First off, let's establish that there is no right or wrong answer here. It all depends on your personal values and beliefs. Some people may see sex on the first date as a deal breaker, while others may not care at all. But here's the thing - if you're considering having sex on the first date, make sure it's a decision you're making for yourself and not just to please someone else. Don't feel pressured to do something you're not comfortable with. And if you do decide to go for it, make sure you're practicing safe sex and communicating your boundaries and expectations with your partner. Now, let's address the stigma surrounding sex on the first date. Why is it such a big deal? Society has conditioned us to believe that women who have sex on the first date are "easy" or "slutty." But that couldn't be further from the truth. Women should be able to make their own choices about their bodies without being judged or shamed. At the end of the day, whether or not you have sex on the first date is entirely up to you. Don't let anyone else dictate your decisions or make you feel ashamed for your choices. Remember to always prioritize your own comfort and safety above all else. So, is sex on the first date a deal breaker or not? Who cares? As long as you're making informed choices and staying true to yourself, that's all that matters." ❤ Kindly check out my channel for more related content
For me! Be it first or hundred dates. I'll never get down with a woman that i haven't paid her bride price. I consider it humiliating to my person. Even if we're getting married tomorrow, it's not happening tonight. It's an unbreakable principle.
I didn’t at all for the first three months with my now husband of 22 years. We became friends and got to know each other. The first time was fire because we both knew how we felt and that we wanted to be together. He’s also about 10 years older and was ready to settle down. For me, jumping into a physical thing ended with a lot of confusion and heartache. It all depends on your needs and what you want for yourself, of course. My friend who lived this sort of jump in the sack lifestyle is 60 now, never married and never even was asked to be married by any man. She isn’t happy and struggles with loneliness quite a lot. It’s too bad because she would have made a wonderful, loving and supportive wife.
Omg it wasn’t planned to happen on the first date! We met out talked for hours. He was just visiting and leaving the next day. We already talked how it wasn’t going to happen. We were tired and it just happened naturally. It’s a long distance connection now.
@@JaneLawrence well we met on April 20th. It’s been hard like we’ve stopped talking for like a week because of misunderstandings. But for the most part we talk on the phone everyday and he texts me every morning. We are honestly getting to know each other virtually. I do enjoy long distance relationships because I need my space tbh we do plan to travel to each other soon. I guess I’ll see how it goes. I like him as a person but we both have flaws where it’s like wow I didn’t know you were like this so I get what you’re talking about waiting. Sometimes it just happens!
I did this snd ended up getting married 8 months later lol 😆 anyways I don’t recommend that because it’s rare for something like that to happen I was in my early 20s when that happened we had a good relationship my husband and I at the time but anyways do the right thing ladies I believe you should wait.😊
Do what works for YOU!!!! My partner & I had sex on the first date & I have ZERO regrets! He actually cooked me breakfast since I slept over the first night lol. He’s my dream man & we’re still together. Please understand there’s NO GARUNTEE that if you make a man wait a set amount of time they’ll be with you or stick around. As a mature adult just figure out what works best for you (wouldn’t recommend being promiscuous though).
It was 3rd date with ex gf, but first date with boyfriend. I guess it depends on who I'm with. Now that I date guys and not girls anymore, it's quicker
I did it on my second time meeting him omg we slept and cuddle the night before. And in the morning it just happened. We didn’t even kiss omg is it bad lol
@JaneLawrence imagine both parties want it very badly, but they hold off for one day. They both go home, and its all they think about! The passion builds, butterflies flying, y'all get those elevator feelings, and that 2nd date... it is on!
First off, let's establish that there is no right or wrong answer here. It all depends on your personal values and beliefs. Some people may see sex on the first date as a deal breaker, while others may not care at all.
But here's the thing - if you're considering having sex on the first date, make sure it's a decision you're making for yourself and not just to please someone else. Don't feel pressured to do something you're not comfortable with.
And if you do decide to go for it, make sure you're practicing safe sex and communicating your boundaries and expectations with your partner.
Now, let's address the stigma surrounding sex on the first date. Why is it such a big deal? Society has conditioned us to believe that women who have sex on the first date are "easy" or "slutty." But that couldn't be further from the truth. Women should be able to make their own choices about their bodies without being judged or shamed.
At the end of the day, whether or not you have sex on the first date is entirely up to you. Don't let anyone else dictate your decisions or make you feel ashamed for your choices. Remember to always prioritize your own comfort and safety above all else.
So, is sex on the first date a deal breaker or not? Who cares? As long as you're making informed choices and staying true to yourself, that's all that matters." ❤ Kindly check out my channel for more related content
When I had gfs it was rarely on first dates, now that I date guys, it usually is on first date. I guess I'm more excited when with a guy
For me! Be it first or hundred dates. I'll never get down with a woman that i haven't paid her bride price. I consider it humiliating to my person.
Even if we're getting married tomorrow, it's not happening tonight. It's an unbreakable principle.
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I didn’t at all for the first three months with my now husband of 22 years. We became friends and got to know each other. The first time was fire because we both knew how we felt and that we wanted to be together. He’s also about 10 years older and was ready to settle down. For me, jumping into a physical thing ended with a lot of confusion and heartache. It all depends on your needs and what you want for yourself, of course. My friend who lived this sort of jump in the sack lifestyle is 60 now, never married and never even was asked to be married by any man. She isn’t happy and struggles with loneliness quite a lot. It’s too bad because she would have made a wonderful, loving and supportive wife.
Omg it wasn’t planned to happen on the first date! We met out talked for hours. He was just visiting and leaving the next day. We already talked how it wasn’t going to happen. We were tired and it just happened naturally. It’s a long distance connection now.
Awwww how you both coping with being apart?
@@JaneLawrence well we met on April 20th. It’s been hard like we’ve stopped talking for like a week because of misunderstandings. But for the most part we talk on the phone everyday and he texts me every morning. We are honestly getting to know each other virtually. I do enjoy long distance relationships because I need my space tbh we do plan to travel to each other soon. I guess I’ll see how it goes. I like him as a person but we both have flaws where it’s like wow I didn’t know you were like this so I get what you’re talking about waiting. Sometimes it just happens!
I did this snd ended up getting married 8 months later lol 😆 anyways I don’t recommend that because it’s rare for something like that to happen
I was in my early 20s when that happened we had a good relationship my husband and I at the time but anyways do the right thing ladies I believe you should wait.😊
Jane speaks the truth! 👍
I’ll F whenever I feel like it
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It took 2 months for him to ask for my phone #. Now how long does one wait before giving it up because the tension has been building 🤔
Do what works for YOU!!!! My partner & I had sex on the first date & I have ZERO regrets! He actually cooked me breakfast since I slept over the first night lol. He’s my dream man & we’re still together.
Please understand there’s NO GARUNTEE that if you make a man wait a set amount of time they’ll be with you or stick around. As a mature adult just figure out what works best for you (wouldn’t recommend being promiscuous though).
We did it on the third and we are together and looking to move in together. We met on Tinder. He is French
Tinder???? That’s a scary site over here but you are one of the lucky few
Not in a France 🇫🇷 I suppose. We ve been together for 5 months and I am meeting his parents next month.
It was 3rd date with ex gf, but first date with boyfriend. I guess it depends on who I'm with. Now that I date guys and not girls anymore, it's quicker
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I did it on my second time meeting him omg we slept and cuddle the night before. And in the morning it just happened. We didn’t even kiss omg is it bad lol
No its okay on the 2nd...
Looool No it’s not😂😂😂
@JaneLawrence imagine both parties want it very badly, but they hold off for one day. They both go home, and its all they think about! The passion builds, butterflies flying, y'all get those elevator feelings, and that 2nd date... it is on!