Katasha and Victor: Red Flags Flying High | Family or Fiance S2 E5 | Full Episode | OWN

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  • @zingisamajikija2804
    @zingisamajikija2804 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +675

    He said “but my marriage was not serious”. I knew it was gonna be a mess.

    • @rakeiaowens4
      @rakeiaowens4 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Right ??? I said not serious ?! You’re married !!

    • @ThatGirlGiGiNYC
      @ThatGirlGiGiNYC 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Right

    • @UariiUripi
      @UariiUripi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      And how will he respect her now? He not!!!

    • @hildakinyanjui6759
      @hildakinyanjui6759 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I can’t believe what I’m watching.. not serious???😂

    • @anelielowe9482
      @anelielowe9482 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s a bird 😂😂😂 how can you have a unserious marriage. That’s the most serious a relationship can get

  • @IMAN-hc3fz
    @IMAN-hc3fz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +740

    I’m 6 minutes in and it’s an entire HELL 👏🏽 TO 👏🏽 THE 👏🏽 NAW 👏🏽 NAW! 🗣️ 🗣️ 🗣️ 😂

    • @Hotwingzlover84
      @Hotwingzlover84 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      To the NAW NAW NAW NAW exactly

    • @xaviercraddock
      @xaviercraddock 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @dorisgakii6926
      @dorisgakii6926 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      OMG! You took the words right out of my mouth. We're at minute 6, and we already have 10 red flags!!!!! Like what the hell!?!?!?

    • @MyTwell
      @MyTwell 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      1.29 for me 😮 messy.

    • @MagicUzer
      @MagicUzer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      It took ya'll that long lol?

  • @rolondabrown1233
    @rolondabrown1233 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +448

    When I say that therapist is bomb i love her

    • @lovewins8914
      @lovewins8914 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      She is the best!! I love her!!

    • @Queen-of-the-Burbs
      @Queen-of-the-Burbs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I’m shocked she asked about abuse in front of the abuser

    • @squeint
      @squeint 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She is!

    • @janadoolittle1448
      @janadoolittle1448 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@Queen-of-the-BurbsI’m not. She wanted the to see his answer and reaction.

    • @Sophie-cw7bf
      @Sophie-cw7bf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I need her in my life man 🎉🎉🎉🎉 she’s so good 😊

  • @thelonetravelr
    @thelonetravelr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +813

    The fiancée living under the same roof as the ex wife is CRAZYYY!!! 😮

    • @sharonhenry7615
      @sharonhenry7615 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I tunes out after hearing the first 5 min

    • @Ginaaaa555
      @Ginaaaa555 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      He was still married

    • @ThatGirlGiGiNYC
      @ThatGirlGiGiNYC 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Sooooo disrespectful

    • @lovewins8914
      @lovewins8914 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      The fact that the wife even allowed her to move in is crazy to me

    • @Cjanellea
      @Cjanellea 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Super crazy..

  • @PositivitySpeaks101
    @PositivitySpeaks101 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +347

    People talking about she need to find someone her age!! She needs to learn to love herself and know self worth!!’

    • @wanchawancha5323
      @wanchawancha5323 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Facts!

    • @oceanporter7755
      @oceanporter7755 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree and o also wonder how is her relationship with Mom?

    • @TB-fk4qm
      @TB-fk4qm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @Livie_Locs
      @Livie_Locs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bingo!

  • @_NoniDube
    @_NoniDube 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +585

    "I was tired of dating guys my age"
    You was 19, how many boys had you already date by then??

    • @elleinad2011
      @elleinad2011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      None , she don’t know what dating and love is , it clear because she with this man that is 30 years older that her . He is a predator .

    • @squeint
      @squeint 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@@elleinad2011exactly! A big zero!

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Lol

    • @Capricorn-mt1ke
      @Capricorn-mt1ke 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Right

    • @JLive-jt6jc
      @JLive-jt6jc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      @@elleinad2011he moved her into his wife’s home. He placed both women into danger. Episode of snapped!

  • @wordym.3435
    @wordym.3435 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +686

    He wants her youth. We’re watching a vampire in real time yall.

    • @elleinad2011
      @elleinad2011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Mannn , what ?! it’s very very real !!

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      It her naivety he’s after.

    • @vegasheart
      @vegasheart 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, he wants to suck all the youth and vitality from her. He wants to be able to control her and use and abuse her. He is disgusting.

    • @Injynqbs
      @Injynqbs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      It was hard to watch at times. It was making me tense...

    • @iamsenitrashaneil1234
      @iamsenitrashaneil1234 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      word up you are right.

  • @karynigwilo2905
    @karynigwilo2905 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +611

    I just know she wasn’t talking about slapping someone wig off while hers sitting on top of her head like that. 🥴

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @SunshineKK99
      @SunshineKK99 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      No edges

    • @Leevemealone73
      @Leevemealone73 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      ​@@TheMwendaashe needs to pull it down over that 4 head

    • @karynigwilo2905
      @karynigwilo2905 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@TheMwendaa Lmbo! Okay. Ima grow up I promise. 😅😂

    • @karynigwilo2905
      @karynigwilo2905 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@SunshineKK99 Girl! None in sight. Like are the edges in the room with us. 😅

  • @silatikalaluka8346
    @silatikalaluka8346 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    Love that step mom!! She had her baby’s back!

  • @jennagitation
    @jennagitation 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    The worst thing you can do about a potentially abusive relationship is ask the victim about it in front of the abuser.

    • @toschajeffries8833
      @toschajeffries8833 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      True, Tracy probably thought since she spoke on it that she really was going to leave him.

    • @lolozum7295
      @lolozum7295 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      The way she handled it kinda pissed me off.. she shouldn't have called that man to be part of the conversation

    • @j.k.3
      @j.k.3 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Safety planning needed! I don’t know Tracey’s credentials but a licensed clinical social worker is needed to support these guests with planning before they go home.

    • @TB-fk4qm
      @TB-fk4qm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly! She literally put her in further danger!!!

  • @LovelyBee-e5g
    @LovelyBee-e5g 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    Just a reminder of how important it is for children to understand their worth and have confidence.

  • @lpsgalaxywolfpaw6042
    @lpsgalaxywolfpaw6042 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +464

    Anytime a man at 50 is looking at someone with any age with “teen” in it RED FLAG !!!!! At 19, she wants something “different”, you didn’t have much experience to begin with. Then the moving her in with his WIFE, ridiculous. I hate this for her !!!!!

    • @KemaHartz
      @KemaHartz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      That young girl is ran through now she want older men because younger men don't want her.

    • @elleinad2011
      @elleinad2011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      He knows her situation and he prayed on her …. He ran through too if that’s the case , been married 3 times and now he wanna get married to a child .. because that is what she is … he probably can’t even take an intellectual woman , that’s why he got with this child .

    • @SunshineKK99
      @SunshineKK99 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@KemaHartz This!!

    • @yammieyammie8980
      @yammieyammie8980 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@KemaHartzDamn you came up with ALL THAT 😂😂. SAD JUST SAD😢😢😢

    • @gwenbradford6134
      @gwenbradford6134 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@@elleinad2011A woman his age is going to spot his bs!

  • @selecianoyb1911
    @selecianoyb1911 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +212

    When she was talking to her mom the look of fear was all over her face.

  • @MindsetOfMarge
    @MindsetOfMarge 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +379

    The way he looked at her when the therapist let him know that she exposed the abuse …..whew 😮‍💨😔

    • @latishadavis6985
      @latishadavis6985 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      He was furious 😠 😡
      That's why she asked the mom not to bring it up
      I can't even imagine what happened when they got home

    • @Josoulxo
      @Josoulxo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      Righttt! He looked like he wanted a piece of her right then n there and she looked frightened!!

    • @crazycuttee
      @crazycuttee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I said the same thing!! Man she couldn’t even pick her head up. She looked like a deer caught in a trap not knowing if she’ll suffer a broken leg or loss of life. Look at how he’s holding her when he’s glaring at her too!! Possessive in a controlling way!
      Tracy: Do you want to know what was said or do you want help?
      Me thinking he would at least I want help if not both….
      Abuser said: I want to know what was said

    • @Anonymouslousy
      @Anonymouslousy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      So scared for her

    • @beatriceaba8851
      @beatriceaba8851 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just watching it now and 5 minutes in and his demeanor to be on her rubbed me wrong. Now seeing the comments about abuse sounds right. Trying to keep her in check

  • @Tee2DaWhy
    @Tee2DaWhy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

    His eyes and entire demeanor tells me that she’s telling the truth. Good luck to that young lady.

  • @CiCeeRay
    @CiCeeRay 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +207

    Momma deserves her flowers! The level of love and support she showed her daughter throughout was beautiful. Kudos to Tracy for her professionalism during this unexpected turn.

    • @alexiswilliams8475
      @alexiswilliams8475 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's her step mom

    • @eg9735
      @eg9735 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      @@alexiswilliams8475still her mother nonetheless.

    • @LovelyBee-e5g
      @LovelyBee-e5g 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alexiswilliams8475 and?

    • @CiCeeRay
      @CiCeeRay 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@thebarbieinvestor5428 Yess!! 💜 She did what was safe and smart for her daughter’s wellbeing.

    • @paralegalkc
      @paralegalkc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alexiswilliams8475 it’s the mom she knows the mom that’s protecting her

  • @rjmommy2019
    @rjmommy2019 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    Wow when she mentioned the violence he looked like he wanted to hurt her.

  • @chocolatebeaute
    @chocolatebeaute 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    She's looking for a father. He wants an immature girl that he can control

  • @87cocoa
    @87cocoa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Stalking her at the store until they’re together is crazy She was 19 years old 😮

    • @mz.j8059
      @mz.j8059 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Talking bout , "her cute lil body"...just sickening

  • @jo-zahnewilliams4607
    @jo-zahnewilliams4607 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    This whole episode was show casing a hostage situation....she did this show to expose him to others but still was too fearful to leave him

  • @rokeiac
    @rokeiac 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +218

    You can tell that he is very controlling because he keeps trying to isolate her and get her alone so he can talk to her. It’s sad that she did marry him when they went back home.

    • @Gigi2296-q9p
      @Gigi2296-q9p 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      yes you are so right. I think she is very scared of him because why come on a public show to cry out for help been then ignore everything, just to go back home with him and marry him. Her cutting her mom out and the family is all his doing. Now she has no one and he has her all to himself. Narcissistic and controlling is what he is.

    • @momoe.4075
      @momoe.4075 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How do you know this? Do you know how she is doing now?

    • @lafunn6756
      @lafunn6756 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      He's even more angry now that he has been exposed. Sadly he's going to take it out on her. I hope and pray she leaves him before it's fatal.
      This is his FOURTH marriage.

  • @jamila6385
    @jamila6385 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +410

    19?!?!? NineTEEN and 49... sick.

    • @ferraodeaf436
      @ferraodeaf436 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      He is lost in life. The devil took his life and soul

    • @aaronhoward7320
      @aaronhoward7320 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stop

    • @aaronhoward7320
      @aaronhoward7320 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If it was a woman youd be shouting women power

    • @GiGiChosen
      @GiGiChosen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      BARELY LEGAL. SMH. I despise predatory men like this!

    • @MsCammy22
      @MsCammy22 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      @@aaronhoward7320and it would be disgusting the other way around too

  • @missjennyd9644
    @missjennyd9644 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    At 55, a 25 year old showed you how to love after your many wives. Chaiiii

  • @avionelle
    @avionelle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Just the way he looked at her I was scared for her. I can imagine when they are alone. She went on there to get away and then she changed her mind.

  • @candacebutler7011
    @candacebutler7011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I’m glad she spoke up. She is courageous. You are not alone.

    • @alexietchakounte7903
      @alexietchakounte7903 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What was the need speaking up when she wasn't willing to let go of the relo. She just pissed me off. What lesson did she pass to other girls going through the same? That's it's ok to be abused and still stay in the relo. Rubbish

    • @mangoyacho
      @mangoyacho 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@alexietchakounte7903 you are so right. Well articulated!

  • @Queensofafrica8
    @Queensofafrica8 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +194

    I give the girl credit..: she brought this man on tv and outed him😂😂😂 good girl❤

    • @jayblanks
      @jayblanks 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      But what was the point of bringing him on TV to out him, if she only choose to stay with her abuser in the end?

    • @mscmotloung6004
      @mscmotloung6004 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@jayblanksMy point exactly

    • @shayy4280
      @shayy4280 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@jayblankssometimes it takes women a 100 times to leave an abusive relationship. She’s dealing with a predator that’s probably like a father figure , so that makes it 10x harder. I pray she moved on and did some growth work.

    • @fjones5890
      @fjones5890 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Bc she naively thought it would get him to stop. She didn’t want the relationship to end, just the abuse. She’s groomed and thinks she needs him.

  • @carladungee8787
    @carladungee8787 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    The fact that she started with "I want to tell my story " tells me everything I need to know about their relationship...

    • @Shameekk
      @Shameekk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      She told her story but did nothing to fix the situation. Some women truly can’t be saved and this was one of those women.

    • @Blackmixdwitblack
      @Blackmixdwitblack 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Shameekkunfortunately I think it takes for something serious to happen and I hate that it’s that way

  • @zeniyawellsprettygirliscut2571
    @zeniyawellsprettygirliscut2571 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    I pray her step mother remains to be there for her. She needs support in several areas. ❤

  • @HRLady48
    @HRLady48 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    This was very emotional, it's clear they don't need to be together. I pray for both of their safety, they definitely don't need to be together.

  • @reesejordan8953
    @reesejordan8953 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Wild that she asked about the abuse in front of him! WILD!

  • @yahira6928
    @yahira6928 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    He was married while stalking another target 😮😮

    • @gailsmith836
      @gailsmith836 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      He moved her in to his house with his own marriage fully intact.

    • @mangoyacho
      @mangoyacho 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @yahira69228 well said!

    • @montoyawalker-s8g
      @montoyawalker-s8g 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I bet the ex wife was fine with it because it took the heat off of her.

  • @carolinemagee8033
    @carolinemagee8033 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    The signs were there; she was never alone, cut time with family, moved her into the same house as wife (probably beating her too), controlled

    • @mimimonroe6132
      @mimimonroe6132 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That makes sense because there’s no way a wife would allow that. She is probably scared too.

  • @backpackmami
    @backpackmami 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    “I was tired of dating guys my age”….
    babygirl at 19???….you just got here!!!😑

    • @vutlharingobeni2889
      @vutlharingobeni2889 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly 💯!!!!!!

    • @22221mm
      @22221mm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She probably had her heart broken several times.

  • @BleuReign13
    @BleuReign13 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +180

    My marriage wasn't serious 🚩🚩🚩🚩...
    My children are older than my future wife 🚩🚩🚩...
    Still living with extra wife, she moves in...🚩🚩🚩
    *he sounds great🤦🏽‍♀️
    *that girl is gonna come up missing..

  • @YourfavoritePisces229
    @YourfavoritePisces229 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

    This is such a sad, hot mess! Teach your children early to love themselves and have self respect. I’m gonna leave it at that.

  • @nikkidavis2984
    @nikkidavis2984 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I’m so glad her mom Casey spoke up for her and I’m glad his step daughter gave her experience…

  • @CynthiaMurphy-ep8os
    @CynthiaMurphy-ep8os 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

    She wanted something. DIFFERENT...well baby u definitely GOT IT!!

  • @LishaAllen
    @LishaAllen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    The daughter was being very respectful I feel like the fiancé is intimidated by the daughter frfr everybody got on wigs so I guess they gonna be flying across the room 😂😂

    • @scorpionpam
      @scorpionpam 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      That part! And her wig was receding. 😒😒🙈😩😩😂

    • @LishaAllen
      @LishaAllen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@scorpionpam 😂😂

  • @GoddessPower777
    @GoddessPower777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    now the therapist should have initially asked about the abuse privately without him.

    • @AngelShardai
      @AngelShardai 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree.. She kept shaking her ahead and the therapist kept going. And how he kept looking at her.. Praying she will be okay 🙏🏾

    • @alethiawatford7062
      @alethiawatford7062 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      As a “self-proclaimed” relationship expert, one would think she is knowledgeable on properly handling these delicate matters. Very disappointing.

  • @kiara198923
    @kiara198923 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The way he looked at her when violence was brought up & the fear in her face.. 😢

  • @rakeiaowens4
    @rakeiaowens4 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Man I just wanted to give her a hug when she was talking to the therapist. Goodness the fact that she married him and has isolated herself more from her family 😢

    • @KnowWhat
      @KnowWhat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That’s how narcissists start their abuse!

  • @chancetyler5280
    @chancetyler5280 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    That break down after he left says it all ...smh

  • @chancetyler5280
    @chancetyler5280 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Katasha mom is everything ❤️

  • @obibuaku
    @obibuaku 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    Where her dad???? This is crazy

    • @tawandaedwards1955
      @tawandaedwards1955 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She said they talk on the phone but that pretty much it.

    • @gwenbradford6134
      @gwenbradford6134 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her Dad is probably an abuser too.

    • @tanjarenee_24
      @tanjarenee_24 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      He is probably just like the dude or worse.

  • @ayandakhumalo8692
    @ayandakhumalo8692 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    This episode broke my heart 🥹

  • @princedrp2x
    @princedrp2x 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Going to her grocery line to buy bread every day that he doesn’t need , creepy sick diabolical behavior and then proceeds to move her into his house

  • @andreadavis5219
    @andreadavis5219 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The immaturity is real. She's so defensive she clearly doesn't have the tools to handle conflict. She's pouting like a kid and that's the first line of questions.

  • @kawingilliam3536
    @kawingilliam3536 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    I really truly love the therapist and I watch a lot of the shows so I think that she does help tremendously in a lot of situations, but for me, I think she should’ve mentioned that in front of him that should’ve been a private conversation she had with just the young lady

    • @nedrianj
      @nedrianj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree

    • @nichellenunya
      @nichellenunya 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I sincerely just
      Hope that they bring this show back with her as The therapist

    • @Queen-of-the-Burbs
      @Queen-of-the-Burbs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      The way he put his hands over the girl’s leg…he was trying to hold her back. No therapist in real life would ask in front of the abuser. That puts the victim in danger!

    • @backpackmami
      @backpackmami 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@Queen-of-the-Burbsand that’s the thing…she’s not a therapist she identifies as a relationship expert. and I agree! she put that girl deeper into his control but putting him on notice to the fact that the young girl told what was going on.
      Tracy should have talked to her, discussed a plan moving forward for this girl to get away from him without him knowing what was up!
      however, unfortunately…nothing really changes until the abusee’ is ready to leave…Tracy and the girl’s family could see…she wasn’t ready to leave him…
      It should be a federal law that relations with someone more than 10 years apart (I wanna say 4 years but…anyway lol) is NOT permitted no matter how old both people are…one person could be 81 and the other person 70…ILLEGAL! CANT DO IT! 😆 I’m so serious thou…this situation in this episode…is far more common that it ever should be…😮‍💨

    • @nikiariley7761
      @nikiariley7761 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just posted the same thing + some

  • @Pretajorter
    @Pretajorter 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    I don’t like that the Dr inquires about abuse in front of the abuser. That seems dangerous.

    • @elleinad2011
      @elleinad2011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      It needed to be done .

    • @onlychas
      @onlychas 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I said the same thing. She doesn't need to go home alone.

    • @SunshineKK99
      @SunshineKK99 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She probably can sense it...

    • @gwenbradford6134
      @gwenbradford6134 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      But it's necessary so that he will know he's being watched.

    • @lafunn6756
      @lafunn6756 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I thought the Dr. Was going to talk to her alone first. Katasha SHUT DOWN IMMEDIATELY after it was mentioned.

  • @kaciousrobinson440
    @kaciousrobinson440 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    He nudged her knee as he got up like he getting her later

  • @MsHoTT23
    @MsHoTT23 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    This dude is bold as hell to invite his side piece to live with him and the wife maaaan😮

    • @scorpionpam
      @scorpionpam 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yep. The Abuser starter pack.

  • @Andrea-cx8zx
    @Andrea-cx8zx 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I’m upset with how this was handled. The relationship coach should’ve immediately brought in a therapist to do an emergency session and they should’ve connected her with resources. Simply telling someone what to do does NOT work. Telling a victim of abuse what to do does not solve the issue. They will still feel powerless and more likely to go back to the abuser. A clinical professional understands this, and would work with her to empower her, give her a voice. An emergency session would’ve been a good start.

    • @mangoyacho
      @mangoyacho 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @Andrea-cx8zx When Tracy was speaking to her alone she did mention that they would provide her with all the resources she needs and that she was/is not alone. Her step mom was also very gracious and offered her support. I am sure all the family members indicated that they have her back so if she really wanted to she could have hang on to Tracy's word and tell her that she is scared and I am absolutely sure that the tv show would never have left her on the curb. It seems that she chose not to take the help because even after she had spoken to Tracy and her stepmom alone, she said I still want to be with him.

  • @k.m.8516
    @k.m.8516 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    He's an abusive addict. I hope she makes it out instead of going to a cemetery.

  • @god563616
    @god563616 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That girl needs a MOM its obvious! God bless the woman who used her testimony. God gave her a way of escape and she didn't take it. Prayers.

  • @rianaloveiam7429
    @rianaloveiam7429 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    She got mad at the step daughter because she feels stupid and know she looks and sounds silly

  • @bernadettebeatty3899
    @bernadettebeatty3899 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    She was scared i hope she gets away from him she going to be ok

  • @rolondabrown1233
    @rolondabrown1233 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Stepmom is great too

    • @lovewins8914
      @lovewins8914 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She was great

  • @tya4662
    @tya4662 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I LOVE the way Dr Tracey handled this difficult situation.

  • @_cocosunny
    @_cocosunny 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    The audacity with this one. I would love to hear what that ex wife said and how she feels disrespected. I'm floored. History of abuse.....🚩🚩🚩🚩ETA: The ex wife probably stayed while he sleeping with this young girl because he went upside her head and she was scared too.

    • @lafunn6756
      @lafunn6756 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      For a minute there i thought the ex wife was coming lol

    • @katrinafoster4239
      @katrinafoster4239 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The ex wife need help also, they said when the ex wife found out they was messing around that she stayed in a room by herself and they slept in the bed together. Why didnt the ex leave immediately? That's crazy to me. Thus dude has groomed this girl. I pray she is ok.

  • @Anonymouslousy
    @Anonymouslousy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Lost me at 55 lmao. Even though they’re both adults There’s a power dynamic here !

  • @jeaninestrickland8769
    @jeaninestrickland8769 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    can we get her to pull that wig forward?

    • @BringSugaTangerineTheDocuments
      @BringSugaTangerineTheDocuments 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It's a sew in unfortunately its stuck there 😒

    • @dianemclaurin5366
      @dianemclaurin5366 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂😂😂
      Girl I'm with you on that the mother needs to pull a wig back
      And the door needs to pull a little bit forward
      They need somebody on set to fix their hair their wigs

    • @colleennettles49
      @colleennettles49 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      In such a heartbreaking situation, you sitting here and talking about a wig,

    • @Leniloveyeshua3483
      @Leniloveyeshua3483 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Please😂

    • @Leniloveyeshua3483
      @Leniloveyeshua3483 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      She has no business wearing that wig. She needs to stop with all those fake hair and threat that scalf problem. That's a problem you get from wearing too much fake hair.

  • @detricegaines1889
    @detricegaines1889 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    omg I love Katasha's step-mom!! Such a good spirit and great woman!! Its till genuine people out here willing to be a support system.. even though she isn't with her father and the horrible past of that relationship!!

  • @kimayajohnson9362
    @kimayajohnson9362 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    At first it was like whhaaaaa why. But this is a child and she is terrified! Look how he kept looking at her !

    • @yolandgibson1233
      @yolandgibson1233 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Frist thing she not a child. Second he is crazy

  • @ravencole1208
    @ravencole1208 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Not the best friend mentioning burying him🤦🏾‍♀️ I cannot

  • @nallyw1
    @nallyw1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    She need to leave him, he is awful, toxic, abusive, manipulative, gaslighter. She needs to find someone younger and build with a man that isn’t this Damn old and toxic.

  • @FeliciaMorune-to7qh
    @FeliciaMorune-to7qh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Self love is important in life before being with someone

  • @alexjonhson3765
    @alexjonhson3765 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    3rd time is a charm is a falsity. Who wants to be wife number two or three because there's a reason why his last wife did not keep him.

  • @canaryblack5871
    @canaryblack5871 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When he got up and left the room he push down on her leg. He is very abusive. But if she doesn't leave, he's going to hurt her for telling.

  • @honeydew7349
    @honeydew7349 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I WAS so proud of Katasha for using this to get help! This was a brilliant strategy!! Only to back into the fire 😯😥

    • @stellarvgurl
      @stellarvgurl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I think she was threatened.... the way she disappeared and did not tell anyone they were going to the courthouse speaks volumes

    • @lafunn6756
      @lafunn6756 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He has already BROKEN her SPIRIT by abusing her. That's how he was able to marry her. She's young and he used that to control her. I know that he abused her very early on when he met her.

  • @cimaniwilliams248
    @cimaniwilliams248 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Bonus Mom is a whole gem and is trying to save her life. He's a toxic control freak.

  • @tiffanythurmond9600
    @tiffanythurmond9600 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    He’s definitely not a suga daddy still living in the same house with ex😂😂😂🤔

  • @nikiariley7761
    @nikiariley7761 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    It was inappropriate to address it with him present first. Also, telling who told her wasnt ok. Glad it came out but the confidentiality was breached.

  • @maureencoley4160
    @maureencoley4160 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    TEARS CAME TO MY EYES WHEN I READ THEY MARRIED!

    • @trademarkproductions9853
      @trademarkproductions9853 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I got chills....started praying for that young lady. 🙏🏾

  • @BroadenYourMind
    @BroadenYourMind 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She was disrespectful too, sleeping with him while in his marital home, even after she found out he was married. This whole episode, 3 minutes in, is toxic and dysfunctional. Lord help!

  • @tearapowell3780
    @tearapowell3780 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Latasha arguing with the daughter shows the immaturity. They both clearly have individual work that they need to do before being together and I’m big on dating people in your age group period. There’s few exceptions but this ain’t one

  • @i5ivelive
    @i5ivelive 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    now Tracy why would you put her on blast like that & mention your source?!? It definitely could’ve been better alone

  • @Hii.missworthy
    @Hii.missworthy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The way he looked at her when the therapist mentioned the step mom convo

  • @audriunaewing4184
    @audriunaewing4184 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I knew they weren’t going to do the no contact after she stated she still wanted to be him vs him going to the hotel. She gon find out the hard way that she should have left

  • @wordym.3435
    @wordym.3435 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    “And I’m happy” *blank stare* girlllllll leave him

  • @nicoleanagnostou7719
    @nicoleanagnostou7719 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The step mom looks like Tisha Campbell and Octavia Spencer. I like her.

  • @aprillhart7532
    @aprillhart7532 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So many red flags. 2 generational difference and negating the past 3 marriages is too much

  • @TB-fk4qm
    @TB-fk4qm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mother you need to apologize to your daughter for the abuse she saw you go through. Generational patterns repeat itself. 😢🙏

  • @thun325
    @thun325 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    She exposed him and still married him😢

  • @bridgetb5423
    @bridgetb5423 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This man has literally stolen this young girls youth. 49 year old falls for 18 year old is borderline predator. Unacceptable and selfish on his behalf.

  • @bryanawilliams159
    @bryanawilliams159 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    19 and 49 is insane. Idc that she’s legal that is wrong one so many levels.

  • @brown27407
    @brown27407 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    He’s a predator period! Dating a 19 year old! The ex wife should be ashamed also! She knew she was 19. And he sitting on the couch with matching clothes on 🚩

  • @asoluka_tee
    @asoluka_tee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    There's no way you watch the first 5 minutes of this clip and not realise he must be abusive. Everything is red. You need no flag this time.
    How do people not see these things???

  • @jo-zahnewilliams4607
    @jo-zahnewilliams4607 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Each time a question or statement is directed to her he answers or watches her full in her face...this was concerning to watch

  • @cerissatriggs8772
    @cerissatriggs8772 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Bless her heart man… she really needs her family to be her safe place.

  • @naturerazzi7shi495
    @naturerazzi7shi495 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    When she's 30 he'll be 60 yrs old ??? Wtf I'm done ✅

    • @vegasheart
      @vegasheart 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      And 40 years old with a 70 year old.🤢 This is a predatory relationship. Legal or not it’s trifling, abusive and predatory.

  • @zardo4
    @zardo4 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This man is a predator. He looked for a child -sorry, but 19 years old is still a kid - he could groom and control. This really shows the deeply complex psychological controls of abusive relationships. I hope she gets out and gets help.

  • @MsSong2U
    @MsSong2U 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Katasha is following the example of her mother + replacing her father.
    Victor is trying to recapture his youth.
    This scenario is so common.

  • @baebewynn6737
    @baebewynn6737 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Chile please the way she went off on the daughter . She beat on him too

    • @blackbox1911
      @blackbox1911 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She beat him? U think that little girl is beating that man? She might hit him but it ain’t doing no damage

  • @tryingjo3953
    @tryingjo3953 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am crying for this poor baby, looking for love in the wrong place. I hope she is doing better to this day.

  • @mizz_trying_to_heal9134
    @mizz_trying_to_heal9134 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I kinda don't like when the therapist brought up the abuse in front of her fiance. That's a scary situation. I feel like she should have spoken with her first one on one. The girls face when the therapist brought up the abuse 😢

  • @s.crockett5457
    @s.crockett5457 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    On a higher note..."Bride's" best friend is a vibe!!! She's gorgeous!!!💛🤍🤎

  • @faithshaya3713
    @faithshaya3713 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I applaud katashas step mom for being there for her. Thank you.

  • @22221mm
    @22221mm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Katasha YOU are beautiful! You deserve a healthy relationship.

  • @crystalfoster987
    @crystalfoster987 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He’s had multiple marriages (plural).👀. He failed in his past marriages (plural).👀. Girl, run.