I separated 2 years ago . . . I cannot even start to imagine remarrying . . . Because I am still so drained . . . in every sense of the word . . . I have no energy for another relationship. . . I would rather be on my own . . .
As opposed to listening to anyone else's advice on what they think is right on this matter, I encourage you to seek God, read His word, and be absolutely sure you are in the center of His will before you enter into any relationship. The Bible isn't willy-nilly about people getting married multiple times.
I felt the same way but . I wrote down my vision. How I want my wife-to-be to me now. I've been married 9 yr am the happiest man in the world. We're not perfect. But. We perfect for each other. I'm on number 4. In my last one.❤
Scripture provides the answer as well. People just don’t want to read it, or they dismiss it because they don’t like what it says. I used to be “people” until He delivered me and granted me repentance.
Is divorce and remarriage a sin? Hells yeah. If you can't honor your vows in the eyes of God, then your words don't mean crap. The vows didn't say if I got bored, broke, unsatisfied, can't have kids, and when I cheat, or catch you cheating that gives me every reason to divorce. I thought it said honor, obey in sickness and in health till death do you part. It's sad that in the East they respect their vows better than in the West.
Because in the East, ladies (both married and unmarried) have values for themselves. When it comes to sexual purity, they have the highest percentage of women who go into marriage with their virginity intact. They are raised to be wives, mother and role model to the younger generation. They know the moment they are married they are locked in for life. The subject of divorce doesn't cross their mind. But the west has been working round the clock, everyday all day to destroy the culture of sexual purity through x-rated movies and now through the internet. Africans have lost their own culture because of Western obsession. Lord have mercy.
I had a partner that would say better to marry than to burn… I considered marriage with him & thought better to be alone than to marry someone who is not marriage material for me.
whether sin or not, I got rid of my heavy load and I cant afford to lose my focus on God at this stage in my life, marriage requires the woman to do all the work and I am just too tired of that, He was not chasing God and domestic violence is a real thing. so sin or not I dont care to do it again,
People place divorce as the worst thing. When God calls lying sin. Gossip sin. Selfishness sin. Lust sin. Pride sin. I think marriage is one of the church’s greatest idols. Therefore, its held up as this crucial thing moreso than living led by the Holy Spirit.
I've prayed that, but ultimately the "desire" is natural. God himself created marriage. Adam had God, but obviously still had a "desire". We just have to earnestly pray for the single believer. It can be difficult for some.
I would rather remarry if I had to than to commit fornication. At least I’m being committed to one person. Everyone can’t successfully live a single, celibate life, especially if the person has been married for many years.
Remarriage is adultery. Adultery is sin. Why is this so hard? I say that as someone who’s had to repent of my choices. The Bible does not say divorce is a sin… explicitly. However, the heart and acts behind it may be. Nevertheless, Jesus outright calls marrying another sin, but we want to play dumb. And the standard, the template, for marriage/remarriage was what God said in the beginning. It is NOT the compromised sexual immorality “exception” found in the Israelite Law that doesn’t even apply to Gentiles in Christ. Don’t want to follow His plan for HIS institution? Don’t get married. If you do and divorce, remain unmarried and dedicate your life to serving the Lord, be reconciled, or remarry after your first living spouse dies. It ain’t hard. People in their sinful flesh just like to complicate it.
So u saying the bible is compromised ???? Wow. Then u shouldn't be speaking on what is sin or not. Bc then what else would be compromised. Make that make sense. Anyways remarriage is not a sin. Death of your spouse Adultery And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
@@theworthyproject Not everyone has the ability to stay single for the rest the their lives if they have to divorce their spouse. There’s no grace or mercy extended to an individual that has remarried and we know that God is a God of mercy and grace when we make mistakes or even sin. It’s not a sin to remarry rather than to burn with sexual desire. It’s better to MARRY THAN TO BURN.
@@landajj7580No. That’s not what I said. The Bible is not compromised. I said the law given to the Israelites was a compromise that took into account that they did not have Holy Spirit indwelling them. That’s why there so many laws. We have Holy Spirit inside of us and we aren’t Israelites.
@anonymousreview1049 That WORD is for the singles or widows. God design marriage to protect us from committing sexual sins - immorality. 1 Corinthians 7:2, 8-9 NIV [2] But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. [8] Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. [9] But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. It was clearly said that if a married person divorce his wife/ her husband and remarries commits adultery. Because marriage is a covenant before God. A person can only remarry if his/her spouse is dead.
Any deviation from GOD'S plan is a SIN..... Therefore, divorce not being of his plan is a sin Sexual immortality is grounds for Divorce Abandonment is the other grounds for Divorce That is it, that is all. Reconciliation is the goal of your marriage gets off track.
@Graysonenzoaustin ““Suppose a man marries a woman but she does not please him. Having discovered something wrong with her, he writes a document of divorce, hands it to her, and sends her away from his house. When she leaves his house, she is free to marry another man. But if the second husband also turns against her, writes a document of divorce, hands it to her, and sends her away, or if he dies, the first husband may not marry her again, for she has been defiled. That would be detestable to the Lord. You must not bring guilt upon the land the Lord your God is giving you as a special possession.” Deuteronomy 24:1-4
some of these commentators think everyone who is remarried is condemned. But then God forgives sin. and moses allowed divorce but adultery was condemned in his days by execution but he didnt execute people for adultery just because they divorced. It was permitted to divorce and thereby commit adultery in remarriage and Moses never refused remarriage. Jesus says divorce is mystical adultery,and sort of in an abstract way with the two being inseparable as long as they are alive. It is a lesson,that we are inevitably sinners when people remarry or lust on another,so that was a lesson to jews who thought they could perfectly keep the ten commandments that they really were unable to within their hearts,therefore proving they needed Jesus's forgiveness.
The Bible tells us that the only way out of a marriage is if your spouse has passed away or if they have committed sexual sin with someone. It’s not that hard it’s in the Bible! So if you remarry and your spouse has not passed away or have not committed sexual sin with someone the Bible saids we are committed adultery. I didn’t say it Jesus said it in the Bible.
God said He hates divorce , He never said it is a sin , yes , He would rather everyone stay married and never have to divorce, but we are living world, so that's where it's at . God is the Judge and has the ultimate say as to who is right or wrong in breaking their marriage vows . Divorce is not an unpardonable sin 🙏❤️🙏
I'll just need to repent and keep it moving then, cuz I'm not staying and suffering with any more lies cheating and abuse. Show me any scripture that says that's ok??...I'll wait
Lieing is a sin....and you just lied 😅 There are grounds for divorce as mentioned in the bible so once done according to his word its not considered a sin. Yes God hates divorce , bc it wasn't meant to be but he understood that ppl will betray their spouses.
I totally disagree divorce is with Moses . Jesus didn't say divorce and get re married he called it adultery if u marry someone that's already married .
Cmon Mr Munroe Divorce and remarriage is adultery. Let’s get scriptural. Romans 7:2-3 2 For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. 3 So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man.
Live in your emotions and listen to false teachings at your peril. Anyone who really wants to engage on this topic from a Biblical Worldview- and not flesh and feelings and calling it “Holy Spirit,” here’s a playlist on the topic. The same God that’s a God of grace is also the same God who’s One of obedience and Believers’ main purpose being to glorify Him- even when it hurts our flesh. His grace is sufficient. th-cam.com/play/PLi7ojpE_-vkoV03vK5syyC1rNl92I6sLG.html&si=ifwRbbxZS2mhSMob
So then u going against gods word ? "Except for fornication" is a phrase from the Bible that appears in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:9. It refers to Jesus' statement that divorce is only permitted in the case of sexual immorality And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
Divorce is permissible just for that reason of sexual immorality. Which the person commits sexual fornication with someone else outside of the marriage. Equivalent to us worshipping other gods except the One true God. Our commitment, love and allegiance to be towards one another. And adultery is only when someone remarries and it wasn’t for the reasons Jesus had laid before us. So it would be better to be separated and devote all your relationship energy to God. And because of lack of self control it is better to marry than to burn with passion. God divorced Israel, yep. However, because of Israel’s betrayal and disobedience God made it possible to reconcile back to each other. And if the person was an unbeliever and they abandoned or divorces the unbeliever than the believer is brought to peace. Because as God stated earlier in Deuteronomy. Do not even marry with other nations because they will cause you to worship idols. It’s wasn’t the color of their skin but it was the other nations false gods they served and made child sacrifices to.
Divorce is permissible just for that reason of sexual immorality also meaning fornication. Which the person commits sexual fornication with someone else outside of the marriage. Equivalent to us worshipping other gods except the One true God. Our commitment, love and allegiance to be towards one another. And when you remarry you are desiring to be with someone else in your heart. As Jesus stated that if any man looks at a woman with LUST. Lust means desire. He has committed adultery in his heart already. You are imagining being with that person instead of the one you agreed to making a life long covenant with. This is why we are all are so wicked. We need a savior to save us from ourselves. It’s challenging for all of us to stay consistently perfect every single time. Which is why those that are with our sin cast the first stone. Show grace and forgiveness towards one another. Regard others higher than yourselves. Practice these things and we will do well. It is what the Lord commands. And we love His commands. And adultery is only when someone remarries and it wasn’t for the reasons Jesus had laid before us. So it would be better to be separated and devote all your relationship energy to God. And because of lack of self control it is better to marry than to burn with passion. God divorced Israel, yep. However, because of Israel’s betrayal and disobedience God made it possible to reconcile back to each other. And if the person was an unbeliever and they abandoned or divorces the unbeliever than the believer is brought to peace. Because as God stated earlier in Deuteronomy. Do not even marry with other nations because they will cause you to worship idols. It’s wasn’t the color of their skin but it was the other nations false gods they served and made child sacrifices to.
Sharon, people don’t want to hear that. I used to be one of them. Fighting for my life to be in relationships I had no business being in. Just like people don’t want to understand that in Matthew and Mark Jesus was answering a question about the Law- a Law Gentiles were never under. Moreover, how can one reconcile if the other party has gone off and remarried because they had no self-control? People need to just be honest and say they want to do things their way. Every day on TH-cam I see the statistics playing out on how low of a Biblical Worldview professing “Christians” have. It’s pretty terrible.
I separated 2 years ago . . . I cannot even start to imagine remarrying . . . Because I am still so drained . . . in every sense of the word . . . I have no energy for another relationship. . . I would rather be on my own . . .
It'll change.... give it time. Takes a lot ofntime to recover from abuse. My advice to you. "Treat yourself like you would treat your own child"
@KEPSAGAMER Yes , I am my 1st 2nd and 3rd priority . . . But really , another relationship . . . I don't think so . . . Not again . . .
As opposed to listening to anyone else's advice on what they think is right on this matter, I encourage you to seek God, read His word, and be absolutely sure you are in the center of His will before you enter into any relationship. The Bible isn't willy-nilly about people getting married multiple times.
I felt the same way but . I wrote down my vision. How I want my wife-to-be to me now. I've been married 9 yr am the happiest man in the world. We're not perfect. But.
We perfect for each other. I'm on number 4. In my last one.❤
It's okay to give yourself time to heal. It's not a good thing to get in another relationship broken❤
The answer to this question lies in asking God, prayer... no two situations are the same... and ONLY God can provide the truth but you gotta ask Him!
Scripture provides the answer as well. People just don’t want to read it, or they dismiss it because they don’t like what it says. I used to be “people” until He delivered me and granted me repentance.
New beginnings need to be accepted because they save lives. ❤
Not all marriages are ordained by God
Is divorce and remarriage a sin? Hells yeah. If you can't honor your vows in the eyes of God, then your words don't mean crap. The vows didn't say if I got bored, broke, unsatisfied, can't have kids, and when I cheat, or catch you cheating that gives me every reason to divorce. I thought it said honor, obey in sickness and in health till death do you part. It's sad that in the East they respect their vows better than in the West.
Because in the East, ladies (both married and unmarried) have values for themselves. When it comes to sexual purity, they have the highest percentage of women who go into marriage with their virginity intact. They are raised to be wives, mother and role model to the younger generation. They know the moment they are married they are locked in for life. The subject of divorce doesn't cross their mind. But the west has been working round the clock, everyday all day to destroy the culture of sexual purity through x-rated movies and now through the internet. Africans have lost their own culture because of Western obsession. Lord have mercy.
I had a partner that would say better to marry than to burn… I considered marriage with him & thought better to be alone than to marry someone who is not marriage material for me.
I want to remarry
whether sin or not, I got rid of my heavy load and I cant afford to lose my focus on God at this stage in my life, marriage requires the woman to do all the work and I am just too tired of that, He was not chasing God and domestic violence is a real thing. so sin or not I dont care to do it again,
May you receive the healing of God in your life!
People place divorce as the worst thing. When God calls lying sin. Gossip sin. Selfishness sin. Lust sin. Pride sin. I think marriage is one of the church’s greatest idols. Therefore, its held up as this crucial thing moreso than living led by the Holy Spirit.
Deceiving people by pretending be who you are not. Not good
Hmmmm
I rather remarry than burn or start to commit fornication or adultery.
I still want to serve God forever.
Why can't you ask God to take your desire away and align you with an assignment that will keep you busy for his kingdom.
I've prayed that, but ultimately the "desire" is natural. God himself created marriage. Adam had God, but obviously still had a "desire". We just have to earnestly pray for the single believer. It can be difficult for some.
Complicated topic in modern times
Not at all. God's principles don't change, neither does His word. As He said, it's the hardness of our hearts...
I would rather remarry if I had to than to commit fornication. At least I’m being committed to one person. Everyone can’t successfully live a single, celibate life, especially if the person has been married for many years.
All things are possible with God. It may not be as hard as you think if you choose to submit to Holy Spirit
Remarriage is adultery. Adultery is sin. Why is this so hard? I say that as someone who’s had to repent of my choices. The Bible does not say divorce is a sin… explicitly. However, the heart and acts behind it may be. Nevertheless, Jesus outright calls marrying another sin, but we want to play dumb. And the standard, the template, for marriage/remarriage was what God said in the beginning. It is NOT the compromised sexual immorality “exception” found in the Israelite Law that doesn’t even apply to Gentiles in Christ. Don’t want to follow His plan for HIS institution? Don’t get married. If you do and divorce, remain unmarried and dedicate your life to serving the Lord, be reconciled, or remarry after your first living spouse dies. It ain’t hard. People in their sinful flesh just like to complicate it.
So u saying the bible is compromised ???? Wow. Then u shouldn't be speaking on what is sin or not. Bc then what else would be compromised. Make that make sense.
Anyways remarriage is not a sin. Death of your spouse
Adultery
And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
@@theworthyproject Not everyone has the ability to stay single for the rest the their lives if they have to divorce their spouse. There’s no grace or mercy extended to an individual that has remarried and we know that God is a God of mercy and grace when we make mistakes or even sin. It’s not a sin to remarry rather than to burn with sexual desire. It’s better to MARRY THAN TO BURN.
@@landajj7580No. That’s not what I said. The Bible is not compromised. I said the law given to the Israelites was a compromise that took into account that they did not have Holy Spirit indwelling them. That’s why there so many laws. We have Holy Spirit inside of us and we aren’t Israelites.
@@landajj7580The Scripture says otherwise about remarriage (divorce and marrying another) being sin in Matthew 5, Matthew 19, Mark 10, and Luke 16.
@anonymousreview1049
That WORD is for the singles or widows.
God design marriage to protect us from committing sexual sins - immorality.
1 Corinthians 7:2, 8-9 NIV
[2] But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.
[8] Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do.
[9] But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
It was clearly said that if a married person divorce his wife/ her husband and remarries commits adultery.
Because marriage is a covenant before God. A person can only remarry if his/her spouse is dead.
Any deviation from GOD'S plan is a SIN..... Therefore, divorce not being of his plan is a sin
Sexual immortality is grounds for Divorce
Abandonment is the other grounds for Divorce
That is it, that is all. Reconciliation is the goal of your marriage gets off track.
So you’re saying God wants us to stay in domestic violence/physically abusive relationship?
@Graysonenzoaustin
““Suppose a man marries a woman but she does not please him. Having discovered something wrong with her, he writes a document of divorce, hands it to her, and sends her away from his house. When she leaves his house, she is free to marry another man. But if the second husband also turns against her, writes a document of divorce, hands it to her, and sends her away, or if he dies, the first husband may not marry her again, for she has been defiled. That would be detestable to the Lord. You must not bring guilt upon the land the Lord your God is giving you as a special possession.”
Deuteronomy 24:1-4
some of these commentators think everyone who is remarried is condemned. But then God forgives sin. and moses allowed divorce but adultery was condemned in his days by execution but he didnt execute people for adultery just because they divorced. It was permitted to divorce and thereby commit adultery in remarriage and Moses never refused remarriage. Jesus says divorce is mystical adultery,and sort of in an abstract way with the two being inseparable as long as they are alive. It is a lesson,that we are inevitably sinners when people remarry or lust on another,so that was a lesson to jews who thought they could perfectly keep the ten commandments that they really were unable to within their hearts,therefore proving they needed Jesus's forgiveness.
So what does Myles Munro picture have to do with this video
It’s him speaking
Right this doesn’t sound like him. I believe this is a voice over.
A.I. using his voice
The Bible tells us that the only way out of a marriage is if your spouse has passed away or if they have committed sexual sin with someone. It’s not that hard it’s in the Bible! So if you remarry and your spouse has not passed away or have not committed sexual sin with someone the Bible saids we are committed adultery. I didn’t say it Jesus said it in the Bible.
Divorce is a SIN!!!
God said He hates divorce , He never said it is a sin , yes , He would rather everyone stay married and never have to divorce, but we are living world, so that's where it's at . God is the Judge and has the ultimate say as to who is right or wrong in breaking their marriage vows . Divorce is not an unpardonable sin 🙏❤️🙏
@kerethajackson2435 thank you so much for saying that.
I'll just need to repent and keep it moving then, cuz I'm not staying and suffering with any more lies cheating and abuse.
Show me any scripture that says that's ok??...I'll wait
Lieing is a sin....and you just lied 😅 There are grounds for divorce as mentioned in the bible so once done according to his word its not considered a sin. Yes God hates divorce , bc it wasn't meant to be but he understood that ppl will betray their spouses.
No Sir
I totally disagree divorce is with Moses . Jesus didn't say divorce and get re married he called it adultery if u marry someone that's already married .
Cmon Mr Munroe Divorce and remarriage is adultery. Let’s get scriptural.
Romans 7:2-3
2 For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband.
3 So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man.
Live in your emotions and listen to false teachings at your peril. Anyone who really wants to engage on this topic from a Biblical Worldview- and not flesh and feelings and calling it “Holy Spirit,” here’s a playlist on the topic. The same God that’s a God of grace is also the same God who’s One of obedience and Believers’ main purpose being to glorify Him- even when it hurts our flesh. His grace is sufficient. th-cam.com/play/PLi7ojpE_-vkoV03vK5syyC1rNl92I6sLG.html&si=ifwRbbxZS2mhSMob
You can divorce but you connot remarry don't be fooled by this man.
So then u going against gods word ?
"Except for fornication" is a phrase from the Bible that appears in Matthew 5:31-32 and Matthew 19:9. It refers to Jesus' statement that divorce is only permitted in the case of sexual immorality
And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
Divorce is permissible just for that reason of sexual immorality. Which the person commits sexual fornication with someone else outside of the marriage. Equivalent to us worshipping other gods except the One true God. Our commitment, love and allegiance to be towards one another.
And adultery is only when someone remarries and it wasn’t for the reasons Jesus had laid before us. So it would be better to be separated and devote all your relationship energy to God. And because of lack of self control it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
God divorced Israel, yep. However, because of Israel’s betrayal and disobedience God made it possible to reconcile back to each other.
And if the person was an unbeliever and they abandoned or divorces the unbeliever than the believer is brought to peace. Because as God stated earlier in Deuteronomy. Do not even marry with other nations because they will cause you to worship idols. It’s wasn’t the color of their skin but it was the other nations false gods they served and made child sacrifices to.
Divorce is permissible just for that reason of sexual immorality also meaning fornication. Which the person commits sexual fornication with someone else outside of the marriage. Equivalent to us worshipping other gods except the One true God. Our commitment, love and allegiance to be towards one another. And when you remarry you are desiring to be with someone else in your heart. As Jesus stated that if any man looks at a woman with LUST. Lust means desire. He has committed adultery in his heart already. You are imagining being with that person instead of the one you agreed to making a life long covenant with. This is why we are all are so wicked. We need a savior to save us from ourselves. It’s challenging for all of us to stay consistently perfect every single time. Which is why those that are with our sin cast the first stone. Show grace and forgiveness towards one another. Regard others higher than yourselves. Practice these things and we will do well. It is what the Lord commands. And we love His commands.
And adultery is only when someone remarries and it wasn’t for the reasons Jesus had laid before us. So it would be better to be separated and devote all your relationship energy to God. And because of lack of self control it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
God divorced Israel, yep. However, because of Israel’s betrayal and disobedience God made it possible to reconcile back to each other.
And if the person was an unbeliever and they abandoned or divorces the unbeliever than the believer is brought to peace. Because as God stated earlier in Deuteronomy. Do not even marry with other nations because they will cause you to worship idols. It’s wasn’t the color of their skin but it was the other nations false gods they served and made child sacrifices to.
Sharon, people don’t want to hear that. I used to be one of them. Fighting for my life to be in relationships I had no business being in. Just like people don’t want to understand that in Matthew and Mark Jesus was answering a question about the Law- a Law Gentiles were never under. Moreover, how can one reconcile if the other party has gone off and remarried because they had no self-control? People need to just be honest and say they want to do things their way. Every day on TH-cam I see the statistics playing out on how low of a Biblical Worldview professing “Christians” have. It’s pretty terrible.
@thecuffshowLOVE how you brought up idolatry in the discussion!
❤🎉❤