Her dad is a legend. That's the only way to handle it!! He's taking advantage of the freedom gifted to him by ex wife and has traded up to a younger, hotter woman.
I'm sorry to hear about this wife who threw away a 38-year-old marriage for a bit of fun. It's sad to think that she had such a great life but lost it all for nothing. It's understandable that she may have thought her husband would forgive her based on the number of years they've been together, but unfortunately, the std has closed that door forever. This is a cautionary tale about the importance of not taking your marriage for granted. Also, this is an example of when a wife takes kindness, loving nature, and warmth as a sign of weakness. Some people will love and protect you in a marriage or relationship, but if you cheat or break their trust the relationship is over forever as seen in this cased.
I've never understood the cheaters that don't understand that partners that have been faithful for decades can be the least likely to be able to move past infidelity.
This husband could make himself a real high value man by immediately getting divorce papers and having his cheating wife served! Then taking 50 percent of everything and letting the lawyers and court decide the final damage he is going to have to endure!
I don't blame your father for the betrayal he has gone through but First of all your father handled it well like a boss, second don't give in your mother's demand and give away his location and, finally support you and your brother in a crisis like this
Sadly, I think a major motivation for women (and not so much for men) to cheat is the belief that ultimately and eventually their husbands will pardon or exonerate their bad behavior and actions. And after a long marriage, women are more easily convinced that their husbands don't have any choice but to let it go, removing any since of fidelity and loyalty from such a since of entitlement.
There is not much one can say are we supposed to tell someone who your friends can be. Your mother knew what her friend did all this time when she was with her. It was exciting to her. Her emotions took over and with a little bit of alcohol it allowed her to feel good about it. Then when she finally realizes what she fell into sobering up guilt over took her it happens. It's funny we don't want to tell females what they can or can't do but then it looks like they need it. EGO is a very powerful thing in every human being and it stays with everyone until you pass away.
It appears the children are more concerned about their cheating mother vs their father who is the real victim. Their overwhelming bias toward the cheating mother is appalling. The mother should be shunned and suffer theconsequences of her cheating actions alone. The children keep enabling their cheating mother who contracted a STD when engaging in sexual encounters with her affair partner which is detestable. It is hard to image that the daughter even apologizes to mother for telling the cheater the truth. Really? The mother should be forced to acknowledge the truth. The grown children should be limiting their mother’s contact with their children since she would be a bad influence on the grand children. The grown children should be reminding their mother of the consequences of her cheating.
In society, women are seldom held accountable, it's rare.The gvt will give them everything they need to continue a promiscuous lifestyle, but there are some good ones, I have one.
Wife of 40 years if she cheated done.its shows lack of respect lack of love never get pictures out of my head never trust her again that is no way to live.
I think that it's important to note, that just as easily as one might argue that 38 years should not be thrown away so lightly by the betrayed spouse, I believe the stronger argument is that one should not hang onto the person that so easily threw away 38 years of marriage by forsaking her vows for a bowl of beans. Why hang onto such a woman?
It's the only way. I left my wife after 44 years of being together when she cheated on me for the second time. She was my childhood sweetheart. I decade ago, I kind of forgave her the first time, but she kept on going. Deep down I know, I should have left at the first time she cheated. Now there is no reconciliation, there is nothing to make it right. Although I still care for her, the trust has vanished, the love is gone and there is nothing wanting me to take her back.
Hello Sir, i dont mean to be disrespectful i am just curious. How could you take her back the first time she cheated? Another man has been inside her. Bro that is the ultimate yuck. If i was in your shoes hell would freeze over before i took her back.
I do not believe or accept the story that she gave her son once finally challenged. This woman may of not physically cheated on her husband up to this point but i bet she was probably emotionally cheating for many years.Her selective memory if you want to call it that is very interesting at best! I guess this is another point for Chad and Tyrone! Bases are now loaded!
My wife of 8 years who I had 3 children with cheated on me and became pregnant by someone elses husband, I divorced her 42 years ago and never regretted it.I've been in a better marriage for 40 years.
Betrayal and cheating have huge consequences. The Dad made the right decision to separate, he could have been graciously had a share of the STI. Always remember that stupid prices await those who play stupid games.
I advise respecting your father’s wishes. To do anything less would be a huge disservice and disrespect to him and your relationship. You risk loosing your relay with him. That would be your mother’s fault and your fault. Your mother is NOT your responsibility. If she needs help she should get professional help. You should stay out of their relationship. Period. Your mother is just looking for more attention. Trying to leverage you against him. Typical and very calculating.
In the area where I live there are three health spars. And during my late teens and early twenties the number of middle aged married women trying to hook up with younger men was unbelivable. Most men never find out that their wife is cheating on them. Women can hide cheating a lot better than men can, they have been doing it for centuries.
Lets correct all these false statements! You can never of had a wonderful marriage for a time period and after everything gone to hell! You were living in a delusion at best. At least this time a man finally acted like a man and took decieve steps.
So the kids want the dad to take back this STD inttexted stank. Now she want to act like sje cares, wherd was all that love ehen she was opening up her legs? Yhats ehat she get hanging out with a nasty stank. I hope dad never come back! Again op why do you wany your dad yo forgive that stank,? Op would you forgive your husband ?
Five months after this posting and I'm just now listening to it and all I can think of to say is, what the hell, a woman narrator?...not that this is a bad thing but after dozens of listens to the male narrator's voice, hearing a female voice was totally unexpected. As to the story itself, unlike the majority of commenters, I can't help but feel a bit sorry for the cheating wife.
It is sadly a very difficult desision to scrap 40 years of a strong family bond to divorce move out and go separate ways. What a shock . But how heartbreaking to find a wife looking for sex and anything else she would have been better off just to go on adventure road trips with her husband. Well its done the daughter is a true caring young adult i bet she has cried buckets since all this came to light.good luck to all of you.
Your father showed that he is an alpha and will not tolerate cheating. Cheaters are the nastiest people on the planet and they never ever deserve any happiness ever again. What did she think would happen?
one can forgive but not forget...the mind movies of the infidelity will make some men unable to trust and always wonder if this was the only time and will it happen again in the future for the next time the tingles happen
Kudos to Dad. He deserves happiness. Infidelity is a deal breaker, especially after so many years of marriage.
Well done to the dad.
Thats how you do it 👏
She fk'd around and found out. literally The man handled it perfectly. Well done sir.
Her dad is a legend. That's the only way to handle it!! He's taking advantage of the freedom gifted to him by ex wife and has traded up to a younger, hotter woman.
Oldie but a goodie!
I'm sorry to hear about this wife who threw away a 38-year-old marriage for a bit of fun. It's sad to think that she had such a great life but lost it all for nothing. It's understandable that she may have thought her husband would forgive her based on the number of years they've been together, but unfortunately, the std has closed that door forever. This is a cautionary tale about the importance of not taking your marriage for granted. Also, this is an example of when a wife takes kindness, loving nature, and warmth as a sign of weakness. Some people will love and protect you in a marriage or relationship, but if you cheat or break their trust the relationship is over forever as seen in this cased.
I've never understood the cheaters that don't understand that partners that have been faithful for decades can be the least likely to be able to move past infidelity.
I totally agree with you@@Adiscretefirm
@@Adiscretefirmwomen view kindness by husbands as weakness who'd accept wife's cheating.
Cheating whores always figure they can always use classic lies and guilt that women always use by claiming her husband never really loved her.
As far as my situation, no matter how long we've been together & married, infidelity is a deal-breaker. She'd be gone.
Well maybe the cheating 59 year old wife should've thought of the potential consequences of her selfish actions. Now suffer in silence, no one cares
This husband could make himself a real high value man by immediately getting divorce papers and having his cheating wife served! Then taking 50 percent of everything and letting the lawyers and court decide the final damage he is going to have to endure!
I don't blame your father for the betrayal he has gone through but First of all your father handled it well like a boss, second don't give in your mother's demand and give away his location and, finally support you and your brother in a crisis like this
STBXW mistook husband's kindness for weakness who'd forgive her.
Sadly, I think a major motivation for women (and not so much for men) to cheat is the belief that ultimately and eventually their husbands will pardon or exonerate their bad behavior and actions. And after a long marriage, women are more easily convinced that their husbands don't have any choice but to let it go, removing any since of fidelity and loyalty from such a since of entitlement.
There is not much one can say are we supposed to tell someone who your friends can be.
Your mother knew what her friend did all this time when she was with her.
It was exciting to her.
Her emotions took over and with a little bit of alcohol it allowed her to feel good about it.
Then when she finally realizes what she fell into sobering up guilt over took her it happens.
It's funny we don't want to tell females what they can or can't do but then it looks like they need it.
EGO is a very powerful thing in every human being and it stays with everyone until you pass away.
Amazing!!! Very well written
It appears the children are more concerned about their cheating mother vs their father who is the real victim. Their overwhelming bias toward the cheating mother is appalling. The mother should be shunned and suffer theconsequences of her cheating actions alone. The children keep enabling their cheating mother who contracted a STD when engaging in sexual encounters with her affair partner which is detestable. It is hard to image that the daughter even apologizes to mother for telling the cheater the truth. Really? The mother should be forced to acknowledge the truth. The grown children should be limiting their mother’s contact with their children since she would be a bad influence on the grand children. The grown children should be reminding their mother of the consequences of her cheating.
In society, women are seldom held accountable, it's rare.The gvt will give them everything they need to continue a promiscuous lifestyle, but there are some good ones, I have one.
Wife of 40 years if she cheated done.its shows lack of respect lack of love never get pictures out of my head never trust her again that is no way to live.
I think that it's important to note, that just as easily as one might argue that 38 years should not be thrown away so lightly by the betrayed spouse, I believe the stronger argument is that one should not hang onto the person that so easily threw away 38 years of marriage by forsaking her vows for a bowl of beans. Why hang onto such a woman?
It's the only way. I left my wife after 44 years of being together when she cheated on me for the second time. She was my childhood sweetheart. I decade ago, I kind of forgave her the first time, but she kept on going. Deep down I know, I should have left at the first time she cheated. Now there is no reconciliation, there is nothing to make it right. Although I still care for her, the trust has vanished, the love is gone and there is nothing wanting me to take her back.
Hello Sir, i dont mean to be disrespectful i am just curious. How could you take her back the first time she cheated? Another man has been inside her. Bro that is the ultimate yuck. If i was in your shoes hell would freeze over before i took her back.
I do not believe or accept the story that she gave her son once finally challenged. This woman may of not physically cheated on her husband up to this point but i bet she was probably emotionally cheating for many years.Her selective memory if you want to call it that is very interesting at best! I guess this is another point for Chad and Tyrone! Bases are now loaded!
My wife of 8 years who I had 3 children with cheated on me and became pregnant by someone elses husband, I divorced her 42 years ago and never regretted it.I've been in a better marriage for 40 years.
Betrayal and cheating have huge consequences. The Dad made the right decision to separate, he could have been graciously had a share of the STI. Always remember that stupid prices await those who play stupid games.
I advise respecting your father’s wishes. To do anything less would be a huge disservice and disrespect to him and your relationship. You risk loosing your relay with him. That would be your mother’s fault and your fault.
Your mother is NOT your responsibility. If she needs help she should get professional help.
You should stay out of their relationship. Period.
Your mother is just looking for more attention. Trying to leverage you against him.
Typical and very calculating.
17:20 Absolutely not. All of my sympathy goes to the hubby.
38 years? Good ridance, time for an upgrade and younger model anyway.
Again the allure of a younger lover.
In the area where I live there are three health spars. And during my late teens and early twenties the number of middle aged married women trying to hook up with younger men was unbelivable. Most men never find out that their wife is cheating on them. Women can hide cheating a lot better than men can, they have been doing it for centuries.
With birth control of several types and abortion it has become much easier.
Lets correct all these false statements! You can never of had a wonderful marriage for a time period and after everything gone to hell! You were living in a delusion at best. At least this time a man finally acted like a man and took decieve steps.
no. she was not chained in place. she knew how he felt about cheating. she could have left that situation, but she did not. good for him.
No there is no way you can forgive betrayal especially after so many years It is something that you can never get out of your head
You really like the word discomfort
Almost 4 decades of relationship shattered by few moments of pleasure.
Deal breaker
Nice lol😂 karma is sweet lol
Sorry but infidelity is a game changer
So the kids want the dad to take back this STD inttexted stank. Now she want to act like sje cares, wherd was all that love ehen she was opening up her legs? Yhats ehat she get hanging out with a nasty stank. I hope dad never come back! Again op why do you wany your dad yo forgive that stank,? Op would you forgive your husband ?
Five months after this posting and I'm just now listening to it and all I can think of to say is, what the hell, a woman narrator?...not that this is a bad thing but after dozens of listens to the male narrator's voice, hearing a female voice was totally unexpected.
As to the story itself, unlike the majority of commenters, I can't help but feel a bit sorry for the cheating wife.
It is sadly a very difficult desision to scrap 40 years of a strong family bond to divorce move out and go separate ways. What a shock . But how heartbreaking to find a wife looking for sex and anything else she would have been better off just to go on adventure road trips with her husband. Well its done the daughter is a true caring young adult i bet she has cried buckets since all this came to light.good luck to all of you.
By way of improvement, substitute the synthetic robot voices with real human voices and get rid of the faulty captions.
Thanks for the suggestions. We will implement that.
Your father showed that he is an alpha and will not tolerate cheating. Cheaters are the nastiest people on the planet and they never ever deserve any happiness ever again. What did she think would happen?
No.
one can forgive but not forget...the mind movies of the infidelity will make some men unable to trust and always wonder if this was the only time and will it happen again in the future for the next time the tingles happen
Who's the pretty lady on the screen?
I hate the flashing green words.
@cjwilliams8350 any suggestions how i should put that text.
Deal breaker..
Nope 🙅♂️ deal breaker
The kids should stay out of their parents life's.