Thank you for introducing Dr. Shefali to your audience! Her message is so important and even though she specifically relates it to parenting, you will find yourself applying it to every relationship in your life!
I'm always so impressed listening to Shefali. She can get right to the core of things so quickly. Love her message of conscious parenting! #consciousparenting
Conscious parenting is so FREAKIN important, I am excited for leaders like this to be influencing our next generation. My clients always get to "little boy & girl" issues when trying to solve an "adult" problem & I always wonder what it will be like when more conscious parents are raising kids... :)
Easily one of the best interviews Lewis has done. As someone that has struggled a lot from unconscious parenting I am now integrating these truths into my life and being. Dr Shefali, I applaud you for the wonderful wisdom you are bringing to humanity.
Amazing and transforming! She's really in touch and in alignment with her values and it seems she walks the walk. Not to mention, she's BEAUTIFUL and SMART, the ULTIMATE hotness! Lewis, Thank you so much for inviting her, I played twice the podcast back to back, never happened before. I became an instant fan and would be looking forward to attending her seminar coming up in Long Beach. So grateful!
Omg I remember recommending you to interview dr shefali like a year ago and you repled back saying you would look into it and you did haha. Her work is so profound and as oprah says it " revolutionary!!" Haha
You hit the jackpot by having Dr. Shefali on your show! Nothing but truth was spoken.....gives deeper meaning to the adage "you shall know the truth, and the truth will set you free">. Even more a surprise, was watching you react and having your mind and understanding expand right in front of us. Have her back on your show please!
I'm probably listening to this for the 10th time...and everytime it's to retap into my own unconscious, into my unconscious that desires to become conscious, to understand everytime I'm an aspect of consciousness has been essentially conditioned, and to let go of those conditionings. Thanks Dr. Shefali and Lewis for bringing about this beautiful conversation.😊🙏
"Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you, And though they are with you yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable." -Kahlil Gibran
I memorised that 33 years ago when my daughter was 2. It says it all, but I wish Dr Shefali had been around then to keep me on track as a parent. Fortunately my daughter has discovered Dr Shefali for herself and is doing her best to be a conscious parent to the 3 little spirits that have come through her :)
Ive actually never wanted kids, but hearing her talk makes me feel so hopeful. I always thought no i don't want kids to mess up and to put so much pressure onto. and im so unprepared and broke and selfish i cant give that to a child. But hearing that I can work on myself to be aware and awoken, then choosing to have a child to help guide and liberate is so beautiful. Im definitely no where near there, not sure if ill ever have kids, but this sounds possible, hard but possible! and letting the world breathe sounds like an amazing solution, for a while at least. 7 billion ppl!!!!
Lewis u did great!! She is tooo beautiful you kept focus and really brought the best information in the interview I need to watch again and definitely purchasing this book!! Love
I only just discovered the philosophy and wisdom which Dr.Shefali Tsabary shares with us. I really wish I had known and put into practice this information 27 years ago when I became a parent.
Yeessssssssssssssss. Everything she says is rings true on the deepest level for me.. Uhhhh. Let's learn to protect ourselves and our children from misguided parenting. Children are people. They need us to protect their rights and dignity and hearts.****
12 minutes in... and I had to stop 🛑 the video and 🤯 take a moment ⏰ to digest the dialogue💬 so far its providing me with a new perspective 🧐 and outlook on things.! 🤩
I was a stressed out mom and my kids were too , but when I found this book everything changed DRAMATICALLY!! Dr shefali has made parenting so much easier, lighter and more fun for my husband and me! My daughter, age 9 now talks about her life in 2 parts: her life BEFORE the conscious parent and AFTER the conscious parent. Mind you she was only 4-5 years old when the Changes were made and she remembers it all!! Because of dr shefali, We have never had more connection and enjoyment and lack of stress in our home! We are eternally grateful to the work of Dr shefali!!!!!!
Amazing! As one of 9 children who were raised by very unconscious parents, it's so wonderful to hear people are applying this revolutionary advice. I hope you are all healthy & extremely happy! ❤️
@Peanut Butter Thank you for sharing your experience. My daughter is about to turn five soon, and I'm just now coming across this. I'm glad to know that this works and helps families heal and form better connection.
What she says is true for women about dumbing themselves down and hiding themselves so not to get hurt by men and also other women who are jealous who believe you more beautiful them themselves.
Noone could be in the present moment like a child. Fully present. No agenda. Therefore child is a teacher. 0 to 6 most Transformation Experience. Life keep going. No end. Attachment to form is illusion. Only relevance is relationship with current moment. Even if erased.
Damn! She was GOOD! Really great to listen to a truly deep and meaningful expert on such an important topic. Glad you asked the question about what men can do. Feel like they're kind of like the 'secondary' parent and that's not a fair deal for anyone, including society.
Try to connect. Wake up. Teenage. Bold now. I don't want to anymore. Cut the chord. Parenting is a mask to hid our sufferings. Humility. Complete trust in their destiny. Hard to see them go through pain. Let them go through. Last in race. Don't fix it. You are already complete. Who you are is beyond doing. Don't miss with who they are.
"Am I connected to my self today?" "Am I feeling whole today?" "Where are my missing pieces today?" "Cause whatever is missing within us, within 10 minutes of our child waking up, we are gonna dump it on them." "Everytime I see something wrong in what my child is doing, it's because I'm feeling wronged in my own life or that I'm not good enough. So when I'm not feeling good enough, I see everything wrong in my child." "If I'm coming from a superfluous sense of gratitude and wellness, suddenly they can do no wrong. It's all projection."
I see a lot of Sadhguru's way of seeing things here :) that would be a super different and interesting interview. i advise you go and check in out Lewis
Peter Moutinho YES! Love Sadhguru 💜 I went to Inner Engineering, such a profound experience in every way! Would also Love to see an interview w/ Sadhguru!
Whatever I am missing. Going to dump on them. Insecure about ourselves. They reflect. How do we remove ego. Survive to fit in with our parents. False self is ego. Suffacate then. Ego good for survival. Outside view important. Accept ego. Reflection. Question. Train to question themselves. Don't just believe. Pause & Question.
Think there is a mistake at 34:18 cause she said she has been meditating since she was 22!! And said that it was only 5 years ago?! How can that be? When she is clearly 48 years old this year. And had her child in her 30s._. And did this interview just 3 years back? How is that possible? Was she lying? O.o was it a mistake 🤔 and even mentioned that her daughter is 13 in this video! Like whut._. How can it be 5 years ago and at age 22?! Someone from this channel's team please let us know!
Fabulous! My daughter just had a baby so I shared this with her. This interview should be part of every prenatal class. This is better than any parenting course I've ever taken.
Finally, a guest who is intelligent, empowering and most important humble and on point. Lately, your guest is just pretending they know stuff to sell books, but this one is ON IT!!!! Fantastic, liberating, valuable!! Thank you very much!!
I do agree thought with your point that she is an amazing guest - but so are the others. Every person is unique, stop judging. Just because they promote their passion of life such as books- that does not make them bad or evil ;)
I can imagine how many lives will be impacted in a profound way by these 60 minutes. Dr Shefali is so incredible. Cant wait to read her book. Thanks for being your best version Lewis in having the ability to connect with her so well! Such 🔥🔥🔥
Mind blowing ! This episode She I think changed my life, it felt like 10 minutes. I want this talk to continue for hours. I must hear this again and again. Thank you so much. I must read her books.
This is a great message to give parents in Africa..... Anyway, I do get what she is saying... Although, souls choose their parents despite how many screwed up parents there are......
Thank you for introducing Dr. Shefali to your audience! Her message is so important and even though she specifically relates it to parenting, you will find yourself applying it to every relationship in your life!
Isn't it fabulous that Lewis and Dr. Shefali finally were able to connect? :)
How I love you, Dr. Shefali
Yes, Arayeh!
I'm always so impressed listening to Shefali. She can get right to the core of things so quickly. Love her message of conscious parenting! #consciousparenting
Dr Shefali and Dr Ester Perel : the best interviews for mind blowing ideas.
Mind blowing is definitely one of the words to describe this interview. The value given is amazing. Thanks for this great interview.
Conscious parenting is so FREAKIN important, I am excited for leaders like this to be influencing our next generation. My clients always get to "little boy & girl" issues when trying to solve an "adult" problem & I always wonder what it will be like when more conscious parents are raising kids... :)
Me too!!!
Finally people are making some sense!!!!
Easily one of the best interviews Lewis has done. As someone that has struggled a lot from unconscious parenting I am now integrating these truths into my life and being. Dr Shefali, I applaud you for the wonderful wisdom you are bringing to humanity.
You can join Dr. Shefali at EVOLVE - her summit in CA. See more here: www.drshefali.com
Amazing and transforming! She's really in touch and in alignment with her values and it seems she walks the walk. Not to mention, she's BEAUTIFUL and SMART, the ULTIMATE hotness!
Lewis, Thank you so much for inviting her, I played twice the podcast back to back, never happened before. I became an instant fan and would be looking forward to attending her seminar coming up in Long Beach. So grateful!
This Lewis guy is soo good , i am so amazed. He is fully present. Asks the right questions .Listens and understands concepts like no other.
This video was so helpful. Parenting is such a hard and confusing experience. Thank you
Omg I remember recommending you to interview dr shefali like a year ago and you repled back saying you would look into it and you did haha. Her work is so profound and as oprah says it " revolutionary!!" Haha
You hit the jackpot by having Dr. Shefali on your show! Nothing but truth was spoken.....gives deeper meaning to the adage "you shall know the truth, and the truth will set you free">. Even more a surprise, was watching you react and having your mind and understanding expand right in front of us. Have her back on your show please!
Awwww Lewis - I love how you were so vulnerable. Dr. Shefali you are amazing- than you.
Thank you 🧡
Thank you for hosting this great conversation.
I'm probably listening to this for the 10th time...and everytime it's to retap into my own unconscious, into my unconscious that desires to become conscious, to understand everytime I'm an aspect of consciousness has been essentially conditioned, and to let go of those conditionings.
Thanks Dr. Shefali and Lewis for bringing about this beautiful conversation.😊🙏
"Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable."
-Kahlil Gibran
I memorised that 33 years ago when my daughter was 2. It says it all, but I wish Dr Shefali had been around then to keep me on track as a parent. Fortunately my daughter has discovered Dr Shefali for herself and is doing her best to be a conscious parent to the 3 little spirits that have come through her :)
Reminds me with the philosophy of the Lebanese philosopher "Jubran Khalil Jubran". Awakening thoughts.
Exactly what I’ve been repeating to myself as I watch this episode 😄😊
Ive actually never wanted kids, but hearing her talk makes me feel so hopeful. I always thought no i don't want kids to mess up and to put so much pressure onto. and im so unprepared and broke and selfish i cant give that to a child. But hearing that I can work on myself to be aware and awoken, then choosing to have a child to help guide and liberate is so beautiful. Im definitely no where near there, not sure if ill ever have kids, but this sounds possible, hard but possible! and letting the world breathe sounds like an amazing solution, for a while at least. 7 billion ppl!!!!
What a pleasure to listen to this interview. Absolutely love the wisdom
Thank you
One of the best so far! Love her! Thank you Lewis
This woman is such an earth angel! Imagine a world where all parents apply this. So revolutionary! 🥰
20 seconds into the video.. burst into tears.
🧡
Thanks so much. Can't wait for the book. I just wish I had access to this resource when I began my parenting journey 14 years ago.
Delicious interview!! And Lewis your reaction and overwhelm priceless.
Love your conversation about this topic... Parents, children and conciousness :)
Lewis u did great!! She is tooo beautiful you kept focus and really brought the best information in the interview I need to watch again and definitely purchasing this book!! Love
She is sooooo good and what she shares, it is the Truth and it's great to hear the same messages from different people delivered in a different way!
I only just discovered the philosophy and wisdom which Dr.Shefali Tsabary shares with us. I really wish I had known and put into practice this information 27 years ago when I became a parent.
Thank you both so very much Dr. Shefali and Lewis, love both of you guys!!! Hav e blessed day
Thank you Lewis, for working hard to help us have access to the information!
Many beautiful insights!
I'm not a parent but I really enjoyed this talk. Just ordered Dr. Shefali's book and looking forward to my next late night read.
Beautiful sharing!!! In the era of "Ain't got time for this" Hope you have time to listen what she share and be the best being :)
Yeessssssssssssssss. Everything she says is rings true on the deepest level for me.. Uhhhh. Let's learn to protect ourselves and our children from misguided parenting. Children are people. They need us to protect their rights and dignity and hearts.****
I loved these interview Lewis.Thank you for the school of greatness .I learned a lot
I can't wait to see both of you next weekend at the Archangel Summit! Loved the podcast, like always.
12 minutes in... and I had to stop 🛑 the video and 🤯 take a moment ⏰ to digest the dialogue💬 so far its providing me with a new perspective 🧐 and outlook on things.! 🤩
I love it. So true. Consciousness awakening times must be now to hear this interview. I think these messages should go a long way. EK
What a tranforming interview!! Great information. Thanks a million!!
I was a stressed out mom and my kids were too , but when I found this book everything changed DRAMATICALLY!! Dr shefali has made parenting so much easier, lighter and more fun for my husband and me! My daughter, age 9 now talks about her life in 2 parts: her life BEFORE the conscious parent and AFTER the conscious parent. Mind you she was only 4-5 years old when the Changes were made and she remembers it all!! Because of dr shefali, We have never had more connection and enjoyment and lack of stress in our home! We are eternally grateful to the work of Dr shefali!!!!!!
Beautiful 💜
Thanks for sharing, I’m getting her book.
That’s amazing!
Amazing! As one of 9 children who were raised by very unconscious parents, it's so wonderful to hear people are applying this revolutionary advice. I hope you are all healthy & extremely happy! ❤️
@Peanut Butter Thank you for sharing your experience. My daughter is about to turn five soon, and I'm just now coming across this. I'm glad to know that this works and helps families heal and form better connection.
What she says is true for women about dumbing themselves down and hiding themselves so not to get hurt by men and also other women who are jealous who believe you more beautiful them themselves.
This was amazing!! And amazing questions too! Thank you!
This is everything ! Love it
The most amazing interview. Thank you. Some many people I want to share this with.
amazing interview! get her back!
AMAZING VIEW. A GREAT BALLANCE BETWEEN AUTHORITY AND LIBERTY IS ALWAYS GREAT.
FANTASTIC!!!!!!!!!
Noone could be in the present moment like a child. Fully present. No agenda. Therefore child is a teacher. 0 to 6 most Transformation Experience. Life keep going. No end. Attachment to form is illusion. Only relevance is relationship with current moment. Even if erased.
Damn! She was GOOD! Really great to listen to a truly deep and meaningful expert on such an important topic. Glad you asked the question about what men can do. Feel like they're kind of like the 'secondary' parent and that's not a fair deal for anyone, including society.
Good one
Amazing cant put into words thank u
What an amazing interview... Sending you light and love :)
waiting to be seen.. WOOWWW That´s what I unfold in my family.
WOW! THANK YOU
Try to connect. Wake up. Teenage. Bold now. I don't want to anymore. Cut the chord. Parenting is a mask to hid our sufferings. Humility. Complete trust in their destiny. Hard to see them go through pain. Let them go through. Last in race. Don't fix it. You are already complete. Who you are is beyond doing. Don't miss with who they are.
24:32 priceless
Great!!! Thank you!
so much yesss at 31:42! more young adults need to be exposed to this higher thinking :)
"Am I connected to my self today?"
"Am I feeling whole today?"
"Where are my missing pieces today?"
"Cause whatever is missing within us, within 10 minutes of our child waking up, we are gonna dump it on them."
"Everytime I see something wrong in what my child is doing, it's because I'm feeling wronged in my own life or that I'm not good enough. So when I'm not feeling good enough, I see everything wrong in my child."
"If I'm coming from a superfluous sense of gratitude and wellness, suddenly they can do no wrong. It's all projection."
The best
Omg 😍 I love her!
I see a lot of Sadhguru's way of seeing things here :) that would be a super different and interesting interview. i advise you go and check in out Lewis
Peter Moutinho i was just thinking she is a female sadhguru
Peter Moutinho YES! Love Sadhguru 💜 I went to Inner Engineering, such a profound experience in every way! Would also Love to see an interview w/ Sadhguru!
Whatever I am missing. Going to dump on them. Insecure about ourselves. They reflect. How do we remove ego. Survive to fit in with our parents. False self is ego. Suffacate then. Ego good for survival. Outside view important. Accept ego. Reflection. Question. Train to question themselves. Don't just believe. Pause & Question.
She looks like a dark milky coffee,
Beautiful, awakening and enlightening
Love it ❤️❤️❤️
This is dope
How about raising a child on the Autism Spectrum?
I totally drew the same Dog whisperer parallel too LOL
"take.... a break... for a couple.... generations..." .
No attachments.
❤️
✨
👍👍👍👍👍
'if you created a being you should be curing cancer.... If you were that fenomenal... You're not'. Lamao😂
When Doves Cry - Prince
Their parenting model sounds as if it’s a human model. It all correlates to all inter personal relationships.
Think there is a mistake at 34:18 cause she said she has been meditating since she was 22!! And said that it was only 5 years ago?! How can that be? When she is clearly 48 years old this year. And had her child in her 30s._. And did this interview just 3 years back? How is that possible? Was she lying? O.o was it a mistake 🤔 and even mentioned that her daughter is 13 in this video! Like whut._. How can it be 5 years ago and at age 22?! Someone from this channel's team please let us know!
This was a joke. She was joking about her age.
Fabulous! My daughter just had a baby so I shared this with her. This interview should be part of every prenatal class. This is better than any parenting course I've ever taken.
Agreed!
Yessss! ❤️
Thank you! I had a parenting class that destroyed my maternal instincts. I am so glad I found this therapist's video.
Finally, a guest who is intelligent, empowering and most important humble and on point. Lately, your guest is just pretending they know stuff to sell books, but this one is ON IT!!!! Fantastic, liberating, valuable!! Thank you very much!!
Mrs 504
I agree totally 👍
Dr. Shefali is my dear friend and mentor and I fully agree that she has deep wisdom and brilliance. :)
Yes, she is on point. Such a great interview!
yes it required expertise and experience before you something to teach. to many people write selfhelp books
I do agree thought with your point that she is an amazing guest - but so are the others. Every person is unique, stop judging. Just because they promote their passion of life such as books- that does not make them bad or evil ;)
Lewis!!!!!! This episode was crazy and mind blowing. We need her on again for at least 3 more hours. Just crazy the ideas and concepts in her mind.
I have been learning from Dr. Shefali for years and every time she teaches me another layer :)
Dennis Perkins IV I know you posted this a year ago but have you seen her interview on Impact Theory? It’s really good too!
@@reacakes ooh thanks! Ima check it out too! Lol
I can imagine how many lives will be impacted in a profound way by these 60 minutes.
Dr Shefali is so incredible. Cant wait to read her book. Thanks for being your best version Lewis in having the ability to connect with her so well! Such 🔥🔥🔥
Timothy Furnari .. well said. Agree!
Makes me wonder, if you may be giving yourself advice through critiquing me
Beautiful interview strong and humbling 🙏🏼
Mind blowing ! This episode She I think changed my life, it felt like 10 minutes. I want this talk to continue for hours. I must hear this again and again. Thank you so much. I must read her books.
best episode ever!!!!
Wow, such a great episode! I LOVE parenting episodes, even though I am not a parent yet
Dr. Shefali has so much to teach. If we can be open to it. A life changing and powerful woman.
This is a great message to give parents in Africa..... Anyway, I do get what she is saying... Although, souls choose their parents despite how many screwed up parents there are......
What???? She’s only under 30??? So much wisdom!
Kirsten Casado she’s in her forties .... (but looks like she is in her twenties ....)
Mind blowing.
... How freaking awesome would it be, Lewis, if you's have both Dr. Shefali AND Brene Brown over for a joint interview?
This woman gets it. So glad I watched this!
Let the children lead the way ❤️
This woman is AMAZING in every way! Thank you!
thank you for this! I love Dr S... keep up the great work and shows.. love from Canada
So much wisdom! It amazes me.
Could watch and listen to her all day! Thank you for the awesome teaching!
most profound, deepest, rawest and empowering/educational podcast i've watched in the past couple months.. thank you for sharing this with us..
Lewis can you have Matthew Hussey again please? :(( thanks😍
I absolutely love her!!! Thank you for this interview!
I am silenced by what I have just witnessed. Totally mind-blowing stuff and my jaw was dropped through most of it! Amazing.
This absolutely blew my mind! Wow!!!
Wonderful, insightful conversation! Great job!