Wow.......xiam tiag tiag os sister. Cas nej yuav mloog lus ua luaj os tus mi niam laus aw. Khiav tawm hauv thaub laus lub neej os. Its not too late for you, sister. Run!!! Sad that when your parents die, there will be no dtr/vauv to sit at casket 😢😢😢
Tu siab nrog nej cov viv ncau kawg li os nej cov ntxhai mloog lus kawg tiam siv cia li plam tag nej ib sim neej tsi tau tu nej hlub tsi muaj tub muaj kis li 😢😢😢😢
Tus mis viv ncaus! Kuv nrog koj tu siab uas tau ib leej txiv khoo tej ntxhais npaum li khoo Nws Tus poj niam, coj thiab Ua li no tsis yog lawm. Tam sis no tseem muaj cov tub Ua nraug Laus thiab, kav tsij nrhiav Tus zoo thiab hlub tiag ces mus Ua yus lub neej os mog!
Tus sister ua cas yuav nrog koj tu siab thiab chim siab ua luaj. You & ur siblings had been tortured & traumatized & I wish I can give u a big hug. My heart goes out to u. May God bless u! Ur father will pay for his sins. But sister, this is America, u & ur sisters r adults & educated, so move out & live ur lives. Life is too short, why live in fear of ur father? Never contact ur father again, he doesnt deserve ur love.
I am very sorry you have to endure that sister and I don’t blame you for your low self-esteem. But if you don’t choose to help yourself, no one is going to do it for you. I grew up as an orphan and was an abused victim myself. I even attempted suicide but failed and was sent to a psychiatric ward for 3 months. But I chose to detached myself from the abusive husband and had to be okay with my traditional family disowning me for being a divorcee with two young child. I did it all by myself broke, temporary homeless with two small children for two weeks after I left while working full-time and going to college. You have your sisters where you guys could move out together. I agree with Nancy that you and your sisters have to find the courage to leave that abusive father. But if you choose to continue living that life then you will have no one else to blame but yourself because you are now an adult and can financially support yourself. You may not be able to have children anymore but you should still be able to find love and grow old with a spouse. Like Nancy said only moving out could also allowed your two sisters the opportunity to have a family and kids. You gave your story to Nancy and is probably seeking advice and the confirmation to move out. Take the advice and move out.
Cheers to u also as a survivor. U are right! She needs to build that courage and teach her sisters to as well. Little does she know she would have the support of all her siblings too.
Tus sister aw koj txiv poob qab Deb heev lawm os. Av tsij mus yuav txiv nawb ib tsam koj lub neej lig nawb. Koj txiv tus nais phoo ces twb poob rau Tim nplog teb lawm os. Ua Kom taus niam nawb.
Nancy, here we’re in the country of opportunity and chasing our own dream, this my in courage the girls should move out from they parents and start looking their love one to start their new life before it’s too late.
Such a sad sad story, I want to reach out to her. She has been traumatized from years of abuses from her dad. I’m so lucky to have a loving, caring, and wonderful dad. When I was young, I had crashed his car into a electricity pole, I was so scared that he might yelled at me, but he only said “from now on, please be more careful I don’t want to you to get hurt.” I miss my dad dearly.
Agreed with Nancy advices at the end..tu mim sister your 50 yrs old your still young if you really want to date or have a boy friend or husband never too late..let your dad and mom go...live your life ..
I'm grateful that my older sister made the sacrifice of opening so many doors for her younger sisters. My parents have changed so much as we grew older. Life is so much more than just serving your parents. I think that you need to put on your big girl pants and move out. Even though you had such a traumatic experience after prom night, don't let it take your happiness away. Falling in love and being loved is one of the greatest feelings ever. Don't give up!
WOW sister I thought my parents is bad but nothings compared to yours I’m so sorry for you and your siblings I understand your pain cause I was in your shoes before it’s not fine god bless you and your siblings 21 st century now pack your bag like Nancy say go find your happiness Love your self Good luck
You are a smart girl, why then you and your sisters move out starting yours life, I pretty sure you understand that one day he will go away and you and your sisters will have an great loss tsi xob chim yog kj chim kj txiv rua muaj zoo sab tas you and your siblings are chicken, I don’t want to see you guys have a great loss. God create us to be happy not to suffer life like that sist. Why then just wrap off what you still have and move out never come back, I’m telling you, you have done a great job, you will never be regret or curse by your dad, because you never do anything wrong or tuam mom koj parents, just clean up your mess (I mean your sadness your guilt thoughts) and move on your own life or its times for you to wake up sisters.😢😂😂😂
Sister, please it is time to be a strong leader and guide your 2 younger sisters to lead their lives; They are still very young. YOU ARE A SURVIVOR! You should be proud of yourself, honey. You were once strong. YOU HAD THE WILL TO COURAGE AND STRENGTH UP TO EDUCATE AND BUILD A CAREER FOR YOURSELF; THERE IS A WAY as long as you allow it. Like Nancy said, sometimes, you will have to make the ultimate sacrifice to save others. Do not let all your lifes go to vain. Pick up those feet of yours and step outside the door, one step at a time and all will be alright. ❤ Strength, power, and willl is in you!
Sister, this is in America and not in Laos. you are over 18 year old and you can do whatever you wanted to you. Don’t let your father holds you guys in that hole. When I listened to your story, it broke my heart as I have 3 daughters and love them to the moon; I will never treat them that way. I hope your father now realized that what he did or thought was wrong. I don’t think it’s too late for you to start a family. Hang in there and take take day by day. I hope you can still find someone to love and have a happy ending
I totally agree witb Nancy advises. U may not have ur own children but u could still adopt children. Ur father careless about ur lives. If he is a caring father he would have noticed the differences about u guys lifes n ur cousins lifes. May Godwill changed ur life n be happy.
First of all, I’m not sure if I can put all the blame on your dad. More like you’re doing it to yourself and you’re not doing anything to help your two sisters either. HelloO.. you went to college got your degree and a good job you have every power every opportunity to move out to live on your own starting the day you first got own pay check. We live in the America you forgot? Like Nancy said, you better act now if you want to help your sisters. You wasted your life don’t blame no one how I see it.
First generation in American, most of us had similar experiences. Abusive behavior to control their family is what Hmong parents were taught by their parents. My mom used to say "yog kuv tsis hlub koj ces kuv yeej to ntaus, tsis hais koj li la mas". 😢 Where's the love in that? Hopefully we see enough to change our future generations for better.
Sister, I understand your pain. You need to realize that you only live once. Leave and start your life before it's too late. You're 50 now, it's time. You not doing anything is causing your sisters to also live the same fate. Save yourself so you can save 2 more.
Tej tub tej ntxhais yuav muaj txij muaj nkawm los yuav tsum raug xaiv ua ntej yog los ntawm seb tej niam txiv puas fim tau luag tej. Niam txiv tsis zoo txawv tsis ntau niam txiv quav yeeb tub sab tub nkeeg. Zoo niam txiv zoo thiaj muaj hmoob nyiam tej tub tej ntxhais.
Es koj txiv yuav khoo koj rau koj txiv los cas naj tus viv ncaus. Nrog koj tu siab os. Yog koj txiv tseem nyob ces yuav tsum kaw koj txoj kev hlub nws ib yam li nws ua rau koj thiab es thiaj tsim nyog nawj.
Nej ces yug los xiam tiam li os tiam no nas pab nej tu siab kawg li os cov me viv ncaus aw22 kuv yog nej ces kuv khiav lawm os cia nws nyob nws xwb mas.
Wow, what a traumatic story. I’m so sorry for what you’d went through. Definitely made me thought of “The Glory”. He ruined your life, shouldn’t even call him your father, what an evil monster!
Yes !! Nancy say is right !! Go ahead find some one you love don’t stay like this 50 years still young do not be shy !! Don’t wait for men to find you , live in the US we are equally you can find man too !!
Sister, its not too late. LEAVE the toxic life and live your own life. I am 49 and starting over. I've met some amazing men in their 40s and 50s. I will settle out soon so please live your life and forget your dad.
You are not alone. I have 4 gown children between 20-40 years old single and still all virgin. It's not because I don't want them to it's because they can't find anyone and no one came looking for them. This is what happen when you tried to raised the "perfect" hard working children
First one comment xav paub tus thaub laus ntawm ko kawg li be!!!😅 vim nej tsis muaj tus Ua kom yeej kiag nws be!!! Ntsia neeg ntiaj teb Ua neej thiab na!!!tsis yog xab maim 60 thiab 70 lawm nawb.
Life is short but life is beautiful if you make it beautiful. You have every right to live your life and not be a prisoner to anyone. You are an adult and you are capable of making that decision but instead, you chose to let someone hold you down and not live your life. Your life is not sad. You have the power to change your situation. I hope you know that you are still young. You still have the chance to spread your wings to find love and peace. Life is way too beautiful to waste away. If you don't want to do it for you, do it for those who had fought hard to be alive and had wanted to live. ❤
Yes. Take Nancy advice! Go and live your life please! You are not getting young. Go and live your life go travel go live by yourself! Go and enjoy your life! Life is short and beautiful. Go find love and make love: it is a wonderful feeling that is worth it. Good luck sister!
WOW this story invoked so many emotions. Anger, frustration and sadness for you. Nancy is 💯 correct! You were helpless when you were young to allow him to abuse you. You are a professional now, why still remain in the same lot to allow him keep abusing you emotionally. Cut the cord & move away. I pray that you will find the courage to live your life at this age. Stop allowing him to control your life. you can still love your mom from afar.
Sorry sister for the life you and your sisters have gone through. I know that you all are fearful of your dad. He had emotionally & verbally abused you all, which scar you deeply. Do not let this define you and your future. You are a smart lady whom achieved many accomplishments and is highly potential. I believe that you and your sisters can come up with a plan and move out together. Stay strong and stand your ground. At the end of the day, it's your dad that needed you. Besides, it's your future that you are fighting for. It's not too late to be in a relationship, get married, there are ways that you can still have kids, or adopt. Wish you and your sisters the best in your future with lots of love & happiness! Good luck & God Bless!❤😉
Zaj dab neeg no es zoo li tsis txaus ntseeg li twb nyob teb chaws meskas no lawm es cas zoo li tus leej txiv no ho ntse ualuaj es paub kov fb kuv seb ib cov laus li no twb tsis paub hu xov tooj li los sav
Nrog nej pab niam tub tu siab kawg li os nej txiv ces yog ib niag nais phoo quav bière xwb thiaj coj li no os khiav tawm tsev mus thiaj li dim koj txiv xwb lauj
Sorry but the only way to beat a bully, is to punch him in the mouth and defend yourself. Unfortunately all of you never did that to your bully, your abusive father and let him tortured you your whole live. Sad. Your brothers once they grown should of stepped up and correct your father’s behaviors.
Sister Nancy, you give the best advise. Totally agree. Me ntxhais, take sister Nancy’s advise and do it for your sisters. Move far away from your parents. Live for yourself. Not for your mom. Your mom won’t live forever.
Your story is so tragic and so traumatic. I am so sorry that you all had to go thru all that and still is going thru. My heart breaks for you, ladies. Stand up for yourself. Stand up to your father. Tell him exactly how he ruined your lives and how wrong he has been and still is. Someone like him will never understand the pain that they put you through. Please find a way to move out, explore, and experience life. Your father is not a good father or person. Your father is wrong in so many ways. Please find some help to heal all of your wounds. Seek therapy to help you. No one should ever have this much power over you. Esp when the intentions are so wrong and messed up. Sometimes, the best thing is to distance yourself so you can heal. I will pray for you and your family.
Sister aw, i feel so sad for you i grew up in a similar household.i agreed with sister Nancy go find your happiness its not too late your never too old to find love. Dump your father and go find someone who would love you and you love him. You deserve happiness life is too short to waste it.
Yes I’m agree with Nancy you have a chance to help your sisters and yourself first before listen to your dad you are old enough. Don’t need to care about what others people are think
I cried listening to your story. You and your sisters are adults with good careers. Why are you still living at home? If your father is that strict you sisters need to move out and live your life. You ladies don’t need him. Please move out and live your life to the fullest.
I definitely agree with Nancy's advice because I would do the same. Dear sister to this story, I hope you do find the guts and courage to live your life to the fullest. Don't feel bad for leaving your parents because you have done your part as a respectful, obeying, and loving daughter. Maybe you and your sisters don't want to leave was perhaps because of your mom? Knowing that your mom wasn't happy with a husband like that but she'll have to choose her way out. Even after you and your sisters move out, you all can still visit. If your dad still didn't allow for visiting, drop off your gifts and groceries on their door step. Your sisters still have a chance of having children. As for you, there is always adoption. Adoption isn't bad because there are alot of children who needs a caring and loving parent. You're dad surely govern you and your sisters with his iron grip hands. It's time to stand up for yourself and say to your dad of what you feel whether he choose to listen or not. When he starts to hit you, leave the house. Come back home later.
Your father is an abuser..you are educated..use your resource. Get put of the house. Stop caring about what your dad thinks or say..go find your own happiness. Its not too late
I am really sorry to hear something like this still happens to you lady, you are an educated person you know what's right to be live a fullestlife. This is America don't let these retarded old fashioned uncivilized folks to manage your social life anymore. Their time was over forty some years ago. From today on you take charge about what to make you and sisters HAPPY.... I wish you the BEST .. MAY GOD BLESS YOU FOR EVER .....AMEN
I made the sacrifice for my younger siblings. Hate it. But I paved the way for them to be able to go out of town (if they choose to) to go to college and to be able to go to college. Some parents back in that era are so mean
tug viv ncau aw koj txiv yog ib leej txiv tsi muaj sab muaj ntsw hab phem heev le os ua luaj le os caag koj tsi tawm moog nyob koj moog tshav ib tug hlub ua yug lub neeg na koj muab koj tsau txim taag ib sim neej le os koj tsi nrug luag muaj txij muaj nkaum os kuv hlub koj heev os tug viv ncau sab zoo aw
Sister..time is the 21 + century. B brave, u all could team up moved out and live your lives. It's not too late to enjoy the rest of u n your sisters. Don't worry about the OG parents. U n your sisters are smart and got good jobs, made $'s.... update yourself... pretty up..go for your adventures.
Nrog koj tu siab os sister. Tab sis tseem tsis tau lig os kav tsij coj koj ob siters nej mus nyob nej es mus nrhia neej nawb niam thiab txiv yeej tsis nrog yus nyob tag ib txhis os.
This story left me speechless. Your dad mentally and physically abused all of you. Even if he is the father he surely does not deserve the respect. Your dad should have been locked up. You're half a century old already. I hope you and your sisters will find peace and courage to make your own decisions. I hope you'll find love too!
I feel so terrible for you, your sisters and mom. What a monster of a father you have. I wish you had stopped caring by your late 30s and just found a guy to marry. You don't need to live that life anymore. Please move out like Tais Nancy said so you and your sisters can live freely. He's almost dead so you shouldn't be fearful. Tell him straight up how bad he is and that he ruined your life and prevented you from marrying. You guys are living here in the US where you can live anywhere you want and you and your sisters have jobs so PLEASE...help yourselves out of that miserable life! Your dad has to suffer the consequences for being a horrible father so hopefully his eyes can open to the way he's treated you girls, IF you girls move out. If you still stay then he will still feel like he's in control. Please don't give him that power anymore. If I were you, I wouldn't love him anymore. I won't cry when he's dead and gone to hell. I wish you and your sisters the best. Be strong and take action.
Please be the lights and guide your sisters out of darkness!!! It is not too late to start a life of your own!!! Good luck to you and your sisters!!! I hope you girls will move away from such toxic parents!! You can do it!!!
50 years old and haven’t got the courage to fight for yourself! Sister… u can’t really blame your dad for u to still live with your parents til u 50! U had choices. U are an adult. U are educated and u have a career/job. Your dad didn’t lock u up and cage u. U could blame Hume for the trauma and abuse. Anyways… people who are in their 40s,50s, 60s, 80s still looking for their soul mate. U still can find your soulmate. U need to love yourself more and have the courage to say… I’m moving out and loving my own life. Life choices are yours. Go get it! Good luck!
Sis all you have to do find your true love and go far away you still have long way to go you only 50 years old your life is more important than your dad, be strong get help koj txiv yog ib tug neeg puas hlwb lawm nej cov ntxhais yuav tsum tau ua lub siab tawv qhawv mus nrhiav yus lub neej rau yus tus kheej, koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv yuav tsis kav nej cov Viv ncaus nawb mog.
You should take the initiative and do what you want. You are over age, if your father tries to hit you just call the cops. You can still find love at any age!
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Wow.......xiam tiag tiag os sister. Cas nej yuav mloog lus ua luaj os tus mi niam laus aw. Khiav tawm hauv thaub laus lub neej os. Its not too late for you, sister. Run!!! Sad that when your parents die, there will be no dtr/vauv to sit at casket 😢😢😢
Tus me niam hluas kuv los yeej nraug lub neej ib yam li koj thiabtxhob tag kev cia siab tseem tshuav sij hawm rau koj mog
Tu siab nrog nej cov viv ncau kawg li os nej cov ntxhai mloog lus kawg tiam siv cia li plam tag nej ib sim neej tsi tau tu nej hlub tsi muaj tub muaj kis li 😢😢😢😢
Tus mis viv ncaus! Kuv nrog koj tu siab uas tau ib leej txiv khoo tej ntxhais npaum li khoo Nws Tus poj niam, coj thiab Ua li no tsis yog lawm. Tam sis no tseem muaj cov tub Ua nraug Laus thiab, kav tsij nrhiav Tus zoo thiab hlub tiag ces mus Ua yus lub neej os mog!
Nrog koj tu siab heev zoo kawg thiab vim tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab mob siab rau leej twg
Tus sister ua cas yuav nrog koj tu siab thiab chim siab ua luaj. You & ur siblings had been tortured & traumatized & I wish I can give u a big hug. My heart goes out to u. May God bless u! Ur father will pay for his sins.
But sister, this is America, u & ur sisters r adults & educated, so move out & live ur lives. Life is too short, why live in fear of ur father? Never contact ur father again, he doesnt deserve ur love.
Young lady yu have dream this is 23 century be the best yu can be dont worry god has plan for yu we support you what ever you can be we love you ❤
I am very sorry you have to endure that sister and I don’t blame you for your low self-esteem. But if you don’t choose to help yourself, no one is going to do it for you. I grew up as an orphan and was an abused victim myself. I even attempted suicide but failed and was sent to a psychiatric ward for 3 months. But I chose to detached myself from the abusive husband and had to be okay with my traditional family disowning me for being a divorcee with two young child. I did it all by myself broke, temporary homeless with two small children for two weeks after I left while working full-time and going to college. You have your sisters where you guys could move out together. I agree with Nancy that you and your sisters have to find the courage to leave that abusive father. But if you choose to continue living that life then you will have no one else to blame but yourself because you are now an adult and can financially support yourself. You may not be able to have children anymore but you should still be able to find love and grow old with a spouse. Like Nancy said only moving out could also allowed your two sisters the opportunity to have a family and kids. You gave your story to Nancy and is probably seeking advice and the confirmation to move out. Take the advice and move out.
Cheers to u also as a survivor. U are right! She needs to build that courage and teach her sisters to as well. Little does she know she would have the support of all her siblings too.
Txhob tas kev cia siab kav tsij nrhiav tus hlub mog !! Tseem tsis tau lig !! 50 xyoo tseem zoo nkauj heev , mloog koj zaj no mas nrog koj ntxub koj txiv tshaj cas yuav khib thiab kav ntxhais ua luaj luag los yeej ntshaw kev hlub li yus thiab na !! Phem dhau lawm tuag txhob quaj rau nawb !!! Sorry puas yog koj txiv muab koj qhov khoom hlawv caws lawm es koj thiaj txaj muag tham hluas nraug ma ?
Cas yuav ua tau tu siab ua luaj lis os niam laus 😢😢😢
Cas yuav zoo nkauj ntxim hlub tiag li
Ntuj aw cas zaj no es yuav hais tau tu saib kawg os tus viv ncaus aw pab hlub koj kawg os
Tus sister aw koj txiv poob qab Deb heev lawm os. Av tsij mus yuav txiv nawb ib tsam koj lub neej lig nawb. Koj txiv tus nais phoo ces twb poob rau Tim nplog teb lawm os. Ua Kom taus niam nawb.
Cas nej yuav mloog lus ua luaj os thaum I kuv mloog lus li nej kuv thiaj plam kuv tus hluas nraug zoo 2 lawm os lawv aws
Nancy, here we’re in the country of opportunity and chasing our own dream, this my in courage the girls should move out from they parents and start looking their love one to start their new life before it’s too late.
Such a sad sad story, I want to reach out to her. She has been traumatized from years of abuses from her dad.
I’m so lucky to have a loving, caring, and wonderful dad. When I was young, I had crashed his car into a electricity pole, I was so scared that he might yelled at me, but he only said “from now on, please be more careful I don’t want to you to get hurt.” I miss my dad dearly.
Agreed with Nancy advices at the end..tu mim sister your 50 yrs old your still young if you really want to date or have a boy friend or husband never too late..let your dad and mom go...live your life ..
I'm grateful that my older sister made the sacrifice of opening so many doors for her younger sisters. My parents have changed so much as we grew older. Life is so much more than just serving your parents. I think that you need to put on your big girl pants and move out. Even though you had such a traumatic experience after prom night, don't let it take your happiness away. Falling in love and being loved is one of the greatest feelings ever. Don't give up!
WOW sister I thought my parents is bad but nothings compared to yours I’m so sorry for you and your siblings I understand your pain cause I was in your shoes before it’s not fine god bless you and your siblings 21 st century now pack your bag like Nancy say go find your happiness Love your self
Good luck
I agreed what sister Nancy said. Moved out and start living. It doesn't matter what your age is. You still have chance of finding love.
You are a smart girl, why then you and your sisters move out starting yours life, I pretty sure you understand that one day he will go away and you and your sisters will have an great loss tsi xob chim yog kj chim kj txiv rua muaj zoo sab tas you and your siblings are chicken, I don’t want to see you guys have a great loss. God create us to be happy not to suffer life like that sist. Why then just wrap off what you still have and move out never come back, I’m telling you, you have done a great job, you will never be regret or curse by your dad, because you never do anything wrong or tuam mom koj parents, just clean up your mess (I mean your sadness your guilt thoughts) and move on your own life or its times for you to wake up sisters.😢😂😂😂
Zoo heev
Sister, please it is time to be a strong leader and guide your 2 younger sisters to lead their lives; They are still very young. YOU ARE A SURVIVOR! You should be proud of yourself, honey. You were once strong. YOU HAD THE WILL TO COURAGE AND STRENGTH UP TO EDUCATE AND BUILD A CAREER FOR YOURSELF; THERE IS A WAY as long as you allow it. Like Nancy said, sometimes, you will have to make the ultimate sacrifice to save others. Do not let all your lifes go to vain. Pick up those feet of yours and step outside the door, one step at a time and all will be alright. ❤ Strength, power, and willl is in you!
Sister, this is in America and not in Laos. you are over 18 year old and you can do whatever you wanted to you. Don’t let your father holds you guys in that hole.
When I listened to your story, it broke my heart as I have 3 daughters and love them to the moon; I will never treat them that way.
I hope your father now realized that what he did or thought was wrong. I don’t think it’s too late for you to start a family. Hang in there and take take day by day. I hope you can still find someone to love and have a happy ending
I totally agree witb Nancy advises. U may not have ur own children but u could still adopt children. Ur father careless about ur lives. If he is a caring father he would have noticed the differences about u guys lifes n ur cousins lifes. May Godwill changed ur life n be happy.
Nws puas muaj xov tooj phauj
Koj mas ntxim hlub tiag2 os tus muam aw❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥲🥲🥲🥲
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First of all, I’m not sure if I can put all the blame on your dad. More like you’re doing it to yourself and you’re not doing anything to help your two sisters either. HelloO.. you went to college got your degree and a good job you have every power every opportunity to move out to live on your own starting the day you first got own pay check. We live in the America you forgot? Like Nancy said, you better act now if you want to help your sisters. You wasted your life don’t blame no one how I see it.
First generation in American, most of us had similar experiences. Abusive behavior to control their family is what Hmong parents were taught by their parents. My mom used to say "yog kuv tsis hlub koj ces kuv yeej to ntaus, tsis hais koj li la mas". 😢 Where's the love in that? Hopefully we see enough to change our future generations for better.
Quel père diabolique, rien de trop tard pour commencer la vie mes dames.
Sister, I understand your pain. You need to realize that you only live once. Leave and start your life before it's too late. You're 50 now, it's time. You not doing anything is causing your sisters to also live the same fate. Save yourself so you can save 2 more.
Tej tub tej ntxhais yuav muaj txij muaj nkawm los yuav tsum raug xaiv ua ntej yog los ntawm seb tej niam txiv puas fim tau luag tej. Niam txiv tsis zoo txawv tsis ntau niam txiv quav yeeb tub sab tub nkeeg. Zoo niam txiv zoo thiaj muaj hmoob nyiam tej tub tej ntxhais.
Es koj txiv yuav khoo koj rau koj txiv los cas naj tus viv ncaus. Nrog koj tu siab os. Yog koj txiv tseem nyob ces yuav tsum kaw koj txoj kev hlub nws ib yam li nws ua rau koj thiab es thiaj tsim nyog nawj.
Laus lawm los tseem ntxim hlub kawg li. Koj ma tseem ok ok tiag ok ok
Wuag nrog koj tu siab os tus me vivncaus aw,
Los yuav peb cov tub hmoob nplog tim no tuaj ua koj tus txiv os mi muam awh
Wow.. I'm so sorry for what you have gone through sister 😢. So traumatizing. It's not too late. Wish you the best❤
Thank you so much!
Nej ces yug los xiam tiam li os tiam no nas pab nej tu siab kawg li os cov me viv ncaus aw22 kuv yog nej ces kuv khiav lawm os cia nws nyob nws xwb mas.
Wow, what a traumatic story. I’m so sorry for what you’d went through. Definitely made me thought of “The Glory”. He ruined your life, shouldn’t even call him your father, what an evil monster!
Yes !! Nancy say is right !! Go ahead find some one you love don’t stay like this 50 years still young do not be shy !! Don’t wait for men to find you , live in the US we are equally you can find man too !!
😊Totally agree with sister’s
idea girl time to move out and
move on and find your true love
out there.
😢 tu siab kawg li os cov viv ncaus aw
Sister, its not too late. LEAVE the toxic life and live your own life. I am 49 and starting over. I've met some amazing men in their 40s and 50s. I will settle out soon so please live your life and forget your dad.
Pab tus sister tu siab ua luaj os yug los xiam tiam lawm nawb, yus tawm mus yus mus nyob yus zoo dua nrog cov laus xiam hlwb nyob os
Sister, I totally agree with Niam Tai Cis Npla. You should take her suggestion.
You are not alone. I have 4 gown children between 20-40 years old single and still all virgin. It's not because I don't want them to it's because they can't find anyone and no one came looking for them. This is what happen when you tried to raised the "perfect" hard working children
Me niam hluas aw so kua muag ua ib siab mus pib yus lub neej txawm tau tus laus lawm zoo dua koj muaj lub neej yus txiv tsi kav yus laus mog
Great advice sister Nancy.
I say the same.
First one comment xav paub tus thaub laus ntawm ko kawg li be!!!😅 vim nej tsis muaj tus Ua kom yeej kiag nws be!!! Ntsia neeg ntiaj teb Ua neej thiab na!!!tsis yog xab maim 60 thiab 70 lawm nawb.
This is such a sad story. Thanks for telling us this story 😢❤
Kiav os viv ncaus aww.. it’s never too late.. 50 xyoo xwb you still young. You still have at least 30 years. That old man deserves to rot alone
Life is short but life is beautiful if you make it beautiful. You have every right to live your life and not be a prisoner to anyone. You are an adult and you are capable of making that decision but instead, you chose to let someone hold you down and not live your life. Your life is not sad. You have the power to change your situation.
I hope you know that you are still young. You still have the chance to spread your wings to find love and peace. Life is way too beautiful to waste away. If you don't want to do it for you, do it for those who had fought hard to be alive and had wanted to live. ❤
Hi...Nancy koj pua kab nws tus xov tooj tsau kuv puas tau
Ua cas ib leej txiv dev dab tsi ua cas yuav phem ua li pab koj tu siab tas ib si os me viv ncaus aws
Pem npaum ntawd es pheej nrog nyob ib tsev ua dab tsi
nam txiv zoo le nuav tes tsw txug ntsug nyob lawm os mog
Yes. Take Nancy advice! Go and live your life please! You are not getting young. Go and live your life go travel go live by yourself! Go and enjoy your life! Life is short and beautiful. Go find love and make love: it is a wonderful feeling that is worth it. Good luck sister!
Thank you, I will
Wow, Nancy, this is American. I'm speechless. How can this happen. I cried on the part where her dad took the iron on her 😭
Yes Nancy is right just do something for your own self so you won’t regret for later.
WOW this story invoked so many emotions. Anger, frustration and sadness for you. Nancy is 💯 correct! You were helpless when you were young to allow him to abuse you. You are a professional now, why still remain in the same lot to allow him keep abusing you emotionally. Cut the cord & move away. I pray that you will find the courage to live your life at this age. Stop allowing him to control your life. you can still love your mom from afar.
Sorry sister for the life you and your sisters have gone through. I know that you all are fearful of your dad. He had emotionally & verbally abused you all, which scar you deeply. Do not let this define you and your future. You are a smart lady whom achieved many accomplishments and is highly potential. I believe that you and your sisters can come up with a plan and move out together. Stay strong and stand your ground. At the end of the day, it's your dad that needed you. Besides, it's your future that you are fighting for. It's not too late to be in a relationship, get married, there are ways that you can still have kids, or adopt. Wish you and your sisters the best in your future with lots of love & happiness! Good luck & God Bless!❤😉
Zaj dab neeg no es zoo li tsis txaus ntseeg li twb nyob teb chaws meskas no lawm es cas zoo li tus leej txiv no ho ntse ualuaj es paub kov fb kuv seb ib cov laus li no twb tsis paub hu xov tooj li los sav
Nrog nej pab niam tub tu siab kawg li os nej txiv ces yog ib niag nais phoo quav bière xwb thiaj coj li no os khiav tawm tsev mus thiaj li dim koj txiv xwb lauj
I agree with sis Nancy 100%
Sister what country are you living now
Sorry but the only way to beat a bully, is to punch him in the mouth and defend yourself. Unfortunately all of you never did that to your bully, your abusive father and let him tortured you your whole live. Sad. Your brothers once they grown should of stepped up and correct your father’s behaviors.
Sister Nancy, you give the best advise.
Totally agree.
Me ntxhais, take sister Nancy’s advise and do it for your sisters. Move far away from your parents. Live for yourself. Not for your mom. Your mom won’t live forever.
tu siab dhau 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Your story is so tragic and so traumatic. I am so sorry that you all had to go thru all that and still is going thru. My heart breaks for you, ladies. Stand up for yourself. Stand up to your father. Tell him exactly how he ruined your lives and how wrong he has been and still is. Someone like him will never understand the pain that they put you through. Please find a way to move out, explore, and experience life. Your father is not a good father or person. Your father is wrong in so many ways. Please find some help to heal all of your wounds. Seek therapy to help you. No one should ever have this much power over you. Esp when the intentions are so wrong and messed up. Sometimes, the best thing is to distance yourself so you can heal. I will pray for you and your family.
Sister aw, i feel so sad for you i grew up in a similar household.i agreed with sister Nancy go find your happiness its not too late your never too old to find love. Dump your father and go find someone who would love you and you love him. You deserve happiness life is too short to waste it.
Nej twb tuaj nyob lub teb😊 chaws America lawm es nej tseem ntshai nej txiv thiab hu rau police.
Yes I’m agree with Nancy you have a chance to help your sisters and yourself first before listen to your dad you are old enough. Don’t need to care about what others people are think
I cried listening to your story. You and your sisters are adults with good careers. Why are you still living at home? If your father is that strict you sisters need to move out and live your life. You ladies don’t need him. Please move out and live your life to the fullest.
Twb nyob teb chaws mis kas lawm cas nej tsis mus nyob nej cas tseem yuav ua Lub neej tu tu siab txog hnub tuag nas sister
I definitely agree with Nancy's advice because I would do the same.
Dear sister to this story, I hope you do find the guts and courage to live your life to the fullest. Don't feel bad for leaving your parents because you have done your part as a respectful, obeying, and loving daughter. Maybe you and your sisters don't want to leave was perhaps because of your mom? Knowing that your mom wasn't happy with a husband like that but she'll have to choose her way out. Even after you and your sisters move out, you all can still visit. If your dad still didn't allow for visiting, drop off your gifts and groceries on their door step.
Your sisters still have a chance of having children. As for you, there is always adoption. Adoption isn't bad because there are alot of children who needs a caring and loving parent.
You're dad surely govern you and your sisters with his iron grip hands. It's time to stand up for yourself and say to your dad of what you feel whether he choose to listen or not. When he starts to hit you, leave the house. Come back home later.
Your father is an abuser..you are educated..use your resource. Get put of the house. Stop caring about what your dad thinks or say..go find your own happiness. Its not too late
I am really sorry to hear something like this still happens to you lady, you are an educated person you know what's right to be live a fullestlife. This is America don't let these retarded old fashioned uncivilized folks to manage your social life anymore. Their time was over forty some years ago.
From today on you take charge about what to make you and sisters HAPPY....
I wish you the BEST ..
MAY GOD BLESS YOU FOR EVER .....AMEN
Zoo kawg. Nias txhawb koj lawm tuaj Nias txhawb kuv thiab. Sib pab nawb! Peb thiaj loj hlob 👏
I made the sacrifice for my younger siblings. Hate it. But I paved the way for them to be able to go out of town (if they choose to) to go to college and to be able to go to college. Some parents back in that era are so mean
Ab ua cas tus nthais no es koj tsheem nyob nplog teb lov cas yuav ntshai koj txiv cuag yog koj tus txiv na
tug viv ncau aw koj txiv yog ib leej txiv tsi muaj sab muaj ntsw hab phem heev le os ua luaj le os caag koj tsi tawm moog nyob koj moog tshav ib tug hlub ua yug lub neeg na koj muab koj tsau txim taag ib sim neej le os koj tsi nrug luag muaj txij muaj nkaum os kuv hlub koj heev os tug viv ncau sab zoo aw
Sister..time is the 21 + century. B brave, u all could team up moved out and live your lives. It's not too late to enjoy the rest of u n your sisters. Don't worry about the OG parents. U n your sisters are smart and got good jobs, made $'s.... update yourself... pretty up..go for your adventures.
Yes! Thank you!
Nrog koj tu siab os sister. Tab sis tseem tsis tau lig os kav tsij coj koj ob siters nej mus nyob nej es mus nrhia neej nawb niam thiab txiv yeej tsis nrog yus nyob tag ib txhis os.
Nrog koj tu siab ua luaj li os 😢😢
This story left me speechless. Your dad mentally and physically abused all of you. Even if he is the father he surely does not deserve the respect. Your dad should have been locked up. You're half a century old already. I hope you and your sisters will find peace and courage to make your own decisions. I hope you'll find love too!
It’s sad that with her college education, she couldn’t free herself from this shackles.
me muam nancy koj puas tau nws tug facebook kuv xav ua phooj ywg nrog nws naj kuv kuj yog ib niag nraug laus 58 xyoo tseem single
I agree with sister Nancy… please take her advice so you won’t regret when you’re in your 60s
If your parent don't love you enough to support you, move out live your. You are an adult who can love whoever you want. Good luck to you.
Wow hmoob muaj cov zoo li no thiab ntag
I feel so terrible for you, your sisters and mom. What a monster of a father you have. I wish you had stopped caring by your late 30s and just found a guy to marry. You don't need to live that life anymore. Please move out like Tais Nancy said so you and your sisters can live freely. He's almost dead so you shouldn't be fearful. Tell him straight up how bad he is and that he ruined your life and prevented you from marrying. You guys are living here in the US where you can live anywhere you want and you and your sisters have jobs so PLEASE...help yourselves out of that miserable life! Your dad has to suffer the consequences for being a horrible father so hopefully his eyes can open to the way he's treated you girls, IF you girls move out. If you still stay then he will still feel like he's in control. Please don't give him that power anymore. If I were you, I wouldn't love him anymore. I won't cry when he's dead and gone to hell. I wish you and your sisters the best. Be strong and take action.
Please be the lights and guide your sisters out of darkness!!! It is not too late to start a life of your own!!! Good luck to you and your sisters!!! I hope you girls will move away from such toxic parents!! You can do it!!!
Tus muam koj txiv mas thiaj txawj home tiag tiag.
50 years old and haven’t got the courage to fight for yourself! Sister… u can’t really blame your dad for u to still live with your parents til u 50! U had choices. U are an adult. U are educated and u have a career/job. Your dad didn’t lock u up and cage u. U could blame Hume for the trauma and abuse. Anyways… people who are in their 40s,50s, 60s, 80s still looking for their soul mate. U still can find your soulmate. U need to love yourself more and have the courage to say… I’m moving out and loving my own life. Life choices are yours. Go get it! Good luck!
Kuv yog koj ces kuv mus work ces kuv mus lawm ncaj qrha os niam lau awwww. Goooo away! What are waiting for ?
Sis all you have to do find your true love and go far away you still have long way to go you only 50 years old your life is more important than your dad, be strong get help koj txiv yog ib tug neeg puas hlwb lawm nej cov ntxhais yuav tsum tau ua lub siab tawv qhawv mus nrhiav yus lub neej rau yus tus kheej, koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawv yuav tsis kav nej cov Viv ncaus nawb mog.
Xav2 paub nej yog xeem dab tsi muaj zoo tub zoo ntxhai thiaj li paub txwv paub qhia os...hmoob aw.
Heartbreaking sad story 😢😢😢. How evil some of our Hmoob men still thinking and living in the 60 and 70 since we are in the new ERA.
You should take the initiative and do what you want. You are over age, if your father tries to hit you just call the cops. You can still find love at any age!