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  • Christine and Meri continue their conversation about how they have grown distant and started shutting each other out of their lives. Can they work out their differences and start growing closer again?
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  • @Mojofoe
    @Mojofoe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2314

    Meri is growing and changing and she’s outgrown their way of life.

    • @aliyahthequeen6924
      @aliyahthequeen6924 5 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      She's sick of Kody. He's a pig.

    • @pearlbubbles6885
      @pearlbubbles6885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Well said❤️that said❤️Christine has found her voice❤️But not in a good way☹️

    • @catmoore3024
      @catmoore3024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Nothing can be "safe" when they are each other's "other woman". There is always an element of competition and jealousy. YEAH KOTY. . ."TRUST ISSUES". CAN'T IMAGINE WHY THAT WOULD BE. Duh.

    • @mariannepiiksi5317
      @mariannepiiksi5317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i know right 🙄

    • @michellegordon4211
      @michellegordon4211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nah...midlife crisis and still "finding" herself...

  • @laurawallace4869
    @laurawallace4869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +827

    These women have been completely broken by their stupid arrangement.

  • @kimkincaid5667
    @kimkincaid5667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +466

    Meri, please move on. You can find a meaningful relationship with someone else. These ppl are not what you need.

    • @carolyndobry785
      @carolyndobry785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Kim Kincaid I want her to leave too but you have to understand how she was raised. If she leaves Her entire family including her mother with maybe the exception of her daughter was Sean her and never speak to her. Also she has taught that her reward for happiness is in heaven not on earth and that if she does leave all of the family will be damned to hell including the children. Imagine trying to leave that When you’ve been emotionally abused into believing that bullshit

  • @carriemahoney1721
    @carriemahoney1721 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1572

    They treat Meri so wrong like um she's the first wife , Robin runs them anyways

    • @boparks3204
      @boparks3204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Mrs. T Its hard tonleave something that has been your entire life. I belueve she grew up that way. She would be admitting that everything in her life... to include her parents were wrong and manipulative. She would also have to leave ANY social system she has. It is a scary though for most people. Her whole social circle are the other "wives" who would completely abandon her. They are atleast offering some sort of socialization right now. There is a reason the first step in abusing a person or manipulating them is to cut them off from everyone else. You have to be made to feel like there is nowhere else to go. It is important to maintain relationships outside of your marriage for that very reason.

    • @JustLikeAFlower
      @JustLikeAFlower 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@boparks3204 she has no other family that has been mentions siblings dad & mom are all gone

    • @marykelly9698
      @marykelly9698 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You must be joking meri is sneaky and 2 faced always has been

    • @beckyforcier3515
      @beckyforcier3515 ปีที่แล้ว

      I Dont think they do I think Mari is a loony bird

    • @jenniferponzini2433
      @jenniferponzini2433 ปีที่แล้ว

      I someone disagree with you. Meri is a difficult personality to be with. Everyone at some point have made comments about how difficult and harsh Meri can be. Christine is an absolute sweetheart in how she managed that first conversation with Meri. Meri just didn't like the conversation because Christine was being honest with her about how Christine and the rest of the family feel whenever Meri is around. If you can't be honest with the people in your life, why are they in your life to begin with? I guess that's why Christine has now left the family. She can speak her mind without being told she is being too rough and aggressive when she is actually the kindest person in that family, minus Janelle, Aspen and Ysabel. Now, don't get me wrong. Meri needed some extra kindness at this point in time, but just because you need kindness does not mean you should be allowed to treat people any which way you want either. It also doesn't mean that people cannot approach you about your behaviors and how it affects them also.

  • @crazymallugurl1375
    @crazymallugurl1375 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1749

    This is why polygamy is always damaging to the females while the male enjoys. How can Kody be there emotionally for all his wives? How can a woman see another woman that sleeps with her husband as a “sister.” Any loving woman would have that natural sense of jealousy. I feel Meri should leave Kody and just live freely.

    • @jamesandchante
      @jamesandchante 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Yeah, I feel like Cody emotionally disconnected from Meri a LONG time ago! Meri is a lovely person. She should move on and find a man that will truly appreciate her. She also needs female friends that she chooses based on mutual love, respect, appreciation, and common interests, instead of "sisters" that her husband picked for her to be attached to, that don't really seem to appreciate at, or even understand, her.

    • @stefchanel1723
      @stefchanel1723 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      I think deep down, Meri realizes that something is wrong with this system even if she was raised to believe in it. This isn't freedom and it isn't love. It's bondage and selfishness. Why aren't the wives also allowed to have multiple husbands, if love is supposed to be "multiplied and not divided?" It's a huge con job. And as each day goes by, I think she realizes it more and more.

    • @TennesseeGirl03
      @TennesseeGirl03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agree!

    • @gwenscott535
      @gwenscott535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This is all based in a belief system formed by the fundamentalist Mormons and it is crazy how much b.s. women put up with when they believe the dogma. There is a YT channel by a ex polygamist and in her April program Cody Brown was mentioned. He was a character witness in court for a man that was up on domestic assault charges. Very warped values.

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It's just made up bs by men for men. Just like all religion.

  • @meghansmith3886
    @meghansmith3886 5 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    Meri needs to just leave. The entire family holds her back from who she truly is and who she is meant to be. Christine is completely passive aggressive too.

    • @joannferlotte1087
      @joannferlotte1087 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      MERI SHOULD MOVE ON THEY ARE USING HER FOR THE SHOW JANELLE SHOULD LEAVE KODI TOO SEEMS THAT HE NEVER WIT THE TWO OF THEM ALWAYS CHRISTINE AND ROBYN PLACE I USE TO LIKE CHRISTINE KNOW CANT STAND HER SHE NEEDS A WAKE UP IF HE GET A 5th WIFE HE WILL PUT HER ASIDE AND SHE WILL BE LIKE TWO FIRST WIVES

    • @moghx2
      @moghx2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She did

    • @sophiacherrington6765
      @sophiacherrington6765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The first wife is the real wife in God eyes anyone should lift is the sister so call wives not the first

    • @sm-iv8nt
      @sm-iv8nt ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think Christine was pretty direct

  • @TheVenessa7485
    @TheVenessa7485 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    She didn't like direct, but watching this show, there needs to be more direct conversations. So glad Christine left this nonsense behind.

    • @sm-iv8nt
      @sm-iv8nt ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes!!

  • @bethdavis2340
    @bethdavis2340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    For ya’ll who also don’t know, Meri has lost two siblings that died in extremely tragic ways at young ages. A father that died in his 60’s (still far too young). I can’t even imagine the sort of grief that would leave on a person. After learning this it’s made me realise exactly how insensitive the rest of the family truly are with Meri.

    • @katrabbit
      @katrabbit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Exactly. She's had so much loss and still gives so much of herself to everyone else.
      Grief can physically and emotionally change people- I'm proud of who she is through it.

    • @Picachki
      @Picachki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Grief changes a person. And it takes very selfless individuals to help someone through that. But it seems like everyone here is too busy with their own lives to help Meri. She needs a better support system. And I don’t think this life is cutting it for her. Her needs are being left out.

    • @chrislynn5227
      @chrislynn5227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So what lol

    • @Picachki
      @Picachki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michellewilcox7175 All I’ve seen is a couple of TH-cam videos. But if that’s the case it seems she isolated herself. I don’t know what to say…

    • @jeanalexander4101
      @jeanalexander4101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said Beth. Meri has the right to feel the way she does the other wives do not I feel. Just because they had more children with Kody does not mean Meri was not just as important as they were

  • @debraavirett1302
    @debraavirett1302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    I feel so bad for Meri ...ever since she got talked into the divorce she's been treated like crap from all the other women and kody ...Meri your a wonderful spirit find your wings and fly from all that garbage ..You deserve so much better💕💕

    • @adonnaprice9676
      @adonnaprice9676 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All this is on camera, how do you act in front of one? Meri could probably bench press 200. Get real.

    • @laurenhahn890
      @laurenhahn890 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yea right lol. Meri is a nightmare sister wife, selfish, territorial, controlling, aggressive. No thsnks!

  • @mandymcdaniels9026
    @mandymcdaniels9026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +815

    I think Meri is the lonely one, she only was able to have one child where as the others has multiple and some are still at home. Also she was the first wife now she lost that to Robyn. She’s looking for a way out. The bed n breakfast never worked out, her dream, no one supported her. So I can kinda see her frustration with just everything and everyone. She’s trying to get out but I don’t think she knows how cause she knows no other lifestyle.

    • @gailjohnston9253
      @gailjohnston9253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      She bought the bed & breakfast. Her mother lives there, but I wish Merri would break away from that dysfunctional family and make her own life. Christine is the worst.

    • @mandymcdaniels9026
      @mandymcdaniels9026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That’s awesome she done that for herself and her mother!! I didn’t know,
      I thought Cody and the other woman shot her dream down. I wish she would leave too. Christine is the worst!!!!!

    • @gailjohnston9253
      @gailjohnston9253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@mandymcdaniels9026
      Kody did not help her. Merri did it on her own and shocked the shit out of everyone.
      Wait til she finds out her space in the new house plans is 1500 square ft compared to the others 2500 -3500 sq ft. She will be pissed off..
      Kody seems to be getting himself deep in debt. Funny because He said the resson for the move to AZ was to save money for the future. Maybe he should get a real job.

    • @mandymcdaniels9026
      @mandymcdaniels9026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Gail Johnston he’s a piece of work!! She’s way too good for that family! Tops for her doing it all on her own! He can’t get his greedy hands on it! I would go the hell off if I got the smaller one just because I could only bare one child for his yucky tail end! I hope she gets the courage to get out, meet a great man to treat her how she deserves!

    • @kaygray7567
      @kaygray7567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      None of these women look like they’re hurting financially. Meri in a 3 story rental! Really?
      Feel sorry for someone else.
      As far as polygamy. They all chose it, and they all seem miserable.

  • @summerrose2853
    @summerrose2853 5 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    I can't wait until Meri Leaves all those bums alone. I hope She keeps getting blessed and fine a good Man who only won't her.

    • @ba09942
      @ba09942 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      S Beck I would love to see a episode where meri gives cody divorce papers and leaves... and those other women could care less they would be happy

    • @msdanet31
      @msdanet31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Meri deserves the best and does not fit into that family. Cody barely speak to her and I rarely see her communicate with her daughter. She looks lonely and miserable on every episode

    • @taylordecoster611
      @taylordecoster611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She deserves to be happy🥺

    • @sophiacherrington6765
      @sophiacherrington6765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She first wife she is the one that is real in God eyes the rest of them should be the one to leave not the first

    • @heatherm.8830
      @heatherm.8830 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And two years later!
      Here she is! Yes!!!!!!
      I’m glad two of the wives are finally going on with their life

  • @finmoh
    @finmoh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    Christine is obnoxious she's some nerve talking to Meri as she did. She's no Mrs Perfect well done Meri for speaking up to her . Christine is patronising .

    • @gwenscott535
      @gwenscott535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      In their religion it is very common for a wife to be "punished" for speaking to or associating with people outside the polygamist community.

    • @charleyshaaz
      @charleyshaaz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Finola Mohan- Dunworth 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @taylordecoster611
      @taylordecoster611 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said

  • @christusvincit6696
    @christusvincit6696 5 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    You can not share a husband. This concept is very unnatural and beyond help. That's nice they can be friends or "sisters". Family is important. But who are we kidding. You can't share a spouse. It's absurd.

    • @maryloubusico9475
      @maryloubusico9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Paz y Bien I would NEVER EVER share my husband

    • @KERYNN007
      @KERYNN007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I think in ways you can, but all these people are toxic. Kody, especially is.

    • @ilovehotmoms5804
      @ilovehotmoms5804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The problem lies in the women not being intimate with eachother; the only way something like this would work is if they ALL were dating eachother. A one guy has 5 different girlfriend scenario I just can’t see how that would work long term.

    • @AllAboutPurple
      @AllAboutPurple 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The kids are what kept together…& hiding their crazy lifestyle behind religion. Kody is the least religious i’ve ever seen. 😂

  • @cherryonasundae
    @cherryonasundae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1706

    How dare Christine tell Meri something like that.. it’s downright rude. Meri is completely alone and Cody doesn’t even care about her, of course she’s going to have baggage!! I don’t like Christine one bit

    • @shawnnaknowlton7603
      @shawnnaknowlton7603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      Christine used to be one of my favourites, now I think she is just a mean girl. That was so extra mean!

    • @sharylfuller9277
      @sharylfuller9277 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Shawnna Knowlton Christian wants to rule the family and wants Cody all to herself and is a passive aggressive narcissist...I have never liked her and she is the ultimate MEAN GIRL

    • @pearlbubbles6885
      @pearlbubbles6885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Robyn changed the family...

    • @itssammiiox1234
      @itssammiiox1234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Robin changed the family dynamics. The other three wives were all working as one unit before Kody got greedy and wanted a younger wife. Meri and Christine are not the ones to be criticizing

    • @joanneroberts855
      @joanneroberts855 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Ouch Christine
      I seriously can't see how there hasn't been a bitch slap

  • @dalyceolds6811
    @dalyceolds6811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Meri needs to just tell them that the " catfish" subject is DONE and she is not going to discuss it with them again. They have nothing positive to add and so, it will no longer be discussed.

    • @lizzie1897
      @lizzie1897 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She was lonely and needy! No one addresses that or has compassion for her. They have a responsibility to a family member to question why Meri is not having her need met by husband and 2 dozen wives and children

    • @angelettafields4366
      @angelettafields4366 ปีที่แล้ว

      The catfish woman was a person that the 4th wife knew. I think Meri was set up by Robin.

  • @Pinkdiamond12
    @Pinkdiamond12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Leave Meri LEAVE!

  • @bronwynanne36
    @bronwynanne36 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Meri did a really good job explaining that she felt unsafe in that conversation.

  • @lesliesmith5797
    @lesliesmith5797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    Once that icky Robyn came on the scene, things went down hill. Robyn has taken over the entire mess, with all her philosophical opinions and eye rolling, like she has enough of a brain to ponder anything.

    • @barbarayoung203
      @barbarayoung203 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Your comment made me laugh so hard! 😂😂😂

    • @a_s2557
      @a_s2557 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      omfg lmfao

    • @elenaescocia2479
      @elenaescocia2479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I saw through Robyn from day one. She came into that family with an agenda. She is fake & devious. She is extremely manipulative. She wanted to be top dog & she helped push Meri out.

    • @Dominiquemassey3
      @Dominiquemassey3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She is the reason why I stopped watching.

  • @jviewz88
    @jviewz88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    This lady needs to leave and close the door. The other lady is toxic and obviously jealous.

    • @deshnydayal7386
      @deshnydayal7386 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes she was always the jealous one

    • @gailjohnston9253
      @gailjohnston9253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Christine has always been a jealous pain in the ass. She's desperately trying to be #1 wife.

    • @thusithusi2524
      @thusithusi2524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jojo Files saxvitio

  • @dalyceolds6811
    @dalyceolds6811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Christine is so used to feeling defensive that If she isn't defensive, she over compensates and becomes very agressive.

    • @lizzie1897
      @lizzie1897 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good observation for all of us who tend to do this. Passionate, intense isn’t always balanced

  • @juliannemcculloch7529
    @juliannemcculloch7529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +411

    I don't like the way Christine talks to Meri

    • @annemcnamara8005
      @annemcnamara8005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Marie needs to get out of that life and go live in with her Mom and business! KOdy doesn't want her and I trhink they are a jealous over her buying the business so why give them a part when nobody wanted to help her! So Marie wake up and smell the coffee and "Good Luck"!

    • @harriettemacy7399
      @harriettemacy7399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Julianne♥︎ I so agree! Christine is just not nice, she is a control freak, an egoist.otherwise Meri is non- aggressive .Meri has a sweet soul.

    • @goldylocksac6586
      @goldylocksac6586 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like she's her kid too

    • @judyivie2215
      @judyivie2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I would love to slap Chrisine

    • @msdanet31
      @msdanet31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Julianne McCulloch they all look down on meri low key

  • @jeanzyc.5103
    @jeanzyc.5103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Meri has been crying and crying and crying on every single episode. Maybe there was 1 or 2 when she didn't cry but I don't remember them. Why didn't she leave a long time ago??? Meri has been so obviously miserable!

    • @gwenscott535
      @gwenscott535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It is called religious commitment. Many polygamist wives suffer like this group. I do not see the attraction to this self abasing religion.

    • @trishquigley8697
      @trishquigley8697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If Meri just go needs to stop crying and just leave the whole group but please don't cry about it

  • @zinhlewebster2295
    @zinhlewebster2295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    Why doesn't she just leave... gosh so frustrating

    • @gwenscott535
      @gwenscott535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They don't paint a full picture on the show, they are Fundamentalist and this lifestyle is part of their religion.

  • @hollyholy641
    @hollyholy641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    @5:53 Meri is spot on with that - once they no longer needed her to babysit the other wives' kids they pushed her away because she only had one it's not like she had them babysitting for her. Those women used her to get her husband, Especially Robyn - maybe that's why her name is that cause she be Robyn women's husbands! That woman had an agenda from the get-go. She was so buddy-buddy with Meri during the courtship and as soon as Robyn got into Cody's bed she flipped and was able to kick Meri outta the legal status as wife. What a F'D up commune this is. They are the perfect example as to why none of their daughters want to be in a plural marriage.

    • @rrksk
      @rrksk ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is stupid. First of all, you can never "steal" anyones partner bc they have a will and rights of their own. If your partner treates you bad it is on them, not their new partner. Second of all Meri does not derserve more or less than any other of the wifes. They are all at an disadvantage to cody, bc of him and their stupid misogonistic culture.

  • @barb8335
    @barb8335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +408

    I can't stand Christine. She thinks she's so above it all.

    • @kimmyqueen8009
      @kimmyqueen8009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      To be honest I feel janelle is the only nice and rational one. Meri whines too damn much 🙄

    • @pearlbubbles6885
      @pearlbubbles6885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Christine talks about being married all the time...Christine you're not married to Kody you know this right?? Only Robyn is.

    • @kimmyqueen8009
      @kimmyqueen8009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pearl Bubbles Yup. But should still be Meri. But she also whines too much her and Robyn omg the crying sisters 🙄🙄

    • @pearlbubbles6885
      @pearlbubbles6885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kimmyqueen8009 Cody divorced Meri, I believe it's his idea, Meri is angry about it, the question is, no renewal of their Vows?? Right? Why? Does Meri give her money to the family?? Do they just want her to come with them, to keep the show going?? Cody refused Meri another child. Remember?

    • @kimmyqueen8009
      @kimmyqueen8009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pearl Bubbles Yes I do. I’m not sure if he wanted it or she did. But after the cat fish situation it was never the same. And also once she divorced Cody to allow him to marry robin so he can adopt her kids. Was never the same.

  • @outfromtheshadows
    @outfromtheshadows 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Meri is breaking out of the box and they cannot support that so they systematically push her back down into the box. Incredibly controlling behaviour somewhat thinly disguised as concern.

  • @lynclark1684
    @lynclark1684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    The whole family shunned Meri. She was a total outcast. It's heartbreaking to see that they all ganged up on her and disrespected her. I really hoped she would leave and find another man who would treat her the way she deserves to be treated. Funny how tables have turned and Christine was the first to leave.

    • @CamilleXCavelle
      @CamilleXCavelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just said this I didn’t even know she said that to Meri

    • @snowieskiesabove
      @snowieskiesabove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Christine was the villain

    • @SLUBUG
      @SLUBUG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Karma is a bitch. I hope meri leaves. She seems like she's lost. He clearly doesn't want her but as of the latest episodes, she's hanging around and begging for his attention

    • @xXthinkxthinXx
      @xXthinkxthinXx ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If you read their book, Meri was the problem. She was awful to the sister wives and the kids. The older kids still have relationships with Christine, but not Meri. There’s a reason for that

  • @jromeo8247
    @jromeo8247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    What years of narcissist abuse looks like.

  • @witt.1620
    @witt.1620 5 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I feel like she doesnt fit that fam anymore because she is the only one who has an empty nest, yet her husband doesn't at the same time. She has lots of time on her hands now and they don't trust her so much after the catfish situation. And she's said that she's mourning not having the prospect of a son-in-law, even though shes ok with her daughter being gay. I feel for her.

    • @gailjohnston9253
      @gailjohnston9253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I doubt she approves of Mariah being gay. How could she. I would hate it if my son was gay, but I wouldn't say much. Just pray he smartens up.

    • @kaylajarema974
      @kaylajarema974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Gail Johnston wtf is wrong with you

    • @jwlundgren
      @jwlundgren 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      what happned with the bed and breakfast?

    • @user-jn9vt8zi1s
      @user-jn9vt8zi1s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gail Johnston there is something very wrong with you and i suggest you never have children because it does not sound like you are fit to be a parent. don’t have kids if you don’t want gay, trans, disabled, etc. kids

  • @hidden_jem_
    @hidden_jem_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Youre guarded because you dont feel accepted and loved"
    Yeah... After attacking her for having baggage and saying everyone has to deal with it??? Show her love and compassion and that might make her feel more loved and accepted!

  • @caroldaniel9806
    @caroldaniel9806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Go Meri ! Run . Enjoy life . You need a man who focuses on you. You got depressed when you became an empty nester. The other wife’s had kids to stay busy with. I understand how you felt you needed something in your life when you were online.

    • @msdanet31
      @msdanet31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Carol Rieg her husband was not giving her any attention and was too wrapped up in Robyn

  • @joannemadden7449
    @joannemadden7449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Meri, there is a BIG difference between being DIRECT and being ABSOLUTELY, DOWN RIGHT RUDE!! YOU CAN NOT LET CHRISTINE SPEAK TO YOU THAT WAY, YOU ARE NOT HER CHILD!!

  • @northernman8230
    @northernman8230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Meri needs a real man ! One who loves her , takes care of her and loves her children. Please get out of this toxic relationship.

  • @liorasitelman1856
    @liorasitelman1856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    They all look exhausted, worn out, and miserable. Don’t think it’s a happy life for any of them. Even Kody doesn’t look happy.

  • @aliyahthequeen6924
    @aliyahthequeen6924 5 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Kody, Kody, Kody is soooo incredibly disgusting. He shakes his head to get his hair to fly in the air. You can tell he does it on purpose. He's so goofy.

    • @SKC193
      @SKC193 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Dominique Williams He thinks he’s god’s gift to women. He makes me sick!

    • @dejaporter7338
      @dejaporter7338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @SueP-D
      @SueP-D 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No kidding! He’s gross as hell 🤢🤮

    • @belenhernandezbenavente3420
      @belenhernandezbenavente3420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SKC193 how we, women can be so blind sometimes? Poor Mery...

    • @belenhernandezbenavente3420
      @belenhernandezbenavente3420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Colonel Gibbs you shut up

  • @WarandFlame
    @WarandFlame 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Meris relationship is strained with everyone because she knows Cody doesn't love her and she plays victim instead of survivor and just leaves

  • @JackieGrenda
    @JackieGrenda 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Everyone seems so miserable.

  • @joyceyoungblood7927
    @joyceyoungblood7927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The problem with Meri's heaviness is her absolute unrepentance for her part in the "catfishing". She had plans to leave the family, if it had been a real man she would have. She hasn't even once told the truth about it. And her daughter knows this and that is the wedge in their relationship.
    In regards the person who catfished her is a criminal.

  • @CountrySing
    @CountrySing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Christine is talking about baggage? please lol

  • @ybever
    @ybever 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I think these ladies need to know their place. Meri is the first wife. They are all below her.

  • @user-df3nx8ee9p
    @user-df3nx8ee9p 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow...she is some kinda special...jeez. Meri deserves an award for her patience... smart to bring her to your turf.

  • @feehloif3
    @feehloif3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When Meri said "why wouldn't I be guarded..... why wouldn't I be guarded..?tell me." That just breaks my heart.😔💔 I wish those two(plus Janelle) would have never been with him from the start because they are both such beautiful hearts, its sad.

  • @bellaluvluv
    @bellaluvluv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I can understand how she feels out of place. My husband divorces me to marry another sister wife after many years of being married my oldest is at college. I can imagine she doesn’t feel accepted and wanted. Meri do your own thing you are smart and strong you will do well!;)

  • @milian696
    @milian696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So nice of Chrisitine to be humble and gracious enough to apologize for her part.

  • @rebeccagable9629
    @rebeccagable9629 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This show tries so hard to normalize this crazy way of life--show how "happy" they all are. They're NOT happy.

  • @omadjourney
    @omadjourney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    Meri is now annoying me as she's had so many opportunities to leave, they shouldn't have to accept her SHE needs to accept them as they came into her marriage.

    • @veemont1962
      @veemont1962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      She did. But when Kody divorced her it messed her up. She felt replaced by Robyn. I'm sure it can't be easy being the first wife. She is insecure that she now has to file paperwork as a divorced woman which is frowned upon. They are strong in their beliefs so she Cant just leave. That's not how they do things.

    • @polisigh216
      @polisigh216 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Kody, who decided to enter this marriage and add wives, bears the responsibility for making this work. She is reacting to how her husband treats her.

    • @indigoray6693
      @indigoray6693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      afro brit Happy at peace and content. Definitely NOT her fault and shouldn’t be blamed for all of the emotional pain brought on to her. Kody is mainly responsible. I couldn’t imagine how she first felt when kody first introduced the idea of having another wife in the first place. I’m sure she went with it because she loved him and would rather stay married with him and accept that he was going to do what he wanted. I’m sure she felt very stuck she didn’t want to leave and divorce him because Mormons look down on that. You are taught to always be submissive and obey your husband. You can even be excommunicated from the church for divorce. So losing her husband and her entire faith support system would have been so much worse for her. So In her eyes it was either suck it up and play along or completely lose everything. It was a lose lose situation. Now that she’s legally divorced from kody she probably feels very lost seeing as that was the one thing she was holding onto.

    • @GinaLB1967
      @GinaLB1967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Actually Meri divorced him so Robyn could marry him and get health insurance.

    • @KarilynM
      @KarilynM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Gina Bolden also wasn’t it so he could adopt Robyn’s kids from previous marriage

  • @connierodgers4979
    @connierodgers4979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Meri is so much stronger then the other ladies. She is so above Kody. I’ll be so glad when Meri leaves this family she is not treated well. At least Robins not there crying. Lord Robins crying gets old.

  • @AnnBoleyn1
    @AnnBoleyn1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Who brings the baggage now Christine?

  • @BrandyTexas214
    @BrandyTexas214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    “You bring a lot of baggage when you walk into the room and I don’t know what to do with it.” I would love to say this to someone I know.. so accurate

    • @lizzie1897
      @lizzie1897 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Think of how that comes across. Very accusing. Maybe you seem sad? Can I understand more?

    • @rrksk
      @rrksk ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't

  • @CH-sl1yd
    @CH-sl1yd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    How can this family watch these shows and not see how they scapegoat and disrespect Meri? Maybe that's the damn baggage Christine is feeling.

  • @countrygirl1006
    @countrygirl1006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Meri, kick that crap to the curb, you are smart, pretty,and can and will find someone to love just you,and you deserve that!!!! Go girl power!!!!! ( And I mean a man,not a cat fish!) Just an old woman from the south.

  • @sunshinegal4294
    @sunshinegal4294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Meri has a hard time seeing herself as she really is and when others are honest with her. She always talks about people accusing her and having her walls up and being guarded. She’s never learned. She’s never changed. I think she’d be much happier moving on in her life and finding some happiness of her own. I have felt bad for her and how Kody had treated her. That has to be so painful! I can’t imagine.

  • @7horsefan970
    @7horsefan970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'd be willing to bet that Christine is overjoyed at not having to have anymore conversations about conversations about conversations!

  • @missydeyoreads
    @missydeyoreads 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Imagine how happy Merri might be if she had a relationship that actually met all her needs. Or if she was the type of person who is able to find freedom and value in being alone and loving herself enough for two people. I personally love being on my own and I don't often feel I need support from a romantic relationship although sometimes I think it would be nice. But I think Meri would have led a much happier adult life if she was the only love of someone's life and they were hers.

  • @stadiabrathwaite9183
    @stadiabrathwaite9183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Meri has some resentment towards each one of them and she knows that us viewers sympathise with her and with that she behaves as just meri wanted out because she wants to be the first and only opinion and nothing is wrong with that I believe she should leave and go and find happiness

  • @mildredgoolsby6916
    @mildredgoolsby6916 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I used to like Christine until I seen that episode the way she talked to Mary and she was very rude and I saw the hurt on Mary's face they was no reason for her to get on public TV and say those things to her Christine you should be ashamed of yourself and I'm looking at this video and you're saying that you're sorry and that you didn't mean for it to come out that way but I don't believe you sorry Mary the Christine heard it hurt you that way God tells us that we supposed to forgive and and forget and I know we can forgive but you never do forget so like you said keep your guard up because I don't think they have your best interest at heart God bless you merry Christine I will pray for you

  • @kimbranch4125
    @kimbranch4125 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Christine is blunt, to the point and very direct and a lot of times that can come across as rude.
    I have a friend who is very very negative and I told her something similar because I don’t know why so I don’t know how to deal with her. But she needs to acknowledge that both of them have changed and add the tension to the relationship.

  • @trishc8390
    @trishc8390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Meri, I understand having them totally shun you and take Cody's side is scary but, it is time for you to move on. Cody is about to move the family again and totally disrupt the family so he can take control again. Go Meri go!

  • @jeilers2146
    @jeilers2146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Meri, you are an amazing woman! I would walk away. You have outgrown these ladies and kody. Go on with your own life. You can do it 🤗

  • @Dakotaangel1
    @Dakotaangel1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    God can you tell they are therapy junkies? Meri uses all the lingo.

  • @rainyfoxx4900
    @rainyfoxx4900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Meri should leave them all in the dust. She's better then all ove them.

  • @marmite9396
    @marmite9396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Meri n Christine 's relationship starts deteriorating when Meri brought Robyn in.

  • @karlaautrey3182
    @karlaautrey3182 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Since when does EVERYTHING have to be "Safe". Sugar coated is what Meri wants...It seems to be an issue with Kody, Meri & Robyn.

  • @donrendav
    @donrendav 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Meri is unhappy and lonely. That is why she was vulnerable to being cat-fished. I will never forget the expression on her face when Kody made the decision not to have another baby with her after Robin offered to be a surrogate for her. Life is too short!

  • @Abidemi.
    @Abidemi. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Merri needs her own family. I use to like this family but their type of plural marriage pisses me off. They are not a family. They can't even leave together for a couple of months 🙄

  • @nrmmom
    @nrmmom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Kody explaining trust issues tho 😂😂

  • @entertainmeimboredplease4250
    @entertainmeimboredplease4250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I will personally pray that god relief meri from her pain a give her the courage to leave.

  • @taylor6672
    @taylor6672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The only thing sadder then divorce is living an unhappy life.

  • @ninayang9097
    @ninayang9097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love Christine. It’s good that she was being honest. Because Meri does have heavy, negative energy. & it’s because she’s unhappy, Meri needs to make changes in her life instead of just not doing anything.

  • @edenrowe95
    @edenrowe95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I think Christine was harsh but it’s important she tells Meri. My step mother sucked all the life from a room, she made us all miserable because she was always so down and harsh and not even for a particular reason. I wish one of us had the courage to just tell her because we would have been much better off not holding our breath until she left. No one deserves to live like that. By brining it to her attention Meri has the chance to change it and break the cycle of how she feels isolated and unloved.

  • @professionalcommenter
    @professionalcommenter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Now that both Meri and Christine are gone. It will be interesting to see if there is a show called Life after Cody.

  • @gwenritch
    @gwenritch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They don’t know who they are because they trying to be as one without acknowledging that they are separate individuals with real emotions...

  • @shesharpshoots
    @shesharpshoots 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Christine you and Meri really belong as friends and you consider moving towards being BEST FRIENDS and I hope you both open up to each other for that and I hope that you reach for that because you both deserve it.

    • @hillarymurphy5256
      @hillarymurphy5256 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can't be best friends with someone who abused your children. The kids have come out and told us on other platforms.

  • @metrocustomer3425
    @metrocustomer3425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Meri is sooooo much better than the other wives

  • @psychicrenegade
    @psychicrenegade ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Meri has a massive house considering it's just her and one child living there.

  • @TennesseeGirl03
    @TennesseeGirl03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Trust issues? 4 women-are sharing a freaking husband 😆😆😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @psychicrenegade
    @psychicrenegade ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Anyone who has even an ounce of sympathy for Meri has not witnessed her recent behaviors after Christine left Kody. Also, now that most of the children are adults, they have started speaking out about how Meri was an abusive "monster" towards them when they were growing up. The more information that comes out...the less sympathy I have for her! She was so nasty and cruel to Janelle that Janelle actually moved to another state and lived apart from the family for 2 years!

  • @janicemcnutt4857
    @janicemcnutt4857 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Let me guess. She's gonna talk about the catfish thing 😒😒

    • @dede.terrebonneterrebonne9914
      @dede.terrebonneterrebonne9914 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I can’t stand Christine. She is a know it all and thinks she is better than any one else you go Meri

  • @prrtygrrl1
    @prrtygrrl1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This clip finally makes more sense

  • @jadegriffin6695
    @jadegriffin6695 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What annoys me the absolute most about Meri as a human being and a sister wife is that she complains about not feeling loved or welcome but when they do open there arms for her (like Christine and Janelle have both done plenty of times) she dismisses it or her entire energy she brings is just so negative and toxic you can legit feel it through the camera. She uses being guarded as a manipulation and an excuse. When Christine left and said she wasn’t up for a relationship with Robyn and Meri right then. I was thinking well why the hell should she? She’s put in so much effort and time trying to make relationships and help and they crap on it and then cry victim to Kody. Meri didn’t like Janelle and Christine because she didn’t pick them like she did Robyn and that is extremely obvious when you rewatch it. The victim playing instantly makes me cringe from both… Robyn with her kids and her ex husband and Meri with her infertility and the catfish thing. Drives me mental.

  • @christinedozier6071
    @christinedozier6071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There are people who SUCK the oxygen out of any room they walk into. Meri is that person. Good luck Christine. I wish I knew how to be open when there is that person in my life

  • @Teaally1913
    @Teaally1913 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Meri loves the word “conversation” she says it all day in each episode to this day!

  • @deannabanman243
    @deannabanman243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wish Christine was my mom. Ive never had either of my parents appologise about anything and its crushing. Shes a super mom

  • @slovesjesus4951
    @slovesjesus4951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a heartbreaking situation to have to live in 😢 no big surprise anyone would have “baggage”. Does anyone truly not have baggage?

  • @lauramurray8145
    @lauramurray8145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its obvious meri gets treated bad I feel her pain every episode 😥

  • @patricialapidus238
    @patricialapidus238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK GOD ONE OF THEM SEES THE LIGHT!

  • @shmirchiktipsytarot2225
    @shmirchiktipsytarot2225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Meri is extremely sensitive and very hurt. I feel like she needs to move on from this man child, find someone decent who will love her and let kody and Robin have each other

  • @dabbydoodle4801
    @dabbydoodle4801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kody burnt these women's emotional lives out....he lives on pride and ego and they are his pawns.

  • @taytayy49
    @taytayy49 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can't imagine wanting another baby so much, and your husband says no. But having to pretend to always be happy for years, while he goes on to have lots more kids with other women.

  • @DreamChaser1366
    @DreamChaser1366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    I know this will probably get lost in the comments but sometimes when I’m home alone I like to go out in my garden and cover myself with dirt and pretend I’m a carrot.

    • @aidavibes26
      @aidavibes26 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Man 😂😂😂..Why carrot?

    • @B_Bodziak
      @B_Bodziak 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Dont ever forget: You is smart. You is kind. You is important...

    • @sarahnelson8636
      @sarahnelson8636 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      OG Cookie Monster omg

    • @lhamilton6041
      @lhamilton6041 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMBO 😂

    • @mimi2-3
      @mimi2-3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Eliza Grogan Ever seen The Help?

  • @jenniferponzini2433
    @jenniferponzini2433 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    If Christine's version of aggression is always this sweet then the entire planet should bow down to Christine. Christine was in NO WAY aggressive. Meri is just overly sensitive in this case. Christine has always been so sweet and kind.

    • @sm-iv8nt
      @sm-iv8nt ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YESSSSS AGREED

  • @daisysoup158
    @daisysoup158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think Cody needs to bring up the idea of bringing in another wife. I don't think Robin would feel so superior.

  • @JAZZnMOTION
    @JAZZnMOTION 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    1. She needs to just go right now would be the perfect time because.... 2. I heard Cody has a new wife soooo this will get interesting I wonder how Robyn will feel now that she's not the favorite

    • @Passportlass
      @Passportlass 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi, how did you find out about the new wife if you don’t mind me asking? 😄

  • @mckenzierosen
    @mckenzierosen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Drinking game: Take a shot every time they say “conversation”

  • @zina6633
    @zina6633 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Christine is the best. Sooo open and full of fire... 👌🤩

  • @diamondkivi4721
    @diamondkivi4721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Meri deserves better 😭

  • @awendaawenda8011
    @awendaawenda8011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was really sad and all on Christine. That was so mean and coming in to a conversation saying you’re the problem shuts everything down. This plural marriage doesn’t seem to want to mesh.

  • @momwhoknowz3758
    @momwhoknowz3758 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And now Christine adds baggage funny kettle calling the pot black a few years later hahah

  • @sanasayyed5282
    @sanasayyed5282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wat r they talking abt...??? Wat was d conversation about...???

  • @ange2370
    @ange2370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They must have had a discount on perms....Meri AND Cody got one !!!!!