When you come on these shows you need to educate yourself on actual facts. BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE MOST TARGETED 19 KEYS you said several things that were straight up lies and miseducation. 1. Black women are the most likely demographic group to have a violent crime committed against them -----40% of all sex trafficking victims are black women under the age of 25 years old. 2. The leading cause of death for pregnant black women is homicide usually at the hands of black men 3. Black women face six times higher rates in dying or having your infant die during childbirth. JUST TO CONTINUE BLACK LIFE. 4. Breast cancer is highest among black women. 5. Black women make up the largest component of those with eating disorders that are often not diagnosed because of the stigma and the mental health community Those are just some facts. I'm a 23 year old dark skin black female and I received more hate from black men not even letting us say that we struggle. Or rather seeing that the only time we are successful is when y'all are not there. It is extremely disgusting black man come on platforms black women seem like we have comfortable lives. I've been watching this show for a long time and not one person has ever encompassed the true reality of a black woman. Not a light skin black woman who gets cherished for her voluptuous nature or for her sexuality or who gets to brag that her mom is white and loves black men. I'm talking about black women who when we go to give birth to our Kings don't have the luxury of having a white mama and some level of privilege in society. And you clearly do not have a black man by our side because they're too busy to tenerative that we are apparently "enjoy too much" y'all need to have some more dark skin black women on the show so you can stop sounding ignorant and hateful.
@@mauricefullenwiderjr we don’t. Successful bw just don’t want unsuccessful men. We don’t belittle y’all or fault y’all. We just arent checking for them. That failure is projecting from the competition of other successful men.
@@AllyBear719 nope yall do disrespect unsuccessful men because that's the only men that successful women can attract. Most successful men marry young whereas most successful women wait until it's too late. Successful men generally want beautiful young women. Not old...
I think 19keys is so stoic. I love how he didn’t share things that were personal to him. I think the two running the podcast were all over the place but I’m glad he was able to speak articulately and to the point. ❤❤❤
This was a much needed conversation for society. When 19 Keys talked about sexual liberation and how nobody really talks about those who ACTUALLY just lack sexual discipline, I wanted to shout and fall out my chair 🔥. I've been WAITING for someone to talk about "that side" of sexual liberation. Great conversation you all!
@@SheIsUnboxed No. It's just women which is why sexual liberation is a feminist movement. & Sadly there are more virgin men then there are virgin women.
@@SheIsUnboxed many women become celibate and stop dating due to emotional trauma & distrust. Hence the phrase "all men ain't sht ".. "Bag lady" refers to women for a reason.
A lot of women are driven to be independent because even when a man is providing there are implications that come with that - living in his world, placing his needs above yours, not feeling heard/seen or taken care of physically and emotionally, abuse etc. I’d love to be dependent on a man and I believe that will happen for me but not at the cost of my own safety and happiness ☺️
Exactly they know there is a duty on their end women are either too lazy or don't even have the ability to hold up their end of the deal most women today want a lot while adding little value to men.
Lmaooo what?😂😂 y’all be talking just to talk. When you KNOW thY self like frfr! Your not even thinking about that type of man or would even attract a situation like the one you just described😭😭
Happiness is fleeting.. that’s the problem with relationships nowadays, women have no sense of duty and it’s all about you. Women get one little “ick” and decide to ruin the whole family, and seemingly the man’s life forever. The reality is relationships are about whose BS you’re willing to put up with and vice versa.
That’s what happens when woman decide that they want a leader instead of a follower. You want leadership qualities in your man but don’t expect to follow…how?
How 19 keys consciously defended Floyd Mayweather understanding that there's a very strong need for black excellence and despite his educational background he's a perfect reflection of a achiever of modern day black excellence
I love seeing 19Keys in these spaces. It bridges the "imaginary" gap that we perceive. In actuality, we are more alike and ultimately need the same things. Best for last, he is soooooo damn fine. Physically fine no doubt, but it's mostly his masculine energy. He is the definition of a "high value man", and I've never heard him talk about or show his money.
@@user-gj4ez6qj2z He is redirecting the miss information given by the mansophere in regards to being a high value man. He has to talk about what he wants men to elevate to.
@@Cheflyfe_knitty I mean not really, who cares what he looks like (not my cuppa tea personally) his views are his views, some ppl will agree some ppl won't. I personally do not agree with some of his views, but can also appreciate the male perspective on some of his views and understand the thought behind it. It's good to see both sides coz end of the day, a relationship is all about comprising and meeting each other half way. As long as views are expressed without disrespecting the opposing side it's good conversation. He obviously has very different expectations from his relationships which is fine, but I appreciated that he didn't start with the degrading talk which some men fail to do.
Women like her are queens of contradictions. In the beginning she said she hates how F&F shxt on women but literally 2 minutes later saids every woman on that podcast is a 3🤦🏿♂️. Most bxtches on that pod are 10x better looking than her.😂😂😂😂
First time watching this I’m not a fan of her masculine modern woman energy but I did like how 19 keys was controlled and didn’t let that get to him cause “Wheezy” was only talking about her and women doing this and women earning that” and she’s in control of multi million dollars deals” I almost couldn’t finish the whole podcast of because of her!! Too Much.. and you can tell she not feminine or nurturing!! and how many times you going to say you can cook and make money lol
Interdependence is the KEY. We dont need each other FOR EVERYTHING. Thats has to be acceptable. a woman having her own, shouldnt determine her value as a partner.
It’s not really about you having your own. I don’t know any dude who in real life and has a woman doesn’t want her to have her own, because what if something happens? She needs her own security just in case something happens. What it is, is the idea that seems to come with being independent. Imagine being with a partner who acts like they don’t need you. I mean really doesn’t need you, not doesn’t need you to be able to survive as an adult. Women don’t like it either, I just don’t understand how they don’t understand it in reverse.
I had no clue who 19keys was until, by chance, this video came through. He's a patient, well thought out man, who has confidence in his knowledge and wisdom. Love every bit of it.
1. Weezy learning that the things she aspires to be doesnt matter to men was hilarious. 2. 19Keys explaining the basics of courting and Weezy over there confused like "What should I be looking for in courting?" Mandii says "Flowers!!!" Keys: Nah I meant COMMUNICATION.
Business is masculine statement is so wrong in my opinion 🧐 as a successful self funded 💅🏾 black female CEO of 13 yrs doing business in 20+ countries I think women in business leadership positions are more equipped actually our femininity is the cherry on top, so yes we lead with strength and can lead into masculine energy as necessary but amongst a long list women’s strengths our emotional intelligence and attention to detail in business says enough
Not to mention, people place leadership as masculine because they use "logic." Men use emotions in leadership roles in the WORSE way (war, backhanded deals, putting others at risk/harm, etc.).
Weezy don't let anyone tell you how to treat your man or potential partner. What works for others might not work for you. There isn't a true manual on this dating shit.
you have a better chance to have a productive relationship by looking at what works for the majority of the people in productive relationships. its like trying to give different people different workouts and expecting the same results.
@@lvl5charmander absolutely not lol. What one person needs and values isn’t what another person needs and values. We are not a monolith but unique individuals who should be treated as such.
@@AllyBear719 youd like to think that, but the numbers dont lie (divorce rates, happiness levels vs 50 years ago, dating stats). for starters, look at all the successful relationships around you and ask them “what makes your relationship work”. and by successful, i mean long term relationships that are clearly and strongly held together by both parties. you’ll be surprised at how similar each is. its fun to think “we are special 🥺 “ but in reality, human behavior is often simple and predictable. its the complex and sporadic relationships that are failing.
as a lesbian listening to these kinds of conversations is soo crazy to me. i respect some of the points that he made but it's wild how most men can't seem to listen to women and recognize us as the experts of our own experiences. when mandy said "why did you go immediately to independent + dependent, what about two independent people together?", she hit the nail on the head. that's what i want, to be in a relationship where we are both mature enough to be responsible for ourselves while ALSO being able to rely on each other and take care of each other. in every sense- emotionally, financially, sexually, etc. it's not impossible, or it wouldn't be if people could put aside all of the things they think they're supposed to want because of played out gender stereotypes!
as an AMAB person these conversations also stress me tf out cause niggas never view this shit as a spectrum. everything is so binary. Their belief systems be too narrow
This man is fine af. But his rhetoric doesn't hold water in the real world. Everybody (male and female) be fighting for their lives in these capitalistic streets. If a woman making sure she can eat, pay her rent, take care of her parents, brothers, sisters and also invest in her future is not feminine enough or dependant enough for partnership, so be it. Masculinize me the fuck up, but one thing for sure, I'll make sure to take care of myself and mines.
Also who is going to choose not to work in this economy?! Patriarchal ideas and captalism go hand in hand. This rhetoric around successful women being undesirable is going to lead a lot of women in fcked up financial situations with men.
Yeah...interesting to see so many praising what he's talking about on this interview. Seems like more of the same tired masucline energy/feminine energy binary and Black entrepreneurship talking points. I mean, the fact that he was talking about crytpo already has me looking at him sideways given how that market has collapsed.
What your saying is facts Sis, But if you are trying to co exist with a man you have to understand that y’all energies have to be able to work together. Being finically fit is only one part of the spectrum, you as a woman will require your man to stimulate your emotions, be able to calm your hectic mind and also please you sexually. A man doing all of those action will allow you to rest in your feminine/soft side, so why Choose to be Masculine?
This man spitting facts. One of the best and most respectful explanations of dating dynamics I’ve heard online. Need more of this and less of F&F content. Relationship needs are different than dating needs.
He speaks on a lot of things as if they're absolute or objective truths, which doesn't allow for the nuance that this kind of discussion requires. Men and women (and nonbinary people, but considering the masculine and feminine energy rhetoric, it's obvious that trans people weren't and aren't considered when interrogating the concept of gender roles in relationships) aren't inherently one way or the other, we're socialized to be that way based on constructs of what a "man" or a "woman" is.
that’s the problem today. The Left has taught sisters to be wishy washy which is why people don’t even know what the term WOMAN means anymore. We have to get back to being right and exact. That’s why he told them to look up the term hotep.
Never been a fan of 19keys, but I like how he challenges these hosts. Mandii talked crap about Mayweather for no reason, but glad 19keys checked her on that.
It was interesting to see him have an open conversation with women and to watch them exchange ideas. I like the way he maintains his aura and is very respectable.
Wow this conversation was beautiful thank you for this podcast cause I needed to here some bosses of both genders take accountability without beating down on each other. Thank you for listening to a black man and thank you for allowing yourself to be heard by us❤
I’ve been aware of 19Keys for a while but this is the first time I’ve heard him in conversation and I’m definitely going to look into more of his content. This is probably one of my favorite episodes this year, love you ladies! 💚
19 Keys told it like it is.... He showed us our flawed thinking as successful single black women. and he exposed the flaws in black men's emotional intelligence. The main thing is don't go into a relationship with a man offering your financial success it means nothing to him. Offer him your femininity and nurturing spirit. 😉
Im glad everyone stood their ground this episode and didn't allow others to shut them down. They all got their points across, especially 19 keys because they usually talk over guests.
I almost didn't watch this episode. Only bc 19 is on every other podcast and I didn't want to see the same thing. But, per usual, Mandi and Weezy kept it real and did their thing. Whoreible is my favorite.
I’m always going to watch but when I saw him on the title I’m like oooh brother lol because I don’t want to hear this shit he be saying, talk some sex lol
This is an interesting episode because what I see is people living and communicating their personal experiences and making them seem like absolute statements. Saying “all men” “all women” is dangerous I prefer to use “from my experience this is what I believe” but for whatever reason it’s so hard for us to separate your personal experience from “societal norms” which are ever changing.
Probably one of my favorite episodes. I learned a lot and laughed much more. I watched the episode when it dropped at midnight and I’m definitely gonna watch it again.
Here for 19 keys 💎 gems, crazy how the two host wouldn’t ask follow up questions but charged the subject to a different topic every time he gave them game
THE BEST!!! Episode EVER!!! So mature, Keys even got Mandi to behave. That is high-level energy. 19 Keys is the truth, more power and blessings to the brother.
Enjoyed this conversation intriguing back and forth dialogue. And for once I’m glad a black man was able to speak up and give us a voice different from the usual backlash of black men.
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 Salaam! I was very surprised to see you in this element Brother 19 Keys 🔑 😉 It was so enlightening to me as career minded women that is at the point of considering myself actually ready for, not just desirous of, a committed close courtship. Thank you for bring this perspective ladies. 1st time listener but I'm subscribed now!
My Ex told me that I was too independent but when I asked him to buy me a house or at least get me an apt he dipped out. Every time I asked him to (Provide) in some way he would go ghost. So my thing is, if I wasn't independent I would be homeless waitin on new negros to help me.... Let's be real, the only reason a man doesn't want an independent woman is because he knows that he can't control her( insecurity). My Ex even admitted this.
Not necessarily, you also could’ve dropped him and got a better man. By you’re logic you’re saying that youre the victim when in reality you have all control over who u date🤷🏽♀️
Wow. It took a lot for me to listen to someone i don’t agree with. Progress! On the tougher issues he did not answer the questions asked…..he went around the barn to get in.
Yoo, same. I believe it is coz he is easy on the eyes because everything he was saying in relation to this feminine and masculine energy was hot garbage.
He saying the whole dynamic of how we view masculine and feminine is wrong...its based off of ego and survival...think about this, when this system falls and all you have is what you are made of....say the whole world became a war zone with no "normal" rules and there is no longer money, status, material, or false bravado to hide behind.....how many ppl can get past the pretty fairytale shit and actually be able to thrive? Can the man find or build simple shelter Can the woman grow food and other herbs for healing....can the men be actually ready to defend the community, can the women be ready to die with the men fighting for the freedom of the community? What we see as success and value is actually us throwing away our value and accepting the mindset of a backwards living agenda.....we arent even living natural to know what true masculinity or femininity is supposed to be.
Such an impactful episode from varying perspectives. Mandi, Weezy defending herself to represent herself and her words as they fit her, is not her being defensive.
19 Keys sounds just like Fre$h n F!t just less harsh. Basically if men aren't in control the relationship dynamic goes out of wack because a man can't be a man unless he's in a leadership position.
Yep. I don’t see any issues with what you’re saying. Imagine an out of control president like Trump - millions of Americans died from COVID-19 due to his inaction.
People are really limiting their potential if they keep adhering to gender stereotypes. Women should not have to lower their ambitions to appease the male ego. People say "it's just facts" but it's all a social construct, and you can change your perspective on societal roles if you really want to. The people who enforce gender stereotypes are usually the ones who benefit most from it.
19 keys great as always. Great conversation but the details of the convo are some of the reasons men and women particularly in our community, can't get on common ground. The women use extreme examples of negative male behavior and female success when discussing these conversations. Most men dont cheat and dont have those options. Most women dont make more than men and cant be off that boss chick energy. 19 Keys did a great job of grounding the convo into real life.
Keys was respectfully bringing logic and making mad points. Especially on the heaux culture vs. family culture, freedom & liberation without taking self-discipline into account.
When 19Keys says at 49:16 that it’s about capitalism, you cannot disentangle capitalism from patriarchy. Angela Davis’s life’s work has unpacked this (and other scholars too)
Mandii attempted to say to Weezy what 19 Keys turned around and said… The characteristics that Weezy feels makes her valuable men do not necessarily see those traits as highly valuable for their relationship.
Mandii and her, “Let me finish” & Weezys “Stop putting words in my mouth” seemed like a battle of the Alphas. What y’all trying to prove to this man? He don’t want neither one of y’all asses! JK, I love y’all. 😂😂😂
I love listening to people who have different opinions to Mandii and Weezy but this man came across as argumentative and contradictory pertaining to black women and “gender wars” He asks “do women listen though?” But didn’t answer questions the ladies brought up and kept objecting to everything Sir do you listen? and are men actually “100% right about a lot of things” 😅
Okay, this was a good conversation! Women's voices need to be heard, and liberation of their bodies need to be experienced when they are young! But 19Keys assessment 42:07 thru 43:35 is very important. When women and men can't even engage the convo about family even at this age, we may be in trouble. Social trouble. Our community needs the conversation to expand passed the immaturity of experiences. The deeper conversation embraces the children to come, and what is required to bless them with foundation. If blessed, you will get old! Guaranteed! #50yroldblackwoman
19 Keys talking about masculine and feminine energies was sexist. All that shit is learned and problematic af. Black community needs to drop those trashy norms and stereotypes.
I just want say you ladies look so good! I usually can only listen and sing have time to watch, but I do every now and again. Love watching you and this was a good Ep. ladies.you’re little sisters in my head. Merry Christmas 😘
Btw loved the commentary my first listen and subbing for sure and yes 👏🏾 black women are giving more black women opportunities, to be better and not compete, everything will fall in line for us and our families! 💚❤🖤
He consistently contradicted himself. Interesting he continued to dodge Weezy’s questions too - he brings up the rhetoric on social media being black women using their financial success to down black men…but when Weezy brings up successful black men overlooking black women, he dismisses it to say well that’s just social media 😂 And Weezy asking are women just suppose to wait for a successful man to come in and financially take care of her…what should she be doing in the meantime? If she becomes financially well off before she meets “her person” his response is well no one told her to do that, and how that no longer makes her desirable. He had some interesting points that I actually agreed with but the dodging Weezy’s questions was a bit frustrating.
Black men cannot afford to play the same game as white men they didn't even build the structure but yet want to actually be equals in it. Black men have to partner equally with their black women and it's just like that to uplift their race. I know they want to be the head but the truth matter is it was not designed for them to do it independently and so when I hear rhetoric like his, it is so dumb, To say I want her to not be educated, I want her to be available for me when I come home it doesn't make any sense because the system is not designed for that to actually even be possible for you to be independently wealthy and that's for the average person because the ones that do go out there and become multi-million dollar athletes entrepreneurs and so forth and so on a lot of them don't choose the women of their community just nonsense.
It is just social media. Just like a lot men live on social media, a lot of women live on social media and think that whatever is on the internet is what’s going on in the real world. I have not heard one person in the real world say they don’t want a woman who has ambition.
I will say what homeboy said about black women "enjoying" a particular set of success because of the war on black men is complete BS. Black women let me first correct are the biggest Target in society yes over black men. Clearly black men so easily forget that we are the basis for Humanity and were the vessels for the perpetualization of slavery in this country so I don't see how black men like to play victim in this sense like we were not a part of the equation. I don't see any black women ENJOY having our sons and husbands slaughtered in front of us. Taken to jail at a one and eight rate. Black men are at least are seen as a threat (in order for someone to be a threat they must hold some type of worth in the enemy's eyes) Black women are so invisible that we are not even allowed to cry for help without being criticized. Here is some food for thought to all the Black Men ..... Imagine leaving the women that raised your children, kept the legacy going by the way continue to have babies with black men despite great adversity. Only to see these black men fleeing to the culture of white man. People need to recognize that black women are inherently the most adaptable creature in society yet we can't even get respect from the men who we have held it down for for literally all of time. SMH. Some life to enjoy.... I don't even need to learn that boy's name. Black men need to stop subscribing to White feminism which is what teaches us to think stupidly and it's counterproductive to the empowerment of women. Black men need to recognize that black women are their greatest asset you don't enjoy anything without us. We birthed You, enjoy that. How is it that both black women and black men are abused but black men always have to make it a point that their struggle holds more value. People are obsessed with black men. No one has ever been obsessed with dark skin black women. I would even venture as far to say that Mandi and Weezy have earned much of their success being light skin voluptuous black women in the entertainment industry. Mandy and weezy your balls often speak on the struggles of black women but never validate that it is different for a light skin black women or half black women. People like Charlemagne and other Mongols in the industry are obsessed with light skin black women but y'all don't dare ever give the credit that us dark females deserve we are constantly hated on. The amount of abuse I a face from black people as a black person myself consistently come from light skin black women especially when their moms are white and black men who have subscribed to an idealization of white women feminism and used it as a justification to alienate black women.
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Thank you for having me on was a great time and got me out my comfort zone.
🎉🎉🎉🎉 we wanted more nasty talk but fuck it, it was your first time. We all went easy on each other 😂❤ - Weezy
Definitely can see that
Great conversationalist too 😮💨👏🏽✍🏽
They finally had a real ninja on the Pod lol!
When you come on these shows you need to educate yourself on actual facts. BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE MOST TARGETED
19 KEYS you said several things that were straight up lies and miseducation.
1. Black women are the most likely demographic group to have a violent crime committed against them
-----40% of all sex trafficking victims are black women under the age of 25 years old.
2. The leading cause of death for pregnant black women is homicide usually at the hands of black men
3. Black women face six times higher rates in dying or having your infant die during childbirth. JUST TO CONTINUE BLACK LIFE.
4. Breast cancer is highest among black women.
5. Black women make up the largest component of those with eating disorders that are often not diagnosed because of the stigma and the mental health community
Those are just some facts. I'm a 23 year old dark skin black female and I received more hate from black men not even letting us say that we struggle. Or rather seeing that the only time we are successful is when y'all are not there. It is extremely disgusting black man come on platforms black women seem like we have comfortable lives. I've been watching this show for a long time and not one person has ever encompassed the true reality of a black woman. Not a light skin black woman who gets cherished for her voluptuous nature or for her sexuality or who gets to brag that her mom is white and loves black men. I'm talking about black women who when we go to give birth to our Kings don't have the luxury of having a white mama and some level of privilege in society. And you clearly do not have a black man by our side because they're too busy to tenerative that we are apparently "enjoy too much" y'all need to have some more dark skin black women on the show so you can stop sounding ignorant and hateful.
"Black women success does not mean black men failure" 💎
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Tru, but if that's the case, successful black women shouldn't call unsuccessful black men failures. These notions don't come from nowhere.
@@mauricefullenwiderjr we don’t. Successful bw just don’t want unsuccessful men. We don’t belittle y’all or fault y’all. We just arent checking for them. That failure is projecting from the competition of other successful men.
@@AllyBear719 nope yall do disrespect unsuccessful men because that's the only men that successful women can attract. Most successful men marry young whereas most successful women wait until it's too late. Successful men generally want beautiful young women. Not old...
Love Weezy for being vocal and not letting keys and Mandii shut her down.
Agree!!
Omg🤣🤣😂
Ive always admired her for her ability to consistently speak up and think things through. I wish she did her own thing.
I think 19keys is so stoic. I love how he didn’t share things that were personal to him. I think the two running the podcast were all over the place but I’m glad he was able to speak articulately and to the point. ❤❤❤
I'm pleased that he request the definition of hotep to be read aloud. . Most people truly don't know the origin/etymology of that word.
Right
I definitely learned something new w/ that one.
Yes!
This was a much needed conversation for society. When 19 Keys talked about sexual liberation and how nobody really talks about those who ACTUALLY just lack sexual discipline, I wanted to shout and fall out my chair 🔥. I've been WAITING for someone to talk about "that side" of sexual liberation. Great conversation you all!
Yep but the problem is that he's on the WRONG show saying that 😂 its called WHOREible decisions for a reason 😂
Sexual liberation has emotionally & spiritually imprisoned women. The greatest and most devastating trick of all time.
@@markg9911 Men and Women
@@SheIsUnboxed No. It's just women which is why sexual liberation is a feminist movement. & Sadly there are more virgin men then there are virgin women.
@@SheIsUnboxed many women become celibate and stop dating due to emotional trauma & distrust. Hence the phrase "all men ain't sht ".. "Bag lady" refers to women for a reason.
A lot of women are driven to be independent because even when a man is providing there are implications that come with that - living in his world, placing his needs above yours, not feeling heard/seen or taken care of physically and emotionally, abuse etc. I’d love to be dependent on a man and I believe that will happen for me but not at the cost of my own safety and happiness ☺️
Exactly they know there is a duty on their end women are either too lazy or don't even have the ability to hold up their end of the deal most women today want a lot while adding little value to men.
Lmaooo what?😂😂 y’all be talking just to talk. When you KNOW thY self like frfr! Your not even thinking about that type of man or would even attract a situation like the one you just described😭😭
Happiness is fleeting.. that’s the problem with relationships nowadays, women have no sense of duty and it’s all about you. Women get one little “ick” and decide to ruin the whole family, and seemingly the man’s life forever. The reality is relationships are about whose BS you’re willing to put up with and vice versa.
If you can seek council from the
Good men in your family when it comes to screening your potential guys you’re considering ❤
That’s what happens when woman decide that they want a leader instead of a follower. You want leadership qualities in your man but don’t expect to follow…how?
Mandy is the single friend that keeps her friends single
Facts!
Glad to see 19 Keys on here. A curveball for the show. BUT I see the growth in mandi. She had so much shit to say but nodded instead 😂
I'm happy when people notice her progress b/c so many act like she hasn't gotten better and better with time.
How 19 keys consciously defended Floyd Mayweather understanding that there's a very strong need for black excellence and despite his educational background he's a perfect reflection of a achiever of modern day black excellence
I love seeing 19Keys in these spaces. It bridges the "imaginary" gap that we perceive. In actuality, we are more alike and ultimately need the same things. Best for last, he is soooooo damn fine. Physically fine no doubt, but it's mostly his masculine energy. He is the definition of a "high value man", and I've never heard him talk about or show his money.
Lol all he talks about is being high value. Nobody high value preaches about being high value.
OmG YES 🤤 the epitome of a fine man all around
@@user-gj4ez6qj2z He is redirecting the miss information given by the mansophere in regards to being a high value man. He has to talk about what he wants men to elevate to.
I appreciate that he expressed his views without disrespect, that's one thing some guys can't do.
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Women only listen to who shes attracted to. Even if its the same exact message
@@Cheflyfe_knitty I mean not really, who cares what he looks like (not my cuppa tea personally) his views are his views, some ppl will agree some ppl won't. I personally do not agree with some of his views, but can also appreciate the male perspective on some of his views and understand the thought behind it. It's good to see both sides coz end of the day, a relationship is all about comprising and meeting each other half way. As long as views are expressed without disrespecting the opposing side it's good conversation. He obviously has very different expectations from his relationships which is fine, but I appreciated that he didn't start with the degrading talk which some men fail to do.
@@channy1038 i was speaking in general not about him specifically. Its a respect level.
If you feel disrespected, that's on you. He can say whatever he wants, how he wants.
@19KEYS Thank you for coming through and representing the Bay! The thoughtful engagement, clear and concise delivery, and chill vibe is so refreshing.
DUDE DON'T STUTTER! good interview, info, Insightful
Wheezy said she doesn’t disrespect men for being broke….she absolutely does. Repeatedly on this podcast
lol
Women like her are queens of contradictions. In the beginning she said she hates how F&F shxt on women but literally 2 minutes later saids every woman on that podcast is a 3🤦🏿♂️. Most bxtches on that pod are 10x better looking than her.😂😂😂😂
First time watching this I’m not a fan of her masculine modern woman energy but I did like how 19 keys was controlled and didn’t let that get to him cause “Wheezy” was only talking about her and women doing this and women earning that” and she’s in control of multi million dollars deals” I almost couldn’t finish the whole podcast of because of her!! Too Much.. and you can tell she not feminine or nurturing!! and how many times you going to say you can cook and make money lol
Interdependence is the KEY. We dont need each other FOR EVERYTHING. Thats has to be acceptable. a woman having her own, shouldnt determine her value as a partner.
It’s not really about you having your own. I don’t know any dude who in real life and has a woman doesn’t want her to have her own, because what if something happens? She needs her own security just in case something happens. What it is, is the idea that seems to come with being independent. Imagine being with a partner who acts like they don’t need you. I mean really doesn’t need you, not doesn’t need you to be able to survive as an adult. Women don’t like it either, I just don’t understand how they don’t understand it in reverse.
@@butterflymage5623 what the hell are you saying ?
@@malimal4972 I’m not sure how to break that down anymore then I already have. Sorry mate.
Woman wont share their money
I had no clue who 19keys was until, by chance, this video came through. He's a patient, well thought out man, who has confidence in his knowledge and wisdom. Love every bit of it.
1. Weezy learning that the things she aspires to be doesnt matter to men was hilarious. 2. 19Keys explaining the basics of courting and Weezy over there confused like "What should I be looking for in courting?" Mandii says "Flowers!!!" Keys: Nah I meant COMMUNICATION.
i couldn’t tell if they were trolling or just actually that behind
So many jewels in this convo. Love love love it!!!
This guy don't miss👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this was such a good conversation!
Business is masculine statement is so wrong in my opinion 🧐 as a successful self funded 💅🏾 black female CEO of 13 yrs doing business in 20+ countries I think women in business leadership positions are more equipped actually our femininity is the cherry on top, so yes we lead with strength and can lead into masculine energy as necessary but amongst a long list women’s strengths our emotional intelligence and attention to detail in business says enough
Not to mention, people place leadership as masculine because they use "logic." Men use emotions in leadership roles in the WORSE way (war, backhanded deals, putting others at risk/harm, etc.).
19 keys had me laughing ever time he said u understand me 😭😭😭😭
So like 10000 times 😂
Innerstand lol
That's that Bay Area sound
The Oakland in him was out loud and proud. 😂
Weezy don't let anyone tell you how to treat your man or potential partner. What works for others might not work for you. There isn't a true manual on this dating shit.
Yes it is. It's Good character
you have a better chance to have a productive relationship by looking at what works for the majority of the people in productive relationships. its like trying to give different people different workouts and expecting the same results.
@@lvl5charmander absolutely not lol. What one person needs and values isn’t what another person needs and values. We are not a monolith but unique individuals who should be treated as such.
@@AllyBear719 youd like to think that, but the numbers dont lie (divorce rates, happiness levels vs 50 years ago, dating stats). for starters, look at all the successful relationships around you and ask them “what makes your relationship work”. and by successful, i mean long term relationships that are clearly and strongly held together by both parties. you’ll be surprised at how similar each is.
its fun to think “we are special 🥺 “ but in reality, human behavior is often simple and predictable. its the complex and sporadic relationships that are failing.
I love what he said about how you can become a slave to our desires
"Attracted to men who are not fully developed" THAT was the one for me! So glad im moving pass that phase 🙌🏾 "not knowing what to look for in a man"
as a lesbian listening to these kinds of conversations is soo crazy to me. i respect some of the points that he made but it's wild how most men can't seem to listen to women and recognize us as the experts of our own experiences. when mandy said "why did you go immediately to independent + dependent, what about two independent people together?", she hit the nail on the head. that's what i want, to be in a relationship where we are both mature enough to be responsible for ourselves while ALSO being able to rely on each other and take care of each other. in every sense- emotionally, financially, sexually, etc. it's not impossible, or it wouldn't be if people could put aside all of the things they think they're supposed to want because of played out gender stereotypes!
My points exactly I feel like that's why most heterosexual relationships have problems. Men really need to just let their ego go.
men who have such a developped sense of womanhood but isnt anywhere near as eloquent when speaking on *men*.. 😒
as an AMAB person these conversations also stress me tf out cause niggas never view this shit as a spectrum. everything is so binary. Their belief systems be too narrow
That would be codependent not independent.
@@aliyahcunningham376 it's the egooooo
This man is fine af. But his rhetoric doesn't hold water in the real world. Everybody (male and female) be fighting for their lives in these capitalistic streets. If a woman making sure she can eat, pay her rent, take care of her parents, brothers, sisters and also invest in her future is not feminine enough or dependant enough for partnership, so be it. Masculinize me the fuck up, but one thing for sure, I'll make sure to take care of myself and mines.
Also who is going to choose not to work in this economy?! Patriarchal ideas and captalism go hand in hand. This rhetoric around successful women being undesirable is going to lead a lot of women in fcked up financial situations with men.
Yeah...interesting to see so many praising what he's talking about on this interview. Seems like more of the same tired masucline energy/feminine energy binary and Black entrepreneurship talking points. I mean, the fact that he was talking about crytpo already has me looking at him sideways given how that market has collapsed.
@@niknikkyMan it ain’t collapse it’s on sale
What your saying is facts Sis, But if you are trying to co exist with a man you have to understand that y’all energies have to be able to work together. Being finically fit is only one part of the spectrum, you as a woman will require your man to stimulate your emotions, be able to calm your hectic mind and also please you sexually. A man doing all of those action will allow you to rest in your feminine/soft side, so why Choose to be Masculine?
It’s not that it’s not feminine enough most women don’t know when to rest in her feminine frame
I LOVE how Weezy was leading the conversation 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
She was kind of annoying n in her ego, but good conversation as a whole
Just asking what's leading the conversation.. Do you mean she was more aggressive?. And what do you mean of the whole conversation or of the two women
I hope y’all reach 100k followers before the beginning of next year! Steady amazing content ❤🔥
This man spitting facts. One of the best and most respectful explanations of dating dynamics I’ve heard online. Need more of this and less of F&F content. Relationship needs are different than dating needs.
Weezy’s face when he said “sex sells” 😂😂😂
Took me clean out 😂😂😂
Hilarious lol
Damn I missed it. I wish I knew the minute mark
Or time stamp rather
Broke that third wall 😂
He speaks on a lot of things as if they're absolute or objective truths, which doesn't allow for the nuance that this kind of discussion requires. Men and women (and nonbinary people, but considering the masculine and feminine energy rhetoric, it's obvious that trans people weren't and aren't considered when interrogating the concept of gender roles in relationships) aren't inherently one way or the other, we're socialized to be that way based on constructs of what a "man" or a "woman" is.
that’s the problem today. The Left has taught sisters to be wishy washy which is why people don’t even know what the term WOMAN means anymore. We have to get back to being right and exact. That’s why he told them to look up the term hotep.
THIS!!
He aint speaking on trans people.
The video version of this show is great. Only listening to audio wouldn't give me the same feeling
Saaame. This is the first podcast I’ve solely WATCHED, and I couldn’t imagine it only with audio!
Never been a fan of 19keys, but I like how he challenges these hosts.
Mandii talked crap about Mayweather for no reason, but glad 19keys checked her on that.
I’m SO surprised to see 19keys on this show and I’m HERE FOR IT! I’ve seen him in person and he is fine af.
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He is going to the masses and I love it!
It was interesting to see him have an open conversation with women and to watch them exchange ideas. I like the way he maintains his aura and is very respectable.
He was able to maintain because Mandii showed a lot of restraint and Weezy displayed a lot of deference.
Wow this conversation was beautiful thank you for this podcast cause I needed to here some bosses of both genders take accountability without beating down on each other. Thank you for listening to a black man and thank you for allowing yourself to be heard by us❤
I’ve been aware of 19Keys for a while but this is the first time I’ve heard him in conversation and I’m definitely going to look into more of his content. This is probably one of my favorite episodes this year, love you ladies! 💚
"YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOT A BLOCKCHAIN, IT DONT FORGET " that was modern and deep 👍🏾
After he said “sex sells” Weezy started cheezin 😂
19 Keys told it like it is.... He showed us our flawed thinking as successful single black women. and he exposed the flaws in black men's emotional intelligence. The main thing is don't go into a relationship with a man offering your financial success it means nothing to him. Offer him your femininity and nurturing spirit. 😉
Im so proud of you guys having 19 keys on your platform. Real men are real teachers and he's definitely standing with the elite.
Im glad everyone stood their ground this episode and didn't allow others to shut them down. They all got their points across, especially 19 keys because they usually talk over guests.
Can’t even lie when I saw 19 keys face on this preview, I was like 🤔 what is he doing on this Ho show? is he bout to convert Mandy and Weezy?! 😂…..
19 KEYS keeping it a buck with common sense, fairness and facts. He always elevates the conversation to the highest level.
I thank God for Keys and pray for him as often as I can. We need to keep him covered in Pray!!!! Thank you for your Sacrifice🙏🏾
Excellent points by 19 Keys. Loved this show. ❤❤❤
Always early for my ladies ❤
My wish is to see y’all live!
Much love from Massachusetts 🫶🏾
When asked " Have you practiced semen retention" he goes "well, I'm a Master of many things "... 🤣 Classic 😂
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I almost didn't watch this episode. Only bc 19 is on every other podcast and I didn't want to see the same thing. But, per usual, Mandi and Weezy kept it real and did their thing. Whoreible is my favorite.
Same!
I’m always going to watch but when I saw him on the title I’m like oooh brother lol because I don’t want to hear this shit he be saying, talk some sex lol
This is an interesting episode because what I see is people living and communicating their personal experiences and making them seem like absolute statements. Saying “all men” “all women” is dangerous I prefer to use “from my experience this is what I believe” but for whatever reason it’s so hard for us to separate your personal experience from “societal norms” which are ever changing.
Probably one of my favorite episodes. I learned a lot and laughed much more. I watched the episode when it dropped at midnight and I’m definitely gonna watch it again.
Here for 19 keys 💎 gems, crazy how the two host wouldn’t ask follow up questions but charged the subject to a different topic every time he gave them game
Best Podcast so far. This guest is good. Man on Point 👌
Damn, this was a good one! 19 is so dope.
I agree with Mandii. Better looks and better bodies get attention from a certain type of man with money in social media.
THE BEST!!! Episode EVER!!! So mature, Keys even got Mandi to behave. That is high-level energy. 19 Keys is the truth, more power and blessings to the brother.
Behave? I didn't know she was childish
Enjoyed this conversation intriguing back and forth dialogue. And for once I’m glad a black man was able to speak up and give us a voice different from the usual backlash of black men.
Mandi seemed so defensive and argumentative to what he was saying probably because she was triggered from what her ex used to say to her
She is rude ass hell
Not sure how i came across this video but I'm glad I did. It was a very good conversation.
So happy to see 19keys speaking on various platforms so that his wisdom can reach a wide audience. 🙌 💯
I don't think it's intentional necessarily, but him repeatedly saying "right?" after he makes a point, slightly feels like a manipulation tactic lmao
lmao definitely considered micro agreements in the psychology of sales - I thought the same
He's giving narcissist
Yeah, if you aren’t solid in your own opinions it is
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 Salaam! I was very surprised to see you in this element Brother 19 Keys 🔑 😉 It was so enlightening to me as career minded women that is at the point of considering myself actually ready for, not just desirous of, a committed close courtship. Thank you for bring this perspective ladies. 1st time listener but I'm subscribed now!
My Ex told me that I was too independent but when I asked him to buy me a house or at least get me an apt he dipped out. Every time I asked him to (Provide) in some way he would go ghost. So my thing is, if I wasn't independent I would be homeless waitin on new negros to help me.... Let's be real, the only reason a man doesn't want an independent woman is because he knows that he can't control her( insecurity). My Ex even admitted this.
Not necessarily, you also could’ve dropped him and got a better man. By you’re logic you’re saying that youre the victim when in reality you have all control over who u date🤷🏽♀️
Tbf, what you asked where husband provisional duties. Atleast to me. It’s like me asking for a baby without you being my wife. Red flags.
Buy you a house?? He dodged a bullet
We are getting independent and interdependent confused. Mandi is speaking of interdependence.
19 keys is highly intelligent . I enjoyed hearing his point of view .
Well, he sure wants you to think so
19Keys killed it facts 💯 🙏🏾💫❤️
Watched the whole episode and I got to say, one of your best episodes I've watched. Him and Dante legit taught me something.
Wow. It took a lot for me to listen to someone i don’t agree with. Progress! On the tougher issues he did not answer the questions asked…..he went around the barn to get in.
Yoo, same. I believe it is coz he is easy on the eyes because everything he was saying in relation to this feminine and masculine energy was hot garbage.
@@Melissa-td6ln the facts completely hot garbage because I'm not stirred because of a pretty face and articulation
He saying the whole dynamic of how we view masculine and feminine is wrong...its based off of ego and survival...think about this, when this system falls and all you have is what you are made of....say the whole world became a war zone with no "normal" rules and there is no longer money, status, material, or false bravado to hide behind.....how many ppl can get past the pretty fairytale shit and actually be able to thrive? Can the man find or build simple shelter Can the woman grow food and other herbs for healing....can the men be actually ready to defend the community, can the women be ready to die with the men fighting for the freedom of the community? What we see as success and value is actually us throwing away our value and accepting the mindset of a backwards living agenda.....we arent even living natural to know what true masculinity or femininity is supposed to be.
This was such a good episode! 19 should deff become a regular! Y’all ate that!!🔥🔥
“People show up as a reflection of of what they think their partner their partner wants to see in them”. Sheeeesh
I love 19keys!! So surprised to see him on this podcast! I’m so glad he dropped necessary gems! :)
son moonwalked throughout this whole interview. They need more men guest on the show, it's a better experience for all parties.
19 keys spoke all facts. many women hate to hear the truth.
Such an impactful episode from varying perspectives. Mandi, Weezy defending herself to represent herself and her words as they fit her, is not her being defensive.
19 Keys sounds just like Fre$h n F!t just less harsh. Basically if men aren't in control the relationship dynamic goes out of wack because a man can't be a man unless he's in a leadership position.
Thank you someone said it ! It was so hard to watch this 🫥
Then tell women to stop sayin they want men to be leaders in relationships
Yep. I don’t see any issues with what you’re saying. Imagine an out of control president like Trump - millions of Americans died from COVID-19 due to his inaction.
I'm kinda shocked reading these comments .. because he said a bunch of nothing to me. 🤣
People are really limiting their potential if they keep adhering to gender stereotypes. Women should not have to lower their ambitions to appease the male ego. People say "it's just facts" but it's all a social construct, and you can change your perspective on societal roles if you really want to. The people who enforce gender stereotypes are usually the ones who benefit most from it.
19 keys great as always. Great conversation but the details of the convo are some of the reasons men and women particularly in our community, can't get on common ground. The women use extreme examples of negative male behavior and female success when discussing these conversations. Most men dont cheat and dont have those options. Most women dont make more than men and cant be off that boss chick energy. 19 Keys did a great job of grounding the convo into real life.
Great discussion. The reality is what most women require from a man, are far different from what they are attracted to.
Keys was respectfully bringing logic and making mad points. Especially on the heaux culture vs. family culture, freedom & liberation without taking self-discipline into account.
This was dope, ratchetness with righteousness lol this was a great comvo
😂 bro said you understand me like 1000 times … we understand my g
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I really can’t listen to this man 🤦🏽♀️ he’s so contradicting and I can’t keep up. He says one thing and 5 minutes later he says the opposite
When 19Keys says at 49:16 that it’s about capitalism, you cannot disentangle capitalism from patriarchy. Angela Davis’s life’s work has unpacked this (and other scholars too)
Angela Davis was a agent
Mandii attempted to say to Weezy what 19 Keys turned around and said… The characteristics that Weezy feels makes her valuable men do not necessarily see those traits as highly valuable for their relationship.
Mandii and her, “Let me finish” & Weezys “Stop putting words in my mouth” seemed like a battle of the Alphas. What y’all trying to prove to this man? He don’t want neither one of y’all asses! JK, I love y’all. 😂😂😂
I love listening to people who have different opinions to Mandii and Weezy but this man came across as argumentative and contradictory pertaining to black women and “gender wars”
He asks “do women listen though?” But didn’t answer questions the ladies brought up and kept objecting to everything
Sir do you listen? and are men actually “100% right about a lot of things”
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Okay, this was a good conversation! Women's voices need to be heard, and liberation of their bodies need to be experienced when they are young! But 19Keys assessment 42:07 thru 43:35 is very important. When women and men can't even engage the convo about family even at this age, we may be in trouble. Social trouble. Our community needs the conversation to expand passed the immaturity of experiences. The deeper conversation embraces the children to come, and what is required to bless them with foundation. If blessed, you will get old! Guaranteed! #50yroldblackwoman
Great video! I enjoyed this switch up from the common dialogue of this podcast.❤
Best episode they have done, game was dropped and the dialogue between you three was an excellent example of the communication our community needs.
Y’all lost me on this one… entertaining maybe. Educational not in the slightest. Much love either way
19 Keys talking about masculine and feminine energies was sexist. All that shit is learned and problematic af. Black community needs to drop those trashy norms and stereotypes.
Thank you. This dichotomy doesn't serve anyone.
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The two female host spew sexist shii on every podcast. It doesn't matter if it is sexist, he is expressing his truth
I just want say you ladies look so good! I usually can only listen and sing have time to watch, but I do every now and again. Love watching you and this was a good Ep. ladies.you’re little sisters in my head. Merry Christmas 😘
Major props to 19 for holding it down! Theres still real men/kings out here ladies we will always love/support our blk women 👑🙌🏾
Btw loved the commentary my first listen and subbing for sure and yes 👏🏾 black women are giving more black women opportunities, to be better and not compete, everything will fall in line for us and our families! 💚❤🖤
😂😂😂I screamed laughing when he said they open the door for black women because we are what?!? So many thoughts
He consistently contradicted himself. Interesting he continued to dodge Weezy’s questions too - he brings up the rhetoric on social media being black women using their financial success to down black men…but when Weezy brings up successful black men overlooking black women, he dismisses it to say well that’s just social media 😂
And Weezy asking are women just suppose to wait for a successful man to come in and financially take care of her…what should she be doing in the meantime? If she becomes financially well off before she meets “her person” his response is well no one told her to do that, and how that no longer makes her desirable. He had some interesting points that I actually agreed with but the dodging Weezy’s questions was a bit frustrating.
That is because we are not attracted to the same things .
@@stevekerr3201 …& this has absolutely nothing to do with what I said ✌🏾
Black men cannot afford to play the same game as white men they didn't even build the structure but yet want to actually be equals in it. Black men have to partner equally with their black women and it's just like that to uplift their race. I know they want to be the head but the truth matter is it was not designed for them to do it independently and so when I hear rhetoric like his, it is so dumb, To say I want her to not be educated, I want her to be available for me when I come home it doesn't make any sense because the system is not designed for that to actually even be possible for you to be independently wealthy and that's for the average person because the ones that do go out there and become multi-million dollar athletes entrepreneurs and so forth and so on a lot of them don't choose the women of their community just nonsense.
It is just social media. Just like a lot men live on social media, a lot of women live on social media and think that whatever is on the internet is what’s going on in the real world. I have not heard one person in the real world say they don’t want a woman who has ambition.
@@kyshac81 makes a lot of sense. The internet is the land of make up and believe
Wow, 19 is holding it down with two modern women 👏
I will say what homeboy said about black women "enjoying" a particular set of success because of the war on black men is complete BS. Black women let me first correct are the biggest Target in society yes over black men. Clearly black men so easily forget that we are the basis for Humanity and were the vessels for the perpetualization of slavery in this country so I don't see how black men like to play victim in this sense like we were not a part of the equation. I don't see any black women ENJOY having our sons and husbands slaughtered in front of us. Taken to jail at a one and eight rate. Black men are at least are seen as a threat (in order for someone to be a threat they must hold some type of worth in the enemy's eyes) Black women are so invisible that we are not even allowed to cry for help without being criticized. Here is some food for thought to all the Black Men ..... Imagine leaving the women that raised your children, kept the legacy going by the way continue to have babies with black men despite great adversity. Only to see these black men fleeing to the culture of white man. People need to recognize that black women are inherently the most adaptable creature in society yet we can't even get respect from the men who we have held it down for for literally all of time. SMH. Some life to enjoy.... I don't even need to learn that boy's name. Black men need to stop subscribing to White feminism which is what teaches us to think stupidly and it's counterproductive to the empowerment of women. Black men need to recognize that black women are their greatest asset you don't enjoy anything without us. We birthed You, enjoy that. How is it that both black women and black men are abused but black men always have to make it a point that their struggle holds more value. People are obsessed with black men. No one has ever been obsessed with dark skin black women. I would even venture as far to say that Mandi and Weezy have earned much of their success being light skin voluptuous black women in the entertainment industry. Mandy and weezy your balls often speak on the struggles of black women but never validate that it is different for a light skin black women or half black women. People like Charlemagne and other Mongols in the industry are obsessed with light skin black women but y'all don't dare ever give the credit that us dark females deserve we are constantly hated on. The amount of abuse I a face from black people as a black person myself consistently come from light skin black women especially when their moms are white and black men who have subscribed to an idealization of white women feminism and used it as a justification to alienate black women.