The REAL Reason Shirley Strawberry Got Duped By Ernesto!!

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  • @TaylorMadison-jh9je
    @TaylorMadison-jh9je ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Let me just say that your approach to this unfortunate situation in Shirley's life has won me over. So many are casting darts at this woman's life & I can't. I'm human as she is. I'm praying for her and looking at the lessons. Thank you for approaching this with class and compassion.

  • @cassyscott6463
    @cassyscott6463 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I wish your podcasts was around 10 or 20 years ago. I would have made different decisions in my life. You have much wisdom. Your gifts and talents are a great blessing. Thank you.

  • @lynetteprice360
    @lynetteprice360 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    A woman of her means should have definitely done a full background investigation to protect herself and her brand. I’m sure she’s totally embarrassed and humiliated.

    • @NatashaRaisorGlam
      @NatashaRaisorGlam ปีที่แล้ว +9

      At least a google search🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @reneeterrell2539
      @reneeterrell2539 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You think. She just wanted a man so bad that she overlooked a lot.

    • @innrpce
      @innrpce ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Doesn't really take a background check to figure him out from
      Conversations
      Talk about past
      Interaction with his family and children for start.
      His credit surely came into play.
      Surely not just her credit was involved.
      Evictions
      Jail
      His friends
      No background check needed because it was evident something was amiss

  • @chenesehenderson5194
    @chenesehenderson5194 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It's sad but alot of men prey on lonely women

  • @patriciacollins4951
    @patriciacollins4951 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I agree with you 100%. When he was investigating her, she should’ve been investigating him. I’m sure he showed her his true self and schemes but, she chose to turn the other cheek. I hope everything turn around for her!

  • @reggiemoore763
    @reggiemoore763 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for your commentary! I agree with you! There were so many red flags in this relationship. He went to jail after 5 months of marriage and that was the first red flag…

  • @ebonyj.......detroit5764
    @ebonyj.......detroit5764 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I appreciate your candid but honest assessment of this situation. BW have been lied too. I truly believe if this matter had not become public, she would still be with him and her husband would not be estranged.
    She risk it all… even her only daughter all for loneliness.

  • @CarleaseBurke
    @CarleaseBurke ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So glad I stumbled upon this channel. I like your style MVMO. Classy, spiritual, educational, motivational and positive!! Not to mention short & sweet, direct and to the point. Thank you.

  • @ericalivinglife693
    @ericalivinglife693 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She displays how he got her on every jail phone call. Gullible, no accountability (everybody is a hater or jealous..not a real friend). She was warned about him and tried to build a life with a criminal! He dated another woman in her industry who went to the same hair salon. The streets were talking and she ignored them. Not to mention, as soon as this man opens his mouth🙄.

  • @Simplesally
    @Simplesally 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I just pray that this experience brings her and her daughter closer than ever. No ones perfect.

  • @sheilasmith5522
    @sheilasmith5522 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    THE BEST LIFE LESSON
    COMMENTARY ON U TUBE THANK YOU

  • @argiejohnson
    @argiejohnson ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are absolutely correct…at this stage of our lives, I am listening to learn something, not just to hear the latest gossip. Thank you for the rich commentary.

  • @maribelsoto2265
    @maribelsoto2265 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Shirley did ran a background before her wedding and didn't care. Their a video her daughter said it. She knew some but ignored it because she had a man(not really)😂 Her credit had to be good because they were able the get 5 different rentals and got evicted.and it had to be true she's the one getting her check garnished.

  • @QueXopa79
    @QueXopa79 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I forgot about Jennifer Lewis she got duped. These men know who to target though. If they feel that you’re lonely they will go starlight to you! I tell men I’m too busy for them!

  • @anonymouslee8287
    @anonymouslee8287 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Shirley, worked hard in broadcast, build herself up, put upon a pestal and comes along a con that bought her to her knees.!!!...😢😢😢

  • @mrrpswife
    @mrrpswife ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow - you touched on many good, good points! I have met so many truly lonely people - it's so sad. People need to learn how to be social and get true relationships...not superficial...just true down to earth people.

  • @BAWNBAWNBAWN
    @BAWNBAWNBAWN ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I thoroughly enjoyed your commentary. I am greatly invested in this case because i am just a few years younger than Shirley. It really is hard to understand how women of our age can get scammed like this, but apparently it happens quite often. I feel for her, i feel sad that she at that age was not content with her life, but you said something extremely important about people ridiculing her because of her lack of man. I guess that hits hard. I pray that this woman finds her way out of all of this. I am almost 68, widowed for 2 years and have absolutely NO desire to EVER be with another man. It just seems nowadays they are all troubled souls. Got my children, grandchildren, and wonderful friends, that's good enough for me. Praying for Shirley.

  • @brendasmith6729
    @brendasmith6729 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think she was wanting to be like Marjorie and live that life...From my understanding, Ernesto gave her a $250K ring

  • @mymiracle79
    @mymiracle79 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Another great video. Every wise woman know Shirley is no victim. If it hadn't of went public would most likely would not be divorcing.

  • @Sapphire3291
    @Sapphire3291 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Shirley was warned about Nesto so many times. There was so many red flags, she was just desperate and dumb.

  • @denisedublin4522
    @denisedublin4522 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's very difficult to see fault when you are in love, the only thing I would say do some investigating and don't ignore the red flag.

  • @mrrpswife
    @mrrpswife ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Speak it!! This thing about never needing a man is absolutely ridiculous!!

  • @calit5861
    @calit5861 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She was beyond lonely and desperate... she was blinded by his youth, and looks -which she used to justify her actions of dumbing herself down, looking the other way and playing the fool... If she had any dignity, she would have put foot down before the 1st eviction and required him to act like he got some sense or she would leave ✌🏾 But unfortunately, she believed that he was the prize 🥴

  • @tracywalker244
    @tracywalker244 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I bet she snapped out of that clinical loneliness now.

  • @nixxi72
    @nixxi72 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Shirley was married before for many years, but it seems she didn’t learn any life lessons from the mistakes made from this marriage. However, I heard she married her 2nd husband within 6 months of meeting him. It’s possible that she was love bombed, and she fell in love hard. Her loneliness blinded her to the obvious red flags.

  • @Darkbeauty25
    @Darkbeauty25 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    MVMO, you are so wise! I love the way you think and your commentary.

  • @CornellG
    @CornellG 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Such great wisdom.

  • @patriciasmith6479
    @patriciasmith6479 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Great video! I admire your insightful perspective to this situation it’s loaded with gems. Thanks I’m a new subscriber and your channel is the first that I can actually listen to the end.

  • @bumpyjohnson635
    @bumpyjohnson635 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I don’t think it would have made a difference getting a background check loneliest is real

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right, it wouldn't have.

  • @curatedbykellimichelle
    @curatedbykellimichelle ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I may not comment often, but this is some of the absolute wisest counsel I’ve heard in a long time! 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Karen-l2f
    @Karen-l2f 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you very eye opening much thought put into this.. now I hope more people will come to hear and think about what you have said.. thanks again for you checking my way of thinking

  • @patriciatucker5827
    @patriciatucker5827 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's crazy how women think other women need a man and that's a problem ladies love yourself when you become needy that's a problem you don't need a man you can want a man sorry lady this is not good advice

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No what's crazy is that ppl think they know more than God. He made us as human beings. He knew what was best. But hey, maybe you know something He didn't/ doesn't.

  • @Bria_Angel96
    @Bria_Angel96 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such great commentator! Great advice too! I have been married for 33 years and you are absolutely correct!

  • @bumpyjohnson635
    @bumpyjohnson635 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Makes a whole lot of sense to me and I truly believe it goes for men as well …. Thank you

  • @emefreeman1905
    @emefreeman1905 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s one thing to be lonely but she made HUGE moves that have a lot of steps involved: selling her house, rent a condo for $7,500/mo. I can see being lonely and overspending online, that’s easy, stuff she did was harder. Can you blindly do stuff that hard? I dunno.

  • @purrfectnails2473
    @purrfectnails2473 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg I didn't know she faced so many consequences dealing with him. Any basic professional would have been better than this!

  • @allbizz1166
    @allbizz1166 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well said, this is my first time listening to your channel and thank you for talking woman to woman with us. Have a good week 😊

  • @Candace1979
    @Candace1979 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She was married to Micheal Strawberry Darryl strawberry brother

  • @MsJP
    @MsJP ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Balance ⚖️ is the key

  • @user-iv1yi6cz7o
    @user-iv1yi6cz7o ปีที่แล้ว +9

    MONEY HUNGRY LUSTFUL SPIRITS

  • @celestinelatham5869
    @celestinelatham5869 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Truth be told my sister..

  • @angelique7250
    @angelique7250 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is phenomenal thank you so much. I appreciate this. ❤

  • @RastanZion
    @RastanZion ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Enjoyed your commentary. Great content on the specifics. So many of our beautiful women has succumb to the same narrative. They end up finding themselves alone and hurting. We are in a bad place in the world when women are saying they don't need a man. It sounds like a place of brokenness. No judgement I just agree with the opinions and commentary. Thanks and may peace be unto you.

  • @mvmochannel
    @mvmochannel  ปีที่แล้ว +7

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  • @mrrpswife
    @mrrpswife ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes - yes!! We were made for each other!

  • @Mrnormthegreat
    @Mrnormthegreat 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow this was powerful

  • @Jasmine-ot8br
    @Jasmine-ot8br ปีที่แล้ว +5

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  • @yvettewilliams5967
    @yvettewilliams5967 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m surprised she didn’t hire a PI to check into his background! That’s what a lot of smart ladies have been doing for years now. She was lackadaisical I feel. This guy is a serial criminal. Surprised me. I think she was really lonely, but….. she didn’t check him out.

  • @envymytruth
    @envymytruth ปีที่แล้ว +6

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I am definitely lonely which is unfortunate. But you gained a new subscriber. 👋🏽

  • @JaniceHylton
    @JaniceHylton ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen, we were made for men!

  • @BlessedInEveryAreaOfMyLife
    @BlessedInEveryAreaOfMyLife ปีที่แล้ว +2

    PRICELESS!!! Thank you so much ❤

  • @debbieblanson9900
    @debbieblanson9900 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well said...thanks.

  • @therealhairjunkiesofhousto8633
    @therealhairjunkiesofhousto8633 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m praying for Shirley!

  • @thetravelgoods2760
    @thetravelgoods2760 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What he’s done is called bigamy.

    • @mvmochannel
      @mvmochannel  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      polygamy is having more than one wife or husband at the same time, that's what he did. He was married to other women while having wives who are living, they were aware of each other, but did not care that he was marrying others. So I'm speaking of more the practice of what he did. thanks.

  • @FullerEffect
    @FullerEffect ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen!

  • @Ms.BCarter
    @Ms.BCarter ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🖤

  • @chefmarianrene5251
    @chefmarianrene5251 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Truth💯🎯

  • @Dream-wu4bn
    @Dream-wu4bn ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️