daughter says i have OCD.
    I know i have body dysmorphia. Anything on this professor?

  • @lizbethbustamante5273
    @lizbethbustamante5273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another symptom is watching this video more than once.

    • @jenemba_838.
      @jenemba_838. ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol I’m just using it to get rid of so much social media cult brainwashing

  • @L.Hodson
    @L.Hodson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Co dependents ?....