Such a sad story. Being born a girl with controlling parents, life is a misery. If I were her, I wouldn't get married period. If my dad threaten to take his life if I don't get marry, I would tell him I'll join him. What's the point of being force to be with someone you don't love. Such horrible parents. Hugs to this gma. ♥️
What a Sad Story Hopefully in the Next Life You Born into a good Parent and a Lovely Parent and your Parents let you find and Choose Your own Happiness...
This story makes me sad. I want to love her. My mom passed away a long time ago and I haven’t love her enough. May or the girl that takes care of her - Where is this lady? I’m in MN and would love to see/visit her.
Tus me niam tais aw cas koj lub neej es yuav txaus hlub ua luaj li os, yog lwm tiam muaj tiag li hais thov kom koj yug los tau niam tau txiv zoo kom koj tau lub neej zoo li siab xav thiab thov kom koj tau ib tug txiv hlub hlub koj muaj me tub me ntxais kom los puv tsev ua lub neej so siab hlo pauj rau tiam no mog.
Tais aw cas koj lub neej es yuav tu siab ua luaj li os kuv mloog mas niam los2 kua muag nrog koj. Koj thiab kuv wb ces niam muaj ib txoj tu siab ib yam os
Cas yuav nrog tus niam tais no tu siab tiag2 li os. Tsis tau tus yua hlub. Cov tau tus hlub los nim tsis txawj sib hlub. Tsuas niaj hnub hnov tej neej neeg txog tej txiv ua hluas tsis hlub lawv tus niam tsev mas tsis tsimnyog los ua neej ib zaug li. Nkim tag ib sim. Cov txawj2 sib hlub ces tsimnyog los ua neeg ib zaug tabsis cov niaj hnub ua rog vim tus niam tsev laus tsis zoo nkauj li qub lawm mas tsis tsimnyog sib tau li
Koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd mas ntxim ntxub tiag tiag li lauj hmoob dab tsi es yuav tsim txom tej me ntxhais luaj li os lawv aws phem kawg nkaus li os lawv aws
Tus mi niam tais aw nrog koj tu siab tshaj li os.yog paub koj ces ntshe kuv yuav hlub koj ua koj tus mi ntxhais hlub koj thiab os mog es nim tu2 siab tsis tau lub neej yus xav tau los tseem tsis muaj minyuam los nro luag txib los hlub yus rau yav laus es nrog koj tu siab kawg li os tabsis ua siab loj mog es hnub twg tag yus ces kawg mam mus nrhiav dua lub neej tshiab nriav niam nrhiav txiv tshiab xwb os mog.
Cas koj Tsis hais kom koj Niam koj txiv txhob sib Yuav thiab na, koj Txiv thiab koj Niam twb tsis pub koj Yuav koj tus koj nyiam es koj Twb tsis tuag es Cas koj tsis Yuav tus yawg ntsuag es koj txiv ho Yuav tuag , koj Niam koj txiv yuav plhis nrog koj Nyob mus tas ib Sim neej los Cas na, koj Nyob expired qhov muaj mi nyuam lawm os pab tsis Tau koj lawm os pab koj tu Siab xwb kom nkawv txhob tuag es cia nkawv nrog koj Nyob es txhob tuag ma😭
Tau tus yus hlub es g hlub yus los tu siab 1 zaug g tau tus yus hlub los ho haj yam txawj tu siav thaib poor grama life always sad no matter how many life in this sin world
Me niam tais aws koj lub neej ca yuav tu siab ua luaj os yog muaj lwm tiam tiag mam thov ntawv los yug dua os mog mam nqa kom tau tus neeg koj hlub lub npe los ua neej rau lwm tiam os mog
It’s sad that the parents did this to her but she should have left with him when he came back for her at the farm. I would have taken the risk if I loved him that much. Some parents raise their children into having such low self esteem. If only she had parents who encouraged her to have confidence she might have been happier.
What is the point of her mom preventing her from marrying her boyfriends in the first place....and then later on worried why she's not married and getting old? I absolutely don't understand this kind of mentality.
Any parents like the parents in this story have high expectation for choosing a spouse for their daughters. They probably want a son-in-law(s), who are rich and have good reputation or fame from the family background and himself. In the past, parents are very judgemental that they will hate any men that they don't consider a good options for their daughters. The parents in the past want a prince charming (rich) and don't want an orphan (poor). Her parents hoped to have the best husband for her, but she got the worst type of husband (a man with multiple wives). In this story, the parents even admit that they want a good husband for her so that is why they forbid her from marrying anyone. All three of her ex-boyfriends are either poor or have bad reputation from their family background. I think her parents also want her to help the chores around the house and the farm.They value their opinions and desires more than her happiness. They don't care if she don't have the one she loves. They only care that they give birth to her, so they still want her around the house and want her to listen to their orders. When she is in old age, her parents finally tell her to go get marry because her parents only care about their face and reputation. They still don't care about her happiness. If her parents have realized that she may have trauma and already depressed (not petty), they should have give her more confidence and happiness. She wants to live in freedom, but they didn't allow her to do even that too. Instead, her parents even force her to go get marry anyone who was even worst than her previous boyfriends. The widower (lucky, she escape) and the soldier husband, who may not be poor, but he already have a two wives already (one dead). This part makes me even more mad. Why would you even go that far though? From my own opinion, she don't deserve to be born as their daughter. Her parents are very selfish and don't love her at all. If I was her, I would regret to be born as their daughter in that lifetime. No wonder, she told her dad to not to be reborn as her son. She even says that she rather died as a motherless mother (no children) and she will go reborn as a new person. This proves that she resent and sad toward her parents until death and the next lifetime because she indirectly stated that she wants nothing to do with them (her current parents).
1 word: Money. Back then and even today, especially those still in Laos, are bonkers over money. They want their daughters to marry rich men, especially if the daughters are good looking so the parents want her to snag a rich husband... even if the husband is already married. Even today, hmong lao parents encourage, sometime force their teenage daughters to marry 65 yo hmong americans. Have you seen videos of the daughter at her boyfriend's house about to get marry and her mother comes and drags her back home saying if her boyfriend has $5,000 to pay off the hmong american then he can have her? I saw at least 2.
What a sad story for you grandma. Blamed everything to your pare is! Seem like you're the only person in the family that they wanna destroyed the love. I feel sad for you. May god bless you and let you have your love life next generation.
Marry someone whom you love. Do not marry someone who is rich; you might become his doormat. What is his is not yours. Leej niam uas tsim nws tus ntxhais no yog ib tus devil uas kuv ntxhub tshaj.
Cas yuav pab hlub koj ua luag li os tus niam Tais aws. 😢😢 Shame on your parents for doing that to you. 😠😠 yet you still loved and respected them, they don’t deserve you be so loyal to them anymore.
I'm still listening to the story but something I like to say to all the parents. "DON'T TRY TO STOP YOUR KID'S LOVE RELATIONSHIP." It will make them fight to have each other more. Just allow them to date and once they are tired of each other, they will let go of each other. Your kid's won't blame u for ruining their love relationship. Or they won't have the, "I still yearn for this person..."
Nws niam tias tsis yuav txiv los tsis tuag no ne, ua cas nws niam twb tuag txiv es nws thiaj yuav txiv ne? Ua cas niam tais ho cheem nws kom txhob yuav txiv no. Lame parents. Txom nyem thiab tsis txom los, tsuav tus hluas nraug hlub yus xwb mas. Niam tais aws nrog koj tu siab kawg li os.
Cas koj niam nim ua cuag li koj niam tsis txhawj yuav txiv os thaum i koj niam mas nim ua zaj ua ntxeev nrhiav kev mu cuag koj txiv txhua txoj kev txhua lub qab roob qab ha koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv twb mu pw txhua thiab ne cas koj niam nim ua li ko rau koj thaum i koj niam twb txhawj caum koj txiv thiab ne koj niam mas caum caum koj txiv txhua lub qab roob qab ha khau hle tag li os koj niam twb paub caum txiv thiab ne niam niam nkawv siab phem lim hiam tshaj nplaws li os viv ncaws aw....
Let this grandma knows that I am Happy to move her in and take care of her as my tais or mom if she let and will love her unconditionally until the day she go..
Thaub laus ntawd kav tsij tuag mus yog nws ntxov tuag cais koj lub lub neen twb zoo os . Cas yuav hlub kon ua luaj ! Os mi ntxhais aw nyem no koj twb laus lawm tab zis hlub puag thaum me yau los nawb thov kom koj tau zoo tuag nawb mog
Txaus tub siab dhau lawm os niam tais aw!....koj yug tsis muaj tub ntxhais los tsis txhob tu siab os mog......peb yus tau coob coob los twb tsis hlub peb li thiab ne.....
Thanks for guilt tripping your parents for their selfishness. I believe this guilt will eat them alive till death. The best revenge is to make the other person feel guilty for their mistake or jealous of your success. Wish you well Grandma!
Tai aw koj yug tsi muaj zoo dua cov yug muaj haj yam tu siab.mog koj mas xam tias yug tsi muaj thiaj tau nyob tsev laus hos cov twb yug muaj los tseem tau nyob tsev laus thiab mog es txob tu siab tag2 thiab os vaj tswv hlub koj
Cas tu siab ua luaj na me niam tais aw!!! ua ib siab mus thov dua ntawv los lwm tiam kom muaj zoo lub neej ua os me niam tais qhov koj tsis muaj me nyuam los vim koj tsis muaj kev hlub nrog koj tus txiv es koj thiaj tsis muaj xwb kuv hais li no vim kuv zoo li ntawv kuv thawj tus txiv kuv yuav ua2 hluas kuv tsis muaj kev hlub kuv twb tsis muaj me nyuam kuv yuav tus tom qab no mam muaj xwb
Tu siab kawg li os kuv tau ua li zaj neej neeg no rau kuv tus me tub vim yog thaum ntawv kuv xav tias yuav cia nws kawm kom siab thiaj tau lub neej zoo txog thaum kawg nw plam tus nws nyiam2 lawm nws cia li tsis xav ua neeg zoo poj niam los tsis kam yuav nws twb muaj 30 xyoo lawm twb tsis muaj neej li kuv tu siab tshaj vim kuv xwb.
Tus me niam tsev ces koj yog tud swb lawm, kuv yog koj mas koj txiv yuav tuag vim nws swb koj rau qhov niam txiv txwv tub ntxhais txojkev hlub cia ua ib zaj keeb kwm qhia rau ntiajteb ua kev kawm.
I understand how miserable she must have been not being able to be with the one she loves and chooses but as a parent, I’m sure her parents were trying to do what’s right for her at such a young age. SHE chose this path of not moving forward and allowing herself to love again. SHE held this grudge upon herself to go through this. Something us children don’t understand from our parents is that they knew what was best for us to be begin with. They wanted someone better for her cause in their eyes the expectations of those men were not worthy enough to provide their child with the love that they deserved. It saddens me that she blames her parents and so does everyone else. She brought this upon herself. 😔
@@hootzvangmix2920 No I’m not delusional. Was her parents being at wrong for not allowing her to settle with whomever she chose? Yes, I can agree to that because we as parents shouldn’t come in between our children’s relationship and allow them to experience them on their own. BUT, SHE chose not to move forward and allowed herself to hold a grudge and not be happy. That was no ones fault but hers. She could have easily gone a different route and continued to fill her heart with happiness. As being said, at one point, the man she loved even asked her to get back with him. Did she do it? No. She continued to be stubborn and wouldn’t allow it. In the end where she was force to marry the man she did, was this wrong yess but she did it to herself again. She have sooo many times to fulfill her heart but she didn’t. You can sit there and respond to my comment and think I’m delusional but in the end, this all couldn’t have been prevented.
@@hootzvangmix2920 mind you, I never said the parents were right to begin with. All in all, I was seeing from her point of view. This all could have been prevented. God bless
Me tais, fab lwm tiam mus nrhia dua niam thiab txiv tshiab es txhob ntsib 2 tug qub lawm nawb mog.
I want to go give this niam tais a big hug and have lunch with her😢
Me too..
Same here. So sad 😭💔
Tsov tom tsej muag laus txaus ntxub tshaj plaw.
Such a sad story. Being born a girl with controlling parents, life is a misery. If I were her, I wouldn't get married period. If my dad threaten to take his life if I don't get marry, I would tell him I'll join him. What's the point of being force to be with someone you don't love. Such horrible parents. Hugs to this gma. ♥️
♥️
Same same. I’m petty as well.
Yes, I agree👍
Agreed too!!!
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Love you grandma aws 😢
Mloog koj zaj dab neeg pab hlub hlub koj o mi niam tai aws
Cas kuv tu siab ua luaj nrog koj os..mloog quaj mloog quaj li os cas nim ua ib sim neej los tsis tau txais txoj kev hlub..😭💔
Tu siab heev lub neej niam txiv tsi txawj xav
Aww where’s this grandma at? I can spend a day with her. Lol
I thought the same thing
Tais os cas kuv yuav pab hlub koj ua Lauj li os . Thov foom khoom hmoo rau koj Kom koj tsuas nyob kab Nyob zoo nawb ❤️❤️
What a Sad Story Hopefully in the Next Life You Born into a good Parent and a Lovely Parent and your Parents let you find and Choose Your own Happiness...
Or maybe born into this era and have 5 husband. 🤣
Niam Tais cas yuav pab tu siab tag ib tiam li os😭😭😭😭😭
Tu siab heev li os tus siab tiag tiag tiag li
ntxog koj tug siab heev yos muaj lwm tiam ceg txhob log nxhiav koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv lawm thia txi tsaug txiav og hlub koj kawg
I don't have a mom anymore.. where is this lady at.. I can be your daughter.
Same here. I will be her daughter. I loss my mom in my early childhood. I always want a mom. I will love her to fulfill what she missing out.
This story makes me sad. I want to love her. My mom passed away a long time ago and I haven’t love her enough. May or the girl that takes care of her - Where is this lady? I’m in MN and would love to see/visit her.
Forreals
Hmoob txoj kev ntshaw2 nyiaj ces yeej zoo li nov
Tus me niam tais aw cas koj lub neej es yuav txaus hlub ua luaj li os, yog lwm tiam muaj tiag li hais thov kom koj yug los tau niam tau txiv zoo kom koj tau lub neej zoo li siab xav thiab thov kom koj tau ib tug txiv hlub hlub koj muaj me tub me ntxais kom los puv tsev ua lub neej so siab hlo pauj rau tiam no mog.
Pab koj tu Siab kawg uas Tsis tau tus koj hlub. Tsis tau tus yus hlub ces yeej txaus tu siab heev. Kom Lwmtiam koj tau tus koj hlub mog!
Kv lub neej tu siab kawg kv xav kom kv txhob yug muaj kv tuag zoo siab qi muag
Tais aw cas koj lub neej es yuav tu siab ua luaj li os kuv mloog mas niam los2 kua muag nrog koj. Koj thiab kuv wb ces niam muaj ib txoj tu siab ib yam os
Tu siab tiag2 li os me niam tais aw, tau niam txiv phem txwv kev xaiv txij nkawm ces yeej yog li no mas mog😭😭😭
😭😭😭 ca kho siab ua luaj o mloog ce lo lo kua muag heev o 😭😭
Nice story hope is true and not fabricated to make it interesting...
Wow txaus tu siab ua luaj.......kuamuag los kawg li
txaus tu siab ua luaj li os
Niam tais txhob tu siab os tej zaum yeej yog koj txoj hmoo lawm thiab es koj niam koj txiv thiaj yuav txwv koj tas npaum. Txhob mus nrhiav koj niam koj txiv lawm, mus nrhiav niam txiv tshiab xwb mog.
So broken...tu siab tshaj plaws
Cas yuav nrog tus niam tais no tu siab tiag2 li os. Tsis tau tus yua hlub. Cov tau tus hlub los nim tsis txawj sib hlub. Tsuas niaj hnub hnov tej neej neeg txog tej txiv ua hluas tsis hlub lawv tus niam tsev mas tsis tsimnyog los ua neej ib zaug li. Nkim tag ib sim. Cov txawj2 sib hlub ces tsimnyog los ua neeg ib zaug tabsis cov niaj hnub ua rog vim tus niam tsev laus tsis zoo nkauj li qub lawm mas tsis tsimnyog sib tau li
Koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd mas ntxim ntxub tiag tiag li lauj hmoob dab tsi es yuav tsim txom tej me ntxhais luaj li os lawv aws phem kawg nkaus li os lawv aws
Nrog hlub tus Niam tais no kawg.. 😥
Hlub koj kawg os tus me niam tsev
Txhob tu siab lwm tiam mam thov ntawv zoo log ua nees dua yug tsis muaj log tu siab yug muaj log tu siab os tus niam taig aw
Tus mi niam tais aw nrog koj tu siab tshaj li os.yog paub koj ces ntshe kuv yuav hlub koj ua koj tus mi ntxhais hlub koj thiab os mog es nim tu2 siab tsis tau lub neej yus xav tau los tseem tsis muaj minyuam los nro luag txib los hlub yus rau yav laus es nrog koj tu siab kawg li os tabsis ua siab loj mog es hnub twg tag yus ces kawg mam mus nrhiav dua lub neej tshiab nriav niam nrhiav txiv tshiab xwb os mog.
Oh my gosh. My heart is hurting so bad with this sister. I'll come visit you, sister. I'm so sorry for what you had to go through.
Ttt
Tu siab ua na.
nrog koj tu siab os tu niam tai aw hlub koj ua luaj os
Wow..tsaus tu siab tshaj plaws li o lawv awm...cas es niam txiv yuav phem ua luaj li.
Ntuj aw ca yuav nrog kj tu siab tag ib sim neej li os tu me niam tai aw
Cas niam hai tau phim2 kuv kawg li os lwm hnub kuv mam muqb kuv zaj rau koj oab hai thiab os kuv zaj ma haj yam tu siab tshaj plaws kiag
Txhob tu siab tas2 os mog. Ib txhia cov muaj2 me tub me ntxhais los lawv twb tsis txawj hlub lawv niam lawv txiv thiab os.
Ua cav yuav hai tau tu siab ua luaj li os😭😭😭😭
Tu siab ua luaj 😭😭
Cas koj Tsis hais kom koj Niam koj txiv txhob sib Yuav thiab na, koj Txiv thiab koj Niam twb tsis pub koj Yuav koj tus koj nyiam es koj Twb tsis tuag es Cas koj tsis Yuav tus yawg ntsuag es koj txiv ho Yuav tuag , koj Niam koj txiv yuav plhis nrog koj Nyob mus tas ib Sim neej los Cas na, koj Nyob expired qhov muaj mi nyuam lawm os pab tsis Tau koj lawm os pab koj tu Siab xwb kom nkawv txhob tuag es cia nkawv nrog koj Nyob es txhob tuag ma😭
😢 tu siab dhau lawm os
Kv zoo li kj thb o tu siab hv o
Cag kj lub neej tu siab ua luaj os
Ntuj niam tais aw koj zaj neej neeg mas tus siab tiag2 li koj niam koj txiv mas siab phem tshaj plaws
pab koj tu siab os niam laus aw lawm tiam mam sab dua os mog
Tau tus yus hlub es g hlub yus los tu siab 1 zaug g tau tus yus hlub los ho haj yam txawj tu siav thaib poor grama life always sad no matter how many life in this sin world
hais tau tus siab ua luam lis os pab tus niam tsev no tus siab tshaij plaw li.
Me niam tais aws koj lub neej ca yuav tu siab ua luaj os yog muaj lwm tiam tiag mam thov ntawv los yug dua os mog mam nqa kom tau tus neeg koj hlub lub npe los ua neej rau lwm tiam os mog
It’s sad that the parents did this to her but she should have left with him when he came back for her at the farm. I would have taken the risk if I loved him that much. Some parents raise their children into having such low self esteem. If only she had parents who encouraged her to have confidence she might have been happier.
Tais, pab hlub hlub koj li. Koj tsis muaj ib tug me nyuam cia kuv mam ua koj ib tu ntxhais os.
What is the point of her mom preventing her from marrying her boyfriends in the first place....and then later on worried why she's not married and getting old? I absolutely don't understand this kind of mentality.
Any parents like the parents in this story have high expectation for choosing a spouse for their daughters. They probably want a son-in-law(s), who are rich and have good reputation or fame from the family background and himself. In the past, parents are very judgemental that they will hate any men that they don't consider a good options for their daughters. The parents in the past want a prince charming (rich) and don't want an orphan (poor).
Her parents hoped to have the best husband for her, but she got the worst type of husband (a man with multiple wives). In this story, the parents even admit that they want a good husband for her so that is why they forbid her from marrying anyone. All three of her ex-boyfriends are either poor or have bad reputation from their family background.
I think her parents also want her to help the chores around the house and the farm.They value their opinions and desires more than her happiness. They don't care if she don't have the one she loves. They only care that they give birth to her, so they still want her around the house and want her to listen to their orders.
When she is in old age, her parents finally tell her to go get marry because her parents only care about their face and reputation. They still don't care about her happiness. If her parents have realized that she may have trauma and already depressed (not petty), they should have give her more confidence and happiness. She wants to live in freedom, but they didn't allow her to do even that too. Instead, her parents even force her to go get marry anyone who was even worst than her previous boyfriends. The widower (lucky, she escape) and the soldier husband, who may not be poor, but he already have a two wives already (one dead). This part makes me even more mad. Why would you even go that far though?
From my own opinion, she don't deserve to be born as their daughter. Her parents are very selfish and don't love her at all. If I was her, I would regret to be born as their daughter in that lifetime. No wonder, she told her dad to not to be reborn as her son. She even says that she rather died as a motherless mother (no children) and she will go reborn as a new person. This proves that she resent and sad toward her parents until death and the next lifetime because she indirectly stated that she wants nothing to do with them (her current parents).
1 word: Money. Back then and even today, especially those still in Laos, are bonkers over money. They want their daughters to marry rich men, especially if the daughters are good looking so the parents want her to snag a rich husband... even if the husband is already married. Even today, hmong lao parents encourage, sometime force their teenage daughters to marry 65 yo hmong americans. Have you seen videos of the daughter at her boyfriend's house about to get marry and her mother comes and drags her back home saying if her boyfriend has $5,000 to pay off the hmong american then he can have her? I saw at least 2.
That’s pretty much how most hmoob parents then have girls for, a slave then sell her for for high price.
Wow she definitely did what her mom wanted, but it's so sad. I pray for u sis.
Txhob tu siab rau koj txoj kev npwb vim koj npwb dhau lawm. Thiab koj niam Thiab koj txiv yuav tseg koj ua nkawv tus niam yau.
Tseem yuav mus caum 2 tug btsej muag DEV LAUS ua dab tsi nto phiv txiav pos tsuab 2 tug DEV LAUS kom txhob ntib lawm hos
I'm so glad that my parents are good and supportive and I married to my husband with no regrets.
What a sad story for you grandma. Blamed everything to your pare is! Seem like you're the only person in the family that they wanna destroyed the love. I feel sad for you. May god bless you and let you have your love life next generation.
What a sad story. Pab hlub koj kawg li os.
Omg what sad story. 😢😢
When I listen to stories of having no kids makes me very sad. 😞 😢
Sister don't be sad i have problem no pregnancy to but I try other sister medicines help me pregnant too.
@@nyajpham9890 that's good for u sis..im too old, will be 42 this year n I just had 2 strokes last year. Tag kev cia siab lawm os.
@@nkaujhmoobvwj txhob tu siab os sister aw hlub koj thiab os
@@nyajpham9890 ua tsaug os
Nrog tus niam tais nos tu siab ua luaj li.
Marry someone whom you love. Do not marry someone who is rich; you might become his doormat. What is his is not yours. Leej niam uas tsim nws tus ntxhais no yog ib tus devil uas kuv ntxhub tshaj.
🥺😢😢😢😭😭
Cas yuav pab hlub koj ua luag li os tus niam Tais aws. 😢😢
Shame on your parents for doing that to you. 😠😠 yet you still loved and respected them, they don’t deserve you be so loyal to them anymore.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Ua cas yuav pab tus me niam tais no tu siab ua luaj li os
I'm still listening to the story but something I like to say to all the parents. "DON'T TRY TO STOP YOUR KID'S LOVE RELATIONSHIP." It will make them fight to have each other more. Just allow them to date and once they are tired of each other, they will let go of each other. Your kid's won't blame u for ruining their love relationship. Or they won't have the, "I still yearn for this person..."
Do you realize the year this occurred? I get we can't fix stupid. To most of the people commenting in here?
@@hmongtalk1175 sadly, it still happens to some. You cannot fix stupid but we can all learn along the way.
Tu saib tau ntim hlub ua luaj.
Nws niam tias tsis yuav txiv los tsis tuag no ne, ua cas nws niam twb tuag txiv es nws thiaj yuav txiv ne? Ua cas niam tais ho cheem nws kom txhob yuav txiv no. Lame parents. Txom nyem thiab tsis txom los, tsuav tus hluas nraug hlub yus xwb mas. Niam tais aws nrog koj tu siab kawg li os.
😥 SO SORRY! MY HEART ache 💔for Grama.
Es cas zaj no nim tu tu kuv lub siab ua luaj😢😢😢😢😢 es kuv nim quaj quaj ua luaj ne..
My heart💔💔💔💔💔 with you os😭😭😭😭
Cas koj niam nim ua cuag li koj niam tsis txhawj yuav txiv os thaum i koj niam mas nim ua zaj ua ntxeev nrhiav kev mu cuag koj txiv txhua txoj kev txhua lub qab roob qab ha koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv twb mu pw txhua thiab ne cas koj niam nim ua li ko rau koj thaum i koj niam twb txhawj caum koj txiv thiab ne koj niam mas caum caum koj txiv txhua lub qab roob qab ha khau hle tag li os koj niam twb paub caum txiv thiab ne niam niam nkawv siab phem lim hiam tshaj nplaws li os viv ncaws aw....
This love story is so sad I cry with you sweet grandma 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Vuag koj mad muaj txoj hmoov zoo tiag
Let this grandma knows that I am
Happy to move her in and take care of her as my tais or mom if she let and will love her unconditionally until the day she go..
Thaub laus ntawd kav tsij tuag mus yog nws ntxov tuag cais koj lub lub neen twb zoo os . Cas yuav hlub kon ua luaj ! Os mi ntxhais aw nyem no koj twb laus lawm tab zis hlub puag thaum me yau los nawb thov kom koj tau zoo tuag nawb mog
May aw neb ib niam txiv mas sib phim tshaj li os nrog neb zoo siab heev li os
Txaus tub siab dhau lawm os niam tais aw!....koj yug tsis muaj tub ntxhais los tsis txhob tu siab os mog......peb yus tau coob coob los twb tsis hlub peb li thiab ne.....
Neb yoo nkauj yoo nrau heev
Vim qhov vim 💔
ca zaj noua rau tu siab ua luaj
Cas yuav pab koj tu siab tag ib sim neej os tus niam tais aw...
Tsis tas mus nrhiav koj niam koj txi li, mus rau ntuj Ceeb Tsheej mus nrhiav niam txiv tshiab es mam mus nrhiav tus neeg koj hlub xwb
Thanks for guilt tripping your parents for their selfishness. I believe this guilt will eat them alive till death. The best revenge is to make the other person feel guilty for their mistake or jealous of your success. Wish you well Grandma!
Laj mloog cov niag niam txim hmoob siab phem quav dev li no tsis mloog lawm os...!
Hais tau leej neeg zoo heev li os p ywg
Hu kuv niam tai aw
Tai aw koj yug tsi muaj zoo dua cov yug muaj haj yam tu siab.mog koj mas xam tias yug tsi muaj thiaj tau nyob tsev laus hos cov twb yug muaj los tseem tau nyob tsev laus thiab mog es txob tu siab tag2 thiab os vaj tswv hlub koj
Nrog koj tus siab os tus mes niam laus aw! So sad 😞 🥺 and so very angry 😡, too!
Cas tu siab ua luaj na me niam tais aw!!! ua ib siab mus thov dua ntawv los lwm tiam kom muaj zoo lub neej ua os me niam tais qhov koj tsis muaj me nyuam los vim koj tsis muaj kev hlub nrog koj tus txiv es koj thiaj tsis muaj xwb kuv hais li no vim kuv zoo li ntawv kuv thawj tus txiv kuv yuav ua2 hluas kuv tsis muaj kev hlub kuv twb tsis muaj me nyuam kuv yuav tus tom qab no mam muaj xwb
Tu siab kawg li os kuv tau ua li zaj neej neeg no rau kuv tus me tub vim yog thaum ntawv kuv xav tias yuav cia nws kawm kom siab thiaj tau lub neej zoo txog thaum kawg nw plam tus nws nyiam2 lawm nws cia li tsis xav ua neeg zoo poj niam los tsis kam yuav nws twb muaj 30 xyoo lawm twb tsis muaj neej li kuv tu siab tshaj vim kuv xwb.
Puas yog os, nrog koj tu siab nawb.
I want to go see and talk to this niam tais and listen to her sad life story 😭
Why would you do that to yourself?! Cas yuav nkim Tag ib tiam neej
Tsis tsim nyog los ua ib sim niam thiab ntxhais. Cov niam phem li no nco ntsoov tuag lwm tiam Tsis txob los ua nws ntxhais ntxiv lawm...
Tu saib kawg li os tus niam tais aw. Kuv nyob ze koj ces kuv twb tuaj saib koj lawm os.
Tus me niam tsev ces koj yog tud swb lawm, kuv yog koj mas koj txiv yuav tuag vim nws swb koj rau qhov niam txiv txwv tub ntxhais txojkev hlub cia ua ib zaj keeb kwm qhia rau ntiajteb ua kev kawm.
So sad
I understand how miserable she must have been not being able to be with the one she loves and chooses but as a parent, I’m sure her parents were trying to do what’s right for her at such a young age. SHE chose this path of not moving forward and allowing herself to love again. SHE held this grudge upon herself to go through this. Something us children don’t understand from our parents is that they knew what was best for us to be begin with. They wanted someone better for her cause in their eyes the expectations of those men were not worthy enough to provide their child with the love that they deserved. It saddens me that she blames her parents and so does everyone else. She brought this upon herself. 😔
You're delusional! You don't get do you?
@@hootzvangmix2920 No I’m not delusional. Was her parents being at wrong for not allowing her to settle with whomever she chose? Yes, I can agree to that because we as parents shouldn’t come in between our children’s relationship and allow them to experience them on their own. BUT, SHE chose not to move forward and allowed herself to hold a grudge and not be happy. That was no ones fault but hers. She could have easily gone a different route and continued to fill her heart with happiness. As being said, at one point, the man she loved even asked her to get back with him. Did she do it? No. She continued to be stubborn and wouldn’t allow it. In the end where she was force to marry the man she did, was this wrong yess but she did it to herself again. She have sooo many times to fulfill her heart but she didn’t. You can sit there and respond to my comment and think I’m delusional but in the end, this all couldn’t have been prevented.
@@hootzvangmix2920 mind you, I never said the parents were right to begin with. All in all, I was seeing from her point of view. This all could have been prevented. God bless
Good day to you, may God bless you too.