Single, Not Alone :: Relationship Goals (Part 2)

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  • @SimInspired
    @SimInspired 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3501

    “What the enemy cannot destroy, he distracts.”

    • @linkami27
      @linkami27 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      SimInspired 😮😮😮😮😮😮🇰🇪 wow!! #Truth

    • @lundennonya1216
      @lundennonya1216 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SimInspired yesss! I wrote that down

    • @9tothe640
      @9tothe640 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes! ❤️ I loved that.

    • @christinael596
      @christinael596 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      THAT'S THE WORD!!!!

    • @apostlerodneyrodgers8460
      @apostlerodneyrodgers8460 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      SimInspired Yes...

  • @nickovillegas
    @nickovillegas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3633

    “The more single you are, the better your marriage will be” that hit me so hard!

    • @SincerelyTaliaxo
      @SincerelyTaliaxo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I felt that too!!!!!

    • @jennifursun3303
      @jennifursun3303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      me three

    • @lorisakens7066
      @lorisakens7066 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ikr

    • @shirleethechristianchic
      @shirleethechristianchic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Righttttt

    • @tarynstewart8279
      @tarynstewart8279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I am afraid that I have been single so long and enjoy my company so much that I will not be open to allowing someone into my life. So that part of his sermon has me confused ...

  • @alexaheard7048
    @alexaheard7048 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5165

    I’m only 15 and it is a blessing to hear this before I jump into a relationship. Praise Jesus

    • @Tobi_237
      @Tobi_237 6 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      Wise beyond your young years. More grace and wisdom to ya. Keep hearing and hearing

    • @Spiritualchick82
      @Spiritualchick82 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      You have your whole life ahead of you, hon. Keep gaining knowledge, it is something I wish I had done when I was your age! Smart girl. :) God bless you.

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      you got so much time.

    • @desiree7633
      @desiree7633 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same

    • @omololaezeifeoma3979
      @omololaezeifeoma3979 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Especially when you decide to live by this lovely.

  • @janelleedwards7513
    @janelleedwards7513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    I listen to this every time the devil tries to attack me in my single season. God is good. Knowledge is power.

    • @Angelina-ue8xv
      @Angelina-ue8xv ปีที่แล้ว

      proclamation still your salvation : you are chosen Jane' !

    • @daisyquiroz4777
      @daisyquiroz4777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👏🏽

  • @dustinwhitesell4860
    @dustinwhitesell4860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3442

    31 years old. 19 weeks porn free. Separated. Praying for reconciliation and believing it will happen! Waiting is hard tho :-/

    • @nothemba1982
      @nothemba1982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      I'd recommend listening to John Piper's sermons on lust, truly life changing! On our own strength, we can't win, but with God! 🙌
      Stay blessed.

    • @daughterofkush4031
      @daughterofkush4031 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@nothemba1982 i like Piper

    • @nothemba1982
      @nothemba1982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@@daughterofkush4031 me too...if you like him, you'll also like John MacArthur-one of my favorites sermons he did is 'How To Deal With Habitual Sin' - always reminds me of the seriousness of sin and how intentional we need to be about confronting it.

    • @daughterofkush4031
      @daughterofkush4031 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@nothemba1982 i listen to alot of macarthur,washer,voddie and spurgeon...i like that they preach from God's word

    • @KendraMorgan
      @KendraMorgan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Praying my brother!!!

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1699

    "He wants you to know who you are WITHOUT a person." yasss

    • @dinahreeves6335
      @dinahreeves6335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Rianna Babb so true

    • @bigtwon375
      @bigtwon375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rianna Babb thanks for helping me understand because I couldn't get it

    • @TonettaClay
      @TonettaClay 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's the truth Rianna Babb.

    • @MagnetMagicGirl
      @MagnetMagicGirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I read this AS HE SAID IT. So cool!

    • @lydiaagbonkhina683
      @lydiaagbonkhina683 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MagnetMagicGirl me toooo😭

  • @owaynembulaje3494
    @owaynembulaje3494 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4298

    who is repeating this sermon with me in 2019 and 2020 my, let's take it to 2022 and share it to the next generations.... {edited on 9th of March 2021 at 15:16)

    • @purposelytabs
      @purposelytabs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Me here...! Guess this is the 20+ time am listening

    • @Christ2010Grad
      @Christ2010Grad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me!

    • @queenm1575
      @queenm1575 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      am here

    • @jradditto3050
      @jradditto3050 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This and Grace Like A Flood Part 1! Just on repeat!

    • @GodsDaughter137
      @GodsDaughter137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Me hunny!! This series has blessed me and opened my eyes 👀

  • @ItsDamiajanee
    @ItsDamiajanee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1393

    Im 20 and been single my whole life, God is truly amazing. He's getting me ready!!!!

    • @hannas7806
      @hannas7806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Amen to that sis! Me too 💖

    • @kathrinewanjiru8949
      @kathrinewanjiru8949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Amen....me too 24

    • @joannamelanie
      @joannamelanie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@kathrinewanjiru8949 me to im 24 as well

    • @blessings5675
      @blessings5675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Try being single till 33🤣🤣

    • @kathrinewanjiru8949
      @kathrinewanjiru8949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@blessings5675 God has a plan for you....the person is coming....... 😂

  • @artistrybyartisia5318
    @artistrybyartisia5318 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2132

    Every time I feel weak in my singleness, I watch this. This is my third time in 2 weeks

    • @Cassie241995
      @Cassie241995 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      I pray for u Hun, be Strong sister... God knows best, and nothing just happened. You watching this is not a mistake. Love, In Christ

    • @Dawn4j
      @Dawn4j 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Stopped counting. I've been watching it again and again here and there

    • @tegaedwards
      @tegaedwards 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Exactly!! This is my 3rd time this year.

    • @TheJaiNetwork
      @TheJaiNetwork 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Artistry by Artisia Weakness is not a result of singleness... there is something else that needs to be resolved.

    • @Royalnessa
      @Royalnessa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Why feel weak? When you are already Whole.

  • @lovetacos3850
    @lovetacos3850 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1737

    I’m 35, never married, dated men not aligned in God’s purpose for my life. I know...so I’m very single. But this time I’m enjoying being single and falling more and more in love with God and my learning to love my self, and others.

    • @tiffanyjones1857
      @tiffanyjones1857 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Im 37 and single too sis. Im working on positoning myself to be restored by God and only Thru God

    • @kikkybadasszw
      @kikkybadasszw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ligi Go you’re love Ligi. God loves you❤️

    • @sherikwasnik5290
      @sherikwasnik5290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ligi I hear you girl. I am 43(almost 44). I am doing the same.

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      33 and I wouldn't trade the ache and loneliness I've struggled with, for what I've gained in knowing Christ deeper as Ive turned to him again and again. to learn that he is better than anything this world can offer, and that if we put our hope in people - we will crush that person, and that person can become our god.

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      knowing Jesus deeply, is sweeter and more powerful than having the best of the best man here on earth. its just a struggle, I know. cuz we have our earthly feelings and wrong focus/perspective.

  • @danitahingston5513
    @danitahingston5513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1271

    I love how he delivers his sermons with humor and wit -i'm learning so much while laughing at the same time.

    • @abbasjoy4785
      @abbasjoy4785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've laughed so hard😄

    • @CreationUnveiledPodcast
      @CreationUnveiledPodcast 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I’ve laughed so much and yet I still kept listening even when he came in MY house and attacked MY habits😭😭

    • @scholasticbookfair.
      @scholasticbookfair. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@CreationUnveiledPodcast Just making you more self aware and delivering the tools it take to be more accountable for your conscious and subconscious actions 👍🏽

    • @olivialiverpool4784
      @olivialiverpool4784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here, I think I found, for the first time, my favorite pastor

    • @TonettaClay
      @TonettaClay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes he is hilarious, but honest. I love it.

  • @Ginamations3267
    @Ginamations3267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +631

    I'M SO GLAD I DIDNT 'MARRY' THAT GUY BACK IN 2014
    I'M SO GLAD I GOT OUT OF THAT ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP IN 2018
    I'M SO GLAD CHRIST FOUND ME AT UNI IN 2019.
    AND HERE I AM WATCHING THIS SERMON. THANK YOU JESUS.

    • @Acounterculture
      @Acounterculture 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Look how blessed you are❤️ Keep winning 🔥

    • @Meloooody1357
      @Meloooody1357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMEEEEEN ❤

    • @ELamy802
      @ELamy802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AMEN

    • @Hype4Christ
      @Hype4Christ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen chile

    • @itorisan278
      @itorisan278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so glad he led you out of those relationships!

  • @lukevantonder9929
    @lukevantonder9929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +667

    "If they knew you like you know you, would they still marry you?" Fire. Fire. Fire.

    • @gnicks2995
      @gnicks2995 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Luke Van Tonder yaasss!

    • @kokiskitchen
      @kokiskitchen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thaaank you Soo much, really blessed during this period because am glad am single now and i was able to come across this message be blessed

    • @user-xe2io2go1f
      @user-xe2io2go1f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He literally copied this statement from Myles Munroe's sermon on Singleness

    • @phenomenonnarutokun
      @phenomenonnarutokun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@user-xe2io2go1f that's like a common phrase

    • @user-xe2io2go1f
      @user-xe2io2go1f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@phenomenonnarutokun is it..........

  • @lynnchia3661
    @lynnchia3661 5 ปีที่แล้ว +964

    wow. i am 24 and have never dated. today one of my mentors said she was amazed and that God has kept me. I'm really beginning to see that it's a blessing to be hidden in God. Thank God for this series!

    • @congelesegirllivingincanad422
      @congelesegirllivingincanad422 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Same. Always feel someone thing wrong with me. I am waiting on the lord.

    • @MaishaOnTop
      @MaishaOnTop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      22 years old and same here!!

    • @floralafleurrose8877
      @floralafleurrose8877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same here

    • @dedetracy5242
      @dedetracy5242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm 21 years and I've never dated or been in any relationship before too...

    • @stephanhoffmann3265
      @stephanhoffmann3265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@dedetracy5242 nothing wrong with dating someone. Meet somebody does not mean you have to kiss :)

  • @louimaierivera9295
    @louimaierivera9295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +730

    "You can reach your purpose without marriage" ✨

    • @lanierosemangoda1792
      @lanierosemangoda1792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen sister.... Marriage is not for everyone

    • @dbalexan
      @dbalexan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Some purpose requires your mate.

    • @Yomarlopezcameron
      @Yomarlopezcameron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lanierosemangoda1792 yes it is, it’s not obligated but anyone can obtain it going through Gods progress

    • @treniaw220
      @treniaw220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you God for this message

    • @Rainethalyricist
      @Rainethalyricist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@damoab1909 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: 1Corinthians 7:14

  • @Samps_USN
    @Samps_USN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    I was married almost 21 years. I found Christ and she didn’t like the new me. Now I’m single and taking care of this new me and I am the best version of myself through Jesus Christ! Our Crosses Aren’t Ours To Bear Only!

    • @missNCW
      @missNCW 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Easier if you are a man, you can literally have children 30 years from now

    • @ComeAsYouArePodcast.
      @ComeAsYouArePodcast. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you have kids?

    • @Samps_USN
      @Samps_USN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ComeAsYouArePodcast. yes one

    • @robynafrica4363
      @robynafrica4363 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing. Sorry to hear.

    • @grannygrandma6036
      @grannygrandma6036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God has a purpose for your life and your child. Keep on staying focus on The Lord that He knows what is best for you. You are God's child of the most HIGH God. I pray that your ex spouse have the encounter with Jesus in every way in her life. In Jesus name. Amen!

  • @JustShining1
    @JustShining1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    "Marriage doesn't improve your singleness, it exposes it..." Wise words!

  • @alonator09
    @alonator09 6 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    "When you don't know you, you won't pick right because you'll pick what you THINK you want and you have no basis on it because you have not had the time to figure YOU out" I related so heavily wow.

  • @mac9683
    @mac9683 6 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    This is so necessary for this day in age. Many millennials want healthy marriages but we need to have a healthy relationship with ourselves.

    • @patricia-kv6ix
      @patricia-kv6ix 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      THIS! ❤️❤️

    • @ChurlzVA
      @ChurlzVA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm tired of the relationship with myself, I wanna move to something new

    • @earlonaweary9155
      @earlonaweary9155 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ChurlzVA What have you accomplished in your season of singleness?

    • @samueljennings4809
      @samueljennings4809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "something new". That's the wrong mindset to get into dating. Use your time single to work on your gifts and maximise them, and learn how to depend on God.
      If it's God's will for you to date, then the time will come. Until then, focus on yourself.
      God bless.

    • @alexabutterfield9396
      @alexabutterfield9396 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen!!❤️

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +652

    “There’s nothing wrong with the season that God has you in.” 👏🏼 YESSS, I felt that. 💯

    • @frmarkgoringg9317
      @frmarkgoringg9317 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (FAVOUR MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Edo State Nigeria before Two (2)DAYS with faith and believe, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace and blessings to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp (+ 2348120604271). or e-mail
      (favourmotherlessfoundation@gmail.com) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....

    • @missNCW
      @missNCW 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And there’s nothing wrong with wanting marriage and kids before you become infertile - I wish married Pastors would acknowledge this

    • @emmanuellafreeman7409
      @emmanuellafreeman7409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @missNCW my mum was in her forties when she had my youngest sister. God's timing is all that matters

    • @leecrotty6344
      @leecrotty6344 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @20:20

  • @FeliciaJoyloves
    @FeliciaJoyloves 7 ปีที่แล้ว +635

    "marriage doesn't improve your singleness, it exposes it".. so much wisdom..
    those who have ears have indeed heard..

    • @edwardperez4266
      @edwardperez4266 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Finally Felicia when he said, “...all that thing is goin’ do is expose who you really are...” 😯 when he said people who been married for two years! That’s me!

  • @monicapwilson
    @monicapwilson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1807

    Binge listening during Corona virus. Hits a lot different when life slows you down.

    • @kandacenoire
      @kandacenoire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Melanin mom Budgets riiiight and love your handle. I’m trying to be celibate and debt free lol

    • @lwhite474
      @lwhite474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep!!!! It sure do

    • @LisaLee123
      @LisaLee123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true!

    • @jamie-gl9dz
      @jamie-gl9dz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      For real I listened to this 3 times now that I’m “still” I HEAR this it’s like listening to it for the first time.....smh at myself

    • @lyratarog1269
      @lyratarog1269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May I know where can I find the part 4? 😊

  • @nettierhudd7648
    @nettierhudd7648 7 ปีที่แล้ว +519

    This man just kicked my door open and sat on my couch!!! YOU BETTER PREACH!!!

  • @jemimahkabami7347
    @jemimahkabami7347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    I'm proud to be single rn because I know God is shaping my future, my marriage, my husband, my children as much as He is shaping me to be a perfect friend, wife and mother. I will come back here with a testimony in the name of Jesus Christ.

  • @Enheritance
    @Enheritance 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1031

    I never understood why people would always say that ''You have to love yourself first before you can love someone else.'' and i clearly understand that now at this season of my life. I gave up an engagement december 2017 of 2018 and i obeyed GOD. because i wasn't ready me and my ex didn't know our purpose and we was just 2 hurt people, who was rejected , hurt and finding ourselves. i have so much peace now. he is in a new relationship now . moved on quick and im perfectly fine . being SINGLE , FINDING MYSELF AND PURPOSE. I don't need a relationship to feel happiness. the joy of the lord is my strength and i a m waiting for the right one. CELIBATE TOO

    • @fluffypuppy0
      @fluffypuppy0 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Wow that act of wisdom and courage. GIRL👏❤

    • @salomyru7310
      @salomyru7310 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      i was really in the same situation as you and i never had peace in the relationship but the fact that everyone is doing it kept me on but i felt so proud of myself 3months ago when i turned down his marriage proposal ....im so at peace now and im enjoying this singleness like the moment of finding myself who i really am what i like and love.....and also growing in Gods word and having that relationship with him...sinfree im so thankful....keep it up sis you are not alone...love you

    • @Echosong95
      @Echosong95 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Thank you for sharing this! I just ended an engagement and the relationship lasted 5 years, so it was extra painful. It has barely been a week since I ended it, and I'm doubting, but I found these sermons and know I need to do self discovery before I do anything else. Thank you forbsharing your story, and stay strong and stay yourself!

    • @fashionandreviews
      @fashionandreviews 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love your channel girl!

    • @deejahlovee8048
      @deejahlovee8048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As you should girl

  • @rozneik
    @rozneik 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1233

    Been searching for a wife when I should've been searching for MORE of God!! Time to get these priorities straight! There's a reason for the season! This series is POWERFUL!! 👌🏾💯💯💯

  • @charolettehudsononpurpose
    @charolettehudsononpurpose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1293

    Marriage doesn’t improve your singleness, it exposes it

    • @TonettaClay
      @TonettaClay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right!

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💣💣💣

    • @mainguyen.je01
      @mainguyen.je01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@pastormichaeltodd7369 you faked pastor Mike Todd channel?

    • @bdog5369
      @bdog5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like that.

  • @carolinabusse3443
    @carolinabusse3443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Marriage doesn’t improve your singleness, it exposes it 🔥🔥

  • @mllange30
    @mllange30 7 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    I'm 36, single, have a degree, own a home but I'm single. God timing is best. I refuse to be ungrateful because God hasn't granted me this one thing. Making adjustments in my.though process and will enjoy my singleness.

    • @christinenjeruaqua
      @christinenjeruaqua 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Angela Miller Amen gal. 36 too

    • @lauradykstra7807
      @lauradykstra7807 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Just turned 35, in the same boat. Just trusting in Him is the best we can do!

    • @bluemickey23
      @bluemickey23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Praise God! Keep being grateful. ♥️

    • @thetoughgroup
      @thetoughgroup 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Black Educated and Bougie
      None of the accomplishments you listed (having a degree and a house) qualify you to be a good wife. For the most part, men don't care about a woman's degrees. We are not interviewing you for a job, LOL. Now, if you had said you're a kind, loving, supportive, submissive, caring, thoughtful, modest, intelligent, motherly and Godly woman who loves caring for her man, staying fit and healthy, building with him and can cook well, that would've been saying something. Just sharing some insight into what quality men are seeking. Stay blessed.

    • @pilot2bme
      @pilot2bme 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen to that sister

  • @iZahppy
    @iZahppy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1102

    THIS DUDE HAS ME JUMPIN UP AND DOWN!!! I LOVE HIS CHARACTER IN HIS SERMONS.

    • @airriauntem.1656
      @airriauntem.1656 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Charlene Cayanan SAME GIRL!!

    • @catthearts
      @catthearts 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOLOL

    • @lynneaworley2710
      @lynneaworley2710 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Charlene Cayanan This kinda sermon can change the trajectory of someone’s life!!!

    • @daennedolce7097
      @daennedolce7097 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!!!!

    • @mattp1914
      @mattp1914 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Charlene Cayanan just found him this am bc I couldn’t make it to church. On my second vid, he’s so good. Great personality and sense of humor, along with his knowledge of the word!

  • @KrislynShumard
    @KrislynShumard 7 ปีที่แล้ว +676

    Marriage is only as good as your singleness. 🔥🔥

    • @dr.majidahsmith9006
      @dr.majidahsmith9006 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Krislyn Placide so true. SIP Dr Myles Monroe words still blessing me today.

    • @StarStar-tj6ox
      @StarStar-tj6ox 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like that

    • @ChurlzVA
      @ChurlzVA 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bullshit.

    • @lebomagano3522
      @lebomagano3522 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Krislyn Placide Some people have never taken time to be single 😅😅 what does it say about them?

  • @tsholofelothobi
    @tsholofelothobi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I can not believe it has been six years since the release of this series 🙌🏾 best sermon of all time.

  • @swoosh3684
    @swoosh3684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    Sometimes you start off loving youself but then after a very long time of being single you start to think that maybe something is wrong with you and that's where the knit picking begins.

    • @blaakcoffee
      @blaakcoffee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      TRUTH!!!!!!

    • @shilohinstitute5566
      @shilohinstitute5566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think the essential component to this was not just singleness but rather the component of singleness (whole), that is, 1. One with God 2. One with God. Living the singleness outside of God leads to knit picking. "They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength." So it's not about inability to deal with opposite sex but taking time to commune with The Lord. 🙏

    • @mariac6280
      @mariac6280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's what I'm going through right now.....

  • @kimbarrentine1938
    @kimbarrentine1938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    I use to be miserable because I was single. When I started working on myself and building a stronger relationship with God I started to love my time alone and take advantage of it. I have learned I rather by single and happy and wait for the right person than settle and miserable with the wrong person and be stuck. I want my future marriage to last so I want to meet a Godly man and don’t want to rush into anything . I feel this message. Thank you

    • @ivannaang2022
      @ivannaang2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here!! Well said! Represent exactly what am abt to say . Thank you God bless you!!!

    • @iiammaria2044
      @iiammaria2044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sis am going through the same thing right now!! Am 22 years old, my mom got married at 22 and my older sister (1 year older than me) also got married at 22, I felt like what am I doing wrong why can't I keep a relationship. Now am focusing on myself and God and I feel so happy!! Being single isn't so bad when I think that God already has the perfect person just for me.

    • @missNCW
      @missNCW 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iiammaria2044 yeah because you’re 22. Try being older and having married mothers who got married at 19 telling you to be ‘patient’. Sorry I didn’t realise that getting married at 19 made you more patient than the 35 year old woman who literally been WAITING her whole life

    • @missNCW
      @missNCW 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why is the choice always between a Godly mad and the wrong man - single people can want healthy marriages. - no one said we had to settle for bad ones just because we’re TIRED of waiting. Pastor Mike met his wife when he was a TEENAGER

    • @iiammaria2044
      @iiammaria2044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@missNCW I actually don't understand

  • @rae222_
    @rae222_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    “And when you don’t know you, you won’t pick right because you’ll pick what you THINK you want.”

  • @rmp2784
    @rmp2784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    I started to watch pastor Michael just a week ago, and I have to say and give testimony that God is definitely using you to reach out to people such as myself. Thank you for reminding me that God has a plan, he has a purpose for me and without him I will never reach my purpose. May God bless you and continue to use you as such an inspiration. Thank your for preaching in a way that I can understand and feel the need to come back for more because I want more, I want to learn more of my God!

    • @ivannaang2022
      @ivannaang2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes he is GOD definitely use him big time this series really game changer . My life wud never be ghe same again after watching al of this! Dont forget to watch relationhsio goals reloaded as well!!!

    • @Ninaxlove
      @Ninaxlove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen! I'm new here too. Found him off of a tik tok video that had a message I needed. Came to TH-cam to get the full message. Now I'm back here to continue to get the word.

    • @quinnberger1639
      @quinnberger1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes I found him on tik tok & here I am! I’m obsessed, relate to it all

  • @MahoganyGlaze
    @MahoganyGlaze 7 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    THIS WAS THE BEST MESSAGE I HEARD ABOUT SINGLENESS!!!! THIS MESSAGE HAS BROKEN YOKES AND OPENED MY EYES!!!!!! thank you for your obedience. I now see my singleness as a GIFT and an opportunity to be the BEST VERSION OF myself. I’m so grateful to GOD!!! Thank you Jesus!!!

    • @catthearts
      @catthearts 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      imani brown right! Same here.. Smh we've been lied to

    • @TshwaneloSerumola
      @TshwaneloSerumola 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Girrrrrrrl this man is Gave a good word! 😭👏

    • @ubaok24
      @ubaok24 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      imani brown I struggle with being single daily.

    • @shakeriaspencer8815
      @shakeriaspencer8815 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen! I agree with you 100000000000% okay this is a time for me to build with God. For him to reveal my place, purpose and identity. Make me the best me i can be

    • @artonyalascrafts4892
      @artonyalascrafts4892 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      imani brown ,👍

  • @jessicaaletor8860
    @jessicaaletor8860 6 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Stay Guarded because what the enemy cannot destroy, he distracts.” Maximize your singleness y'all.

  • @VennaTanya
    @VennaTanya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    I’m 29 and single. I was in a 5 year relationship and the guy broke up with me on the phone coz of distance and he quickly began dating another lady. He came back and said he was so stupid and at that time I was fasting and praying for a husband. I was prayerful but desperate as well. I just thought that this is it. He is the one for me. And before that I prayed to God saying I will not be intimate with my future partner, I will wait and be pure in His word. But when my ex came back into my life I didn’t commit to that mainly coz I didn’t want to lose him. So I put him first instead of God and sadly I was okay with that. Now he broke up again with me after a year of dating. I just feel pressured now to get married and desperate. After watching this, I praise God that I’m single coz I need to know God’s anointed and destined place for me, purpose, provision, identity and parameters. Thank you Lord.

    • @nyjawilliams4699
      @nyjawilliams4699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Similarly thing happened to me.

    • @justshaun3058
      @justshaun3058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Stay strong. You not alone. I feel the same. Thats why we all here watching this sermon. I’ll be praying for you and myself.

    • @sherryboyd3480
      @sherryboyd3480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Venna Chasakara I went through something similar, and beat myself up after he came back and the sin we entered in. Gods Grace is sufficient
      I felt so heavy and insecure , the binding of souls is real

    • @zinashah3043
      @zinashah3043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God bless you 🙏 ❤ Always remember God has a purpose for us and the winding road which he intends us to take will lead us to the revelation of us and God in us xxx
      Stay blessed 🙏 and always believe ❤

    • @karlydepaz
      @karlydepaz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pray for the Holy spirit to guide you and you can hear his voice wherever he takes you.

  • @nayyhaaa
    @nayyhaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I'm 25 and have been single literally since my birth and by God's grace I've never felt lonely for He's always there for me. Single or not, God should be a Christian's primary source of Love and comfort, always. I read a quote long ago that said "Dance with God and He will make the right man cut in in His time". Amen, He will 🙏

  • @meganpotts2733
    @meganpotts2733 7 ปีที่แล้ว +807

    Sooooooooooooooooooooo like I literally prayed about being single this afternoon and this message was everything I needed to hear.

    • @marymccorvey7286
      @marymccorvey7286 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Megan Potts the same thing with me! I even started journaling about this single season! I went to bed, and the next day, this was on a Facebook post! God is Awesome! I’m going to watch the full series now

    • @aprilcaldwell2895
      @aprilcaldwell2895 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Megan Potts Babe its one of the best things you can do! Enjoy all of yourself...in Your time of singlness💙🍃 I'm here for it!

    • @deezerd4459
      @deezerd4459 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Megan Potts I pray all is well.

    • @queenmoore3776
      @queenmoore3776 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesssss.... AMEN!!!!!

    • @MsScorpio83
      @MsScorpio83 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Megan Potts it was right on time for me as well.

  • @emze.6516
    @emze.6516 6 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Marriage does not improve your singleness, it exposes it.... Nothing ever straightened me out as fast as this statement did, my perception completely changed. Now I'm so glad I heard this as a single person.

    • @Shavier777
      @Shavier777 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      emediong etukudo Amen, same here.

  • @Liveandletdie21
    @Liveandletdie21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    "Don't look for a boyfriend so you can say you're Facebook official! "A lot of that happening. God please keep your protection over our youth on social media.

  • @sthembisozondi3342
    @sthembisozondi3342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I really needed to hear this, I've been single for 7 months now and this week I was kinda obsessed with getting to a relationship, now I'm chilled, it's just gonna be me and my GOD

    • @tinyikom9671
      @tinyikom9671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes my brother!!! Just You and God. Love that

    • @tinyikom9671
      @tinyikom9671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love will find you, no wonder the divorce rate is high, there is so much pressure out there

    • @psykopvth
      @psykopvth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here it’s been 5 months for me and I’ve grown my relationship with God much stronger than ever !

  • @StephanieBogart
    @StephanieBogart 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1391

    I’m sitting here in the parking lot of a movie theater waiting to see a movie and take myself on a date (which I haven’t done in years) and I hear what he says at 29:10. I’m shook! God is speaking loudly today! Thank you for this sermon!

    • @laminage
      @laminage 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      If you do it, good for you! You may get strange looks but think about it, you're doing what you want, your needs are being met, and you're not trying to make anyone else happy except yourself. Way to go!

    • @1charmaineb
      @1charmaineb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I do it all the time...

    • @mookWasHere
      @mookWasHere 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Speaking so loudly God is Screaming at me right now😂

    • @ShawnySharesHair
      @ShawnySharesHair 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes!!! I love it...dating myself is so awesome 😊

    • @DoubleJLiveIssaVibe
      @DoubleJLiveIssaVibe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do it

  • @jadanyc3212
    @jadanyc3212 7 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    This morning was extremely tough for me. Just got out a 7 month relationship(yesterday, it’s fresh I know) that I thought I really wanted. I was that female you talked about who wanted to teach him the word, even with his rough past. I wanted to be his healer, I wanted to save him. I prayed for him. Prayed for our relationship. Our relationship needed maintenance. I was ignoring all signs, and praying for things that I shouldn’t even be praying for. You said it best, we date out of depression and not destiny. Trying to fill voids only god can. I really needed this. I’m using this series to help me keep going. Day by day. Thank you.

    • @ldr792
      @ldr792 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know it’s really hard, but God is leading you and all things will work for your good

    • @khiabrown2421
      @khiabrown2421 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jada NYC this is literally exactly my same exact situation. Seven months. Just happened two days ago. I’m trying to heal day by day as well. Found this video and it is helping me and opening my eyes. It was a terrible relationship physically and emotionally abusive. Lies and cheats and deception.

    • @briannacollie2742
      @briannacollie2742 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was the same way, but God can only fill in the empty void in our hearts. It's not our place to be in a sticky situation, but we do have to pray for those people. I use to be the kind to tend to the broken hearted, but I learned the hard way that bad people tarnish good character

    • @carolineochieng3256
      @carolineochieng3256 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is my story right now,I don't know how to a walk away

    • @NAOMILOREN
      @NAOMILOREN 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl we should def talk if you’re open to it, Ive been through the same

  • @Posh_Spice89
    @Posh_Spice89 6 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    This has literally changed my life! This is how I know my God is real. Literally in the very moment of dealing with this exact issue, I stumble across this word from God! Can’t nobody tell me my God ain’t real.

    • @jessagermino1253
      @jessagermino1253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here 😊 God is moving...

    • @Shavier777
      @Shavier777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m standing in agreement. I’m in this same season of acceptance of myself and being true to who I am. I needed to hear this - God knows! 🔥🙏🏾

    • @brianalewis9601
      @brianalewis9601 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kimberly Sam yess sis goo off

  • @FyErroR11
    @FyErroR11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    2021 and still rewatching this, who's with me?

  • @simplynichelle9473
    @simplynichelle9473 6 ปีที่แล้ว +774

    I’m 26 years old trying to figure out my purpose in life struggling with my faith and that’s what brought me to this series 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @sweetflower8
      @sweetflower8 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too

    • @soystef
      @soystef 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me as well. With you in spirit.

    • @bluemickey23
      @bluemickey23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Seek God and he will show you or tell you. To know Christ leads to a purposeful life. ♥️

    • @LoveOlivie
      @LoveOlivie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sammmmmeeeeee 💝💝💝

    • @preciousuerrey
      @preciousuerrey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

  • @candaline
    @candaline 6 ปีที่แล้ว +746

    Am I the only 14-year-old here?
    Yes?
    Ok...
    But I absolutely looooove these sermons, they r so anointed. Especially in my age, where all my classmates r in relationships it's hard for me to stay focused on God, but HE IS MY STRENGHT!
    Edit: Wow, it's been almost 2 years!! GOD IS SOO GOOD, YOU GUYS! I'm still single, but he really opened my eyes and showed me what I need to learn first before being able to be in a relationship. I've been able to grow in my identity and in my purpose, but it's not over yet and I will keep on running the race and one day I'll see somebody running next to me.
    Thanks for all the nice comments

    • @antoniorosario5709
      @antoniorosario5709 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Bruh I’m 14 too lol

    • @nammiepam
      @nammiepam 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Me too!! It’s so hard to not follow all the things your friends do 😩

    • @starryslight7095
      @starryslight7095 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Dude, that's so awesome, no shame!!! Keep your foundation in God. We're all in different places and that's okay. I honestly really admire you, knowing at this age (I'm 3 years older than you!) where your heart should be, with God. I wish I had that at 14 haha, but I'm here now and that's good.
      God bless!!

    • @ConformedtoChrist
      @ConformedtoChrist 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Candice Lum mi

    • @itsmanibabyy482
      @itsmanibabyy482 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Candice Lum you are not the only one💯 I’m 17 and it’s really hard not to want to get in a relationship because what I seen around me, but I know GOD is who I need to be focused on

  • @alrxa995
    @alrxa995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    I haven't been single since I was 16 years old I am now 32. I went from one toxic relationship to another. This video just changed my life and I am beyond excited to see what God brings to be during my season of singleness!!!

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    • @SharistaMarie17
      @SharistaMarie17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Heidi. I have done the same thing since 13 and now I’m married. And I went into marriage without knowing myself or God in my singleness. I’m struggling. Praying for you. And I hope I can look to God to help change me. This hits me so hard.

    • @shawnalang2463
      @shawnalang2463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So proud of you Heidi 💕

    • @aetima
      @aetima 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey girl, I am rooting for you.

    • @debbiefuentes62
      @debbiefuentes62 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A

  • @Arannetperez
    @Arannetperez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Since 18, I have been judged by peers due to my singleness. I have been called weird, cold. I was told that “I am wasting my youth.” I must admit that I have been pressurising myself to find a boyfriend, not for me, but to stop those comments.
    I’ve always struggled with relationships and I have found the explanation: I just simply love being single. I enjoy my alone time, not having to answer to anyone, not being worried if I’m being cheated on. I like focusing on myself. I will not lie, I eventually do want to marry, and that guy will be special because I will “want” him, not “need” him. That guy will complement my life, not be my life because I simply love being single.
    Ladies, it is okay to be single. Do not fall into what society expects from you. If you want to be in a relationship then so be in one, but do not force yourself into it.
    Today, at 21, I accept myself & pray to fill myself in so much of God’s love that peoples’ opinion & perception of me will not affect me.

    • @chanelle.n
      @chanelle.n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yessss sis. I can relate!! God's timing, not this world's.

    • @slevinchannel7589
      @slevinchannel7589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Information is Key.
      And Information-Control is a bad, negative, bad, not-good Thing.
      So much so that even Apocalypse-Novels and -Storys often use it.
      And sadly, the brutal truth is that Christianity does it a lot.
      You are actively discouraged to ‚not listen to non-believers’,
      which is a dangerous Mindset.
      Ignoring other ideas, never informing yourself about other Religions,
      let alone Atheism. Thats all very, very bad, tbh.
      Even old Texts say it: „Only a Fool drinks Water from just one Fountain.“
      Its well known that its healthy to inform yourself
      and that its actually resembles more ‚Weak Faith’ if you never listen to
      Atheists and other Religions and such. If anything, it shows weak Faith in your
      own Religion, if you dont ‚dare’ to question it, question yourself, question those that feed you Info.
      And to say it brutally: If you just get fed Info from just 1 Source; your simply naive and gullable. Easy zu manipulate.
      So go and check out many Sources and Factions; you live in a Rich, diverse World,
      so do not limit yourself and also dont let anyone limit you.

    • @Jt-8of8
      @Jt-8of8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s always good to wait and let love find you then to search and stress about it.

    • @katiealvis9463
      @katiealvis9463 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautifully said. Thank you for sharing

    • @AutismTheaterProject
      @AutismTheaterProject 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very wise 👌

  • @charolettehudsononpurpose
    @charolettehudsononpurpose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    Spend time with God, Get to know yourself ... then someone else

    • @pastormichaeltodd9597
      @pastormichaeltodd9597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Child of God Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (divine grace MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) my dear if you believe in God do what I told you before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +23408112784575) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless u............................................................................................

  • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
    @AmaLoveGoddessTV 7 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    thanking God! single after 25 aint so bad after all. taking this time to work on myself, minister, travel, get to know God and myself.

    • @MelissaTEve
      @MelissaTEve 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes sis yes!

    • @angelanhamburo6563
      @angelanhamburo6563 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      PrincessAmandaTV so true. Infact the older you get in God. The more you see the benefits. Praise God too

    • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
      @AmaLoveGoddessTV 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Angela nhamburo amen without a spouse and kids i can go and come as i please.

    • @pineirokatherine
      @pineirokatherine 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      PrincessAmandaTV same!! I'm about to be 25

    • @leahluvvanderson3131
      @leahluvvanderson3131 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen 😊 I’m only 20 and I love being single.

  • @hannahjoyukulele
    @hannahjoyukulele 5 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    EXACTLY. Society and family tells us that somehow in our singleness we are not enough

    • @lebomagano3522
      @lebomagano3522 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I don’t listen to that crap 🤣🤣🤣 Thank God

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

  • @followthyomens93z
    @followthyomens93z 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    “What the enemy cannot destroy, He distracts.” truth 🤧

  • @bradparks3704
    @bradparks3704 6 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    This is one of the best sermons I've ever listened to! I've listened to it about 4 times lol..... One of my favorite pastors to listen to, I love how he re-presents things

  • @shanicemay_
    @shanicemay_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Anyone who wanted to press that like button multiple times to say amen?! This was the one

  • @annabanana2583
    @annabanana2583 6 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    “singleness is probably the most important time of your life” ... 🙌🏽

  • @destinylove9295
    @destinylove9295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The fact that he mentioned the more you’re single the better you’ll be when u get married hit home. When u know how to love yourself the right ain’t nobody can love you less and you settle for it. Once you love God he teaches you how to love yourself, and a person that love his/herself knows how to give love and what to expect from love.

  • @Esther_Ndira
    @Esther_Ndira 7 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    And here I was thinking that I was ready to enter in a relationship. Well after listening to this I know for a fact that I AM NOT READY!
    After listening to this amazing teaching, I am more happy than ever, just knowing the fact singleness may be the most important time of my life.
    I am more excited then ever to start spending MORE time with God,
    GOD BLESS YOU MAN OF GOD. #NORWAY!

    • @naturallydope6971
      @naturallydope6971 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Esther Ndira me either...

    • @2010MzEvans
      @2010MzEvans 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I felt the same way!

    • @consistencyiskey_
      @consistencyiskey_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. I thought I was ready to be in a relationship and was wondering why it was taking God so long to lead me there, and now I know, I have to be happy in my singleness, and fulfill my purpose in the place He's placed me in :) This is a really great series! And I'm so happy there are people like me here too!

    • @pocillo38
      @pocillo38 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Esther Ndira.... I'm with you

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@consistencyiskey_ and Esther I feel the same way as you right now. I have a lot to work on.

  • @deliz0771
    @deliz0771 6 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    I dated someone for whom I put my dreams on hold for 4yrs. Now that I am single, I am doing all the things that I wanted to do specially working on my self. Ejoying this season, Thank you Yeshua🤗

  • @soniia_aka3462
    @soniia_aka3462 6 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    The other day I felt so down and "lonely" because I'm not in a relationship right now. I felt like I needed someone in my life, but this message just uplifted me. Singleness is not loneliness. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @misskat7437
      @misskat7437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm in a growth group, and it was strange to me at first because I'm the only single. Yet God PLACED me there for a purpose, not to 'single me out' but because it's what I needed, and what THEY needed. There is no hiding behind 'rose colored glasses' and some of them are on their 2nd marriage, not completely healed from what went wrong from the 1st. I've discovered that THERE'S NOTHING WRONG with having a deep desire to be connected to another person, but I have to ask God daily ' Am I the right person, for You?' We have to learn to stand on our own, our spouse could die unexpectedly... that doesn't make us any less valuable to God. Even if we have the right business partners, the friends, the mentors, a husband/wife, children... we can still FEEL lonely... because we're lonely for GOD! He is the only one we have, in every circumstance!

  • @MomASMR.
    @MomASMR. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    For all my single brothers and sisters watching this, I do want you to know that being content in singleness does not mean it's wrong for you to feel s3xual attraction. If there is one thing God has taught me about singleness it's that that is not something to be ashamed of. Being content in our singleness does not take away our humanity, or even our desire to feel loved, it just means we surrender those feelings over to God and trust that he will give us what we NEED.

    • @patiencejameson9557
      @patiencejameson9557 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu for you just reach out to me!

  • @ronanderson3884
    @ronanderson3884 6 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    Hands down the BEST sermon on singleness I have ever heard (I'm currently 43 fyi). I think this should be a REQUIREMENT listen for everyone!!!! Awesome!!!

    • @naomibasson1683
      @naomibasson1683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you so right , am 53 and still not worried my dear , GOD will provide in HIS right time , bless day

    • @shirleethechristianchic
      @shirleethechristianchic 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So right

    • @bbrochelle77
      @bbrochelle77 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts!!

    • @walenawellness6449
      @walenawellness6449 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're so right!!!!!

    • @user-xe2io2go1f
      @user-xe2io2go1f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Search for Myles Munroe's sermon on Singleness from over a decade ago. He literally plagiarized it if theres such a thing for Christian sermons

  • @pandoraj2176
    @pandoraj2176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I'm 39 never been married two years ago I was fighting for my life had a brain aneurysm and stroke. Was in a toxic relationship as I in the hospital and I prayed ask God show me this man true colors once it was revealed to me. And now I'm happy maximum my singleness

    • @Adefunke16
      @Adefunke16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hope you are doing well now sis. Happy New Year be blessed 🙏🏽

    • @pandoraj2176
      @pandoraj2176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Adefunke16 I'm happy sis single blessed and highly favored

    • @ziyandangewu6730
      @ziyandangewu6730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well done for letting God into your situation.Happy singleness,until Gods appointed time.Enjoy this time.Wishing u all the best.

    • @justice77justice39
      @justice77justice39 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pray you are whole sis and completely healed.

    • @pastormichaeltodd7369
      @pastormichaeltodd7369 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      beloved, I don't know you in person but God . God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you, I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them, in prayers, I saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evils mirror, and with motive to destroy. but as I speak to you now her time is up, render hand of favor with anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (motherless babies home foundation) in Lagos state before 2 days with towards faith, as I rise my hands heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will received double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. ask for their account details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348154945781) him I sent an you. for it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (Zechariah 4: 6) you shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

  • @williegrant3054
    @williegrant3054 7 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    Pastor Mike, I have looked at 1 and 2 and I can honestly say without seeing the rest of the series: THIS IS FOR ME. Thank You for keeping it real

  • @eunefaber9686
    @eunefaber9686 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My mom told me to love yourself before loving others.
    I needed to hear this 6years ago

  • @AnnieHoneyMilk
    @AnnieHoneyMilk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Last night I prayed to the Lord to please talk to me to lead me to my purpose and tell me what he wants me to do. Today, I stumbled across this series. Amen.

    • @patricia-kv6ix
      @patricia-kv6ix 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too 😭😭

    • @EduardoGoncalvesJ
      @EduardoGoncalvesJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It happened the same to me too! God is really incredible! all praise to our Lord in heaven!

    • @Rizzinator123
      @Rizzinator123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same thing happened to me! I was feeling down and worthless just due to the singleness I really needed this message

    • @earlonaweary9155
      @earlonaweary9155 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      In Jesus name, Amen!

  • @CA2SD
    @CA2SD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    💥 Boom. This sermon has no expiration !🙌🏻

  • @DanicaStarr
    @DanicaStarr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    “Maximize your singleness”
    I’m so glad that I’m rewatching this series. I needed to be reminded that my singleness is a time to develop myself through God 😌🙏🏽

    • @purposelytabs
      @purposelytabs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too sis!! am always coming back to listen and get reminded😂😂👊👊👌

  • @worshipprayer8165
    @worshipprayer8165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am praying that whoever reads this, will be reminded of the love bestowed upon us; the finished work on the Cross- the work of God’s amazing grace. You are loved, always. I am praying that in whatever circumstance or situation you are in right now, that the Lord of all grace will find us faithful, regardless. Amen.

  • @Isis77176
    @Isis77176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    "You've never been alone long enough to learn to love yourself"

  • @BrownFam1225
    @BrownFam1225 7 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    Single while I'm in a relationship... Really hit me ❤

  • @deespeaks._6315
    @deespeaks._6315 7 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    This message spoke to me.
    I'm young
    19.
    Wanting to find me and my purpose here.
    Edit; I’m 23 now guys. So, long story short I did not do the work!
    But this spoke to me!
    I spoke life into having God pour His love and life into me.
    I asked for Him to help me fulfill my purpose.
    Now that I’m older it’s not about me. It’s about His purpose.
    I chose not to give up.
    I had been chasing after the wrong things but God was always in the back of my mind.
    I’m here today, to say I am allowing the change to come.
    God will help me just as He will for you.
    We are young and it’s okay to be human.
    But I came back!

    • @emmanuellaofurie8250
      @emmanuellaofurie8250 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      deedeethedon __ I’m 19 also, 20 in 4 months...I’m in the process of being self aware.

    • @krysj_
      @krysj_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I'm 18 going 19 and it really opened my eyes as a young person rushing into things

    • @jaylynnchannels8973
      @jaylynnchannels8973 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Glad to see some other young people!!! I’m 19 as well

    • @mercylonge5541
      @mercylonge5541 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Just turned 19, this touched me too

    • @MostHighDwelling
      @MostHighDwelling 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just turned 19 recently. I feel you

  • @bassinsquatch8503
    @bassinsquatch8503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I am 61 years old been married 3 times and they all ended because of me. I immediately go from one relationship to another as I don’t want to be lonely. Only time I had singleness was in college. This sermon hit home really hard. I right now is in another relationship living with them as I cannot be alone. I have caused so much hurt in my relationships because I never had my singleness. Thank you pastor for Gods word.

  • @VennaTanya
    @VennaTanya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    “Divorce is the death that never ends” 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @ChiefCedricJohnson
      @ChiefCedricJohnson 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      James 4:7
      Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

  • @TerryAnnOnline
    @TerryAnnOnline 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I really believe that God has called me to a life of singleness. I can really relate to this message. I used to act desperate because I thought being married with children was something EVERYONE is supposed to do. It's not true. I've learned just because I'm not married....doesn't mean I am alone.

  • @PrincessOwusu
    @PrincessOwusu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +666

    "He has potential, he just hasn't cultivated it" - So blessed by this entire message. Excited for part 3!

    • @estherong774
      @estherong774 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      child of the kingdom - Princess O.

    • @letgotvbyg197
      @letgotvbyg197 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      child of the kingdom - Princess O. God bless you

    • @monicavlnc
      @monicavlnc 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      child of the kingdom - Princess O. Same girl. Same. :)

    • @tamyckajohnson6316
      @tamyckajohnson6316 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      This quote spoke to me. It keeps me coming back to this series.

  • @carriedaniels40
    @carriedaniels40 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    No friends, and just got out of a relationship. Needed this💗

    • @GabbyTeAma
      @GabbyTeAma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same lol

    • @twinoakhealing8004
      @twinoakhealing8004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!

    • @maraelleify
      @maraelleify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too,let's be friends

    • @lilamontoya5609
      @lilamontoya5609 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same
      But recently I've been fellowshiping with the young teens in church
      Like I'm the big sister providing for them
      Its sweet, a blessing

    • @nicole-wf4pe
      @nicole-wf4pe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No friends, and never been in a relationship b4. Yay me 😂😅

  • @KristinCimone
    @KristinCimone 6 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    2018 I dated myself all year. Been single and celibate since 2017.

    • @MrAllysonn
      @MrAllysonn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

    • @jackulynervin9897
      @jackulynervin9897 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I BEEN DATING MYSELF FOR A WHILE, THE PEACE THAT COME WITH IT IS AMAZING, AMAZING, AND AMAZING ... IT IS A BLESSING TO SHARE LOVE AND BE IN LOVE BUT HOW CAN YOU DO THAT IF YOUR MISERABLE IN ANY AREA OF YOUR LIFE, NO YOUR NOT GOING TO BE PERFECT...BUT FIND YOUR PEACE....TRUST GOD AND YOU WILL KNOW WHEN TO MOVE....

    • @adev9764
      @adev9764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do you date yourself I have heard the phrase but I don't understand the concept

    • @MrAllysonn
      @MrAllysonn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@adev9764 what a great question. Dating yourself mean, go travelling just by yourself, go see a movie by yourself, go out doing what you'll do with a boyfriend but with yourself, dating is getting to know someone while dating then you'll do the same with yourself. The more you get comfortable with yourself, you'll know what you'll like and what you don't like.

    • @naturalglory6311
      @naturalglory6311 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ade V if you listen from 28:58 it talks about about dating yourself.

  • @mistw.9323
    @mistw.9323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    I'm 13 This is really helpful when trying to decide how I want to live my life

  • @Cierra_Yvonne
    @Cierra_Yvonne 7 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    I’m only 16 mins in and he’s absolutely right about loving yourself first. I was in a dark place never really been single and got married 4 years later got a divorce. We both never loved us first. We jumped right into marriage not knowing what we were doing. Be single people love you First.

  • @brittneyharris3138
    @brittneyharris3138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I must say ,I always wanted to get married but after listening to him? I wanna enjoy my singleness first

    • @josephinemixson4132
      @josephinemixson4132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Enjoy your singleness and find your purpose. Thank you Pastor Mike

    • @kimdavis483
      @kimdavis483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For the last few weeks I’ve been a little down for being single. All of my friends were single however they all have met someone but they are settling. In yesterday I was running listening to Steve Harvey motivational speech and this sermon came on (All God). I made a decision to listen to this and I mean I have been made the better! All I can do is say Thank you Lord for my singleness and not settling! Let me keep running and enjoying my singleness and learn who I am so I can know my place, purpose, identity and make parameters during my time. I am so thankful for this!!!!

  • @TheFrankie1011
    @TheFrankie1011 6 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Why doesn't the church talk about this though? I've constantly seen marriage placed on this holy, otherworldly pedestal and every single person is desperately trying to get out this season like its a terrible disease. I hope messages like this are continued to be preached through out churches and people feel more content in their singleness. Most churches I've encountered have become nothing but marriage breeding grounds where people don't even want to develop as an individual first, which is sad. I have struggled with this myself which has led me to go to a more all inclusive, welcoming church that is not so incredibly focused on relationship and child status. I truly believe God is not so focused on our relationship status and loves us just as we are!

    • @misskat7437
      @misskat7437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sadly, it's American society. We do the best we can, and it's good that you know the difference. We must remember that God loves the church and we can't give up on God's vision while we are on this earth, that is not for God.

    • @brianalewis9601
      @brianalewis9601 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Francesca Wilder yes sis gooo offf

  • @bravaiana
    @bravaiana 7 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    God is so good! I have no idea how I stumbled on this, (obviously the Holy Spirit) but so thankful. I've received so much freedom from part 1 and this video. Thank you so much !

  • @MJ-ln4xm
    @MJ-ln4xm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I'm 30 & I felt the pressure of being married because of social media & feeling alone. People think marriage is the PhD for life when it's not. I've honestly been at peace more alone than when I was in a relationship with someone.
    Also, This some of the same material Pastor Keith Battle preached in "Holy Matrimony" in a 5 part series on here which was also awesome.
    I also encourage everyone to watch Dr.Myles Munroe Singleness.

    • @samanthaspeaks4206
      @samanthaspeaks4206 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ketia Mae amen Im 31 and just broke up my engagement because i have goals, work on my health and travel!! Jesus is the only faithful man! High five girl friend!! Dont settle!!!

    • @oliveirasflah
      @oliveirasflah 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      "I've honestly been at peace more alone than when I was in a relationship with someone." Same

  • @A1-Poly
    @A1-Poly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    My girl broke up with me after 5 years of knowing each other and 4 years of dating. She cut me off and told me to never talk to her again or try to contact her. The same day I lost my degree and wasted two years of my life chasing something that was taken away. I’m so hurt and lost and feel abandoned. The only thing that has been getting me through life are these videos, I ask if you see this comment to pray for me, cause I’m chasing faith and god now, but I’m in the storm right now.

    • @daniellefawn
      @daniellefawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      God is with you and he’s close to the broken hearted and binds up their wounds 🙏

    • @strongislandexotics725
      @strongislandexotics725 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your not the only one brotha I hope your doing a lot better as this time

    • @thabilenxumalo9275
      @thabilenxumalo9275 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you are doing better now for that gives hope to some of us in the middle of our storms. Blessings

    • @cwengapisces2373
      @cwengapisces2373 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope things got better for you

    • @sandramatua6293
      @sandramatua6293 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait!!!! You dated your girlfirend for 9 years?????? 😳😲 Was that since childhood or from high school or colledge??? Eeehh Anyway, maybe God has prepared someone else for u. To be honest if that girl was in my country, she would hv committed suicide cz here if u date a man for that long, her parents, friends, society would be givin her advice to leave the relationship. Here they dont blv in dating too long. Minimum is 2 years.

  • @ivanildabarbosa6605
    @ivanildabarbosa6605 7 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I’ve been complaining about how lonely I am not realizing that I’m really not, I just need to perfect me before I can be with one. This was everything...Thank You!

  • @sgreen9088
    @sgreen9088 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    "When you don't know you, you'll pick what you think you want." Solid truth.

    • @pastormichaeltodd9597
      @pastormichaeltodd9597 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Child of God Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (divine grace MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) my dear if you believe in God do what I told you before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +23408112784575) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless u............................................................................................

    • @sgreen9088
      @sgreen9088 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pastormichaeltodd9597 this sounds like fraud.

    • @pastormichaeltodd9597
      @pastormichaeltodd9597 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      If only you believe

  • @96Takeya
    @96Takeya 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I agree. Being single does NOT mean you can't reach your purpose. 1 Corinthians 7:8 "So I say to those who aren't married and to widows -- it's better to stay unmarried, just as I am."

  • @olivekinya86
    @olivekinya86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    pastor mike's sermons are changing my life.

  • @yusefbarnes4444
    @yusefbarnes4444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Mike Todd. You brought forward what I missed. I now found a real woman that worship and PRAISE God with me. I needed my single period to fix myself with God

  • @JayShara
    @JayShara 6 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    PASTOR IS PUTTING ME ON BLAST!!! seessh I’m being called OUT!!!

    • @Tobi_237
      @Tobi_237 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jay Shara I know right😆...but now I know that’s just the light of the Truth, the Truth that sets us free.

    • @JayShara
      @JayShara 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tobi Adesanmi exactly 🙌🏽

  • @phophifulufhelomildred5746
    @phophifulufhelomildred5746 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    1.It's more important to be single than it is to get married
    2. Marriage is only as good as your singleness
    3. It's ok to be single but not good to be alone

  • @shannonlenamond3519
    @shannonlenamond3519 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Agree 100%
    Time with God and yourself is very important.
    That's where growth happens.

  • @elaine4937
    @elaine4937 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    As a woman over 50, this still applies. I've made peace about my divorce, I no longer grieve that loss. That season ended. My heart desires to be in covenant with a man that's no longer grieving. Single is comfortable because there's no accountability but I trust that God is developing me, to be my best self, by myself. I surrender my will to God's will.

    • @ronaldmartinez9073
      @ronaldmartinez9073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'll be 50 this year.After 20 years my wife asked me for a divorce. This is a woman who's read the word,been in church,has gone to a womens retreat. This is the same woman that cheated on me 3 times with 2 different people. 1st time was a Male coworker 2nd & 3rd time was with a woman old enough to be her mother. I feel stupid for staying for my kids. My 1st marriage I was in my early 20s. My 1st wife had an affair with one of my best friends from church,got pregnant & had a son from him. My 2nd wife know what I went through in my 1st marriage & it still didnt stop her from hurting me. After I married my 2nd wife I ended up finding out that she was molested for years from age 5 to age 11. My therapist tells me that women like that always struggle in relationships unless they get the proper help. I feel terrible for my 17yr & 10yr for what their mother has put them through. I thank God for my 30 yr daughter. I've been staying with her because we believe my wife is trying to provoke me so she can have a reason to kick me out my apartment or get me arrested. I feel like all these women that have taken my money,violated my trust & love are getting away with it. I'm a good father & a good man. All my kids are standing with me. They're all mad at my soon to be x wife. I dont deserve this .

  • @kenyaleo8771
    @kenyaleo8771 6 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Saw this sermon about a month ago and i literally ignored it (the holy spirit made me skip it) only for now to listen to it days after being single. Makes so much sense.. thanks pastor.

    • @tjknight2934
      @tjknight2934 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      watch what you say
      the holy spirit wont make you do anything -- free will

    • @TheDarkAgez
      @TheDarkAgez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Holy Spirit *told me maybe, if that makes the other commentator say so

    • @ziasiaj6757
      @ziasiaj6757 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m in your same position and it’s helping me so much through this difficult time

    • @ellieb8627
      @ellieb8627 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The evil one made you skip it or you made yourself skip it:) the Holy Spirit will not lead you away from something you need to hear

    • @sharonbanda1743
      @sharonbanda1743 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really Good I was ignoring it too

  • @BellainBooks
    @BellainBooks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    “love your neighbor as you love yourself” - you can’t figure out how to love someone else in a relationship if you don’t first learn to love yourself in singleness !!!

  • @whis8330
    @whis8330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Found out the hard way that you are spiritually tied to those you're physical with. It takes much time and healing to get passed. Be careful who you tie yourself to, because that knot sure is hard to undo.

    • @patiencejameson9557
      @patiencejameson9557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Got tied to someone for about 7yrs emotionally while the physical relationship lasted for 5 month