moving back home in your 30s: when am I getting my own place??

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  • @alexisbaker8069
    @alexisbaker8069 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I support you. Take all the time you need. I move home after my divorce at 35. Although I would love to be in my own space again, I’m eternally grateful to have the support of my parents.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙏🏼❤️

  • @amberdenay3417
    @amberdenay3417 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Take your time! It’s a blessing. I went back home twice. Once after college and then again to save and buy a home. I’m glad I took the time. You’ll be fine. So proud of you ❤️❤️❤️

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yesss, love this so much!! Thank you ☺️🫶🏼

  • @aliciabraggs5487
    @aliciabraggs5487 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are remarkable, and the one thing I like about you is that you have your eyes on the prize. You think before you jump into things. I’m older than you and I’m learning from you. I wish I was more like you, but even at my age it’s never too late. Give a shout out to your amazing parents. Take your time, and I can’t wait for that new journey coming.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This comment truly made my day. Thank you so much for the kind words ❤️❤️🙏🏼

  • @kettleredberry
    @kettleredberry 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You'll get back into your vlogging groove as soon as the weather breaks probably. On a side note... I know you were a lil annoyed before when the new vlog camera kept switching between you and your friend, but the way it's following you here is nice!!

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So true! And haha thanks, I do really like that feature!

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes to being in a season of preparation and pivoting! I moved back home to live with my mother while I focused on completing my PhD program. Not ideal, but I am grateful for the accommodations because the cost of living is no joke. Continue to be present in your now and trust God with your next. 😊 Tfs

  • @juliajones2283
    @juliajones2283 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I think you are doing exactly what you should be doing. You seem very happy and in your right place for now. I think it’s a privilege to be able to live your parents again and I’m sure they are loving it too. Take care. Xx

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much!! It certainly is a privilege ☺️

  • @MissMaryMak
    @MissMaryMak 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As someone who lived alone for 12 years, I support anyone who can afford to do so even if just for a year. It really develops your character and teaches you to enjoy your own company! I’m so glad you have parents to support you during this time. I moved back in with my mum at 36, I’ve been here for a year and a half now and I got to enjoy travelling and more experiences. I’m now in a better position to support my buying process too. Im grateful I had each stage of these living experiences because I feel like I’ve fully enjoyed each chapter. I know being patient is hard but trust me it’s sooo worth it in the end. I know God will have an amazing place prepared for you when you are ready!

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you sooo much for this comment! It made me feel even more motivated ☺️🫶🏼

  • @christinastylist
    @christinastylist 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Feel no pressure I’m happy you’re having the patience to wait save until you’re ready, nice vlog 💗💗💗

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you!! 😊

  • @diamondcolvin2487
    @diamondcolvin2487 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You’re balancing everything so gracefully. Thanks for sharing your journey. Love to see it!

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! 🥹🫶🏼

  • @radhikaraj7394
    @radhikaraj7394 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video is right on time... I am 33 and am eager to start the journey of my own place too!

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @styliciabowden8682
    @styliciabowden8682 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for trying, your vlogs encourage me because I am in the same process of transition. And be patience because the right place will come. I never had to live with someone but now in the process of relocation it has challenged my mental health and so much more but a great experience of growth. So enjoy the now moments until you secure the bag of your own place. Also your vlog helped me because I'm in the same position of waiting as well. 😄

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So happy this video could resonate with you. We’re all just trying to figure it out!!

  • @charlesblack1086
    @charlesblack1086 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Glad you're doing well. Don't worry. All things come in the right time. Enjoy your time with your family.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! Thank you! 🙏🏼

  • @TheEmpressgoth
    @TheEmpressgoth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wondered what happened I got no Alerts and you popped into my head yesterday. happy to see you

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So happy you found me!!

  • @ROCKHET
    @ROCKHET 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Paige!. It’s Raquel from seton academy 😬 your channel just randomly popped up on my feed. Good to see you doing well for yourself . About two years ago, I moved back into my family home to save up for a year and now I’m owning my first property 🥳 may you be blessed with your situation

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Omg Rocky!!! What a small world. I hope you’ve been well. Thanks so much ☺️🫶🏼

  • @punkyreggaeparty8786
    @punkyreggaeparty8786 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Take your time. When you are ready and good then the time will be right.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @tanishiahicks
    @tanishiahicks 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Paige I hope all is well, I really enjoyed this vlog so much girl I feel you when it comes to moving out take all the time you need there’s nothing worse than moving out and not being ready you are definitely doing it the smart way plus it’s so freaking expensive so I don’t blame you one bit I hope you’re having a wonderful week💕💕

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!! 😊 🫶🏼

  • @TreyLives
    @TreyLives 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yo Paige! I know It’s been a min but after watching this..I still look up to you and still think your a goat. We all got ish we gotta figure out. This reminded me I’m not alone. I’m suppose to be turning 30 this year..we’re all going to be good.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you sooo much! Yes! We’re gonna be just fine ☺️

  • @RoughRider757
    @RoughRider757 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do not rush getting your own place. The negative voices don't matter at all. This pandemic has driven up prices on everything. Take your time and when it feels right then move forward.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!! Agreed

  • @aprilbryant5404
    @aprilbryant5404 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that you are taking your time and moving at your own pace. Best wishes with everything!!!!

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!!

  • @NextCelebrity
    @NextCelebrity 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good to see you again beautiful! Love this journey you are on! So many blessings in store for you Paige! Enjoy the ride.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!! Truly means more than you know ☺️🫶🏼

  • @cookiemonster7313
    @cookiemonster7313 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So happy to see you again in the Windy City❤

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!!

  • @maxinemuhammad5979
    @maxinemuhammad5979 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good to see and hear your updates things take time it will come take your time 💯💯💯😍😍❤️❤️❤️

  • @GRTVO
    @GRTVO 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always glad to see when you upload. You look settled. Take care.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much ☺️

  • @missjones8123
    @missjones8123 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listen! Take your time before you move out on your own. I've been on my own since 18, and it's hard! I wish I had this opportunity, so please take FULL ADVANTAGE!!!! SHIT EVEN AFTER YOUR SAVINGS GOAL LOL

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahaha I hear you!!

  • @sdb1082
    @sdb1082 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Paige, I’m never one to pry, but… I am so curious about that last London living arrangement as it seems to have genuinely been the one true thorn in the entire experience. I’m glad you’re now removed from it and are thriving. Thank you for continuing to share your life and for being a friend in my head.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for the kind words! I don’t know if I’ll ever share many details online but every challenging experience makes you stronger! It also has motivated me so much as I prepare to have my own place soon. 😊

    • @sdb1082
      @sdb1082 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PaigeMariah love this for you! If nothing else, it helped propel you into living independently. Reshaping your vision for the better I’m sure. Best wishes!!

  • @Lisa-kz7vw
    @Lisa-kz7vw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You'll get you're own place when the time is right for you people always have comments on social media about what they think people should do don't be bothered with that or rush to change anything because someone said you should do something many of us enjoy you're vlogs if you moved today in you're own place someone would be commenting you need to do something else lol we can't please people don't try fun vlog Chicago has been on my places to visit list never been there downtown looks like a fun place to explore.😊

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sooo true!! Thanks for this. Looking forward to doing more Chicago vlogs ☺️

  • @kamiahdabney8579
    @kamiahdabney8579 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Paigey! When you do move out and decide to rent, rent from a private landlord (much more cost effective). And if you do happen to go with a property management company, do NOT! I repeat do NOT rent with 312 properties in Chicago!

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Omg I will def take a note of this, thanks soo much!! 🙏🏼

  • @lornafrancis1791
    @lornafrancis1791 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As for planting zones, the map on the back of the envelopes is divided by color telling you when to plant it. The lowest zone, which includes Florida, is similar to Jamaica. Use that as a guide when to plant down there.

  • @rexyzvent5864
    @rexyzvent5864 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, enjoy each chapter !

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg this vlog is so relatable babe !

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      awww I'm happy to hear that!

  • @ladaydigitals
    @ladaydigitals 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So excited to see you and i'm also in the process of trying to move on my own. I have a corporate job now but its not super fulfilling and i'm seeking another to make more money and of course save lol. Do you think you can make a video about how you landed your new corporate position. Like what good sites you used to find them and apply?

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Are you on TikTok? I actually have a video about this exact topic. ☺️

    • @ladaydigitals
      @ladaydigitals 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PaigeMariah yes I am! Is it recent , I'll have to check yours again.💃

  • @colettemccullough1586
    @colettemccullough1586 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sis, take your time

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🫶🏼

  • @seanmychaldavis
    @seanmychaldavis 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Move out in the fall/wintertime chileeeeeee. That summertime pricing is no joke. You’ll get a much better rate! 😂❤

    • @seanmychaldavis
      @seanmychaldavis 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’ll know when the time’s right!

  • @lovelyjewel573
    @lovelyjewel573 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Give yourself grace... You're on the right track save and invest for the future and the life you want to create. This adulting crap is a hyped matrix.

  • @Tashas_Travels
    @Tashas_Travels 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am 27 & if I had the opportunity to move back home with my mom I would but I can't coz she lives on the other side of town from me and doesn't want to move, also I can't move because of my job. Plus she lives with my brothers who choose to not work and annoy her, so I don't need that In my life or be stressed because I'll end up supporting grown adults who don't want to fend for themselves.

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh man! Everyone’s situation is definitely different. Sending you love 💕

  • @edennancykobi3920
    @edennancykobi3920 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤

    • @PaigeMariah
      @PaigeMariah  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @aoibasara7695
    @aoibasara7695 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍ナイス

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sell half of your clothes then you won't have to move in with your parents. Cancel them brunch appointments. 197K followers and having to move in with parents makes no sense youtube must not be paying a lot.

    • @co_7523
      @co_7523 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How rude.

    • @Rashaadthegr8
      @Rashaadthegr8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@co_7523 I speak the truth. Stop being a ant.