Let me just say that your approach to this unfortunate situation in Shirley's life has won me over. So many are casting darts at this woman's life & I can't. I'm human as she is. I'm praying for her and looking at the lessons. Thank you for approaching this with class and compassion.
I wish your podcasts was around 10 or 20 years ago. I would have made different decisions in my life. You have much wisdom. Your gifts and talents are a great blessing. Thank you.
A woman of her means should have definitely done a full background investigation to protect herself and her brand. I’m sure she’s totally embarrassed and humiliated.
Doesn't really take a background check to figure him out from Conversations Talk about past Interaction with his family and children for start. His credit surely came into play. Surely not just her credit was involved. Evictions Jail His friends No background check needed because it was evident something was amiss
I agree with you 100%. When he was investigating her, she should’ve been investigating him. I’m sure he showed her his true self and schemes but, she chose to turn the other cheek. I hope everything turn around for her!
Thank you for your commentary! I agree with you! There were so many red flags in this relationship. He went to jail after 5 months of marriage and that was the first red flag…
I appreciate your candid but honest assessment of this situation. BW have been lied too. I truly believe if this matter had not become public, she would still be with him and her husband would not be estranged. She risk it all… even her only daughter all for loneliness.
So glad I stumbled upon this channel. I like your style MVMO. Classy, spiritual, educational, motivational and positive!! Not to mention short & sweet, direct and to the point. Thank you.
She displays how he got her on every jail phone call. Gullible, no accountability (everybody is a hater or jealous..not a real friend). She was warned about him and tried to build a life with a criminal! He dated another woman in her industry who went to the same hair salon. The streets were talking and she ignored them. Not to mention, as soon as this man opens his mouth🙄.
You are absolutely correct…at this stage of our lives, I am listening to learn something, not just to hear the latest gossip. Thank you for the rich commentary.
Shirley did ran a background before her wedding and didn't care. Their a video her daughter said it. She knew some but ignored it because she had a man(not really)😂 Her credit had to be good because they were able the get 5 different rentals and got evicted.and it had to be true she's the one getting her check garnished.
I forgot about Jennifer Lewis she got duped. These men know who to target though. If they feel that you’re lonely they will go starlight to you! I tell men I’m too busy for them!
Wow - you touched on many good, good points! I have met so many truly lonely people - it's so sad. People need to learn how to be social and get true relationships...not superficial...just true down to earth people.
I thoroughly enjoyed your commentary. I am greatly invested in this case because i am just a few years younger than Shirley. It really is hard to understand how women of our age can get scammed like this, but apparently it happens quite often. I feel for her, i feel sad that she at that age was not content with her life, but you said something extremely important about people ridiculing her because of her lack of man. I guess that hits hard. I pray that this woman finds her way out of all of this. I am almost 68, widowed for 2 years and have absolutely NO desire to EVER be with another man. It just seems nowadays they are all troubled souls. Got my children, grandchildren, and wonderful friends, that's good enough for me. Praying for Shirley.
She was beyond lonely and desperate... she was blinded by his youth, and looks -which she used to justify her actions of dumbing herself down, looking the other way and playing the fool... If she had any dignity, she would have put foot down before the 1st eviction and required him to act like he got some sense or she would leave ✌🏾 But unfortunately, she believed that he was the prize 🥴
Shirley was married before for many years, but it seems she didn’t learn any life lessons from the mistakes made from this marriage. However, I heard she married her 2nd husband within 6 months of meeting him. It’s possible that she was love bombed, and she fell in love hard. Her loneliness blinded her to the obvious red flags.
Great video! I admire your insightful perspective to this situation it’s loaded with gems. Thanks I’m a new subscriber and your channel is the first that I can actually listen to the end.
Thank you very eye opening much thought put into this.. now I hope more people will come to hear and think about what you have said.. thanks again for you checking my way of thinking
It's crazy how women think other women need a man and that's a problem ladies love yourself when you become needy that's a problem you don't need a man you can want a man sorry lady this is not good advice
No what's crazy is that ppl think they know more than God. He made us as human beings. He knew what was best. But hey, maybe you know something He didn't/ doesn't.
It’s one thing to be lonely but she made HUGE moves that have a lot of steps involved: selling her house, rent a condo for $7,500/mo. I can see being lonely and overspending online, that’s easy, stuff she did was harder. Can you blindly do stuff that hard? I dunno.
Enjoyed your commentary. Great content on the specifics. So many of our beautiful women has succumb to the same narrative. They end up finding themselves alone and hurting. We are in a bad place in the world when women are saying they don't need a man. It sounds like a place of brokenness. No judgement I just agree with the opinions and commentary. Thanks and may peace be unto you.
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I’m surprised she didn’t hire a PI to check into his background! That’s what a lot of smart ladies have been doing for years now. She was lackadaisical I feel. This guy is a serial criminal. Surprised me. I think she was really lonely, but….. she didn’t check him out.
polygamy is having more than one wife or husband at the same time, that's what he did. He was married to other women while having wives who are living, they were aware of each other, but did not care that he was marrying others. So I'm speaking of more the practice of what he did. thanks.
Let me just say that your approach to this unfortunate situation in Shirley's life has won me over. So many are casting darts at this woman's life & I can't. I'm human as she is. I'm praying for her and looking at the lessons. Thank you for approaching this with class and compassion.
Thank you so much!
I wish your podcasts was around 10 or 20 years ago. I would have made different decisions in my life. You have much wisdom. Your gifts and talents are a great blessing. Thank you.
A woman of her means should have definitely done a full background investigation to protect herself and her brand. I’m sure she’s totally embarrassed and humiliated.
At least a google search🤦🏾♀️
You think. She just wanted a man so bad that she overlooked a lot.
Doesn't really take a background check to figure him out from
Conversations
Talk about past
Interaction with his family and children for start.
His credit surely came into play.
Surely not just her credit was involved.
Evictions
Jail
His friends
No background check needed because it was evident something was amiss
It's sad but alot of men prey on lonely women
I agree with you 100%. When he was investigating her, she should’ve been investigating him. I’m sure he showed her his true self and schemes but, she chose to turn the other cheek. I hope everything turn around for her!
Thank you for your commentary! I agree with you! There were so many red flags in this relationship. He went to jail after 5 months of marriage and that was the first red flag…
I appreciate your candid but honest assessment of this situation. BW have been lied too. I truly believe if this matter had not become public, she would still be with him and her husband would not be estranged.
She risk it all… even her only daughter all for loneliness.
So glad I stumbled upon this channel. I like your style MVMO. Classy, spiritual, educational, motivational and positive!! Not to mention short & sweet, direct and to the point. Thank you.
She displays how he got her on every jail phone call. Gullible, no accountability (everybody is a hater or jealous..not a real friend). She was warned about him and tried to build a life with a criminal! He dated another woman in her industry who went to the same hair salon. The streets were talking and she ignored them. Not to mention, as soon as this man opens his mouth🙄.
I just pray that this experience brings her and her daughter closer than ever. No ones perfect.
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You are absolutely correct…at this stage of our lives, I am listening to learn something, not just to hear the latest gossip. Thank you for the rich commentary.
Shirley did ran a background before her wedding and didn't care. Their a video her daughter said it. She knew some but ignored it because she had a man(not really)😂 Her credit had to be good because they were able the get 5 different rentals and got evicted.and it had to be true she's the one getting her check garnished.
I forgot about Jennifer Lewis she got duped. These men know who to target though. If they feel that you’re lonely they will go starlight to you! I tell men I’m too busy for them!
Shirley, worked hard in broadcast, build herself up, put upon a pestal and comes along a con that bought her to her knees.!!!...😢😢😢
Wow - you touched on many good, good points! I have met so many truly lonely people - it's so sad. People need to learn how to be social and get true relationships...not superficial...just true down to earth people.
I thoroughly enjoyed your commentary. I am greatly invested in this case because i am just a few years younger than Shirley. It really is hard to understand how women of our age can get scammed like this, but apparently it happens quite often. I feel for her, i feel sad that she at that age was not content with her life, but you said something extremely important about people ridiculing her because of her lack of man. I guess that hits hard. I pray that this woman finds her way out of all of this. I am almost 68, widowed for 2 years and have absolutely NO desire to EVER be with another man. It just seems nowadays they are all troubled souls. Got my children, grandchildren, and wonderful friends, that's good enough for me. Praying for Shirley.
I think she was wanting to be like Marjorie and live that life...From my understanding, Ernesto gave her a $250K ring
Another great video. Every wise woman know Shirley is no victim. If it hadn't of went public would most likely would not be divorcing.
Shirley was warned about Nesto so many times. There was so many red flags, she was just desperate and dumb.
It's very difficult to see fault when you are in love, the only thing I would say do some investigating and don't ignore the red flag.
Speak it!! This thing about never needing a man is absolutely ridiculous!!
She was beyond lonely and desperate... she was blinded by his youth, and looks -which she used to justify her actions of dumbing herself down, looking the other way and playing the fool... If she had any dignity, she would have put foot down before the 1st eviction and required him to act like he got some sense or she would leave ✌🏾 But unfortunately, she believed that he was the prize 🥴
I bet she snapped out of that clinical loneliness now.
Shirley was married before for many years, but it seems she didn’t learn any life lessons from the mistakes made from this marriage. However, I heard she married her 2nd husband within 6 months of meeting him. It’s possible that she was love bombed, and she fell in love hard. Her loneliness blinded her to the obvious red flags.
MVMO, you are so wise! I love the way you think and your commentary.
Such great wisdom.
Great video! I admire your insightful perspective to this situation it’s loaded with gems. Thanks I’m a new subscriber and your channel is the first that I can actually listen to the end.
I don’t think it would have made a difference getting a background check loneliest is real
Right, it wouldn't have.
I may not comment often, but this is some of the absolute wisest counsel I’ve heard in a long time! 👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you very eye opening much thought put into this.. now I hope more people will come to hear and think about what you have said.. thanks again for you checking my way of thinking
It's crazy how women think other women need a man and that's a problem ladies love yourself when you become needy that's a problem you don't need a man you can want a man sorry lady this is not good advice
No what's crazy is that ppl think they know more than God. He made us as human beings. He knew what was best. But hey, maybe you know something He didn't/ doesn't.
Such great commentator! Great advice too! I have been married for 33 years and you are absolutely correct!
Makes a whole lot of sense to me and I truly believe it goes for men as well …. Thank you
It’s one thing to be lonely but she made HUGE moves that have a lot of steps involved: selling her house, rent a condo for $7,500/mo. I can see being lonely and overspending online, that’s easy, stuff she did was harder. Can you blindly do stuff that hard? I dunno.
Omg I didn't know she faced so many consequences dealing with him. Any basic professional would have been better than this!
Well said, this is my first time listening to your channel and thank you for talking woman to woman with us. Have a good week 😊
She was married to Micheal Strawberry Darryl strawberry brother
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This is phenomenal thank you so much. I appreciate this. ❤
Enjoyed your commentary. Great content on the specifics. So many of our beautiful women has succumb to the same narrative. They end up finding themselves alone and hurting. We are in a bad place in the world when women are saying they don't need a man. It sounds like a place of brokenness. No judgement I just agree with the opinions and commentary. Thanks and may peace be unto you.
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Yes - yes!! We were made for each other!
Wow this was powerful
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I’m surprised she didn’t hire a PI to check into his background! That’s what a lot of smart ladies have been doing for years now. She was lackadaisical I feel. This guy is a serial criminal. Surprised me. I think she was really lonely, but….. she didn’t check him out.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I am definitely lonely which is unfortunate. But you gained a new subscriber. 👋🏽
Amen, we were made for men!
PRICELESS!!! Thank you so much ❤
Well said...thanks.
I’m praying for Shirley!
What he’s done is called bigamy.
polygamy is having more than one wife or husband at the same time, that's what he did. He was married to other women while having wives who are living, they were aware of each other, but did not care that he was marrying others. So I'm speaking of more the practice of what he did. thanks.
Amen!
Thank you 🖤
Truth💯🎯
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