Tips for a long-lasting relationship

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ย. 2024
  • Hey folks,
    This weeks we take a deep-dive into our decade long marriage.
    We talk about trust, ex's, sex, parenting and advice for how we've navigated it over the past 10 years of being together.
    We'll set a reminder to do another one of these in 2033 - If humanity makes it that far :)
    Thanks for watching gang,
    Stef & Kony x
    Thank you to all of our amazing Patreons for enabling to make honest content like this.
    Please consider joining us. / themichalaks

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  • @dreamerlotus
    @dreamerlotus ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hearing aloud Hannah's situation in her early 20's being on her own is sad but also shows her strength. She has always come across so mature and well grounded. It is really helpful to hear your journey in your relationship and not just hear the positives but instead the solutions you've found to keep working on it. Brilliant video.

  • @windandsea12
    @windandsea12 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We just celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary yesterday and we were married in Vegas(born&raised) humor and trust is the key to longevity

  • @aoifehickey4860
    @aoifehickey4860 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Think it's easier to say split the chores etc with small kids etc when you have your situation where you both work from home, different when your partner works long hours and out of the house. I'm 15yrs married, 20yrs together, 2 children with autism, no childcare, 2 mums with dementia, loss of a dad, hse moves etc and aware marriage goes through seasons but grateful we keep trying and loving on each other and the simple gestures really are the ones that mean the most xx

  • @Lucy-ue6zq
    @Lucy-ue6zq ปีที่แล้ว +12

    LOVE these episodes. Have been a silent watcher for years and love how you are always working to be better people. Honest, refreshing and something unique to see online in these times!

  • @leilanimegumi
    @leilanimegumi ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for letting us have insight on your relationship. Love the realness of it, and showing that long term relationships takes work and effort, not just physicality or a constant flame.
    Beautiful to see that even with the “odds” stacked against you when it comes to divorce, you guys still show up for each other daily.

  • @ewela1412
    @ewela1412 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey Stef & Hannah, I really like the energy between you two in this video. I also love the fact that you’re so honest & vulnerable when discussing this & other topics. With all the ups & downs that you’ve mentioned I can see/feel that you’re a great team!
    Lots of love!

  • @irenethompson4076
    @irenethompson4076 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the "visual" podcasts Stef & Hannah. Your willingness to keep it real on your channel is what has always kept me watching. Thank you for sharing as always! 😘

  • @xCiaraLouisexx
    @xCiaraLouisexx ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching this as I got into my first relationship a few months ago, so helpful and interesting ❤

  • @AutismTwinsUs
    @AutismTwinsUs ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we're at 12 years married 17 together in April, we have twins both have asd and life's hard, Got to have each others back, and don't forget if your the man to not take your wife for granted and don't fall into the trap of treating your wife as a mum. She's your wife first before mum x Thanks Michalaks

  • @belleboucles3646
    @belleboucles3646 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved everything about this podcast! Thank you

  • @TimandCeleste
    @TimandCeleste ปีที่แล้ว

    This video popped up at the right time, with my little 9 week old baby sleeping in my arms. Think we bickered the most in those early days than we ever have too… gosh sleep is magic! We’re also celebrating 10 years of marriage in May ✨

  • @DavidCleanVids
    @DavidCleanVids ปีที่แล้ว +6

    New Subscriber, Really enjoying your content so far, You guys are very easy to relate to :D

  • @ingcomparablei2200
    @ingcomparablei2200 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love to see that ur still going strong as a couple and team and loved ur advice in this podcast 💚

  • @charlibird6686
    @charlibird6686 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your vulnerability, honesty and wisdom. It makes me feel so connected 🥰

  • @lesleyjohnston4966
    @lesleyjohnston4966 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please keep doing podcasts! Love them ❤😊

  • @christinatee9922
    @christinatee9922 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am loving these podcast videos!!!

  • @harrietpatchett1561
    @harrietpatchett1561 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this! Watched it in a couple chunks getting ready but thank you, more like this please! X

  • @KaylaPatrickmusic
    @KaylaPatrickmusic ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this! I’ve always been inspired by the relationship you have with each other.

  • @bonjourleamour
    @bonjourleamour ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Hannah and Stef ! Will you ever put your podcast’s episodes on Deezer again ? I’d love to listen to you and be able to lock my phone 😊
    I’ve been subscribed to both of your channels since Grayson’s birth btw, and I really love seeing the four (six with the puppies!) of you evolve and go through life ❤ thanks for sharing all of this with the internet! Much love from France 😘

  • @beazuzmcceasar22
    @beazuzmcceasar22 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good one. I agree with the no drink thing. We have no fights either. 🙏

  • @hannahyoungs1870
    @hannahyoungs1870 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks guys - lovely video and energy between u two xx

  • @kennedymaus7955
    @kennedymaus7955 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love love love! ❤

  • @danielalondongirl933
    @danielalondongirl933 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Theyre clever little shits” 😂😂😂❤

  • @AgapeLuv4Life
    @AgapeLuv4Life ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed watching this!

  • @dreamypoppy
    @dreamypoppy ปีที่แล้ว

    Great points from both sides ✨💕

  • @shannonbc
    @shannonbc ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed this, thank you! ❤️

  • @mattcandy
    @mattcandy ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of my favorite videos on TH-cam - please keep making more sit down, podcast type videos!

  • @veralluise
    @veralluise ปีที่แล้ว

    I really liked watching this being in a relationship with a 5 years older guy for more than 5 years now and a lot of things are so relatable. Thank you guys!

  • @sophiehoward1812
    @sophiehoward1812 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love you guys!!! very insightful, but you're gonna have to tell me where you got that info from about women seeing men as failures when they're on their period, i wanna read that paper hahaha

  • @snugglebunny1997
    @snugglebunny1997 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good guys! Thank you!

  • @annytwardawsky
    @annytwardawsky ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved that so much,thank you, love you

  • @iluvpeaches2
    @iluvpeaches2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We got married in Vegas and are coming up on 8 years 😂 Are we doomed? Lol I don’t think so. We are 3 kids in. Been through A LOT! But we are committed to each other and our family.

  • @jessicahughes9859
    @jessicahughes9859 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this 🙏💖

  • @Sam111-q9w
    @Sam111-q9w ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great podcast ❤

  • @lovelifementoring5399
    @lovelifementoring5399 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed thank you ❤

  • @danievans8142
    @danievans8142 ปีที่แล้ว

    What mushroom experience Stef...do tell?? X

  • @fiendecap5070
    @fiendecap5070 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very inspiring ❤️

  • @__nal
    @__nal ปีที่แล้ว

    What was the name of the book that was brought up?

  • @lucys1016
    @lucys1016 ปีที่แล้ว

    are these on apple podcasts/spotify?

  • @Yamazaki339
    @Yamazaki339 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey, I’m having trouble accessing your instagram, blog and website that are linked on this channel. Is there something wrong? 😢

  • @Alkemie11
    @Alkemie11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    step one : have a partner

  • @stevo728822
    @stevo728822 ปีที่แล้ว

    Women treat relationships lilke shopping. Men treat relationships like a competitive game.

  • @kath804
    @kath804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting vlog thank you both. Just want to say, the sperm determines gender so Stef makes the boys, not you Hannah 😀

  • @Nighttwolfe
    @Nighttwolfe ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed listening to this. Thank you for taking the time and also being open enough to answer these questions. 🤍

  • @hannahyoungs1870
    @hannahyoungs1870 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks guys - lovely video and energy between u two xx