Divorce Court - Veronica vs. Samuel - Communication Issues - Season 17, Episode 37 - Full Episode

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  • A young woman wants answers. Should she marry her boyfriend, is she really the problem in their relationship?
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  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    She's not ready to be married. Her statement "he's not the only man for me" should have told him everything he needed to know at that moment.

  • @RiFi357
    @RiFi357 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    "He's not the only man for me".....should've been it bro smh told you everything you needed to know

  • @lovemajesty1869
    @lovemajesty1869 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    For her to say "He's not the only man for me" it speaks volume. This young lady is ready to explore and see what else this world has to offer her especially with that statement she's certainly not ready to be his wife. She's only 21, she still has some maturing to do.

  • @claudetteyoung9011
    @claudetteyoung9011 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She is too immature for this 🙄 at 21 she should be out exploring the world and having fun 🤷🏾‍♀️. These older men marrying children then getting upset when they can't act like grown woman. What do they expect 🤷🏾‍♀️🙄.

    • @lesliejohnson-nelson4003
      @lesliejohnson-nelson4003 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She doesn’t have to do that because she’s 21 but she definitely isn’t ready for settling down

  • @1234j
    @1234j ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The sound is... NORMAL! Phew, at last.

  • @donniee.2238
    @donniee.2238 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Didn't hear her age and was about to say he should kick her to the curb. Given she's 21, he should send her home until she matures.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes she's 21 years old in the problem is that she isn't actually mature yet and I can't really get too mad at her for having expectations that she has as this modern day feminism has become very prevalent and this is what she has grown up to see and what she knows it's just a sad fact of reality of today has she been born in the '90s it wouldn't be so bad but the fact that she was born in 2003 is what this issue really is so all she is known is cell phones and social media and baggies all her life

    • @ashh641
      @ashh641 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@A_Well_Traveled_Man wait she wasn’t born in 2003, I was born in 2003 and I’m turning 20 this year

    • @secemoiraharrell1035
      @secemoiraharrell1035 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello somebody! Definitely agree

  • @joe-dante9036
    @joe-dante9036 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What does a 34 year old want with a 21 year old? That's not cute at all! He better get with people at least 10 years younger than him or under instead of messing around with people almost half his age

  • @veronicabroomes498
    @veronicabroomes498 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He want young women because he thinks he can control them, but he might get trick

  • @gab19guerin72
    @gab19guerin72 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She is not ready. She is still a child. He is controlling and needs to find a mature woman.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How is he controlling it seems like even the judge stated this he is just more mature in this situation he wants to make sure that things are stable he wants to make sure that they have the money to do the things that she wants to do those are excellent characteristics in a person He's not going to let her just randomly spend money and then they can't afford the light bill 🙄🤔🙄..
      What's wrong with you women!!!!

    • @gab19guerin72
      @gab19guerin72 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@A_Well_Traveled_Man she should be able to go out with her friends without him being present. They can’t be tied to the hip. Only insecure people act this way- you must be one.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gab19guerin72 clearly you're not looking into this deeply... He even said in the case he understands that she wants to have friends it's the fact of the friends that she's going out with the people she's going out with and the places that they're going... I'm not calling you out directly but if you were married to a man and he says hey babe every Thursday night I'm going to the strip club and I'll be back at 2:00 in the morning you will probably have a problem with that and that's all this man is stating he just wants to make sure that she's safe... And that's why I have a problem with the statement here cuz he cares.... Because God forbid something happens to her or somebody takes herself on or something like that and he doesn't know where she is The cops are going to be questioning him and he's going to be the one potentially going to jail....

    • @gab19guerin72
      @gab19guerin72 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@A_Well_Traveled_Man she is 21. She isn’t ready. His restrictions won’t mature her. He has to allow her to grow up. He can’t “control “ her into it. She has to make the correct decisions. She is VERY immature. He needs to leave her alone and find a mature person that won’t do the things she does.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gab19guerin72 so you're moving the goal post huh!?! 😂 Lol 😆 not to be personal but it's women like yourself that makes it difficult why not call it what it is... You even stated that she's immature but why is it always on the guy?!??.... That is what my whole point to this is it's always the man has to do this The man has to do that we never say anything about what the woman has to do That's my whole point You're sitting here defending her but also accusing her for being immature but not pointing out anything that she should be doing in that's my whole point in almost all of these situations it's women that's always defending other women and that's what makes us men so mad Us as men just like this guy probably would not have a problem with leaving her or anything like that but obviously she's there for him for a reason....
      Just like I know that you wouldn't get married to a man if it wasn't for some kind of benefit that you have out that man.... Whether that be support someone to be there to talk to monetary anything we all have our reasons.... But for some odd reason we always have to cuddle women she's a grown woman and he's just stating that he wants to make sure that she's okay now it'll be even more wrong if he said that I don't care that she staying out I don't care that she doesn't tell me where she's going that's become even more of an issue You guys have more of an issue about that it's like what do you want out this man or men in general... Women you guys make me sick because you guys always are changing the narrative there's never nothing good enough....
      Because he will be looked at as shallow if he just ups and leaves this woman and saying that she's immature then you guys would say why can't you stay there and try to work it out with him it's never good enough 🙄

  • @filmtressmu8552
    @filmtressmu8552 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "He's not the only man available," she said is correct in her 21 years old eyes. She's right but not honorable or respectful. It goes to show that she has expectations. I love her honesty as there is something innocent and attractive about it. Having said that, I am glad the Judge corrected her and showed her how close she still is to a 'girl'. Older women can see her answer as silly but this only means that she values herself and still should. Give her a chance to correct her mistakes. With age comes more wisdom. She's only 21 now. She hasn't even found herself yet. Give her time. But let's be honest, we've seen men come into women's lives, struggle with them used their energy, and once they reach their goal trade her for another woman at the drop of a dime. So, it's a slippery slope when as women we're asked to struggle with him but then get abandoned after we're depleted.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree but the fact that she is still very young and I think she wants to show of being married to show to her friends I don't think she really wants to be married she's not really at the age in her mind set yet to be married not to a real man like this guy is this guy is truly a man's man and she's not really ready for that type of commitment yet... Nobody's perfect in this world and I think that's what she's looking for a man that's perfect going to pay all her bills just like the standard modern-day woman

  • @user-gt1kd9rv1w
    @user-gt1kd9rv1w ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He’s a great guy but she’s just too young for the responsibility of the life he wants

  • @inn2beauty10
    @inn2beauty10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ummm I’m not putting all the emphasis and pressure on her. As a 42 yo man (myself) there is NO f*cking way I’d date, let alone marry a 21 yo kid! They may be an adult in the eyes of the law, but what the hell do I really have in common with that young person? They haven’t even matured and experienced life.
    So we can’t blame this extremely young immature person. He should be ashamed that he stunting her growth. Find a more mature woman (at least 26 and up). And I find it offensive that his ass can’t afford to buy the girl a Jamba Juice. If you can’t afford a girlfriend you don’t need one. Get you money up MR. SANCHEZ. Then he has the nerve to jealous…she’s 21 yo.
    Find someone more mature and closer to your damn age sir and don’t do so until you get all your finances in order! I couldn’t imagine trying to date someone when I’m struggling financially. 🙄😒 PRIORITIES PEOPLE!!!

  • @beautifulbutterfly6866
    @beautifulbutterfly6866 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The thing is at 21 she’s not ready she not as mature as he. he sounds like he wants a woman who should be his age to be a mom she’s 21 doesn’t sound like she’s ready to take care of herself let alone a 9 year old as a mom to she needs to focus on getting her self financially straight and some room to date she’s not ready to be locked in to a marriage if they got married it’ll be done in a year if that

  • @BlackPanther-qu2lh
    @BlackPanther-qu2lh ปีที่แล้ว +4

    From one bro to another bro let her go she's childish and she need to enjoy her youth.....and I can't really blame her for saying that because she hasn't experienced anything

  • @Chazcott
    @Chazcott ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Someone said it perfectly, she shows that she values herself as a young woman given her harsh, slightly disrespectful, but true statement.. and that’s fabulous! However she could end up really hurting this man out of immaturity. She doesn’t even really know how or why to appreciate a grown man that will cook, clean, AND provide AAAAND be a present father and partner. She hasn’t experienced life enough to know what’s truly valuable and makes her life peaceful. And that’s ok! At 21 I thought just being faithful and going to work to provide was enough. I think I’m absolutely crazy to have ever thought that! Now knocking at the door of 30 I know I personally need meaningful interaction, dancing, singing, safe space for expression, road trips and lazy hotel days on vacation.. those LITTLE things and then the rest just falls into place😊 we will work to have a safe home, trips and all that, we will make love more because we bonded when we were singing and dancing all day, we’ll talk instead of screaming/arguing because we worked on creating a safe space for expression. It all just fits like a puzzle❤

  • @woundedangel
    @woundedangel ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ultimately, this is on him. The simple truth is he's an older guy who has a pretty 21y/o and expect her to behave like a 34y/o woman. She behave, talk and think like a 21 y/o. At the time of this filming, she had only been out of high school for 3 years. He was in his 30's when she was a senior. He was in Junior High when she was born. I can't fault her for her childish ways because although legally she's an adult, she's still a kid. Their communication is off because neither of them are mature enough to listen. I think she misunderstood when Judge Toler asked her "Why is he the only man for you." I think she heard it as "Is he the only man for you"...she said no because they aren't married, not sure if they should be together and if the relationship falls apart there are more fish in the sea. She's just not mature enough to get married and in all fairness....neither is he.

  • @commentcomment3701
    @commentcomment3701 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    His compliment is all about who and what she is to him.

  • @karendorsey4780
    @karendorsey4780 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When it’s that big of a age difference, most of time the older spouse is controlling. She’s not ready to be in committed relationship. She needs to grow up! He needs to look for maturity and love himself! I pray he finds someone who share his goals and interests .

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      Your comment made literally no sense you contradicted yourself like twice so I don't think you even understand what you're trying to say😢😅 for the most part he looks pretty good He's just more mature and what he wants in life and she is 21 looking for the come up This is an everyday occurrence

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      And as a man you will know that most men prefer younger women in general because the fact that nine times out of 10 they don't have kids they don't have all the drama that comes along with most women after they become 25 to 30 years old

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      She's a gas lighter That's really what the issue is is that she's comparing her man to other men in the world That's a big no-no like if we did that as men to you women saying oh look at what she's doing here look at what she's doing there to other people outside of our relationship you guys would be having us on a fire grilling us.... So no it's more of her and he's just reacting to her shenanigans

    • @karendorsey4780
      @karendorsey4780 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@A_Well_Traveled_Man That’s your opinion! I am speaking from my own experience!! Have A Good Day!

  • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
    @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yep the only problem with this episode is that she's looking for the sugar daddy She wants to use him to have all of her lavish things and then she's going to get her education as she thinks and have a great job and then leave the guy She doesn't really love him

  • @lzl3lol
    @lzl3lol ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Any woman who tries to say "i could have this guy or that guy" id drop her straight away, im not here for you to entertain other men, she clearly has been as she admits they like to flirt.
    If he stays with her he is a sucker. Shes going to cheat one day or at least dump him guarenteed.
    I usually like the judge on this show but i actually think her advice is bad. She described this man as golden. Said how she wanted to take him home, etc but then advised the 21 year old to go out and explore other men and the world essentially. Personally, my advice would be to lock down this man if he is as great as she apparently thought. I dunno, seems like crappy advice.

  • @shandreialanee495
    @shandreialanee495 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is childish but she's 21 so I get it a little smh

  • @karenjones7794
    @karenjones7794 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She don't need to marry him until he has a financial in he can't afford a $5 drink they don't need to be married to be married and poor haven't been married but I so been poor

  • @SparDanger
    @SparDanger 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    21 is too young. The brain doesn't finish development until 25.

  • @sunshinebutterfly4654
    @sunshinebutterfly4654 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Judge is right. They should wait while. she is still going to school. She should have kids after schooling completion. She definitely seems imature..doesn't realize she has a good man and how lucky she is. She can only keep her looks for a very short while. Treat him better and or she will loose him.

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are 34 years old and she’s 21 years old that’s not good he 14 year old. In. She

    • @lzl3lol
      @lzl3lol ปีที่แล้ว

      Please delete your comment, go learn English, get a passing award, then come back after.

  • @jessicawicks8680
    @jessicawicks8680 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She acts like a teenager still. He needs a grown woman

  • @ZinniaLP
    @ZinniaLP ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "I work 3 jobs i deserve it"
    When youve got all off $400 in savings you need to stop treating yourself so often.
    Yes you should do nice things for yourself at times but not to that excess.

  • @Uptownboo84
    @Uptownboo84 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    21 yrs old and 34 yrs old. Bye!!

  • @QueenGene_tv
    @QueenGene_tv 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She never grew out of being a child. Get your own damn juice

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nice. Job. Young. Man

  • @ElaineLoyd
    @ElaineLoyd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We only want young women. Young women act immature wtf.

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen

  • @secemoiraharrell1035
    @secemoiraharrell1035 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He needs someone in his age range.. He’s not the only man for me, but as of right now… should tell him something.

  • @ElaineLoyd
    @ElaineLoyd ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These men are like we only won't young women. Get the young woman and mad that they silly.

  • @haroldsrandomvideos7144
    @haroldsrandomvideos7144 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow young love ❤️

  • @savtrill333
    @savtrill333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would have been told her to go with that dude that she worked with

  • @timelyopinions4517
    @timelyopinions4517 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He’s robbing the cradle. He is not a good man. He tried to manipulate this young girl. She needs to get with a 21 or 22 year old man. His controlling arse needs a woman his age.

  • @jeremiahdrummond9647
    @jeremiahdrummond9647 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She dount want u

  • @adbah1011
    @adbah1011 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sweetest couple ever

  • @Lina-kc5sw
    @Lina-kc5sw 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💀this ended up with them not together after like 3 mouths he went to jail Bec of her and she cheated and had kids with and even older dude 😂I’m that 9 year old daughter…. This was years ago lol

  • @sharonewing2284
    @sharonewing2284 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He right thats they way hispanics are raised

  • @Ososilent87
    @Ososilent87 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She definitely cheating or cheated

  • @jusme773
    @jusme773 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She sounds like she's 15

  • @nayellyescobar6041
    @nayellyescobar6041 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He's been thru too much so ov course shes beta than the toxic relationships he's been in in the past but that doesn't mean they r meant to b. They r both Aries that's nice. But yes that's a big age difference. They shud both b with sumone closer to their ages if not stay single

  • @shaneice3268
    @shaneice3268 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She about to run all over him....

  • @joymosley8997
    @joymosley8997 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She's too young.

  • @hempman4781
    @hempman4781 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She's too young to be getting married with a mindset like that