We are so much alike. I cannot communicate either and always worry I’m saying the wrong thing. I don’t want to hurt people and I feel like I’m always misunderstood. I feel this so deeply, what you’re saying. ❤
No. You are beautiful and caring. As you grow and mature, you can't take all your friends and family with you, especially when they aren't growing as well. ❤
I think most people struggle to find their group and it isn't until we get to be this age that we are able to say out loud "I don't know where I belong." I felt "weird" for most of my life until, in my late 40s, I learned I was an Introvert and I stopped trying to do the things I thought I was supposed to do. A weight was lifted from my life. I also did the Myer Briggs Personality test. I rabbit on about this test every chance I can because it changed my life! I suddenly understood who I was, and why I felt how I felt and did what I did and reacted how I reacted! Best thing I've ever done for myself was to take that test.
Thank you Karen for sharing your experience with us. I did that test too and yes it did help me understand myself better, getting older help with that feeling
I don't belong anywhere either but I know I belong to our group. We love you and you belong to our group. We love you for who you are. Sending you a massive hug.
Now I feel like I know you better! I have seen videos where people just talk about their feelings and feel sorry for themselves but this is NOT like that! People need to hear this message because it is the essence of what so many of us are going through in our own way. God puts the people in our lives that we need. I'm glad I found you. 💕
Hey, Jase, I appreciate your vulnerability so much. Thank you. I resonate with everything you said. Look at me-I was born in Brazil and live in the UK! I have always felt like I didn’t fit in and have been constantly misunderstood in my life. For the Brazilians, I am no longer Brazilian ‘enough’ for the English; I am a foreigner. I hear you. I know it is not for everyone, but I understand now that the family and country I was born in were there to awaken and trigger specific paths in my life; I am an explorer and a traveller in this world. I’m grateful for them, but I don’t feel I need to agree or be around them at all times-especially if they don’t respect or support my wellbeing. I know that individuals stand for what they believe - like some of us, often are misunderstood by others. But those who are your tribe will always be there for you. 💙✨
Thank you very much Joane, you can understand that situation being between culture and not really belonging to one in particular. I love this saying "I am an explorer and a traveller in this world". Thank you, our tribes will always be here for us 💙💙💙
Hi Jase, I think you're sort of a third culture kid. I am the same, I was born in England, but was brought up in Zambia and South Africa, then moved to the Netherlands, now live in Wales which is where my husband was born, but he also grew up in South Africa. Thanks for your honest and vulnerable video 🙂
I understand your feelings. Most Black americans can agree with you, if we're willing to look deep and be honest. Some think our feeling of belonging is in the mother continent, but some places are quick to dispute that mindset. this plus systemic racism, and almost global "color adversion".. yes, feeling as tho you don't belong, remember my sista, you're in the company of millions! you are surrounded in acceptance and love! add to that, as a believer in Christ, well then, you're a child of the Most High God and you can't top THAT!!!
When you strong and you stand your ground in life you feel like people dont get you i feel exactly the same yet I have a good heart i help but I wont be manipulated I set boundaries and some people dont like that
People will always be judgmental to make themselves feel better. As you say, life is so short that we should focus on the positive. I too, I don't comment on what I don't agree with.
Jase dam I had written a huge comment and it’s different send. This has been happening a bit.. Firstly Jase we love you. Being that black sheep is probably what we all have in common. Don’t let people pull you down and past trauma keeping you stuck. I adore you, everyone in the comments adores you.
That’s what I wrote… I think I adore you so much as we are so similar.. I feel I don’t belong anywhere either but now I embrace it. I’m Aussie born who grew up getting picked on for my Asian eyes, my name being different etc etc people can be so mean. In Indonesia my mums land, I standout like dog balls, I stand over most people. I don’t look Indonesian either. I get told I look Chinese, Hawaiian, Mongolian, Mexican etc etc depending on that day. I love to be a citizen on the world. I’ve tried to live in Ireland, the states and Mexico so far and Mexico i definitely felt more accepted. Ps my youtube email wasn’t working when you sent me an invite got the Facebook group. I’ve only seen it recently and I tried to accept it but it couldn’t connect in. I have tried to dm you on Instagram. Or can you invite me again ?
You belong with US! We love you Jase! Just the way you are! You are amazing and loving, so kind and caring. I’m so grateful for you.❤❤
Thank you so much Lonna, I am grateful for you and for our tribe ❤️
I’m the black sheep who sees rejection everywhere. It’s so hard. I understand
I know you do, we have a lot in common ❤️
I think that's what we have in our group because a lot of us fit out and a lot of us are always misunderstood
Yes, we are very similar in many ways
We are so much alike. I cannot communicate either and always worry I’m saying the wrong thing. I don’t want to hurt people and I feel like I’m always misunderstood. I feel this so deeply, what you’re saying. ❤
It's hard to always feel this way as you understand it so well, I am learning to push through these feelings ❤️
Please protect your energy. You radiate calmness and peace and I love to watch your videos.
Thank you so much Hope 🙏🏾❤️
No. You are beautiful and caring. As you grow and mature, you can't take all your friends and family with you, especially when they aren't growing as well. ❤
Thank you so much Evelyn ❤️
I think most people struggle to find their group and it isn't until we get to be this age that we are able to say out loud "I don't know where I belong."
I felt "weird" for most of my life until, in my late 40s, I learned I was an Introvert and I stopped trying to do the things I thought I was supposed to do. A weight was lifted from my life.
I also did the Myer Briggs Personality test. I rabbit on about this test every chance I can because it changed my life! I suddenly understood who I was, and why I felt how I felt and did what I did and reacted how I reacted! Best thing I've ever done for myself was to take that test.
Thank you Karen for sharing your experience with us. I did that test too and yes it did help me understand myself better, getting older help with that feeling
I don't belong anywhere either but I know I belong to our group. We love you and you belong to our group. We love you for who you are. Sending you a massive hug.
I love you too
I love our little tribe 💕
Now I feel like I know you better! I have seen videos where people just talk about their feelings and feel sorry for themselves but this is NOT like that! People need to hear this message because it is the essence of what so many of us are going through in our own way. God puts the people in our lives that we need. I'm glad I found you. 💕
Merci beaucoup Bettie, your words are like a hug, much love to you 💕💕💕
Hey, Jase, I appreciate your vulnerability so much. Thank you. I resonate with everything you said. Look at me-I was born in Brazil and live in the UK! I have always felt like I didn’t fit in and have been constantly misunderstood in my life. For the Brazilians, I am no longer Brazilian ‘enough’ for the English; I am a foreigner. I hear you.
I know it is not for everyone, but I understand now that the family and country I was born in were there to awaken and trigger specific paths in my life; I am an explorer and a traveller in this world. I’m grateful for them, but I don’t feel I need to agree or be around them at all times-especially if they don’t respect or support my wellbeing. I know that individuals stand for what they believe - like some of us, often are misunderstood by others. But those who are your tribe will always be there for you. 💙✨
Thank you very much Joane, you can understand that situation being between culture and not really belonging to one in particular. I love this saying "I am an explorer and a traveller in this world". Thank you, our tribes will always be here for us 💙💙💙
Really appreciate your vulnerability. It must feel really good to share so openly. 👏
Thank you , it does 🙏
Our tribe loves you!! You definitely have a place with us! ❤
I love you too guys ❤❤❤
Hi Jase, I think you're sort of a third culture kid. I am the same, I was born in England, but was brought up in Zambia and South Africa, then moved to the Netherlands, now live in Wales which is where my husband was born, but he also grew up in South Africa. Thanks for your honest and vulnerable video 🙂
Hey Deborah, Wow, what a rich heritage you have ❤...
I understand your feelings. Most Black americans can agree with you, if we're willing to look deep and be honest. Some think our feeling of belonging is in the mother continent, but some places are quick to dispute that mindset. this plus systemic racism, and almost global "color adversion".. yes, feeling as tho you don't belong, remember my sista, you're in the company of millions! you are surrounded in acceptance and love! add to that, as a believer in Christ, well then, you're a child of the Most High God and you can't top THAT!!!
Amen Christine🙏. and I needed to hear this today ❤
Whoever feels uncomfortable or stressed because of you is being really silly. All you share is love and positivity
Aww, that's so nice to hear
When you strong and you stand your ground in life you feel like people dont get you i feel exactly the same yet I have a good heart i help but I wont be manipulated I set boundaries and some people dont like that
Thank you so much for this 🙏🏾
I’ve always felt that way and you inspired me to film the one I did. I don’t have friends either. 😢
I did love your video and your message. It's ok to be different ❤️. And we have friends now... Our tribe 💕
It hurts my heart that you feel this way. You deserve to feel accepted and loved and I truly hope you know you are. ❤
Thank you Lonna for encouraging me to post this video, your messages are just filled with love. Thank you 💕
People will always be judgmental to make themselves feel better. As you say, life is so short that we should focus on the positive.
I too, I don't comment on what I don't agree with.
Indeed, let's focus on the positive
Laron says you're a very wise woman and I 100% agree with him
Please tell him THANK YOU 🙂
You belong here so continue to share your truth because we love your personality and your wisdom
I appreciate you my friend 💕
@ I appreciate you too
Jase dam I had written a huge comment and it’s different send. This has been happening a bit..
Firstly Jase we love you. Being that black sheep is probably what we all have in common.
Don’t let people pull you down and past trauma keeping you stuck. I adore you, everyone in the comments adores you.
That’s what I wrote… I think I adore you so much as we are so similar.. I feel I don’t belong anywhere either but now I embrace it.
I’m Aussie born who grew up getting picked on for my Asian eyes, my name being different etc etc people can be so mean.
In Indonesia my mums land, I standout like dog balls, I stand over most people. I don’t look Indonesian either.
I get told I look Chinese, Hawaiian, Mongolian, Mexican etc etc depending on that day.
I love to be a citizen on the world. I’ve tried to live in Ireland, the states and Mexico so far and Mexico i definitely felt more accepted.
Ps my youtube email wasn’t working when you sent me an invite got the Facebook group. I’ve only seen it recently and I tried to accept it but it couldn’t connect in.
I have tried to dm you on Instagram. Or can you invite me again ?
Hello Dora,
Thank you so much for your kind words. I replied to the comments too, but they all disappeared❤❤❤
More people need to focus on the positive. ❤
Exactly ❤️
I resonate with being labeled a coconut 🥥
Yes and it's ok to be different ❤️
I always knew you had a heart of gold! You are very sweet and nonjudgmental and caring
Thank you so much, Neoshea. It takes one to know one when it comes to recognizing these character traits in others🙏
You have built an amazing community, and we have found our tribe. We belong together. ❤
We belong together 💕
Hope everything works out for you
Thank you so much
❤you are home with us
Thank you, much love to you my tribe ❤❤❤
That is gotta be very.But I have never had to deal with that. Do you know it's like not having friends and kind of feeling the outcast
It does feel like that, feeling like an outcast
Yessssss to support each other that's what we do for sure
Absolutely ❤️🙂