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- Parenting Styles Examples (4 Types of Parenting Styles) // Interested in parenting? Watch to learn four types of parenting & parenting styles. These parental styles and parenting types include authoritative parents, authoritarian parents, permissive parents & uninvolved & neglectful parents. These 4 types of parenting vary considerably in how to parent a child and child rearing.
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In order to explain these 4 types of parenting styles, I show examples of parenting types from movies such as: Big Daddy, Dead Poets Society, Mean Girls, Cinderella, Mary Poppins, and Despicable Me.
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What type of parent was your mom and dad? Did you recognise the films featured?
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I can't figure out what movie one of the scenes was from. One that you used for Authoritarian parenting. Around 1:56-2:10, the one where the dad had just hit the kid, and says, "this is for your own good boy. you have no respect for other people's things. You can't just go around doing whatever you feel like..."
What movie is that from??
I’m definitely authoritative and so were my parents. My parents were always asking for our opinion and advice and they always explained things to us when we had questions. We weren’t allowed to do whatever we wanted but we also didn’t get punished for no reason. But I totally believe that even when you are an authoritative parent you might still use the phrase “because I said so” every now and then lol. I love having conversations with my kids but I’m also going to discipline where ever it’s needed. Discipline doesn’t have to mean punishing your child. But if you don’t have boundaries it can get overwhelming for the child because you are putting them in charge instead of taking the responsibility of parenting.
ifrarikhan thanks for sharing!
My mom was authoritative 100%. My dad was authoritarian, slightly authoritative (10%), permissive (5%), but uninvolved 95%. He was in & out of the picture, tried to impose rules when he was around, kind of bipolar.. just never knew where we stood with him. Was frustrating because we were really used to listening to our mom mostly..
Mother of 3 boys here (12, 5, 3). I'm an Authoritative parent and as you said, it is difficult to implement. I find myself slipping into a more authoritarian mindset after long difficult, high strung weeks when I have been going over the same issue with them over and over for days and they aren't cooperating. I believe that we need to make space for and build up the individual, while guiding the path and teaching them about action and consequence, and I've found that the biggest factor for success is practicing what I preach. If I am setting an expectation for my oldest that I don't even put that amount of effort into myself.. I can see when I'm being a hypocrite, and if I can see it, you know damn well they will too. If not now, then eventually. I'm big on asking questions that promote self awareness, mindfulness and critical thinking.
My mom was an Authoritarian parent... Very demanding and controlling.. she did A lot of yelling and screaming and flying off the handle. She punished us mostly physically but also withdraw from us by shutting herself in her room. She would not talk to us and directly ignore us if we tried talking to her. Sometimes she'd withhold basic necessities like food and toiletries as a form of punishment or to get her point across. We had to do exactly what she said and wanted because she said so and because she's the adult ..... Didn't know there was a name for that parenting style. You learn something new everyday 😉
This wasn’t even parenting this was just abused and I hope you can get the healing you deserve ❤️
*Thanks a lot for sharing these precious Tips! I did'nt even realized that most of authoritative parents do'nt even explain the reason why they are mad about their child. So, at the end of the day, the child will not learn from his mistake, but instead, will just listen to the parent by fear or respect.*
To your point, authoritarian parents don't realize that at some point, once their kids get old enough to make their own decisions, there is a real risk of rebellion and undoing everything they taught their kid. I've seen this personally happen a few times. Big mistake. Thanks for watching. Next video "9 Tips For Setting High Expectations With Your Kid" comes out tomorrow. Subscribe to get the weeky video.
that is what we call "conditional love" in our house. it makes me sad to hear parents withdraw love as a punishment.
I had authoritarian parents (bad way) so I want to become a authoritative parent instead, ending the cycle that happened for 3 generations
I'm not a parent but I found this helpful anyway as I am around my friends kids a lot and they need support as well as information. I'll be sharing this! Thank you ❤️
Chantmagick thank you!
Thanks for this. Using it in a Health Class for middle school as we look into child development. Fun way to use movie clips. Thanks for doing my lesson planning for me.
Jim Morgan no worries! Teachers like you deserve a night off from lesson planning! Hope the class enjoys it
I'm so happy I found this video! I'm writing a paper about parenting styles. I'm only in the first minute of this video and you mention Baumrind, which happens to be the author of one of the papers I'm reading for research about parenting styles!!
had to do a psychology assignment about my own experiences with reinforcement and punishments, we had to do 3 examples of both positive and negative reinforcement and only one example of positive and negative punishment. I had no idea what to put for reinforcements bc I was only ever punished for anything, I now realize my parents were definitely authoritatians
This was very helpful! After watching this video I think we are authoritative most of the time with elements of both authoritarian and permissive the rest of the time. Looking forward to watching more of these.
I think that’s prob right for most of us (ie we are a blend). Appreciate your feedback Hema Khan
My wife has spoken! She knows better, so we are all 3!
Nice explanation of these 4 types of parenting. Loved the movie clips to drive your points home.
Adriana Girdler thanks for pointing out the movie clips. Have you seen I Tonya. Her mom was the harshest authoritarian parent.
Perfect examples, loved the movies you have chose. It really helped me to understand the information as a whole. I am currently getting ready for developmental psychology exam, and you have explained me the whole lecture in less than 14 minutes. Very well done!!!
I'm glad it was helpful!!!
A lot of helpful advice and the video helps get your point across well. Great learning tool.
Amatul jamila Khan thank you! Glad you liked it
I guess my parents were a combination of many types, depending on the circumstances.
With my kids - again I would try to respond appropriately to the situation - they all grew up to be good citizens!!
Wisdom To Wealth Mastery Really good advice. Thanks for watching and sharing!
Thank you for your videos!
Awesome information on the different parent styles!
Yoga with Christina Joy thanks for watching!
Interesting video. My parents were kind of a mix, and their behaviors for parenting were not consistent. It was tough.
I had Authoritarian parents - it was hell and I am most definitely scarred from it
Is the parenting checklist still available?
My dad wasn't in the picture but my mum was authoritarian and the uninvolved one depended on her mood. She has bipolar so it wasn't just her parenting styles that were at the extreme. She even once yelled at me and blamed me for getting hit by a drunk driver.
This video was very helpful!
This is so interesting!! Great video!!!
Ellen Ashton Photography thanks for the support!
Helpful 👏 God Bless you 🙏🏼
We've no children, but loved it, because we're big kids at heart!! 😄
Ha Ha..I bet the kids love your pastries! :)
Indeed!
Thank you. Very helpful
Thank you Fariba for watching and joining the mailing list. I really do appreciate it and if there is any way i can help you, please don't hesitate to ask.
Interesting video. My kids are grown now, but I have a 19 month old granddaughter.
Jill W. Fox thanks for watching.
Love the examples. Thanks
Hi Darla, any other parenting topics you'd be interested in learning more about?
Great video.
Great explanations!
Thanks Heather!
authoritarian for me for sure
I don't have children but I am the BEST AUNT and these styles are very helpful.
Pauline Newman I bet you are! Glad you enjoyed the video
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That’s so interesting. I love learning about parenting!
rawritta Thanks For watching!
Helpful, thanks
11.11 my kid. Haha. We have so much fun!
My dad is authorative and im now finding it hard to parebt in struggling
Great masterpiece
Not a parent myself, just interested in parenting styles. I feel like my mother was kind of authoritarian, but not 100% My father has more of a permissive style, but, even though it worked for me, my sister isn't like that and she literally does what she wants. I don't support permissive parenting, it's really frustrating...
A mix of authoritarian and neglectful. Basic needs met, but extreme expectation of adherence to "rules" and blind obedience. We cooked and cleaned for the house and led our own education but were somehow always getting punished as well... Totally not allowed our own opinions. I really hope i can do better when my little one comes..
Great video
Thanks Emily for watching!
Authoritative parent🥺
lol. I feel like I have all three parenting style depending on my mood
I believe my mom was authoritarian and my dad, I would say, was authoritative.
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My parents were strict authoritarian
I dont have kids, but Great information.
Thanks for watching!
Before even watching this video I am pretty sure my wife and myself are permissive parents. Will watch the video to find out which one I am.
Riaz Khan you will want watch my next video which is about permissive parents
We're the fun types!
My Mom was an authoritarian parent she used to ask me advices and my opinions .......yooh a permissive parent is destroying a child just imagine your child is beating you and you just say "oh nice hit"
How can I figure out which type is my nuts parents are
Authoritarian
A little disappointed that you didn't cover the uninvolved and neglectful very much. I mean it is somewhat self explanatory but still.
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My mom’s permissive.
authoritarian parents thinking they’re authoritative are seriously harmful
i am not a parent
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Thanks for sharing.
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Glad you think so!
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