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Kami Mangsa Buli & How We Handled It feat. Hazeman Huzir
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 มี.ค. 2019
- Because of high request untuk discuss and mengupas topik ini - Hazeman and I have decided to do this unique episode specially for you guys. Hope semua akan enjoy video ini and do share your thoughts and experiences in the comment.
Sumpahh tengok haze n shalma cerita tiberr sebak. Saya salah sorang mangsa buli since primary school dan pegi secondary school kena pulau. Kisah masa sekolah rendah aku Tahun 1, ada geng ni datang ejek-ejek nama bapak, masa tu aku tengah breakfast wehhh dorg tumpah kan makanan aku. huhu sampai skrg aku teringat benda tu. The next day
tumpah kan milo aku plk. Aku hadap buli tu dari tahun 1-6. Alhamdullilah walaupun kena buli aku dpt keputusan cemerlang UPSR. Ada hikmah sebaliknya. Pergi Secondary school also kena buli. Di pulau panggil aku capang. mental weh. So Dip n Degree aku fobia untuk berkawan. Dannnnnnnn now alhamdullilah my life is better, aku dapat kerja company well known dpt bangga kan parents. Dannn nak tahuu ?? orang-orang yang tak kawan aku dlu tu DM tanya aku ada jawatan kosong tak. Nasihat saya kepada mangsa buli. Kita bangkit!!! jangan bilang nyawa askar peperangan belum selesai.
Hai,, saya pun one of mangsa buli mse skolah..
@@suckersdude bukti kan kpd mereka kita mampu berjaya. Good Luck & Semoga dimewahi rezeki awak.
@@orkedlaila721 amin, terima kasih,, but I've been bullied until now,, kt offis pun kne buli dgn engineer yg lebih muda dr sy,, u know what,, im crying right now,, and i dont know how to stop,, its hurt
I msa sek rendah dan menengah kena mentally bullied dgn boys. Dan juga kena body shaming. Tp i selalu overcome perasaan sedih dgn fikir kelebihan yg ada dlm diri i. Time kerja pun pernah di pulau. Tp i buat x kisah dgn fikir, aku dtg sini nak kerja. Kawan2 aku dkt luar lagi hebat2 dari korang. Ada aku kesah kalau korang taknak kawan dgn aku?? U r not my level at all.
@@hidayahazizan361 I feel u kena body shaming. Perit hanya kita je tau. Nak pegi sekolah tu terasa benda paling berat sekali. Kita penah jadi mangsa buli x berani outspoken risau tersalah cakap or apa-apa. Ada hikmah klu kita bkn mangsa buli @dipulau. Kalau berkawan ramai ntah homework pn dorg tiru. Pinjam buku lah apa lah.
When I baca the comments, it's soo sad. I can't say I kena buli, but during primary school I selalu kena hina. I'm Chinese Muslim, raised in a family yang tak menekankan Islam sangat. It was sad for me honestly. My last name kena ejek -- I don't have binti, they say I kafir. Ustazah siap maki I infront of my classmates because I'm slow at reading jawi/quran. I didn't know what Air Zamzam was, so ustazah tu siap cakap "tak pernah minum Air Zamzam ke? Islam ke?"
I don't blame them sebab I felt memang it was my fault. Kids called me cina babi everytime i walk pass them. Bila I solat, my friend said "sah ke solat kalau tak reti baca quran?" that time I felt like giving up. I told my mom I wanted to masuk Moral class instead of Pendidikan Islam. I nekad nak belajar Quran, my mom pun marah sebab I slow membaca. I felt like if my mom sendiri marah macam ni, if I belajar with orang lain mesti lagi teruk.
In high school, senior dissed me sebab tak pakai tudung. I was new in school, semua ada puak dia. I had no friends, all of them palau me. Said I gedik because I free hair. I didn't understand why.. But i blamed myself and I hated myself. Juniors called me JB (jerawat batu) because my face was bad dulu. My schoolmates send me hate sebab my face ada redness and to them geli tengok. Even nw I get insecure bila orang tenung I lama lama.
Alhamdulillah, now I'm feeling better. I started wearing the tudung for about 6 years now. It impacted me a lot. Thank you Shalma and Haze for this. 💖
whoever you are, I love you.
bodoh punya ustazah
Sending love to you wherever you are. Semoga ustazah tu diberi hidayah untuk mendidik dengan cara berhikmah bukan mencerca & menghina.
Ur istiqamah wows me. Masya Allah. Semoga kita semua sentiasa menerima taufiq dan hidayah ALLAH
Ustazah tu dari neraka
I like syapa bcause she not hypocrite and present herself. She have high confident level. I adore syapa
nurul aqilah she has*
sama. adore gila dengan confidence level dia👍
So
I need thousands youtuber like u guys. Keep spreading positive vibe and motivational words. God bless u guys!!!
The essence of bullying is DENGKI. Every phase of life, we will always jumpa orang yg dengki xtentu pasal. But as we grow, we would understand how this dengki works and just dgaf with it. That's maturity. 💃
I had same experience about bullying now in my work place all of them jealous without a reason call a gang to make me fired hahaha so childish
Shalma punya story remind me of my friend masa skolah dlu... dia mangsa buli jugak and xde kawan. Masa sy pindah masuk skolah tu..sy tgok dia lonely je xde kwan langsung and budak kelas pon asyik kacau dia... koyak buku and homework dia...since sy baru pindah masuk skolah tu, sy try dekat ngn dia, teman dia makan smua... and i know kenapa org xkwan ngn dia...she's smelly...sumpah busuk. Tapi sy still kwan ngn dia... just ignore her smell sbb kesian tgok dia... and i know her story...she is so poor... dia xnak cuci baju cause nak bli sabun mahal, and dia ada baju skolah satu tu je... so nasihat sy... dont quickly judge people. And also klu kita xsuka someone...jgn sebarkan perasaan benci kita kat org lain.
Siannye. Pastu xde org tlg dia ke
Saya mangsa buli since skolah rendah lagi. I was fat. In fact ada lagi fat students but saya yg selalu kena. They throw my shoes, my bag...my food. I never forget those faces. Worst was i've been punished by the teacher fir the things i did not commit. I will never forget the teacher as well. They call me names. Apui, badak sumbu, gajah, babi... Pernah tak korang rasa mkn dlm jamban waktu rehat ? 😢 I did. Or sometimes saya berikat perut, x bawa bekal from home or langsung x mkn because they throw my food. Ada 1 tahap saya x nak pegi sekolah langsung. I went through a lot. And i survived. But those who bullied me i will never forget them.
Aku pun tak faham kenapa eh kau suka sgt kutuk org gemuk kau tu kurus sgt ker ataupun kau tak pernah tgk org gemuk please lah😡 Jgn kutuk manusia ciptaan allah Stw.Bila tiba masanya akan ada hukuman karma ke atas kau hanya disebabkan kau suka hina org dulu fikirlah kita tak sentiasa berada di atas hidup ni ibarat roda yg sentiasa berpusing.
And you survived anyway, good for you. I've been there too
OMG!! Siannyee
Renny Sharon kuatkan semangat girl....... orang yang suka buli ni sebenarnya dengki dengan apa yang kita ada
Renny Sharon makan dalam jamban masa rehat? this reminds of a movie: Mean Girls. sakitnya hati..good thing u survived. props to u!!
Dulu darjah 6 aku tetibe berubah secara drastik.suka menyendiri, kadang2 rase taknak pergi sekolah, kehilangan kawan. Aku xpergi sekolah 2minggu dan hanya menangis setiap hari. Tapi aku tahu tu mmg silap aku. Pergi sekolah pun classmate slalu kecam. Cg yg mengajar pun kecam aku dpn semua org. Sampai kawan2 ckp taknak kwn dgn aku. Disebabkan tu, ayh aku berkali2 pukul aku sampai lembik.mase tu perit sgt nk lalui kehidupan seharian tpi aku teruskan jgk pergi skolah hari2 sbb nk upsr dah mase tu. Aku pergi sekolah smpai jalan pun tunduk sbb takde confident dh nk tgk org sekeliling. Pastu form1 ayah paksa suruh masuk sekolah asrama. Mase tu aku xdpt nk bljr pun sbb kene buli dri segi mental sbb aku terlalu byk menangis stiap hri. Aku pernah lari asrama sbb aku dah tak tahan stiap hari kene buli dgn satu dorm aku. And again ayh pukul aku. Family mcm pinggirkan aku. Smpai satu tahap aku rse mcm xde tempat nk bergantung. Aku masuk sekolah lain pun masih sama. Kene buli jgk dgn org walaupun aku ni jenis pendiam. Org mcm selalu xpuas hati dgn aku. Tpi ni buli dri segi mental dan fizikal. Aku kene tampar, langsir kelas dye lempar dkt muka dan segala cacian. Yg lain xberani nk tlg. Aku hanya mampu menangis sbb aku sejenis yg hati tisu. Aku pergi sekolah sbb terpaksa. Kdg aku lebih pilih duduk dlm tandas dri duduk dlm kelas. Tpi aku xbgitau pun family psl aku kene buli. Sbb aku kesian dkt org yg buli aku. Dia ada mslh keluarga. Maybe sbb tu kot. Sampai form 5 pun aku kene kecam sbb minat kpop. Aku pun taktau knpe org selalu xpuas hati sdgkan aku xpernah nk fkir psl life dyeorang, ape dyeorang minat. Tpi benda berkaitan buli ni mmg akan effect diri kita smpai bila bila. Even skrg aku pun msih xde keyakinan diri. Jalan masih tunduk kebawah. Kalau diikutkan sejak darjah 6 smpai la aku umur 20 skrg aku masih xboleh lupakan semua tu. Kdg2 aku nak sgt putarkan masa sbb zaman persekolahan aku byk derita dri bahagia. Ok sekian 😔
Actually I don't see that haze adalah pondan. Pondan dan lembut itu perkara yang berbeza.
Yuppp
setujuuuuuuuu
setujuh.. sy time skolah pn ada kwn lelaki lembut,tp bukan pondan..cuma lembut..
🙋
Betul. Cikgu aku kt sekolah dulu punya la lembut tp anak 7.
Betul sgt. Hanya mangsa buli je paham.. It will affects you in so many ways.. Smpai skrg kot, tak confident nk berckp dpn org ramai, takot dgn impression org.. Those bad things comes in every nightmare.. Be strong to those victims out there. You will be loved..
I was bullied during secondary school and its kinda very depressing. Being called pondan, bapok, gemok and others like every single day.
Aku okay je if budak2 sebaya yg buli n ckp merepek mcm org bodoh. Tp paling buat rasa down, there's a time when cikgu sejarah body shaming in the class when i walked to the gents. Cikgu ni bole ckp "Jalan mcm kepit taik" dlm kelas and ak xdgr, tp my tablemate yg bgtau waktu da masuk kelas blik. Mmg la klo da gemok, mne nk ad tigh gap ke apa. Anyway somehow these stupid bullying events make me grew even stronger. And even since sekolah bole kira ak budak pandai2 sket, yg buli nye budak2 bodoh dri aku. And even first masuk uitm, budak kelas ad yg buli2 and ejek2 ckp "ko budak kelantan, acah2 nk ckp english"... and well, since diploma in 2008 until last year 2018, i am one of the excellent student for diploma, degree and master. Now nobody can look down on me and yes, korang klo kena buli, just hadap and pastikan pembuli tu lgi bawahan, murahan n just remember they are damn stupid! Sebab tu even tht particular cikgu tu pon, career je cikgu, sbb waktu sekolah dia xpndai nk jdi doktor apa smua, and terbawak2 mentaliti kampung.
Well done bro 👍
half indian represent ! my great grandmom from Kerala.
to me hazeman is not pondan. but categories as 'LELAKI LEMBUT'. i got few friend like that. bagi i tkde masalah pun dgn lelaki mcm ni. keep it up guys! i love your content! kak shal i love you so much!
Dia mcmni, kita lelaki menganggap lelaki lembut masa skolah ni akan menjadi pondan pada masa akan datang..ni ada yg betul dan xbetul ye. Kami lelaki memg akan benci pondan. Dan kami xfaham dan marah kebanyakan perempuan menyokong mereka ini ,bukan menegur malah mengajar untuk menjadi seperti perempuan. Jadi salah siapa yg pondan2 betul luar sana yg terang2 dalam Islam itu salah.
@@ZZGAMINGANDVLOGS itu silap bro... ko tgk aliff syukri, ko tgk chef wan ada x jadi pondan? sedih bro kalau ko dibesarkan dalam komuniti anggap lelaki lembut for sure jd pondan... while ko lupa tgk lelaki sado keras pun banyak yg gay in denial... minda kau kena luas bro utk lebih nmpk dunia nie mcm mna :)
I got bullied because I stood up for someone who was being body shamed. Tapi nasib baik aku jenis manusia yang Lampi so banyak tak paham maksud2 ayat buli diorang. So meh.... once they got physical, I can fight back. HARD.
Salute to all those that was bullied or currently fighting. Korang memang kuat. Korang kena kuat. Tiada manusia ada hak keatas manusia lain selain Tuhan kau dan diri kau sendiri.
P.S.: Kalau dah berani melawan tu, jangan kita plak yang buli orang. Ingat sakit kita. Jangan disebarkan sakit tu.
Tahniah sbb kau pertahankan someone,susah nak terjadi zaman sekarang ni
"Humans love hurting others when they can't be hurt themselves"
Thank you for making me feel normal for not having friends in school. ❤
Zaman sekolah ak lembut, kena buli, kena pukul, kena ludah kt muka, kena rogol...
Zaman berubah, skng ak nmpk straight n keras tapi ak jadi bisex.
Ak xsalah kan sesiapa. Ni ujian Allah pd aku. Kdg2 aku ok, kdg2 ak jatuh. Ak msih struggle. Dgn dunia zman cmni terlalu ssh utk ak berubah sepenuhnya.
Doakan aku
Jauhi golongan yg tak dapat bawa u lebih dekat pada Allah. Jangan tinggalkan solat dan AlQuran setiap saat dan hari. Walaupun sepotong ayat u baca sebelum tidur. Semoga Allah tingkat kan istiqamah kita semua kerana dia sayang hamba2Nya, kerana itu tujuan manusia diciptakan seperti tertulis dalam AlQuran. Love from 🇧🇳
doa smoga Allah beri kekuatan...sentiasa solat jemaah...hadir majlis ilmu
@@ihsanmuslim1195 betul. Kalau apapa majlis ilmu, niat utk hadirkan diri. Usahakan utk hadir. Seandainya tidak dapat hadir akhirnya, in syaa Allah dikurniakan pahala sama spt yg menghadirinya
@@amalzaf5289 Alhamdulillah...insha Allah pasti ada kemanisan iman...
U kena rogol ke...sies lah jahat giler mereka ii nie
Tgk video ni . Teringat pulak bile jd mangsa buli . Aku kena buli dgn seorang guru disiplin skolah slama 4tahun . Just disebabkan anak dia sng2 fitnah aku.. bapak dia of course percaya anak dia .. jadi mule lah sesi membuli di skolah dan luar skolah .. sgala caci maki, hamun , memaki Parents aku , cikgu tu tahan aku dgn kereta dia kt luar skolah, maki aku dpn smua student , bini dia (tudung labuh ya) maki aku (suprisingly ank dia dlm kereta boleh snyum tgk aku kena maki dgn mk bpk dia) . Smpai buruk nama aku tk skolah tu.. kbayakkam cikgu smua tau kes fitnah tu dan prcaya dgn ckgu dsiplin tu .. tp alhmdulillah aku bersyukur sgt dgn ape yg jd dkT aku wktu tu . Sbab wktu aku kena buli tu, plajaran aku merosot terok , but at one point of time,aku ckp dgn diri aku, "aku nk buktikan yg aku lebih berjaya drpd ANAK KAU yg kau sanjung n pndai sgt tu " .. yes .. alhmdulillah , im living a happy life and aku bejaya kejar cita2 aku .. and from what i know, ank cikgu tu masih menggangur .. aku maafka kluarga tu tapi utk melupakan , mmg tk ..
kifarah is real👍
Ank cikgu kdg2 succ.
What God plans for u today is for u tomorrow. - Haze
Thank you, Haze.
Then Malaysia got Haze(jerebu)
Again, common sense si Haze ni mmg on point la. I love when he talk about how every pengacara in motif viral represent the community of Malaysian. Its true. I never realize that!
dulu aku dipulaukan sebab aku "gemok" skarang semua diorag lagi gemok dari aku!
pasangan diorang pun gemok! 🤣👍🏻
kifarah is real👍👍
SAME. Selalu kene ejek tak ada leher. Thanks sekarang orang lagggi gemok dari i!
@@dreamsuju bila tengok orang yang ejek kita jadi gemuk mesti puas hati kan😂
@@faiezzulaikha4906 yes tapi atleast i tak ejek dia balik. I kira baik kan? Hahahahhaha
@@dreamsuju takpe kalau saya pun saya takkan ejek juga. sebab kita pernah kat tempat orang tu. so perasaan kena ejek tu sangatla tak best #ifeelyou #sayapungemukjuga 😁✌️
Bullying is sucks.. I’m proud to my self and whoever had been bullied before because u’re still survives in this world 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I felt sad when haze cakap dia survive. You know what.. I can't imagine how he survive that freaking 5 yrs in that situations.. I'm not a mngsa buli but I witnessed a girl who has been bullied and isolated by the whole batch.. Aku nyesal ak tgk je.. Mcm bystander.. I didn't do anything.. But at my final yer masa form 5..ak approach girl yg kena buli tu n ak start brkawan dgn dia..after that.. Nobody isolated and bullied her anymore..
👍👍👍
i was longer than haze... skolah rendah, skolah menengah, plkn, and even university... tp tu la survive tak mudah sebenarnya luckily xde depression or mental illness ke ap :)
Saya pernah kena buli waktu sekolah,tapi efek buli dari sekolah tu terkadang membuat seseorang jadi pendendam,tapi alhamdulillah saya dapat fight bende tu
body shaming issues are not only focused on plus size people, but also skinny people like me. some negative remarks that i got include: "kau ni keding macam kertas macam mayat hidup. tak cukup makan ke?" and the dirtiest remark i once received when i was in Form 5 : "aku tengok kau ni macam papan. kalau aku 'main' dengan kau ibarat macam 'buat' dengan kayu weh,"..yes, it is traumatising. kurus kering pun salah, gemuk pun salah. tq for bringing this issue up guys. and kudos tu haze for bringing in Syafa and Pink into Motif Viral because they are the representations of most people out there : plus size, orang kampung, dark skinned etc - and there is NOTHING wrong about that! #saynotobully
I'm half indian jugak. Dulu masa zaman sekolah i tak ramai kawan & selalu kena ejek panggil i keling sebab kulit i gelap.
You are really strong
but u so beautiful... ☺️
Yess exactly bullying is everywhere and takkan habis! Bukan orang barbadan besar je kena body shaming tapi saya kena body shaming sebab kurus. Kurus tapi makan banyak and frequently saya akan makan. But, like almost everyone around me keep cakap “kurusnyaaaa bila nak gemuk”. “Nak diet buat apaa kan dah kurus”. “Kuruss nyaa you ni kesian your future husband”. “Kurusnyaa tak cantik lah”. Likee what???? I tak pernah ambik tahu pun pasal body orang lain and I’m the one yg akan kesian tengok orang lain yg jenis makan sikit pun tapi akan naik beratnya. And i tak suka cakap pasal body orang lain even dia besar mcm mana pun. Sebab for me, that doesn’t matters. The way you act, the way you bawa diri you, lagi penting. But i can see from that, my ignorance level jadi sangat tinggi dan i jadi tak kisah orang nak cakap apa pasal i dah. As long as I’m happy, my fiancé pun tak pernah tegur pasal body i and i sihat alhamdulillah, my parents and my family pun support i, then I’ll be okay. Biar je apa diorang nak cakap. Bare in mind, when you said something bad to someone, it won’t make you any better. Malah, lagi menampakkan keburukan dan kebusukan hati you sendiri. I support you Haze & Shalma, you guys are the best! Keep fighting 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Aku masih ingat sampai sekarang . Cikgu math perempuan masa aku sch rendah darjah 3 cakap "awak igt saya suka awak ke" . This is real bully sbb i feel hurt inside masa tu even waktu kecik
7:37 Masalah buli ini datang dari budaya dan sistem. Kedua-duanya perlu diubah. Terima kasih kepada kalian berdua. Saya juga berfikir panjang mengenai hal ini, bagaimana keadaan ini boleh diubah memandangkan buli seperti yang diceritakan di dalam video ini sudah menerima ‘normalisasi’ dan dianggap sebahagian daripada kehidupan. Sedangkan implikasinya amat besar dan boleh jadi kekal di sepanjang hayat mangsa buli. Finland melaksanakan program KIVA (www.kivaprogram.net/program) untuk agenda mencegah dan merawat buli. Bagaimana pula di negara kita? Perlu difikirkan bersungguh-sungguh.
hello guys, i am also a victim and bully survivor
back then, i remembered in 2004, waktu darjah 2, i pindah sekolah rendah baru and guess what? some of them did not accepted me and one of the student called me pondan and want to push me from tingkat 2 bangunan sekolah, these emotional torched continued until i in my standard 6.
Then, in my secondary school, some of bdk asrama like to kacau i with mcm mcm gelaran but i never bothered with it. For me, being a lelaki lembut, it was not a fault. Alhamdulillah, never bad happened to me cause i know the rules of survivor and how i handling some mulut longkang. To shut their mouth, i just proved to them that this lelaki lembut can represent my school for kawad kaki kebangsaan, pidato bahasa arab and even i was crowned as a best students curriculum for two years in row
so my advice here, to all bullying victim either physically or emotionally, do not get them to control you, but proved them wrong. if anything bad happened, find someone that you can rely or trust it because at the end of the day, the predator realized the mistake but it already late.
Mangsa buli teruk zaman kerja, diherdik & dihina. Struggle & depression. Kuatkn smgat, bersabar & harapkan bantuan Allah. Alhamdulillah ada kawan yg slalu tlg positifkn diri & percaya ada rahsia tersembunyi yg Allah mahu berikan. Be strong, pekakkan telinga dan bangga atas diri sdri. Bersyukur atas segala yg Allah beri & bykkn doa yg baik2 utk diri sdri & keluarga mengiringi setiap hinaan & kejian. Positif & senyum 😊
Sy suka level confident kak syafa jgk .. follow dia dri buruk cantik .. mmg suka tgk , sb dia jadi diri dia .. walaupun sy ni takda la seperti kak syafa , tp kadang2 tu level confident takda kalau p mana2 .. especially interview kerja .. sb org akan tgok luaran kita dlu bru depa bg kerja kan ? Ermm .. love you all in thinker studio
Selalunya yang kaki buli ni, jenis yang tak dapat kasih sayang atau perhatian kat rumah. Bila duduk asrama, mula la nk perhatian sekeliling. Dorang ni anggap macam bila dorang buat (buli) tu, dorang rasa macam disanjung dan dorang sebenarnya tak paham, orang sanjung tu atas dasar apa? Mostly sebab family dia kaya..kawan2 boleh guna kau. Dorang kaki buli rasa bangga, sebenarnya dorang ni lah paling bacul sekali. Ramai-ramai tunjuk hero..bila sorang2 kecut telor. Kaki buli kena ingat, ada yang berdendam walaupun dah bertahun-tahun. Kau takkan tahu apa yang akan jadi dalam dunia sebenar (pekerjaan)..kita tak tahu apa yang akan jadi pada orang yang pernah kita buli. Sebenarnya mak bapak yang kena didik dan beri perhatian kepada anak-anak supaya anak tak jadi kaki buli.
aku dulu masa sekolah aku slalu kene buli mentally.....sakit gila
tapi aku takde spe aku nak cite...aku senyap aku pendam
sampai lah aku dah habis sekolah ... bila dah lama
aku pikir semua tu dah hilang... tapi bila aku pergi reunion ke atau lepak dgn diorg
aku rasa... tak kira jauh mana aku pergi. bila aku dengan diorg, buli tu takan habis.
pada mereka tu mungkin satu jenaka yg boleh kita gelak sesame.
yes aku layankan.. but deep down aku terasa dgn diorg. and sekarang ni kalau ada reunion ke atau gathering ke. memang aku tak jumpa kawan2 sekolah aku. aku hanya cari diorg yg betul2 ok dgn aku.
yes true memang sedih kena buli i start when i m in high school sedih sangat which is diaorang first i thought diaorang kawan baik i then one day semua palau i without reason after one day i tahu one of them create fake story yang i tak sangka memang i sedih sangat my mental breakdowns sebab diaorang palau and percaya bulat2 sampaila dekat U i always kena macamtu sebabkan macamtu i choose not to close with anyone else i prefer to be alone or if someone nak kawan kawan biasa biasa je i malas nk rapat sangat
I loved kak syapaaa so much! ❤️ hello siapa tak suka kak syapaa tu kita bukan kawan!
Thanks for this shalma and haze. I pun salah seorang mangsa buli because of my Size. I lebih kurang macam syapa. Dulu I selalu down because of it. I selalu diam if orang ejek I gemok and anything else. Since I masuk secondary school, I sekolah perempuan and dekat dalam sekolah tu I jumpa ramai org yg saiz bdn mcm I and sangat confident. So I belajar bnyk benda dekat sekolah tu. So skrng ni I Just think positive. Apa yg I buat skrng ialah kalau i tkde kelebihan dengan badan I, so I kena ada kelebihan dengan rupa contoh I belajar makeup and apa apa yang berkenaan dengan fashion. For girl out there yang ada masalah macam I, its okay girl. Kita tak mintak Allah jadikan kita macam ni but kita kena selalu bersyukur. Tak semestinya kalau kita bersaiz besar, takde lelaki yang nak. Itu semua fikiran kampung 😂 so yaa I suka tengok vlog shalma and haze, selalu kongsi kan perkara yang berguna utk umum. Thank you shalma and haze ✨
Teringat balik masa2 gelap aq... aq antara salah sorg mangsa buli.. sampai tahap aq terfikir too end my life.. tp nasib family nampak perubahan yg trjadi then aq tukar sekolah..
dulu waktu sekolah rendah kena buli sebab jongang, (still jongang) and sebab my parents divorced kena ejek takde bapak. memang takde kawan and sebenarnya kena ejek jongang tu start dari sorang cikgu ni, then the whole school ejek i benda yang sama. benda kena ejek jongang ni still ada sampai sekarang. i pun macam shalma active sukan sebab tak nak masuk kelas. waktu sekolah menengah nak masuk sekolah sukan but my mom send me to a sekolah agama 4 hours from home. balik sangat2 jarang. my mom never visited me. dia pernah jejak kaki dekat sekolah tu 3 kali je. waktu daftar, waktu she got called sebab i buat perangai, then untuk ambil i dari sekolah tu sebab i kena buang. kena buli sangat teruk. i got no friend at all. waktu mula2 tu ada but once dorang tahu perangai i dorang tak nak kawan dah. i was rebellious back then. maybe that's why my mom send me there. i tak berani nak tidur dalam dorm, usually tidur dekat surau sekolah or i balik rumah saudara i (fly). takde kawan nak makan, duit selalu hilang. kalau ada duit pun tak berani nak pergi makan. baju yang i baru basuh (kena basuh sendiri takde washing machine) selalu senior i jatuhkan/buang. barang selalu hilang. setiap hari i ponteng kelas. masuk sekolah baru i tak jadi diri sendiri, i cuba jadi orang yang orang nak i jadi. also sekolah agama dan terpaksa jaga perangai sebab kawan my mom kerja situ. and i can't risk myself being expelled again. sangat stress dan hipokrit. i hate myself so much. waktu f4 masuk kv, 4 bulan pertama takde kawan langsung sebab i jadi takut nak berkawan tapi i bersyukur i masuk kv sebab dari kv la i belajar jadi kuat. slow2 jadi diri sendiri dan terima yang kita hidup memang akan ada orang benci. but i still hate myself rn. i hate who i have become. i know that this is so wrong but i hate my mom. she doesn't cook, always busy, everything is about money like if she did something wrong she'll just shove off her money and think that it is solved. my father died two years ago. my mother remarry last year. everything is not right. i'm not eating well, i didn't study, i don't do sport, i don't socialize much and i pretend that i'm okay. i used to self harm and smokes but not anymore. i jog at midnight and plays online game to get rid of the stress. but sometimes i just can't help it and will cry my eyes out until i asleep. i don't know what i'm expecting by commenting this. kind words i guess? maybe someone who understands?
The most important thing rn is just be kind to each other. Pernah satu ketika when I was in counseling club, "Biasakan yg betul, betulkan yang biasa". It's a good phrase to practice it together! 😊 It's a good topic, may Allah bless both of you ❤️
Suka sangat wei topik korang ,,,good job sis and bro ,,,sebenarnya korang bagi inspirasi dan semangat pada orang ,,dan sangat suka cara korang kupas sesuatu topik sbb korang sentuh isu sensetif sekalipun korang berhemah dan hope sangat nak tgok korang buat show dgn org yg ada nasihat agama skit ,,hope bukan org yg ada title daie, pu kew ,,but mungkin dgn org instafamous yg islamic but stylo presented ,,tahniah sesangat ,,tq ,,muah ,,caya la korang ,,
Agreed! Bullying is everywhere. I know mmg senang ckp just go through with it tp those ppl yg merasainya mmg mentally traumatised. Im sure Allah tak turunkn sesuatu cabaran tu yg kite x boleh nk hadapi. Just find the best solution that suit u and cari kwn2 yg genuine yg boleh beri support mental. Kena express dan jgn pendam. Kalu pendam lain jdnya. Good luck to all of us yg kna buli. I had been there and one way aku overcome is to be more superior than the others. ☺️
Im crying smbil tgk.
And i know why im crying.
But dont know how to overcome
Saya mangsa buli masa Sekolah Menengah, saya pun taktau kenapa saya kena buli. Masa form 1 tu okay je tapi bila masuk form2 tu kena tukar kelas terus kena buli.. ramai cakap sebab aku "blur", aku ni memang pendiam tapi taktau la kenapa aku kena buli sampai budak yang baik dengan aku masa form1 pun benci aku,sampai la form5. Aku rasa sebab bully2 tu suka buli aku sebab aku pendiam + "blur".. kadang2 aku kena buli fizikal jugak,badan belakang aku kena tetak2 dengan hujung pembaris besi la, kena letak kerusi dekat atas kepala la.. macam2 lagila. paling aku malu bila kena kutuk2 kena bahan la depan budak2 perempuan . sekarang dah dekat 5 tahun tinggalkan sekolah, dah tak nampak dah semua bully2 tu dan aku maafkan je semua yang bully aku tu dengan harapan dia dah reflects semua actions dia masa sekolah dulu.
Mesti org yg comment syafa gemuk tu feel ashamed of herself/himself. Because haze keep referring to you, dari youtube channel ke talk di uitm.
Dari form 1 smpai form 3 aku kne ejek sebab gemok. Setiap kali melintas kelas dorang, dorang akan ketawakan aku :( msa form 2 tu kitorang kne pindah kelas, and nasib aku malang sebab aku sama kelas ngan pembuli aku. Setiap minit, setiap jam, setiap hari aku kene ejek dalam kelas, tapi aku pilih untuk diam. Setiap kali dorang ejek aku, satu kelas akan ketawakan aku 😢 kalau time rehat aku akan pegi jumpa kawan aku kat kelas sebelah and aku ceritakan apa yg aku lalui, setiap hari aku akan ceritakan kat kawan aku psal aku kne ejek. Lepastu dia slalu bgi kata² semangat. Disebabkan aku slalu kene ejek sebab gemok, aku usaha nak kuruskan badan. Sekarang aku dah form 4 and berat bdan aku turun mendadak, alhamdulillah dorang tak ejek aku lagi. Tapi dorang terkejut mcam mana aku boleh kurus :) msa form 1, aku tak pernah lagi cari gaduh ngan org lain. Tapi kawan aku tetiba marah aku, and dia selalu panggil aku "ustazah" sebab tudung aku labuh, pstu dia slalu tuduh aku mcam² utk memalukan aku. Smpai aku tak da kawan :(
Aku pernah kena masa zaman belajar dulu, bila ingat balik rasa sebak n bengang sgt sbb org2 toxic tu, entah apa masalah dorang dgn aku ntah. tp skrg ni alhamdulillah la aku dah buang jauh2 block whatsover psl depa yg toxic people tu. Stay positive!
Dlu mse sekolah org slalu mengata yg aku gemuk la bagai,mcm2 la gelaran dieorg bg,pastu dieorg ni suke buli org gemuk,kne pukul la mcm2 la,mule2 memang down gila tp smpai satu tahap aku terima semua ni n terus mcm x kesah ape dieorg nk panggil sbb makin korang lawan makin dieorg ni suka nk membahan,klau korang terima n x amik kesah smpai satu tahap dieorg stop membuli korang sbb dierg takut kn kita sbb kita punya mental lg kuat lawan buli tu,no point korang nk bertekak just terima diri kita seadanya,time ni la kita kenal spe kawan yg mcm sampah ngn sahabat yg betul2 sahabat sehidup semati..yakin pada diri korang kerana setiap org pasti ada kelebihan masing2 dan setiap berbangga ngn diri korang sbb dlm berjuta sel2(ayat sopan) korang yg terpilih untuk lahir didunia,setiap yg lahir pasti ada yg membawa kebaikan dan keburukan kt dunia ni pilihan ditangan masing2 nk jd baik atau jahat itu terpulang n jgn lupa mati itu pasti,mngadap la korang kt akhirat nnti klau time hidup korang sakiti spe2......
Tbh kan i really really get the positive vibes from this video. Bcs of I get my confidence back. Thank you kak shalma and abang Haze thank you so muchhhhh. Even i bukan mangsa buli but i always get the body shamming 😔 bcs i was so thin. Love you kak and abang haze 💕
Accept and embrace your difference because the things that are different in you are going to stand up and be inspirational to others. Self love is really important because once u love urself, it doesn't even matter sapa suka n x suka kau, apa org ckp kat kau n stuff. Seek help n xpress ur feelings to people yg u think can understand u friend/mum/sibling. ~me (lembut,kerinting,hitam)
Bgus topic ni .syw pow mangsa buli sejak sekolah ..lama bila down amek msa utk bangun balik..7thn jgk ..kna kuatkn dri sndri ...
Hanya org yg pernah kena buli je dpt rasa hati nie mcm mana... Sakit yg x terluah...
Aku pernah dibuli dulu masa baru pindah sekolah. Dari segi mental aku dibuli budak lelaki. Sebelum tu aku sekolah kat bandar,lepastu pindah sekolah kg sebab abah aku pencen. Aku pun xpaham kenapa diorg buli aku. Sampai satu tahap aku hilang sabar & tumbuk sampai pecah mulut sorang budak lelaki yg buli aku. Dari situ,xsorang pun yg berani buli aku.
Yup,the pain of being bullied is unexplainable .its weird but i swear it does hurt till now but not as much as it used to when we talk about it to someone.
Jadi pembuli disebab dorang kurang kasih sayang, they need attention !!
They need a way to avoid that what they exposed since they are young,
show them a way ..
But they have no right to lepas it to other people, i said what i said
Hidup aku pun mcm korang..yes agree..buli ini akan datang effect pda kita pda msa akan datang..sekarang ni masih lgi rasa paranoid walaupun sudah 20 tahun berlalu..😅😅..
I have my story as well. I don't think I pernah kena buli or maybe I dont consider it as bullying. I was born with a rare syndrome where I can't smile and I have problems with my eyes. I can't raise my eyebrows or buat any eye movement. Back then masa primary school, everyone treated me nicely. Tak pernah pun ada budak-budak yang questioned me kenapa I lain. Sampai I pun lupa yang im different. But when I entered secondary school, things started to change. I was in a new school with new environment and new friends. I susah nak dapat kawan. My classmates tak nak cakap dengan I and sometimes I rasa macam they kinda mocked my appearance. Ada yang tanya I ni cacat ke? From then onwards, baru I rasa yang I ni lain. My confidence went down the drain. I hated secondary school so much. But I managed to get few close friends yang I rapat sangat sampai sekarang. Kadang-kadang I tanya kenapa Allah duga I macam ni? Sometimes I do feel sad.
Well now, im still studying and alhamdlillah, no one has ever judged me in uni and everyone accepted me for who I am. I'm not sure how's my future gonna be but I hope I can be strong.
Thank you shalma and haze for this video. :)
Yah.... sebenarnya org y suka membuli tu ada masalah hati n mental ... n kurang kasih syg.....
Sebak bila dngr psl buli.. slalu org viral psl buli sya akn nangis xingt dunia sbb dulu sya mangsa buli bkn stkat kt skolah smpai kat umh skli (pembuli sya tu jiran sya).. msa tu sya bru tingkatan 3 dn bru pindah skolah dekat dgn umh dn slalu org ckp jdi budk bru msti hot but sya lain sya bru pindah dh ke pulau i dont know knpe? Dn ada stu msa tu sya demam x terok pun so bleh je turun skolah utk amik exam tpi last class tetiba bdak tingkatan 4 dtg kelas sya dn lock smua pintu 3 perempuan dn all lelaki dduk kat luar for jaga pintu.. kisahnya seorg dri sorg prmpuan ni jiran sya dn x thu apa dia x puas hti dia bleh ajak kwn² dia pukul sya smpai mata sya lebam dn tangan luka sbb kna kaca.. ramai je ckp sya badan besar knpe x lwn bayangkn time tu sya nk lwn mcm mna dgn demam dn x larat dgn 3 org lwn 1 dan paling sakit cikgu yg lalu tu salahkan sya sbb sya layankn!! Wth dn stu yg sya x bleh lupa smpai skrg sorg lelaki ni ajak sya brkwn tpi sya x layan sbb cara dia nk brkwn lain so x smpai brpa hri lps sya tolak ajakan brkwn dia,, dia bleh cerita stu skolah yg sya tdor dgn dia dn dia siap hntr gmbr bogel kt group whatsapp bdk class sya nk kukuhkn crita dia dn cikgu yg first crita sya tdi still salahkn sya sbb dia kata sya sombong x layan bdak lelaki tu.. so sya x thn smpai sya berhenti skolah..
I don't know if i'm being bullied tapi aku ni jenis kuat bergurau pastu kawan kawan aku pun akan rasa suka nak sakat aku sebab aku akan beri reaction yang somehow kelakar to them but deep inside, I dont really like the way they bergurau. they always make fun of me and when I talk, they will ask me to shut up. dan even time tu tak bercakap (diam jeee) tapi klau tereye contact dengan kawan tu mesti akan suruh aku diam even aku tak cakap apa apa time tu. I dont know why aku ttp layan, gurau kelakar even time tu aku serius terasa dgn diorang. tbh aku mmg kena macam ni since darjah. same situation but different person. maybe sbb orang rasa aku ni fun to be with since aku akan gelak je dgn gurauan walaupun yang kasar. sometimes tak tertahan dan nangis. dorang pun akan pujuk dan lepastu akan make fun of me like, "jangan kacau dia . nanti dia nangis" . I dont really like that kind of words bcs macam dorang belittle kan aku hnya krna aku ni hati tisu. hm. tulah. sekian. adakah ini buli?
I feel you :'(
This is not how genuine friends treat one another. This is a form of bullying, and I think the reason why it has repeated several times in your life with different people in different settings is because in a way, you allow it to happen. You bergurau with them and you continue to be friends with them despite them belittling you like this. You must know your worth and that you deserve to be treated better. Stop hanging out with those who put you down. Instead, find those who bring positivity in your life. They do exist.
@@ainnzm6781 i feel happy but sometimes ada certain words memang agak kasar and hurt my feelings but i dont wanna lose them. ya ada ja yang bring positivity in my life but they are not in the same age as me and always so busy with their own life 😢
areumiou putereeol Then I suppose it’s up to you to decide if the hurt you experience is worth whatever it is that you gain from your friendship. If you are genuine friends, then you should be able to have an honest and open “heart to heart” discussion with them about how you feel. If they really care about what you have to say, then they will take the things you’ve told them on board. If they don’t care about what you have to say, then do they even care about you in the first place? And if they don’t care about you, does that mean it’s the end of the world? Does that mean you are not worthy to be cared for? As you said, there are other people who bring positivity to your life. But most importantly, we really should rely on ourselves for our own “happiness”. If one keeps focusing externally to look for approval and love, then one would be disappointed because the search will be endless...
@@ainnzm6781 thank you for your words 💕 it's really meaningful to me
Semua org yg akn kne buli... Sblum org tu mbuli dye pnh kne buli..
Org diluar ni agap buli mcm normal. Dri dulu smpai skrg.. Buli ni xpnh abis..
Yg di buli @ msih dibuli bgun lh tjuk diri anda sbnar anda pun mnusia ada hati dn prasaan... Jgn biar ada dibuli.
My story can relate to yalls, its happen back in school i been bullied mostly emotionally and got no friends at all but luckily as i grow older its got better and i've got more friends to back me up but still got bullied.
Even shapa badan besar pun but she still has that confident to wear whatever she want. I dont have any confident at all sampai dah dapat anxiety :( i always blame myself & i leave it everything what i loved to do. I love you guys! Keep us with ur positive vibes! Love shalma, shapa & haze! ♥️
Aku pun kena buli masa zaman sekolah dulu tp setakat nk throw words on me aku akan menganjing balik je tp bila dh sampai tahap ade body contact aku akan balas no matter wht bak dtg la 5-6 org pun janji aku puas walaupun berbengkak bengkak muka Hahahaha ni cara aku never surrender, and to be thank you bdk yg suka buli aku ni 1 club dgn aku and I’m senior lvl on my club (silat) it time to revengeee Hahahaha
once u start belittle people out of their outlook differences..it shows how immature u are,it also show ur tendency to look at negative side rather real positive side of others...so dont be such a jerk!...no matter who u encounter,appreciate for what they are...once u hear anyone talking bad bout other person,just avoid this people...dont please them as if ur agree on their percective,u have stand on ur own.remember one thing,god creation are beautiful,n everyone is beautiful on their own way.
i totally agree with your content :) Just wanna share my thoughts..orang buli kita is either 1) didikan parents dia mmg initiate them to bully or 2)surrounding from what they came from mmg suka buli/kutuk org lain or 3) dia pernah kena bully by their seniors before this. so like ''eh, aku pun nak try apa rasanya buli orang ni ye'' or ''aku dulu elok je tahan, kau (mangsa) pun kena lah tahan juga'' dan sewaktu dengan nya.
and yes, i cannot deny that aku bersyukur aku kena buli/ragging waktu kt sekolah bcs somehow that makes me somewhat 'tougher' but it is only like 10% je contribution buli ni bagi aku :') like kemon la, islam tak ajar jadi tough through bullying. for me, the system SERIOUSLY needs to educate and initiate something so that ALL youth/students will busy themselves with benefit stuff. ujian dan halangan tu kena datang, dari situ lah youth ni belajar critical thinking. and what not, their energy should not be wasted.
and siapa2 yg baca ni and ada link dgn MOE, tolong lah bagi peluang dia tengok this vid and read our comments. sekian :)
People nowadays just think about "hey bapak sporting " or "sporting ah skit y/n" I think you need to stop. I mean STOP. Being supportive people doesn't mean that it'll give fame or something.
This is just my opinion and sorry for the grammar mistake...
Saya kene ejek pasal warna kulit saya dengan cikgu saya sndiri , sedangkan his skin is darker than me ... Maybe dia nak menutup kelemahan diri dia dgn mengejek saya... I cant brain thissssss.... Cikgu pendidik kot..kenapa nak kena buat mcm tu
Cikgu pebenda macam tuh..
@@rkive05 kannn idk why tp terpaksa lah telan
maybe sbb dia stress ada problem kt rumah and dia bawak stress tu ke sekolah and lepaskan kat orang lain..someone kena help cikgu tu..
Yaa,time sekolah menengah,my ustaz macam anti gilerr dengan saya,selalu cari point untuk ketepikan saya dlm kebanyakkan hal.I’m like,”whats problem with that ustaz?”I’m not malaysian,i’m cambodian yg lahir dan membesar di malaysia,and i syukur dapat membesar dan dapat pendidikan di malaysia.But that ustaz,ibarat anti-racist giler dengan i.Dia seorang pendidik,dia sepatotnya tunjuk sikap yg terbaik untuk anak2 didik.Even teachers dan schoolmates yg lain terima i dengan baik.Disebabkan dia,confident level I down giler untuk berdepan dengan org lain.I jadi malu untuk mengaku i’m not malaysian.Thanks to my friends and all yg mana terima i dari dulu hingga kini walau i berlainan bangsa.😌
suka bila crew2 thinker studio byk perbincangan kes buli ni. same goes to ml studios
I pun kena buli masa my secondary school. Thanks god masa tu i sekolah situ form 1 sampai 3 je. Benda tak boleh lupa sampai sekarang, i baru habis solat, keluar masjid (sekolah). Kasut sekolah i dah hilang kena curi dengan pembuli tu. I tried be positive, i tunggu sampai semua orang keluar kot ada yang tertukar ke, tapi takda langsung orang yang datang or kasut yang tinggal. I balik dengan tak pakai kasut and menangis. Lepas dari tu, i takut gila nak pergi sekolah takut benda sama jadi.
aku bpk arab..so bdn aku lg besar dri budak yg sebaya dgn aku..aku xprnh dibuli..aku brsyukur dan aku simpati kpd mangsa2 buli yg lain..dri skolah smpai kj aku xprnh dibuli..aku doakn pmbuli dpt balasan setimpal..
I was in high school and tuition with her. As far as I can remember she had so many friends. She was always the popular girl in school. Always walking about in school and tuition with her entourage. All the boys at school always go after her. I guess you’ll never know what is actually going on in people’s life. Anyway, good video 👍🏻👍🏻
satu sekolah dengan shalma ke?
thank you shalma and haze for realize me that my life is not as bad as you guys go through and for the motivational message for all people who watch this video
Literally tear up just hearing your stories... cause I was bullied for years in my pri school too. I'm half indian & malay too. It's sad isnt it how because of bullying... it shaped into what kind of person we are and how we act till day. Wishing all the victims of bully to stay strong always. ❤️
Saya pernah jugak kena time waktu seklh, dari sklh rendah sampai sekolah menengah sebabnya kurang bercakap dan terlalu slow and now saya bukan macam tu lagi.. Heee
I suka tengok skin n makeup shalma just nice
Shalma ke yg berlakon mv malaikat hazama ? I rasa dia but I'm not so sure .
ya, betul la shalma berlakon dlm mv tu
@@blacksilhouette6679 ohhhh mmg lawa . First time I tengok dia dlm mv tu I rasa dia lawa gila . 😬😬
aku punya kisah lg lawak.. masa sekolah menengah dlu kawan2 xde sorang pun yg buli or ckp aku gemok. smua baik2. tp ade sorang cikgu tu kt dpn2 kls die ckp bdn aku besar then gelak2 nada mengejek. ingat lawak ke apa. suma kwn2 kls aku xde sorang pun yg gelak tp diorang backup aku kata kt cikgu tu tak baik laa apa sume. aku time tu mmg dh hilang trus rasa hormat kt cikgu tu. 😌😌 ingat senonoh ke buat student mcmtu.
Jgn memain weii. Org ckp haze ni lelaki tp lembut. Sekali dia dh melahar.. Ayat2 dia tu boleh buat org speechless
hazeman huzir , youre the tough one . lagi teruk dari aku kena :) aku dulu masa sekolah paling dibenci kot . yelah skolah agama en . at last , masa f5 tu dah tak kesah . diorng cakap apa pon . kita ada kawan utk luah .
Aku paham perasan kau org..sbb aku lalui semua ni sampai tua 😥
Anggap je lah semua ujian dalam hidup dan kita ada lah insan yg terpilih...
you guys good!seriously guys! someone needs to spread this positive 'aura' to other people. congrats!
Come here sebab haze promote youtube shalma.
I pun kena dulu time kecik sampai sekarang. Asyik kena panggil "Albino" nasib baik mental ni kuat.
Saya tak kene buli masa sekolah . Tapi saya dibuli masa kerja. Dan saya sampai berhenti kerja 😭
asalnya aku mmg benci org lembut. tapi tengok haze ni aku terpikir tak guna nak benci org2 lembut ni. baik benci sajat
Saya pun pernah dipulaukan masa sekolah. Tapi skrg saya sedar sbb apa jd mcm tu...sbb dtg dari perangai kita sendiri jugak. Sbb tu menjadi asbab kenapa org jauhkan diri dari kita. Mungkin jugak ada org buat fitnah kat kita.
Buli tu tak berlaku kat sekolah je. Kat tempat kerja pun ramai kaki buli.
Every words haze said givin me a good vibe . Keep it up 💪
Kak shal, i love your voice. Don't know why 😅
Aku penah kene buli dgn senior yg aku benci smpai skrg. Like haze said before. Proof yourself yg ko lagi berjaya dari dia. Ko la punca aku jadi low confidence level waktu skolah.
I suka topic ni n i even shared dgn kwn2 i bukan org Malaysia.. hopefully u guys boleh bust subtitles.. 😁.. diorang american n Russian.. 😂
Shalma: perempuan ada ragging eh?
Me immediately : ADA!!!!!
#asramarelate
Maigoddd,, alhamdulillah uguys were strong to face all of those and not falling into depression 😭😭😭
Actually. My buli same like haze kena . Seriously sama. But i survive because i have friend always proctect me everytime. Kalau ada orang nak gaduh , diorang akan ambil part la and kalau ada orang panggil pondan or bapok , i always ignore it and walk away but my friend always balas balik la😂. So my advice is ignoring and diorang takkan kacau kau , sebab kau buat macam diorang cakap dengan tunggul . Haha.
Sama la,bila kita tak layan kan nampak cam dorang ni tengah cakap dengan tunggul. Hahahahah pastu last last diam gak dorang ni
saya pun mangsa buli. masa sekolah menengah, setahun kena buli. sangat sangat buli mental 😭. but i terus kuat semangat, and now lebih berjaya dari pembuli tu. pembuli tu lelaki😢
yes ! i pun mangsa buli masa sekolah . bila ingat kelakar pula . i still remember , i kena buli dengan penolong class and geng dia . hari2 dia tulis nama i ,cakap i orang paling bising dalam class ( padahal i tak pun ) and siap letak gam dekat kerusi i , koyakkan buku i , i sendiri pun tak faham why diorang buat macam tu . BUT NOW , diorang sendiri dm i and cakap " kenal lagi tak " and my answers is " NO " and i show them i boleh berjaya dari diorang 👌🏻
haha padan muka. malas nak layan kan orang2 macam tu. sampai terfikir kalau boleh tak nak kenal pun orang tu😒🙄
Faiez Zulaikha yaaaah sometimes kita ingat muka diorang . bila jumpa depan2 diorang malu . hahahhah
Hi guys...nice topic....yes i can feel it hows struggle both of u to face it before from ur experiances..btw...im so proud for both of u in what ur right now...how nice if i can be one of thinker members...hihihihi....only in dreams 🤗🤗....be strong for shalma and haze💪💪.....keep fighting for us!!..thanks...#everthingcomesfromheart❤
it's a good content ... keep it up kak shal and abg haze ... i love it 💞
This is my favorite topic on TH-cam so far. Thank you Shalma & Haze.. 🖤
This is a serious issue... As a teacher, I really cannot condone when parents make excuses for their children’s behaviour of bullying other kids as “ perangai budak2... dorang tak tahu apa2...”🙄 To me: Since dorang tak tahu and tak paham engkau as parents please pahamkan... jangan ambik ringan, akhlaq should be taught at home.... sebab bila parents tutup sebelah mata and think it’s a small matter then your “precious children” will think it’s ok... padahal perangai dorang lagi teruk dari beruk kat hutan tu.... I have 2 kids... My motto in life and the motto that I terap into my own kids and students adalah : Treat others as you wish to be treated... if you think you want to be treated like sampah then you are welcome to treat others like sampah... So my advise to future parents: Akhlaq yang baik bermula dari rumah... Be kind always.... ✌️out 💜 always....