My favorite part is watching you navigate her bad behavior. A lot of people would dismiss bad behavior because of her autism. I LOVE that you don't. Her diagnosis is not an excuse to be fresh! Her progress is so beautiful to watch. ❤ You're both doing great! 🎉❤
The bomb combo! God is perfect in his plan. You were chosen for Miko. She is chosen for you. You are her guide and she also encourages your resolve, patience, and capacity of compassion to expand. Praying for your family. Faithful that she will be exactly who she was sent here to become.
What a great job in teaching her to politely return something she doesn't like instead of throwing it! Hugging was a beautiful way to end an important lesson. You're so patient and a wonderful mother.
I agree with you that Precious is a woman who has great strength and a whole lot of patience. The Creator Almighty God knew what He was doing before He placed Mikko in her womb. 🥰
Dear Precious: You are truly an awesome mother. You were so loving and clear as you taught Mikko to gently hand you the item back to you. ❤❤❤ in the end, Mikko did exactly what you needed her to do. Well done!!!
To all those saying don’t cut it, you are obviously not the ones who have to spend literally hours fighting sensory episodes, trauma, and tantrums. There was a moment when Mom herself was reduced to tears of frustration. If cutting it makes it easier for everyone in the household, then by all means cut it! We only see a very edited version of what takes place behind the scenes with washing and styling Mikko’s hair.
I know but Mikko loves her long hair. You can tell...she is proud of it and loves it After it's fixed, she just doesn't like the process. I don't really know a child who does though. Ive seen MANY little girls cry while mommy is doing their hair. I hope she can keep her long hair, it's so beautiful...but it is moms choice
I know her hair is fabulous, but... I could never keep my hair brushed as a kid (when it's even mid length, it tangles crazy fast, and I didn't have the proprioception to do it, and it hurt), and as an adult, I've always loved the freedom of short hair. There's joy in long hair, there's joy in short hair. It's hard for any child to balance those joys and those struggles, and it's one of the jobs of parents to help kids navigate those kinds of balances and choices, and guide them. 41 years old, and my hair's still my fave stim. The fact that it's that for Miko too doesn't necessarily mean that the current length is the best length (nor that it isn't; my point is, it's a judgement call best made within the family of people who know her best.
You have the patience of Job. I truly commend how you handle the difficult moments with understanding her needs and not your own frustration. Nikki is truly Blessed to have such Loving and Caring Mother. Continuous Prayers for you and Mikko for perseverance and endurance 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️
Lord have mercy!!! Sometimes we are so blessed and fortunate to have the right mom with the right child. You are doing a phenomenal job, and although your journey together can be fraught with challenges and difficulty, she is a blessing and so are you❤
You got this Mom, I don't know what your faith is/not , but God wouldn't have blessed you with this very SPECIAL , AWESOME, and AMAZING BABY if he knew that you couldn't BARE IT. GOD has your back ALWAYS, and you and your family will be just FINE✌️& ❤️ Always and God REMEMBER YOU GOT THIS
VICTORY! I am sooooo glad you found a product that will help shorten and ease washday for everyone! I was so happy to see you correct her behavior. Mikko wants to be good and wants to do well she just needs the continued encouragement, redirects and support. You handled the situation with perfection! VERY GREAT MOMMY!!!!!!❤❤❤ Just one little tiny thing, instead of telling her, “I know that was HARD…”. You can say, “ See how NICE AND EASY that was!” Keeping it positive. Mikko is tender headed and there is a little of pulling to detangle and this makes her not only experience pain but makes her anxious before you even start to brush. SECRET TO BRUSHING AND DETANGLING: First Grip the hair tight; start at the ends and work your way up. While gripping the hair tight you are not pulling the hair, you are just gripping the hair tightly so that while you are detangling with a Denman brush, she won’t feel the hair being pulled. Try to limit how many times you pull or stretch her hair. It was so very nice to see your BEAUTIFUL eldest daughter be included. Doing things with all of your children prevents the resentment they might have because one is getting more attention than the other. Your son is an amazing and smart helper!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
All of your kids are gorgeous. I love how they help. Nikko's hair looks fabulous, and it's so LONG! So pretty. You are to be commended for sticking with it and not just losing it altogether!
Awww.. she's adorable. Just some tips for any parent who has kids with special needs, when washing/brushing/cutting my children's hair with non-verbal Autism, I give them a tablet to watch their favorite TH-cam videos or a movie. It helps to distract them. Even with bath time which can be very stressful, I place a tablet on a low shelf or on the rim of the sink and put their favorite videos on.. bath toys that glow under water help too. Colorful changing lights or animated toys can do wonders. Also, unrelated to the video, if they are stressed while going to sleep... star projectors (realistic ones), water effect projectors, nature sound effects (ocean, rain), soft/dim sparkly fairy lights that leave a beautiful glow, and blacklight pictures on the wall (with blacklight) can help. Every child is different but it's worth a try.
Also, having sensory toys (I say this as a person with sensory processing disorder and neurodivergence) could really be a he,Prakash tool when it comes to Mikko’s ability to regulate her sensory system and her emotions.
Oh the tears from you, i felt that in my soul! 😥I go through this with my daughter who is 6 with autism. Its always a fight but just like you, we make it even with tears. You are definitely helping me through my journey and you are way more appreciated than you know! We love you and your family and have been watching you since the beginning! 😘
I have the RevAir. It is Wonderful. And Big Sis was a GREAT help...we saw how Mikko reacted to her presence. I LOVE that for y'all. You are doing AWESOME on Wash Day -Mikko has such healthy hair! Tip: Get an Unbrush. It makes detangling so much easier.
Thank you for sharing your experiences with Mikko. My daughter is also 4 and has autism and combing her hair is one of the most difficult tasks so I understand how you feel. Stay encouraged Precious.
You need to find out from a professional beautician what you can use. Plus you can braid her hair in small or medium braids. Bring all the braids up into a ponytail or two and call it a day. She has such beautiful hair. But Mom you are amazing. And I love your videos. Thanks for sharing your journey with us all always. Mikko is so pretty, and smart.God bless you and your family ❤
From the bottom of my heart I really wish your hard work will pay off or will be rewarded in the kindest way possible. You give your EVERYTHING EVERYDAY. Not just physically but emotionally…. Don’t give up! Be blessed 🙏🏽
Hey Precious and Mikko. I left a comment before not sure if you seen it. Please try wshing her hair already in about 8 sections of large twist... you can still get to the scalp and each strand and there will be less detangle time...Its also lets painful, I am extrememly tender headed I promise it works! You can wash here hair in the same way you ended her hair and using water and conditioner to finger throught each section under the water.
That’s how I did my kid with autism when she was younger and I still do my nieces who have a lot of hair the same way, great suggestion, maybe make her a video, I had to physically show some moms
Thank you so much for showing us your vulnerability. Showing us it’s okay to take breaks and it’s okay to also be overwhelmed by our children being overwhelmed. You’re doing so wonderful (I follow on IG). If you feel cutting her hair shorter would benefit you and her both, do it! You got this! 👏🏽
Oh, Presious, you are presious! You have more patience than anyone I know. That vacuum for her hair is so cool. Beautiful head of hair! A lot of work and time. You are such a wonderful and beautiful woman. Thanks for sharing your beautiful family ❤
I wanted to cry, just watching you and your eldest daughter, working together on Mikko's hair: SO emotionally empowering, and connective! my GOD, all the layers of this journey, the frustration, the attempts to hide long enough to wipe away YOUR tears, even as you soothe your childs.....I pray a movie is made of all that you are doing and going through, as inspiration to others, to hold on and be encouraged. 🙏🏽❤
Behavior/discipline is key, it helps you both, then love❤ and hugs. Along with your patience I can tell you’ve done your research. It shows. Be encouraged. Thank you for modeling the way.
Can we give her a doll with a lot of hair like her. She could wash and comb too.. maybe it will help too. I have a lot of hair and hate wash but I braid it wet. . I part, moisture, braid. I don’t care that’s it’s wet. I’m just trying to get it done . It can air dry
Dry detangling hurts. If you use water and conditioner or African Pride Aloe Vera prepoo, it will go a lot smoother and faster. The prepoo has helped me get though the tangles with half the time and effort.
Detangling with your fingers is the best. No need to brush or comb. I know someone who hasn’t combed/brush for over 10yrs and the hair is to her knee and very healthy
You're both amazing and I love seeing the growth in Mikko!! Do what's easiest for you. You're not just Mikkos' mom, but you have other children you have to be mom to. Your time is precious!! ❤
😮 surprised, I was on the fence, regular blow drying with all of their(my nieces) hair is starting to weigh on ME. But now I’m definitely going to purchase one, thank you for your input
10:21 I can’t be remembering this from an actual memory of mine, because I was is 3 years older than me- I must be remembering home videos I used to watch. But my sister is autistic and I remember that she used to make a happy sound just like this instead of talking. Growing up, she wasn’t any different from my two other siblings to me. And once we got older, all the help my parents got her really helped her with improving life/social skills she was lacking in, so once I was old enough to notice a difference in her, I still didn’t know she had autism (our parents tried to explain it to us but it only confused us because we saw her no different than us). So things like how she acted when she was younger have been a long forgotten memory, but you just brought this one up for me. I kind of want to say thank you, even though you didn’t do anything but post a video of your daughter lol. I just love and adore my sister and, because she functions so well in day-to-day life, most of the time I forget she’s autistic. But this is a reminder that I should check in with her more often and see where her thoughts are at. She doesn’t voice when she’s confused or doesn’t understand something because of past traumas so it helps for us to have heart to hearts so she has someone she can confide in. Happy new year to you and your family 💞
When she starts School - you will see a big change in her. You are a wonderful Mother and very loving and caring ❤️ --doing great. I'm a grandmother of a 7 year old with autism and speech delay, I understand how you feel continue being strong.
We dealt with the exact same thing; my grandson's hysterical crying on hair washing and braiding days were traumatic for the whole family. So heartbreaking!! So much fear that my grandson was afraid to even go in the pool or go to the river or beach. Cutting his hair, that when wet hung past his bottom, was the best decision his parents ever made. I am happy to report that at seven he finally learned to submerge his face and body into the pool and learned to swim; not perfectly but definitely a start. He is much happier and that is all that matters.
Dont feel unheard un noticed and un appreciated you are an Amazing mom and Mikko loves you beyond measure i know this as im autistic an i had alot miss understandings and battles with my mother as a child but we both loved each other unconditionally she unfortunately is no longer here and i miss her everyday but you are a great mother never forget that
I totally love this channel. I couldn't find it for awhile because I watched it last year, so glad my feed showed it to me again! You're an AWESOME mom! Thanks for your transparency ❤
Giiiiirl! That hair is so long and beautiful! I'm so glad you're her mom. I can't do hair worth nothing! That poor baby would have mangled mess messing with me! You have great patience.....great job!
Wow! Thanks for sharing! This level of patience is borne out of love for sure. Her hair is so gorgeous by the way and you do a great job. Maybe over time she will become a little more tolerant of having it done. Great job to you all.
I think you could do both. You don't have to cut it super duper short because she likes her hair and uses it to stim but you could shorten it to make wash and detangle easier. Keeping her hair in stretched styles will also make wash/detangle easier too. I don't know how much conditioner might affect your own sensory issues Precious but perhaps you could try using a really slipper conditioner on the ends so that her hair is simpler to detangle and then it's still mostly detangled after you wash it? I'm not sure if what I said made sense but wishing you all the best and I'm glad Mikko enjoyed her blown out hair.
You are a great mother. You are kind, patient. Gentle and careing, and I am sure very lovely. It ok something to feel cutting her hair at times. She is very smart and beautiful. Whatever you decide to do with her hair. I am sure it's going to look amazing. However, if you cut her hair, it will make hair days very easy for you and for her. She being comfortable is more important.
You are so patient, well done, it must be very hard and frustrating. I think I would be tempted to cut it maybe to chin length so Mikko can still play with it but it’s less for you to manage. It’s in beautiful condition by the look of it x ❤
This was one of the Greatest moments for Mikko an her Amazing Mom. Being so Patient Gentle,is definately helping Mikko overcome her anxiety an fears in having her hair washed an handled. I ❤ the when she understood when you explained how it was non acceptable,she said "hug" an it was obvious that Mikko responds to loving an reassurances that although she has difficulty in communicating ,she is gradually becoming more confident,as are you to Mommy.well done to you,Good Job. Your sharing of these moments is invaluable ,an so encouraging You are a wonderful Role Model an your beautiful Mikko is an Star Her big sis ,interacting was a joy to see,you can see the ❤❤❤ Bless you all
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR FAMILY!! I LOVE the fact her sister is in there with you and Mikko making it a girl thang. When I seen your daughter’s face light up with a smile I was done. It just warmed my heart. That dryer is the truth hunty 😂😂 ❤❤ May Yahuah continue to give you strength 😊
You are such a wonderful and patient mom!! I love how you handle your child and teach her the right things! I wish nothing but the best for you and your family!
Getting Locs was the best decision I ever made for my hair. I didn't recognize the issue I was having was sensory because I wasn't diagnosed until 40. I loc'd my hair a few years prior because I just couldn't deal with having to manipulate it. like Mikko, I have a lot of hair! I love the way you care for babygirl. You are the epitome of care, compassion and understanding. I hope you know that you're appreciated and you deserve the same in return. Keep up the fantastic work and being a great example.
You are an excellent mother. Very patient with your daughter. I know it’s hard but you show moms’ with autistic children the job is worth it and can be done. Bless you and your sweet daughter.
She is so adorable and I wouldn’t want to cut her hair either. I think natural hair is more susceptible to getting tangled when it’s loose. As cute as her curly loose pigtails are maybe just stick to braiding or twisting them. This could help with a midweek refresh or on wash day because it won’t be so tangled. Do you use a leave in conditioner in her hair? Perhaps applying the leave in or moisturizer while her hair is still wet wet, detangle and put her hair in 5-6 chunky twist immediately before you use the Revair. My 6 year old daughter was tender headed and had the nerve to have thick waist length hair. I learned to not allow her hair to air dry after washing at all. The detangling and chunky twist happened at the sink 😂 Then I let that product marinate for 15 minutes before styling.
I love her hair and her sweet baby vibe. I love her mother for how she handled her bad behavior. If you trim everytime it gets knotted and tangled you will never have a tangle tantrum with hair or person. This is not only for her beautiful hair but everyone who wants to get rid of the "tenderheadedness" that they feel. THICK HAIR HURTS! Im still watching but you will love your revair completely. I do. I threw out all my other dryers. I know those moments hurt mama, and i know you want to cry, but it will get better. I was not allowed these moments. Move it around a little bit. She will love the heated massage, i think. ❤❤❤❤ Give her a hug for me, and here is a big mama hug for you. 🥰🫂🫂🫂💗
I have a non verbal grandson your videos have taught me so much thank you so much! I’m a mom of a physically challenged daughter who is an adult now.. my heart goes out to you and your patience god bless you.. my daughter has the ability to communicate.. my grandson doesn’t and I don’t know how to handle it sometimes but your videos have helped me so much to help him as well.. although he doesn’t live with me and mom is a non compliant parent with your videos I have been able to learn so that I can help him thank you
Dear Precious, Your Gentle Demeanor has helped me tremendously manage a group of after-school children. I am teaching them activities that that stress making ”virtuous “ decisions / choices. A few of the children I disliked so much, I had to pray hard that God help me love these ill -mannered, obnoxious little people. Then I had an epiphany. I thought, “What if how I love these little ones depends on me getting to heaven?” I was determined to act like you Precious. I refused to get angry (outwardly nor inwardly). It was better! I think I can make it!
Thank you Precious for making this video. Mikko sure wants to please you. She responds so well. It is very obvious that Mikko and Makenzie have a special relationship that has a foundation of love. Matthew wants to be involved too but will back out of the way if it gets too busy. You have an amazing family full of love. You have done a wonderful job as their mother. It can't be easy. Mikko's hair is so beautiful. I hope that you can continue to use that machine that you were using and keep her hair long for as long as possible. You should try using AI to generate a photo of Mikko with different hair lengths and styles. She'll look adorable in many different cuts and lengths. You are all amazing. Thank you for creating your channel. I watch every video.
My daughter put tiny dreads in her and her daughter’s hair. Because of sensory issues. Maintenance is less frequent. And styling is not as overwhelming. And they both look cute.
I love how much she at least wants to try and enjoy the process of doing her hair because she does like her hair and that's awesome! Sensory can just be sooo frustrating for both parties, but it's so cool to see the new products coming out that make the process easier in some ways!
Coming here always makes me emotional! I love you Mikko. ♥️🥰🥰 I love you too, Precious. I became teary when you got tired, yet kept on with patience and tenderness. I'm learning a lot from you, I'm not even close to been a mother but one day! 😁😁
I feel for you Sis. My son is almost 8 and even as he insists that he wants his hair, he is terrible about me combing it. And he has "good" hair but it's a lot of work. I can't imagine trying to make her sit still when she may not even understand or care why. Edited to add: I personally think hair is not a hill to rest on. If she wants it cut or doesn't want you to comb it, there's no shame in honoring the limitations she's expressing. She has a head full of beautiful hair that she's simply not able to tolerate caring for. If you could do a short curl type style, her hair looks like it could have a natural curl pattern to it, you'd both shed fewer tears.
Mikko needs a break, yes. Good call. But you deserved one too, Mom! 8:00 patience from you and Kenzie then 10:11 intro from Mikko herself - my favorite parts!! Thank you for hanging in there with all the crazy comments to keep showing us how our internet niece is growing. We are so proud of her (you, Chris, and the twins). Developmental milestones happen because of support!
I haven’t been here in a while but my daughter has a lot of hair and is the same way. As a licensed cosmetologist and mom of an autistic daughter you’re doing a great job. I would suggest getting clips to section the hair off, that makes it easier. Oan I’ve never blowed dried my baby hair but I’m planning on doing it soon. I love how you said take a break if needed. I’ve done that often but last night I tackled it all at once, between shampooing, detangling and styling right at 2 hours. You got this mom. ❤
Such an awesome way of teaching her bad behavior is not acceptable! She is an awesome child! Love to see your other daughter interacting with you guys as well! Hair is beautiful, you have this momma! 😍 ❤❤❤❤
This is very hard work…very hard. You are to be commended. She seems to be growing in her ability to communicate and to understand. Amazing watching her grow and you for putting in the effort. I look forward to her development.
Patience is necessary. Keep on loving that beautiful baby. God will not put more on us than we can bear. You Are built for this. Prayers and blessings on you and your family. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am just always amazed and in awe of precious she is the epitome of Patience and understanding Also realizing when her daughter is 100% understanding what she's saying and making sure that she understands that she must do the right thing.. this is going to make school so much easier
I'm definitely sold on the Rev Air! Gonna get me one for the tender headed one in my family which is me! 😅 God bless you Mom for your love and patience. She may benefit from more distraction toys or devices while you do her hair.
I have a son who will be 5 in December.. and I felt this video sooooo much . He is definitely not as calm as she is . She will put up a fight the whole time.. and it's sooooo frustrating and does make you wanna cry.. and just give up . But we can't..I understand Mama ❤.. you're doing great 👍🏾
Hello! Just a friendly suggestion from a mother of a daughter with thick, long hair. Before washing, finger detangle/comb hair, separate into several sections (6-8) and braid only the ends or halfway up the length of the hair to keep detangled while washing. Elastic bands on the end works too. The hair is separated and ready to be blow dried. The hair should be loose enough at the scalp to give a good scrub. Also, you can blowdry while braided. You know what's best for you and your little one. Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us! ❤
Sending you love, my daughter also has scalp sensitivity. It’s so hard to deal with. I don’t want to hurt her and make her cry but if I don’t brush it the matts are outrageous. I bought a tangle tease brush for curly hair. It’s purple and helps A LOT! That machine looks amazing! You are such a great mother ❤❤❤
Love the stern discipline. Her crying is a sign it got to her heart indeed.
Yes, I believe that is true
Not necessarily...
My favorite part is watching you navigate her bad behavior. A lot of people would dismiss bad behavior because of her autism. I LOVE that you don't. Her diagnosis is not an excuse to be fresh! Her progress is so beautiful to watch. ❤ You're both doing great! 🎉❤
So wonderfully stated
The bomb combo! God is perfect in his plan. You were chosen for Miko. She is chosen for you. You are her guide and she also encourages your resolve, patience, and capacity of compassion to expand.
Praying for your family. Faithful that she will be exactly who she was sent here to become.
Agreed@@rareflower72
It's not actually bad behaviour, she's just a kid being a kid
But I understand your point
Agreed. Saying bad behavior isnt appropriate in my opinion. @@Only1Sosa.
What a great job in teaching her to politely return something she doesn't like instead of throwing it! Hugging was a beautiful way to end an important lesson. You're so patient and a wonderful mother.
I agree with you that Precious is a woman who has great strength and a whole lot of patience. The Creator Almighty God knew what He was doing before He placed Mikko in her womb. 🥰
@@gaylahall2880For sure.❤❤❤
Dear Precious: You are truly an awesome mother. You were so loving and clear as you taught Mikko to gently hand you the item back to you. ❤❤❤ in the end, Mikko did exactly what you needed her to do. Well done!!!
@@laureenejackson1441 indeed she is❤️
@@kr5690 Thank you. God bless you.
Mikko mom deserves the Greatest Mother of the Year award. 🥇
Period
@@carebears4295 I Totally agree!!
@@carebears4295 Mikko is so blessed! Her mom was meant for her!
I agree she make Mothering Autism look easy some days.
Great job mom
To all those saying don’t cut it, you are obviously not the ones who have to spend literally hours fighting sensory episodes, trauma, and tantrums. There was a moment when Mom herself was reduced to tears of frustration. If cutting it makes it easier for everyone in the household, then by all means cut it! We only see a very edited version of what takes place behind the scenes with washing and styling Mikko’s hair.
Agreed!!!!
Totally! It'll grow back in no time anyways!!!!
I know but Mikko loves her long hair. You can tell...she is proud of it and loves it After it's fixed, she just doesn't like the process. I don't really know a child who does though. Ive seen MANY little girls cry while mommy is doing their hair. I hope she can keep her long hair, it's so beautiful...but it is moms choice
I know her hair is fabulous, but... I could never keep my hair brushed as a kid (when it's even mid length, it tangles crazy fast, and I didn't have the proprioception to do it, and it hurt), and as an adult, I've always loved the freedom of short hair.
There's joy in long hair, there's joy in short hair. It's hard for any child to balance those joys and those struggles, and it's one of the jobs of parents to help kids navigate those kinds of balances and choices, and guide them.
41 years old, and my hair's still my fave stim. The fact that it's that for Miko too doesn't necessarily mean that the current length is the best length (nor that it isn't; my point is, it's a judgement call best made within the family of people who know her best.
Well then she should only cut it 3 inches
Beautiful job on Mikko's gorgeous hair. I think Mikko's enjoys her big sister helping out. Great job!!!
You have the patience of Job. I truly commend how you handle the difficult moments with understanding her needs and not your own frustration. Nikki is truly Blessed to have such Loving and Caring Mother. Continuous Prayers for you and Mikko for perseverance and endurance 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️
Lord have mercy!!! Sometimes we are so blessed and fortunate to have the right mom with the right child. You are doing a phenomenal job, and although your journey together can be fraught with challenges and difficulty, she is a blessing and so are you❤
You got this Mom, I don't know what your faith is/not , but God wouldn't have blessed you with this very SPECIAL , AWESOME, and AMAZING BABY if he knew that you couldn't BARE IT. GOD has your back ALWAYS, and you and your family will be just FINE✌️& ❤️ Always and God REMEMBER YOU GOT THIS
I love seeing her growth! Great job Mom!
VICTORY! I am sooooo glad you found a product that will help shorten and ease washday for everyone! I was so happy to see you correct her behavior. Mikko wants to be good and wants to do well she just needs the continued encouragement, redirects and support. You handled the situation with perfection! VERY GREAT MOMMY!!!!!!❤❤❤ Just one little tiny thing, instead of telling her, “I know that was HARD…”. You can say, “ See how NICE AND EASY that was!” Keeping it positive. Mikko is tender headed and there is a little of pulling to detangle and this makes her not only experience pain but makes her anxious before you even start to brush. SECRET TO BRUSHING AND DETANGLING: First Grip the hair tight; start at the ends and work your way up. While gripping the hair tight you are not pulling the hair, you are just gripping the hair tightly so that while you are detangling with a Denman brush, she won’t feel the hair being pulled. Try to limit how many times you pull or stretch her hair. It was so very nice to see your BEAUTIFUL eldest daughter be included. Doing things with all of your children prevents the resentment they might have because one is getting more attention than the other. Your son is an amazing and smart helper!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
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All of your kids are gorgeous. I love how they help. Nikko's hair looks fabulous, and it's so LONG! So pretty. You are to be commended for sticking with it and not just losing it altogether!
Your emotion was felt… beautiful consistent , gentle , strong.
Awww.. she's adorable. Just some tips for any parent who has kids with special needs, when washing/brushing/cutting my children's hair with non-verbal Autism, I give them a tablet to watch their favorite TH-cam videos or a movie. It helps to distract them. Even with bath time which can be very stressful, I place a tablet on a low shelf or on the rim of the sink and put their favorite videos on.. bath toys that glow under water help too. Colorful changing lights or animated toys can do wonders. Also, unrelated to the video, if they are stressed while going to sleep... star projectors (realistic ones), water effect projectors, nature sound effects (ocean, rain), soft/dim sparkly fairy lights that leave a beautiful glow, and blacklight pictures on the wall (with blacklight) can help. Every child is different but it's worth a try.
We do this for my granddaughter. I hope Miko's mom tries this. We use it at night to calm her for bedtime.
Also, having sensory toys (I say this as a person with sensory processing disorder and neurodivergence) could really be a he,Prakash tool when it comes to Mikko’s ability to regulate her sensory system and her emotions.
Oh the tears from you, i felt that in my soul! 😥I go through this with my daughter who is 6 with autism. Its always a fight but just like you, we make it even with tears. You are definitely helping me through my journey and you are way more appreciated than you know! We love you and your family and have been watching you since the beginning! 😘
You are doing an excellent job Mom, I know you get tired. Sending you a great big virtual hug 🫂 from me to you. Keep shining.
I have the RevAir. It is Wonderful.
And Big Sis was a GREAT help...we saw how Mikko reacted to her presence. I LOVE that for y'all. You are doing AWESOME on Wash Day -Mikko has such healthy hair! Tip: Get an Unbrush. It makes detangling so much easier.
Miko, your braids look beautiful. It was so nice the way she responded to big sister helping ❤
Thank you for sharing your experiences with Mikko. My daughter is also 4 and has autism and combing her hair is one of the most difficult tasks so I understand how you feel. Stay encouraged Precious.
You need to find out from a professional beautician what you can use. Plus you can braid her hair in small or medium braids. Bring all the braids up into a ponytail or two and call it a day. She has such beautiful hair. But Mom you are amazing. And I love your videos. Thanks for sharing your journey with us all always. Mikko is so pretty, and smart.God bless you and your family ❤
Hi @@ermmabutler2224 you replied to my comment versus the video in error 😊
From the bottom of my heart I really wish your hard work will pay off or will be rewarded in the kindest way possible. You give your EVERYTHING EVERYDAY. Not just physically but emotionally…. Don’t give up! Be blessed 🙏🏽
Amen. I agree❤
Love you for sharing. Mikko and all that beautiful hair! I can really see her growth. Great job family.
Hey Precious and Mikko. I left a comment before not sure if you seen it. Please try wshing her hair already in about 8 sections of large twist... you can still get to the scalp and each strand and there will be less detangle time...Its also lets painful, I am extrememly tender headed I promise it works! You can wash here hair in the same way you ended her hair and using water and conditioner to finger throught each section under the water.
Agreed! This absolutely works.
Brilliant ❤
And trimming every 6 weeks also helps big time
@@Deeny2388that’s surely going to make it grow even more!!😮
That’s how I did my kid with autism when she was younger and I still do my nieces who have a lot of hair the same way, great suggestion, maybe make her a video, I had to physically show some moms
Her hair is beautiful. Mrs. Precious you're doing a great job
Thank you so much for showing us your vulnerability. Showing us it’s okay to take breaks and it’s okay to also be overwhelmed by our children being overwhelmed. You’re doing so wonderful (I follow on IG). If you feel cutting her hair shorter would benefit you and her both, do it! You got this! 👏🏽
Oh, Presious, you are presious! You have more patience than anyone I know. That vacuum for her hair is so cool. Beautiful head of hair! A lot of work and time. You are such a wonderful and beautiful woman. Thanks for sharing your beautiful family ❤
Precious*
😂@@Doggie-125
I wanted to cry, just watching you and your eldest daughter, working together on Mikko's hair: SO emotionally empowering, and connective! my GOD, all the layers of this journey, the frustration, the attempts to hide long enough to wipe away YOUR tears, even as you soothe your childs.....I pray a movie is made of all that you are doing and going through, as inspiration to others, to hold on and be encouraged. 🙏🏽❤
The braids are beautiful just like Mikko. Mom you are so precious ❤️❤️
You are amazing!
Thank you for reminding us all, we need to take breaks when dealing with our children. It helps us both.
She has so much beautiful hair!! I really admire your calmness and patience.
Behavior/discipline is key, it helps you both, then love❤ and hugs. Along with your patience I can tell you’ve done your research. It shows. Be encouraged. Thank you for modeling the way.
You’re a great mother. Everything will fall into place. Keep doing what you doing.❤
Can we give her a doll with a lot of hair like her. She could wash and comb too.. maybe it will help too.
I have a lot of hair and hate wash but I braid it wet. . I part, moisture, braid. I don’t care that’s it’s wet. I’m just trying to get it done . It can air dry
That sounds like a great idea
Right, or put some cartoons on for Mikko to watch. Give her a snack or something to distract her. That old school stuff worked for a reason.
That is a good idea!!!❤😊
Dry detangling hurts. If you use water and conditioner or African Pride Aloe Vera prepoo, it will go a lot smoother and faster. The prepoo has helped me get though the tangles with half the time and effort.
I loved the sibling support in this video. Thank you for sharing this review of the product. ❤
Detangling with your fingers is the best. No need to brush or comb. I know someone who hasn’t combed/brush for over 10yrs and the hair is to her knee and very healthy
You're both amazing and I love seeing the growth in Mikko!! Do what's easiest for you. You're not just Mikkos' mom, but you have other children you have to be mom to. Your time is precious!! ❤
Yes the Revair is an excellent dryer tool, especially on children. I use it on all my younger clients❤
😮 surprised, I was on the fence, regular blow drying with all of their(my nieces) hair is starting to weigh on ME. But now I’m definitely going to purchase one, thank you for your input
10:21 I can’t be remembering this from an actual memory of mine, because I was is 3 years older than me- I must be remembering home videos I used to watch. But my sister is autistic and I remember that she used to make a happy sound just like this instead of talking.
Growing up, she wasn’t any different from my two other siblings to me. And once we got older, all the help my parents got her really helped her with improving life/social skills she was lacking in, so once I was old enough to notice a difference in her, I still didn’t know she had autism (our parents tried to explain it to us but it only confused us because we saw her no different than us).
So things like how she acted when she was younger have been a long forgotten memory, but you just brought this one up for me. I kind of want to say thank you, even though you didn’t do anything but post a video of your daughter lol. I just love and adore my sister and, because she functions so well in day-to-day life, most of the time I forget she’s autistic. But this is a reminder that I should check in with her more often and see where her thoughts are at. She doesn’t voice when she’s confused or doesn’t understand something because of past traumas so it helps for us to have heart to hearts so she has someone she can confide in.
Happy new year to you and your family 💞
When she starts School - you will see a big change in her.
You are a wonderful Mother and very loving and caring ❤️ --doing great.
I'm a grandmother of a 7 year old with autism and speech delay, I understand how you feel continue being strong.
We dealt with the exact same thing; my grandson's hysterical crying on hair washing and braiding days were traumatic for the whole family. So heartbreaking!! So much fear that my grandson was afraid to even go in the pool or go to the river or beach. Cutting his hair, that when wet hung past his bottom, was the best decision his parents ever made. I am happy to report that at seven he finally learned to submerge his face and body into the pool and learned to swim; not perfectly but definitely a start. He is much happier and that is all that matters.
I love how she just folds into you when it's time for hugs 🥰
She is doing great and so are you Mum, don't ever forget that ❤
You did such a good job! I'm currently going through this with my 3yo daughter! Kudos and much love!🙏🏾❤️
That was excellent they way you handled the situation.
Dont feel unheard un noticed and un appreciated you are an Amazing mom and Mikko loves you beyond measure i know this as im autistic an i had alot miss understandings and battles with my mother as a child but we both loved each other unconditionally she unfortunately is no longer here and i miss her everyday but you are a great mother never forget that
I love your videos. You are the most patient person I've ever seen.
Looks like the RevAir is a big time saver and Mikko appears to enjoy the soothing sounds of the dryer ❤😊
5:00 you are so strong and even in this moment with tears falling down from your face 😭 you are still strong. We are with you mommy. 🌺🌺🌺
You are definitely a great mother, very patient, loving, God be with you and may God bless your child
You are a great mom!!!!
I have a RevAir and it has been a game changer for me and my time wash/dry day. Great for you and Mikko
I totally love this channel. I couldn't find it for awhile because I watched it last year, so glad my feed showed it to me again! You're an AWESOME mom! Thanks for your transparency ❤
Giiiiirl! That hair is so long and beautiful! I'm so glad you're her mom. I can't do hair worth nothing! That poor baby would have mangled mess messing with me! You have great patience.....great job!
Wow! Thanks for sharing! This level of patience is borne out of love for sure. Her hair is so gorgeous by the way and you do a great job. Maybe over time she will become a little more tolerant of having it done. Great job to you all.
I think you could do both. You don't have to cut it super duper short because she likes her hair and uses it to stim but you could shorten it to make wash and detangle easier. Keeping her hair in stretched styles will also make wash/detangle easier too. I don't know how much conditioner might affect your own sensory issues Precious but perhaps you could try using a really slipper conditioner on the ends so that her hair is simpler to detangle and then it's still mostly detangled after you wash it? I'm not sure if what I said made sense but wishing you all the best and I'm glad Mikko enjoyed her blown out hair.
The control you have over your own emotions is so inspiring 💕🎃
You are a great mother. You are kind, patient. Gentle and careing, and I am sure very lovely. It ok something to feel cutting her hair at times. She is very smart and beautiful. Whatever you decide to do with her hair. I am sure it's going to look amazing. However, if you cut her hair, it will make hair days very easy for you and for her. She being comfortable is more important.
You are such a good mother.
God bless you!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hair grows back!
Idk how you have managed this far!
God bless ❤
Tellement contente de voir Mikko interagir avec sa grande sœur. Nous sommes fiers de toi Mikko, continue comme ça !
You are so patient, well done, it must be very hard and frustrating. I think I would be tempted to cut it maybe to chin length so Mikko can still play with it but it’s less for you to manage. It’s in beautiful condition by the look of it x ❤
Great parenting by Precious. Go Precious go.❤❤❤❤. Sweet mum and daughter❤❤❤
This was one of the Greatest moments for Mikko an her Amazing Mom.
Being so Patient Gentle,is definately helping Mikko overcome her anxiety an fears in having her hair washed an handled.
I ❤ the when she understood when you explained how it was non acceptable,she said "hug" an it was obvious that Mikko responds to loving an reassurances that although she has difficulty in communicating ,she is gradually becoming more confident,as are you to Mommy.well done to you,Good Job.
Your sharing of these moments is invaluable ,an so encouraging
You are a wonderful Role Model an your beautiful Mikko is an Star
Her big sis ,interacting was a joy to see,you can see the ❤❤❤
Bless you all
The patience you have is incredible! I love it! Thank you for sharing your family😊
Amen🙏 There's So Much Understanding and Patience Within Tthis Beautiful Family ❤❤❤
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR FAMILY!!
I LOVE the fact her sister is in there with you and Mikko making it a girl thang. When I seen your daughter’s face light up with a smile I was done. It just warmed my heart.
That dryer is the truth hunty 😂😂 ❤❤
May Yahuah continue to give you strength 😊
You are a great mom and you are doing an excellent job. Watching you shows me the patience i lack. I’m praying for you and your beautiful family. 😢😊
WHEWWWW u gotta lot of patience bless you 🙏🏽
You ain't lying
You are such a wonderful and patient mom!! I love how you handle your child and teach her the right things! I wish nothing but the best for you and your family!
It's so hard I know Mama. So proud of you. And yay Mikko you did it big girl
Getting Locs was the best decision I ever made for my hair. I didn't recognize the issue I was having was sensory because I wasn't diagnosed until 40. I loc'd my hair a few years prior because I just couldn't deal with having to manipulate it. like Mikko, I have a lot of hair! I love the way you care for babygirl. You are the epitome of care, compassion and understanding. I hope you know that you're appreciated and you deserve the same in return. Keep up the fantastic work and being a great example.
You are an excellent mother. Very patient with your daughter. I know it’s hard but you show moms’ with autistic children the job is worth it and can be done. Bless you and your sweet daughter.
She is so adorable and I wouldn’t want to cut her hair either. I think natural hair is more susceptible to getting tangled when it’s loose. As cute as her curly loose pigtails are maybe just stick to braiding or twisting them. This could help with a midweek refresh or on wash day because it won’t be so tangled. Do you use a leave in conditioner in her hair? Perhaps applying the leave in or moisturizer while her hair is still wet wet, detangle and put her hair in 5-6 chunky twist immediately before you use the Revair. My 6 year old daughter was tender headed and had the nerve to have thick waist length hair. I learned to not allow her hair to air dry after washing at all. The detangling and chunky twist happened at the sink 😂 Then I let that product marinate for 15 minutes before styling.
I love her hair and her sweet baby vibe. I love her mother for how she handled her bad behavior. If you trim everytime it gets knotted and tangled you will never have a tangle tantrum with hair or person. This is not only for her beautiful hair but everyone who wants to get rid of the "tenderheadedness" that they feel. THICK HAIR HURTS!
Im still watching but you will love your revair completely. I do. I threw out all my other dryers. I know those moments hurt mama, and i know you want to cry, but it will get better. I was not allowed these moments. Move it around a little bit. She will love the heated massage, i think. ❤❤❤❤
Give her a hug for me, and here is a big mama hug for you. 🥰🫂🫂🫂💗
I have a non verbal grandson your videos have taught me so much thank you so much! I’m a mom of a physically challenged daughter who is an adult now.. my heart goes out to you and your patience god bless you.. my daughter has the ability to communicate.. my grandson doesn’t and I don’t know how to handle it sometimes but your videos have helped me so much to help him as well.. although he doesn’t live with me and mom is a non compliant parent with your videos I have been able to learn so that I can help him thank you
Dear Precious,
Your Gentle Demeanor has helped me tremendously manage a group of after-school children. I am teaching them activities that that stress making ”virtuous “ decisions / choices.
A few of the children I disliked so much, I had to pray hard that God help me love these ill -mannered, obnoxious little people. Then
I had an epiphany. I thought, “What if how I love these little ones depends on me getting to heaven?”
I was determined to act like you Precious. I refused to get angry (outwardly nor inwardly). It was better! I think I can make it!
Thank you Precious for making this video. Mikko sure wants to please you. She responds so well. It is very obvious that Mikko and Makenzie have a special relationship that has a foundation of love. Matthew wants to be involved too but will back out of the way if it gets too busy. You have an amazing family full of love. You have done a wonderful job as their mother. It can't be easy. Mikko's hair is so beautiful. I hope that you can continue to use that machine that you were using and keep her hair long for as long as possible. You should try using AI to generate a photo of Mikko with different hair lengths and styles. She'll look adorable in many different cuts and lengths. You are all amazing. Thank you for creating your channel. I watch every video.
My daughter put tiny dreads in her and her daughter’s hair. Because of sensory issues. Maintenance is less frequent. And styling is not as overwhelming. And they both look cute.
I love how much she at least wants to try and enjoy the process of doing her hair because she does like her hair and that's awesome! Sensory can just be sooo frustrating for both parties, but it's so cool to see the new products coming out that make the process easier in some ways!
Type parenting is absolutely amazing! ❤
Coming here always makes me emotional! I love you Mikko. ♥️🥰🥰
I love you too, Precious.
I became teary when you got tired, yet kept on with patience and tenderness.
I'm learning a lot from you, I'm not even close to been a mother but one day! 😁😁
I feel for you Sis. My son is almost 8 and even as he insists that he wants his hair, he is terrible about me combing it. And he has "good" hair but it's a lot of work. I can't imagine trying to make her sit still when she may not even understand or care why.
Edited to add: I personally think hair is not a hill to rest on. If she wants it cut or doesn't want you to comb it, there's no shame in honoring the limitations she's expressing. She has a head full of beautiful hair that she's simply not able to tolerate caring for. If you could do a short curl type style, her hair looks like it could have a natural curl pattern to it, you'd both shed fewer tears.
What is good hair?
YES
Mikko needs a break, yes. Good call. But you deserved one too, Mom!
8:00 patience from you and Kenzie then 10:11 intro from Mikko herself - my favorite parts!! Thank you for hanging in there with all the crazy comments to keep showing us how our internet niece is growing. We are so proud of her (you, Chris, and the twins). Developmental milestones happen because of support!
Great patience Mommy! Yes getting some hair styles for Miss Mikko...I can't wait to see them❤.
I haven’t been here in a while but my daughter has a lot of hair and is the same way. As a licensed cosmetologist and mom of an autistic daughter you’re doing a great job. I would suggest getting clips to section the hair off, that makes it easier. Oan I’ve never blowed dried my baby hair but I’m planning on doing it soon. I love how you said take a break if needed. I’ve done that often but last night I tackled it all at once, between shampooing, detangling and styling right at 2 hours. You got this mom. ❤
Such an awesome way of teaching her bad behavior is not acceptable! She is an awesome child! Love to see your other daughter interacting with you guys as well! Hair is beautiful, you have this momma! 😍 ❤❤❤❤
Parenting is hard work!!! Real hardwork. She is more than a mom!! I wish I had this form of parenting.
It's so wonderful to see your oldest daughter. She's beautiful growing nicely and she's your Twin💞
Wow! You did amazing and was so patient and affirming and set boundaries. Way to go mom!
This made me cryyyyy it was so beautiful to see how you and kenzie work with Mikko ❤
This is very hard work…very hard. You are to be commended. She seems to be growing in her ability to communicate and to understand. Amazing watching her grow and you for putting in the effort. I look forward to her development.
Patience is necessary. Keep on loving that beautiful baby. God will not put more on us than we can bear. You Are built for this. Prayers and blessings on you and your family. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am just always amazed and in awe of precious she is the epitome of Patience and understanding Also realizing when her daughter is 100% understanding what she's saying and making sure that she understands that she must do the right thing.. this is going to make school so much easier
Such a incredible mom and beautiful daughter!
Precious you are a phenomenal mother . I know it’s hard but your patience with Mikko is amazing…great idea with new blow dryer.
I love that you hold her accountable. The love and respect is awesome.
I'm definitely sold on the Rev Air! Gonna get me one for the tender headed one in my family which is me! 😅 God bless you Mom for your love and patience. She may benefit from more distraction toys or devices while you do her hair.
I have a son who will be 5 in December.. and I felt this video sooooo much . He is definitely not as calm as she is . She will put up a fight the whole time.. and it's sooooo frustrating and does make you wanna cry.. and just give up . But we can't..I understand Mama ❤.. you're doing great 👍🏾
Hello! Just a friendly suggestion from a mother of a daughter with thick, long hair. Before washing, finger detangle/comb hair, separate into several sections (6-8) and braid only the ends or halfway up the length of the hair to keep detangled while washing. Elastic bands on the end works too. The hair is separated and ready to be blow dried. The hair should be loose enough at the scalp to give a good scrub. Also, you can blowdry while braided. You know what's best for you and your little one. Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us! ❤
Sending you love, my daughter also has scalp sensitivity. It’s so hard to deal with. I don’t want to hurt her and make her cry but if I don’t brush it the matts are outrageous. I bought a tangle tease brush for curly hair. It’s purple and helps A LOT! That machine looks amazing! You are such a great mother ❤❤❤