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Same, I have one potential friend, but I ghosted them for 2 months cause I don't know what to say to them, and now I feel super guilty and still haven't said anything partly cause of the guilt.
Notes if you want them 1. Quality over quantity 2. Know what you’re good at 3. Create more opportunities for yourself 4. Ask questions during conversations 5. Patience is key 6. Get into a routine Have a nice day ;)
Any other introverts feel like social outcasts at times? Sometimes I feel so outta place, and different than my colleagues. It sucks but deep down I know there’s nothing wrong with me, I’m just not like the majority of extroverts
Yeah. Like, when I talk to other students, I don’t know if they are using me, making fun of me, both of the answers or they are serious. I tend to think that they all hate me. So, I decided to hate them back
I just want to let anyone know who is struggling with this also, that you are not alone. I have been struggling with this for years and have been staying with a select few people because of it. I want to branch out and make more friends but I am just not good at talking to people. So please, know that you are not alone in this fight. And that I understand completely. I hope you have a wonderful day and please do not get discouraged💕
Yes u are right.... especially introvert had these type of problems... otherwise extrovert don't even think they just talk and have fun with any friends... but introvert need someone whom they can connect ...
My college seniors : Broaden your relations and make friends as many as you can for the sake of your future Me, an introvert : I guess I'll have no future then
As many as you can doesn't need to be more than one potential friend, worth getting to know. Just a thought. Hang in there because finding a like-minded person can take time but if you slowly slowly let a potential friend get to know you there is always a chance. You are not alone, just rare.
I found this channel now i can understand more about introverts. I have this very introverted friend i got to know just recently. He was quiet, too quiet like he didnt talked at all. But as time goes by he started to open up more and i think thats so adorable and makes me want to make them comfortable around me more. I just cant explain the joy when ur introvert friend initiate the conversation just to talk to u about sumthing they find funny or find interesting. When this happens, i never knew i can be a listener so fast.
These are all things i try to do but trying to get more opportunities is really tough for me as someone who has to use a wheelchair and lives in a place that’s not very accessible. With school being online for almost two years i have had an even tougher time talking to people. I’m going to try all these tips and try to build relationships with more people.
Remember not to be too hard on yourself when you try talking to people. I say this because that is a problem I am struggling with myself but just try because you will see that there are nice people out there too.
The problem I have is that I ask to many questions to where it’s like a interigation because the other person doesn’t want to carry the conversation and just says short answers after bringing up topics
This literally happened two days ago, when I was trying to make a friend.😭 I’m now trying to see how I can talk with them, without it being awkward for both of us, because I know she has good intentions, but it makes me overthink like crazy😭😭
STORY TIME When i was really young i was extremely extroverted i had friends but after some time everyone left me without saying goodbye, even now when i meet them they ignore me that's when I was thinking if im an introvert or not,even now i "made'' some friends but it didn't last long so i have trust issues-, even when i socialize i always think that's not myself-i feel uncomfortable while socializing
your voice is so pleasing i instantly liked it! im super extroverted and wanna get to know introverts better because you all are very nice to have around aswell.
So basically... no friends...? I can't just be like "hey wanna be friends" "Wanna hang out" I tried making a step before to make a friend *it didn't work*
I do try to talk to people. Its hard but I can fo it, the thing is that it never does me good. The other person replies a bit and we might talk a bit but then it's all over and all my fantasies of making a best friend are shattered. It always hurts to see two people laughing and joking and having a nice time, bcz I have always coveted that feeling. That feeling to having someone you can talk to about anything and laugh without feeling insecure. But I believe there is someone written in my fate too, one day I'll have a friend and everything will be beautiful.
Every week day is a mental torture to me. I don't have any friends at school. I am just always alone, quiet, pathetic and miserable. I don't fit in to any group. The worst part of my day is the recess at school. That is the time I feel most lonely. One day I was feeling uncomfortable just sitting all by myself in the noisy bustling classroom during recess so I went out in search of a person that I know to be with him. I walked with heavy steps and I saw him with his friend group. Then I approached near him and tried to be with them but he completely ignored. Then they walked and I followed them because I didn't want to be alone. I also didn't speak anything because they were all talking loudly. Then they went to another room. I didn't want to go there because it was too much crowded. Then I walked away from them shamefully. It was really hurtful. Then I went into my classroom and sat alone with my head lied on my bag just closing my eyes hoping this will end soon. It was just 30 minutes but it seemed like a lifetime to me. I have always been this way and that is why I hate to go to school. I don't want many friends. I don't even want to be in any group. All I want is one true friend just one. But everytime try to make friends I talk for a while and then they never talk back to me again. They never pay any attention to me. So none of my friendships last more than a day. I hope this does not happen to anyone.
@RKKorou4747 Exactly 💯 This is exactly what I usually experience at school, too 😭😭😭😭 I still don't have any friends 😭😭😭😭😭 I am always on my own, even at home too 😭😭
not able to watch the video yet but if this isnt click bait it'll solve like all my life problems. is there an actual formula for making friends this introvert wants to know
I used to have a best friend. I am still “friends” with her but not she has a new best friend, she kinda insults me and leaves me when she sees her other friends. My other friend left me. It’s really hard making friends when the 2 people who understood you left you after you invested every day with them.
I don't even have one frd in my clg 😕 and I want to change my speaking attitude too as I always lower my voice while talking to strangers and new ones except my family
Same...I don't know why my voice goes lower when I talk to people whom I don't know that much. Like it automatically goes down.And the friends part is also relatable like my friends are from highschool and none of them are here.It has been 4-5 months college started still I don't have friends while others have alot of friends. It's fine bcz I don't feel lonely but sometimes I have to sit alone while others are talking and it's so awkward. Sorry for my rant I just need it to let go.
Today was the first day in my new school. I saw this nice girl sitting by herself at lunch. I wanted to say hi but every time I tried I ended up walking away again, and then she went to her other friends
Watching this because I have recently discovered that my current group of friends is incredibly toxic, I need out of that situation, and I desperately could use some new decent and kind people in my life. The problem with this is... I am incredibly awkward, I have trust issues and find it extremely difficult to open myself up to anyone, and... at the risk of sounding like an arrogant ass...I find it very difficult to talk with people less intelligent that I am. I'm not trying to say that I'm a super genius or anything, because God knows I am far from it, but it is physically painful to talk to stupid people.
I think no cuz if you think ur an introvert but are also diagnosed with social anxiety im pretty sure its just the social anxiety acting up not introversion. Just what I think it might not be true.
As a highly introverted aro 16 year old moving school is the hardest thing ever (it seems all the "popular" girls want to date me for my looks) What do i do please help?
I just have a hard time speaking first and that seems to be how it is I have to initiate a conversation first especially if I start a new job or something. If I don’t speak to them they don’t speak to me 😢
You know whats so hard isnt because im introvert its because someone else already think im introvert so they dont treat me like a normal human being instead they treat me special and always hype me up like a child, the second reason is because they already have friends group it is so hard to approach someone which is already got friends they dont need one because already have and they such picky
I'm feeling quite shy to even boldly interact with anyone even though I'm 22 years old adult. It's a shame being as an adult not talking correctly, but blabbering words to tell something. Is it true that today's generation youths are very bold and talkative, but I'm only a waste piece in between?
Comedy might be an answer. I saw a clip on TH-cam with Rhod Gilbert, a stand-up comedian where he shared his own personal story combined with an experiment with introverts trying stand-up. It blew my mind.
Useful information, but unfortunately i just don't meet people. That would require going *outside* and being around people. Plus i can't think of a single situation i would consider it socially acceptable to talk to people unless you're ordering something.
Can anyone be my friend. I am also an introvert where I run out of words to say infront of a person. I just want a friend who can understand me and not judge me or anything. I just hope I find the one true friend😔.
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What about how to get a gf
@@bonesmac6103 Is there even a way?
@@ill_like_comment_after_read_it who knows
Thankyou!
thank you so much for this video :)
I have no idea what to say. I can talk to ppl and then it’s awkward silence
You’ll find the right understanding person eventually
Try asking questions. Even if just to ask if they have any opinion about what you said.
@Kay it sucks .. it’s like a mental block
Same
Same, I have one potential friend, but I ghosted them for 2 months cause I don't know what to say to them, and now I feel super guilty and still haven't said anything partly cause of the guilt.
Notes if you want them
1. Quality over quantity
2. Know what you’re good at
3. Create more opportunities for yourself
4. Ask questions during conversations
5. Patience is key
6. Get into a routine
Have a nice day ;)
thank you 😊
i asked someone how to make friends and he said
“1. go outside
2. make friends
its easy”
@@Acat-ji2un honestly it isn’t . Sometimes you are scared of being neglected or humiliated that’s the worst feeling ever.
@@Acat-ji2un they're probably extroverted,that's why they think making friends is easy
There's also the part where you let people (especially extroverts) approach you.
Any other introverts feel like social outcasts at times? Sometimes I feel so outta place, and different than my colleagues. It sucks but deep down I know there’s nothing wrong with me, I’m just not like the majority of extroverts
Yes ! It really does sucks
The way I see it now is: Yes, I am different and that is okay. There may be fewer of us but we are still not alone. We are just harder to find.
Me too bro
Yeah. Like, when I talk to other students, I don’t know if they are using me, making fun of me, both of the answers or they are serious. I tend to think that they all hate me. So, I decided to hate them back
Yea I'm going thru this everyday and honestly sometimes no most of the time it hurts but I just don't talk and they also don't like to talk to me 😢
ive spent 7 years spending my life trying to get a friend. And after all that time. Ive finally got 7:)
Congratulations and lucky you!
Congratulations 🎈👏👍
Aww I'm happy for you! :)
Congrats 😊
big congrats on you finding new friends. hope many more to come
I just want to let anyone know who is struggling with this also, that you are not alone. I have been struggling with this for years and have been staying with a select few people because of it. I want to branch out and make more friends but I am just not good at talking to people. So please, know that you are not alone in this fight. And that I understand completely. I hope you have a wonderful day and please do not get discouraged💕
I agree with you completely.
Yes u are right.... especially introvert had these type of problems... otherwise extrovert don't even think they just talk and have fun with any friends... but introvert need someone whom they can connect ...
My college seniors : Broaden your relations and make friends as many as you can for the sake of your future
Me, an introvert : I guess I'll have no future then
As many as you can doesn't need to be more than one potential friend, worth getting to know.
Just a thought. Hang in there because finding a like-minded person can take time but if you slowly slowly let a potential friend get to know you there is always a chance.
You are not alone, just rare.
Same
This is the first video about this topic that doesn’t make me cry! Thank you
I didn’t ask for this but I needed it thank you 🙏🏾
Growing very introvert lately. Feels very lonely most of the time. Nobody to talk to. I Will be happy to make good friends even online.
I found this channel now i can understand more about introverts. I have this very introverted friend i got to know just recently. He was quiet, too quiet like he didnt talked at all. But as time goes by he started to open up more and i think thats so adorable and makes me want to make them comfortable around me more. I just cant explain the joy when ur introvert friend initiate the conversation just to talk to u about sumthing they find funny or find interesting. When this happens, i never knew i can be a listener so fast.
These are all things i try to do but trying to get more opportunities is really tough for me as someone who has to use a wheelchair and lives in a place that’s not very accessible. With school being online for almost two years i have had an even tougher time talking to people. I’m going to try all these tips and try to build relationships with more people.
Be strong and cheer up and you will meet nice friends and you are strong I hope you are always well 💕
Remember not to be too hard on yourself when you try talking to people. I say this because that is a problem I am struggling with myself but just try because you will see that there are nice people out there too.
thank you! i really needed this! 💗
Shared! Loved it as an introvert myself
You can get cured by Doctor Oseiwe on TH-cam with his herbal medicine,🌿🌿🌿 to cure Alzheimer and some other disease permanently 🌿🌿"
Thank you so much you don’t know how much I need this
so glad this video was helpful. i found it helpful as well
I have spent 4 years trying to get a friend and this is the fifth year
0:28 And we already start with a great reference to Evangenlion! :V
Now I'm more hyped for the rest of the video!
You can get cured by Doctor Oseiwe on TH-cam with his herbal medicine,🌿🌿🌿 to cure Alzheimer and some other disease permanently 🌿🌿"
The problem I have is that I ask to many questions to where it’s like a interigation because the other person doesn’t want to carry the conversation and just says short answers after bringing up topics
This literally happened two days ago, when I was trying to make a friend.😭 I’m now trying to see how I can talk with them, without it being awkward for both of us, because I know she has good intentions, but it makes me overthink like crazy😭😭
If only it was as easy as she makes it sound. I hate meeting new people because i dont know them and its painful for me to make myself known. 😢
STORY TIME
When i was really young i was extremely extroverted i had friends but after some time everyone left me without saying goodbye, even now when i meet them they ignore me that's when I was thinking if im an introvert or not,even now i "made'' some friends but it didn't last long so i have trust issues-, even when i socialize i always think that's not myself-i feel uncomfortable while socializing
your voice is so pleasing i instantly liked it! im super extroverted and wanna get to know introverts better because you all are very nice to have around aswell.
I love this channel ❤️
ahhhh thank youu!! 💕
Always helping me out
Thanks
Thanks for the tips. I need to try all of these.
You can get cured by Doctor Oseiwe on TH-cam with his herbal medicine,🌿🌿🌿 to cure Alzheimer and some other disease permanently 🌿🌿"
So basically... no friends...?
I can't just be like "hey wanna be friends"
"Wanna hang out"
I tried making a step before to make a friend
*it didn't work*
I do try to talk to people. Its hard but I can fo it, the thing is that it never does me good. The other person replies a bit and we might talk a bit but then it's all over and all my fantasies of making a best friend are shattered. It always hurts to see two people laughing and joking and having a nice time, bcz I have always coveted that feeling. That feeling to having someone you can talk to about anything and laugh without feeling insecure. But I believe there is someone written in my fate too, one day I'll have a friend and everything will be beautiful.
Oh my goodness thank you...I forgotten how to make new friends and call me rusty because I am bad at deep conversation...
Me too
This helps soo much!!
Thanks, this video is helpful
And your voice is so nice
Every week day is a mental torture to me. I don't have any friends at school. I am just always alone, quiet, pathetic and miserable. I don't fit in to any group. The worst part of my day is the recess at school. That is the time I feel most lonely. One day I was feeling uncomfortable just sitting all by myself in the noisy bustling classroom during recess so I went out in search of a person that I know to be with him. I walked with heavy steps and I saw him with his friend group. Then I approached near him and tried to be with them but he completely ignored. Then they walked and I followed them because I didn't want to be alone. I also didn't speak anything because they were all talking loudly. Then they went to another room. I didn't want to go there because it was too much crowded. Then I walked away from them shamefully. It was really hurtful. Then I went into my classroom and sat alone with my head lied on my bag just closing my eyes hoping this will end soon. It was just 30 minutes but it seemed like a lifetime to me. I have always been this way and that is why I hate to go to school. I don't want many friends. I don't even want to be in any group. All I want is one true friend just one. But everytime try to make friends I talk for a while and then they never talk back to me again. They never pay any attention to me. So none of my friendships last more than a day. I hope this does not happen to anyone.
This is exactly the same thing that happens to me all the time 😔
@RKKorou4747 Exactly 💯
This is exactly what I usually experience at school, too 😭😭😭😭
I still don't have any friends 😭😭😭😭😭
I am always on my own, even at home too 😭😭
not related but your voice is so relaxing
not able to watch the video yet but if this isnt click bait it'll solve like all my life problems. is there an actual formula for making friends this introvert wants to know
I've got Renee and Chione. They're all I need.
Thank you my fellow introvert for the video ☺️
I used to have a best friend. I am still “friends” with her but not she has a new best friend, she kinda insults me and leaves me when she sees her other friends. My other friend left me. It’s really hard making friends when the 2 people who understood you left you after you invested every day with them.
You're not alone in this♥️
This is much needed for me 😅
age ??
@@krishna3109 me? 18
but how do I approach someone to start a conversation with?
hii
I don't even have one frd in my clg 😕 and I want to change my speaking attitude too as I always lower my voice while talking to strangers and new ones except my family
Same...I don't know why my voice goes lower when I talk to people whom I don't know that much. Like it automatically goes down.And the friends part is also relatable like my friends are from highschool and none of them are here.It has been 4-5 months college started still I don't have friends while others have alot of friends. It's fine bcz I don't feel lonely but sometimes I have to sit alone while others are talking and it's so awkward.
Sorry for my rant I just need it to let go.
This was nice
typing "how to make friends as introvert" into the search bar felt so fuxing weirrd
Finnaly!
What do you think???? :D It took awhile for us to make this video.
@@introvertsunite5538 Just perfect. Chef's kiss.
Today was the first day in my new school. I saw this nice girl sitting by herself at lunch. I wanted to say hi but every time I tried I ended up walking away again, and then she went to her other friends
Watching this because I have recently discovered that my current group of friends is incredibly toxic, I need out of that situation, and I desperately could use some new decent and kind people in my life. The problem with this is... I am incredibly awkward, I have trust issues and find it extremely difficult to open myself up to anyone, and... at the risk of sounding like an arrogant ass...I find it very difficult to talk with people less intelligent that I am.
I'm not trying to say that I'm a super genius or anything, because God knows I am far from it, but it is physically painful to talk to stupid people.
1. Is important the friends I have I enjoy and I can handle being I have an extremely low social battery
Can you have both social anxiety and be an introvert??
I think no cuz if you think ur an introvert but are also diagnosed with social anxiety im pretty sure its just the social anxiety acting up not introversion. Just what I think it might not be true.
I been famouse when i was young but now they told me to be quiet and a lot so i become quiet and im scared to talk to ppl
Wonderful.
As a highly introverted aro 16 year old moving school is the hardest thing ever (it seems all the "popular" girls want to date me for my looks)
What do i do please help?
Thank you!
i think im an introvert i dont like new people or i dont like people literally something like that..
Thissss 😂😂😂😂
It's hurt when u are left alone 😔
I always want to start conversation but ended like interrogation. I don't know why 😢
I was a introvert in school most ppl just came up to me and wanted to be my friend and don’t know why
Thank you❤️
thanks, good video
I just have a hard time speaking first and that seems to be how it is I have to initiate a conversation first especially if I start a new job or something. If I don’t speak to them they don’t speak to me 😢
I just moved to a new state 2 months ago and started my senior year of high school 3 weeks ago and I haven’t made a single friend 😅
X:what are capacity?
Me:nothing
A jedi's patience can only go so far
You know whats so hard isnt because im introvert its because someone else already think im introvert so they dont treat me like a normal human being instead they treat me special and always hype me up like a child, the second reason is because they already have friends group it is so hard to approach someone which is already got friends they dont need one because already have and they such picky
What if it’s an introvert talking to an introvert????
Then one of you has to say something 😂
Me personally if it gets too awkward I will talk
@@XForm98 I’m stuggling trying to talk to an introvert right now and i really don’t know what to say😭😭😭
@@cheese4397 Try thinking about what you would have wanted the other person to say to you because that is probably what they would like you to say.
hii
Bruh, this is a very good psych2go secondary channel but, i would enjoy it more if the animation was like the main channel
Never know that psy2go has an alternate channel for introverts
Does this apply to ambiverts too?
but how do i make friends with someone who's also a good listener?
Its cause I know what to say, and I try to say it, but the sound doesnt leave my mouth, even if my mouth is opened :(
I'm feeling quite shy to even boldly interact with anyone even though I'm 22 years old adult. It's a shame being as an adult not talking correctly, but blabbering words to tell something. Is it true that today's generation youths are very bold and talkative, but I'm only a waste piece in between?
Videos eerily always on time.. I'm watching y'all 👀
lol get it? Bc I'm a subscriber..
Great, but how do you make friends as an introvert with aspergers?
Comedy might be an answer. I saw a clip on TH-cam with Rhod Gilbert, a stand-up comedian where he shared his own personal story combined with an experiment with introverts trying stand-up. It blew my mind.
Out of topic but
you can try reading "Guide to Raising the Sick Villain" on novelupdates if you have time. It's kinda related to AS
Useful information, but unfortunately i just don't meet people. That would require going *outside* and being around people. Plus i can't think of a single situation i would consider it socially acceptable to talk to people unless you're ordering something.
Practice in places like this. Here you are among similar people.
Can anyone be my friend. I am also an introvert where I run out of words to say infront of a person. I just want a friend who can understand me and not judge me or anything. I just hope I find the one true friend😔.
I will become a better listener 😊
How did you learn such a spell?
Thanks
Why am I watching this at 2:40 in the morning I have school tomorrow
Sometimes i want to be alone not left alone :(
Is it another channel of phsyc2go? 🙂
Suggested: Five Ways Introverts are the Same as Cats. *slams desk* I'M NO LONGER AN INTROVERT.
Wow I’m here early
Thanks for tuning in early!
Very nice ✿✿✿ 🌹🌻🥀
hii
I have one friend :( thats why im watching
@Gaurav Roy what…..
@Gaurav Roy got roblox cause we can be friends there
Anyone wanna be my friend?
Yeah! Hey :D how are you?
@@privatewojtek895 Hello! I'm great how are you?
I wouldn't mind really looking for a friend being introverted is rough
@@AkaiCreates Yeah it is
@@AkaiCreates Aki, your art is really cool :D
How the f do I talk
FIRST!
Thanks for tuning in early!
@@introvertsunite5538 yay
Naw too scared
You are not alone. There is more people like us than I used to think.
Anyone in the comments want to be friends?
hii ,17
No thanks. Am an introvert and I don't want to make friends. Bye
Then why are you here
This doesn’t help me at all. With that said thanks
Thanks. 🩷. These points are important to acknowledge and to know.