Larissa Ashton my dad is entj and I’m entj. We love each other deeply , but my isfp mom don’t let us talk to each other. She gets scared if we fight lol
My aunt is an ENTJ. She is under 5 feet tall but she will own you! lol Super smart, perfectionistic, organized (notes everywhere yet clean), and sweet at her core. Her alpha nature at rest is super sweet in a suprising way to me. But once its business again watch out, sweetness is gone, put on your gloves lol. ENTJ's, you are great people!
I think it's a big misinterpretation when one thinks an ENTJ is "closeminded." We are not. We think very outside the box and are always accepting critisms; we're just super confident when we belive something is correct. Also, I'm love with INFJs lol They're my favorite type and the one I want to marry, but everyone always says how terrible it is xD I think it can be great if the ENTJ recognizes the INFJs feelings.
Well knowing how I was when I was younger dude I was very narrow minded as an ENTJ I did not overcome this until I started studying MBTI and started learning about the cognitive functions. The type of ENTJ this narrow mindedness applies to is the low functioning type.
I agree, but I think her point was to say that we can COME OFF as close minded, when in reality it's not that we are closed mined at all. The fact is that we've looked at all of the facts we could find and drew a firm conclusion and that is that. I know I will draw a firm conclusion, but I tend to change very quickly if new information arises that is important and applicable. I love INFJs, but they can have a really, really hard time understanding that our reaching conclusions is not us dismissing them.
Regardless of what she thinks of ENTJ's close mindedless. My question is, who is this person and what makes her an authority? OOPS, my ENTJ is showing. 😜
I find ENTJ-INFJ interactions to be productive, especially when both are calm. Both have Ni and Te or Fe, which proves to be a very insightful point of difference. But when there's a conflict, my goodness, does poop hit the fan.
I think that is a very accurate assessment! I wouldn't want to see an INFJ and ENTJ in an argument. I think we both can be a bit stubborn and Ni fixed. I think we also come from such different perspectives. Fe Vs. Te when applied to Ni.
This is so accurate! I'm an infj and my male partner is entj and we get along really well! We're both super productive and driven together! Definitely have had some arguments over the years which we have eventually worked through. Our arguments get pretty heated hahah!
My wife is an intj and with me being entj its deep and crazy, as long as we can hear each other things are good but if not it gets ugly nanosecond fast
If yall wanna see the INFJ and ENTJ dynamic at its most toxic just watch Prof X and Magneto. It’s beautiful heartbreaking and when they work together incredibly inspirational.
My fiancee is also an INFJ and your take on ENTJ's mirrors her's. I just want to share with my fellow ENTJ's that being vulnerable with people and vocalizing my acknowledgement of others transformed my life. Thanks for the video!
My ENTJ EX won't leave me alone! I am super direct with him about there being no chance of romance for us again in the future, yet he keeps trying to creatively problem solve us back into a relationship. This is not romantic to me, it's just disrespectful. This is part of the reason I don't want to be with him ever again.. BC he is so pushy and it comes off manipulative and emotionally insensitive. Written by a frustrated INFJ. Thanks for listening 🙏🏻
As an ENTJ: I think we are too efficient, to the point that even a tiny bit of feeling is seen as inefficiency, however we will cry like a baby girl about puppies and seniors…lol You are right, for ENTJ, it is a constant effort to battle with "inefficient" people around us, hoping at the same time grow our Fi. You seem Fe dominated, which will act like a mine around ENTJ, at some point , your feeling is gonna get hurt,lol sorry :P good video!
I have an ENTJ trainer in my gymnastics class. He's very charismatic, intense and inspiring. He was able to remain cool-headed when someone in our group broke their leg in the middle of a presentation, which was certainly a strength (like you said at 10:20 or so), as he prevented us from going over there, and got us to finish our show. I think in a time of crisis, the ENTJ will not be the one to console, but to fix the problem or adapt as well as he/she can.
The reason he was calm is because his first response is not feeling it's rational thinking. Especially because he's not really emotionally attached if it was his wife trust me he would have been less calm. It's the fact that the ENTJ is naturally detached because lack of connection with the people. This makes us look calmer then what we really are and I have to be honest we can be reactive it's just less likely due to weak connections and bonds with other's, rational thinking and the trouble shooting mentality that derives from Te. Te is always seeking out to fix something, we are pretty calm in tense situations also due to being in tense situations many times we learn to control ourselves but we can still lose our shit when something happens to someone we are really close to. It may not be expressed outwardly but deep down in we are panicking or loosing it, you would see this through pacing back and forth. Just keep in mind, the less attached he is the weaker the reaction and the stronger the trouble shooting thinking comes in. We cannot help but to want to fix things we come off the factory line programmed that way.
Stubborn? Rigid? Nah, most of us just believe in what is logical. :) If you can prove our beliefs or thoughts are incorrect though (with proof, of course hehe), we'll look into it and (most likely) change it. Most of us will thank you for it, too :) Also, we *do* have that "emotional noise" you mention in your video, but we just sort of... set it on a shelf... to look at... later. o3o;; Great video, thank you for sharing! :D
Be forewarned: the following can come across as highly arrogant and cold unless you are familiar with how blunt and direct ENTJs' minds can be. That said, I think that perhaps the most common emotion for ENTJs is frustration mixed with melancholy as we often deal with others that either can't see our "vision" or are unwilling to reciprocate support for our goals to the same degree that we would do for them. In those moments, we probably tend to think something like, "How can you possibly not see or consider things from a different perspective than your own; have you always been this narrow-minded?" Or, "I was willing to go to the ends of the Earth for you, but when it comes to my needs, you aren't even willing to cross this measly 'river?'" [Here it comes --] To us, a lot of people seem to either prove themselves cowards or ignorant imbeciles. This can be deeply disappointing because our very goals are designed to enrich the lives of those very people we once had such faith and high hopes for before they likely "got in our way." ...and yet we press on, even though the clashes and heartbreaks along the way bear their fangs upon our bleeding souls behind the scenes. Something that Intuitives, especially NFs, probably see, and others don't. However, I guess that's the weight we've got to carry, being ENTJs and all. It's the "cross" we've got to bear in exchange for our world-changing ways. Hopefully this adds some light to what ENTJs are like. Cheers.
The dominant Te in the Entj vs.auxilary Fe in the Infj is likely what makes things so difficult. Te rubs me the wrong way and perhaps Entjs don't value Fe very much.
@@hasgoodles7807 1) Do you know how _comments_ on TH-cam work? People initiate writing them...on their own...you know?... 2) You cared enough to respond
I'm an ENTJ and my younger brother is INFJ. We grew up together, being in same grade we were always together. In childhood we used to fight a lot but now we love each other extremely.
As an ENTJ, I have three things to say about this video. Melody, you are one of the most beautiful creatures I have every seen. Two, this video is spot on. As an extremely self-aware, successful, and powerful ENTJ, I can assure you this is accurate! Lastly, while the ENTJ may seem "arrogant", confident or overly confident are more accurate descriptors. The reason for this is because of our previous successes. As such, the older ENTJs (not me, but I see me going down this path as well as other ENTJs) are even more confident and sure of themselves, but they also (as the video suggested at the end) begin to ease on their expectations of the world as most cannot meet them. That's not a slight on other types as we ENTJs rely on others to help us. I'm just being forward...you know...like and ENTJ! Lol Take care all!
It can be a curse to be an ENTJ, our indifference makes it difficult for us to mesh with others plus we have the low numbers so we are more likely to be lonely. We look well but on the inside we can be torn apart but we won't tell people because we lothe showing vulnerability. We are very private with our emotions, usually we are in a good mood or happy because we are problem solvers, not too many things are difficult for us to solve other then our own broken hidden feelings. Our deeper feelings are buried within our subconscious we supress it to operate. I think most ENTJs are unaware of this because allot of this happens on the subconscious level but it all caught up to me because I've dug deep in myself to see what was there and this is what I found.
As an ENTJ, i can tell you i am an empath, and it helps me asses people. I can sense a room. But i can also not give a fuck. Which helps with the empathy. I also read gestures and faces though, so that further boosts the ability to avoid getting overwhelmed by the feelings around me, if i can asses the room quickly. I have a really close INFJ friend, she helps me stay grounded and not get all focused on my goals. She reminds me that people are the reason why we're all here in the first place. Which takes a lot trust me! And that being an ENTJ is just a tool to help the world in some way.
This comment isn't meant to offend any entjs out there, but if you're really an empath like I mean entj doesn't have fe on their function stack and fi is last on their stack. It just doesn't makes sense for an entj to be an empath because literally their function stack is meant to be logical rather than emotional. No offense, I'm just curious how is it possible lol.
I think the difference lies in how we deal with the empathic feelings. When I enter a room full of people who are anxious, I go through my Rolodex of Google research to implement tactics to boost the mood because I don't wanna deal with the bad vibes (I realize this is selfish but it's true). I also find that I need to remind people of the logical steps involved in a situation to problem solve. I also think empathy is just another word for "traumatized and therefore hyper-vigilant to social cues in order to cope".
I’m an INFJ and definitely love that I am I’ve met an ENTJ recently and before I knew he was an ENTJ I would have sworn he was INFJ but come to find out it’s the intuition and judging I was seeing. All in all super nice guy that I can see getting along with just fine
Close minded? Interesting. My feedback from supervisors has always been that I handle constructive criticism well and even solicit it. I want to improve as much as possible, as quickly as possible, and I can't do that by being close-minded. I think ENTJs have the confidence to not get defensive and to evaluate and accept alternatives that are more efficient/effective.
@@def6420 The INFJ isn't intimidated. We can see right to the very depths of your soul. I'm married to a wonderful ENTJ. They are confident, secure people, who don't play stupid mind games. I find ENTJ's very likeable.
Could you tell me about INFJ-ENTJ relationships? I tend to like INFJs a lot because of their fierce commitment to help others in a different way we ENTJ do. @MissMelody
Hi Josue :D Thanks for your feedback! I do not know a lot personally about INFJ/ ENTJ relationships as I have never been in one myself. But I will keep this in mind for future videos. You might join an ENTJ/ INFJ Facebook group page and see if you can gain some more insight.
With the exception of a handful of lovely Entjs, who left genuinely thoughtful comments.....I’ve never read so many tone deaf, obnoxious comments in my life, regarding a thoughtfully made video, that someone bothered to spend her own time to make, that so many of you choose to criticize, thinking you are somehow being appropriate, or funny, or simply not caring at all, when it is so, incredibly rude. And a number of you are delusional enough to think you are empaths, of all things, and leave this as a comment, on a video made by one of the only types who actually probably is an empath. You could learn a thing or two from this person and her lovely, intuitive, insightful video.
Melody Grace it was a wonderful description and I recognize myself in it! I was in a great romantic relationship with INFJ. I offer protection and self confident and she knew how to develop my feelings! It was very easy to talk deeply between an ENTJ and a INFJ! Thanks a lot for this video, it reminds me good memories! =)
As an ENTJ I can confirm. It takes a willingness to look at yourself objectively and want to make the change. Fi while inferior for us can be a powerful source of wisdom when integrated properly.
Aw! Thank you! Seriously making ENTJs sound better than we deserve. And yes, my goals need to chill out. XD And expectations need a serious turn down. Lol! Work on putting my silly pants on more and leaving my suit at home. :D
Great video. Love your speaking style. You seem to really be able to put yourself in other's shoes by understanding their functions. Thanks for sharing!
Hey Mike :D I really appreciate you taking the time to write this comment :D I really appreciate it. I debated coming back, so it great to hear that you enjoy my videos.
thank you for not just spewing info that youre not sufficiently educated on! this is the first vid of yours ive ever came across & youve just earned me as a subscriber within the first minute.
I'm an ENTJ married to an INFJ for 8 years. It's been a bumpy road as I struggle to keep up with her feelings and she can't stand my bluntness. It's almost like she lives in a fantasy. She wants to live in her ideal world when real life is another thing. We clash as I'm very logical and she comes across as a fantasist hippy. I struggle now and again however how I dealt with it is through maturity. I had to be open minded more as naturally I am very loyal to her and love her to bits. I don't agree with her many times but I agree to disagree to stay married. Lol Romance is hard! I feel like I'm suffocating when talking about feelings. Ewwww. She always wants me to be romantic. I'm learning though. How I learnt is fulfill her requests and literally act as I'm interested... Lol. Hope she doesn't read this. 😆
I'm an INFJ married to an ENTJ for almost ten years, and yeah, we've had to work really hard, but it's sooo worth it. He's my superhero--like how do you think so fast??? I try really hard to be more realistic and logical, and he talks about feelings and "puts pillows" on how he talks to me. In the end we just find each other fascinating and fun. Keep going! Don't even get me started on love languages though....
I watch not just because your information is correct or you have personal experience with it but also because your imperfect opinions are very valuable as long as you stay honest 🤣 I subbed. Opinions are good as long as you let people know is just an opinion and not a statement.
For myself as intj, maybe sometimes we need to find the meaning first to do something, we not that objective like entj. On wisdom perpective some people said intj are more wise but idk what you think? But honestly im jealos to entj or estj, they like just born to succeed
I am an INFJ and my mom is an ENTJ and 98.999% of the time she’s trying to pick a fight with me with anything it’s so exhausting, I can’t wait for the day to move out of her house really...
I agree that they’re close-minded. Especially, if they’re immature, they think they are always right. If you disagree with them, they dismiss you immediately. It’s really frustrating when this belief is something they have of you and it’s a wrong assumption 🥲 As you can see… even in the comments, most are disagreeing. Which kinda goes with my point how they don’t see a true reflection of themselves
I'm an entj woman. I'm also an empath. I spent a large part of my life never understanding why people would say I was being a "bitch" I mean I'd be completely clueless why they would think that , when I know I was trying to help and I was right. I'd begin thinking they were just trying to divert. Until I was typed and learned that I'm not naturally intune with peoples feelings. I feel we are one of the most misunderstood types. Most people view us in a negative light. We have feelings. We do care. Theres just some things we have Expierienced and know through trial and error work and we wish to share our knowledge. Feelings have nothing to do with logic and results . I for one understand the importance of others mental well being . I have the " We are all in this together ", mentality. Seriously, other's successes equal our success. As I've grown older. I do still have to make a conscience effort to take peoples feelings into consideration. I spend most of my days occassionally being accused of things that are not true about me , by people who I'm most close to , even considering all the proof in the world I am not any of those things. I'm not a hypocrite, I'm not bias, or jealous. Of anything. But these things are projected on me. Because we live in a world where people dont want to admit the truth about themselves. I dont care to win. Or always be right , no one is better than anyone. Etc. How about quit stalling and get your shit together. Lol. It's impossible to lie to me once I know you. And I know people fairly quickly. I see everything, read between the lines, and dont forget anything. My job if you're in my face to send you in the right direction to get your shit together. If you dont like it or dont want to do the work, I assure you, I wont be in your face . I just dont enable bullshit. Doesnt make me a bitch. Means I care.
@@hasgoodles7807 I'm an empath. Just a very logical one. I definitely put myself in other people's shoes to the extent I have to take breaks to differentiate my feelings from others . That's what lengths I go to , to try to understand and hopefully move past. Unfortunately, you can not help people who don't want to be helped.
Hello Mrs. Melody. Been following your series regarding MBTI and Enneagram. I just wanted to say I’m thankful for your efforts and genuinely looking forward to watch a video about your subjective take on “ INTPs “. And thank you in advance ~ Ebra ~
@@hasgoodles7807 not that hard to comprehend. we just got options and im happy to make a choice as much as the next person. neither am i here to please you.
When you do a video about ENTJ's, the one mistake you shouldn't make is being inefficient. Which you were. FOUR damn minutes of ranting, do you want to frustrate us? XD Yes, of course we are stubborn. Why? Because we are rarely proven wrong. People want to change our minds, not because we are wrong, but because the truth hurts your feelings. Hell, if you can prove us wrong with logic and facts (which is what really matters), you immediately gain our respect, which very few people manage to earn.
Even when people prove with logic and facts, you will keep your opinion and will not change it. Thats why you are relly bad at conversations becauss in general you don't want to find the thruth. But you want to be right and to gain the feeling of the win. That's why it hard for you to be a great friend or any kind of emotional role. I know, you will say that i just say that because i just want to say am right, which is completly wrong. It is a problem of entj personality just like every personality type has problems and weaknesses
Great video. You were correct in everything, but one. ENTJs care A LOT about what people think about them. Our Se and Ni forces us to always consider what people think about us, and how we present ourselves to others. Our Fi is at its best when we are perceived as successful and important
I’m an ENTP and I just watched your take on ENTPS from 3 years ago and it’s great because I could relate so well my best friend is an INFJ and when I started learning about MBTI I told him to try the personality test because I figured he was an INFJ and it was spot on and your videos give me more insight 🙏
Thank you SO much for you lovely feedback :D It's so much fun when you suspect a person's type and you are correct :D ENTPs and INFJs make great friends
this was a good video. there arent that many people that describe eNTJ in a positive light so i usually feel misunderstood and put off by any 'advice' but since you acknowledged the positives i was able to take more of the advice to heart and i think that this video provided value
This could have been organized better. ;) I had to fast forward and precious seconds were wasted- Commander Skyla My little sister is a Consul..... poor thing.
My uncle is INFJ and we get along pretty well. Though interestingly, he's a physicist which you wouldn't associate with INFJs but he's pretty caring for a scientist type. As in he doesn't come across as cold. I do, however. He sometimes gets surprised by my attitudes about people and life Like how I don't care so much about people but care more about pragmatism and efficiency.
we are BOSS, CEO and leaders all the way. People fear us, but it's more them than us, we truly love people but love getting shit done more than anything for the betterment of others not ourselves. Ironically I thought I was an INFJ for the longest time, but I'm too driven for that and an extrovert...
our main objective is to let people enjoy their time. so usually i implement changes in order to be efficient and people need to understand that. :) so they know where we are coming from because for me time is very important. 🤭🤗
I think with that whole mistyping thing, we are all complex human beings and I'm an ENFP who knows many other ENFP's who are quite different from me, yet we share the same core characteristics. May those people see the auxiliary, tertiary or inferior functions more.
Could you do a video about INTJs? Cause I as an INFJ are strangely drawn to them...ENTJs not so much which is a bit weird but probably they are a little too harsh for my feeling based personality 😂 I think one of my colleagues might be an ENTJ...I sometimes think she is changing her personality like 10times a day....she can be friendly when you talk with her in private but when it's about work she is ignorant and cold and doesn't seem to care if she just hurt you. She knows everything better although it's not even her special field. If you want to ask her something simple you have to better announce it like 3 days before otherwise she feels disturbed during her work and gets rid of you with fast words. I am frightened of her sometimes. But then her other better personality comes around she suddenly behaves like she is an old friend of you. She is freaking me out so much honestly.
ENTJs are ridged when they have not learn to use their full stack. I see many flaws in the venella ENTJ and you can help change him by chipping away at his flaws with negativity and positivity reinforcement. I used to be this way and that changed when I started learning about MBTI, I consciously decided to change this behavior because I saw it as a dangerous flaw. It put too much of a limitation on my ability to simulate multiple outcomes and I also became less judgemental when I made this adjustment.
Me too, dude! Learning more about personality theory and psychology as a whole, I really think, is helping unlock my potential and catalyze my path to success and greatness. It is especially encouraging to be able to correspond with other ENTJs like yourself and other NTs as well! We got this! 😊
I've definitely made the mistake of putting that pressure on loved ones and it's a constant struggle to just chill. I'm engaged to an ISTP, go figure that one out lol
Not sure if my husband is just an unhealthy ENTJ or what...but that black and white thinking (no gray area) is just Aaaaaack! So frustrating to have a convo with.
as an ENTJ i still have this "im always right" about me, but with growing and learning im accepting that humanity is very prone to make mistakes,even me. so i always have that in mind. im not as harsh anymore. i try to accept ideas even if i dont agree with them at that moment. hope that made sense/helped.
I'm an ENFJ and whenever I want to naturally lead a group but feel someone else deserves the spotlight I am frantically looking for you ENTJ's and ESTJ's lol. It's okay though I like being second in command or chief of staff!
I'm an ENTJ and I'm very cognitive about people, but I'm terrible about reading people naturally. I read tone and additude to figure out another individual's emotional spectrum. Extroverted social ques had to be learned from people with Fe traits. My ENFP brother taught me a lot.
I can't tell you how patient I was with her long a** intro....I told myself: Look at the background, her aesthetically pleasing bedroom, and that pleasing asymmetric face to make it to the ENTJ part of the video. I get bored too quickly. Yes, I am an ENTJ.
Agree on that people are super cocky about typing people - This is the reason for me leaving topic related discord - I got so pissed because those shitters were typing whatever came up to their mind - Im ENTJ
My husband is an ENTJ and the man believes he is comprised of facts. Not that he has facts...that he embodies facts. Feelings/intuition are not logically measurable...thus invalid. No, go ahead and say it; arrogance is a good word. It's a challenge. I frequently have a hard time putting understandings that I intuit into language that he can understand and presents with his version of validity. He's often concerned only with completing a task efficiently. The scars of what it took to accomplish it are not within a spectrum that he is aware of. If he hurts my feelings or invalidates me, my hurt is a personality flaw. I try to give him the example that it's as though there are colors that he is blind to that I can see but he can't. Haha...he instantly dismisses that as ludicrous. He is good at anything he takes on. He gets shit done. He throws himself into anything he does and becomes the best at whatever it is. I love that he's always trying to move forward and better himself. He's very loyal and responsible. So, it's not all negative. I just believe that INFJs and ENTJs is a very challenging union.
My ENTJ husband is wonderful. ENTJ's actually do have feelings, they just experience them and cognitively process them in a totally different way to INFJ's. If you are a REAL INFJ, you will know your husband right down to the last cell of his soul. If you really do see things he's blind to, then quietly inform him of exactly what it is you have realized that he has failed to take into account. The ENTJ will not be hurt by "extra" information. The trick is HOW you present your INFJ information, to the ENTJ.
We will say what they think but people will be scared of us if they melt under pressure we need people to be brave to talk to us INTPs are good for that but they are shy to talk
I tried dating an ENTJ (they told me). We met online and then went on a date, there was/wasn't a spark and we tried a year later. Still nothing. Weird feeling like it could or could not work, definitely a hit or miss connection.
I have similar experiences with INTJs and I would imagine ENTJs if I ever went on a date with them. There just doesn't seem to be much romantic chemistry :D Cool to hear your thoughts.
as an ENTJ we our indifference is so far out there we hardly mesh with any type. I'm not joking when I say this, but it's like this with me and allot of people, there is no connection unless I am really trying and why should I be trying so damn hard? It dose not feel genuine, exactly so why bother? too much indifference, our interests are too far apart to spark anything.
You should be talking about ENTJs in this video rather than including INFJs. I am expecting that you are going to talk about how these two personalities interact, learn from each other and flourish together.
+Miss Melody hahahahahahahahaha 7:45 You're INFJ? I'm ENTJ... NTs (and specially NTJs) are really really good to plan things in long terms and giant steps. Introspective abstracting thinking style, is what you were missing there. =) I like to call it the quintessential Timeless thinking style (which also applies for INFJs and ENFJs for their Feeling style... is why MBTI considers them the best counselors while the other feeling types tend to be more disturbing when dealing with other people's feelings, the same way ENTJs and INTJs are really really good at thinking in comparison to the other thinking types). I really wanted to meet an NFJ in person...
As an ENTJ. I was getting frustrated why you hadn’t stared the video already until 4 minutes into it
As an INFJ, I agree.
As an ENTJ, I had scrolled down in boredom by 0:20, so thanks for saving me four minutes and warning be to skip forward
As an ENTP, shut up you bossy piece of shit
Same lol I skipped ahead.
Yes! This!
The video starts at 3:20
- ENTJ
Thank you bro
Video starts at 3:22
My hero! It's obvious that as an ENTJ, I tend to be impatient.
Thank youu
Nice dude! Thanks!
Thank you Jesus fuck
somehow I find it rude if people do these kinds of comments. So dismissive of the heart put into these vids imo
My dad is an ENTJ. I am an ENTJ.
We're always fighting.
I bet you love it though. Or feel bored without it
Larissa Ashton my dad is entj and I’m entj. We love each other deeply , but my isfp mom don’t let us talk to each other. She gets scared if we fight lol
Hahah
Nice!
My dad was ENTJ and my bro is ESTJ and they always fought as well.
My aunt is an ENTJ. She is under 5 feet tall but she will own you! lol Super smart, perfectionistic, organized (notes everywhere yet clean), and sweet at her core. Her alpha nature at rest is super sweet in a suprising way to me. But once its business again watch out, sweetness is gone, put on your gloves lol. ENTJ's, you are great people!
I think it's a big misinterpretation when one thinks an ENTJ is "closeminded."
We are not.
We think very outside the box and are always accepting critisms; we're just super confident when we belive something is correct.
Also, I'm love with INFJs lol They're my favorite type and the one I want to marry, but everyone always says how terrible it is xD I think it can be great if the ENTJ recognizes the INFJs feelings.
Well knowing how I was when I was younger dude I was very narrow minded as an ENTJ I did not overcome this until I started studying MBTI and started learning about the cognitive functions.
The type of ENTJ this narrow mindedness applies to is the low functioning type.
very right
I agree, but I think her point was to say that we can COME OFF as close minded, when in reality it's not that we are closed mined at all. The fact is that we've looked at all of the facts we could find and drew a firm conclusion and that is that. I know I will draw a firm conclusion, but I tend to change very quickly if new information arises that is important and applicable. I love INFJs, but they can have a really, really hard time understanding that our reaching conclusions is not us dismissing them.
Regardless of what she thinks of ENTJ's close mindedless. My question is, who is this person and what makes her an authority?
OOPS, my ENTJ is showing. 😜
Its a ‘can your truth withstand my stubbornness’ type thing.
I find ENTJ-INFJ interactions to be productive, especially when both are calm. Both have Ni and Te or Fe, which proves to be a very insightful point of difference. But when there's a conflict, my goodness, does poop hit the fan.
I think that is a very accurate assessment! I wouldn't want to see an INFJ and ENTJ in an argument. I think we both can be a bit stubborn and Ni fixed. I think we also come from such different perspectives. Fe Vs. Te when applied to Ni.
This is so accurate! I'm an infj and my male partner is entj and we get along really well! We're both super productive and driven together! Definitely have had some arguments over the years which we have eventually worked through. Our arguments get pretty heated hahah!
My wife is an intj and with me being entj its deep and crazy, as long as we can hear each other things are good but if not it gets ugly nanosecond fast
If yall wanna see the INFJ and ENTJ dynamic at its most toxic just watch Prof X and Magneto. It’s beautiful heartbreaking and when they work together incredibly inspirational.
You dont need to be gentle or politically correct in your criticism of us ENTJ, we wear our stubbornness like a badge ;)
true :)
We're not all stubborn though. Yes, I'm including myself as an outlier. Life experience changes this arrogant behavior.
wow
My fiancee is also an INFJ and your take on ENTJ's mirrors her's. I just want to share with my fellow ENTJ's that being vulnerable with people and vocalizing my acknowledgement of others transformed my life. Thanks for the video!
thanks for the insight!
My ENTJ EX won't leave me alone! I am super direct with him about there being no chance of romance for us again in the future, yet he keeps trying to creatively problem solve us back into a relationship. This is not romantic to me, it's just disrespectful. This is part of the reason I don't want to be with him ever again.. BC he is so pushy and it comes off manipulative and emotionally insensitive.
Written by a frustrated INFJ. Thanks for listening 🙏🏻
As an ENTJ: I think we are too efficient, to the point that even a tiny bit of feeling is seen as inefficiency, however we will cry like a baby girl about puppies and seniors…lol
You are right, for ENTJ, it is a constant effort to battle with "inefficient" people around us, hoping at the same time grow our Fi. You seem Fe dominated, which will act like a mine around ENTJ, at some point , your feeling is gonna get hurt,lol sorry :P good video!
so accurate about puppies and seniors XD
I have an ENTJ trainer in my gymnastics class. He's very charismatic, intense and inspiring. He was able to remain cool-headed when someone in our group broke their leg in the middle of a presentation, which was certainly a strength (like you said at 10:20 or so), as he prevented us from going over there, and got us to finish our show.
I think in a time of crisis, the ENTJ will not be the one to console, but to fix the problem or adapt as well as he/she can.
Love this story! And it's such a great example of an ENTJ in times of emotional crisis. Thank you for sharing :D
The reason he was calm is because his first response is not feeling it's rational thinking. Especially because he's not really emotionally attached if it was his wife trust me he would have been less calm. It's the fact that the ENTJ is naturally detached because lack of connection with the people. This makes us look calmer then what we really are and I have to be honest we can be reactive it's just less likely due to weak connections and bonds with other's, rational thinking and the trouble shooting mentality that derives from Te.
Te is always seeking out to fix something, we are pretty calm in tense situations also due to being in tense situations many times we learn to control ourselves but we can still lose our shit when something happens to someone we are really close to. It may not be expressed outwardly but deep down in we are panicking or loosing it, you would see this through pacing back and forth.
Just keep in mind, the less attached he is the weaker the reaction and the stronger the trouble shooting thinking comes in. We cannot help but to want to fix things we come off the factory line programmed that way.
Stubborn? Rigid? Nah, most of us just believe in what is logical. :) If you can prove our beliefs or thoughts are incorrect though (with proof, of course hehe), we'll look into it and (most likely) change it. Most of us will thank you for it, too :)
Also, we *do* have that "emotional noise" you mention in your video, but we just sort of... set it on a shelf... to look at... later. o3o;;
Great video, thank you for sharing! :D
She's not totally wrong, we for sure can come across as stubborn and rigid. Especially if someone isn't thinking logically or efficiently.
yep, thats what i also thing. if someone sees it as being stubborn, theyre probably missing the logical point in what youre saying....
Look at it later? Nah I ain't touching that shelf unless I absolutely need to. If I need to, it won't have gone on the shelf in the first place
You’re sweet, intelligent, kind and speak your mind with honesty. A true INFJ. Subscribed!
Personally, romantic relationship is the biggest struggle. I come across as cold and distant even when I love and value my significant other.
At least you are honest in how it plays out.
Be forewarned: the following can come across as highly arrogant and cold unless you are familiar with how blunt and direct ENTJs' minds can be.
That said, I think that perhaps the most common emotion for ENTJs is frustration mixed with melancholy as we often deal with others that either can't see our "vision" or are unwilling to reciprocate support for our goals to the same degree that we would do for them.
In those moments, we probably tend to think something like, "How can you possibly not see or consider things from a different perspective than your own; have you always been this narrow-minded?" Or, "I was willing to go to the ends of the Earth for you, but when it comes to my needs, you aren't even willing to cross this measly 'river?'"
[Here it comes --]
To us, a lot of people seem to either prove themselves cowards or ignorant imbeciles. This can be deeply disappointing because our very goals are designed to enrich the lives of those very people we once had such faith and high hopes for before they likely "got in our way."
...and yet we press on, even though the clashes and heartbreaks along the way bear their fangs upon our bleeding souls behind the scenes. Something that Intuitives, especially NFs, probably see, and others don't.
However, I guess that's the weight we've got to carry, being ENTJs and all.
It's the "cross" we've got to bear in exchange for our world-changing ways.
Hopefully this adds some light to what ENTJs are like. Cheers.
Jack Rebel spot on
Jack Rebel Thank you for speaking from our side. Spot on.
We should form an ENTJ support network. Feel free to message me, if you want!
Fellow Intuitive? ENTJ? =)
Jack Rebel that'd be cool
I'm an ENTJ and I have a lot of negative experiences with INFJ's, especially other males.
I respect this video though.
I'm an infj and I'd say that the infj/entj pairing, platonic or otherwise, is likely not a match made in heaven.
The dominant Te in the Entj vs.auxilary Fe in the Infj is likely what makes things so difficult. Te rubs me the wrong way and perhaps Entjs don't value Fe very much.
what happened?
Who cares? Not us.
@@hasgoodles7807 1) Do you know how _comments_ on TH-cam work? People initiate writing them...on their own...you know?...
2) You cared enough to respond
I'm an ENTJ and my younger brother is INFJ. We grew up together, being in same grade we were always together. In childhood we used to fight a lot but now we love each other extremely.
As an ENTJ, I have three things to say about this video. Melody, you are one of the most beautiful creatures I have every seen. Two, this video is spot on. As an extremely self-aware, successful, and powerful ENTJ, I can assure you this is accurate! Lastly, while the ENTJ may seem "arrogant", confident or overly confident are more accurate descriptors. The reason for this is because of our previous successes. As such, the older ENTJs (not me, but I see me going down this path as well as other ENTJs) are even more confident and sure of themselves, but they also (as the video suggested at the end) begin to ease on their expectations of the world as most cannot meet them. That's not a slight on other types as we ENTJs rely on others to help us. I'm just being forward...you know...like and ENTJ! Lol Take care all!
I am ENTJ and I do like INFJ in general .,
Alomayri A why not. I'm ENTJ
AngelIsHereTo ObserveTheEnd I make sure all my friends take mbti test and no one of them ENTJ .... its rear type
Alomayri A is it rare? It seems like it may not be
It can be a curse to be an ENTJ, our indifference makes it difficult for us to mesh with others plus we have the low numbers so we are more likely to be lonely. We look well but on the inside we can be torn apart but we won't tell people because we lothe showing vulnerability. We are very private with our emotions, usually we are in a good mood or happy because we are problem solvers, not too many things are difficult for us to solve other then our own broken hidden feelings. Our deeper feelings are buried within our subconscious we supress it to operate. I think most ENTJs are unaware of this because allot of this happens on the subconscious level but it all caught up to me because I've dug deep in myself to see what was there and this is what I found.
@@raijin6918 heyyy, thats true in my case. im one of those lonely ENTJs
As an ENTJ, i can tell you i am an empath, and it helps me asses people. I can sense a room. But i can also not give a fuck. Which helps with the empathy. I also read gestures and faces though, so that further boosts the ability to avoid getting overwhelmed by the feelings around me, if i can asses the room quickly. I have a really close INFJ friend, she helps me stay grounded and not get all focused on my goals. She reminds me that people are the reason why we're all here in the first place. Which takes a lot trust me! And that being an ENTJ is just a tool to help the world in some way.
No, you are not an empath. I’m sorry, but the truth hurts, oh wait, you are an Entj, so the truth won’t touch you.
This comment isn't meant to offend any entjs out there, but if you're really an empath like I mean entj doesn't have fe on their function stack and fi is last on their stack. It just doesn't makes sense for an entj to be an empath because literally their function stack is meant to be logical rather than emotional. No offense, I'm just curious how is it possible lol.
I think the difference lies in how we deal with the empathic feelings. When I enter a room full of people who are anxious, I go through my Rolodex of Google research to implement tactics to boost the mood because I don't wanna deal with the bad vibes (I realize this is selfish but it's true). I also find that I need to remind people of the logical steps involved in a situation to problem solve. I also think empathy is just another word for "traumatized and therefore hyper-vigilant to social cues in order to cope".
I’m an INFJ and definitely love that I am I’ve met an ENTJ recently and before I knew he was an ENTJ I would have sworn he was INFJ but come to find out it’s the intuition and judging I was seeing. All in all super nice guy that I can see getting along with just fine
Close minded? Interesting. My feedback from supervisors has always been that I handle constructive criticism well and even solicit it. I want to improve as much as possible, as quickly as possible, and I can't do that by being close-minded. I think ENTJs have the confidence to not get defensive and to evaluate and accept alternatives that are more efficient/effective.
people are scared to give us feedback because they are indtimidated by us :(
@@def6420 The INFJ isn't intimidated. We can see right to the very depths of your soul. I'm married to a wonderful ENTJ. They are confident, secure people, who don't play stupid mind games. I find ENTJ's very likeable.
@@heathermcdougall2399 WHO SAID IAM TALKING ABOUT INFJ? your wondeful ENTJ is married to dumbfuck
@@heathermcdougall2399 everyone is intimidated
@@heathermcdougall2399 typical infjs making everything about them
I have been married for 25 years to my husband who is a ENTJ. I am a INFJ and I love him with all my heart! ❤️
Great to hear that! I think I just found my ENTJ man
I’m an infj and I’m really interested in an entj man.
Could you tell me about INFJ-ENTJ relationships? I tend to like INFJs a lot because of their fierce commitment to help others in a different way we ENTJ do. @MissMelody
Hi Josue :D Thanks for your feedback! I do not know a lot personally about INFJ/ ENTJ relationships as I have never been in one myself. But I will keep this in mind for future videos. You might join an ENTJ/ INFJ Facebook group page and see if you can gain some more insight.
With the exception of a handful of lovely Entjs, who left genuinely thoughtful comments.....I’ve never read so many tone deaf, obnoxious comments in my life, regarding a thoughtfully made video, that someone bothered to spend her own time to make, that so many of you choose to criticize, thinking you are somehow being appropriate, or funny, or simply not caring at all, when it is so, incredibly rude. And a number of you are delusional enough to think you are empaths, of all things, and leave this as a comment, on a video made by one of the only types who actually probably is an empath. You could learn a thing or two from this person and her lovely, intuitive, insightful video.
summary, infj asking an entj not to goal driven is like an entj asking infj not to have an empath
Melody Grace it was a wonderful description and I recognize myself in it! I was in a great romantic relationship with INFJ. I offer protection and self confident and she knew how to develop my feelings! It was very easy to talk deeply between an ENTJ and a INFJ!
Thanks a lot for this video, it reminds me good memories! =)
I find ENTJ’s very obnoxious and lack emotional intelligence but are good at strategy and delivering projects!
As an ENTJ I can confirm. It takes a willingness to look at yourself objectively and want to make the change. Fi while inferior for us can be a powerful source of wisdom when integrated properly.
Oh yes, stroke my ego kind lady !
Hara hahahahahahaahahahahah fuck yes, i loved that coment. thank you for the laugh😂🥳
^^^^
i doubt it, ive seen ENTJ s get so much hate am i wrong?
Hahahha
@@annipsy2185 let them hate so long as they fear!!
I appreciate your perception of ENTJs and the feedback to help us grow.
Aw! Thank you! Seriously making ENTJs sound better than we deserve. And yes, my goals need to chill out. XD And expectations need a serious turn down. Lol! Work on putting my silly pants on more and leaving my suit at home. :D
where are my fellow ENTJ’s
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Looking in the mirror. Gazing, drooling, actually.
Great video. Love your speaking style. You seem to really be able to put yourself in other's shoes by understanding their functions. Thanks for sharing!
Hi Shannon :) Thanks so much for your sweet comment love! I appreciate your feedback
Hey - I just wanted to say I have watched your channel for a long time and I'm so glad you're back and making videos. Keep it up!
Hey Mike :D I really appreciate you taking the time to write this comment :D I really appreciate it. I debated coming back, so it great to hear that you enjoy my videos.
The symmetry of lights is why I watched until the end.
Another thing is that as an ENTJ I believe my success is largely a reason of my ability to defy people.
And thus you make fantastically brutal dictators. What a point of pride. Stalin.....
thank you for not just spewing info that youre not sufficiently educated on! this is the first vid of yours ive ever came across & youve just earned me as a subscriber within the first minute.
Pls can u do "INFJ's take on INTP"? (gets u a lot of views because their HOME is the internet) ;D
Yes, that will be my next MBTI video :D
I will run fuckin circles around you.
This is how I feel 99% of my life
The only thing that makes me cry is extreme frustration.
I'm an ENTJ married to an INFJ for 8 years. It's been a bumpy road as I struggle to keep up with her feelings and she can't stand my bluntness. It's almost like she lives in a fantasy. She wants to live in her ideal world when real life is another thing. We clash as I'm very logical and she comes across as a fantasist hippy. I struggle now and again however how I dealt with it is through maturity. I had to be open minded more as naturally I am very loyal to her and love her to bits. I don't agree with her many times but I agree to disagree to stay married. Lol
Romance is hard! I feel like I'm suffocating when talking about feelings. Ewwww. She always wants me to be romantic. I'm learning though. How I learnt is fulfill her requests and literally act as I'm interested... Lol. Hope she doesn't read this. 😆
Thanks for the heads up. Would hate to be with someone who do3s not understand me as i am. My nightmare.
I'm an INFJ married to an ENTJ for almost ten years, and yeah, we've had to work really hard, but it's sooo worth it. He's my superhero--like how do you think so fast??? I try really hard to be more realistic and logical, and he talks about feelings and "puts pillows" on how he talks to me. In the end we just find each other fascinating and fun. Keep going! Don't even get me started on love languages though....
I watch not just because your information is correct or you have personal experience with it but also because your imperfect opinions are very valuable as long as you stay honest 🤣 I subbed. Opinions are good as long as you let people know is just an opinion and not a statement.
Their intensity and the higher energy level that distinguishes them from INTJs is due to the Se function .
Correct me if I’m wrong .
INTJs are lovely on their own, and outstanding in comparison.
For myself as intj, maybe sometimes we need to find the meaning first to do something, we not that objective like entj. On wisdom perpective some people said intj are more wise but idk what you think?
But honestly im jealos to entj or estj, they like just born to succeed
You're 100% an INFJ. No doubt. I'm an INFJ and have such authentic synergy with my ENTJ business partner; what you said is spot-on. Thanks :)
I’m an ENTJ and a lot of this is spot on
You're face looks calm and innocent. How would you able to manage people with those features as an ENTJ?
I am an INFJ and my mom is an ENTJ and 98.999% of the time she’s trying to pick a fight with me with anything it’s so exhausting, I can’t wait for the day to move out of her house really...
I agree that they’re close-minded. Especially, if they’re immature, they think they are always right. If you disagree with them, they dismiss you immediately. It’s really frustrating when this belief is something they have of you and it’s a wrong assumption 🥲
As you can see… even in the comments, most are disagreeing. Which kinda goes with my point how they don’t see a true reflection of themselves
I'm an entj woman. I'm also an empath. I spent a large part of my life never understanding why people would say I was being a "bitch" I mean I'd be completely clueless why they would think that , when I know I was trying to help and I was right. I'd begin thinking they were just trying to divert. Until I was typed and learned that I'm not naturally intune with peoples feelings. I feel we are one of the most misunderstood types. Most people view us in a negative light. We have feelings. We do care. Theres just some things we have Expierienced and know through trial and error work and we wish to share our knowledge. Feelings have nothing to do with logic and results . I for one understand the importance of others mental well being . I have the " We are all in this together ", mentality. Seriously, other's successes equal our success. As I've grown older. I do still have to make a conscience effort to take peoples feelings into consideration. I spend most of my days occassionally being accused of things that are not true about me , by people who I'm most close to , even considering all the proof in the world I am not any of those things. I'm not a hypocrite, I'm not bias, or jealous. Of anything. But these things are projected on me. Because we live in a world where people dont want to admit the truth about themselves. I dont care to win. Or always be right , no one is better than anyone. Etc. How about quit stalling and get your shit together. Lol. It's impossible to lie to me once I know you. And I know people fairly quickly. I see everything, read between the lines, and dont forget anything. My job if you're in my face to send you in the right direction to get your shit together. If you dont like it or dont want to do the work, I assure you, I wont be in your face . I just dont enable bullshit. Doesnt make me a bitch. Means I care.
No, you are not an empath. That’s sweet that you this.
@@hasgoodles7807 I'm an empath. Just a very logical one. I definitely put myself in other people's shoes to the extent I have to take breaks to differentiate my feelings from others . That's what lengths I go to , to try to understand and hopefully move past. Unfortunately, you can not help people who don't want to be helped.
Hello Mrs. Melody.
Been following your series regarding MBTI and Enneagram.
I just wanted to say I’m thankful for your efforts and genuinely looking forward to watch a video about your subjective take on “ INTPs “.
And thank you in advance ~
Ebra ~
Video starts @3:25. Btw I’m an entj.
I love it when others flaunt about me for me. Even my mom calls me arrogant. But at least im not really an asshole, but that's if i like you. -ENTJ-A
@@hasgoodles7807 not that hard to comprehend. we just got options and im happy to make a choice as much as the next person. neither am i here to please you.
When you do a video about ENTJ's, the one mistake you shouldn't make is being inefficient. Which you were. FOUR damn minutes of ranting, do you want to frustrate us? XD
Yes, of course we are stubborn. Why? Because we are rarely proven wrong. People want to change our minds, not because we are wrong, but because the truth hurts your feelings. Hell, if you can prove us wrong with logic and facts (which is what really matters), you immediately gain our respect, which very few people manage to earn.
Even when people prove with logic and facts, you will keep your opinion and will not change it. Thats why you are relly bad at conversations becauss in general you don't want to find the thruth. But you want to be right and to gain the feeling of the win. That's why it hard for you to be a great friend or any kind of emotional role. I know, you will say that i just say that because i just want to say am right, which is completly wrong. It is a problem of entj personality just like every personality type has problems and weaknesses
Great video. You were correct in everything, but one. ENTJs care A LOT about what people think about them. Our Se and Ni forces us to always consider what people think about us, and how we present ourselves to others. Our Fi is at its best when we are perceived as successful and important
I’m an ENTP and I just watched your take on ENTPS from 3 years ago and it’s great because I could relate so well my best friend is an INFJ and when I started learning about MBTI I told him to try the personality test because I figured he was an INFJ and it was spot on and your videos give me more insight 🙏
Thank you SO much for you lovely feedback :D It's so much fun when you suspect a person's type and you are correct :D ENTPs and INFJs make great friends
Thanks for this video! My favourite part was your self correct about the third function. PS Your lipstick is great. Would love to know what it is!
Haha I caught that right away and was like OH NO! Thanks! I can't remember it off the top of my head, but I will get back to you with the color :D
this was a good video. there arent that many people that describe eNTJ in a positive light so i usually feel misunderstood and put off by any 'advice' but since you acknowledged the positives i was able to take more of the advice to heart and i think that this video provided value
I love these videos! I can’t wait to hear you continue to talk about other types. Thank you :)
Laura Elise me too . What is your personality type
Alomayri A esfj!
Laura Elise I am an entj .... and my FI is last part 😂
Hi Laura :D Thanks you so much for your sweet comment! I am happy you enjoy my videos :D
Please do a video on INFJs and finding love/giving up/best matches. Thank you
I will keep that in mind for future videos! Thanks :D
This could have been organized better. ;) I had to fast forward and precious seconds were wasted- Commander Skyla
My little sister is a Consul..... poor thing.
Shalom from France Jesus loves you!!❤❤
Thank you! I believe it
Miss Melody Aha so cool it changed my life when I was deep in depression, He wants simple relationship with us :)
Timo Shelly lol do your research
Amen! He loves so intensely
My uncle is INFJ and we get along pretty well. Though interestingly, he's a physicist which you wouldn't associate with INFJs but he's pretty caring for a scientist type. As in he doesn't come across as cold. I do, however. He sometimes gets surprised by my attitudes about people and life
Like how I don't care so much about people but care more about pragmatism and efficiency.
Thanks gf .. appreciate that!
we are BOSS, CEO and leaders all the way. People fear us, but it's more them than us, we truly love people but love getting shit done more than anything for the betterment of others not ourselves. Ironically I thought I was an INFJ for the longest time, but I'm too driven for that and an extrovert...
Sounds like "I care so much " narsiccistic vibe
3:21 - you’re welcome fellow ENTJs
As avn ENTJ I appreciate bold, vulgar, provocative speech and action. We're want it raw and real!
Holy crap. You sound terrifying.
Te is more of an organization and structure about how things can work effectively. It’s the organizing of people to make things work
our main objective is to let people enjoy their time. so usually i implement changes in order to be efficient and people need to understand that. :) so they know where we are coming from because for me time is very important. 🤭🤗
I tested and entj and believe I am one and you were really nice on describing us . ENTJs wouldn’t of been so nice
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You got that right. Christ.
I think with that whole mistyping thing, we are all complex human beings and I'm an ENFP who knows many other ENFP's who are quite different from me, yet we share the same core characteristics. May those people see the auxiliary, tertiary or inferior functions more.
Could you do a video about INTJs? Cause I as an INFJ are strangely drawn to them...ENTJs not so much which is a bit weird but probably they are a little too harsh for my feeling based personality 😂 I think one of my colleagues might be an ENTJ...I sometimes think she is changing her personality like 10times a day....she can be friendly when you talk with her in private but when it's about work she is ignorant and cold and doesn't seem to care if she just hurt you. She knows everything better although it's not even her special field. If you want to ask her something simple you have to better announce it like 3 days before otherwise she feels disturbed during her work and gets rid of you with fast words. I am frightened of her sometimes. But then her other better personality comes around she suddenly behaves like she is an old friend of you. She is freaking me out so much honestly.
I would've lost interest with the long intro, but I'm playing this back at 1.5 so I'm still here.
@Has Goodles XD Lol, INFJs are great, really. Two of my closest friends are INFJs and they are so deep and quirky all at once.
I like your bedroom set-up. It looks cool and at the same time has a relaxing vibe to it.
ENTJs are ridged when they have not learn to use their full stack. I see many flaws in the venella ENTJ and you can help change him by chipping away at his flaws with negativity and positivity reinforcement.
I used to be this way and that changed when I started learning about MBTI, I consciously decided to change this behavior because I saw it as a dangerous flaw. It put too much of a limitation on my ability to simulate multiple outcomes and I also became less judgemental when I made this adjustment.
Me too, dude! Learning more about personality theory and psychology as a whole, I really think, is helping unlock my potential and catalyze my path to success and greatness. It is especially encouraging to be able to correspond with other ENTJs like yourself and other NTs as well! We got this! 😊
I've definitely made the mistake of putting that pressure on loved ones and it's a constant struggle to just chill. I'm engaged to an ISTP, go figure that one out lol
I like INTPs and INFJ dont know about other types yet
IM ENTJ 8w7 best
Not sure if my husband is just an unhealthy ENTJ or what...but that black and white thinking (no gray area) is just Aaaaaack! So frustrating to have a convo with.
as an ENTJ i still have this "im always right" about me, but with growing and learning im accepting that humanity is very prone to make mistakes,even me. so i always have that in mind. im not as harsh anymore. i try to accept ideas even if i dont agree with them at that moment. hope that made sense/helped.
I'm an ENFJ and whenever I want to naturally lead a group but feel someone else deserves the spotlight I am frantically looking for you ENTJ's and ESTJ's lol. It's okay though I like being second in command or chief of staff!
I have a new ENTJ friend who loves Kpop, but she doesn't love it, she knows almost everything about it. A certifiable expert.
And when k-pop trivia begins to bore you, then what?
I'm an ENTJ and I'm very cognitive about people, but I'm terrible about reading people naturally.
I read tone and additude to figure out another individual's emotional spectrum. Extroverted social ques had to be learned from people with Fe traits. My ENFP brother taught me a lot.
ENTJ here. Reallly struggle to get through the video. Took a long time to get to the crux or the message. Stuck around 'cause you're cute as hell.
Jay Toomuchhustle lmao
DUDE SAMMMMMMMMMMMMMMME 3:25 lmaoooo JESUS
Leo Knightus same here...
I think you described me to a T. Especially the emotional queues parts
I can't tell you how patient I was with her long a** intro....I told myself: Look at the background, her aesthetically pleasing bedroom, and that pleasing asymmetric face to make it to the ENTJ part of the video. I get bored too quickly. Yes, I am an ENTJ.
What should I do when I feel unsafe with someone? What should they do
wow! she 's beautiful...and these eyes
Agree on that people are super cocky about typing people - This is the reason for me leaving topic related discord - I got so pissed because those shitters were typing whatever came up to their mind - Im ENTJ
You madam are correct
My husband is an ENTJ and the man believes he is comprised of facts. Not that he has facts...that he embodies facts. Feelings/intuition are not logically measurable...thus invalid. No, go ahead and say it; arrogance is a good word. It's a challenge. I frequently have a hard time putting understandings that I intuit into language that he can understand and presents with his version of validity. He's often concerned only with completing a task efficiently. The scars of what it took to accomplish it are not within a spectrum that he is aware of. If he hurts my feelings or invalidates me, my hurt is a personality flaw. I try to give him the example that it's as though there are colors that he is blind to that I can see but he can't. Haha...he instantly dismisses that as ludicrous. He is good at anything he takes on. He gets shit done. He throws himself into anything he does and becomes the best at whatever it is. I love that he's always trying to move forward and better himself. He's very loyal and responsible. So, it's not all negative. I just believe that INFJs and ENTJs is a very challenging union.
My ENTJ husband is wonderful. ENTJ's actually do have feelings, they just experience them and cognitively process them in a totally different way to INFJ's. If you are a REAL INFJ, you will know your husband right down to the last cell of his soul. If you really do see things he's blind to, then quietly inform him of exactly what it is you have realized that he has failed to take into account. The ENTJ will not be hurt by "extra" information. The trick is HOW you present your INFJ information, to the ENTJ.
We will say what they think but people will be scared of us if they melt under pressure we need people to be brave to talk to us INTPs are good for that but they are shy to talk
Entj here :)
Thanks, great video👏👏
ENTJ's Rule the Throat Chakra.
I tried dating an ENTJ (they told me). We met online and then went on a date, there was/wasn't a spark and we tried a year later. Still nothing. Weird feeling like it could or could not work, definitely a hit or miss connection.
I have similar experiences with INTJs and I would imagine ENTJs if I ever went on a date with them. There just doesn't seem to be much romantic chemistry :D Cool to hear your thoughts.
as an ENTJ we our indifference is so far out there we hardly mesh with any type. I'm not joking when I say this, but it's like this with me and allot of people, there is no connection unless I am really trying and why should I be trying so damn hard? It dose not feel genuine, exactly so why bother? too much indifference, our interests are too far apart to spark anything.
7:59 "Callous." Lol. True.
You should be talking about ENTJs in this video rather than including INFJs. I am expecting that you are going to talk about how these two personalities interact, learn from each other and flourish together.
is gary vaynerchuk entj?
Video begins @1:45
+Miss Melody hahahahahahahahaha 7:45 You're INFJ? I'm ENTJ...
NTs (and specially NTJs) are really really good to plan things in long terms and giant steps. Introspective abstracting thinking style, is what you were missing there. =) I like to call it the quintessential Timeless thinking style (which also applies for INFJs and ENFJs for their Feeling style... is why MBTI considers them the best counselors while the other feeling types tend to be more disturbing when dealing with other people's feelings, the same way ENTJs and INTJs are really really good at thinking in comparison to the other thinking types). I really wanted to meet an NFJ in person...
It's stubborn but most likely correct.
Blunt Logical...?
Thanks 🌷