MOM AND I RANT #9 : FAKE FRIENDS & INSECURITIES

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  • @mayacapalot1073
    @mayacapalot1073 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Aww when allison started crying you will find ur best friend u will find someone who is loyal and true to you . Your gonna have to go through many fake friends b4 u meet ur true one but u will find her or him I promise.

    • @bonniehembree6956
      @bonniehembree6956 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She has a really true best friend in her Mother ❣️I hope she knows and appreciate 's that😍💞

    • @mayacapalot1073
      @mayacapalot1073 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bonniehembree6956 yess and honestly ur mother is the only bestfriend u need they are always there for u no matter what !!!

    • @_mmix8208
      @_mmix8208 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup that’s the harsh thing about life , friends come and go and you’ll only know yourself who your true friends are

    • @Human111.......
      @Human111....... ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm thankful to have my best friend
      It's been 7 years and still our bond isn't weak and it's just getting stronger and stronger

  • @Thetallbsfs
    @Thetallbsfs ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I feel you Allison. I wish I had a bsf, I have friends but they have their own bsf always planing things without me, but I guess I’m my own bestie :)

    • @mapa3ful
      @mapa3ful ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yess! something i’ve learned is you don’t need lots of friends you really only need one you can trust and are close to. you also don’t need to be with other people to have a good time. enjoying your own company is really good for you. 💗

  • @mynameisjayne4755
    @mynameisjayne4755 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’m 16. I talk to my mom about everything and my relationship with my mom is like yours. My mom is my best friend. I’m in an early college where I’m not black enough for black kids and I’m too black for the non black kids. I don’t feel like I fit in any where. I still talk and get along with everybody, but I don’t have a particular friend group or a best friend. I also refused to change or pretend to be someone else or something I’m not just to gain friends or a best friend. My mom said she only has 1 real friend and she considers that lucky. You just have to love yourself and stay true to yourself. Everything else will fall in place when it’s supposed to. I hope y’all mom and daughter relationship continue to thrive. ❤❤❤

  • @shanezazem7804
    @shanezazem7804 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    i feel you ali ! at the end of the day, your mom, sister, cousins are your best friends! cherish them, you’re extremely lucky to have them close to you 🫶

  • @naiyla8995
    @naiyla8995 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i totally understand allison, it’s so hard to find a genuine bsf bc it’s easy to call people your friends but are they genuinely your friends yk? some people will make you feel weird about it but it’s normal to not have a bsf

  • @alexismartinez8156
    @alexismartinez8156 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Rafael in a video is such a good idea to get to know more about him since it’s mostly just the girls ❤️!

  • @vegaspete3344
    @vegaspete3344 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    I swear I cried with her, today is my birthday and literally nobody remembered to wish me a happy birthday I was so disappointed cuz I thought I mattered to them but apparently I didn't

    • @gm4575
      @gm4575 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Happy birthday! 🎊 💕 I hope you enjoy your day God bless you!

    • @lifewithjay3090
      @lifewithjay3090 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ohhhh I’m so sorry!! Happy birthday 🫶🏾🤍💕 luv I hope you have an amazing and incredible day don’t think about those who looked passed you!! Your intelligence and your a bright individual 🫶🏾🫶🏾

    • @Me-pr1bc
      @Me-pr1bc ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Happy birthday honeyyyyyyyyy

    • @hithanksimgia
      @hithanksimgia ปีที่แล้ว +1

      happy birthday my love ❤❤❤ i hope you have a good day, I care about you

    • @vegaspete3344
      @vegaspete3344 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gm4575 thank you so much it really means a lot to me I swear may God bless you ❤

  • @diyagandhi5650
    @diyagandhi5650 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Rafael brings such good energy when he is in the videos!

  • @ladym2674
    @ladym2674 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Usually when someone tells your mom that they thought you were sisters it's a compliment to her. Meaning she looks younger than what she is.

  • @fayzet3396
    @fayzet3396 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alison you are young, friends come and go. I got emotional when you teared up. We all want that. For someone to be considered a best friend is earned not given. But I completely agree, the older you get you can count your true friends in the palm of your hand. You will meet people and you will see who is true and who isn’t. So many people are jealous, or want to be better than the other person, but in reality true friendships will lift each other up and better each other. Your mom will always be your best cheerleader and best friend. Never doubt that. And to have that kind of relationship is special because not many have that with their mom. You have a whole life ahead. The real people will always be there for you.

  • @6irly
    @6irly ปีที่แล้ว +3

    your mom talking about manifestations/law of attraction is so true, i’ve been recently thinking about negative stuff which sadly came true but i will try to change those stuff for positive ones, it really opened my mind ❣️❣️ thank you❣️

  • @selinahP100
    @selinahP100 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I Love how open they are even when this is on the internet and anyone can say anything!
    But you guys do not let that get to youuuuuuuu and also Alison you will get a best friend that will stick with you forever and ever!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @bellethiessen8608
    @bellethiessen8608 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ali I totally feel you, everyone has that cute bestie friendship and i so want it. There is someone out there, whether it is literally your husband or someone else who comes around at the perfect time

  • @Quyllur1
    @Quyllur1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My 16 year old is going through the same thing. She lost her girlfriends because she’s been dating her boyfriend now. Friendships and relationships change. True colors come out. Her best friend changed when she started dating. 😢 She cries too. Luckily she has one she still hangs with to get some girl time. ❤ You’re so sweet Allison, I’m sure you’ll meet some more friends next school year. I’m hoping my daughter will meet new friends next year too. ❤ I agree… Your mom and sister are your best friends!! I tell my daughter the same! Luckily she has sisters and me! ❤

    • @axolotl_fidgets9544
      @axolotl_fidgets9544 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That sounds like me I’m 16 and I started dating my bf in January of 2020 and I lost all my friends because I got a bf. One of them stopped talking to me for like a whole month out of no where so I didn’t know what was wrong but I was balancing talking to both of them cuz she was the one friend I was closest with. Then like a month later she texted me and told me she would be friends with me again if I left my bf. I didn’t expect me and my bf to last long but I still stuck with him because if she was a real friend she wouldn’t make me choose. She would just be happy for me. And I felt happier without her I felt free to talk to whoever I want and when I want. But just a couple weeks ago she tried being my friend again saying how I was such a good friend and she missed me a lot and I just said “ok thanks” because I wasn’t trying to go through that again.

    • @Quyllur1
      @Quyllur1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you! Sometimes we need to just move on. Hopefully you find friends who are understanding ❤

  • @ashleyortiz2252
    @ashleyortiz2252 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Seeing this makes me so happy for Alisson and Emily and they are so lucky to have such good parents I wish I had that too.

  • @koralroberts
    @koralroberts ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you, i needed to hear this because i have been having some drama at school with all my friends and lost my own bestfriend because of rumors that aren’t true. it’s so so stressful and you guys are the only thing keeping me going 💕💕

  • @litzyana23
    @litzyana23 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At the same time, your still young after high school, once you start working you definitely will find someone to be besties or have someone to talk to 😊

  • @celinesekyere9416
    @celinesekyere9416 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMD I was already crying before watching this video. To try and stop crying, I clicked to watch this video. When I clicked on it and heared 15:58 I CRYED MY EYES OUT! I feel you Alisson💕

  • @nayatboly1465
    @nayatboly1465 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i genuinely get where alisson is coming from i never had a best friend growing up and i still don’t and i kinda just feel like i’m no one’s first option ever but that’s alright as long as i have my family and i think we should both cherish that and trust me one day we will both have best friends

  • @evasandvig9806
    @evasandvig9806 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love the mom and I rant series!💖

  • @jessicaschubert7588
    @jessicaschubert7588 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I wish I was able to talk to my parents like this😭

  • @ahlaynagonzalez4352
    @ahlaynagonzalez4352 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So proud of u ali :) You have been my big online sister for so long way before quarantine and i’m just so happy ur growing up and having that positive mindset makes me so happy for u and so proud !! ❤️❤️

  • @Oiishyx2024
    @Oiishyx2024 ปีที่แล้ว

    i actually experienced the same thing as Alison. people will talk bad stuff about you. fake friends will leave you and use you just leave them and don’t care.

  • @1uxybx
    @1uxybx ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is an advice for Alison! Girl! I can relate to you so bad! I had a “best friend” since 3rd grade her name was Jocelyn and we grew up together! I also had another “best friend” name A I don’t want to put her name out there😅. But she showed me that she wasn’t my real friend because at the end of the day she ruined me mentally and emotionally. Now, you will find your best friend maybe not now but later on in life! Just know that in this life there are no “real best friends” your mom is forever going to be your best friend! Trust me! I’ve been in your place and it does feel sad but soon you’ll get use to your own company and just do things on your own! It’s ok girl! Don’t cry🫶🏼 I love your personality and how outgoing you are! 🫶🏼

  • @AlannaBoo524
    @AlannaBoo524 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Don’t feel bad about not having a best friend. I’m 24 and have never had a best friend bc my twin is honestly my best friend. Real people are hard to come by these days

  • @jamakajanetta
    @jamakajanetta ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was just like Ali when she talked about having a best friend I literally cried. But then I reconnected with one of my closest friends tht we drifted apart due to just busy lives. My best friends are literally Selena and kaitlyn . I had to realize u don’t have to see these ppl all the time to be friends

  • @lifewithalexsondra
    @lifewithalexsondra ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’m 20 but in middle school and High School I only had like two real friends because the other ones were fake would constantly talk crap and it was just jealousy thing going on but I never entertained it I never let people get the best of me but when you graduate your going to see who was real friend who wasn’t.

  • @kyleigholiver4757
    @kyleigholiver4757 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i dont have a best friend either when ali started crying i wanted to cry because i felt that

  • @natali-vo2sb
    @natali-vo2sb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    honestly ali seems like such a nice person/friend to be around

  • @zarsmainn
    @zarsmainn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    allison this video really helped me and motivated me thanks you veryyy much u don't know how much this open my mine up and you guys always inspire me :)

  • @nancymiranda1921
    @nancymiranda1921 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the connection you have with your mom, like always told my daughter your mom always is your best friend. Because we are here when you are up and down falls. My mom has saying in Spanish (Tu cobija no es tuya parque a veces la encuentras en el suelo. I love you your family ❤

  • @jasminalexis1998
    @jasminalexis1998 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 24 and can completely understand how you feel! I would love to have a best friend .

  • @Glampryncess32
    @Glampryncess32 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Allison don’t take it as an insult. It just means your mom looks young. Mama is 🔥

  • @plchomeschool7667
    @plchomeschool7667 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes a podcast with your dad would be amazing!

  • @breerobertson5291
    @breerobertson5291 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re Mum and Sister are truly your best friends and always will be. I honestly think you have found a true friend in your friend Maddi she seems sincere.
    My Mum used to say a prom to me. True friends are like Diamonds precious and rare. False friends are like Autumn leaves found everywhere.
    My best friends name is Katie she is like my Sister I love her which all my heart

  • @ellacoyne3395
    @ellacoyne3395 ปีที่แล้ว

    You will realise as you get older the best best friend you can have is your mom you don’t need anyone else ❤

  • @lillycaban
    @lillycaban ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been blessed with best friends. When I lived in DR, my best friend until 8th grade is Maria Elsa. I moved to the USA and we drifted apart but we still talk. Then in high school here, my best friend was Vivian until she passed away from cancer 4 years ago. However I have two best friends that I can’t be without. Their names are Betty and Kim.

  • @boofyyyy
    @boofyyyy ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't worry Ali, Im literally in the same boat as you. 15 years old and no best friend, we can be best friends!!

  • @Njackco
    @Njackco ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think with your dad you should do an "asking questions to my dad you`re too afraid to ask yours"

  • @Sunanddave
    @Sunanddave 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me encantan ❤ ojala hagan algo especial juntas 😍👍

  • @goldenbeesnursery
    @goldenbeesnursery ปีที่แล้ว

    awwww the “do u want me to hold you” part🙁🙁i wish i had this relationship with my mom

  • @luswrre8999
    @luswrre8999 ปีที่แล้ว

    I felt Allison so much on the best freind ive been going through the same thing wanting someone who truly understands me

  • @ariane-thereseyenga8093
    @ariane-thereseyenga8093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys should redone one with Keilly like the #3 one it was really great.

  • @daniwilkes1673
    @daniwilkes1673 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel the friend thing sm I have maybe 2 real friends and recently I just had a group of my “best friends” leave me and not even tell me they didn’t want to even be friends with me anymore and I have been friends with them since 4th grade and I’m now a freshman

  • @gm4575
    @gm4575 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Alison can always find new friends in her life time dw Ali ❤

  • @stargirl_niaa
    @stargirl_niaa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ali crying about not having a best friend was so sad :( you will find your special person hopefully soon Ali

  • @nanapierree08
    @nanapierree08 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cry everyday bc I don’t have best friends I talk to ppl at school but as soon as I’m home they don’t even exists. im 16 and I still hasn’t found my person

  • @thurikasutharsan8084
    @thurikasutharsan8084 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was my favorite so far Mom & I Rent

  • @Naddi521
    @Naddi521 ปีที่แล้ว

    samantha 🥰 , she’s literally the ONLY friend I have lol i’ve gotten rid of the bad energy ( fake friends ) but I wish I had more it’s just hard to come across genuine friends so i’m scared to try to make news friends 🥺🥺

  • @eunoia4069
    @eunoia4069 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awwwwww poor Alison this is a real feeling 🥺

  • @lifewithjay3090
    @lifewithjay3090 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really hope you find a best friend Ali and if you don’t you have your mom with you and your sister!! I love you all so much

  • @lizziebrayman6093
    @lizziebrayman6093 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No cause like I totally get what you’re going through right now Allison because I went through that phase where I had big friend groups drama but it was fun and then I kind of lost all that and I don’t really have a best friend and I really wish I did but One day we’ll both found our best friend❤

  • @x.o.x.o.j.u.l.e.s
    @x.o.x.o.j.u.l.e.s ปีที่แล้ว

    I have 8 best friends and I had 2 fake friends. To be fair tho, only 2 of them really grew up with me. 3 of them were older than me but still kinda grew up with me and 3 of them I met more so recently but it feels like I've know them forever. I feel soo bad for Ali but it's never too late to build life long bonds with people. She's only thinking abt how much life has already passed but she has to start thinking abt how much time she has left (which I get isn't garunteed) but think abt the amount of time you could have based on the average life span. It's so much time to meet people.

  • @wtfidk1514
    @wtfidk1514 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a “best friend” but we don’t even hang out like that yk making plans, talking about things we both like, yea she’s been my friend for a while but it doesn’t feel like a best friend just like any other friend if that makes sense

  • @ayaa7876
    @ayaa7876 ปีที่แล้ว

    More of these please, love them❤❤

  • @shaunabradley6588
    @shaunabradley6588 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aww when you're starting crying. I felt like you. Your awesome person aly

  • @diyagandhi5650
    @diyagandhi5650 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so excited for the Hawaii vlogs

  • @laniya8710
    @laniya8710 ปีที่แล้ว

    U guys should do a series where y’all dad teaching u guys how to make stuff

  • @michellechavez4140
    @michellechavez4140 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t have a bsf either and I am still struggle with this :(

  • @grace9649
    @grace9649 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i swear everybody used to make “youtube videos” when they were younger haha.

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Everyone good morning happy Tuesday morning and I just wanted to say that you all amazing Supporter and I'm proud of all of you

  • @keilysilva809
    @keilysilva809 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your videos ❤❤❤

  • @estephanydiaz5564
    @estephanydiaz5564 ปีที่แล้ว

    I get Ali for a while I have felt like I don’t have friends but I truly believe my mom is my best friend ❤

    • @estephanydiaz5564
      @estephanydiaz5564 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also have two very good friends that I can trust very well and I’m grateful for them but I wish I had more people to talk to lol 🥲

  • @diyagandhi5650
    @diyagandhi5650 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning! I hope you guys have a good Tuesday today!

  • @purplegalaxy592
    @purplegalaxy592 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like that we get to see your face expressions, like on Spotify it would just be your voices and we don’t really get to see you reactions

  • @keilysilva809
    @keilysilva809 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yailenys and Alisson are soo pretty ❤❤❤❤

  • @Fernanda_812
    @Fernanda_812 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started to cry just because Allison was crying

  • @leahalvarez6452
    @leahalvarez6452 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOVE YALL❤️

  • @diyagandhi5650
    @diyagandhi5650 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love these podcasts!

  • @diyagandhi5650
    @diyagandhi5650 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your relationship!

  • @Brandi.65
    @Brandi.65 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vlog and Allison always remember your beautiful, special. You will get a good friend. When I was in high school, I didn’t really have a friend either. My Mom was really my best friend. Even more now that I’m older.

  • @peytoncase3799
    @peytoncase3799 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was so helpful

  • @thelifeasvalerie647
    @thelifeasvalerie647 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ali its ok, i have good friends but no best friends. i used to think i do but now that im 16 is see and realise i didnt have a best friend. but i have my mum and its the best

  • @ayaa7876
    @ayaa7876 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another one of these plzz❤

  • @jayladi8286
    @jayladi8286 ปีที่แล้ว

    The one thing u got to learn is people come and go even someone.U think is ur best friend switches up so quick

  • @m4mimi
    @m4mimi ปีที่แล้ว

    Ily guys ! I never had a best friend neither where in this together Ali !

  • @Lilli15214
    @Lilli15214 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fake friend: Galilea my bff: Alexa

  • @courtneyjukes7769
    @courtneyjukes7769 ปีที่แล้ว

    My best friend and I have been friends since we were 2 years old And we turn 26 this summer but we went from 2015-2022 with no contact and when we met up in November it was like nothing changed but apart from him I don’t have any other best friends I do have a lot of really great friends but at Alison’s age I only had like 3 friend. My best friend and my school friends

  • @shilohhbanda
    @shilohhbanda ปีที่แล้ว +1

    don’t move to spotify pls! it’s better when we can see yallll

  • @drawingqueen4423
    @drawingqueen4423 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a healthful vlog for the youth 🎉

  • @gizelle.g
    @gizelle.g ปีที่แล้ว

    best friend: lydia
    fake friend: tais

  • @yarelybeltran7237
    @yarelybeltran7237 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww alisson it’s okay I don’t have a bestfriend either. You’re still young im sure you’ll find a bestfriend soon and if you don’t it’s okay!

  • @diyagandhi5650
    @diyagandhi5650 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope your guys have a good week

  • @kevingomez2179
    @kevingomez2179 ปีที่แล้ว

    I met my best friend in 7 grade we’ve been friends since she moved 2 years ago but we still talk everyday

  • @Ndogification
    @Ndogification ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah, I want you all in videos and to have fun, great health, good mental state. You're all are doing great! 🥰

  • @darislezcano305
    @darislezcano305 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My best friend is my mom and trust me Alisson she's the only one that is going to stick next to you on your ups and down.

  • @lifewithlinds888
    @lifewithlinds888 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I don’t have a best friend and everyone’s fake

  • @Itscynthiaayala.
    @Itscynthiaayala. ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys should make a TH-cam channel for just podcasts

  • @albertoxmedellin
    @albertoxmedellin ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sorry but Yailenys highlight tho! ✨✨ love your makeup sis

  • @danielalopez2084
    @danielalopez2084 ปีที่แล้ว

    i understand allison i really do u never know when u will find your best friend they js come

  • @debbielucero5798
    @debbielucero5798 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have some of my childhood friends in my life.its so good

  • @omairaquintero5588
    @omairaquintero5588 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you guys

  • @lisadorsi5628
    @lisadorsi5628 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video & podcast

  • @glossyella5374
    @glossyella5374 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When Ali started crying I litr started crying

  • @Nayeliii117
    @Nayeliii117 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww Ali don’t cry I don’t have any friends and I have myself 😢 it’s okay

  • @ashleighmodra8440
    @ashleighmodra8440 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alison please don t cry i like to be your Friend

  • @Gigiisnails
    @Gigiisnails ปีที่แล้ว

    no Alison ur mom is always gonna ur best friend

  • @Saigemch
    @Saigemch ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s Emily’s channel ????

  • @Glampryncess32
    @Glampryncess32 ปีที่แล้ว

    My sisters and cousins are my best friends! ❤

  • @TreasureJanay
    @TreasureJanay ปีที่แล้ว

    Allison is my twin bc I’m the same way I’ve always wanted a bff or friends and never got a REAL friend that I clicked with 🥲 and I literally cry every time I think about it 😭
    Btw Allison’s bd is the 29 and mine is the 28 ♈️