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  • @dulcecandy
    @dulcecandy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +596

    Thank you for the incredible amount of love and support. xx Dulce

    • @pghnrqz81
      @pghnrqz81 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try HRC fertility in Long Beach!

    • @monicalove4340
      @monicalove4340 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dulce Candy 💕🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @sierraas2
      @sierraas2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dulce Candy Not sure if you’ll see this, but can I ask did you not realize you had chlamydia right away and that’s why damage was caused? Or does the std still cause damage even if it’s treated asap? Has me thinking I should go get tested just in case.
      I hope this all works out for you, subscribed! ☺️

    • @DPRECiiOUS
      @DPRECiiOUS 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dulce Candy I came across your channel today and I clicked based on your title. I immediately knew what was your case. I tried having babies for about 6-7 years and it wasn’t until I decided to look for answers. Just like you I had my Fallopian tubes checked and they were also both blocked. I found a great fertility doctor in TJ Mexico who is one of the best in fertility. I had a consultation and showed him my results of my X-rays and said to me he can open up my Fallopian tubes through surgery. One month later I scheduled my appointment and got my surgery done with a successful result. My Fallopian tubes were open and after recovery my doctor told me I was ready to have my baby. After trying it my first time, I came to find out I’m two month pregnant now. I told my doctor that if I went through this journey to help others, that I will accept it and do exactly that. Not everything is over for all woman trying to conceive. I also tried adopting but first I wanted to give it my all before giving up. Now I have a baby miracle my self. If anyone is interested in getting information, please feel free to ask. “ he is super affordable.” My surgery was 4,000.... way cheaper than IVF... plus Kaiser did nothing for me here! “nothing” that’s the reason I looked for help somewhere else. I wish everyone some baby dust.

    • @DPRECiiOUS
      @DPRECiiOUS 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seirra Ray this happens when you have it for a long period of time. It’s create scar tissue.

  • @thesarasiablack
    @thesarasiablack 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1616

    thats why you should never ask a women why she doesn’t have kids or when she’s going to get pregnant it’s rude as hell. You don’t know the situation.

    • @moniquemunoz5733
      @moniquemunoz5733 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Jania S. As someone who has miscarried a few times it is depressing to be asked this question. We have 2 older children and tried recently again a few months ago and miscarried. A month later I got asked when are you having a little girl your boys are older now. Truly heartbreaking but we will be trying again soon.

    • @zare009
      @zare009 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I wish more people knew this...

    • @shirleyfuimaono9098
      @shirleyfuimaono9098 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen Jania!
      No one knows the situation

    • @saraalvarado6893
      @saraalvarado6893 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jania S. thank you!!! I barely share my situation with the mother in law who always had asked

    • @Gabysegovias
      @Gabysegovias 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This happens to me all the time :( and I just feel sad and uncomfortable

  • @journeythroughthree
    @journeythroughthree 6 ปีที่แล้ว +786

    We had unexplained infertility for 5 yrs. When we said no more test, 6months later I got pregnant with daughter no. 1. I had 3 girls in 4years all single. I literally prayed for them to stop coming, as they were coming so quickly..lol. They are 23, 22, and 20 now. God answers prayers and He will answer yours..TRUST HIM and REST IN HIM!

    • @zainebzs
      @zainebzs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Such a beautiful beautiful thought. Remember me in your prayers too. God bless you

    • @TheFlychick2222
      @TheFlychick2222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amazing

    • @jyn88
      @jyn88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My sister couldn't get pregnant for a couple of years of trying and then one day she was finally blessed with one. She later got pregnant so quickly and unexpectedly for the second time! It's interesting how sometimes the body suddenly changes after the first birth.

    • @KarlitaSilva97
      @KarlitaSilva97 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏼

    • @BlueAngel2397
      @BlueAngel2397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Journeythrough3 That’s amazing! God bless. How old were you when you had each one of them?

  • @K.VanessaParra
    @K.VanessaParra 6 ปีที่แล้ว +868

    And this is what it looks like when you use a platform like the one you have in a positive way! Speaking to young girls and to women who have struggled with the things you have! Truly inspiring!!!!

    • @DyDyxoxo
      @DyDyxoxo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I couldn't agree more 😊 and the conversation keeps going in the comment section. Love it ❤️

  • @KKK-gr3on
    @KKK-gr3on 6 ปีที่แล้ว +577

    The doctor told me I need IVF after 4 years of trying cause my tubes are blocked because of endometriosis
    Then conceived naturally my baby is 5 months.May every one wanting a baby get them.I believe it’s a miracle.Thanks Jesus ❤️

    • @SoosooCom
      @SoosooCom 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      K. KK how you got pregnant with blocked Fallopian tubes ? I have endometriosis i am pretty sure i have blocked tubes did you have lap to open them or what you did to get pregnant?

    • @KKK-gr3on
      @KKK-gr3on 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Soosoo21568Com I had and endometromas(endometrotic cyst )on my left ovary removed then the doctor said she believe I need to do Ivf.And I was not for it after a year I was getting ready to start Ivf cycle and discovered I’m pregnant.I wish You the very best.I conceived when I stopped worrying.I was told by 3 doctors that I’ll not conceive naturally.I also lost weight stated exercising loving my self again and praying (cause for the past years trying to conceive made me so sad)

    • @SoosooCom
      @SoosooCom 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ItsBeckhamBitch my doctor told me that blocked tubes doesn’t cause pain
      I have stomach issues but I don’t know if they blocked or not
      Are you pregnant? If you are Pregnant pregnancy with endometriosis cause a lot of pain

    • @colleenvillarreal6909
      @colleenvillarreal6909 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I literally cried reading this ! This is so beautiful god always provides I wish you all nothing but the best and hope you get your blessings 💕

    • @zainebzs
      @zainebzs 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

  • @oneworld24
    @oneworld24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1134

    I was told that will not be able to have anymore kids after my chemo because all my eggs are fried! I’m pregnant with my number 3. So keep positive and have an open mind

    • @karenliz6535
      @karenliz6535 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      oneworld24 wow that’s amazing news! Congratulations.

    • @nat2gr18
      @nat2gr18 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      oneworld24 Congratulations!

    • @Gemini_Moon23
      @Gemini_Moon23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      oneworld24 omg HOW BEAUTIFUL!

    • @jessicamora6145
      @jessicamora6145 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Congratulations beautiful ❤️

    • @SuperJessTV
      @SuperJessTV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      oneworld24 this is amazing

  • @sorpy6972
    @sorpy6972 6 ปีที่แล้ว +590

    WOW!! Thank you for being so OPEN about the reason why... most people would NEVER openly admit if they had contracted an STD. Blessings 🙏

    • @ShantrellYoung
      @ShantrellYoung 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Sorpy 69 I would’ve left that part of the story out! Lol I love her so much more now.

    • @sorpy6972
      @sorpy6972 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Shantrell Young Im very PROUD of her for putting herself out there..

    • @samanthaetak
      @samanthaetak 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I appreciate it

    • @babomeimei
      @babomeimei 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      The std is very common so I'm sure lots of girls can relate

    • @sorpy6972
      @sorpy6972 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      babomeimei unfortunately you are right

  • @Emmiiii267
    @Emmiiii267 6 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    So happy Desi Perkins and You have opened up with stuff like this!! makes many women not feel alone and embarrassed to talk about stuff like this

  • @sayhello5377
    @sayhello5377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I just stumbled upon your video. My husband and I tried for 10 years to get pregnant. I saw 3 different reproductive endocrinologists. I had 2 Endometriosis removal surgeries, 3 HSG's, genetic carrier screening, chromosomal karyotyping, I was tested for Lupus, Factor 5 Leiden disorder, pre-diabetes, and a slew of other diseases. I went through 2 rounds on Clomid- didnt get pregnant. Then, 2 IUI's- didn't get pregnant. We were finally able to afford IVF in 2017. After my egg retrieval surgery, I developed Ovarian Hyperstimulation Syndrome (OHSS), suffered severe pain and internal bleeding, and spent 2 weeks on bed rest with heavy pain killers. My first embryo transfer failed. My 2nd embryo transfer led to a twin pregnancy that ended in miscarriage. Then I lost my job, and we had to take an entire year off from IVF, which was awful because I just wanted to get it over with. I had my 3rd embryo transfer last month, and I am so happy to say I am 9 weeks pregnant with a healthy singleton. But it hasnt been easy! 10 years, multiple surgeries, two IUI, multiple rounds of IVF, 147 shots and counting, and now I'm on imunosuppressants, blood thinners, estrogen, and progesterone to prevent another miscarriage. 🙏 For years, people asked if we were newlyweds, why we didn't have kids, etc. And it hurt so much. And to add insult to injury, they'd follow up with, "Why don't you just adopt?!" Umm. Because adopting a human child is not like "adopting" a puppy. Infant adoption costs $20,000+, international adoption is $30,000- $50,000, and we are not interested in being foster parents. And no, that doesnt make me a bad person. Foster care isn't right for every family. Sigh. It's a tough road. Thank you for being open. I wish you the best of luck!

  • @Emma-fc3fh
    @Emma-fc3fh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    As a medic I am so so glad you were upfront about your STD as these infections in particularly chlamydia can cause huge silent damage to women's fertility and not enough women take this seriously especially when they're young!

    • @emilyhyatt9479
      @emilyhyatt9479 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Emma Donaldson I had no idea I had Chlamydia, apparently I’ve had it a little over a year... I’m 18 and will be seeing if I’m infertile today. Always wanted kids.

    • @travoniaharris3433
      @travoniaharris3433 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Im scared

    • @erikaortiz5070
      @erikaortiz5070 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Distance of A Galaxy update?

    • @Christophertracy09
      @Christophertracy09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yikes, see young girls, that’s why protected sex is so important. I never had unprotected sex until I was married at 35. Never had an STD. Got pregnant with my son the first week of trying the month before my 36th birthday. Tbh for many years the thought of unprotected sex grossed me out, and apparently that saved me.

    • @Lisa-us9kp
      @Lisa-us9kp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Bridgette Mezlini what if I told you that you can still get an std even using a condom. Syphilis can be contracted even with protected sex if there’s a sore on the scrotom. You can get that disease just by having oral sex with someone. It can happen to anyone so don’t sound so judgmental

  • @want2bcute
    @want2bcute 6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I think you are so strong for discussing this. A lot of people don't tell the real reason why they are having issues getting pregnant. Your helping a lot of ladies!

    • @Danybella
      @Danybella 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      oh wow, i never even thought about that...so many celebrities come to mind...

    • @want2bcute
      @want2bcute 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stella Starry - Exactly!

  • @Alexandra-vk3ov
    @Alexandra-vk3ov 6 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    I silently followed your journey up untill now because my hubby and I have been struggeling aswell. But now I had to comment: thank you! Thank you for being so open with us! Thank you for letting us be part of your life and the struggles that come with it. Thank you for not hiding behind an artificially created wall of perfection. It helps knowing that there are other women out there having problems concieving, even tho they are doing everything right. I blamed myself for a long time, after being told so many times that I have to relax, that everything is fine, it's just my mental state that doesn't allow my body go get pregnant. After I found out that I had PCOS and Insulinemia it became easier, because I could finally explain it to myself and I finally knew, that it wasn't just in my head like all the doctors said...so thank you so much!

    • @ChrisplusJoe
      @ChrisplusJoe 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alexandra Danicic I’m sending you positive vibes and baby dust.

    • @Alexandra-vk3ov
      @Alexandra-vk3ov 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chris plus Joe thank you so much! Wishing you all the best my dear! :)

  • @jnbrothers2866
    @jnbrothers2866 6 ปีที่แล้ว +498

    It takes a lot of courage to tell everyone ur had STD alot of ppl would have not done that due to the what will other ppl is going to say.. thank u for sharing and hope everything goes well for u n ur family

  • @marhar5973
    @marhar5973 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I admire how you’re very upfront about your STD history.

  • @amrakuc7510
    @amrakuc7510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    As a medical professional I am so glad you shared your store and were so transparent about the STD. People think that some of these bacterial infections are not a big deal since they're cured with antibiotics, but they don't realize the damage they can cause. You're super brave to share your story, and I'm sorry about your experience, wishing you the best.

    • @ambzzbabyy4167
      @ambzzbabyy4167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What about bacterial vaginosis I can't get rid of it

    • @dani23dani85
      @dani23dani85 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ambzzbabyy4167same!

  • @CoinAndAxeChannel
    @CoinAndAxeChannel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    I did IVF ( a free study ) and had twins. Don’t give up hope.

    • @kgal1298
      @kgal1298 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I heard that can happen. I also heard of some ending up with triplets from it. Hope it works for her. I remember studying the process for my biology courses it's actually really interesting, but totally not the easiest process from what I remember.

    • @CoinAndAxeChannel
      @CoinAndAxeChannel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kate I do what to say that we chose to put two embryos in ( part of the study) so it wasn’t a surprise

    • @kgal1298
      @kgal1298 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't they typically recommend doing more than 1 though? I think my friend who did it also did two to increase the chances of fertilization. That's good it wasn't a surprise though, nothing like the "surprise you got twins pregnancy"

    • @CoinAndAxeChannel
      @CoinAndAxeChannel 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kate they did at the time but not as much now esp bc I was older.

    • @elisamoreno92
      @elisamoreno92 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mish2378 can you descrive free study

  • @AlainaNicole
    @AlainaNicole 6 ปีที่แล้ว +464

    Your so positive about it!! Thanks for being so open and transparent ❤️

    • @Whaddafudge33
      @Whaddafudge33 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alaina Nicole you’re*

  • @QueeniiRozenblad
    @QueeniiRozenblad 6 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    Hope you guys get your next bundle of joy soon ❤️ you deserve it!

  • @anuml1
    @anuml1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Praying for everyone here who is struggling to conceive or has gone through any failure and is in heartache. God bless you all 🙏🏼

  • @cocorenee2808
    @cocorenee2808 6 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Idk how this video popped up in my feed but I soooooo glad it did. You are a light for those of us who dont have the courage to share our stories. I really admire you. So now were are friends in my head because having someone who gets it is indescribable.

  • @ericaoffical
    @ericaoffical 6 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    I love how you so open with us. I know it’s hard to tell us but we do appreciate you opening up to us especially woman who are going through the same thing. Much love from your Fan!!!! Keep head up babe ❤️

  • @sandraalvarez592
    @sandraalvarez592 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    First off I want to start off by saying how strong and brave you are. This video hits home to my heart, because I too couldn't get pregnant. I was diagnosed with endometriosis and I also had Chlamydia in my 20's by an ex boyfriend. Chlamydia is a silent STD and it's horrible, it could happen to anyone.
    I had a laparoscopy for my Endometriosis and then I did IVF. The whole process was not easy, it is mentally and physically draining, but well worth it once you get pregnant. Trust in the process and know that everything is going to be ok. I had to freeze my eggs because I had an overstimulation and it could become dangerous. I had a frozen embryo transfer with one egg and it failed. I was devastated, but the second time around they transferred two and now I have twin girls that will be turning 3 years old in September.
    Just remember, the process will not be easy, it will be hard, but you will get through it. God bless you and I wish you an easy process. XOXO

  • @mendez2428
    @mendez2428 6 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    Stay positive God always has a plan for everybody

    • @whatsactuallygoingon5986
      @whatsactuallygoingon5986 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ivette Mendez u create ur own path before u are born... if you’ve chosen not to have kids in this lifetime then u won’t

  • @nancymadrigal9972
    @nancymadrigal9972 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am a public health worker. I spend my time at work talking to people about chlamydia and gonorrhea ( they are reportable to the health department) . One of the complications of these infections untreated is infertility. Most young women I speak to don’t seem to care because they believe that it is something that will never happen to them. Thank you for being so honest about it. There is a lot of shame and embarrassment associated with STIs, but it’s something that can happen to anyone.

  • @ThePSara
    @ThePSara 6 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I can see you being a mom of beautiful twin girls! ❤️ stay hopeful!😘

    • @josef.torrealba6992
      @josef.torrealba6992 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are a few factors in increasing fertility. One place I found which succeeds in merging these is the Bevs Baby Boom (check it out on google) definately the most incredible resource that I've heard of. Check out all the interesting information .

  • @MsStarryNights
    @MsStarryNights 6 ปีที่แล้ว +533

    This video literally came right on time. This morning I was crying at work because my period was over a day late but then it came. I’m 31 and I’ve never been pregnant and I’m starting to get concerned. I plan to talk to a doctor in the fall. My fiancé assured me everything would be okay. Then I started to look and see if my insurance covers ivf if it comes to that point (thank god it does). I’m just scared the doctor is going to tell me I can’t have kids. Watching this gave me comfort in knowing that there are many options out there, even adoption. So I’ll just pray in the meantime everything is okay and we can have a baby soon.

    • @godschild163
      @godschild163 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Shenise Sweetheart maybe it is not time yet

    • @ellawinberg1
      @ellawinberg1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Shenise Sweetheart Hope everything will go according to God's plan. Trust in the Lord!

    • @pjmayra
      @pjmayra 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm 35 and my husband and I have been trying to conceive for the past seven years with no avail (I don't ovulate) Its been a roller coaster to say the least! My only advice to you is to try and find out as soon as possible if there is an issue so your aware of your options. Sending baby dust your way!

    • @nessXOOXOX
      @nessXOOXOX 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      DO NOT GET DISCOURAGED!! I will be praying for you and i hope you soon get your bundle of joy you been dreaming of.. Xoxo❤❤

    • @senoraantero2836
      @senoraantero2836 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shenise Sweetheart giiiiirl you’re so lucky your insurance covers it! Think of it as a blessing and I pray that if IVF is a good solution for your situation that it all works out to your advantage!

  • @BlueAngel2397
    @BlueAngel2397 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My sister in law was in your situation years ago. She had only one son and doctors were telling her she would never be able to have more kids. She never gave up hope and was able to have 2 other beautiful healthy boys 💙. Trust in God first over everything. He has the final say.

  • @Brittanybee9494
    @Brittanybee9494 6 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Wow! I have a great feeling IVF will work for you! Baby dust and blessings to you! Thank you for sharing your journey with us ☺️

    • @passiongyrl
      @passiongyrl 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brittany Bee lol I like that “baby dust”. I’ll be using that.😉

  • @Abiandfamilyy
    @Abiandfamilyy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You have so much courage to put this video out 🙌🏽

  • @cagcynthia
    @cagcynthia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve recently done IVF and now 4 months pregnant with my very first, it’s a TON of needles (which I hate) and can be very stressful not knowing what the end outcome. Just remember to pray, stay positive, and keep the bigger picture in mind!

  • @guyanesechica
    @guyanesechica 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All the best to you and Jessy. I’ve been there and went through many failed iuis and ivfs for 7 years. It’s been so tough. I finally found a great doc last year and am now pregnant with my first child. All I keep saying is that I just always had faith. I applaud you for your positive attitude

  • @yenikan2
    @yenikan2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    We are all waiting on your testimony. God hasnt forgotten about you. We luv you

  • @Neverseenstars
    @Neverseenstars 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My mom had endometriosis and was told later on it was a miracle she had my sister and I. keep having faith.

  • @amerieperales7902
    @amerieperales7902 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am 37 now married 10 years to my husband and been together 15 years never got preganet I also have pcos I gave up on kids sadly then my beloved grandma died the on my grandma's 1 month anniversary I found out I was preganet now my little one is 2 months old prayers are going to you because with God all things are possible good luck I pray you can get your baby that's healthy. Godbless.

  • @SuhannaDeSilva
    @SuhannaDeSilva 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg Dulce my doctor was telling me about how an STI can scar your Fallopian tubes and can effect your fertility. This is why safety and regular STI checks are so important. I’m so glad to hear that you’ll be able to use ivf, wishing you and Jesse all the best 💖

  • @g.q3188
    @g.q3188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG! Your channel passed by my feed and i got curious and so I watched it, and I CRIED! The experienced i had with fallopian tube flushing was horrible and I don’t wish that to any woman. Unfortunately, we never got pregnant and I just accepted may fate. I am happy for you for having a miracle child and since this video is 3 yrs ago, I truly wish you had your dream of having another 2. ❤️

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  • @poohbr01
    @poohbr01 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I am currently on IVF and have been through many years of emotions. I wish you the best on your journey

    • @anuml1
      @anuml1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      poohbr01 also wishing you the best on your journey and praying for you 🙏🏼

    • @poohbr01
      @poohbr01 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      LakhaniLifestyle thank you

    • @ChrisplusJoe
      @ChrisplusJoe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wishing you the best on your IVF journey and I’m doing IVF as well and baby dust to us 🤞🏼

    • @poohbr01
      @poohbr01 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chris plus Joe Best of luck to you

  • @colleenmariet
    @colleenmariet 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh Dulce, you are God blessed and you will forever be favored because you have such a kind heart. May all your dreams come true

  • @danagreen636
    @danagreen636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just finished watching your video and this is my first time visiting your channel and all I can say is THANK YOU! I recently underwent the same tests that you did and the discomfort was excruciating. I cried the entire time and I too held onto the nurse and technicians hands to get through it. The results of my tests helped to explain why I may never conceive and it was gut wrenching. I could go on and on about the struggles and pain attached to my condition but I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your experience. You have honestly made me feel so much better in ways that I'm sure you can understand. You are truly inspirational and I wanted to let you know you made a difference in my life today. Thank you.

  • @stef_22j98
    @stef_22j98 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dulce , your transparency is so refreshing. Sending prayers for Baby 💕

  • @juliannaherrle7993
    @juliannaherrle7993 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a beautiful thing to share with the world....how uplifting! And your skin, it looks like you already have that pregnancy glow! You're a kind & courageous soul and God will bless you for it!! xoxoxoxo

  • @Jay-ej7te
    @Jay-ej7te 6 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Ok but what foundation is this. You are glowing and looking gorgeous

  • @sherman7723
    @sherman7723 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love how honest and open you are. You're so brave talking about this so candidly. I appreciate it and so many others do too

  • @diannaalex09
    @diannaalex09 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Will be praying for your journey...just had my third child and it was a high risk pregnancy, miracle babies are truly the biggest blessing..can’t wait to see you with yours in your arms

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are really a definition of a strong woman. Thank you for being so honest about what you are going through because a lot of women are ashamed of sharing that kind of traumatic situation. Don't lose hope, I know you will have the baby that you and your husband are dreaming for.

  • @irmagonzalez932
    @irmagonzalez932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    There's a Mexican singer Yuri who had the same problem but she was never been able to have a child of her own she adopted a baby girl. And i am glad you are sharing this bc getting a std is not just about getting treatment it can damage someone's life for ever for not being precautious. You are such a wonderful person sooner or later you will be blessed with a child 😊

  • @ItsKelsiesLife
    @ItsKelsiesLife 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The hormones that come from fertility treatment are absolutely intense. It'll be more than just a pill too, it's daily injections. Praying for you guys that IVF is a success for you!! It's definitely not a guarentee but such a great option! Wishing you all the best!

  • @yasr2066
    @yasr2066 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    aw bless u dulce theres ppl who don’t deserve kids & its okay that u cant have any at the moment but wanting to adopt is so amazing

    • @Talldoll1
      @Talldoll1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Idk what you mean by this, but I always feel like the doctors don't think that I deserve kids bc of my medical history. I'm a good person, great genes, amazing parents and my husband is amazing. Whenever I've tried to talk to a doctor about checking my fertility or ask pregnancy questions they give me the skim of it or blow me off.

    • @yasr2066
      @yasr2066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TallDoll lmao I never said you don’t deserve kids I dont know you so I dont know what YOU mean by this. What I meant is that there’s parents who have kids who abuse them mentally, physically, or verbally. Or in general neglect their children, those are the type of parents who don’t deserve kids. So if you’re not one of those then im not talking to you. God Bless.

    • @kimberlydaniel2988
      @kimberlydaniel2988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i already gave up on ever getting pregnant because i have try many treatment none of them work out for me i have go to different hospital they always tell me same thing when i came across a post about Dr ose, in the net from a lady called Agnes i contacted him and he reassured me with his herbal medicine which i took according to the way he instructed, that how i get pregnant today. I doubted at first because i have been to a whole lot of reputable doctors, tried a lot of medicines but none was able to cure me. so i decided to listen to him and he commenced treatment, and under two weeks i was pregnant i want to say a very big thank you to DR Ose for what he has done in my life. feel free to message him on email:: Drosemudiamen5@gmail.com. and also WhatsApp him +2348069237175
      He can still be able to help you with this herbs medicine:

  • @honeybdream
    @honeybdream 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dulce Bravo for your honesty & transparency❣️You're still a TH-cam trail blazer. Much Respect! 🌟
    Sending positive vibes to u & your fam ❤️️

  • @ggamor21
    @ggamor21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so incredibly impressed at your courage to tell the world you had an STD so that others can learn and not just brush it under the rug. Good luck on your journey!

  • @Kischa07
    @Kischa07 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Dulce, I’ve been watching you for quite some time now. Not sure that I’ve ever commented. This video was just so candid, genuine and honest. Many wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing the why... and I’m so happy that you did. A mistake that you made (& made by many) can truly be a lesson for young women who watch your videos! I will keep you in my prayers... I’m saddened to hear that you’re all set up yet many children are waiting in the wings. You’re such an encouragement in remaining positive through it all. Lots of love and aloha from Maui. 🌺🌈🌴🥥🌊🌿💞

  • @roxannepearson279
    @roxannepearson279 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    To my fellow women out there trying to get pregnant.....don't give up or lose hope....I finally got pregnant after almost 4 years so don't every give up.😘

  • @Fresita21Velazquez
    @Fresita21Velazquez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Dulce I love you 💕 thank you for being so real and inspirational. You don’t have to share everything with us but you do your so beautiful

  • @halieransom
    @halieransom 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how transparent you are. STD's can happen to anyone and shouldn't be stigmatized. I wish you the absolute best in your fertility journey.

  • @melissaangulo4732
    @melissaangulo4732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can only imagine how hard this process has been, but I’m glad you’ve gotten answers. Thanks for sharing your story. I know it’s helping a lot of couples.

  • @floritagar90
    @floritagar90 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    God has a plan dulce, I went through hsg, medication, and shots and I was ready to give up but I knew that this was the year for me and I got pregnant, I’m officially 16 weeks with a baby girl

    • @GracewithHumility
      @GracewithHumility 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Florita Garcia I also had a HSG 😖😭 and found out my left side was blocked due to having a cyst removed years before. I also had low progesterone.
      The Dr wanted to start me on Clomid, then attempt to unblock my tube, then IVF. I decided against medical intervention.
      God told me to go plant based to balance my hormones. 9 months later I got pregnant at the age of 36. It ended in a blighted ovum miscarry, but 7months later I got pregnant again. I’m now 37 yrs old and our healthy babygirl is due in 2wks 🙌🏾.

  • @mydivinesunshine
    @mydivinesunshine 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m crying listening to your story and I’m so happy to hear that you’re taking the next steps towards conception.. I’m excited to continue to hear about your journey..

  • @irmagonzalez932
    @irmagonzalez932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    For 4 years I was not able to have a baby . But i knew i could get pregnant so before trying ivf I wanted to try something natural so I did some research. I took vitex pills for 3 months nothing happened. Then I took raw organic Maca for 1 month and then there was a positive. Don't know if it was the vitex, maca or a miracle. But iam so grateful my baby will be 6 months. ☺

    • @emilyliss8
      @emilyliss8 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Probably the Maca! My MIL and FH grandmother can’t wait for us to get married so they can force feed me it. It’s super known in Peru (where they’re from) for getting you ready to conceive!

    • @MsStarryNights
      @MsStarryNights 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is Maca? I would like to get pregnant. I haven’t been trying long but I’m willing to try anything.

    • @gloriaperez5312
      @gloriaperez5312 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Las Aventuras de Dos Hermanas what Is maca ??

    • @irmagonzalez932
      @irmagonzalez932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shenise Sweetheart
      Raw organic maca powder bought at GNC. Has many benefits and one of them is to help with fertility unbalanced hormones or ovulation. Hope this helps

    • @irmagonzalez932
      @irmagonzalez932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gloria Perez
      Raw organic maca powder bought at GNC. Has many benefits and one of them is to help with fertility unbalanced hormones or ovulation. Hope this helps

  • @MamaScarlett
    @MamaScarlett 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We tried for 4 years before being diagnosed and I was slightly devastated but more than anything, like you I was relieved that we finally had some answers and knew what our viable options were. I was born with only half of a uterus and my one functioning tube is restricted by endometriosis. We tried treatments and they failed so we stopped treatment and started saving to start the adoption process and then I got pregnant naturally. Fingers crossed! Hopefully the treatment goes really smooth for you!

  • @lifewithchanelb442
    @lifewithchanelb442 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is real life ! Thank you ♥️
    I hope you’ve had many more miracles since
    God speed 🙏🏾

  • @ikonora
    @ikonora 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I cannot describe how much i missed your videos! TH-cam has not been notifying me and I haven't seen a video of yours in months!

  • @Latinjerseygirl
    @Latinjerseygirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Thank you for sharing your story - Keep the Faith it's going happen 😘

  • @carolchimirri7990
    @carolchimirri7990 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are very brave to share such an intimate part of your life to help so many women! 🙌🏻💕 Estaras en mis oraciones!! 🙏🏻

  • @megandowns8627
    @megandowns8627 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I can not admire you more for your honesty. You deserve a medal.

  • @eccobellac
    @eccobellac 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU for being so courageous, open & honest about your struggle with infertility and especially for drawing attention to chlamydia as a common cause of tubal scarring/disease because most young women have no idea. (FYI for anyone reading Gonorrhea also commonly causes tubal disease) Wishing you best of luck with IVF & a healthy pregnancy

  • @Scrappydappydoo12
    @Scrappydappydoo12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I am in such awe of you - you are a beautiful women inside and out xx

  • @marletquistian
    @marletquistian 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This just hit my soft spot. I'm also going through this not being able to get pregnant. I just started crying. Thank you for your words❤❤

    • @mimihayes1936
      @mimihayes1936 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know someone who can help ,I was trying for 15 years and nothing, I am now one month PREGNANT. I spend alot of money on doctors trust me they tell you all kind of FOOLISHNESS... share my COMMENT if you wish , my WhatsApp number is #6615833.

  • @tbt8533
    @tbt8533 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is such a real video. You are so brave for being so open! Thanks for being a voice for so many women!

  • @spa576
    @spa576 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow good 4 u 4 being so honest! People never share STD issues, but it’s important to let young girls know.

  • @bbygrlpt2
    @bbygrlpt2 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Theres sooo many kids alone that need good parents and are just waitin to get adopted.. I admire people who take that step because it takes a big heart to want to share it with kids who arent theirs!!!

  • @smith33racing
    @smith33racing 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dulce- I went thru many years of IF, even did two rounds of IVF before they determined my tubes were blocked. Please take my advice on what I am about to tell you!!! Of your tubes are blocked, make sure you have them removed first!! If you do not, the blocked tubes will leak fluid into your uterus and this kills embryos right away and doesn’t allow them to implant. Nobody told me this and we waste two rounds of IVF before they took them out. On the fifth cycle I finally got pregnant. If my doctors/clinic would have listened to me and I trusted my gut in the beginning we would not have wasted precious time and money. xoxo

  • @LRdz126
    @LRdz126 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I totally needed to hear this. I’ve been infertil for over 10 yrs and I always feel less of a women and today was one of the days I was thinking it more.

    • @elizabethtimothy9510
      @elizabethtimothy9510 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Leslie Rdz There is a reason for everything in life, you have to stay positive no matter what and whatever happens in future, you are not less of a woman. Please try to get to the bottom of your infertility, it is a great start in finding solution. Best wishes.

  • @cherylashelton
    @cherylashelton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I’m right there with you girl. We are going through testing/treatments too. My hsg experience was traumatic because they couldn’t get the catheter in-because of bad scar tissue from a procedure I had done when I was 16. Three doctors tried and there were 6 people in the room. It was horrifying. I ended up having to have the test done surgically with a camera. They found that my tube are okay, but I have cysts on my ovaries and my uterus is half the size of a normal persons. Just trying to breathe and remember why we are doing this.

    • @reneecharles9178
      @reneecharles9178 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cheryl Jones it's usually red tape that makes the process take so long, I went to in to foster, and was told the private agencies are better organised😳💁🏽💁🏽💁🏽

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      @audreycool7917 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @annmarienormile1330
    @annmarienormile1330 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aw I never would have guessed that something like that could effect fertility such a blessing you revived your one little miracle stay strong you will receive another

  • @MarchaanDotson
    @MarchaanDotson 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for being honest about saying it was a careless decision and then encouraging us to be careful. I’m glad I played it safe. My husband was my first.

  • @RHOUSEFAM
    @RHOUSEFAM 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    YOU ARE SOOOO STRONG ♥️♥️♥️
    Thank you so much for sharing on this touchy topic!! You’re so BRAVE😍

  • @TheMooneezies
    @TheMooneezies 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Our family is in the middle of an international adoption after 4 years of infertility. You are such an inspiration! Thank you for using your platform and sharing your life!

  • @ReisWorld
    @ReisWorld 6 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    God has a plan for you.

  • @erikamartinez3485
    @erikamartinez3485 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like this whole journey might be the answer you were looking for when you wanted to find a purpose in life! you opening up about this process in a detailed way and positively sharing it on your platform will help so many women going through the same thing get more clarity and knowledge on pregnancy, fertility choices, and adoption.

  • @mj3151990
    @mj3151990 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As an RN I appreciate and respect your honest and clear information

  • @OhSoLimitless
    @OhSoLimitless 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how positive you are. Im so happy for you that you've been able to find out the issue and I look forward to your updates!

  • @GoodandDelicious
    @GoodandDelicious 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Woo hoo! You got an answer! Not a great answer but I know that knowing is sooo much better than not because at least you have something to work with. Here’s to hoping that IVF is successful. Best of luck!!!

  • @RebekahSing
    @RebekahSing 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Praying for you! That Gods will happen. Hopefully you can adopt, and get pregnant.

  • @007BIANX
    @007BIANX 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    your honesty is everything! I also want to say, I am so happy to read the comments and see women supporting each other! love and light!

  • @alexiamartinez5106
    @alexiamartinez5106 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I use to watch you when I was younger, but for some reason I wasn't subscribed to you anymore and I forgot your channel. I'm 22 now and this popped up on my recommended videos and I'm so happy it did. I'm not ready for kids right now, but I definitely want to try down the road. My doctor has been concerned that I have very irregular periods and we've been doing all these tests that lead to either me not being able to have kids down the road or me having to work 10× harder to get pregnant than most when the day comes. I have been very emotional about it, so thank you for using your platform to tell your story in such a beautiful, honest, and positive way. 💕

  • @BeautyMeetsDIY
    @BeautyMeetsDIY 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I could only imagine what this journey has been! Stay strong and may your faith always be bigger than your fears because with God, All things are possible and all good things come from him. He blessed you with Isaac when you never thought it could be possible and here he is! A true blessing from above! Wishing you all the best and may you stay positive and strong for you and your beautiful family! 🤗 ~ Helen

  • @amagarr
    @amagarr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love your confidence and transparency Dulce! So many women/couples suffer in silence.
    Xoxoxo

  • @nanasakyibeaoppong944
    @nanasakyibeaoppong944 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    YOU are a miracle and you ARE going to bring a miracle to the world. CONGRATULATIONS IN ADVANCE

  • @amakadeborah5925
    @amakadeborah5925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So much hope here. Thank you everyone. I just miscarried, had ivf n I was so devastated 😢😢 pray for me

    • @leyvamichelle
      @leyvamichelle 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Use Agbara Herbal Medication and you will not struggle to get pregnant after using this herbal medication..Because Agbara Herbal Cleanser is rich in fibre that help to remove excessive estrogen that may be stored in your body and prevent your uterus to suffer from fibroids, Pcos, Ovarian Cyst. And regulate your period. Always remember that many people are not eating the right foods like beans, legumes, vegetables, fruits, and whole grain in their diet to keep their uterus and ovaries healthy. Because of this, Agbara herbal cleanser is good for anybody mostly women who want to get pregnant and prevent other infection in their body..

  • @flowersinmymind
    @flowersinmymind 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so sorry Dulce. Honestly you are such a strong woman and i know you can get through this. We all support & love you. You’re so amazing.

  • @AnwenWilliams
    @AnwenWilliams 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Admire your positive attitude !!! You WILL have your baby soon xx

  • @Chika0787
    @Chika0787 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m going through a similar case, I can’t conceive due to cyst and looking at this video and see you talk to proudly and happily it’s very helpful. You’re strong and beautiful. Blessings.

    • @JenS-dm8sy
      @JenS-dm8sy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shekinah Roberts can I ask where your cyst is? I have a large cyst on my right ovary and I am struggling to conceive xx

  • @QueeniiRozenblad
    @QueeniiRozenblad 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Bundle of joy(s) 💜💜

  • @jeanettemaganda3604
    @jeanettemaganda3604 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I respect her for saying she got an STD! Not alot people would say that! Love you girl!

  • @ane0227
    @ane0227 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Been going through the same for years. It’s emotionally draining. Thank you for being so open and making me feel not so alone ❤️

  • @lovecpkxo5407
    @lovecpkxo5407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are so brave, Dulce! I’ve been watching you from the very beginning and you’re one of my favorite youtubers! Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @mariallamas2888
    @mariallamas2888 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hopefully everything goes as planned. Love you and never stop believing❤️🙏🏼

  • @Stephaniealicianaturalhair
    @Stephaniealicianaturalhair 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dulce , thank you for sharing your experience with us. You will expand your family :) God willing you will expand your family and little Isaac will have a sibling or siblings. Thank you for the adoption update! Have a good week, hon.

  • @freakingtv2343
    @freakingtv2343 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dulce must have a loving and supportive circle. What a blessing.

  • @madameserenity0880
    @madameserenity0880 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much... your video really helped after... I've been trying for so long..