TUA #1 - Why Men Simp (And How To Stop)
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- Lets talk about why so many men today have reduced themselves to simping for women (and men) and how that gets them terrible results out of life, and with women.
We'll discuss the factors that creating weak "simping" behaviors in men, provide some tests to establish if you are a simp or not, and how to fix this unattractive behavior going forward so you can get what you want out of life, and with women.
Q&A will be open to all after the monologue, so bring questions during the call in segment.
What is simping?
-a man that goes out of his way to bend the knee to women in hopes she will see his righteousness as attractive and want to be intimate with him. These men are grass fed lions
Why men do it? - In short... It's easy, safe, and comfortable
- a total lack of self respect.
- they have no real purpose in life.
- they think being a 'nice guy' will get them intimacy
- It's taught by parenting (43% by single moms), school, media, government, etc.
- softer, weaker men with an estrogen dominate endocrine system. See the book 'Estrogeneration' by Dr. Anthony Jay for reference.
The simp test
- Constantly trying to impress women
- Showering women with complements & money
- White knighting
- Getting little to zero success with women
- Texting back fast, and persistently
Society doesn't teach men to put themselves first, and calls conventional masculinity 'toxic'
Solution
- be the prize
- put yourself first
- make money, grow muscles, learn how to fight, and learn game
- realize beauty is common, top shelf men aren't
- spend time around more top shelf men
- stop listening to your mom, and other neutered men
- stop following women you aren't intimate with
- call it out
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@R D You desperately need to step away from TH-cam grifters and go acquire some actual education/experience.....
@@zogook2953 remember, after you spew... Offer solutions. Don't just point and sputter.
So what do you suggest?
@@bjtucker5 I clearly offered a suggestion....
Ml w
I read the book in one day. Loved it. My buddy is the son of a retired US Senator, and he just went through a NASTY divorce. I felt like I was reading about his life in that one chapter. She was after his family’s money from day one. Now he’s fighting to spend time with his two little girls.
Never worship another human being, especially one that has achieved nothing.
Right, so true, all these that send their hard earned money to some celeb for something like a signed picture, crazy, people should just worry about making themselves a star in their own life
I "worship" some other dudes that had ultimate impact on my world or the World in general. At max...
Neckbeard virgin.
Even those who have "achievements" shouldn't be worshipped
Broo your comment just shook me off thanks 👍
It’s just insane… men need to stop putting women on a pedestal..
There are lazy women who wants top 1% men with no work. Shit attitude, overweight, chaotic life yet they want the best of the best because they deserve it
There are lazy men who want good women by just going to bar with a “good” cologne and their “lucky” shirt. They will not get their money up, take on hard challenges, and their body looks like McDonalds quarter pounder they shove in their mouth every lunch.
Not many people are willing to put in the work. Why do you think we have so many fat man?
The bar is set so low, if you just give a damn about standard, and integrity it will show. That’s the current landscape.
You ask most men, giving women validation and attention, complimenting is not simping. That's just being polite. And maybe she will like him more for it...
@@qbraun9241 You're not doing yourself any favors by complimenting them. That doesn't work anymore and they don't appreciate it. They will treat you like a 'fan'.
Do I need to put it on a pedestal. Something which turning 30 is old, cheats and does not respect most of the men. And thinks that it can do everything without doing some work. Good luck. I love most of them, but the man must be a man first. Then to interact with women. Reality just proves it since begin of time. A woman wants a real man, desperately, she does everything for him, at the same time - f3min1sm. To put this on a pedestal? Guys must see better through the bulls..t. Otherwise they can not only not compete, they could not survive in one real world
@@joshspikerThat couldn't be more true. Never ever give a woman a compliment because they already know they are beautiful. It only strokes their ego.
What you said about men not knowing their gift or purpose is spot on. My focus shifted on pursuing my purpose once I discovered it. Beforehand, I wasting my time on things that don’t matter, in this case chasing women who never gave me a time of day.
Another Red Flag from women - when she commits to a relationship with you, but still keeps photos from an ex-lover in her showcase, drawers or Social Media. Is it an Alpha widow?
If you can match or better that alpha (especially in bed) it has a probability of working out over time.
Yes.
Always.
@@gunsandpoker7432 in ALL cases.
Duhhhhh
I always think that's weird when someone is in a relationship on FB and they have multiple ex pictures
“Grass fed lion” Damn.
What a great episode. And the blokes that called in, it shows that you have built a great community, none of them seemed overly ego invested nor trying to show someone they are not. Enjoyed it through and through.
Started reading this book and am actually feeling every part as i read...thanks man!!!from🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Rich is a pretty "toxic" guy, yet none of his critics have called him that. Toxic masculinity is a hoax.
The critics know that Rich will hit back so they have to think twice and he has the power of the words to have an intelligent conversation. Nothing like actual proof/evidence when going into battle.
@@davewrightthethinker If you think about it… it’s almost like the return or rise of racism. Yes… racists exist… but I think that they account for 3-4% of the general population & by nature most people aren’t racist. It’s something that’s said & did so that the other person is knocked back on their heels & don’t know how to respond (@ 1st). But it also shows the insecurities that person has, & in some ways is a form of projection. Whatever it is that they hate about themselves they put onto you calling you a racist. Toxic masculinity is pretty much exactly the same thing in my book.
The only masculinity in the world that is toxic is the kind the comes from a girl.
Toxic in what way?
How is he toxic
I watched another of your videos, and made it half way through this one before buying TUA. So on point it’s almost frightening. Thank you, Rich.
I appreciate your videos, always full of knowledge, and Wisdom. You're a wise man. I am glad that I found your utube channel. 😎👍💪
Stop aiming to be a boyfriend... Be the MAN she wants.
To hell with what SHE wants! Be the MAN for you!
@@MM-ug5ec exactly... and when you are, or are at least working toward it, women like that, want that kind of man. We're saying the same thing brother. Thx
@@MM-ug5ec excellent!!
Virgin
@@jrdramey nope. Married 16yrs in sept.
The blueprint is to live life and be satisfied without. When you don't need they come calling
Simping can be defined as - providing resources (money, things, time, attention) to another with the express purpose, either consciously or unconsciously, of realizing one's reproductive strategy.
Avoid simping by becoming your own mental point of origin.
Going to miss BTT, but enjoyed the first episode I’d TUA.
You don’t take advice from a bad fishman, or someone without a boat and fishing pole on how to catch fish. Gold, sir. Keep it real.
Just say no to simping
Great Advice guys .I'm 52 and iv learnt so much from this guy..Listem to him .
what i learn about male female dynamic around me, even if men trying to do the right thing for both gender, women still need to blame men to take responsibility, so i start to do things for myself first with measured risk that i can afford, then the life become much easier
I follow a small amount of women on social media not to their staff room or send them free money but to see what rich is talking about in action. A lot of people get upset with what he says saying that he's being presumptuous and assuming a lot that isn't true. The evidence is there if you know where to look. Not only from my personal experience but the experience of literally every man I've spoken to, he is right.
You’re feeding the beast Aka you are sim ping
I was that guy , do anything for her , had a kid more like she planned it behind my back , caught her messing with a so called friend , idon't blame him I blame her for iniation in the first place , stood my ground , still was getting disrespected at ever turn , I ended and left , she thought she could get away with anything , that was the rock she perished on , 20 yrs later after my son grew up he and I have a great solid relationship now , my son's mum is now married unhappily , sleeping in different rooms in a BIG house , no love , 4 other kids to rear from that marriage , glad i could foresee my future if I stayed , karma always comes to those who do wrong by others at some point in their lives 🤗
To the caller about cars. I went from driving a pos Buick and bought a 2011 M3 frozen black, immediately changed the crowd to hang with.
The guy with the dogs....seemed half lit, and couldn't even keep the frame with his mutts.
This has helped me today. Thank you.
It's sad I know but I'm glad I'm learning everything that you talk about it's home damn I got some changing to do
Whining and pining is beneath the divine masculine and a waste of time and resources that undermines our innate creative power and intuition.
I am a woman, a fly on the wall, and one who would raise, well lots of red flags; fortunately I am not in that market. Please remember to remind the men you are talking to that red flags are just flags; young cool people (couples) can heal together (at the same time, travelling together) too; also it seems like lots of men are "finding" their way - don't ignore chicks who maybe just haven't found their way yet, aren't their prettiest, best self yet, especially, especially, if you yourself went through such a transformation. I'm sort of making a mathematical observation/equation here: men also seek fruitful/positive relationships; from a woman's romantic perspective, we're all seeking love; therefore, think on an individual basis too - is the goal for men to become part of the 20% who get 80% of the sex? Isn't the best way to get regular sex, well LTR or marriage? Thank you so so much for your politically incorrect honesty and advice to young men. I am awed by your personal story and admire your way of teaching. God bless you and God bless love and happiness between men and women.
I see this on insta, all the hearts and flames. Behind some of the popular ones are professional photographers and videographers. Guess who just brought a camera? 😂😂😂
Digging those glasses. What kind are they Richard? Love your book by the way.
Its an Oakley
Moff is basically saying.. is she a "help meet"? Is she a taker or a giver?
How these people get a video chat with Cooper.... Is that like a paid member or something like that... If that's the case, how could I join this community....
if you treat her like a princess she will treat you like a citizen
I agree with rich 100%.
I made mistakes a long time ago back in school that may be considered simping. Small mistakes but nothing near "mowing ex's lawn for years". I have spent a bit more time than I should've with females and getting nothing in return or going to smash. I only once bought an xmas present for this one female i liked, never again. I didn't know what to say. But now I know better. I've also got rejected by everyone I asked from school including the less hot ones or they weren't my type. I also didn't try shooting my shot with some of them female's because I was annoyed by rejection but I was more upset about possible repercussions like getting humiliated or disrespected or known by/hated by everyone in my school or town. I mistakenly fell for a fucking Friend ZONE many times. Now I know not to. I also had partial oneitis for someone hot that almost certainly didn't like me but I still liked others
In my school and town I was either rejected by females or they weren't my type and I had some different tastes. I still liked and will like cars and other things like that
Forgive me for I have almost, or have simped
I too knew somebody who once said "mistakes were made. I may have been wrong but it doesn't justify disrespect from these people trying to take away from me
@ad izzle I'm on it and I ain't givin up. Whenever I deal with a problem or 'predicament' I either deal with it depending on what it is or solve/fix it, etc.
“More problems than a Chinese math test.” 😂
Question: Is it kissing it up to Women, but in a begging way? May 20, 2024. USA
@1:02:00 - woman being born attractive, but if you want to know what she will look like when she's old, see what her mother looks like.
Your great and I believe in most of what you say, but I do disagree that you can't be friends with a girl, I've been good friends with a girl for a good 5 years now, and the big thing is that we both have boundaries I'll help her and shell help me, but as soon as either of us asked for relationship anything advise help whatnot, we both just nope the fuck out
You’ll need a OUIJA board to talk to Kevin now.
1:18 some of you guys ask questions not for the honest answer. But to get Rich's confirmation for an idea you already are set on.
Mothers, sisters, and female friends mean well and think they’re doing their sons, brothers, and friends a favor when they try to help them be better and more desirable men by telling them what they want in a man and to be more like that. They genuinely think they’re helping and believe their own advice, but only a man can turn a boy into a man. You cannot become a man by following the advice of women, the best advice a woman can give is to help you find a man she respects and is attracted to to learn from.
Study the OCCULT , develop spiritual eyes , do not fall into the trapezoid ( the $courge ).
Straight 🔥
The same goes for prison penpals
please man, can you point to us in the description at what minute you start honoring the cause that bring me here, lets say "speaking about the video title"? thanks!
Yeah I was one of those guys on 911
I would love to be able to have a conversation with you
Corvette c8 ZO6 or 2020 Gt500 will for about 100 Grand each.
a lot of idiots call in with dumb questions. if they used their head they would already have the answer but like you say "guys looking for excuses to do dumb stuff"
Some advice....DO NOT CALL IN TO THE SHOW WHEN YOU HAVE DOGS BARKING IN BACKGROUND. THINK!!
This stuff is brutal I am getting the book thanks
i dont take them seriously
“If you treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan”
Facts. Great quote
Simpin for a dude...perhaps you don't like women.
@@jrdramey easy brother
@@jrdramey how much money do you waste in girls onlyfans?
Rich is correct when he said that women want to do things for men, instead of wanting men to do things for them.
It's a sad epidemic, and I was guilty for decades. Falling at a woman's feet, thinking it will win her over is a losing venture. Sadly this behaviour empowers many women to treat a man like her little doggy. Rule#1: you MUST maintain your self respect. Be prepared to say "no" to this abuse, and even if she looks like a centrefold, be prepared to walk away.
I was raised with my single feminist Mom and two older sisters (one which is a major narcissist). I was told to treat women as if they deserve the world... and then they will eventually be swayed into liking me. I never stood a chance. Now, as I read and watch videos regarding the nature of women - I discuss it with my Mom and she totally agrees - although she never let me in on it. Needless to say, I'm pissed.
I feel you. I was raised with a very liberal mom and an older and younger sister. Dad was at work all week so I was around feminine energy. I'm finally learning what I missed when I was young.
Find your tribe!!! Your tribe is a group of Men. For example...The Gym, Mix martial arts, shoot range, building a house or construction, etc. There u will learn how to learn more skills. Become more wiser and stronger Also, learn a trade, a skill, and be ready to face some of your fears!!! Listen to Joko on utube. Or David Giggs.
The truth will set you free, and then it will piss you off.
Your mom probably didn’t even know because hypergamy is not a conscious thing. Women largely have no idea why they do anything, they just feel and react. Most women really do believe their own fluff about wanting a man who’s kind, sweet, always available, and treats them like a queen.
@@Ace.0.0.0.
But for God's sake, don't stay in that anger phase. That leads to nihilism
Tacos for the algorithm 🌮🌮🌮🌮🌮
I'm hungry 😆
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Here on the same accord 🍿
U might upset tacco Tammy ...she needs to chill and drink a bottle of Cabo ..
With avocados from Mexico
I am a women and I agree with a lot of your core content. It is embarrassing to see the lack of integrity and double standards a lot of woman throw out. The devaluation and shaming serve no purpose. I honor all the alpha men. Blessed Be.
Too late 😂
Simping is where you choose to starve a week to beg for scraps, rather than work a day to gain value.
Right
Most of my life, I didn’t give a shit about women and just took the ones I wanted and if I didn’t like them they were gone. I was called a dick, player, a bad guy, girls were told to stay away from me etc. I went through a divorce and decided that maybe they were all right about me and I should change. With that change all I got in return was walked all over, left groveling over some chick that wouldn’t have even been on my radar before etc. It was a horrible ducking idea and literally lead me into a depression. Listen to this guy! He’s dead fucking right!
Same here man, women without male leadership self destruct
Needed to see this today.
Thank you
Simping ain't the answer bro! It's the players who get what they want,minus all of the bullshit. Sad but true.
Rich is correct when he said that women want to do things for men, instead of wanting men to do things for them.
Bingo.
Simpin has historically made me the equivalent of a girlfriend with muscles.
Lol! I hear ya
Roflmao.
Now thats funny.
I admire your self-honesty and self-reflection.
lmao
Virgin
A lot of guys want the step by step on what to do because their whole life they’ve been told what to do. I was once like this and not listening to other people and putting yourself first is the best thing you can do
@Famus, and I bet you got some flack for that, eh?
Society doesn't like it when you think for yourself.
But it's def liberating. I have to agree with Jon @MLD, "You get tired of hanging around these normies"
@Brandon Smythe ,
Bro, don't eat a bullet. Have you read the Rational Male yet? It may help.
Yeah, my dad worked a lot, but still got to see him. He was the kind to never apologize, though. Now, since my mom died 5 years ago, he's remarried and traded us up. He's definitely "old order thinking."
Don't people please. It's never worth it. I just cut off my wife's brother last night at a bar. He's a pompous prick and better off outta my life.
Hell, I don't even have anything to do with my own blood brother.
You just get to a point when you can't abide normies and betas in your life.
Mental point of origin ftw
@Brandon Smythe i understand what you mean, had a dad but didn’t at the same time. Be the man you wanted when you were a kid, you’ll never please everyone. You’re a husband now you need to lead, you have one life start doing things that make you happy and fulfilled. Put yourself first not other people
Society wants men to be this way. Western countries program men to be submissive and agreeable to not stand up to authority and be a good little sheep. Need to take the wheel and go for what you want in life without giving a f about others opinions or disapproval.
Waking up hard is a good indicator of testosterone. Eat less sugar and more veggies etc helps a lot
I played the White Knight all my life and I'm almost 50 now. Only this yr have I been awakened to the reality of my mistakes and fairy tale beliefs. Not once ever has my loyalty or simping paid off, not with GF's not with my ex wife. I have always lost the relationship to betrayal. I wish I learned all this 25 yrs ago.
I'm starting to feel blessed that I was born in Poland.
I never felt patriotic or anything. And I have lived and worked in "the west" all my adult life.
But I am beginning to REALLY appreciate how many old school women there still is in east Europe. A good plentiful stock. One day I'll drive back and get myself a wife/LT partner.
Bro, let me come with. These feminist are fixing to die alone.
My dad's ex was polish, your right on par.
This is why I'm moving to Russia.
God bless Eastern Europe
@@RR-mg5ss - Probably not the best choice of destination in east Europe. Even pre war. An insane choice at current moment.
@@jeremiaha5167 Only St Petersburg. Looks amazing
Took my red pill, my alpha came back and women noticed. Read your book and then purchased the audio for my bike rides. I have some work to do but this is so much fun actually cleaning “shop”
Happy for you man! A word of warning though, be aware that you have to constantly be on your guard to ensure you don't slip back into Beta and Oneitis habits. I red-pilled, ejected a toxic woman who almost ruined me, got my life back, but then 3 years later I woke up and realised I was spiralling into another case of Onitis, low self worth and simping. A lifetime of beta programming is hard to shake, so the red pill needs to be a regular repeat prescription to stay healthy.
@@steelybojangles
Maaaan, that is so true👏
@Beavis Butthead - yes this is a process but it's a much needed. Staying focused on the goal is key. I will get back to spinning plates but right now do the work and then the spinning will be crazy fun.
Its amazing you noticed brother? If you read it or hear it, it changes your psychology, its like rewriting your whole thinking. Amazing book
I admit when I was younger I would do the nice guy simping like carry stuff, listen to their problems etc bc I thought well it gets me closer at least and sometimes I do end up getting lucky. But modern simping i just dont understand. Like you pay hundreds if not THOUSANDS of dollars just to have an average looking woman say your name on stream with 100 other dudes? Men, are we really THIS pathetic now?
Thanks Disney and out of date advice
You decide what you take in. I get swimming in shite makes it easier but you don't have to swallow it.
Another point. Reddit recommend the Dating Advice subreddit for me to look at. So I was like okay lets have a look. And wow! The amount of BP men on there is astounding. So many are asking for dating advice on why she ghosted me etc etc insert common problem and most of the comments were women giving their advice which is biggest BS plus there were other men giving their BP advice. The comment sections is literally a looping monologue of the same trivial BS advice. These guys are not going to go anywhere. Another big slap to the face was where the were one or two RP type of advice and those comments were berated and scorned upon. I was like wow! This is just a dumpster fire of BS.
Rich was pretty on point about everything, except his response to that Indian guy.
I've been to India twice, and the first thing anyone there should want is to get out of the country ASAP; no matter where that might be. To put the Quality of Life there into perspective: babies come out of the womb and die due to the air pollution in major cities, such as Calcutta. I got an infection in my lung just from the air. Some cold weather is nothing compared to the air trying to murder you.
My ex was Indian, and her dream was to get to America; now that she has her doctorate and lives in America, do you think she plans on going back anytime soon? Hell no.
That dude needs to get out of India ASAP, and then of course transfer somewhere else because Canada is a Leftist nightmare with a heavy authoritarian tilt, especially in response to COVID-19.
The supply and demand is a big reason simping happens. Too many hippo's in America.
I am listening to the book right now on audible. I am a mother of four boys and a daughter. Our oldest is 11 and their father and I have been married 13 years in December. I appreciate the outlook, "ask her about her father." It makes sense. Over the years woman are always told, "if you want to know how he will treat you look at how he treats his mother and sisters." I've never thought to ask females about their fathers in search of red flags, but as a mother of 4 sons I will keep this in mind.
Simping has been happening a long time. Romeo simped for Juliet, and that did not end well.
Good point.. and with the use of a popular cultural reference that most people are familiar with lol
Ok, I know life ain't fair and was never meant to be, but the fact that some chicks earn millions just for breathing still makes some part of me puke in disgust . lol
It has nothing to do with you
@Dekaenn ea
10:34
If we assume Rich’s lowest estimate:
$200k/month * 12 months/year = $2,400,000/year.
(Granted - that may not last very long as there are many alternatives, but that’s a lot while it lasts and can be an advantage if not wasted.)
I have no idea if Rich’s estimate is good, but I would guess that as a content creator he would would have some idea.
So now you jealous of chicks now?
Boo hoo
So do some guys, who never have done anything but being geneticly lucky..
I work overnight. I'm permanently a sick person from diabetes since I was 19 years old. I can't afford health insurance, and yet these women can sleep in front of a camera and make a half a million a year. It's not jealousy, it's anger for me. There really is no justice in this world.
It's you who is respectable and smart. Sex in front of the camera is scarred for life no matter how much money. Repercussions go along way
@@joedub5486 I suppose I get it, and I do agree it would be difficult to was that image away, but it makes all of my hard work and sacrifice feel non-existent when they can just jump in front of a camera for 10 minutes and make more in that time than I make in a year.
So?
Why aren’t you angry at the men who pay women to sleep in front of a camera? Why you don’t criticize male nature that has pushed some women to prostitution? Why some men feel so empty that pay a woman get naked in front of a camera? As a woman, I have no respect for those women but see men more guilty.
Updates?
Bi-sexual women are interesting… they appreciate masculinity… and also appreciate femininity. 🤣 that was funny Rich!
🤣
😆 🤣 😂 😹
I pride myself on never having bought a drink for a strange woman. you gotta earn that shit with me.
Honest question. What is the difference between a man giving a donation to a Twitch thot, as opposed to a red pill content creator? Both seem like simping to me. You're giving away resources for attention from someone who doesn't respect you.
When you’re single, you rule.
When you’re in a relationship, she rules.
Stay single, Gents :) !!
What a load of BS. You can have a relationship and still be in charge of your life.
@@wouterdegruijl4303 I think it was said in jest but your comment is absolutely true
@@wouterdegruijl4303 …until she makes a false accusation! Good luck with that 😎
The term "Real men" is always followed by one of two things:
1. Something that benefits the person saying it (normally from a woman).
2. Something that is an affirmation of the person's choices and life decisions (normally from a man).
I ignore both if your decisions are based on your personal values, you don't need anyone to agree with you.
Underrated comment. I almost completely agree: I've learned to totally ignore it by default since it is nearly always a manipulation tactic. Any man can and most certainly should make his own definition of a "real man" and stick by it. And realise that this is his definition and his alone. Women talking about real man is just asinine by default.
Hi Rich. Awesome advice for men. I know it’s a red flag, but can you discuss why men should not date a bisexual woman? Thank you.
Please tell me this will be in audio podcast as well. Would be golden for my commutes.
yes
I am interested in the idea that most guys get unplugged due to some sort of trauma in their lives. I was stationed in Europe while in the Army in the late 1980s and had an LTR cheat on me with a guy that was supposed to be a friend. There is nothing worse crawling on the earth in my mind than a buddy f&cker. In fact, the Germans have a word for this called "Schweinhund". This happened before the internet and books about becoming Red Pilled. I got literally taken to school and after that, my entire perspective on the nature of women changed. Thankfully I was in a community of men some of whom had had this same type of experience and took pity on me and the time to impart some basic facts about women into my head. I am glad my mind was open to receiving the messages. You might say that they were for that time unplugged. There was not a lot of information about Neural Biology or the "honeymoon phase" out there to consume, nor books on what to look out for. If Rich Cooper's book would have been around back then it would have probably become my bible and saved me a lot of trouble because my ex-LTR did, in fact, have more flags than a Chinese Communist parade. Fast forward about three years when I met my wife and trust me I didn't let my little head do all my thinking for me thankfully I want to think that had my shit together and a certain amount of equity in my clue bag, I was on my mission and my grind and I didn't put up with a lot of crap from women. Everything was testable I guess with me. Someone had said take a look at her mom and her dad and her family ( I think that the person who told me this was talking about shared values and how your values have to align with a woman you want to go all-in for). They said look at her mom and how she treats her dad (if she has one around), that's going to be her in 30 years or so. That's a pretty good barometer I think. Ok in fact during that three years post-German LTR I dated and actually DX'ed (military term for turning in broken or surplus equipment) multiple girls because they acted like entitled princesses and just remained me of my Ex, even though she was European and these were American girls and my spidey senses were aroused. The symptoms didn't have a name but the perception I got was too familiar. Perhaps I was just subconsciously aware of red flags by then. Anyway, I have been married for 25 years now to a great woman who really complimented my life and we have two great kids and are still plugging along on that journey called life.
This has completely wrecked my entire belief system....and I’m so glad !!
This is the truth that the world needs to hear.
Awesome work
Are you trying to impress women? Are you throwing away Money trying to impress them? I felt so ashamed, because I've been doing this for girls that can't even reply even when they have their cellphones on their hands.
I learned this the hard way and fuck it, I'm not doing it anymore.
Never trust anyone that says happy wife happy life. The natural order of things should be Happy Husband and Happy wife. You should make each other happy equally. If anything you come first because women were created for our happiness according to the Bible hahaha
Born in the 70’s, I remember when it was encouraged for men to be gentlemen. Stop being gentlemen to these women! Women don’t want the nice unless it’s beneficial from them.
Some simple minded men give away most of their salary and life time savings to women on social media and tiktok and only Fans pages, mistakenly thinking that the women will then date the men or fall in love with the men.
That's right, be the prize. Don't get a trophy wife and be the end table, be the trophy and make sure she is the ornate hearth
@41:38 this dude Popofsky dropped a legit truth bomb about staying off of social media. Thank you!
Rich, this is one of your best and most important episodes.
Fucking love you rich, saving me a world of unnecessary pain
Dudes now a days give their attention for free like it's worth nothing😂
Rich’s rants are always great. “Talking about fap and smoking herb”
I noticed there's a difference in how men are expected to treat women in the Manosphere vs. what Stoic philosophers teach. I would love to listen in on Cooper's take on this topic (similarities & differences).
Thanks for putting this vid. out there.
“Stop being a nerd, stop it ! Join a dojo join a gym…” love it!
Bro you seem you are working hard rather I just keep them in barks
It’s all your fault , I believe one god I don’t sleep around , the more I make I can get married to more ladies up to 4 . Like it or wrong they are in your mind
If the simping is eradicated, it will have a good knock on effect of poor female behaviour.
Its not hard to be a cute girl, dont overeat, thats pretty much it. Being a high quality male requires talent and drive time dedication. Thats why theres none if them
Few but yes
A woman is suppose to like you for you not like you for your money.
After divorce dude is mowing her lawn year after year. MEN WTF ARE WE DOING? GEEEZ
Some of the stuff that gets people off on Twitch streaming is some crazy lunatic fringe creepy shit.