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This red pill shit is dangerous. I was once on that red pill. Biggest regret and mistake I’ve ever made.
I'm glad you sae the error of the Red Pill. It very dangerous ⚠
Other people opinion is dangerous lmao
They're the most toxic pillers because they're trying to project their insecurities onto other people saying things like "come on! You gotta hit the gym and be dominant" while some Michael who plays video games pulls lots of women. I agree, gym is very important but not for just pulling women and be "masculine" but for physical strength and your health
Dangerous? Hyperbole much?
U R BELIBERATELY TRYING TO AVOID TRUTH>>>BCOZ TRUTH HURTS
WOMEN ARE COLD>>THeY ONLY CONSIDER YOU IF U LOOK GOOD OR EARN MUCH >>>THIER EVEY ACTION HAS MOTIVE
GOOD FOR >>>BETTER BE UNAWARE AND HAPPY RATHER THAN BEING AWARE AND SMART
The last guy that spoke in the video basically described how predators and bullies approach potential victims. Why the hell would you even WANT to activate someone's defense mechanism if you want their reaction to you to be a favorable one? As women, we've had to condition ourselves to avoid people who exhibit this behavior in order to keep ourselves safe and avoid harm. Any man who did that, I was immediately uncomfortable with and had to get away from.
Y’know, all the laughs and things aside, it’s genuinely worrying that more and more people are not willing to put in the effort or just generally being more toxic. It’s no longer something fringe, it’s basically everywhere now which is… not good.
It’s seriously worrying. Like there are literally tons of licensed therapists and dating coaches like Anthony out there on TH-cam, also just wanting to be a good human in general yet people wanna go towards this thinking instead. Maybe just online
@Gilgamesh4238 Because the other person is probably toxic too. You attract what you put out.
@@artisticagi there is some truth to what redpill preaches to men. Like for example, women do look for security in men so if u are less masculine as a guy ur probably not gonna attract women.
True
Nothing red pill content is saying is wrong. It's just that we live in a gynocentric social order that caters more to women's wants/needs than men's. And men have been conditioned well to avoid speaking their minds out of fear of being cancelled and been trained to believe things about women that aren't true. So it's a mixed of the female one-sided society and simp men upset that women are upset that their single or that men are finally speaking out about things they don't like/want in women for once. And in 2022, that's a big no-no. So sorry, not sorry, I'm taking red pill advice over a simp.
I just escaped from a 7-month relationship with a red-pill man. He got transferred to Italy (thank God) and quickly cheated by taking on a new girlfriend. Here's the weird part, throughout the relationship, there were at least 4-5 times that he pretended he was talking to his imaginary other girlfriend. Let me give you an example...he would be on FB video chat with me and I would hear him (only HIM, no one else) "sweet talking" someone else. At first, I thought maybe I was crazy, but another time, I could literally see him knock on his own coffee table and then jump up to supposedly "answer the door" because (he expected me to believe) that his female neighbor was trying to get him to let her in to enjoy a bottle of wine. Again, I heard no other voice than his and the pauses that one would normally have where another person speaks were ridiculously short....THERE WAS NO NEIGHBOR at his door, but he wanted ME to believe all these women were chasing him. One of the last times we video chatted after he moved to Europe, after spending two hours on the chat (his choice-he was always rattling on about HIMSELF, HIMSELF, HIMSELF, and his Red-Pill ideas), he got pi5sy and turned suddenly to right and said "I'm sorry. I will be with you in just a minute, Sweets." It was insane! He is obviously just making crap up to make himself seem like he has scores of action. It is laughable and really sad at the same time. In the end, I realized he was incapable of treating a woman with kindness and love and he attacked me personally. I walked....best choice I EVER made!
I’m sorry about this. Red pill has turned men’s minds into mush.
Damn, that’s crazy! These redpill guys really give men a bad name
@@AnthonyRecenelloWoman are dating for resources and men are looking for the youngest freshest lowest body count freshman to make their main chick.
@@skuzzlebutt9745 I think I hear the echo of fresh and fit in this comment section 😆
@@skuzzlebutt9745 what the hell?!
“Their mind is in strategy mode not chemistry mode” okay Anthony!! 🔥🔥🔥
Exactly
That's because men have to have a strategy when dating, not everything is simply based on "chemistry". Dates aren't simply Disney movies, as a guy, you have to know what to do in order to get your date to maintain interest.
@@ebenade1 Not exactly my guy. If you have to “know what to do in order to get your date to maintain interest”, then it means she probably wasn’t that interested to begin with. When you have a “Disney date” -trust me they’re real-everything flows so smoothly, and it is probably one of the best things you can experience. When a girl is genuinely attracted to you she won’t give a damn about what you “have to do to keep her interested” she’ll be up for anything as long as she’s around you because she’s interested in you as a person, and not what you think will keep her interested.
@@justinramirez8028 Sorry bro, but even assuming you're correct, the idealistic dates you're referring to are a rarity at best. The average guy doesn't meet his true love in his first date, and most dates which develope into full-on relationships don't necessarily work like that either.
You can have a smooth flowing date without being in your head all the time, that's true and that should be the norm. But my point was moreso that as a man, you should know what is best for you to do when interacting with a woman you have interest in. You should know not to seem needy, you should know not act too full of yourself, you should know how to come of as someone who's not insecure etc. You can call this basic dating advice, but the fact is a man has to learn more to capture the attention of an average woman than the other way around.
People seem to be incredibly idealistic and forget that dating and mating in general is very often a sort of game. Similar to how animals have mating rituals that must be executed properly, humans have mating strategies born from social norms that are just as useful. Being ignorant to them does a man no service unto himself.
@@ebenade1 You’re right about that but it really depends on the person and whether they want to play games or not. How I refer to it, boys and girls play games like on a playground, but men and women actually communicate clearly and are typically on the same level when it comes to dating or even hooking up.
Those alpha males are predators looking for their prey .
Wow, nice to see a normal sane guy in the manosphere.
He not in the Manosphere it’s strictly red pill
he is decent, but I highly doubt you would care and leave a comment if this guy wasn't in the top 5% looking men
@@michaelangst6078 Of course I would. It has nothing to do with his looks, he is too young for me and he is not my type.
I commented because I like any one who calls out this toxic red pill stuff.
@@haselbasil2488 Ok granny... No matter what you say or do, you're not going to go back 40 years go to the 80's... Life is over for you in more ways than one
@@michaelangst6078 🤣🤣🤣🤣 wow, no need to be nasty. I'm curious though, how is my life over in more ways then one ?
This red pill stuff is absolutely dangerous. I came across it when I was super young and impressionable out of college and I remember feeling terrified “what if I don’t find someone by 30?” And then thinking I had to literally unalive myself if it came to that because of the horrible shit these men spread. It’s scary and it needs to stop. I don’t even embody the toxic traits they claim women have. I don’t sleep around, I’m actually autistic and really struggle with social interactions. I don’t even pick up cues that someone is interested or not.
The red pill is very dangerous and these people need to be shut down.
A lion doesn't advertise himself as king of the wild.
A true expert doesn't need to say he/she is an expert because his/her body of work speaks for itself.
People fascinate me. Especially when it comes to dating. The mindsets and POV's...
I don't ever wanna be like that. What the genuine me wants is to grow and learn as much as possible whilst loving life and meeting new people.
Toxic people is like toxic gas. It simply is not healthy to be around.
Amen preach
This is the first video I’ve seen on this channel and I gotta say.....what a relief. After seeing so many garbage videos/channels being spread around over TH-cam, it’s so nice to come across a channel that’s giving actual grounded and solid dating advice. Really hope your voice gets promoted because these dudes spreading just outright false/toxic information are so annoying. Thank you thank you thank you!!!
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@Whiwjwuwiq the red pill essentially is for men that lost hope in modern women.
I'm in a very similar spot. I started looking into this shit and I could not fathom how people believe so much BS. Every single advice people on either side seem to give is either sweeping generalizations about arbitrarily defined groups, and/or in complete disregard of societal consequences. This truly has been refreshing.
This fool is just peddling delusional advice!!!
I like to know a man before the relationship becomes physical.
I would too
Really? Are you saying this after you've slept with multiple men?
😃 Don't sleep with them at all. These men and their coaches just want conquests, not commitment. They seduce women, then walk away and saying it was so easy. Other men string a woman along for years, winding down her biological clock but not marrying her. Wake up. Casual sex is a man's game. Don't play. 😄
@@natashadickson4819 It’s a mans game but I got played by girls my whole life damn right we want a conquest y’all on a world tour
@@blackharpy7468 They all are sadly, the only virgin girl I know is a religious one even she wants it she just can’t have it
Always be with people who treat you the way you want to be treated. Otherwise they aren’t worth your time.
My mom told me, “you will find your person. Someone who will treat you with the kindness and respect you deserve”, after I had been jerked around by this guy from Grindr, and had been essentially forced to reject myself over text cause he told me he’d asked out a guy he had a crush on and wouldn’t just come out and reject me. After she said that, I eventually came to the realization that, that guy was just one more wrong person out of the way on my path to finding my person. I just wanna have as much fun as possible on the way to that special person. Also, if someone is such a coward that they can’t even have the balls to be straight up and reject you when they’re already rejecting your OVER TEXT, be grateful you’ll never see them again
I've been going down the redpill rabbit hole within past 2 days and now im seeing the other side of the spectrum, very interesting week of learning this stuff.
There’s no red pill rabbit hole. This is all it is “women are shallow and will leave you for another man immediately so make sure you’re rich, tall, and famous.” I love how boys make it out to be some mind blowing revelation.
@@AnthonyRecenello what are your thoughts on Pearl?
I had a similar experience in regards to the dating coach POV TikTok video, I actually matched with a dating coach on an online dating site and he had bum-rushed me and was being inauthentic, putting on this act and acting similar to this guy in the TikTok video. And he teaches those techniques to young men and I immediately notice what he was doing, got off the phone, and like you said they have multiple people in their pocket and just need that one to bite the bait. Imagine how many other people must have believed them when they were using those techniques on them, but the reality is that the dating coach I matched with isn’t teaching anything beneficial to improve their dating life. He was teaching them how to have multiple people, score those dates, get laid then move on to the next one and replace the previous date with a new date and repeat the cycle.
so his technique worked ? because if it did not work then how did his students get laid
Just like what most females do 😂😂😂
"Dating for women is like shopping, dating for men is like going on a job interview that he's paying for..." PLEASE REACT TO MY CONTENT
Attaching yourself to a pill is already sad. Stand on your name.
Yea. These people need guidance. From the right ppl tho.
@@chachachin5697 check out TyKwonDoe he’s a W life coach
I love this comment!
The only good advice on this video is building social circles. That seems to be the best way to meet people. "Hey, you're single right? My friend is single too. I should set you guys up." That's the way I've noticed works and you can usually bypass terrible people because hopefully your friends won't set you up with a total monster.
The good old way of meeting people through other people.
On me old school dating was much better
How about you guys go out and talk to someone
Damn it is refreshing to see emotionally intelligent commetnary in this current dating landscape.
Stupid terms like "emotionally intelligent"; keep propagating feminist terms and ideologies! You are either intelligent or not!
My scared ass won't even try. The consequences are scary.
It was only a matter of time before Red Pillers migrated to Tik Tok. Now they take short Tik Tok clips and critique them through titles and have gained more subscribers.
They been on TH-cam
@@levihalperin7649 I meant Tik Tok. My mistake.
That doesn't slow done the content or how informative it is lol. It's still gaining traction lol.
Dude thank you for putting this out there. Idk if you know the service you are doing with producing content that's honest and not hate-filled entitled and realistic.
Would like to see you have a conversation with youtubers like Young Don The Sauce God or Aba & Preach who tilt more towards the red pill side but are level headed. That would be such great content too.
As soon as you date one, maybe two girls in that circle, you have to find a brand new circle.
Your work/videos should be taught in a mandatory class for teens in high school
so they grow up with better rounded sensibilities & outlooks ✨🧠✨
Agreed
Interesting video. In my case I can say one thing that gave me the most problems in dating was not knowing what to do and what not to do.
I feel happier, more relaxed and safe knowing You dismantle some harmful mindsets up there. I am truly grateful for what you bring to the world 💛
Me too :)
He’s just a left wing "he/him“ b1tch boy telling women what they wanna hear. He’s right about the pick up artists though. They’re cringe as hell.
@@handsomecriminal6942 That's what I got...Blue pilled liberal.....beta as hell...
Same here 😄
Finally a dating channel that's not toxic nonsense thanks bro your a gem🌾🥳🇿🇦
I have never been into dating because I just don't like dating. I'm in my late thirties and last dated in my late twenties. Dating was not my main focus. I wanted a career so went to University and have been focused on my career ever since. By chance I met a guy online(not on a dating app) and we hit it off and are now exclusive. He was definitely worth the wait. But from being single I enjoyed solitude. Being on my own isn't scary or depressing it's great. I get to be with myself and I am my own best friend. This is an important place to be because whether you're single or not, you'll be happy. Don't place your happiness in other people's hands. Being in a relationship doesn't make you valuable. You are valuable on your own and ADD value to a relationship. And the most important relationship to focus on is the one with yourself. I'm happy when I'm single and when I'm in a relationship I'm happy too. But my happiness doesn't depend on romance. I create my own happiness.
❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉bravo exactly too many ppl don’t get this
227k subs and only 593 likes? I'd like to see the downvote button.
I came here just curious about what a dating couch would hace to say and came out with an entire not only dating lesson, but life lesson in general, this was literally a life-view changing video. This was incredible, you're an amazing human being Anthony!
Yeah dating is hard when you date people you have nothing in common with, that want completely different things out of a relationship.
If you’re not happy and this doesn’t help more than likely you are depressed and need to talk to someone. Therapy is manly.
Can you do a video on how to improve your self esteem? 💖
Stop giving a fuck what people think. Ur self esteem will improve its that easy
@@christophervibe7430 it's not that easy when you're an abuse victim. Often words they said to you stay with you for years. It's not so easy as just "stop giving a fuck"
@@christophervibe7430 terrible advice
Dudes that don’t except the redpoll are done .. they never will
Loved this haha
How goes it, Eric?
Honestly, I don’t believe the guy is conservative. The girl might be and she may be holding on to different values. Not every girl in the conservative space wants to give up her virginity or sleep around. It’s something she might hold dear. Her intention may be to meet a partner for a long term and committed relationship. The guy may not be looking for a partner. I think it’s important to state intentions, personal values and expectations before you date. This way you aren’t wasting each other’s time.
I never believed the pick up artist nonsense, but I'm also single and completely devoid of hope.
U fail to realize that men and women are completely different
How so?
U fail to realize that men and women have much more similarities than differences. Stop using this dumb argument all the time, we are the same species for fucks sake
wait you're the dating "expert" here?
lol
Right? he some dating expert. Not. LMAO!!
4:00 that point is so true. There were many times where a girl was interested in me and I just shut off completely because I'm sooo afraid of dating. I'm turning 23 in a month and I only had flings etc.. because I truly can't open up. I always tell myself that I just don't feel the girl really. But tbh I'm just afraid lol. Primarily because it's 1) uncomfortable and 2) because I'm afraid of being "tied down". I know it's not really rational but idk man
I feel bad for you. Is there anyone close to you in your life that you can talk to about why you maybe feel this way? Cause I know the feeling of being afraid to open up and accept change, even if it’s positive, and that seems like part of what you may be feeling. Or maybe; have you considered a therapist?
@@Overseer2579 Maybe I would need a therapist because I have some close friends but even there I still have some sort of facade often. And my mom is my closest "friend" but the problem is.. she really is like me. She can't help me with that. It was more luck than anything that she ended up with my dad who btw is not in touch with his emotions at all. He is a brick in that regard.
They work together because they leave each other a lot of scape and both are not romantical at all. They didn't even propose to each other for marriage lmao. They just did it after I was there lol. We are all very rational and closed off. We can speak about things very well (well my mom and me at least) but don't really feel it.
And idk I have this image of me that I'm very independent and tough and I don't need shit. Because I pulled through so much and I always came out of top. I have that ability to always believe in myself when it matters so it would be hard for me to admit that I maybe need outside help with something. I think I would just put up a charming front with a therapist again but really wouldn't be my true self.
@@WrathofFenrir99 Yes that's probably true
You have healing to do.
Anthony Recelnello I’m 22 and since like 18 I haven’t even talked to guys just nothing at all I just took the time to really heal and grow as a person but I’m ready to get out there dating but I am someone who’s always been sexually conservative but I’m friendly And a lot of guys really aren’t willing to build a platonic friendship with me before any sex happens and I’ve kind of “gone my own way” and finding my own interests and developing skills but it’s still hard
What about if you have mental health issues and find it hard to be happy the way other people do? There's got to be a way to still "own it"... to still love yourself regardless. I feel like there can be a lot of shame and stigma around mental illness/depression, therefore meaning you're not happy/attractive enough
This dude is a scam artist.
You seem also kind of childish by instulting all the people in the tiktoks you should learn to be more mature I liked some of your points but the insults make the video just childish
Are you always right? And the only person who knows everything about dating?
Lol
you're on here calling people a lot of names that I don't think you would in person be respectful you might get pressed on day and it wont end well for you💯💯
Are you saying someone would murder me cuz I called them names? Who would do that?
Yay I found a guy on TH-cam who has sense. Subscribe.
How did men and women find each other before dating coaches became a thing?
It's one thing to promote self-love, esteem, and empowerment to better a person. Even telling people to get their shit together, get their money right, and their mindset focus because these are important for personal growth to strengthen against harder times to come in the real world. But it's totally and incredible asinine to tell these young men to do this PRIMARILY to game women all for the purpose of sleeping with them, accumulate a high body count, lose all sense of humanity as well as the ability to genuinely bond with a person on an emotional and intellectual level, and seeing people as objects and tally marks for their status quo and reputation as a "man". Guys...growing from a foundation of bitterness does not get you to that plane of "success" nor does it make you a man in the long run. Intellectually and emotionally, people of this red pill nature have not left the same base they started from, and that's something they need to really reflect on because the minute anyone feels they have to flex on someone else, congratulations, they've become a corny victim and by product of the trauma they haven't even begun to face. Imagine giving all your energy and credit of success away to people of the past. Imagine never having wanted that for yourself and only wanting it to get back at other people. Says a lot about a person's willingness to remain a victim after everything...
Myron from f&f aren't wrong saying if a girl don't want to have sex kick her to the curb. Because men and women are very different. Men want sex and women want attention and validation. She would get what she wants but men don't. Its nothing personal,. is only a dating game strategy.
Ok luigie, show me the proof women was attention and men want sex. And I’ll believe you!
@@AnthonyRecenello I don't need you to believe me, and I don't need to proof you anything. Im just exercise my freedom to speech. My argument is not about my interpretation, is nothing but a fact. Reseach by yourself.
@@AnthonyRecenello Pair bonding in animals closely related to us.
'Among pair-bonding tamarin monkeys, lots of grooming and physical contact predicted high oxytocin levels in female members of a pair. What predicted high levels of oxytocin in males? Lots of sex.' - Robert Sapolsky Behave, p.128
@@AnthonyRecenello pathetic “expert”
So men and woman are shallow therefore men can’t complain about attracting disgusting partners. We are more than our instincts dummy
It amazes me that people who are driven by pure resentment are giving out dating advice... and have such a huge amount of people listen to them.
The idea that men only want sex and nothing else boggles my mind. If that's the case then why not just go to a hooker, give them money and they'll have sex with you. Why bother with dating, why bother taking a girl out, why bother trying to talk to her? There's obviously more to dating than just sex.
Power
Man, I love your philosophy. I believe it is generally true. I believe I come from a very different perspective on life than you, but it absolutely makes sense to me what you are saying. Thank you. And please more of this "meta" content. I also love that you don't primarily want so sell something. This is ultra rare.
😂😂😂😂the first clip.... ain't no way that man is serious
One thing we can all agree on is that dating sucks in 2024. If I want intimacy from a woman without the bullshit, I don't mind paying for it here and there.. it's easier and cheaper than trying to impress her on dates and get nothing in return.... I don't give a shit what society thinks about me I do my own thing.
I like that they’re open with this shit, that way I know right away to avoid them.
This dude's doing nothing but projecting his own shit into everyone else who speaks in facts.
What I think Patrice O’Neal was saying tho was women do not have any skill in order to get a man. So now that the world is becoming a less conservative place especially the dating world. Women won’t then budge on things that are more conservative that benefit them. For example, having to get rejected by approaching men they like. Or by having to date down financially etc. Patrice is just saying that women should be less conservative when it comes to approaching men and I would think that’s a good thing he’s saying.
Don't waste your time explaining thing to the people here, i don't think many of them will get it.
And concerning the women they are neither conservative nor progessive when it comes to dating ... they are cherry picking ( you already named a few examples for that) but they will not admit it because it makes them look bad .. there are a few with good charaktre though that propably would admit such things
I don’t subscribe to TRP ideology but it has caught on so quickly because there is some undeniable truth to it, especially with the different dynamics between casual sex and long-term relationships.
Dating is dangerous to our happiness and it puts our valuable time at risk, we think “are we spending it as well as we know we deserve by going on this date tonight?” And that fear of wasting time is real. Btw I’m in an awesome relationship but I’ve been there
This is the first video I have seen of this guy and I think I love him! Good video man, super funny and intelligent.
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@@AnthonyRecenello are you gay or bisexual by chance?
It would be interesting to know what would you say to christian people. I want to wait until marriage so finding the final person is important to me, because of my values and morals.
I would suggest to try to date men who are also Christian (true Christians, not just the title).
Before you even meet them out for a first date ask them about their values, what their looking for, and what is their current purpose for dating.
It really doesn’t make sense to go any farther if they say something like “I’m just enjoying my life right now, not looking for commitment”, or “I see myself getting married in about 10 years, I don’t feel ready right now”, that’s your cue that it’s not even worth moving forward or even finding out if they’re willing to wait ‘til marriage, because he’s not even ready for commitment. Best to move on quickly if your values & priorities are not in alignment.
That’s exactly what I was doing when I found my husband, we were both at the same stage in life, we were both ready for marriage, and were willing to sacrifice $€X to do things right in God’s eyes.
@@rmercedes971 thanks!
@@millenadecampos7192 You’re welcome ☺️ ! Don’t be disheartened, there are still decent, God fearing young men out there and I know you will find the one God has for you. Wish you the best!
As a Christian you should be courting, not dating.
@@ralegade7710 what’s the difference?
I'm alpha. Trust me
Are you really a dating expert? Feeling sad for your clients. You don't live in reality dude. Your view is optimistic but not realistic.
He is one of the most popular dating coach and a millionaire.
@@gigguko6214 I would be too if I give advice to Incels and motherfu-ckers you can’t get laid 😭😭😭😭
Shut up
Ur musty anyways
@@maryamdiao1509 typical response. Women ☕️
14:31 Patrice o neal is right there
great video!
5:16 just leaving this here for myself because that's the smartest thing I've heard anybody say on youtube
Sorry Anthony but your tips and advice do not reflect modern dating. Truth is dating in the west like America, Australia, Canada is a huge joke. It has gotten worse with the evolution of social media and online dating and with apps like Instagram and Tinder makes women think they have this huge shopping list of men. Women today has this huge shopping list requirement for men (tall, 6 figure income, 6 pack abs, like this and that), very much large entitled attitudes and they provide nothing in return. They think existing is good enough. Sorry as a man in my 30's I seen it all. I got out of dating and stopped trying, not gonna mess around entitled women who act like they deserve the world and everything handed to them on a silver patter.
However, I'm in a wonderful relationship now with a Filipino woman and I currently live in the Philippines. I met her back in 2018 when I was sent by company to help opening a new office in Philippines. When I saw her behavior compared to women in the US it was no brainer she is a keeper. She is feminine and fit unlike most western women who has a masculine attitude.
Today men either walk away from women and give up or they going overseas for a foreign wife. As I tell men, go get your passport and explore beyond the borders.
Congratulations, longbeach225. The fact that you met your lady in a traditional way makes it all the more wonderful.
Your generalizing
These persons will make you second guess every action of people who will approach us which is terrible. I really wish people were genuine.
Patrice was right though
This video is so good!!! 🙏
Thank you for putting out this content
Great video and points!
Don’t have to do anything for woman just be you and go thru your day, chase money.
Women don’t have to do anything for you only some lazy hoes who aren’t even physically attracted to you. They fake it for your money. Poor men having to buy love
@@desserteyes6978 Yea I wonder why they yell “Im coming” every time we hangout. Haha I’m joking but my comment is fried, it basically means no one has to do anything for us, just focus on you, chase your goals/money. I don’t mess with hoes but I hope to find a respectful woman one day but it’s alittle rough rn.
Just be yourself and find time for other things
I can't make your Betas podcast but would love to watch it after. Is there a place where I can do this. It also seams that you are trying to build a community. How can I be more involved in your community when I can't buy your course?
Just realized you have other youtube channels for this.
4:44 Disagree. We evolved to be with someone. Its biological. Like every animal.
I agree. I've read several times that we are social creatures.
Wrong if we did men wouldn’t be so lonely and single
@@0volts157 Of course we are. TH-camrs like this just regurgitate "quote" ideologies.
What the heck is this video about. Just be yourself. There’s something wrong with someone who is dating long enough to be a dating expert.
lollllll
"Dating expert"
Dating expert hasnt solved the marraige and divorce atats or the declining birth rate
The decline in marriage is cause of the economy lazy ppl etc
get your life together and you will see who the real enemy is...
He really disrespected Patrice Oneal
RIP to the GOAT
This is crazy 🤣 They're all insecure... They all sound crazy and it's loud in every video
Taking girl advice from a homosexual, doesn’t make any sense in my book
I wish I had known about a channel like this when I was falling down the pickup rabbit hole.
This content creator has a channel called "Betas Podcasts" that's all you need to know......lol
The reason we are here in this dating world is because of how men like you are going around talking about crap like "emotional intelligence". I agree with some of the things you say, but most of what you preach here does NOT work on modern women. Please listen to the entire clip from Fresh and Fit before giving people these quasi-truths about relationships. A lot of men have been divorced by women doing exactly what you are saying!
“Dating expert” - good to know it doesn’t take much credentials to be an expert these days. This dude is still living in the 2000s era pickup artist days.
😢😢😢poor caveman sucks to be you
I simply treat others male or female exactly the same respect I'm given but expect the same in return just one man's humble opinion
Great video , thanks
13:00 This is not true at all. As a guy, if a woman said I want to have sex, it would make me way more attracted to her if I was interested in her on a date. Something about a woman stating exactly what she wants just does it for me
I have told men explicitly and they treated me horribly afterwards and during the act .....NEVER AGAIN ... LET'S KEEP PLAYING PRETEND FOR NOW ...
@@hellenmuka7207 I mean it’s ur job to preserve value after sex. He may have just used you to hit and run and maybe wants another girl now. A lot of guys lie about wanting relationships
@@Kingofkings07133 yes.....I will remember this anytime men complain about how the government treats them....
It’d be the same way for me too. I love it when anybody has the confidence to express interest in getting to know me or having sex with me (as long as I’m already interested in having sex with them or being their friend as well, lol). Regardless of your gender, if you wanna bone, just be straight up, don’t play games
@@hellenmuka7207 savage comeback
Myron is the worst type of pariah.
One good thing I will say about the pizza guy from the first TikTok, as scary and petty as that was; that TikTok will live forever on the internet, and his employer, as well as future employers, will be able to see it at any time, and he could possibly get fired or disqualified from jobs, based on the threatening behavior he displayed there
Haven't watched this yet, but basically "do everything, become incredible, just to date a 5/10, and ignore her disgusting day to day behaviour" is my guess, where this is leading
Thoughts?
Wasn't completely wrong. But still, truth is, women want confidence, women want money and personality. The rest is BS. You are better of leaning right, rather than left, when it comes to this. Your best bet, is to be able to swim with women in the left space, and the right space, but understand if her space, is the bitchy space, then dip
@@zengara11 which women want money? And why wouldn’t women want confidence and personality? Do you think they just want a shell of a human? Confused at what you’re getting at.
@@AnthonyRecenello Women that earn more than their man, usually end up divorcing them. This statistic is pretty clear.
And beyond that, I am saying that people fixate on other stuff, like I like a guy when he "yada yada yada" fact is, have a personality, confidence, and money, everything else does not matter.
@@zengara11 A study published in the American Sociological Review in 2011 found that, in the U.S., couples in which the wife earned more than the husband had a higher risk of divorce compared to couples where the husband earned more. The researchers speculated that the increased risk of divorce might be due to traditional gender role expectations and the associated stress or challenges that may arise when these expectations are not met.
So this is not some stat based on psychology, but rather based on pressure from societal expectations. Also, this is a correlation, not a causation. Which can mean that the husband may have become depressed and lost his job-leading to a fractured relationship. It’s important not to just throw stats out and assume they fit your bias, but to look into them and see what actually happened. Further, the majority of statistics like this have happened over a decade ago, before millennials became adults. Boomers and Gen Xers are unfortunately still victim to and brainwashed by these societal traditions and gender roles.
But further, who cares? What are you implying with that? That you are scared that women who make more money than you will leave you? There are a ton of random statistics, but will you go by all statistics even if you’re in love with a great person?
And for your next comment, you kinda just restated what you said earlier, disregarding my response. Why wouldn’t someone want to date someone with confidence and a good personality?
To be fair you're not a dating expert and ANYONE claiming to be isn't
You really sitting there being a guy telling people its not about the sex its about the connection, i wonder why sexless marriages are a problem and its not just not getting sex if she is friending you despite your advances she is milking you for attention or and plan b if she ends up alone
Not even true, most of the time, in my experience. First off, where’s your statistical evidence? Second, you don’t need to be constantly having sex to have a connection, period dot. If someone says they want to just be friends, they’re just not attracted to you and are either A) Genuinely caring for you, just not in a romantic way, and they’d like to stay connected, or B) They’re just trying to let you down easy. Women generally don’t milk you for attention on purpose or keep you on the hook in case she ends up alone. Again, that’s just coming from lived experience, and also observing all the happy marriages around me, but what do I know, right?
@@diamantshala9824 I don’t need stats, thank you very much. And I don’t need you insulting or trying to invalidate my own lived experience either. My female friends do not milk me for validation or attention. They spend time around me cause they like and want to. There’s no need for sex for either party to be happy, and besides, we don’t see each other in a romantic light. And I know my father pretty well; so, I know if I asked him this question, he wouldn’t say what you’re telling me, because you don’t know every father, and you certainly don’t know mine. And also, if you’re going into any kind of relationship (platonic or romantic or professional) purely looking to gain from the other person and feeling entitled to a reward for your kind behavior, then you’re not really nice. My relationships with my girl-friends are strong because we just care about each other and giving to each other by being the best friends possible to each other, rather than focusing on gaining from each other. We have given each other gifts, sure, but that’s just because we’ve known each other for awhile and care for one another. You’re trying to attack me for coming at this with my lived anecdotal experience, and also trying to invalidate my loved ones’ experiences because they prove the opposite of what you’re claiming, and I can tell that scares you deep down, because of how defensive and needlessly rude you’re being in response. Just because you have a certain worldview, doesn’t make mine or my friends and family’s experiences any less valid, so don’t waste your time trying to insult or invalidate or intimidate me or prove me wrong
@@Overseer2579 im not trying to insult or invalidate your experiences, sorry if i unintentionally did that, im just saying hypothetically you think what would it be like to fuck my friend and dont deny it bc people think what if i was superman and shit like that bsc any possibility that entertains your brain, so if you and your female friends have thought about it now let me tell you the reasons you and her had not to actually do this, physical attraction is not there, fear of rejection and the end of the friendship, you or they are married, you or they dont want non marital sex, if its none of these i promise you would at least try it once, i didnt sqy your friends are milking you bc i do not know you, what i do know is the general principle and a 100 diffrent men s movements support all my views not bc we re together but because we all saw the same women do the same thing, now you might say where you live it might be like that but not the rest of the world blah blah, well its in the entire world mate bc if the world was like the books we read to our children the police and psychologists would not need to exist to the extent they do , the truth of the matter is you want women and women want men so if you re not getting bed time there is a reason, generally the woman doesnt like you but in case of female friends its not neccesay for her to give you sex for the relationship to continue meanwhile you give her all the support she needs or you get a reaction from her which i promise you know deep in your heart even beforw you try and do your own thing as every guy including me does,men and women cant be just friends the same as a rich man and a straving man cant be just friends, bc you help your starving friend with food and dont let him starve, so a woman is directly notified that you want her body and she says no go get it somewhere else its the same as a best friend not giving you food when he has a full warehouse and there is no other problem exept he doesnt want to give it to you ,we live in a place where we need to eat and drink so you enter relationships with all people where you offer and recieve something, women have convinced you and a lot of men that its okay for them to say no to your request but its not okay for you to then say if you wont do this for me i dont want to keep you company which is what you want out of me and before you say its not the same thing i know its not the same thing im just saying she wants something from you ask something you want from her dont just give your thing for free bc you have a finite amount of money and time so get the best trade for them , refusing to do so means your doing what is best for your friend and dissregarding what you want and i promise at the end of the relationship you will see how ungrateful and unfair humans can be generally ....not your friends but mabye just mabye you didnt hit the goldmie of the entire earth and they are all real bc out in the world i promise you almost nobody is real and in every firendship love song which sell millions of albums to people who see this fact every day in their life and find ease in listening to the song its a fact. I ask of you just sit in your room and think what is it that i want and what is it i should get in return for my love and comerade ship and you will see you already know ...bc you know if we all were friends there would be no wars or lies bc there would be no need for it
Shut up
what do you think of dating a partner who doesn’t share your interests and doesn’t have many of their own, should you try finding someone who shares your passion for particular interests or just be happy that your partner is willing to try new hobbies together?
I think you should generally look for people who have you’ll have a rough balance of similarities and differences with. That’s in regards to making friends and dating. My friends, we have a lot in common, but then there’s also stuff that they’re interested in and passionate about, that I’m not as familiar with. Sometimes I give a show they recommend a shot, and I don’t like it, or maybe I do. However, even when you do have differences with the person you’re friends with or dating, you still should be actively showing an interest in their stuff, BECAUSE you know it matters so much to them. Does that make sense?
😂 i love you so much Anthony 😂 🥰
Red pill definitely started off with good intentions. Clearly some things have changed.
hi WG! what were those good intentions?
I feel that you are using the term redpill to describe any man who doesn't prescribe to modern feminist ideology. That Myron guy just seems like a dude bro in his 20s high on testosterone chasing tail. Most of that changes with age. Hes protecting his interest and the girls he dates should as well. I don't agree with that destructive lifestyle, but I would hardly call that redpill.
Also, your example of we are born happy and as children we are happy, I would argue is because we have the companionship of a parent. I don't think we are built to be alone and being alone is destructive to men especially as we have a more aggressive outlet for our depression. Having a companion is one piece of the puzzle to happiness. Arguing that companionship isn't a part of happiness goes against what makes us human.
Hey Sektor. Myron says he is redpill and teaches it on the podcast. Do you have any research showing that humans are meant to be in a relationship or we will be unhappy/unfulfilled?
Myron is pathetic and a closeted gay
is "dating expert" a job title ?