People feel entitled to private information, most likely act that way in other parts of their lives too. Sometimes they see themselves as better or their target as a lesser being, it's wild. Had a doctor ask me something super personal that had little to do with what I came in for, took up most of the appointment and made me soooo uncomfortable
With all these identical surgeries on both twins, I can only think about the insurance nightmare. I'm a twin and while we never needed anything major, usually when we got prescribed medication it'd be the same medication. Then the insurance company would see same prescription, same last name, same birthday, and delete the "duplicate". And then our mom would be on the phone for hours trying to get them to understand the concept of twins. Rinse and repeat. I can't even imagine getting them to approve several major surgeries 😳
@vickythefist7062 it's called a deviation of the septum. Meaning the bones in your nose are smashed to one side of your face and you have a hard time breathing. Headaches light headed and dizzy due to lack of oxygen to the brain! I was treated for migrains and that wasn't the issue. I had the same surgery for health reasons. Stop judging others if you're clueless.
If I were going for a job interview and they asked me about my appearance or any other overly personal question, I would just end it right there. Completely reprehensible behavior.
Forty-eight years ago, having earned an advanced professional degree, I went to a job interview with a male employer. His first question of me: "Are you married, single, or shacking up?" I later interviewed with the same company but in an entirely different city where I was hired. Several years later I ran into that first male interviewer at a company function. Surprisingly, he took me aside and apologized profusely saying he made a terrible mistake in not hiring me. He admitted he had wanted a male for the position and not a female and asked me that question deliberately.
About the teeth questions in the comments; not only is it possible they didn’t mind, teeth need proper support to stay in place. When you have a deformity like a cleft lip or palette it is possible for the gums and jaw to be affected too much to properly shove teeth around.
This to be honest, teeth are basically fixed in a bone, so bone injuries making the teeth not perfrctly straight and aligned might also be why other solutions just aren't that great of a fix either. If it's functional for them, why make life more difficult with extra stuff to "look better", it's just not that important, they are both beautiful girls.
My sister was born with double hair lip and clef palate She went thru about the same ops that these girls have. it was really hard for her growing up, kids where terrible. But now she is 69 and very happy Bless these girls for their strength.
My son Leo was just born with a cleft lip and cleft palette this past April. Its been quite a ride so far. This video both scares and relieves me. Our first lip repair surgery is this November, please pray for us!!!!!!!
My husband and his younger brother both were born with severe cleft lip & palates. They dealt with bullying as well. I've had people say to me how'd you deal with your husband's scars. He's had 24 surgeries on his cleft repair/ deviated septum. I always say my husband is the most handsome man and I love every bit of him... I don't deal with his scars... I get so upset when they say it...and I usually will point out something they have that they can't change and make my point, but not in a rude way... I educate!! ❤️
My goddaughter was born with a cleft lip and a slight cleft palate. She has had quite a few surgeries and she looks quite wonderful now. One of her operations was done right about the time when Michael Jackson was having a lot of plastic surgery. I remember her saying "to think that some people go through this for no reason but vanity"
Dr Nassif is a miracle worker! It’s SO fascinating to see how complex these reconstructive surgeries are; having to harvest bones and cartilage from different places of the body and using them to reconstruct a nose. I can only imagine how long his education was, but it definitely paid off! I also think it’s horrific that anyone would have the audacity to approach these women to ask about their deformities. Especially during a job interview! WTH?
I am a twin that was fraternal and was the only one of us who got cleft palate. However mine was left untreated for the most part, I did have a roof to the top of my mouth tho so that was helpful! I grew up with one surgery at 15 to remove the permanent eye tooth from up in the gum but I needed that left in! So it was a mistake to remove it even if it was not coming down correctly...they could have pulled the one baby tooth left there as it was an eye tooth and adjusted this surgically as it was just at an angle, the tooth itself was healthy. This left me without an eye tooth on the left upper jawline and no other upper molars, subsequently I only had the side of my mouth stitched up at one years old. I have two jaws that are not the same size, half a nasal passage on one side of my face, two different sides of a smile where I have a dimple on one side and not the other. When I was 18, I had a five teeth extraction which took 3 hours. They removed teeth encased in my upper cheekbone as with no baby molars below, they were never going to come down. I look fairly normal and most people do not notice my issues. I chew on one side of my mouth as I have never had even baby molars on the upper left. My twin was completely normal with no defects except she told me she had a deviated septum. I do finally have a bridge I can pop in for publically going out and for pictures but I can't eat with it. My gumline on the left is as far down as teeth would be. All in all I feel pretty lucky....my nose is fine....I lost my twin to ALS three years ago...she had a perfect face! I am 60 years old now.
Romy, Thanks for sharing! One of my best friends in HS had a cleft palate similar to these girls and I honestly never had a thought about it. She was (and is) beautiful and has always been a hit with gentlemen! However, I had no idea that this condition comes with so many other medical issues. Congratulations on 60- May you live long and prosper!!
They look amazing...you did a great job and gave them the ability to breathe and have a better lip...hopefully they will continue to heal emotionally...❤
Beautiful girls inside and out I'm glad they feel better and can breath but also to be confident smart athletic girls with nothing holding them back ! Great job ❤
I enjoy these videos & am so happy that the good doctors help people. I am thrown that doctors make house calls! I thought that went out with the 1950's. I'll ask my doctors if they make house calls too!
as someone who was also born w a cleft lip and palate. kids can be brutal but when i grew older u dorm have the same excuses as kids when they ask. i’m 21 and still have had ppl stop convos to ask about it
There were a set of fraternal male twins in my high school. One of them was born with a cleft lip. He had a noticeable scar and slight speech impediment, but was still def one of the popular crowd. Very cool guy 💙
Here in the UK I'm pretty sure it's illegal to ask about someone's health condition in an interview, all they can ask is if you need any adjustments to the interview process.
They can breathe. They are cosmetically pretty much taken care of already. Their airways needed help Their noses are widened and straightened, and you can hear their voices do a total 180. They noted they aren't having headaches like before
"But for each one to have a face deformity? I really feel for the parents." Uhh, what about the twins themselves? The ones who have to live with their deformity, endure surgeries, stigma, etc?
More like if u realised ur child had a deformity that could lead to difficulty in life and people being horrible will make u feel sad that they have to go through that. When ur a good parent u worry about your child constantly.
the context is important. he said that he has twins of his own, so he can imagine how the parents felt/feel since he knows how taxing it is to have and raise twins without the added effects of a deformity
Some people embrace their differences, however, being a parent of a child with a difference you probably always feel guilty, because your child didn't get the best start.
I still am dealing with my issues as my parents never fixed mine! Luckily I had a roof to the top of my mouth where many don't. I have half a nasal passage, two difference sized jaws, I have a dimple on one side and not the other...my side scar is very minimal by my lips....I feel fortunate to be able to function pretty normall. Eating one side has taken its toll as I never had molars come down on the upper left and no teeth past the eye tooth on that upper side..only encased in bone and fused to it which was a horrible 3 hour surgery, I arrranged for myself that included in impacted molar below etc...The two surgeons thought they would break my jaw chipping those teeth out! My twin didn't have cleft palate...her face was perfect...She did have a deviated septum.
Braces probably help! Been there born w/out cliff palette but luckily I had no cliff lip! But the had ears and teeth issues! Deaf in left ear w a baha implant
I grew up with two different classmates with cleft lips, one of them had an older sister with one too. It’s always been the most normal thing for me. Now that I’m older I understand the medical side of it, even on a personal level in terms of a chronically obstructed nose, but cosmetically I still see it as such a normal kind of face to have. I guess it’s just thàt important to expose your kids to as many different things as possible so the world isn’t so foreign to them.
It’s a lot better though. The bridge looks straight to me. The nostrils look a little uneven. I wonder if she could open up her right nostril by wearing something in the nose at night.
🌸🖤🫂✝️ as a twin myself my brothers nose is smaller I like it but i do have a deep love for my nose! they both look great! Those two do a great job everytime i watch them! I always hope and pray after every episode that the person lives better then before and they don’t have any complaints or anything! We need more follow ups!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🫂
Why can you not get the nostrils even? You can even graft skin to make one not larger than the other. Would you be happy with the results if your nose job if your nostrils remained uneven? These girls are so awesome!
Damn, he just said they both have twins?? That's crazy!!! Prolly just 1 more reason they're such good friends. God, especially if they're all girls, with all the shared drama and trauma lololol 😂😂
I dont like that he said "this is just our first surgery" the goal should be to only do one surgery. I do get that this is more complicated, so maybe it requires multiple surgeries. Idk Im not a surgeon, but I have been a patient, and I know with each revision it becomes more and more complicated.
I feel like when you really listen to Dr Dubrow, his tv show bedside manner is just like really bad. He literally LED THEM into talking about how they were made fun of, and then as they're saying they would like to look the same he decides to point out that yeah you guys are the least alike looking identical twins I've ever seen!
Idk, the prerequisite for the show I presume is to have a background on how the condition that is to be corrected have affected the person. Or here, persons. I saw another episode where one of two brothers had a deformed nose area since birth. It was an issue to him not looking like his brother, it's probably more of an issue than us without twin siblings realise. I did not see the question/comment as careless at all.
What adult in their right mind stops and asks someone during an interview about their facial deformity. Oh my god! The audacity!
right that's so inappropriate .... and unprofessional. She should've complained to the company if she didn't
I think it is illegal too to ask such a question.
I totally agree, especially during an interview.
You can REALLY hear the difference in their voices, much clearer and less nasal.
Does the voice improve after nose surgery?
@@ilhamerrami Absolutely!
I could never ask anyone with something obvious about it especially when applying for a job that’s ridiculous ‼️
I highly doubt they were asked about in their interviews
It’s called rude and ill mannered!
Yup! It’s shameful!
Not everybody is like which is really refreshing. I am physically disabled and some people think it is OK to say anything to you.
People feel entitled to private information, most likely act that way in other parts of their lives too. Sometimes they see themselves as better or their target as a lesser being, it's wild. Had a doctor ask me something super personal that had little to do with what I came in for, took up most of the appointment and made me soooo uncomfortable
when they said the doctors are very cute together!!! lol
They said good not cute
@@omaleagnes5831 they definitely said cute
@@omaleagnes5831 nah
@@omaleagnes5831 They literally say "cute together"
With all these identical surgeries on both twins, I can only think about the insurance nightmare. I'm a twin and while we never needed anything major, usually when we got prescribed medication it'd be the same medication. Then the insurance company would see same prescription, same last name, same birthday, and delete the "duplicate". And then our mom would be on the phone for hours trying to get them to understand the concept of twins. Rinse and repeat. I can't even imagine getting them to approve several major surgeries 😳
What a nightmare for your mom. I never thought of that sort of problem before. Thanks for sharing.
The concept of twins. Lol insurance companies are the worst
They understand the co ceot of twins perfectly fine. They're just hoping your mum's not in a fighting mood.
I think the twins look amazing before surgery!
They did and they look amazing after surgery with the addition of health benefits and feeling more comfortable in their bodies
Couldn't even see what the problem was !! Talk about vain
@vickythefist7062 it's called a deviation of the septum. Meaning the bones in your nose are smashed to one side of your face and you have a hard time breathing. Headaches light headed and dizzy due to lack of oxygen to the brain! I was treated for migrains and that wasn't the issue. I had the same surgery for health reasons. Stop judging others if you're clueless.
@@vickythefist7062yet you wanted breast implants.
Yeah! They’re gorgeous!
I’m glad they can breathe better. If they feel better about themselves that’s all that matters.
If I were going for a job interview and they asked me about my appearance or any other overly personal question, I would just end it right there. Completely reprehensible behavior.
Not to mention report them. If the interview was with a manager, ask for HR, or if it was with HR ask for the highest person there.
Forty-eight years ago, having earned an advanced professional degree, I went to a job interview with a male employer. His first question of me: "Are you married, single, or shacking up?" I later interviewed with the same company but in an entirely different city where I was hired. Several years later I ran into that first male interviewer at a company function. Surprisingly, he took me aside and apologized profusely saying he made a terrible mistake in not hiring me. He admitted he had wanted a male for the position and not a female and asked me that question deliberately.
I think I would've left right then after that question :( @@Maggie-tr2kd
About the teeth questions in the comments; not only is it possible they didn’t mind, teeth need proper support to stay in place. When you have a deformity like a cleft lip or palette it is possible for the gums and jaw to be affected too much to properly shove teeth around.
If orthodontia may not be a viable option, I wonder if the one twin has investigated veneers, Just a thought.
This to be honest, teeth are basically fixed in a bone, so bone injuries making the teeth not perfrctly straight and aligned might also be why other solutions just aren't that great of a fix either. If it's functional for them, why make life more difficult with extra stuff to "look better", it's just not that important, they are both beautiful girls.
@@bellarina No basically about it. Teeth are attached, in the sockets, to bone by ligaments.
The cheese burger question is so relatable 😂
They were beautiful young ladies before the surgery. Great job to the doctors.
My sister was born with double hair lip and clef palate She went thru about the same ops that these girls have. it was really hard for her growing up, kids where terrible. But now she is 69 and very happy Bless these girls for their strength.
HARE lip and CLEFT palate ❤
My son Leo was just born with a cleft lip and cleft palette this past April. Its been quite a ride so far. This video both scares and relieves me. Our first lip repair surgery is this November, please pray for us!!!!!!!
sending lots of good wishes your way! ❤
I know this comment is late, but I hope the surgery went well!
Wow, they look more like identical twins after the surgery!
My husband and his younger brother both were born with severe cleft lip & palates. They dealt with bullying as well. I've had people say to me how'd you deal with your husband's scars. He's had 24 surgeries on his cleft repair/ deviated septum. I always say my husband is the most handsome man and I love every bit of him... I don't deal with his scars... I get so upset when they say it...and I usually will point out something they have that they can't change and make my point, but not in a rude way... I educate!! ❤️
Its lovely that they have each other.
I'm loving the house calls!
What beautiful young ladies and such a beautiful family. Astounding combination of innner and outer beauty. Kudos to the amazing doctors too !
They are so very pretty and seem like gracious kind people too.
Aww my niece was born with a cleft palate, I’m so proud of her after her surgeries she’s such a strong little trooper! Turning three in may
Haven't seen end results and already the girls are very pretty
I'm scarred, head to toe, from accidents, and unfortunate events. I prefer for folks to ask, rather than create their own ideas of what happened.
Good way to look at it... educate people!! Love that perspective!!
I love it when the doctors do house calls too.
I really like their personalities, outlooks on life , and also their voices. Random but I find their voices both so cute and soothing
I am so glad the beautiful twins are happy!
Just looking at them from a bit of a distance, you can't really tell! I hope it all works out for them!!
I dont understand why they didnt fix both of their lips but they seem happy with their results at least!
The one twins teeth were more effected by the cleft, I think if she got those worked out the lips would be more similar.
My goddaughter was born with a cleft lip and a slight cleft palate. She has had quite a few surgeries and she looks quite wonderful now. One of her operations was done right about the time when Michael Jackson was having a lot of plastic surgery. I remember her saying "to think that some people go through this for no reason but vanity"
The reason is often related more to mental health issues and body dysmorphia rather than simple vanity. I’m very glad your goddaughter is doing well.
Dr Nassif is a miracle worker! It’s SO fascinating to see how complex these reconstructive surgeries are; having to harvest bones and cartilage from different places of the body and using them to reconstruct a nose. I can only imagine how long his education was, but it definitely paid off!
I also think it’s horrific that anyone would have the audacity to approach these women to ask about their deformities. Especially during a job interview! WTH?
I love how twins sometimes talk like they’re one person. “Our ear, our hip bone” not ears or hips. ☺️
Identical twins are rarely 100% identical, they look pretty darn close tho!
Doctors did a good job❤️👍
They have beautiful eyes!
I am a twin that was fraternal and was the only one of us who got cleft palate. However mine was left untreated for the most part, I did have a roof to the top of my mouth tho so that was helpful! I grew up with one surgery at 15 to remove the permanent eye tooth from up in the gum but I needed that left in! So it was a mistake to remove it even if it was not coming down correctly...they could have pulled the one baby tooth left there as it was an eye tooth and adjusted this surgically as it was just at an angle, the tooth itself was healthy. This left me without an eye tooth on the left upper jawline and no other upper molars, subsequently I only had the side of my mouth stitched up at one years old. I have two jaws that are not the same size, half a nasal passage on one side of my face, two different sides of a smile where I have a dimple on one side and not the other. When I was 18, I had a five teeth extraction which took 3 hours. They removed teeth encased in my upper cheekbone as with no baby molars below, they were never going to come down. I look fairly normal and most people do not notice my issues. I chew on one side of my mouth as I have never had even baby molars on the upper left. My twin was completely normal with no defects except she told me she had a deviated septum. I do finally have a bridge I can pop in for publically going out and for pictures but I can't eat with it. My gumline on the left is as far down as teeth would be. All in all I feel pretty lucky....my nose is fine....I lost my twin to ALS three years ago...she had a perfect face! I am 60 years old now.
Romy,
Thanks for sharing! One of my best friends in HS had a cleft palate similar to these girls and I honestly never had a thought about it. She was (and is) beautiful and has always been a hit with gentlemen! However, I had no idea that this condition comes with so many other medical issues. Congratulations on 60- May you live long and prosper!!
@@miscellaneousinterests Thank you so much! May you live long and prosper as well!
They look amazing...you did a great job and gave them the ability to breathe and have a better lip...hopefully they will continue to heal emotionally...❤
Beautiful girls inside and out I'm glad they feel better and can breath but also to be confident smart athletic girls with nothing holding them back ! Great job ❤
Just wanted to say that I love their house, it's so beautiful
i love that the docs visited and they are drinking milk. these ladies are lovely
I enjoy these videos & am so happy that the good doctors help people. I am thrown that doctors make house calls! I thought that went out with the 1950's. I'll ask my doctors if they make house calls too!
as someone who was also born w a cleft lip and palate. kids can be brutal but when i grew older u dorm have the same excuses as kids when they ask. i’m 21 and still have had ppl stop convos to ask about it
They are so so sweet! I wanted to cry, beautiful twins!
There were a set of fraternal male twins in my high school. One of them was born with a cleft lip. He had a noticeable scar and slight speech impediment, but was still def one of the popular crowd. Very cool guy 💙
Happy for these beautiful young ladies ❤
My little sister and older brother both had this cleft lip… they got picked on very bad by they’re peers.
Here in the UK I'm pretty sure it's illegal to ask about someone's health condition in an interview, all they can ask is if you need any adjustments to the interview process.
It’s illegal here in the U.S. too. I’m 99% sure. Doesn’t stop them though.
They look exactly the same after surgery as they did before.
The physical difference is subtle but the most important part is their ability to breathe is much better.
Finally someon said it
They can breathe. They are cosmetically pretty much taken care of already. Their airways needed help
Their noses are widened and straightened, and you can hear their voices do a total 180. They noted they aren't having headaches like before
They look a bit different, though I'm not sure it's really prettier.
Their noses were very crooked before the surgery.
It's obvious that they're twins. They're not the perfect copy of each other but they look very similar
"But for each one to have a face deformity? I really feel for the parents." Uhh, what about the twins themselves? The ones who have to live with their deformity, endure surgeries, stigma, etc?
I think what they meant by that is that they feel for the parents having to pay for not just surgery for one child but having to pay for 2
More like if u realised ur child had a deformity that could lead to difficulty in life and people being horrible will make u feel sad that they have to go through that. When ur a good parent u worry about your child constantly.
the context is important. he said that he has twins of his own, so he can imagine how the parents felt/feel since he knows how taxing it is to have and raise twins without the added effects of a deformity
Some people embrace their differences, however, being a parent of a child with a difference you probably always feel guilty, because your child didn't get the best start.
I still am dealing with my issues as my parents never fixed mine! Luckily I had a roof to the top of my mouth where many don't. I have half a nasal passage, two difference sized jaws, I have a dimple on one side and not the other...my side scar is very minimal by my lips....I feel fortunate to be able to function pretty normall. Eating one side has taken its toll as I never had molars come down on the upper left and no teeth past the eye tooth on that upper side..only encased in bone and fused to it which was a horrible 3 hour surgery, I arrranged for myself that included in impacted molar below etc...The two surgeons thought they would break my jaw chipping those teeth out! My twin didn't have cleft palate...her face was perfect...She did have a deviated septum.
I’m so thrilled for these sweet young ladies and their parents and family 😊
Braces probably help! Been there born w/out cliff palette but luckily I had no cliff lip! But the had ears and teeth issues! Deaf in left ear w a baha implant
I grew up with two different classmates with cleft lips, one of them had an older sister with one too. It’s always been the most normal thing for me.
Now that I’m older I understand the medical side of it, even on a personal level in terms of a chronically obstructed nose, but cosmetically I still see it as such a normal kind of face to have. I guess it’s just thàt important to expose your kids to as many different things as possible so the world isn’t so foreign to them.
I absolutely love these two doctors. 😂❤
Such sweet and beautiful sisters.❤
Beautiful young ladies
Beautiful twins ❤
These lovely girls are beautiful inside out! ❤
I hope these doctors can help these twins their both cute
They are adorable
Sweet girls. Glad they are much better.
Beautiful work. They are gorgeous so I hope they can breathe better. ❤
They had a BBQ reveal at the end so they could finally have a cheeseburger and celebrate
They look the same B4 and after. They're beautiful to me
They are too beautiful girls indeed ❤❤❤Thankyou
“When am I going to be able to eat a cheeseburger?” 😭😭
Amazing good surgery ❤❤
I was born with a cleft palate.
the twins are super sweet.. l also love that holy water font.
I am in Guyana I need help can you help me
"When will I be able to have a cheeseburger?"😭🤣🤣
They look soooo amazing and beautiful!😊😊😊
I have a cleft lip/pallet and this hits home😢
Cleft lip palate is actually one of the most common anomalies. It is 1 in every 700 babies born.
cleft pallets where cute but glad they can breath better LOVE YALL
I would highly doubt if anyone asked them about their appearance at an interview
Not impressed with the results. They could have done better.
Agreed that one girls nose is still screwed up
It’s a lot better though. The bridge looks straight to me. The nostrils look a little uneven. I wonder if she could open up her right nostril by wearing something in the nose at night.
Those girl's are adorable.
I think they’re beautiful just as they are!
🌸🖤🫂✝️
as a twin myself my brothers nose is smaller
I like it but i do have a deep love for my nose!
they both look great!
Those two do a great job everytime i watch them!
I always hope and pray after every episode that the person lives better then before and they don’t have any complaints or anything! We need more follow ups!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🫂
Enjoying the show
I am Filipino male. I have bilateral cleft palate I need Plastic surgery.
My son has a cleft pip and palete and its rough with appoitments and i am terrified with his surgeries coming up or what he will go through growing up
I'm so sorry 😢
Ladies, you are beautiful and cute. I hope you're so happy in life! Docs, you are amazing!
Theyre gorgeous before and after!
Wow 😮 increíble 👋👋
The twins looked better before the surgery.
lol that would be me asking about food after.
Just don’t wanna mess something up so better to just ask lol
Why can you not get the nostrils even? You can even graft skin to make one not larger than the other. Would you be happy with the results if your nose job if your nostrils remained uneven?
These girls are so awesome!
Pretty sure he explains that in their pre surgery consultation...
Wow, they're family's genes are strong on the female side, they all look so similar
It’s against HR policy for an interviewer to ask about their facial deformity!
I had to watch over 20 minutes of commercials to watch this video
Damn, he just said they both have twins?? That's crazy!!!
Prolly just 1 more reason they're such good friends. God, especially if they're all girls, with all the shared drama and trauma lololol 😂😂
Fun fact, Downey California is home to the world's oldest McDonald's.
I dont like that he said "this is just our first surgery" the goal should be to only do one surgery. I do get that this is more complicated, so maybe it requires multiple surgeries. Idk Im not a surgeon, but I have been a patient, and I know with each revision it becomes more and more complicated.
The girls are adorable.
Anyone noticed Terry's broken glasses?😂
There was nothing wrong with with them before surgery!
Watching these huge revision is intense and scary yikes
wait they both have twins?? as in they are a twin, or they have kids who are twins?
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amazingg results
Kind of like the Olsen twins, extremely similar but not quite identical.
I think the Olsen twins are fraternal twins.
The Olsen twins aren’t genetically identical.
I feel like when you really listen to Dr Dubrow, his tv show bedside manner is just like really bad. He literally LED THEM into talking about how they were made fun of, and then as they're saying they would like to look the same he decides to point out that yeah you guys are the least alike looking identical twins I've ever seen!
That's because it's for the cameras
Idk, the prerequisite for the show I presume is to have a background on how the condition that is to be corrected have affected the person. Or here, persons. I saw another episode where one of two brothers had a deformed nose area since birth. It was an issue to him not looking like his brother, it's probably more of an issue than us without twin siblings realise. I did not see the question/comment as careless at all.