I'm so glad you went through those horrible days! You know why? Because everytime you make a video you pick up people who need help so badly! Millions of people able to take another step, to breath another breath, to face another day because you demonstrate such good lessons of hope and value! God bless you!
Yes this is true. I have great mentors in my life now that are just like Kristina. Came out of hardship whether emotional physical or financial and they have made choices.. Grown.. And now leading us to change our lives. So blessed xx
Its not permanent, its right now... I wished I watched this video when I had a colicky baby, teething toddlers, when we bought our groceries with credit cards, when I had a high risk twin pregnancy, when my boy was fighting for his life in the NICU..etc Its true, its not permanent, its right now... 💕 Keep moving forward. 💕 Thank you for the reminder!
I seriously needed to hear this! I'm potty training my special needs child and we're going through financial struggle (we have a foodstamp card and my husband works) and it's so hard, I've cried, I've just held him and my daughter and felt all the judgement from everyone who thinks I'm a bad mother for his disability or when my kids act up in a store, just feel the judging eyes on me at the store all while I'm trying SO hard to parent while pregnant with our final child and using foodstamp card. I just want to potty train my son so he feels normal and accepted not by just his family but everyone. It hurts my heart and I swear this would last forever, but now...I feel like it won't, thank you so much! I wish I could hug you 😭
Kensi: This to Shall pass. I Promise. And Don't Worry about other's.bc you know what?? They Wouldn't Last a Day, Or Even 1 Hour in Your Shoes!!! Bc people that Sit around Judging other's,Are Weak,Lazy& Just Snob's. They've Never had to deal with Real Life As You are & I Have. Still am . So Lift your head high. When other's Start Talking Bad about you. Turn to them& tell them what your Dealing with.Then Ask them if They Wanna take over& Do Your Job. Since they Think they know it all. Their Mouths Will Drop& Shut up Real Quickly!!! Or Simply say: You wanna Take Over? Then I'll Finally can get some sleep... Lol. Stand Up for Yourself. Don't allow Anyone to make you feel less of Anything girl. You Are Amazing!!! You Will Rise Above it All. Bc Tho You Don't Always feel like it. But Your Stronger than you think you are. Your Still here& Still Loving Your kids& Still Juggling Everything. Take Time To Breath!! Take time to Realize That Soooooooo Many others Couldn't Do All what You Are Doing!! My Mom Was My Encourager!! She Always Prayed me thru too. But Those we're Just Some of her words she'd say to me. Bc honestly, I had my share of Break downs when my kids were a sleep. But her I am now a Proud Nana of 3 Amazing Grandkids. 51 yrs old. I Lived!!! They Lived!!! (All 4 of them. 1 Brain damaged) You Will Too. God bless you
Your absolutely right. I am now disabled. I have so many health issues. I can't work anymore. I really wish I could but I can't walk. I can't stand. I can't sit very long and I have Parkinson's disease. So I have a hard time shaving, eating talking now Social Security has cut my benefits. Just before Christmas. I may now end up losing my apartment my car I'm not supposed to drive anymore so that doesn't matter but I stay positive keep a positive attitude and a good sense of humor but mine is permanent I'll never be healed and I may not live much longer but I will stay positive
I need to repeat this to myself daily. Anxiety makes hard moments so much worse. I'm not getting enough sleep, right now. I'm struggling to juggle classes, right now. I need love, always Thank you Kristina for sharing. 💜💜
Iam in that place too. Pain in my body every second of the day but my soul is full of joy because I have so much love inside and have a beautiful and tender son. Faith and love to you too.
Right now for a chronic spoonie is a different story. For us, some things are a little more permanent but... I like what Kristina said about how you face things. 'Stay feisty!'
Thank you for the reminder. God knew I needed to hear this today as He and I have been chatting about a not permanent situation. Blessings to you and yours.
I want to thank you so much for this. There have been so many times where I have felt like I'm not ever going to get out of my situation but I just got a new job and I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for always being so raw and open. I'm a single mom right now lol, soon to be married though. Life is tough but you're right, it's not permanent!
Love you're inspiration. Sorry someone was so ignorant to hurt a stranger's feelings. Seems like more adults need to learn the golden rule again. Thank you for this. It helps to hear it.
I feel like you’ve honestly brought so much good and so much inspiration to so many others, out of what you learned in the hardest times in your life. You are such an inspiration!! 🤗😘
i really needed something like this video right now... i have been feeling like i hate myself as a mother for a while now. i feel like a failure alot and i am really hard on myself. its really hard. thank you for making me feel like this feeling wont last forever and that it might even be normal
You’re definitely not the only one. I feel like that a lot as well. The thing that makes me feel a little better is watching my kids when they learn something new, when they get excited about something, if/when they play nicely together. That’s when I think “hmmm maybe I’m not doing too bad as a mom. It’s definitely tough, but we’ll make it through.
Thank you, Kristina, for your words, they are so uplifting; sorry, for everything you went through - it wasn’t easy for you.... all these struggles.... and now where you at right now is just incredible ....
Yep. Needed this right now. My son is fighting naps and thus not getting enough sleep. It's super frustrating, right now. But this is a chapter, and we will get through it.
Thank you very much for this! I need to hear these kind of things, especially now when we're about to welcome our little one into this world really soon (like the the next few weeks). And I know that it's gonna be the best and hardest adventure I'm embarking right now. Thank you again for what you're doing!
This is a great message. Kindred spirits, we are. Similar situation. In fact, told it was situational in nature. Just kept moving forward, a little at a time. I am going to share this one. Thank you
I loved this video. It really does apply to some things that I am going through with being a mom and it actually gives me a different perspective on the little things, like potty training, that I become overwhelmed and frustrated with. Thank you for posting this!!
Omg are you a mindreader??? How come every time i m stuck about something and feeling low ...you are there wid an inspiring video.I m in tears “RIGHT NOW” and this really works.Thank you so much
This video changed my life, i watched a month ago and every day i tell myself when something happen "it's not permanent, it's right now" . Thank you so much for sharing. Hugs from Chile
This is the third time I’ve come back to this video - I needed the reminder that the hard times are not permanent. Thanks Kristina; God bless you ❤️🙏🏾😘 Fernelle Davis
I cried my eyes out through this whole video. I needed this. I’m approaching 30 soon and feel like I’m far behind. And the pressure of being a mom I just want better for her. But this is our situation, RIGHT NOW. THANK YOU KRISTIN 💕😘🤗
I've watched this video so many times, it is so encouraging and so incredibly relatable, so well-delivered. I have recommended it to so many people to watch it because it has such an amazing message. Thank you, Kristina!
Assignment completed 😆 (Melly R from the FB live comment lol). THANK YOU for making this video. It definitely helped lift my spirits and gave me hope. ❤️❤️
This also applies to good moments. You can say, I am in a happy place RIGHT NOW. It can take so long and such hard work to overcome difficult times and yet only a matter of minutes for it all to fall apart. Change is constant and nothing is permanent. But what if you’re having more bad than good years? Is it still worth it?
I have a friend who uses this kind of verbiage. She uses "right now" a lot. She also uses, "today" for example, "I'm not liking my Dad today", She will say, "that didn't go well" or "she is not loving it". It It is a much more fluid way to speak. It leaves room for things to change, for things to get better. I love it. Her name is Jen, and I call the phrases that she uses "Jenism's". I love it.
OMG... I was there. In the check out. With the lady behind me. But the checker was worse. It was all I could do to hold my 3 year old little girl and my breath at the same time without falling over. And I hated myself. BUT you’re right!!! It’s over! 3 years later I’m on my feet and happy. Still living a stressful life but I’m alive and moving forward everyday. Thank you for YOU!! XOXO
Really needed to hear that. Going through a lot of loneliness, and still again.. in school and working part time trying to achieve my dream, and still a long ways away. Still single, and no good prospective man in sight. Still trying to heal from things in my childhood. Still dealing with anxiety and imperfect sleep... I have a God mom who used to tell me, this season of your life isn't forever. But, it sure feels forever. and I love how you said, stay feisty. I do have a feisty side of me, but a lot of pain makes you not want to try anymore. Thankfully, I think I'm going to keep trying, somehow.
I thank you for sharing this. I needed to hear this. I lost my Dad April 25, 2018. It still hurts so bad. I feel like I am in a deep dark hole and I can't get out of it. You are an inspiration to me! So thank you for your videos. You don't know how much....😭😭😭😭 You don't know how much lighter you make my day. And right now I need it! ❤️❤️❤️
This is definitely good advice! 😍it’s just extra hard when you have chronic disease, that has no cure. It IS permanent & that is VERY difficult! I just keep praying for God’s help to “live above the circumstances”🙏🏻 But thanks for the great videos!
OMGoodness! You have no idea how awesome this is for me! Thank you for always making me laugh, inspiring me, or empowering me! Bless you for being transparent!
I wish there was a love button for your videos! I truly needed this! I’ve been going though a feeling stuck faze and this just helped me tremendously! THANK-YOU!
Thank you :'( what a horrible women who said that! I am also being judged and put down *right now * for not working, even though i work 24/7 taking care of 4 children.
You are brilliant!!! I am in my 50’s... my kids are grown and have young children. I appreciate watching your videos and being able to send these encouragements to them. Thank you for being so vulnerable, honest, candid and funny. You Rock!!!
I can't even explain how much I LOVE YOU! OMG thank you. Thank you so much. I needed this. Look at all these comments. We aren't alone. There are many of us that needed this. Especially now too with Christmas right around the corner. Kristina Kuzmic you've made me laugh at things I was taking way too seriously (myself lol) and you've made me cry by really putting life in perspective. You've also lifted me up high enough to see the light at the end of the tunnel. A light I'd forgotten was even there. I'm really freaking scared, but I think it's going to be ok. I believe it will work out as long as I do my best and let the rest go. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. Hugs and high fives, prayers and blessings.
Wow. Perfect timing for me to see your video. Today marks 3 months that I've had un-diagnosed issues going on, and it STINKS!!! It's HARD! Thank you for reminding me that yes -- right now, it stinks, but it is not permanent. I will try to remember that. : ) Have a good day, Kristina! Thank you.
Kristina I love you soo much with your inspirational videos which we can all relate to. Im so proud of you how you are so positive and your videos gives me that "push" that I need to continue my day. Have a blest day and god bless you and your family. LOTS OF LOVE FROM FIJI.
Thank you just so much from the bottom of my heart. I cried to myself thru the whole thing. I also have 2 boys 2 & 4. I'm going thru a really hard time right now actually for the past 5-6 years but then COVID strucked & made it even harder. So I watched this video again to remind myself so thank you oh so much. 😭😭😘😘🤗🤗
Thanks Kristina! I sure needed this. My mom passed away last April and I certainly have grieved much for her - definitely heartbroken. I knew another wave of grief was coming over me the last few days but yesterday it just swept over me with such force that I said yesterday, "I hope it's not always going to be like this." It sure felt permanent. My counselor said it's because that protective layer of shock , as it does after some time, fall away.Thank you...I will use "for now" or "right now".
Thank you for this. Exactly what I needed to hear right now. I felt heard and seen with this video. Not getting enough sleep. Struggling financially. Hating my circumstances. I was even diagnosed with circumstantial depression at the end of 2019. While I was watching your video I stood in my living room beside my Christmas tree overlooking a still unfinished living and dining room. For the first time in several months I looked around the place and felt like it was mine. This is my home and I want to make a good home. Only now am I starting to wake up from this depression. I remember where I was just a year ago. I was living in my sister's dining room with my newborn and fiancé. The space was no bigger than a walk in closet, no room for anything really. I remember how much I was crying, how little I slept, how I had almost no money in the bank. I'm still struggling in some area's today but remembering back to where I was just a year ago...it's humbling and I am grateful. So thank you ✨
So good. Spot on. I am so grateful I found you through Zach Anner. You. Are. One. In. A. Million! Thank you for taking the time to create and upload your videos. You make a positive difference for so, so many! Keep shining, Valerie in Colorado
I saw this video yesterday and shared it. I had just posted on Facebook (which I don't usually make posts like the one I did) but I wrote "Bored... Depressed." I have so much I'm struggling with in life right now and it just all seem to hit me all at once...I began to cry....then I just couldn't make it stop. Uncontrollable sobbing. Within about 3 minutes of my post, I had the notification of your video pop down from the top of my phone screen with the title "It's Not Permanent." I immediately clicked on it and watched it. I thought "Wow, God must have sent me that at that very moment because he knew I needed to hear it." So first I thank Him for His timing, and secondly thank you for the video, you have no idea how you helped me put things into a better perspective. ❤️
I am a single mum. Have been a single mum for 6 years now. I am struggling with financially for almost 3 years. And I hate my self because I can't afford to provide simple things for my 2 boys. I feel like a failure and a bad mum. And when I hear this..I cried. Thank you for this reminder.
You are truly a blessing Kristina. I don’t know you and will probably never meet you but I love and appreciate you. Your encouragement and humor are so helpful to my mom heart 💝. Thank you.
Wow.... what divine timing. Thank you for being real in a world full of illusion. I appreciate you and this video. Thanks for the kind words and loving advice. Coming from a new mother to be within the next month. Love and light to you. 🖤🖤🖤
I neeeded this, I been going through alot cus of my 17yr old son, he’s so mean to me, he won’t talk to me, I have to text him & he barely answers me? He skips classes at school n is failing so tmr he starts at a small high school only 50-60kuds, I hope he gets on the bus n goes there, last night he snuck out of the apt, he quit his job & wont get another, but when he did gave job he send half his check to kids on cash app n I’d find weed m vapes in his room , I threw away I won’t have that, I been having chest pains I know it’s the stress from him, my sweet pea 12 yr old autistic daughter makes me feel better with lots of hugs she gives me awww😢🥰😩
Thank you. I’m tearing up just typing this but today was one of those awful horrible no good very bad days that had me questioning my decision to procreate. I have 4 kids and today, with the exception of my eldest, they were epic. It was humiliating and I felt like absolute garbage. I had to pull over on the drive home because I was so hysterical. Later, I remembered a funny video you did that randomly popped up on my Facebook ages ago and I looked you up on TH-cam. I watched this first because the title spoke to me. While I don’t carry it, I do still have my old EBT card. And everything you said, I desperately needed to hear. So thank you. Thank you for reminding me that this too shall pass, and that I’m not alone.
Thank you. I really hope you are right. I am the exception. The rare case to my brain surgery recovery. 11 months and counting. I was supposed to be recovered in 12 weeks at the most. Everyday headaches. I can’t work. I can’t even get food stamps because I’m not a citizen. I’m very happy with my family. They are everything to me. But I don’t feel like I’m truly living happily when I am in so much pain all day. I truly hope you are right and this is going to get better soon.
I’m a stay at home mom with an almost 3 year old and a 6 month old.....the transition from 1 to 2 kids has been hard on me to say the least. Iv REALLY been trying to keep this “right now” statement in my head 😭
Dear Kristina, thank you for being so honest about your life. I got divorced three months ago, I have 3 daughters ages 8,5 and 4. I am without a job and I hate myself realy bad. I was just reasoning with myself should I stay alive or not. And I came acros your posts on TH-cam. And because of them I gave myself another day. I still think my children deserve better and I should get myself out of the way, but at least that can wait till tomorow. Maybe tomorow will be different. Thank you so much for being honest about everything. Somehow that gives me hope that my children will not be damaged if I stay alive and a part of their lives. Thank you.
I found out today that my sister-in-law, my brother's widow, only has a few more months to live, and all the pain of losing my brother two years ago, and my mom nine and my sister and dad more than twenty years ago has all come back. I don't know how to do it all over again and I don't want to. But it's not permanent, although the pain never goes away. It will quiet down and there will be smiles again.
Thanks for this ,I am glad I watched your this video, for I am feeling so down and out ..... Your words are so inspiring! that I am in tears right now .....
I’m sure this spoke to a lot of other people too, but it is exactly what I needed to hear. I had to cancel my health insurance today because we just can’t pay for it next month. We’re on the bottom of middle class but we’re just not “poor enough” to get any sort of assistance from anywhere. So we pay for everything ourselves and we are proud of that......but what nobody sees is the struggle that goes with it. The meal planning, the penny counting, just to be able to pay our rent, car, insurance, and other bills, our food, and that is it. No more no less, and it seems like we are drowning, so thank you for the reminder that this is just RIGHT NOW ❤️
Thanks Kristina!! I needed that right now. Mama of 3 myself. Husband works around 12 hours plus and life is hectic at best, etc etc. You are a bright light in the dark night. I saw your show when I was only a mama of 2 and cried when you told your story because I felt the same way too in my recent past. The good Lord pulled me right outta that! And you were one of the strongest influences at that time to help me not hate myself. Thanks for being so real and in touch with the human condition and telling it so well. God bless you all your days! Much love, sister! ~Audrey
Thanks.. I needed that.. I'm going through the hardest parenting phase right now. I'm always exhausted, irritable, sensitive, yelling at my little ones and it's killing me.. I feel like such a bad mom.. but I've never been so tired in my life..
Thank you. I needed this today. My 5 month old hasn’t napped all day and is losing it, my 17 month old throws a tantrum every 30 minutes and I’m begging for bedtime. And it hit me, the mom guilt. I get to stay home and raise my kids. But the guilt is so hardcore because I just want them to goto bed. This saved me this evening. Thank you, Kristina.
Thank you som much for sharing this. I'm batteling depression, dealing with phisical problems and a lot of mom quilt (right now!) and it is so hard to try and becom positive again about my and our future. So your advice really helps to keep it in the now. That really helped me!!
❤️I couldn’t love this more! You are such a strong lady and you’re such a huge inspiration.❤️ Thank you for sharing your life and nuggets of wisdom. I always look forward to your videos.
Have just started sharing this as much as I can with my friends. There are so many people I know right now who are struggling and need to be reminded of this. Myself very much included. Thanks so much for your realism and your encouragement, it is so much appreciated. 😊
Man you hit the nail on the head in a lot of things...I feel like a wus tearing up as a man when I watch this cuz I remember.....I was making videos of myself back then should something happen so others would know....but I deleted those videos .....that was then and I'm in the right now ....I'll remember your sound words should it happen again....thank you for sharing
I just love you!!! You have lifted me up so many times during the past few years. My son is 3, he was about a year old when I found you on Facebook. I know I found your FB page because I needed to hear the unspoken truths of parenthood, you reminded me that I was a good mum and that even when it's hard it's still ok. I needed your humour, oh man have you brightened up my day and moods with your great sense of humour! I needed your upbeat, energetic personality, you helped me to feel motivated again. Thank you for being you! Thank you for all the good you have done for me xoxoxoxo You are awesome!
I wish I could use this for my high spectrum autistic son, but I can't I wish I could use this for my eldest with stage 4 non- Hodgkins, but I can't I wish I could use this for my son that is unfairly incarcerated, but I can't I wish I could use this for my daughter & my grandkids who were abandoned by their dad, but I can't I don't know where we will be in 5 years and I'm scared some days to think about it. Remember where you come from, and learn from it, so you are prepared for what may happen in the future.
Gosh, I'm in tears. Right now I'm waiting on the man of my dreams, right now I'm a housekeeper for the 2nd time, right now im driving a 1998 Toyota, and right now my son and I are living in a income based apartment.
How does this apply to me , when my circuit are permanent i won't get better i will get worse. I have major health problems i need help to do just about everything i need help getting up i need help getting out of bed i need help putting my socks on. I cant help my daughter with my 2 yr old Grandson because i cant lift him or run around after him , im only 43 and my life was stolen from me by illness thst wont evrr go away. My daughter is 26 my Mom who is 70 babysits him ,runs around after him , lifts him and swings him around and he laughs so hard . I sit there watching cause i can't participate. So for me this is forever.
Your video got me thinking. This "right now" thing is not only about bad things. It's about everything. Good and happy are also not permanent. And it's a good reminder to actually be grateful for every moment
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I'm so glad you went through those horrible days! You know why? Because everytime you make a video you pick up people who need help so badly! Millions of people able to take another step, to breath another breath, to face another day because you demonstrate such good lessons of hope and value! God bless you!
Yes this is true. I have great mentors in my life now that are just like Kristina. Came out of hardship whether emotional physical or financial and they have made choices.. Grown.. And now leading us to change our lives. So blessed xx
You said, perfectly, what thousands of people can't put into words. 💚
That’s exactly how I feel ❤️🙏🏾😘
💯 °/. Trueeee
You are soooooo inspirational, beautiful, strong 💪, we need more people like you
I needed that reminder. Right now, I needed it. 💚
So did I. Your are not alone. We are never alone! God Bless 🌹
@@MummyforLife , 😙💚
Its not permanent, its right now...
I wished I watched this video when I had a colicky baby, teething toddlers, when we bought our groceries with credit cards, when I had a high risk twin pregnancy, when my boy was fighting for his life in the NICU..etc
Its true, its not permanent, its right now... 💕
Keep moving forward. 💕
Thank you for the reminder!
I seriously needed to hear this! I'm potty training my special needs child and we're going through financial struggle (we have a foodstamp card and my husband works) and it's so hard, I've cried, I've just held him and my daughter and felt all the judgement from everyone who thinks I'm a bad mother for his disability or when my kids act up in a store, just feel the judging eyes on me at the store all while I'm trying SO hard to parent while pregnant with our final child and using foodstamp card. I just want to potty train my son so he feels normal and accepted not by just his family but everyone. It hurts my heart and I swear this would last forever, but now...I feel like it won't, thank you so much! I wish I could hug you 😭
Kensi: This to Shall pass. I Promise. And Don't Worry about other's.bc you know what?? They Wouldn't Last a Day, Or Even 1 Hour in Your Shoes!!! Bc people that Sit around Judging other's,Are Weak,Lazy& Just Snob's. They've Never had to deal with Real Life As You are & I Have. Still am .
So Lift your head high. When other's Start Talking Bad about you. Turn to them& tell them what your Dealing with.Then Ask them if They Wanna take over& Do Your Job. Since they Think they know it all.
Their Mouths Will Drop& Shut up Real Quickly!!! Or Simply say: You wanna Take Over? Then I'll Finally can get some sleep... Lol. Stand Up for Yourself. Don't allow Anyone to make you feel less of Anything girl. You Are Amazing!!! You Will Rise Above it All. Bc Tho You Don't Always feel like it. But Your Stronger than you think you are. Your Still here& Still Loving Your kids& Still Juggling Everything. Take Time To Breath!! Take time to Realize That Soooooooo Many others Couldn't Do All what You Are Doing!! My Mom Was My Encourager!! She Always Prayed me thru too. But Those we're Just Some of her words she'd say to me. Bc honestly, I had my share of Break downs when my kids were a sleep. But her I am now a Proud Nana of 3 Amazing Grandkids. 51 yrs old. I Lived!!! They Lived!!! (All 4 of them. 1 Brain damaged) You Will Too.
God bless you
Your absolutely right. I am now disabled. I have so many health issues. I can't work anymore. I really wish I could but I can't walk. I can't stand. I can't sit very long and I have Parkinson's disease. So I have a hard time shaving, eating talking now Social Security has cut my benefits. Just before Christmas. I may now end up losing my apartment my car I'm not supposed to drive anymore so that doesn't matter but I stay positive keep a positive attitude and a good sense of humor but mine is permanent I'll never be healed and I may not live much longer but I will stay positive
you are amazing and a good person the world needs you... merry early Christmas my friend
you are so strong!! how are you doing today? are you feeling any better?
I need to repeat this to myself daily. Anxiety makes hard moments so much worse.
I'm not getting enough sleep, right now.
I'm struggling to juggle classes, right now.
I need love, always
Thank you Kristina for sharing. 💜💜
This is so touching. Thank you for your wonderful words ❤
Oh how I would love to be able to use “right now”, on my chronic pain 😢😭
Linda Landry but you can use prayer “RIGHT NOW “ , may godbless you today anything is possible through the lord don’t give up
Iam in that place too. Pain in my body every second of the day but my soul is full of joy because I have so much love inside and have a beautiful and tender son. Faith and love to you too.
Right now for a chronic spoonie is a different story. For us, some things are a little more permanent but... I like what Kristina said about how you face things. 'Stay feisty!'
Pain can have a dramatic effect on your mood and mental well-being. Please reach out as we have helped so many people with pain and health 💙
Thank you for the reminder. God knew I needed to hear this today as He and I have been chatting about a not permanent situation. Blessings to you and yours.
I want to thank you so much for this. There have been so many times where I have felt like I'm not ever going to get out of my situation but I just got a new job and I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for always being so raw and open. I'm a single mom right now lol, soon to be married though. Life is tough but you're right, it's not permanent!
Love you're inspiration. Sorry someone was so ignorant to hurt a stranger's feelings. Seems like more adults need to learn the golden rule again. Thank you for this. It helps to hear it.
Thank you so much for this. I really needed it right now.
My 4 year old is throwing a fit because she wants to eat a bag of marshmallows... right now.
wow, you are something! Something very very good.
Wow. I needed to hear this. Thank you for this. 💕
Girl why you always gotta make me cry!!!!!! 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I feel like you’ve honestly brought so much good and so much inspiration to so many others, out of what you learned in the hardest times in your life. You are such an inspiration!! 🤗😘
😭 I needed this Right Now. Thank you 🙏🏼💋
Wow I’m about to be in tears, thank you so much for this video I needed to see this 💖🙏🏻
Bingeing your videos. Potty training right now.... this is such a good reminder ❤️
i really needed something like this video right now... i have been feeling like i hate myself as a mother for a while now. i feel like a failure alot and i am really hard on myself. its really hard. thank you for making me feel like this feeling wont last forever and that it might even be normal
Oh please don't hate yourself. Being a parent is fricken hard and some kids are harder to parent than others. We all do our best in that moment xx
@@Kristy-ns5bh thank you.
You’re definitely not the only one. I feel like that a lot as well. The thing that makes me feel a little better is watching my kids when they learn something new, when they get excited about something, if/when they play nicely together. That’s when I think “hmmm maybe I’m not doing too bad as a mom. It’s definitely tough, but we’ll make it through.
I needed that I carry my old food stamp card around too. It's not active hasn't been active for years.
I totally needed to see this! Thank you so much! You are such an inspiration to me!
I'm in that, hate myself right now period, separation and eff all money, trying to get a job. So thank you for this video. I needed it, right now.
Thank you, Kristina, for your words, they are so uplifting; sorry, for everything you went through - it wasn’t easy for you.... all these struggles.... and now where you at right now is just incredible ....
Yep. Needed this right now. My son is fighting naps and thus not getting enough sleep. It's super frustrating, right now. But this is a chapter, and we will get through it.
I hear you and l can relate... 🔼⬆⏫
Thank you for all you provide with your content!!
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, thank you!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you very much for this! I need to hear these kind of things, especially now when we're about to welcome our little one into this world really soon (like the the next few weeks). And I know that it's gonna be the best and hardest adventure I'm embarking right now. Thank you again for what you're doing!
Great video I needed to hear this.
Wow This is so powerful. 💙
This is a great message. Kindred spirits, we are. Similar situation. In fact, told it was situational in nature. Just kept moving forward, a little at a time. I am going to share this one. Thank you
I loved this video. It really does apply to some things that I am going through with being a mom and it actually gives me a different perspective on the little things, like potty training, that I become overwhelmed and frustrated with. Thank you for posting this!!
Omg are you a mindreader??? How come every time i m stuck about something and feeling low ...you are there wid an inspiring video.I m in tears “RIGHT NOW” and this really works.Thank you so much
This video changed my life, i watched a month ago and every day i tell myself when something happen "it's not permanent, it's right now" . Thank you so much for sharing. Hugs from Chile
This is the third time I’ve come back to this video - I needed the reminder that the hard times are not permanent. Thanks Kristina; God bless you ❤️🙏🏾😘 Fernelle Davis
Stay feisty! Love it! Yet another powerful Kuzmic video. Such great storytelling and takeaways! Wow!!
I needed this today. Thank you.
I cried my eyes out through this whole video. I needed this. I’m approaching 30 soon and feel like I’m far behind. And the pressure of being a mom I just want better for her. But this is our situation, RIGHT NOW. THANK YOU KRISTIN 💕😘🤗
Thank you... Said that to myself today... Thank you for confirmation. ;D
I've watched this video so many times, it is so encouraging and so incredibly relatable, so well-delivered. I have recommended it to so many people to watch it because it has such an amazing message. Thank you, Kristina!
Thank you for this video. Im pregnant and just got laid off. Things are stressful... Right now.
Assignment completed 😆 (Melly R from the FB live comment lol). THANK YOU for making this video. It definitely helped lift my spirits and gave me hope. ❤️❤️
I love all your videos !!!! But this one I needed right now!!! Thank you Kristina 💋💋💋
This also applies to good moments. You can say, I am in a happy place RIGHT NOW. It can take so long and such hard work to overcome difficult times and yet only a matter of minutes for it all to fall apart.
Change is constant and nothing is permanent. But what if you’re having more bad than good years? Is it still worth it?
I have a friend who uses this kind of verbiage. She uses "right now" a lot. She also uses, "today" for example, "I'm not liking my Dad today", She will say, "that didn't go well" or "she is not loving it". It It is a much more fluid way to speak. It leaves room for things to change, for things to get better. I love it. Her name is Jen, and I call the phrases that she uses "Jenism's". I love it.
OMG... I was there. In the check out. With the lady behind me. But the checker was worse. It was all I could do to hold my 3 year old little girl and my breath at the same time without falling over. And I hated myself. BUT you’re right!!! It’s over! 3 years later I’m on my feet and happy. Still living a stressful life but I’m alive and moving forward everyday. Thank you for YOU!! XOXO
Really needed this literally “right now” .....
I love your videos ❤️ subscribed ☺️
Really needed to hear that. Going through a lot of loneliness, and still again.. in school and working part time trying to achieve my dream, and still a long ways away. Still single, and no good prospective man in sight. Still trying to heal from things in my childhood. Still dealing with anxiety and imperfect sleep... I have a God mom who used to tell me, this season of your life isn't forever. But, it sure feels forever. and I love how you said, stay feisty. I do have a feisty side of me, but a lot of pain makes you not want to try anymore. Thankfully, I think I'm going to keep trying, somehow.
I thank you for sharing this. I needed to hear this. I lost my Dad April 25, 2018. It still hurts so bad. I feel like I am in a deep dark hole and I can't get out of it. You are an inspiration to me! So thank you for your videos. You don't know how much....😭😭😭😭 You don't know how much lighter you make my day. And right now I need it! ❤️❤️❤️
This is definitely good advice! 😍it’s just extra hard when you have chronic disease, that has no cure. It IS permanent & that is VERY difficult! I just keep praying for God’s help to “live above the circumstances”🙏🏻 But thanks for the great videos!
OMGoodness! You have no idea how awesome this is for me! Thank you for always making me laugh, inspiring me, or empowering me! Bless you for being transparent!
I wish there was a love button for your videos!
I truly needed this! I’ve been going though a feeling stuck faze and this just helped me tremendously! THANK-YOU!
Thank you :'( what a horrible women who said that! I am also being judged and put down *right now * for not working, even though i work 24/7 taking care of 4 children.
You are brilliant!!! I am in my 50’s... my kids are grown and have young children. I appreciate watching your videos and being able to send these encouragements to them. Thank you for being so vulnerable, honest, candid and funny. You Rock!!!
Your channel is so comforting. THANK YOU SO MUCH for doing this. We need more uplifting people and content in the world
I can't even explain how much I LOVE YOU! OMG thank you. Thank you so much. I needed this. Look at all these comments. We aren't alone. There are many of us that needed this. Especially now too with Christmas right around the corner. Kristina Kuzmic you've made me laugh at things I was taking way too seriously (myself lol) and you've made me cry by really putting life in perspective. You've also lifted me up high enough to see the light at the end of the tunnel. A light I'd forgotten was even there. I'm really freaking scared, but I think it's going to be ok. I believe it will work out as long as I do my best and let the rest go. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. Hugs and high fives, prayers and blessings.
Wow. Perfect timing for me to see your video. Today marks 3 months that I've had un-diagnosed issues going on, and it STINKS!!! It's HARD! Thank you for reminding me that yes -- right now, it stinks, but it is not permanent. I will try to remember that. : ) Have a good day, Kristina! Thank you.
Kristina I love you soo much with your inspirational videos which we can all relate to. Im so proud of you how you are so positive and your videos gives me that "push" that I need to continue my day.
Have a blest day and god bless you and your family. LOTS OF LOVE FROM FIJI.
THANK YOU. You hear that every day, I know, but I LOVE your videos and it always comes at the right time. Thank you. Warm regards from The Netherlands
Thank you just so much from the bottom of my heart. I cried to myself thru the whole thing. I also have 2 boys 2 & 4. I'm going thru a really hard time right now actually for the past 5-6 years but then COVID strucked & made it even harder. So I watched this video again to remind myself so thank you oh so much. 😭😭😘😘🤗🤗
God you are Amazing!!! this was exactly what I needed. Thank you for sharing this with the world!
Thanks Kristina! I sure needed this. My mom passed away last April and I certainly have grieved much for her - definitely heartbroken. I knew another wave of grief was coming over me the last few days but yesterday it just swept over me with such force that I said yesterday, "I hope it's not always going to be like this." It sure felt permanent. My counselor said it's because that protective layer of shock , as it does after some time, fall away.Thank you...I will use "for now" or "right now".
Love your wisdom. It feels like it comes from
A very good place.
Thank you for this. Exactly what I needed to hear right now. I felt heard and seen with this video. Not getting enough sleep. Struggling financially. Hating my circumstances. I was even diagnosed with circumstantial depression at the end of 2019.
While I was watching your video I stood in my living room beside my Christmas tree overlooking a still unfinished living and dining room. For the first time in several months I looked around the place and felt like it was mine. This is my home and I want to make a good home. Only now am I starting to wake up from this depression.
I remember where I was just a year ago. I was living in my sister's dining room with my newborn and fiancé. The space was no bigger than a walk in closet, no room for anything really. I remember how much I was crying, how little I slept, how I had almost no money in the bank.
I'm still struggling in some area's today but remembering back to where I was just a year ago...it's humbling and I am grateful.
So thank you ✨
So good. Spot on. I am so grateful I found you through Zach Anner. You. Are. One. In. A. Million! Thank you for taking the time to create and upload your videos. You make a positive difference for so, so many! Keep shining, Valerie in Colorado
I saw this video yesterday and shared it. I had just posted on Facebook (which I don't usually make posts like the one I did) but I wrote "Bored... Depressed." I have so much I'm struggling with in life right now and it just all seem to hit me all at once...I began to cry....then I just couldn't make it stop. Uncontrollable sobbing. Within about 3 minutes of my post, I had the notification of your video pop down from the top of my phone screen with the title "It's Not Permanent." I immediately clicked on it and watched it. I thought "Wow, God must have sent me that at that very moment because he knew I needed to hear it." So first I thank Him for His timing, and secondly thank you for the video, you have no idea how you helped me put things into a better perspective. ❤️
I am a single mum. Have been a single mum for 6 years now. I am struggling with financially for almost 3 years. And I hate my self because I can't afford to provide simple things for my 2 boys. I feel like a failure and a bad mum. And when I hear this..I cried. Thank you for this reminder.
You are truly a blessing Kristina. I don’t know you and will probably never meet you but I love and appreciate you. Your encouragement and humor are so helpful to my mom heart 💝. Thank you.
Wow.... what divine timing. Thank you for being real in a world full of illusion. I appreciate you and this video. Thanks for the kind words and loving advice. Coming from a new mother to be within the next month. Love and light to you. 🖤🖤🖤
I neeeded this, I been going through alot cus of my 17yr old son, he’s so mean to me, he won’t talk to me, I have to text him & he barely answers me? He skips classes at school n is failing so tmr he starts at a small high school only 50-60kuds, I hope he gets on the bus n goes there, last night he snuck out of the apt, he quit his job & wont get another, but when he did gave job he send half his check to kids on cash app n I’d find weed m vapes in his room , I threw away I won’t have that, I been having chest pains I know it’s the stress from him, my sweet pea 12 yr old autistic daughter makes me feel better with lots of hugs she gives me awww😢🥰😩
Thank you. I’m tearing up just typing this but today was one of those awful horrible no good very bad days that had me questioning my decision to procreate. I have 4 kids and today, with the exception of my eldest, they were epic. It was humiliating and I felt like absolute garbage. I had to pull over on the drive home because I was so hysterical. Later, I remembered a funny video you did that randomly popped up on my Facebook ages ago and I looked you up on TH-cam. I watched this first because the title spoke to me. While I don’t carry it, I do still have my old EBT card. And everything you said, I desperately needed to hear. So thank you. Thank you for reminding me that this too shall pass, and that I’m not alone.
Thank you. I really hope you are right. I am the exception. The rare case to my brain surgery recovery. 11 months and counting. I was supposed to be recovered in 12 weeks at the most. Everyday headaches. I can’t work. I can’t even get food stamps because I’m not a citizen. I’m very happy with my family. They are everything to me. But I don’t feel like I’m truly living happily when I am in so much pain all day. I truly hope you are right and this is going to get better soon.
What a wonderful video...I will be showing this to my children. Thank you for this~
I’m a stay at home mom with an almost 3 year old and a 6 month old.....the transition from 1 to 2 kids has been hard on me to say the least. Iv REALLY been trying to keep this “right now” statement in my head 😭
Dear Kristina, thank you for being so honest about your life. I got divorced three months ago, I have 3 daughters ages 8,5 and 4. I am without a job and I hate myself realy bad. I was just reasoning with myself should I stay alive or not. And I came acros your posts on TH-cam. And because of them I gave myself another day. I still think my children deserve better and I should get myself out of the way, but at least that can wait till tomorow. Maybe tomorow will be different. Thank you so much for being honest about everything. Somehow that gives me hope that my children will not be damaged if I stay alive and a part of their lives. Thank you.
I so needed that today. Thank you for your amazing videos but especially for this one.
I found out today that my sister-in-law, my brother's widow, only has a few more months to live, and all the pain of losing my brother two years ago, and my mom nine and my sister and dad more than twenty years ago has all come back. I don't know how to do it all over again and I don't want to. But it's not permanent, although the pain never goes away. It will quiet down and there will be smiles again.
Thanks for this ,I am glad I watched your this video, for I am feeling so down and out ..... Your words are so inspiring! that I am in tears right now .....
I’m sure this spoke to a lot of other people too, but it is exactly what I needed to hear. I had to cancel my health insurance today because we just can’t pay for it next month. We’re on the bottom of middle class but we’re just not “poor enough” to get any sort of assistance from anywhere. So we pay for everything ourselves and we are proud of that......but what nobody sees is the struggle that goes with it. The meal planning, the penny counting, just to be able to pay our rent, car, insurance, and other bills, our food, and that is it. No more no less, and it seems like we are drowning, so thank you for the reminder that this is just RIGHT NOW ❤️
Thanks Kristina!! I needed that right now. Mama of 3 myself. Husband works around 12 hours plus and life is hectic at best, etc etc. You are a bright light in the dark night. I saw your show when I was only a mama of 2 and cried when you told your story because I felt the same way too in my recent past. The good Lord pulled me right outta that! And you were one of the strongest influences at that time to help me not hate myself. Thanks for being so real and in touch with the human condition and telling it so well. God bless you all your days! Much love, sister!
~Audrey
Thanks.. I needed that.. I'm going through the hardest parenting phase right now. I'm always exhausted, irritable, sensitive, yelling at my little ones and it's killing me.. I feel like such a bad mom.. but I've never been so tired in my life..
Thank you. I needed this today. My 5 month old hasn’t napped all day and is losing it, my 17 month old throws a tantrum every 30 minutes and I’m begging for bedtime. And it hit me, the mom guilt. I get to stay home and raise my kids. But the guilt is so hardcore because I just want them to goto bed. This saved me this evening. Thank you, Kristina.
Love this!!! It’s rough in my life right now!!! Thank you so much!
Thank you som much for sharing this. I'm batteling depression, dealing with phisical problems and a lot of mom quilt (right now!) and it is so hard to try and becom positive again about my and our future. So your advice really helps to keep it in the now. That really helped me!!
❤️I couldn’t love this more! You are such a strong lady and you’re such a huge inspiration.❤️ Thank you for sharing your life and nuggets of wisdom. I always look forward to your videos.
Loved! Loved this video. Thank you for posting this message.
Have just started sharing this as much as I can with my friends. There are so many people I know right now who are struggling and need to be reminded of this. Myself very much included. Thanks so much for your realism and your encouragement, it is so much appreciated. 😊
Man you hit the nail on the head in a lot of things...I feel like a wus tearing up as a man when I watch this cuz I remember.....I was making videos of myself back then should something happen so others would know....but I deleted those videos .....that was then and I'm in the right now ....I'll remember your sound words should it happen again....thank you for sharing
I just love you!!!
You have lifted me up so many times during the past few years. My son is 3, he was about a year old when I found you on Facebook. I know I found your FB page because I needed to hear the unspoken truths of parenthood, you reminded me that I was a good mum and that even when it's hard it's still ok. I needed your humour, oh man have you brightened up my day and moods with your great sense of humour! I needed your upbeat, energetic personality, you helped me to feel motivated again.
Thank you for being you!
Thank you for all the good you have done for me xoxoxoxo
You are awesome!
I wish I could use this for my high spectrum autistic son, but I can't
I wish I could use this for my eldest with stage 4 non- Hodgkins, but I can't
I wish I could use this for my son that is unfairly incarcerated, but I can't
I wish I could use this for my daughter & my grandkids who were abandoned by their dad, but I can't
I don't know where we will be in 5 years and I'm scared some days to think about it.
Remember where you come from, and learn from it, so you are prepared for what may happen in the future.
Love you so much! Needed this so much right now! Came so perfectly I can't even believe it or tell you how much this means to me! Love you!!
Sitting here in my messy house with my 2 kids acting crazy as ever, ugly crying 😭 ... Thank you so much for these upbuilding videos 💙
Gosh, I'm in tears. Right now I'm waiting on the man of my dreams, right now I'm a housekeeper for the 2nd time, right now im driving a 1998 Toyota, and right now my son and I are living in a income based apartment.
Who the hell could give that a thumbs DOWN??? That was awesome.... thank you! 💖
How does this apply to me , when my circuit are permanent i won't get better i will get worse. I have major health problems i need help to do just about everything i need help getting up i need help getting out of bed i need help putting my socks on. I cant help my daughter with my 2 yr old Grandson because i cant lift him or run around after him , im only 43 and my life was stolen from me by illness thst wont evrr go away. My daughter is 26 my Mom who is 70 babysits him ,runs around after him , lifts him and swings him around and he laughs so hard . I sit there watching cause i can't participate. So for me this is forever.
Thank you so much for this video, and all your positive reality checking videos. Greatly appreciated. Much love ❤
Your video got me thinking. This "right now" thing is not only about bad things. It's about everything. Good and happy are also not permanent. And it's a good reminder to actually be grateful for every moment