Whether a divorced woman, a widower, or a virgin girl it doesn’t matter, my Dua to Allah is to grant me a spouse who will be a coolness to my eyes, a blessing and a a righteous woman, a woman whose heart is engulfed with the Deen and the love for Allah.
Learn of the male and female brain Understand the females belief in islam and not what she has learnt as a copy of another as anyone can repeat but believers say what they see in their minds If she’s western mix islam as a feminist your doom with struggles as she is confused just like men but a good home needs a woman men can build the good home but a woman makes that good home If she has lived a life of joy and has great sexual with previous men then when she meets those men…… you can never match the experience you have to be better or the hormone oxytocin they create is only a copy of what we create so intercourse is not the same for us men. Mohammed stated a believing daughter will cure your records of great sins and two will get you to heaven. If you are not able to teach your children then understand you have ruined lives of many good men. Mother’s ruin sons as both parents teach the child money is more important then our Allaah. Women are higher prone to anxiety and the system we live by is designed to ruin men and make woman masculine. If you want a righteous woman then invest in a Muslim women from a Islamic orphanage as she has nothing but dreams and prays for a man that will love her and she asks Allaah to be loyal. I have seen only men suffer in the western world and their explanations makes sense where as women state what they saw in movies the same story and finish I gave up my happiness. They cover their hair as the pressure of doing your hair no man can be healthy eating pasta and women who want kids do dream of touching poo but claim they don’t. So ensure you stay away from zinah and you pray the night pray as why do you desire a good believing woman when you will ruin her. The believing woman is for the believing man and the believing man is for the believing woman. Do not fear I will give you a believing spouse and believing children. You will be of same age in heaven. The practice of patience is mentioned over and over throughout the Quran. You don’t know what Allaah will give you and when as stated the prophets pbuhta had a greater trail and they too stood steadfast for the bounty for Allaah so be patient regardless of what the public or community state to you
@@Unknowntodayandtomorrow yes everyone is entitled to their own standards we dont have to explain, but just to cool you down, listen to this: the prophet had nine wives, no muslim man is allowed to do that, the prophet married his wives so that he would unite the islamic state the prophets wives were not allowed to be married after he died,again, this is only specific to the prophets case, he himself commanded muslim men to marry virgins yet you want to tell us not to???!!!!!!weather he diserves a virgin or not, its for the market to dictate
This makes sense, study’s prove that women with prior partners are likely to compare you to those partners subconsciously, which can lead to dissatisfaction and conflict. Nevertheless, it’s hard to find women like that now a days. May Allah help us good men find good pious women, preferably virgins, but more importantly women who will stay loyal, respect us, and love us. If Allah blesses us with that, may He keep us humble and grateful🤲.
O Allah please allow those men who get married to a virgin or NOT, have the Deen and worship YOU according to Quran and Sunnah, that should be the first thing on their minds! We women all have different experiences and will do just fine as wives/mothers (VIRGINS, WIDOWS etc) Allah is in Control of our Destiny! Ameen ❤ 🖤
@@akhwiththehaqq the non virgin is subconsciously going to compare you to her previous lovers. Another factor women hide their bad reputation for example she will say she just had one bf who she slept with but in reality she slept with 20 different guys. So a virgin you know no one has been there. But it depends on you if the women was married and husband died its understandable. If its going to be your 2nd wife then it's ok. But in overall you would want a virgin daughter for your son right? Why ? Because you know what's best for you
For all non-virgin men and non-virgin women, if you want your marriage and intimacy to be great: Don't talk about your previous experiences. I'm very serious. A huge amount of bad feelings come from idiots talking about their past. Just don't.
I'm not agree with you, what will the husband feel, when suddenly there is a guy(ex bf of the wife) come to him and show a picture of the wife with the ex having intercourse, or telling bout her dark past to the husband? The husband will feel betrayed tbh eventhough, that was just her past. So, i believe we need to be completely honest before marrying each other, the decision making is up to them either wanna continue or stop.
@@samsunkandroit8797 if she never married before, but she's non virgin, i think she should tell her past. But if she is a widow, it is okay for her for not sharing her pass with her ex husband.
@@yasirmohamed2920 You married her, please be PATIENT with her. Allah will reward you. Ask Allah for guidance and Insha Allah he will guide you both Aameen summa aameen 🤲.
@@ddg0907 why only the woman? I am open about my divorce and my ex husband even admitted it was his fault and married me for visa so because of this I now want to be alone. My life is ruined because of him but thank God I never loved him.
As the video explains very well it is recommended not mendatory so don't end up thinking that it means that virgins are better than non virgins or sth like that. Because the best among us to Allah is the most righteous one. The one that has more faoth and is more pious.
As a virgin, I'd want a virgin husband, but I don't place too much weight on virginity because firstly, you can't ever know if your spouse is pure, and seckndly, as far as I'm aware, you also can't ask if a person has done zina because if they have, they aren't allowed to reveal their sin to you, or anyone
Man that's so true! But if a spousespend their whole life doing righteous deeds and asks about your past relationships etc they deserve to know. Cuz u know, nowadays zina is so common in our society and if someone doesn't tell they could transfer their disease to eachother and their children would have to suffer
@@asadsyedali3841 oh, for sure. If they have an std or anything like that, then they must reveal their sin to their spouse since it will affect them too. But if they're clean and they know they're clean through testing, then in that case, as far as I know, they're forbidden from revealing their sin since it has no effect on their husband/wife
The man can put requirement in the contract that he wants a woman that has not commited zina in the past along with other requirements. You have to cancel the marriage contract in that case and move on. In this way you did not expose your past sins either.
@@ZiIIous You are unfortunately a very tiny minority and an honour to our Ummah and people. The majority can not claim this so I totally appreciate you and all those like you. Remain steadfast on the sunnah and never neglect your prayers. May Allah forever bless you. Ameen
@@skhanx Thanks but this isn't a good thing. The prophet(PBUH) ordered us to get married whenever possible, and I'm not planning on doing that. It's bad for society, the ummah, and yourself after death if people don't get married.
سلام عليكم.. Our beloved Messenger"Saw" was married to one virgin our Mother Aysha *Ra*.. Khadidja *Ra* was also previously married.. May Allah Guide and Bless us all.. Grant righteous children..
Most of his wives were widows.Divorced and widows are completely different.There were many political interest in those marriages.Those rules are not applicable today.
@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557 I agree it can work sometimes.But exceptions don't make the rules.Virgins should go for virgins and non virgins should go for non virgins.Its not that complicated.Even research and study proves that.
@deathmarch8354 yes.. If our Muslim Society was healthy family wise that's what would happen. But the World changed and circumstances too . And it much about common values and to appreciate differences character matters . Including personality..
Whenever the topic of Bidah comes up, to counter the argument many come up with questions like: "Did the Prophet ﷺ travel in a ship? Did the Salaf travel in cars and planes? Prove from the Sunnah that it is permissible to eat fried chicken?" One has to understand that vehicles, planes and ships are used only as a means to reach the destination, they are not part of Ibaadah in themselves. When we talk about Bidah, we are referring to innovations in the Deen only. We are not referring to innovations in Science and Technology. Anyways, to get to the point, by the Will of Allaah, if the people would commit to memory these two principles, they would protect their Deen and save themselves from doubts and confusion. The First Principle: In the matters of Ibaadah (Worship), everything is Haraam/not allowed unless proven from the Qur’aan and Sunnah. And the evidence for this is the saying of the Prophet ﷺ: ❝whosoever does an action which we have not commanded then it will be rejected.❞ And also: ❝whosoever introduces into this religion of ours that which is not part of it then it must be rejected.❞ And there are many more Ahaadeeth. The Second Principle: And in the matters of customs (food, clothing etc.), everything is allowed unless prohibited in the Qur’aan and Sunnah. And the evidence for this is the saying of Allaah تعالى : {Say: "Who has forbidden the adornment of Allaah which He has produced for His servants and the good [lawful] things of provision?"} [Surah al-A`raaf] And Allaah is the One who Grants success.
Yeah they do this in pakistan a lot whenever i tried to help my friend or neighbour that this is against the sunnah this is bid'aa Prophet (S.A.W) Did not do that then they have same these type of arguement about bulb, car, electricity, i replied them and to my best friend i said him come on seriously this is not about deen what do electricity do with Islam and then they just laugh anc change the topic May Allah Guide Them Ameen
@@ZesTheRealOsama same in Senegal. It is peaaak !! It is very hard to convince my family members, you can't even say the word "bida" without all hells breaking loose! may Allah help us !
It makes sense for a virgin to marry a virgin, but I don't see anywhere the Prophet advised all men (as you say in your introduction) to do that. Some men can handle marrying a woman with experience and some can't. I can see how it is a jealousy problem or an insecurity problem for some men. The important thing is to marry someone you get along with. I don't think religious practices depend on supply and demand either. There are so many incidents in Islam where Allah invites you to overcome your prejudices and execute justice, not just your whims. The Prophet married 5 divorced/widowed women so he obviously had no problem with it.
Assalamu Aleykum The video doesn't say not marry the divorced or widowed but he is basically saying when there is two good thing people of course choose the better one like you said if she doesn't have prior experience good for you but if you find some one who has marriage experience and you okay with it then of course marry that is the kinda message the rasool (SAW) gave him marrying the widowed showed us it is okay to marry them an example would be if a widowed or divorced women get 2 marriage proposals one from younger than her and has no prior experience and one who is older than her and has been through marriages or just divorce which one would she choose yacne basic logic
The prophet married widowed woman not divorced.If you are Muslim you already why he married them.Because widowed women were frowned upon.And there were many political interest behind them.And stop calling people who wants virgins insecure.
Whoever Allah give me. I din't mind if he is divorced, younger then me, as long that we both at the same belief in Allah the only God and creator of everything
Don't put us all in the same basket. I did not ask for a specific amount of mahr, anything he can afford. I did not want a party, we did something small in the living room. I did not even wear a wedding dress or invite any of my friends. Good women still exist you know. We are just not on social media (I have zero pictures of me on social media and I am active nowhere). Also I have a university degree but I chose to be a stay at home mom. So please just look for a sister who is very VERY serious about the deen, who is private, shy, has good morals, is NOT on social media, is willing to focus on her family rather than her career etc. Make tons of duaas and ask around, that's how I found my husband. Edit: ask around = ask brothers if they know pious sisters (their own sisters , cousins, sister of a friend etc)
@@sisterfleur7523 It's been more than 3 years now.. can't find someone like the one you mentioned to get married.. Intact I'm the one being made fun of.. like people (even close family members and friends) say that you will never find anyone with this mindset of yours in these times.
@@muhammadusmanazhar7441 this happens to a lot of good brothers and sisters. Even daees on youtube like Ali Dawah struggled for a LONG TIME. It's not easy indeed but you WILL find the one if you keep making duas, I used to wake up in the middle of the night and ask Allah after a prayer ! And *please keep asking pious people* if they know someone pious who wants to get married. If they have a wife tell them to tell their wife to look for a sister.
@@muhammadusmanazhar7441 and don't listen to people. Most people have been contaminated by postmodernism mindset. They can't even comprehend what you want and why it's important. It's not even their fault sometimes, though I never understand why they make fun... happened to me, don't worry. Allah knows that our way is the right way
@@sisterfleur7523 Yes indeed it's really difficult. But thanks for the moral support 😇. And yes I ask Allah for a pious spouse in my daily prayers and now I will also try to establish the night prayer Insha'Allah.
I can bear witness to Prophet (S.A.W)'s recommendation that A Man should strive to marry a virgin as far as possible but for reasons with a focus different and In my humble opinion deeper then the ones you have mentioned here. And Allah Subhan wa Ta'Ala knows best. and May Allah Subhan wa Ta'aAla grant me a virgin Wife who is a Rehamat for me from Allah Rabbul Izzat . Aameen ! :)
Zina is different....non virgin is different....not necessary who is non virgin committed sin Zina kabira gunnah ...the video says about divorcee widower as non virgin ....understand the video...@Hasan Ali
Virginity isn't necessarily and indication for piety. A person could have done all type of sin but zina. We scale which sin is more frowned upon from a worldly perspective. There are other major sins which are committed more frequently but they're brushed off as less severe like f.e. riba. Despite it being a major sin it is given less backlash than zina. Not only that but zina has become normalized in the Ummah too now. Especially for males with their families knowing. Men and women aren't held to the same standard when it comes to zina. At the end of the day, we aren't allowed to ask about a persons past so unless someone has been married before ~which doesn't necessarily mean they had sex~ or if there is a child, we have no evidence for someone being a virgin or not. Personally, I'd choose someone who isn't a virgin,has repented and is pious on their deen over someone who is a virgin but doesn't follow Islam.
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot False. The biggest sin is shirk which is associating anything with Allah. If you are to follow any other religion but Islam that's what someone is doing. Unless you're Christian who is a monotheist and lives by the original scripts.
Men play the field and experience the joy marrying a virgin for men is more of a kick because it brings the joy of entering a closed door but if it’s a experienced woman she can also compare and men are afraid of that comparison if men play the field so do some woman best option two people like each other marry and enjoy each other
nothing wrong, I myself am a virgin man and want to marry a virgin woman aswell. Don't let these people fool you into thinking that wanting a virgin partner when you yourself are a virgin is unreasonable
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Assim made a mistake. In the west, women will choose a man who is experienced before they'll choose an inexperienced man. The Muslim women are no better in this regard in the west. Through both the western disbelieving women and the western Muslimahs alike, the Muslimahs in Muslim nations are taking on these same ideas. The 80-20 rule will eventually apply to the Muslim lands, too.
@@sonofadam7633, it's the pattern in the west in which most women want the same few men, resulting in most of them sharing, knowingly and unknowingly, these men, and the majority of men just wind up single in the end.
I am western reverted and I dream to marry a virgin ,being a virgin myself,since age of 18. actually before i wanted a pure man ,but i realized with age that men cant be pure in according to my idea of pureness ( wich i sadly realiized being not realistic ) . After islam i was thinking may be i could find someone virgin but even muslim men sometimes are not virgins, So you who talk about west in such biased way please try not have prejudices and wrong ideas about us western women anymore . thanks
Thank you! I could not agree more. This hurts our deen and feelings because women or men might feel like a failure. That was a very different time. And also, people make mistakes or have a story such as having a failed marriage. People can still be playful and sweet even if they had a partner previously.
When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?' Prophet Muhammad himself said that it is more enjoyable(for both genders) to marry a virgin and it is preferred. Dont blame the video producer these are words of our prophet and we accept his words.
@@ambermshana9863 If they are zani or zaniyah and looking for a virgin spoise they you cant make excuse for them, they are hypocrites. And if they have done taubah, There are other zani or zaniah that may have done tauba too, they can marry each other. If they are divorcees or widows they can have options in other divorcees and widowers and for women they have the option of being co wives. So dont feel that if person isnt a virgin or divorced or is a widow they wont be wanted anymore, islam has system in place so that they can enter the marriage by some means. But if a man or woman wants to marry a virgin and they are virgin themselves we cant judge them. Its is recommended by our beloved prophet in the hadith i mentioned above.
I know a well educated dheeni girl who still involved in daawa. Unfortunately she got married to a guy from dheeni family, but he was not practicing islam and addicted to drugs and started mentally torturing her. The moment she realised this she depressed, she expected a dheeni partner and got this cheater. The guy was selected by her parents. Within 2 months she divorced him. I think she need a dheeni virgin partner in her life & I want to be that guy. Isn’t it preferable over virginity?
Sex is the most intimate thing that can happening bettwen Men and women and sex is much intimate for women than for Men why because in sex Men enter in woman body .
What about for women who were raped? They already have shame and sadness should they continued to feel shame? Because women are weaker then men it's not like she can fight him off
@@elias14488 I wish it was like that with my family. They are Christian. They even let the one that did it live with us after and said be a good Christian girl forgive and forget. It was very traumatizing.
What if I married a non virgin girl who is breakup with his bf but she loves me soo much and live as my life partner should I marry such girl I love her too
Yeah if she repent to Allah u should do it everyone has a past and one thing i am telling you there are reverts who have this problem don't ruin your present because of past Everything will be okay make sure don't realise her past it's hurt don't worry Allah will take care of you may Allah bless you with his blessing and mercy 😊
He wanted to say that there are fewer and fewer men who ask women to marry. He reminds us that it is up to men to take the first step in marriage and not up to women to do so.
Salam Alaikom! From 2.55-3.20 the Sheikh says that it is many unmarried women and that it is fewer men that are avalable for marriage. And the Sheikh also says that it is the men who are supposed to go after (or approach) the females, in halal manners of course, and that the females are not the ones who shall approach the males. If you want/need a more detailed or examples just let me know and I will try my best to explain it further. Salam Alaikom
YOU SHOULD ALWAYS MARRY ACCORDING TO YAHWE AND SOLOMON THE WISE IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO WIN LUST UNLESS MARRIED ORTHODOX CHURCH ADVISE MARRY ALWAYS. BE VIRGIN OR MARRY VIRGIN TO VIRGIN. MOSLIM SUNA TOO SAY MARY BUT PAUL ADVICE IS ONLY FOR FEW WHO STAY VIRGIN LIKE ELIJAH ALEHU SELAM AND NEBY ISA ALEHU SELAM WE SELEM WE SELEM IT IS NOT FOR ALL. MAN MUST CHOOSE ONLY ONE WIFE IT IS BEST IF HE DID.
First they said they can marry 4 women... Again they said we Muslim men can marry none Muslim women and now the prophet pbuh said marry virgin girls, wow wow to you sheikhs.
Islam teaches us to marry 4 only if you can do justice between them in all aspects of life. Secondly Muslim men are allowed to marry only Christian and Jewish women not all non Muslims and conditions apply also men are the head of the household not the other way. And lastly it is not a must for a man to marry Virgin but its better as study shows.
Bruh, you think all a relationship is about is s3x, but it's really not. A man in islam has the responsibility to look after his wife/wives. He TAKES CARE of her/them. It's a noble thing, not something disgusting as idiots view it. That being said, a woman can still choose to marry/stay married with a man with more wives. That's her own choice. Personally, I would prefer to have a 1-1 relationship, but I have no problems with other households being structured differently. I mean, if the other wives are like friends, it could even be really fun to be with each other a lot, I could imagine. As for the marrying non-muslims part, that more specifically means they can marry the people of the book. And tbh, you barely even find them anywhere anymore anyway. Why women shouldn't, is for her own sake. Men are physically stronger than women and a non-muslim man would be more capable of oppressing a woman in practicing islamic acts than visa versa. As for the virgin part, this is not obligatory at all. It's just that virgin women are usually more loyal and such, so that's why men were advised to marry them before non-virgin women, I assume. Of course, there are also widowers, but - especially these days - that's the smaller amount of non-virgin women. And there are also women that want to marry a virgin man also. And we may want that, cuz it's mostly still someone's personal choice.
@@rangefromtblt4047 why will a man need for him to pay more bills? the way I see is that he is not thinking with his head but rather what is in between his legs.
@@noshintasnim3205 Aisha RA was his third wife, basically Prophet Mohammad SAW married a widow when he was a virgin himself, then another widow as second wife, then he married a virgin, and after her all others were widows and divorcess... In this video they say a virgin should marry another virgin, basically they are saying Prophet Mohammad SAW is recommending to all men to do something he himself didn't do... Unfortunately this video is a misguided attempt of male fantasy trying to justify wanting a virgin with Hadith... There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a virgin, but don't twist a Hadith to fit your narrative is what I would say to those who made this video.
JazzakAllah hayr that was great but men shouldn't be blind abt it personally i wouldn't mind even though i am a virgin but i want to have a young wife that can give birth
This is extremely misguiding and not all hadiths are authentic.. As far as I'm concerned prophet sm recommended to marry widowers because they have more experience in marital life.. Marriage is not only about physical need it depends on a lot of stuff more than that.. Anyways... Above everything a good person at heart is all that matters because a person can be virgin or non virgin and still depending on that ersons nature your life can be extreamly hard or extreamly joyful.. May Allah bless us with rightoues spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and peace of our hearts
to marry a virgin is not about phisical need at all. it is about emotional needs. nothing more romantic to marry a guy who just loved you in all his life.
@@samsunkandroit8797 A persons character and taqwa is strongly correlated with chastity. It is one of the biggest indicators because staying away from sexual sin is so difficult. Only the real pious ones can stay away from it.
im dorry but in the past first of all there was a virgin a virgin right? Today is not every woman who wasnt previous married automatically a virgin. and we are also forbidden to marry a man of zina if we never make zina. its also recommend that these virgin where married at the age of 9 years. do you see a brother with his 10 years old wife? in this case, sorry brothers, you should watch in these days just marry a woman who WANTS TO PRAY, WHO WANTS wear hijab properly, who wants to be on deen without feminism. we are in a other generation where you should choose whats "on the market" or you stay alone and maybe commit zina because you are waiting for your perfect virgin. and by the way in the earlier days the virgins didnt want a mahr of 10000€ and a big wedding etc... for me as a divorced woman i feel like im gonna die alone because of one hadith WHICH arent complete by many of the videos ..
😂😂😂😂😂 . Sex is the most intimate thing that can happening bettwen Men and women and sex is much intimate for women than for Men why because in sex Men enter in woman body a non virgin woman is a easy woman with nothing to offer . Generation don t change sex intimacy. So stfu 😊 Men don t beed to marry w#0re many are still virgin even at 25 they are not western woman. Yes we east Peoples need laws and punishments to prevent our morality to be distroy we had such laws in past we shall have again.
Can yoi reference a hadithabout 1st? i know that he told muslim men to marry widows but not as their 1st wives, he just said that marry them can also be 2nd 3rd or 4th wives
Both are supposed to be virgin. It is recommended in the hadith When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?' But because hadith is in the male context hence sheikh said what he said but it is referring to both genders
This mufti/shaikh/imam is extrenely suspiscious. He has said sooo many things that are INCORRECT. I would never listen to this man. And therefore I will avoid your chanel going forward, since you post anyones video. And a music that carries subliminal messages. Music is haram. It seems your one of those channels that post good stuff, and once you have a following, you start posting stuff to deviate from the right path.
What is incorrect? Everything the sheikh said is correct I have read the hadith which the sheikh is referring to. It’s better to marry a virgin than non-virgin.
@@comptebisdoc6611 i still have to do my research on this specific topic, but if this man is correct, why would the Prophet Muhammad PBUH marry a woman who had been divorced/widowed twice and had children. Muhammad PBUH received prophethood while He was married to Hazrat Khadija RA. I have listened to many of this sheikhs videos and he is NOT trustworthy. He seems more of a tool of the west, he could be interpreting the Hadith in the wrong way, I just dont trust this Sheikh, he had been wrong so many times. You can watch other of his bayans and know figure out yourself. Therefore I do not trust him. I hope people do more research on the topic before making this a compulsory thing to do. Marrying and giving a family to a widow/divorced with children is a Sunnah. Becoming the father, and taking care of children who didnt have one, and taking care of them, is a Sunnah. Our Prophet Muhammad PBUH was a beautiful kind man, ap Sallalahu Alaihi Wa Alihi Wassalam.
Whether a divorced woman, a widower, or a virgin girl it doesn’t matter, my Dua to Allah is to grant me a spouse who will be a coolness to my eyes, a blessing and a a righteous woman, a woman whose heart is engulfed with the Deen and the love for Allah.
Mashallah brother
Masha Allah 🤲
subhanAllah
Learn of the male and female brain
Understand the females belief in islam and not what she has learnt as a copy of another as anyone can repeat but believers say what they see in their minds
If she’s western mix islam as a feminist your doom with struggles as she is confused just like men but a good home needs a woman men can build the good home but a woman makes that good home
If she has lived a life of joy and has great sexual with previous men then when she meets those men…… you can never match the experience you have to be better or the hormone oxytocin they create is only a copy of what we create so intercourse is not the same for us men.
Mohammed stated a believing daughter will cure your records of great sins and two will get you to heaven. If you are not able to teach your children then understand you have ruined lives of many good men. Mother’s ruin sons as both parents teach the child money is more important then our Allaah.
Women are higher prone to anxiety and the system we live by is designed to ruin men and make woman masculine. If you want a righteous woman then invest in a Muslim women from a Islamic orphanage as she has nothing but dreams and prays for a man that will love her and she asks Allaah to be loyal.
I have seen only men suffer in the western world and their explanations makes sense where as women state what they saw in movies the same story and finish I gave up my happiness. They cover their hair as the pressure of doing your hair no man can be healthy eating pasta and women who want kids do dream of touching poo but claim they don’t. So ensure you stay away from zinah and you pray the night pray as why do you desire a good believing woman when you will ruin her.
The believing woman is for the believing man and the believing man is for the believing woman. Do not fear I will give you a believing spouse and believing children. You will be of same age in heaven.
The practice of patience is mentioned over and over throughout the Quran.
You don’t know what Allaah will give you and when as stated the prophets pbuhta had a greater trail and they too stood steadfast for the bounty for Allaah so be patient regardless of what the public or community state to you
Go ahead please😂.
If you're a virgin man like me, I think we deserve to marry a virgin woman. May Allah make it easy for us. Ameen
Ameen
amin brother. ive been with touched girls and brothers. its al waste of time wait for halal it will be worth it !
@@electrictechniq7160 ya bro i m waiting i stay away from girls☝️💯
Brother stay away from clubs. Make your 5 daily prayers and put all of your trust in Allah swt.
@@Unknowntodayandtomorrow yes everyone is entitled to their own standards we dont have to explain, but just to cool you down, listen to this: the prophet had nine wives, no muslim man is allowed to do that, the prophet married his wives so that he would unite the islamic state the prophets wives were not allowed to be married after he died,again, this is only specific to the prophets case, he himself commanded muslim men to marry virgins yet you want to tell us not to???!!!!!!weather he diserves a virgin or not, its for the market to dictate
This makes sense, study’s prove that women with prior partners are likely to compare you to those partners subconsciously, which can lead to dissatisfaction and conflict. Nevertheless, it’s hard to find women like that now a days. May Allah help us good men find good pious women, preferably virgins, but more importantly women who will stay loyal, respect us, and love us. If Allah blesses us with that, may He keep us humble and grateful🤲.
O Allah please allow those men who get married to a virgin or NOT, have the Deen and worship YOU according to Quran and Sunnah, that should be the first thing on their minds! We women all have different experiences and will do just fine as wives/mothers (VIRGINS, WIDOWS etc) Allah is in Control of our Destiny! Ameen ❤ 🖤
We all can marry any women, it is just that recommended that it would be better to marry virgin. Listen to the whole video
Ameen 🙏 Aisha Maddox
How to prepare mind for second marriage,
Go for virgin. It's less headache
@@akhwiththehaqq the non virgin is subconsciously going to compare you to her previous lovers. Another factor women hide their bad reputation for example she will say she just had one bf who she slept with but in reality she slept with 20 different guys. So a virgin you know no one has been there. But it depends on you if the women was married and husband died its understandable. If its going to be your 2nd wife then it's ok. But in overall you would want a virgin daughter for your son right? Why ? Because you know what's best for you
For all non-virgin men and non-virgin women, if you want your marriage and intimacy to be great: Don't talk about your previous experiences.
I'm very serious. A huge amount of bad feelings come from idiots talking about their past. Just don't.
Very true
I'm not agree with you, what will the husband feel, when suddenly there is a guy(ex bf of the wife) come to him and show a picture of the wife with the ex having intercourse, or telling bout her dark past to the husband? The husband will feel betrayed tbh eventhough, that was just her past. So, i believe we need to be completely honest before marrying each other, the decision making is up to them either wanna continue or stop.
@@samsunkandroit8797 if she never married before, but she's non virgin, i think she should tell her past. But if she is a widow, it is okay for her for not sharing her pass with her ex husband.
@@yasirmohamed2920 You married her, please be PATIENT with her. Allah will reward you. Ask Allah for guidance and Insha Allah he will guide you both Aameen summa aameen 🤲.
Absolutely true.
Lovely video. ❤💙💚💜 I have no idea how people take this negatively, but some people just want to hate.
I personally want to marry a devorsed girl because every one need a second chance plus life is not perfect so be careful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😎❤️😎
Be careful brother, divorced women can be the cause of their divorce.
You're kind and a beautiful soul ✨
MashaaAllah😊
@@ambermshana9863 Salaam Amber how are u
@@ddg0907 why only the woman? I am open about my divorce and my ex husband even admitted it was his fault and married me for visa so because of this I now want to be alone. My life is ruined because of him but thank God I never loved him.
As the video explains very well it is recommended not mendatory so don't end up thinking that it means that virgins are better than non virgins or sth like that. Because the best among us to Allah is the most righteous one. The one that has more faoth and is more pious.
As a virgin, I'd want a virgin husband, but I don't place too much weight on virginity because firstly, you can't ever know if your spouse is pure, and seckndly, as far as I'm aware, you also can't ask if a person has done zina because if they have, they aren't allowed to reveal their sin to you, or anyone
Man that's so true! But if a spousespend their whole life doing righteous deeds and asks about your past relationships etc they deserve to know. Cuz u know, nowadays zina is so common in our society and if someone doesn't tell they could transfer their disease to eachother and their children would have to suffer
@@asadsyedali3841 oh, for sure. If they have an std or anything like that, then they must reveal their sin to their spouse since it will affect them too. But if they're clean and they know they're clean through testing, then in that case, as far as I know, they're forbidden from revealing their sin since it has no effect on their husband/wife
May Allah swt grant us a spouse and offsprings who will be the coolness of our eyes ameen!🙏
The man can put requirement in the contract that he wants a woman that has not commited zina in the past along with other requirements. You have to cancel the marriage contract in that case and move on. In this way you did not expose your past sins either.
yes you are correct
Second because Allah is always first
ASTAGHFIRULLAH
Ashalah; allah is the most great
@@doge9693 ?
@Qᴜɪᴄᴋ Sᴀɴᴅ tell more of it that is degrading
Oh Allah, forgive all of our past, present, and future sins, Ameen.
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
No one gives you anything in life. You gotta work hard and go after it to get it.
A virgin man is a requirement for me. I will expect nothing less. Otherwise, I won't marry. Idc what others say.
Be prepared to marry someone 18 or less. Good Luck
@Sha Na 👌🏿👍🏿
@@skhanx What does that even mean? There are too many muslims who are still virgin in their 20s, including myself.
@@ZiIIous You are unfortunately a very tiny minority and an honour to our Ummah and people. The majority can not claim this so I totally appreciate you and all those like you. Remain steadfast on the sunnah and never neglect your prayers. May Allah forever bless you. Ameen
@@skhanx Thanks but this isn't a good thing. The prophet(PBUH) ordered us to get married whenever possible, and I'm not planning on doing that.
It's bad for society, the ummah, and yourself after death if people don't get married.
Virgin or non-virgin may Allah bless us with the right spouse inshallah
سلام عليكم..
Our beloved Messenger"Saw" was married to one virgin our Mother Aysha *Ra*..
Khadidja *Ra* was also previously married..
May Allah Guide and Bless us all..
Grant righteous children..
Most of his wives were widows.Divorced and widows are completely different.There were many political interest in those marriages.Those rules are not applicable today.
@deathmarch8354 maybe not .
It not suppose to be abused, but it's Halal and sometimes works fine .
@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557 I agree it can work sometimes.But exceptions don't make the rules.Virgins should go for virgins and non virgins should go for non virgins.Its not that complicated.Even research and study proves that.
@deathmarch8354 yes..
If our Muslim Society was healthy family wise that's what would happen.
But the World changed and circumstances too .
And it much about common values and to appreciate differences character matters .
Including personality..
Sallallahu alaihi wasallam 💖💖💖
Sallallahu alaihi wasallam 💖💖💖
Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ❤️❤️❤️
Whenever the topic of Bidah comes up, to counter the argument many come up with questions like:
"Did the Prophet ﷺ travel in a ship?
Did the Salaf travel in cars and planes?
Prove from the Sunnah that it is permissible to eat fried chicken?"
One has to understand that vehicles, planes and ships are used only as a means to reach the destination, they are not part of Ibaadah in themselves.
When we talk about Bidah, we are referring to innovations in the Deen only. We are not referring to innovations in Science and Technology.
Anyways, to get to the point, by the Will of Allaah, if the people would commit to memory these two principles, they would protect their Deen and save themselves from doubts and confusion.
The First Principle:
In the matters of Ibaadah (Worship), everything is Haraam/not allowed unless proven from the Qur’aan and Sunnah.
And the evidence for this is the saying of the Prophet ﷺ: ❝whosoever does an action which we have not commanded then it will be rejected.❞
And also: ❝whosoever introduces into this religion of ours that which is not part of it then it must be rejected.❞
And there are many more Ahaadeeth.
The Second Principle:
And in the matters of customs (food, clothing etc.), everything is allowed unless prohibited in the Qur’aan and Sunnah.
And the evidence for this is the saying of Allaah تعالى :
{Say: "Who has forbidden the adornment of Allaah which He has produced for His servants and the good [lawful] things of provision?"} [Surah al-A`raaf]
And Allaah is the One who Grants success.
Thank you dear Brother
I found their arguments utterly ignorant. And annoying
That what i agree completely....
Yeah they do this in pakistan a lot whenever i tried to help my friend or neighbour that this is against the sunnah this is bid'aa Prophet (S.A.W) Did not do that then they have same these type of arguement about bulb, car, electricity, i replied them and to my best friend i said him come on seriously this is not about deen what do electricity do with Islam and then they just laugh anc change the topic May Allah Guide Them Ameen
@@ZesTheRealOsama same in Senegal. It is peaaak !! It is very hard to convince my family members, you can't even say the word "bida" without all hells breaking loose! may Allah help us !
It makes sense for a virgin to marry a virgin, but I don't see anywhere the Prophet advised all men (as you say in your introduction) to do that. Some men can handle marrying a woman with experience and some can't. I can see how it is a jealousy problem or an insecurity problem for some men. The important thing is to marry someone you get along with. I don't think religious practices depend on supply and demand either. There are so many incidents in Islam where Allah invites you to overcome your prejudices and execute justice, not just your whims. The Prophet married 5 divorced/widowed women so he obviously had no problem with it.
Assalamu Aleykum The video doesn't say not marry the divorced or widowed but he is basically saying when there is two good thing people of course choose the better one like you said if she doesn't have prior experience good for you but if you find some one who has marriage experience and you okay with it then of course marry that is the kinda message the rasool (SAW) gave him marrying the widowed showed us it is okay to marry them an example would be if a widowed or divorced women get 2 marriage proposals one from younger than her and has no prior experience and one who is older than her and has been through marriages or just divorce which one would she choose yacne basic logic
The prophet married widowed woman not divorced.If you are Muslim you already why he married them.Because widowed women were frowned upon.And there were many political interest behind them.And stop calling people who wants virgins insecure.
Whoever Allah give me. I din't mind if he is divorced, younger then me, as long that we both at the same belief in Allah the only God and creator of everything
I don't know why marriages have to be difficult. Nowadays women are different compared to the past.
Don't put us all in the same basket. I did not ask for a specific amount of mahr, anything he can afford. I did not want a party, we did something small in the living room. I did not even wear a wedding dress or invite any of my friends. Good women still exist you know. We are just not on social media (I have zero pictures of me on social media and I am active nowhere). Also I have a university degree but I chose to be a stay at home mom. So please just look for a sister who is very VERY serious about the deen, who is private, shy, has good morals, is NOT on social media, is willing to focus on her family rather than her career etc. Make tons of duaas and ask around, that's how I found my husband.
Edit: ask around = ask brothers if they know pious sisters (their own sisters , cousins, sister of a friend etc)
@@sisterfleur7523 It's been more than 3 years now.. can't find someone like the one you mentioned to get married.. Intact I'm the one being made fun of.. like people (even close family members and friends) say that you will never find anyone with this mindset of yours in these times.
@@muhammadusmanazhar7441 this happens to a lot of good brothers and sisters. Even daees on youtube like Ali Dawah struggled for a LONG TIME. It's not easy indeed but you WILL find the one if you keep making duas, I used to wake up in the middle of the night and ask Allah after a prayer ! And *please keep asking pious people* if they know someone pious who wants to get married. If they have a wife tell them to tell their wife to look for a sister.
@@muhammadusmanazhar7441 and don't listen to people. Most people have been contaminated by postmodernism mindset. They can't even comprehend what you want and why it's important. It's not even their fault sometimes, though I never understand why they make fun... happened to me, don't worry. Allah knows that our way is the right way
@@sisterfleur7523 Yes indeed it's really difficult. But thanks for the moral support 😇. And yes I ask Allah for a pious spouse in my daily prayers and now I will also try to establish the night prayer Insha'Allah.
I can bear witness to Prophet (S.A.W)'s recommendation that A Man should strive to marry a virgin as far as possible but for reasons with a focus different and In my humble opinion deeper then the ones you have mentioned here.
And Allah Subhan wa Ta'Ala knows best.
and May Allah Subhan wa Ta'aAla grant me a virgin Wife who is a Rehamat for me from Allah Rabbul Izzat .
Aameen ! :)
Virgin or not as long as she's connected to Allah that's what matters the most ❤
If she was born a muslim and was connected to allah she would be a virgin before her 1st marriage anyway.
Zina is different....non virgin is different....not necessary who is non virgin committed sin Zina kabira gunnah ...the video says about divorcee widower as non virgin ....understand the video...@Hasan Ali
Our Prophet married only one virgin.
All his other women weren't virgins.
Thanks to ALLAH, this goes for both parties 😁😁😁
Mashallah may Allah be pleased with her Aisha.
Virgin for virgin and non virgin for non virgin man or woman same to same
Mashallah ❤🤲🏽الله
Virginity isn't necessarily and indication for piety. A person could have done all type of sin but zina. We scale which sin is more frowned upon from a worldly perspective. There are other major sins which are committed more frequently but they're brushed off as less severe like f.e. riba. Despite it being a major sin it is given less backlash than zina. Not only that but zina has become normalized in the Ummah too now. Especially for males with their families knowing. Men and women aren't held to the same standard when it comes to zina.
At the end of the day, we aren't allowed to ask about a persons past so unless someone has been married before ~which doesn't necessarily mean they had sex~ or if there is a child, we have no evidence for someone being a virgin or not.
Personally, I'd choose someone who isn't a virgin,has repented and is pious on their deen over someone who is a virgin but doesn't follow Islam.
Lol exactly
Person who hasnt commited a sin is better than the one who has commited and repented.
Morally speaking, a Christian who has stayed a virgin is better than a Muslim who has slept around. Your example is wrong
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot False. The biggest sin is shirk which is associating anything with Allah. If you are to follow any other religion but Islam that's what someone is doing. Unless you're Christian who is a monotheist and lives by the original scripts.
@@parasol1521 im not a Muslim and not all Christians believe in a trinity
Mashallah 🤲🏾❤️
Virgin girl is like gold 😀
I invite you to say ⚘
La illaha ila Allah
Subhanallah
Alhamdullilah
A widower is a male Ya Sheikh
Thanks for sharing this message
English is not his first language, focus on the message and not the language that was conveyed. May Allah make us understand the deen.
Men play the field and experience the joy marrying a virgin for men is more of a kick because it brings the joy of entering a closed door but if it’s a experienced woman she can also compare and men are afraid of that comparison if men play the field so do some woman best option two people like each other marry and enjoy each other
Yeah, I do keep my virginity, but low-key I also wanna marry a virgin guy. Actually high-key. Lol.
nothing wrong, I myself am a virgin man and want to marry a virgin woman aswell.
Don't let these people fool you into thinking that wanting a virgin partner when you yourself are a virgin is unreasonable
LA ILAHA ILLALLAH MUHAMMADUR RASULULLAH🌺
SUBHANALLAHI WA BIHAMDIHI SUBHANALLAHIL~AZEEM ALHAMDULILLAH ALLAHU AKBAR Astaghfirullah Al Azeem🌺 ALLAHUMMA SALLI 'ALA SAYYIDINA MUHAMMADIN WA' ALA ALI SAYYIDINA MUHAMMADIN WA BAARIK WA SALLIM🌺
Ya Allah Forgive Us
Assim made a mistake. In the west, women will choose a man who is experienced before they'll choose an inexperienced man. The Muslim women are no better in this regard in the west. Through both the western disbelieving women and the western Muslimahs alike, the Muslimahs in Muslim nations are taking on these same ideas. The 80-20 rule will eventually apply to the Muslim lands, too.
Lol never in a million year. And I don't know any pious woman who would do that (and I know pleeeenty)
what is 80 20 rule
@@sisterfleur7523 what is 80 20 rule
@@sonofadam7633, it's the pattern in the west in which most women want the same few men, resulting in most of them sharing, knowingly and unknowingly, these men, and the majority of men just wind up single in the end.
I am western reverted and I dream to marry a virgin ,being a virgin myself,since age of 18. actually before i wanted a pure man ,but i realized with age that men cant be pure in according to my idea of pureness ( wich i sadly realiized being not realistic ) . After islam i was thinking may be i could find someone virgin but even muslim men sometimes are not virgins, So you who talk about west in such biased way please try not have prejudices and wrong ideas about us western women anymore . thanks
As-Salaam Alaikum
What about the ones of us who used to go astray and do haram things and now is devoted to Islam after doing tawbah?
@Qᴜɪᴄᴋ Sᴀɴᴅ Assalamu Alaikum. Thank you very much, Sister/Brother! This helps a lot, Jazakallah Khayr. Allah is the Most Merciful.
So to marry a virgin is more enjoyable as the speaker commented lol , these kind of videos are awful to watch no benefit for our deen
Thank you! I could not agree more. This hurts our deen and feelings because women or men might feel like a failure. That was a very different time. And also, people make mistakes or have a story such as having a failed marriage. People can still be playful and sweet even if they had a partner previously.
When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'
Prophet Muhammad himself said that it is more enjoyable(for both genders) to marry a virgin and it is preferred.
Dont blame the video producer these are words of our prophet and we accept his words.
@@ambermshana9863 If they are zani or zaniyah and looking for a virgin spoise they you cant make excuse for them, they are hypocrites.
And if they have done taubah,
There are other zani or zaniah that may have done tauba too, they can marry each other.
If they are divorcees or widows they can have options in other divorcees and widowers and for women they have the option of being co wives.
So dont feel that if person isnt a virgin or divorced or is a widow they wont be wanted anymore, islam has system in place so that they can enter the marriage by some means.
But if a man or woman wants to marry a virgin and they are virgin themselves we cant judge them. Its is recommended by our beloved prophet in the hadith i mentioned above.
الله أكبر
I need this recommendation, thanks
❤❤❤❤
What's the nasheed name ?
It’s an Honor in Islam.
Then woman don't need to be a second wife we also want a virgin man
are you married
Its is fine,
Its upto the women,
Infact thats good coz prophet of allah have recommended.
You can you have the same right to ask for virgin. The thing is if a virgin takes someone who was married thats the thing
This is also the reverse I mean women should take young virgin man I read that the reason is that a young man should take young women and vice versa
I know a well educated dheeni girl who still involved in daawa. Unfortunately she got married to a guy from dheeni family, but he was not practicing islam and addicted to drugs and started mentally torturing her. The moment she realised this she depressed, she expected a dheeni partner and got this cheater. The guy was selected by her parents. Within 2 months she divorced him.
I think she need a dheeni virgin partner in her life & I want to be that guy.
Isn’t it preferable over virginity?
Sex is the most intimate thing that can happening bettwen Men and women and sex is much intimate for women than for Men why because in sex Men enter in woman body .
@@Zamolxes-eg5yv a zani is a zani . Regardless whether it's a man or woman.
What about for women who were raped? They already have shame and sadness should they continued to feel shame?
Because women are weaker then men it's not like she can fight him off
In islam, that woman is still considered a virgin. Thats the beauty of islam
@@elias14488 I wish it was like that with my family. They are Christian. They even let the one that did it live with us after and said be a good Christian girl forgive and forget. It was very traumatizing.
What if I married a non virgin girl who is breakup with his bf but she loves me soo much and live as my life partner should I marry such girl I love her too
Yeah if she repent to Allah u should do it everyone has a past and one thing i am telling you there are reverts who have this problem don't ruin your present because of past Everything will be okay make sure don't realise her past it's hurt don't worry Allah will take care of you may Allah bless you with his blessing and mercy 😊
@@Rahat_98 that's true but sometimes past haunts you which is heartbreaking.
Can anyone explain me 2.55 to 3.20 sentences.. I’m only 20 didn’t understood those hard sentences..
There are many who are asexual and some are homosexual men and alot of man are in prison,so there is less men available for the sisters to marry
He wanted to say that there are fewer and fewer men who ask women to marry. He reminds us that it is up to men to take the first step in marriage and not up to women to do so.
Salam Alaikom!
From 2.55-3.20 the Sheikh says that it is many unmarried women and that it is fewer men that are avalable for marriage.
And the Sheikh also says that it is the men who are supposed to go after (or approach) the females, in halal manners of course, and that the females are not the ones who shall approach the males.
If you want/need a more detailed or examples just let me know and I will try my best to explain it further.
Salam Alaikom
@@aidasjournal Thank you ma'am . Got it.
Allah bless you.
well our beloved prophets first wife Khadija is a divorcee
A widow.
There is a difference between a zani and a divorcee.
A virgin is a noth married woman !
No means a woman Who never have any type of sex .
YOU SHOULD ALWAYS MARRY ACCORDING TO YAHWE AND SOLOMON THE WISE IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO WIN LUST UNLESS MARRIED ORTHODOX CHURCH ADVISE MARRY ALWAYS. BE VIRGIN OR MARRY VIRGIN TO VIRGIN. MOSLIM SUNA TOO SAY MARY BUT PAUL ADVICE IS ONLY FOR FEW WHO STAY VIRGIN LIKE ELIJAH ALEHU SELAM AND NEBY ISA ALEHU SELAM WE SELEM WE SELEM IT IS NOT FOR ALL. MAN MUST CHOOSE ONLY ONE WIFE IT IS BEST IF HE DID.
Asalamalykum brothers and sisters
Walykumsalaam 😊
First they said they can marry 4 women... Again they said we Muslim men can marry none Muslim women and now the prophet pbuh said marry virgin girls, wow wow to you sheikhs.
Islam teaches us to marry 4 only if you can do justice between them in all aspects of life. Secondly Muslim men are allowed to marry only Christian and Jewish women not all non Muslims and conditions apply also men are the head of the household not the other way. And lastly it is not a must for a man to marry Virgin but its better as study shows.
islam is guidance amd a mercy d=so follow it
@@abdulqadirabdi4759 _Well-said, brother._
Bruh, you think all a relationship is about is s3x, but it's really not. A man in islam has the responsibility to look after his wife/wives. He TAKES CARE of her/them. It's a noble thing, not something disgusting as idiots view it. That being said, a woman can still choose to marry/stay married with a man with more wives. That's her own choice. Personally, I would prefer to have a 1-1 relationship, but I have no problems with other households being structured differently. I mean, if the other wives are like friends, it could even be really fun to be with each other a lot, I could imagine.
As for the marrying non-muslims part, that more specifically means they can marry the people of the book. And tbh, you barely even find them anywhere anymore anyway. Why women shouldn't, is for her own sake. Men are physically stronger than women and a non-muslim man would be more capable of oppressing a woman in practicing islamic acts than visa versa.
As for the virgin part, this is not obligatory at all. It's just that virgin women are usually more loyal and such, so that's why men were advised to marry them before non-virgin women, I assume. Of course, there are also widowers, but - especially these days - that's the smaller amount of non-virgin women. And there are also women that want to marry a virgin man also. And we may want that, cuz it's mostly still someone's personal choice.
@@rangefromtblt4047 why will a man need for him to pay more bills? the way I see is that he is not thinking with his head but rather what is in between his legs.
Then why our prophet married not virgins as well?
What do you think Aysha (r.a) was?
Its recommended , not mandatory
@@noshintasnim3205 Aisha RA was his third wife, basically Prophet Mohammad SAW married a widow when he was a virgin himself, then another widow as second wife, then he married a virgin, and after her all others were widows and divorcess... In this video they say a virgin should marry another virgin, basically they are saying Prophet Mohammad SAW is recommending to all men to do something he himself didn't do... Unfortunately this video is a misguided attempt of male fantasy trying to justify wanting a virgin with Hadith... There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a virgin, but don't twist a Hadith to fit your narrative is what I would say to those who made this video.
@@noshintasnim3205 Aisha R.A was the only one, and that was only cause she was still young, the rest were widows or divorcees
JazzakAllah hayr that was great but men shouldn't be blind abt it personally i wouldn't mind even though i am a virgin but i want to have a young wife that can give birth
Virgin man is bad but virgin woman js soo good to married
Why is a virgin man bad...?
Why is a virgin men bad
Why are virgin men bad??
This is extremely misguiding and not all hadiths are authentic.. As far as I'm concerned prophet sm recommended to marry widowers because they have more experience in marital life..
Marriage is not only about physical need it depends on a lot of stuff more than that.. Anyways... Above everything a good person at heart is all that matters because a person can be virgin or non virgin and still depending on that ersons nature your life can be extreamly hard or extreamly joyful.. May Allah bless us with rightoues spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and peace of our hearts
True.
Prophet recommended marrying widows as the 2nd,3rd or 4th wives.
Not necessarily 1st and only wife.
to marry a virgin is not about phisical need at all. it is about emotional needs. nothing more romantic to marry a guy who just loved you in all his life.
Widow and divorced woman are different.
Cope
Virginity is the pride of the ladies and her family. Ameen.
@@samsunkandroit8797 A persons character and taqwa is strongly correlated with chastity. It is one of the biggest indicators because staying away from sexual sin is so difficult. Only the real pious ones can stay away from it.
Piety, purity and modesty is the main...sametime be happy....
im dorry but in the past first of all there was a virgin a virgin right? Today is not every woman who wasnt previous married automatically a virgin. and we are also forbidden to marry a man of zina if we never make zina. its also recommend that these virgin where married at the age of 9 years. do you see a brother with his 10 years old wife? in this case, sorry brothers, you should watch in these days just marry a woman who WANTS TO PRAY, WHO WANTS wear hijab properly, who wants to be on deen without feminism. we are in a other generation where you should choose whats "on the market" or you stay alone and maybe commit zina because you are waiting for your perfect virgin. and by the way in the earlier days the virgins didnt want a mahr of 10000€ and a big wedding etc... for me as a divorced woman i feel like im gonna die alone because of one hadith WHICH arent complete by many of the videos ..
😂😂😂😂😂 .
Sex is the most intimate thing that can happening bettwen Men and women and sex is much intimate for women than for Men why because in sex Men enter in woman body a non virgin woman is a easy woman with nothing to offer .
Generation don t change sex intimacy.
So stfu 😊 Men don t beed to marry w#0re many are still virgin even at 25 they are not western woman. Yes we east Peoples need laws and punishments to prevent our morality to be distroy we had such laws in past we shall have again.
The prophet Mohammed saw said to marry a divorced and widowed first
Can yoi reference a hadithabout 1st?
i know that he told muslim men to marry widows but not as their 1st wives, he just said that marry them can also be 2nd 3rd or 4th wives
You just made that hadith up
Told to marry 2nd ,3rd as divorced or widowed
Don't lie, bring a reference.
Reference??
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Which kind of religion is this so your try telling us that a woman is the one suppose to be virgin but a man no why
Both are supposed to be virgin.
It is recommended in the hadith
When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'
But because hadith is in the male context hence sheikh said what he said but it is referring to both genders
This mufti/shaikh/imam is extrenely suspiscious. He has said sooo many things that are INCORRECT. I would never listen to this man. And therefore I will avoid your chanel going forward, since you post anyones video. And a music that carries subliminal messages. Music is haram. It seems your one of those channels that post good stuff, and once you have a following, you start posting stuff to deviate from the right path.
what are the things that are incorrect?
What is incorrect? Everything the sheikh said is correct I have read the hadith which the sheikh is referring to. It’s better to marry a virgin than non-virgin.
Looking at ur comment u typed this before watching the whole video. Cause everything the sheick said is true, idk how what he said is untrue
@@yassine073t all the Prophet's wives were previously married, so non virgins (except one). That includes Khadija one of the women of paradise !
@@comptebisdoc6611 i still have to do my research on this specific topic, but if this man is correct, why would the Prophet Muhammad PBUH marry a woman who had been divorced/widowed twice and had children. Muhammad PBUH received prophethood while He was married to Hazrat Khadija RA. I have listened to many of this sheikhs videos and he is NOT trustworthy. He seems more of a tool of the west, he could be interpreting the Hadith in the wrong way, I just dont trust this Sheikh, he had been wrong so many times. You can watch other of his bayans and know figure out yourself. Therefore I do not trust him. I hope people do more research on the topic before making this a compulsory thing to do. Marrying and giving a family to a widow/divorced with children is a Sunnah. Becoming the father, and taking care of children who didnt have one, and taking care of them, is a Sunnah. Our Prophet Muhammad PBUH was a beautiful kind man, ap Sallalahu Alaihi Wa Alihi Wassalam.
Hahah there isnt enoough for everyome
Non virgin people are coping in the comments.
Facts
I was thinking the same. But I wonder will it not be slander. I mean some of them might be pure.