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I don't understand these family members who protect these predators. They would put all the blame on the victim even if she or he is a child. Those church people are the worst.
He told you to hint what he wanted from you, and convey it's so easy a "child "can do it. He was trying to get action from you, I'm guessing. What a world we live in.
Thank you for speaking the truth. It's much more common than people realize. I was aware of 3 male relatives (Grandfather, uncle and cousin) engaging in predatory behavior, but it was kept secret and they were protected.
My mother taught me back in the 60s don't let a man define who you are, and learn to do things for yourself. That's why at 77 I am gutting, and redoing my own kitchen by myself. I respect your honesty.
I’ve learned that some men share information just to gauge your reaction to see how far they can go with you. I always say that secrets and lies are the making of generational curses.
This subject brought tears,rage disgust to me. And I thank U for doing so. But we must confront the offending group. If things are going to ever change we have to be the ones that cause the change. 😢😢😢❤❤❤
That’s an idea I had to come to terms with. We are hated. I have 3 brothers and none had my back and couldn’t stand my voice I was SA at the age of 4 and also by my own father I can’t say I’ve had a good relationship with a man I ultimately have gone no contact with anyone that don’t respect me. Includes all my brothers.
@ agreed but I’m most at peace alone. They want me engaged without any acknowledgement of behavior. They started treating my then teenage daughter that which is how I really saw what was happening. During my divorce they supported my ex husband who attends all family functions.
Good morning, How are you? My Daughter started me watching your posts and I'm so glad she did. Love the discussion. They are enlightening, powerful, compassionate and uniting. Thank you! Enjoy your coffee my Sister! ❤
Thank you moderators for keeping the peace. This sadly happens so often, families coverup wrong doing or apply a guilt trip to keep the survivor quiet.
I am literally making it apart of my routine to come watch your videos because you say and speak so many truths that I have heard from the women in my own family, their no longer here but I just feel a little less alone now a days. I was surprised it was only that number, when you look at the content these men put out it makes since. Men of today have a deep seated hatred for women their own mother, wives, sisters, and even daughters. I’m literally scared to date a friend of my family her daughter was one of 5 women dismembered and found dead in the woods and a hotel room. I have never had something like that so close to me. It’s really not safe nowadays, I don’t leave my daughter with anyone.
Good morning family! Sister your topics are always deep, honest, and spot on. The fact we hear about the 70,000 are just the handful that haven't and will not be punished for their sick violations and they know it. We as women as my mother once said are sometimes hated by men from the cradle to the grave. Sometimes that grave is where they leave us with no regrets, shame, or care. That woman being raped over 12 years is so sickening and heart breaking. Imagine the diseases and body breakdowns and she had no clue as to why until later on. Listen all, I told on a predator and was met with silence and disbelief. All the wife said was it will never be the same. Really? She stayed married to this man for twenty or more years! What the hell? We women also need to stop gift wrapping and handing our children over to (sleep-over) men who we have in our house around our children all for the sake of having a man! Don't think for a moment that a man won't zero in on us because we have children in the hopes, they can defile them and not give a damn about you. Happens all of the time! Sorry for the long post, guess I had to vent!
All of this! I once tried to have a conversation with women about this. MOST men, the OVERWHELMING MAJORITY of men, are COMPLETELY INCAPABLE of nurturing another man's seed. A lot of them don't even nuture their own. You can't give them access to your kids like that. Well! Them guilty women were OFFENDED offended! One thing a woman ALWAYS needs to be HIGHLY SUSPICIOUS of, is a man that loves and is present for her kids...but not his own.🚩🚩🚩🚩
My grandmother said ain’t no what done in the house stays in the house when we were growing up because of the things she experienced when her mother died she was only 8 years old. I use to think she was over protective and they didn’t let me do and go a lot of places but as I grew she told me not just not to do something or I couldn’t but she ALWAYS GAVE ME THE WHY. She said it would save me from some horrible things and people and I was also told to do the same with my kids. The way this world is going and the things people are comfortable saying and doing is nothing compared probably for what’s to come but there is no secrets in my house and my daughter is to always tell me even her pediatrician tells her no secrets from your mom. We just have to keep communicating and having these conversations and we will hopefully get to the other side. I need another cup of coffee ☕️
This is so sad…As a first time mom, I can still remember my mother flatly tell me not to allow just anyone to watch my child. I grew up sheltered and pretty naive, so looking back, I appreciate that she told me that. I never forgot it
I am 59 and I have not met a woman who has not had an incident with a man. I have a lot of young people in my life and I always make sure to let them know they have body autonomy. If someone tells their kid they have to kiss or hug someone, I always speak up and say the child should choose who they wish to kiss or hug. Some people balk, but I am a CSA survivor. It was my friend’s teen brother and it started when I was 4 and lasted several years. I will always protect the children! PS - this is one of the reasons I dislike people forcing their kids to sit on Santa’s lap. Teaches them the wrong message.
I COMPLETELY agree! When I was a young mother, I read about this! About how we shouldn't force our children to show affection to people they don't want to. That we teach them they can't say no to an adult. That they don't have autonomy when we do this. So I NEVER did.
I saw it coming as soon as you relayed that he said you reminded him of his niece. I'm disgusted that he tried to put all responsibility on a nine-year-old child. How exactly would a child learn to do that unless you taught her, sir? What a POS. Thank you for broaching this subject matter, WG. It's covered up much too often.
I has 2 beautiful grown daughters and I told their husband's to be nice to my daughters and give the same love to them as it took to winn their 💕 and they won't here from me.
That was hard. I don't know one woman who hasn't experienced this. Still affects me to this day. Why I stay single since my mid-30s. I don't even want the chance to be around them at the start of a relationship to see 1/16th of an inch of a corner of a red flag.
@tangelaslayford3074 I've had to let go of girlfriends like that for my own peace of mind. I definitely get it. Like...just go be dysfunctional over there somewhere.
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I don't understand these family members who protect these predators. They would put all the blame on the victim even if she or he is a child. Those church people are the worst.
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Happened in my family recently. Family members sided with the guy who wasn’t even part of the family other than through marriage.
Whenever a woman tells the truth about the predatory nature of men, there will always be a man saying it's a lie. It's him...he's the predator!💯
He told you to hint what he wanted from you, and convey it's so easy a "child "can do it. He was trying to get action from you, I'm guessing. What a world we live in.
@lindakelley2676 In this case, we don't have to guess. I literally said it.
so true
Taking the innocence of a child is unforgivable!!!
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Absolutely we are not protecting these monsters
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Thank you for speaking the truth. It's much more common than people realize. I was aware of 3 male relatives (Grandfather, uncle and cousin) engaging in predatory behavior, but it was kept secret and they were protected.
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My mother taught me back in the 60s don't let a man define who you are, and learn to do things for yourself. That's why at 77 I am gutting, and redoing my own kitchen by myself. I respect your honesty.
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You go girl!! I'm proud of you!
@@essiew3205 Thank you
Thank you so much. You spoke to my soul. STOP PROTECTING THE PREDATORS. The act broke up the family not the telling. No truer words were ever spoken.
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I’ve learned that some men share information just to gauge your reaction to see how far they can go with you. I always say that secrets and lies are the making of generational curses.
So true! That's why I absolutely believe he went further than he said and why I told.
Thank you for the validation ❤. Hard subject but needs to be talked about.❤
You are so welcome❤️
Good evening. No matter the time I'm here for it!!❤
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This subject brought tears,rage disgust to me. And I thank U for doing so. But we must confront the offending group. If things are going to ever change we have to be the ones that cause the change. 😢😢😢❤❤❤
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My mother grew up in the south. She never allowed girls to be alone with men later I found my sister was a product of rape from a cousin.
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Tell On a Predator…you should trademark that.
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That’s an idea I had to come to terms with.
We are hated.
I have 3 brothers and none had my back and couldn’t stand my voice
I was SA at the age of 4 and also by my own father
I can’t say I’ve had a good relationship with a man
I ultimately have gone no contact with anyone that don’t respect me. Includes all my brothers.
I understand. We have to start holding bad men accountable, and I KNOW how hard and lonely that is.🫂
@ agreed but I’m most at peace alone. They want me engaged without any acknowledgement of behavior. They started treating my then teenage daughter that which is how I really saw what was happening.
During my divorce they supported my ex husband who attends all family functions.
Good morning,
How are you?
My Daughter started me watching your posts and I'm so glad she did.
Love the discussion. They are enlightening, powerful, compassionate and uniting.
Thank you!
Enjoy your coffee my Sister! ❤
Thank you so much!! I'm so glad she brought you over. ☕🌻
Thank you moderators for keeping the peace. This sadly happens so often, families coverup wrong doing or apply a guilt trip to keep the survivor quiet.
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I am literally making it apart of my routine to come watch your videos because you say and speak so many truths that I have heard from the women in my own family, their no longer here but I just feel a little less alone now a days. I was surprised it was only that number, when you look at the content these men put out it makes since. Men of today have a deep seated hatred for women their own mother, wives, sisters, and even daughters. I’m literally scared to date a friend of my family her daughter was one of 5 women dismembered and found dead in the woods and a hotel room. I have never had something like that so close to me. It’s really not safe nowadays, I don’t leave my daughter with anyone.
🌻I do not blame you!💔🫂
Engagemanget for the algorithm ❤
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Boundaries! Boundaries! There are lines in which we shouldn't cross! Who raised them? Your analyzation is heart felt.
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Good morning family! Sister your topics are always deep, honest, and spot on. The fact we hear about the 70,000 are just the handful that haven't and will not be punished for their sick violations and they know it. We as women as my mother once said are sometimes hated by men from the cradle to the grave. Sometimes that grave is where they leave us with no regrets, shame, or care. That woman being raped over 12 years is so sickening and heart breaking. Imagine the diseases and body breakdowns and she had no clue as to why until later on. Listen all, I told on a predator and was met with silence and disbelief. All the wife said was it will never be the same. Really? She stayed married to this man for twenty or more years! What the hell? We women also need to stop gift wrapping and handing our children over to (sleep-over) men who we have in our house around our children all for the sake of having a man! Don't think for a moment that a man won't zero in on us because we have children in the hopes, they can defile them and not give a damn about you. Happens all of the time! Sorry for the long post, guess I had to vent!
All of this! I once tried to have a conversation with women about this. MOST men, the OVERWHELMING MAJORITY of men, are COMPLETELY INCAPABLE of nurturing another man's seed. A lot of them don't even nuture their own. You can't give them access to your kids like that. Well! Them guilty women were OFFENDED offended! One thing a woman ALWAYS needs to be HIGHLY SUSPICIOUS of, is a man that loves and is present for her kids...but not his own.🚩🚩🚩🚩
My grandmother said ain’t no what done in the house stays in the house when we were growing up because of the things she experienced when her mother died she was only 8 years old. I use to think she was over protective and they didn’t let me do and go a lot of places but as I grew she told me not just not to do something or I couldn’t but she ALWAYS GAVE ME THE WHY. She said it would save me from some horrible things and people and I was also told to do the same with my kids. The way this world is going and the things people are comfortable saying and doing is nothing compared probably for what’s to come but there is no secrets in my house and my daughter is to always tell me even her pediatrician tells her no secrets from your mom. We just have to keep communicating and having these conversations and we will hopefully get to the other side. I need another cup of coffee ☕️
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This is so sad…As a first time mom, I can still remember my mother flatly tell me not to allow just anyone to watch my child. I grew up sheltered and pretty naive, so looking back, I appreciate that she told me that. I never forgot it
Always honor her by doing exactly that.🌻
"How far did it really go?" Yes!
I appreciate you. ❤
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Preach! It’s the act!
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Thank you for this❤
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You are a very appreciative person and I’m glad I came across your channel. I also love the work you do for our elders 🩵🩵🩵 You’re truly an 😇
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Good call. I wish people in government did the same thing...but na...we have them in office instead.
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I am 59 and I have not met a woman who has not had an incident with a man.
I have a lot of young people in my life and I always make sure to let them know they have body autonomy.
If someone tells their kid they have to kiss or hug someone, I always speak up and say the child should choose who they wish to kiss or hug. Some people balk, but I am a CSA survivor. It was my friend’s teen brother and it started when I was 4 and lasted several years. I will always protect the children!
PS - this is one of the reasons I dislike people forcing their kids to sit on Santa’s lap. Teaches them the wrong message.
I COMPLETELY agree! When I was a young mother, I read about this! About how we shouldn't force our children to show affection to people they don't want to. That we teach them they can't say no to an adult. That they don't have autonomy when we do this. So I NEVER did.
@ that is such a gift you gave to your kids.
I saw it coming as soon as you relayed that he said you reminded him of his niece. I'm disgusted that he tried to put all responsibility on a nine-year-old child. How exactly would a child learn to do that unless you taught her, sir? What a POS.
Thank you for broaching this subject matter, WG. It's covered up much too often.
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Brilliant and true. Thanks
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I has 2 beautiful grown daughters and I told their husband's to be nice to my daughters and give the same love to them as it took to winn their 💕 and they won't here from me.
That was hard. I don't know one woman who hasn't experienced this. Still affects me to this day. Why I stay single since my mid-30s. I don't even want the chance to be around them at the start of a relationship to see 1/16th of an inch of a corner of a red flag.
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Sis I'm definitely going through this now with a friend! I just stand back and say nothing because I gave the warning and no heed was taken🤷🏾♀️
It's exhausting, sis. I know. 💓
@WokeGardener Very exhausting 😴 I couldn't take even being around them both anymore 🤦🏾♀️ the outcome will be heartbreaking but I had to step back
@tangelaslayford3074 I've had to let go of girlfriends like that for my own peace of mind. I definitely get it. Like...just go be dysfunctional over there somewhere.
@@WokeGardener 💯💯💯
Appreciate a Sista helping me to not walk around being naive about men's mess. Yes, there are decent men here BUT
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Amen. First day back from my 3 day fast. Also changed name. Happy New Year Queen.
Happy new year!!🌻
Amen
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I’m shocked. I thought the type of deviant and evil behavior you described was rare. Thanks for opening my eyes.
No. It's not rare at all. Some monsters hide better than others.
Unfortunately, some of us would rather sleep with enemy. Sadly, this is very personal for me. As for myself, I’ll continue my journey alone.
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Doesn’t shock me at all.
Either...I see people clearly. Even when they're hiding well.
He did it on several occasions and that sister probably did nothing
Nah, it got real messy. I just don't know what the final outcome was, because by then I was already done. When I'm done, I change phone numbers.
Good morning! I am up early and about to get started. Thx for being there. I appreciate your time and discussion.
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