Losing a Wife, Finding Hope: A Single Dad’s Journey of Grief, Remarriage & Blended Family Life

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  • In this heartfelt video, Raymond Bukenya shares his personal journey of loss, grief, as a single dad and the journey of remarriage and raising a blended family. After losing his wife, he had to navigate the complexities of grief while stepping into the role of both mom and dad for the children. This journey wasn't easy, but with God, time, healing, and the support of loved ones, he found hope and love again.
    Join me as we discuss the emotional process of dealing with grief, the decision to remarry, and the joys and trials of blending families. Whether you're a single parent, someone who has experienced loss, or navigating the complexities of a blended family, this video offers insights, encouragement, and a reminder that you're not alone.
    In this video, you’ll learn:
    1. How he coped with the loss his wife and managed grief as a single dad.
    2. The challenges and blessings of raising children as a single parent.
    3. His journey to finding love, remarriage and the realities of blending two families.
    4. Tips for others going through similar experiences, from finding support to fostering strong family bonds.
    5. The place of God when dealing with adversity.
    If this story resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe for more content focused on family, healing, and personal growth. Don't forget to leave a comment below-I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences!
    #dealingwithgrief #singledad #lisakusiima

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  • @amandabridget1375
    @amandabridget1375 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you Lisa for always bringing quality in these videos 🥹🥰

  • @berthatendo8776
    @berthatendo8776 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Rev Raymond once preached at our church one Sunday. Glad to hear his story and the work that God has done through him. His story is one of hope, hope God’s way not our way!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He’s a real blessing

  • @YvonneBirungi
    @YvonneBirungi 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Thank you Lisa for inviting Rev Bukenya into this space. Through his testimony am more than encouraged too.
    This year is the 2nd since my husband's going to the Lord and considering Rev's sharing I do see light at the end of the tunnel for my little girl and myself! Thank you again!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hugs and strength my dear

  • @orishabafranklineisabelah5144
    @orishabafranklineisabelah5144 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Sometimes u be thinking u have seen it all regardless to pain, but when u hear such stories eeeeeeh u end up thanking God

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@orishabafranklineisabelah5144 we need to be so grateful in life indeed

  • @nakoruevelyne9422
    @nakoruevelyne9422 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Rev Bukenya Raymond Lorot as we call him in Karamoja is a great persona and servant of God. Thanks for bringing him in the platform to encourage other people.

  • @cathybagaaya-dp6vp
    @cathybagaaya-dp6vp 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This has been a wonderful conversation. Thank you for bringing him.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@cathybagaaya-dp6vp you are welcome

  • @cathybagaaya-dp6vp
    @cathybagaaya-dp6vp 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your state of heart and mind, this has really hit me. Thank you

  • @tadeokolobo5073
    @tadeokolobo5073 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Rev Booqe, we have watched you walk with God through trouble, trials, turmoil and tribulation over the last few years BUT Your God has led you out in triumph still. May you live a full life, may you and your household live to serve their full purpose in this generation and the nexts.

  • @douglasmartinssemaganda
    @douglasmartinssemaganda 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I have had stories of Rev. Bukenya's story from many fronts & versions, am glad he is telling it himself. Thank you Lisa for hosting him. Bring him back to share his experience on raising 7 Children.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@douglasmartinssemaganda Thanks for watching 🥹😀

  • @kemmykagumaho
    @kemmykagumaho 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This was such an insightful conversation!! God is a GOOOOOOD GOD!!
    His Life!! The Bible comes alive!!!
    May these coming years be the years of jubilation!
    Thanks Lisa for bringing the story to us!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kemmykagumaho thank you 🙏🏽
      God wabula is good!

  • @rachaelnabukko4358
    @rachaelnabukko4358 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    i remember one of his statements in brenda(RIP) Rev. Buke said i am not strong but God is Strong. may you keep on moving and growing and glowing in the Lord.

  • @theromanticmukiga
    @theromanticmukiga 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    What a story. Wow. Bless him

  • @Evelyn-jb3yp
    @Evelyn-jb3yp 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amazing story. Great reminder that The Lord never leaves us nor forsakes us.. and He is in charge, regardless!! Thank you both.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes! Thank you!

  • @TheUSHERKAN
    @TheUSHERKAN 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Rev. Raymond's voice and experience at that "tender" age is a needed one. Great convo. 👏

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheUSHERKAN thanks thanks👏🏾

  • @brianabaho
    @brianabaho 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Rev. Bukenya - my guy. What a story!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@brianabaho what a story!!!!

  • @ayopamella
    @ayopamella 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Oh my goodness! I remember him from high school days at kakumba chapel. The choir was dope; they changed my perception in regards to serving God and still looking awesome, slick etc yet decent. Thanks for hosting him

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ayopamella Wow that’s is good to know.
      You are welcome

  • @brendaowomugisha4150
    @brendaowomugisha4150 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you Lisa for hosting Rev Bukenya.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@brendaowomugisha4150 You are welcome

  • @doreennancy843
    @doreennancy843 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Pr Bukenya thanks for sharing with us these words of wisdom blended with the word of God.God bless you and many thanks to Lisa for hosting him.lots of love and support from 🇨🇦

  • @kobusingeannkamisha9515
    @kobusingeannkamisha9515 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Surely whatever a man can go through, there are people who have gone through more and have greatly overcome. I bless the Lord that this is a “more than a conqueror” story by Bp. Bukenya.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It blessed me !! I kept wondering what would I have done if it were me?🥹

  • @brendaowomugisha4150
    @brendaowomugisha4150 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So insightful .I would listen to him again.

  • @marionsenkomago8269
    @marionsenkomago8269 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Very insightful and honest conversation..thankyou Lisa and Rev.Raymond!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are welcome

  • @pamelakyakunzire8543
    @pamelakyakunzire8543 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    As I cuddle my r months old, alot is crossing through my mind. My God life can be tough. Lord, help me be thankful always.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Life can mean to life! But God is faithful

  • @chrisnkundizana7029
    @chrisnkundizana7029 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Great Conversation Lisa! next time, bring Lynn Bukenya as well🤩

  • @immynuwagaba8932
    @immynuwagaba8932 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Woooww....just wooow.. God bless you and family Mr. Bukenya

  • @eleanorlumonya3131
    @eleanorlumonya3131 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow wow wow the ways of God. Ehhh. Thank you Lisa for hosting Raymond. And thank you Raymond for sharing your story and the amazing lessons from there. So nice to hear the story from you.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are so welcome

  • @tumuhimbiselaura1654
    @tumuhimbiselaura1654 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What an amazing story!
    Thank you Lisa for hosting Rev.Bukenya.
    I loved the analogy of the coin..It provides an eye opening perspective on suffering.
    I thank God for this platform and how it is changing lives.
    Thank you Lisa

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are so welcome!

  • @miriammiraclembithi4361
    @miriammiraclembithi4361 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What a story! 🙌🏿

  • @imacayebazibwe6412
    @imacayebazibwe6412 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Some stories evoke emotions

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know🥹

  • @EuniceAdubango
    @EuniceAdubango 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These are beautiful insights! Sobering thoughts! God! We thank Him for Him❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely! Thanks for watching

  • @cathybt
    @cathybt 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    And yes a discussion on blending would be great.
    you shared one on divorce, now loss of spouse, so a separate topic on remarriage and blending would be great.
    i'm also interested in listening to your experience on blending from a child's perspective

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Let me work on it

    • @lynnp4600
      @lynnp4600 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ya blending from a child’s experience would be nice

  • @kemitominoreen822
    @kemitominoreen822 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow..May God continue filling your house with joy and may your marriage flourish ❤God has really done great things 🙌

  • @kasujjahenry9180
    @kasujjahenry9180 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awesome conversation.Thx Reverend &Lisa.This was insightful.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @Dorcuskuteesakwe
    @Dorcuskuteesakwe 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow this is amazing thank you Rev.Bukenya for sharing your story it has taught me gratitude living in the moment God has given me cause i dont know what the future holds .

  • @KemigishaShiela
    @KemigishaShiela 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good conversation

  • @LynnAnkunda-yx1yz
    @LynnAnkunda-yx1yz 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Eh this story is very inspiring! Glory to God for seeing him through and helping him live to testify about it 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God is good

  • @dennismawanda9121
    @dennismawanda9121 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ohh dear brother, what a challenging story in life thanks for sharing Rev

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for listening

  • @mileykagonyera9789
    @mileykagonyera9789 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a story, God bless this Man 🙏

  • @gloriakabwama7702
    @gloriakabwama7702 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Beautiful conversation ❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you think so!

  • @janeflavia9706
    @janeflavia9706 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lisa thanks for this beautiful story

  • @akundatezra7472
    @akundatezra7472 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    May God bless u two for such a wonderful message

  • @nellymakode8724
    @nellymakode8724 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Rev Bukenya, thanks for sharing your story

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for listening

  • @estherbirungi8036
    @estherbirungi8036 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Am so blessed by your story Rev.Bukenya

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad to hear that

  • @catherinekizzatendo7407
    @catherinekizzatendo7407 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Glad to see Rev. Raymond! Remember him from Kyambogo and how God transformed him completely!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God can do anything

  • @tezirawabuyaka2067
    @tezirawabuyaka2067 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There are some things you go through that if God doesn’t come through, you are finished.
    When I thought I had gone through a lot then boom, another story and testimony comes through
    Thanks for sharing, what an encouragement
    Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @peacekangye6205
    @peacekangye6205 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great talk very insightful thanks Raymond and be blessed in all. Very knowledgeable and real must watch by all men share in all your circles

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you enjoyed it

  • @namulindageorgette.m6243
    @namulindageorgette.m6243 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    People that don't know God,I really wonder where you run to in such situations. Thank you Lisa for hosting this great dad

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are welcome

  • @kiwujjoagnes5100
    @kiwujjoagnes5100 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow God bless your family. I would love to be your sheep. You must be a good preacher.

  • @rachaelnabukko4358
    @rachaelnabukko4358 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Rev.Raymond, ooooh great to hear from you blessings follow you

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for listening

  • @kanungugirl
    @kanungugirl 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you Rev for sharing your story. Am grieving my son & was finding it hard when people send me these bible verses, some dont make sense. Am comforted i was not going off Gods radar.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Strength to you🥹

    • @kanungugirl
      @kanungugirl 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      🫂

  • @tryshanuweasasira7609
    @tryshanuweasasira7609 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Beautiful 🥹🥹🥹❤❤❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️

  • @valerietkaddu8008
    @valerietkaddu8008 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow quite honest and encouraging sharing.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I appreciate that!

  • @ainembabazishallon5934
    @ainembabazishallon5934 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow this has encouraged mi alot, I also hv a story to tell.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ainembabazishallon5934 I’m glad you’ve been encouraged my dear

  • @berthatendo8776
    @berthatendo8776 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Please host him again 😊

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      😅😅 hehe

  • @momologs300
    @momologs300 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Before I watch, Hi Mami Lisa, u a loved with the love of God darling ❤

  • @dr.bazirakebernard3845
    @dr.bazirakebernard3845 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    a very had time for him. but God is gracious

  • @cathybt
    @cathybt 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    oh wow..... i'm speechless. But in all this, God has surely been so good.
    No temptation has overtaken or enticed you that is not common to human experience [nor is any temptation unusual or beyond human resistance]; but God is faithful [to His word-He is compassionate and trustworthy], and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability [to resist], but along with the temptation He [has in the past and is now and] will [always] provide the way out as well, so that you will be able to endure it [without yielding, and will overcome temptation with joy]. 1 Corinthians 10:13

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @phionakajumba3868
    @phionakajumba3868 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    May God bless you Rev.Omg 🙏👍

  • @angellaasabaawebwa3522
    @angellaasabaawebwa3522 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Lisa you look great.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’re so kind

  • @Pharry278
    @Pharry278 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When you think your suffering and then boom, your like eeeeh am priviledged for this because people have suffered. One thing that i got here (thought i was alone and i was questioning my faith), is scriptures, motivation speakers and self books not working and its just your moment🙌, you just have to accept it and listen to yourself and God.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We need to be grateful indeed

  • @GraceASafi
    @GraceASafi 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    People need a listening Ear 👂 !

  • @GladysYiga
    @GladysYiga 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It's true you can ask God questions. And feel like quitting. But just like the disciples told Jesus, where can we go, you only have the words of life! So you stay and hang in there. With time God gives you the grace and you in fact love God the more

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Indeed! Where can we go?

  • @asialwanga5452
    @asialwanga5452 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤️

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching

  • @KemigishaShiela
    @KemigishaShiela 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bring him back again he has alot to say

  • @geofreysemakula6643
    @geofreysemakula6643 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    For it has been granted to you that for the sake of Christ you should not only believe in him but also suffer for his sake, engaged in the same conflict that you saw I had and now hear that I still have.(Philippians 1:29-30)

  • @ImmaculateInspired
    @ImmaculateInspired 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God is the light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @rachealkobwesigye1733
    @rachealkobwesigye1733 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Living proof that Jesus lives... This was awesome 👌

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes yes yes!!

  • @kobusingeannkamisha9515
    @kobusingeannkamisha9515 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My key take away is that every word in us shall be tested regardless yet we can’t keep ignorant to die early😂

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    God is God

  • @LydiaAlinda
    @LydiaAlinda 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    As he was sharing, am reminded of Genesis 3:9 - But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?”
    And to-date, one of the questions that we keep asking is where are Fathers? Where are the men? Where are the husbands?
    And in Titus 2, Paul writes to Titus on how men ought to be...sober, sensible, worthy of respect, dignified, self-controlled, and sound in faith, in love, and in endurance.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for sharing

  • @janeflavia9706
    @janeflavia9706 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Kisapatu mother 😂😂😂 my mum

  • @somebodysdaughter7855
    @somebodysdaughter7855 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ahh the comment on women facing harder issues having had a past.