Something I learned is stop bothering people who don’t want you , specially a parent . all your life you’re given these signs and dismiss them in hopes for some smiles and laughs
@@jenlab4174 the messages is compassion...the father basically capping to avoid feeling/reliving the pain and shame of not being in his son's life. Now everyone gonna say fuck his pain what about the child and I get it but if the son not willing to feel enough compassion to at least understand what the father went/going thru why reconnect? They way out is for both of them to accept and understand each other's pain and mistakes to get thru it. And Mama can't act innocent cause she chose that man and unless they were married and he divorced her, she's just as guilty. Honestly when pops reached out moms violated by not sending him to his father. She scared to send him with this man but wasn't scared to make a baby with said man. These Mama's be full of shit.
You lose your daddy, you lose his parents, his grandparents, his siblings, his cousins, his nieces n nephews, all so mama can prove a point that didn’t need to be proved
I've been saying this for decades. You're the first person who I've ever come across to convey this. They cut their children's lives in half, which is decreasing the child, instead of increasing the child, and they call it love. It strips the child of their inheritance, for an empty flex. Great point!
Unfortunately it won’t be because there’s a lot of jewels in it. We’re so use to the mockery of others we can’t accept what CW is giving us. We’ll appreciate CW when his no longer here, unfortunately that’s how it is in our community.
Shame and guilt is crazy bro‼️ it will dradass make you feel like you not qualified for your purpose man overcoming shame is a different type of boldness.
Mannnn this is deep on many levels! I too grew up without my dad, I harbored deep resentment for him up until my early 20's, I'm forty now! Good thing tho my mom never uttered a bad word on him, she always said, I Iaid with him! On TI's second album, he has a song called "I Still Luv Ya", in that song he says "without giving me anything dad you gave me everything" those words lifted twenty some odd years of anger and resentment for my dad off me, because I knew in that moment my pain, of not knowing him had birthed an unbreakable spirit of compassion in me for kids!
Boy I got tears in my eyes as I type this... Now after my epiphany, years and years ago, I began to look at it like, who knows what issues my Dad was dealing with that lead him to not be a present father, parents are human, they're not perfect, I had to forgive him! Now fast forward, I got nieces/nephews and God kids galore, and I make a real effort to be a model for them mentally, emotionally, and spiritually! That comes from my pain...
Now fast forward some more, I have my first child at 38, unfortunately things dissolved with his mom and myself... In lieu of walking away from her she's said and done and said some of the most vile and malicious, things to me, to the point I too thought about saying fuck it and walking away! Right now at this moment I got to ask her to see my son and it hurts like hell to have to play this game, but it's thru my past pain, that I have the strength and fortitude to not give up, but fight for my son!
So to my brother's that have dealt or are dealing with that pain of daddy not being around don't run from it, embrace it, be present in it, take it in, because if you harness it correctly, it will be the fuel that will turn you into an unbreakable father!!! Be blessed my young bulls🙏🏿 RIP daddy I love you!
@@jlockwood1073 I'm sorry for your unfortunate situation, though I get the feeling it's making you strong. You really shouldn't have to go through leaps and bounds to see your child, but I guess she is a woman scorned. So the easiest and simplest thing to do is to hurt you in the worst way, and what better way to hurt a man than to take away the thing he loves the most. You told this much of the situation, so what caused the dissolving of the relationship?
@@Equandra123 thanks for your kind words... I'll say this looking back on it from my perspective, she was used to chaos and it was hard for her to do that 180 and accept peace... Not saying I'm perfect, but I attempt to provide an element of peace, because peace is what I like, so that's what imma bring! Peace can be a crazy thing if a person is used to chaos, just as chaos is crazy to a person accustomed to peace, if that makes sense...
HE ALREADY THAT....CHRIST said I will make you FISHERS OF MEN....CW used comedy and a character to catch our peoples attention cause the mindframe of most of our folk is on foolishness, thus many preachers losing members
Going through that process currently with having to ask for permission to be with my children and paying child support just to get disrespect from the kids cause they momma teaching her hate for me! This is real, now as a married man the kids feel like they not loved when it’s their momma who’s hurt and pain has been passed down!
It’ll work out. Just be patient and stay persistent. Let her grow and heal. Don’t react to what she does or says emotionally. It’ll probably just add fuel to the fire.
I love my kids and although they are grown except my 8yr old and we were inseparable, I love my baby boy and it hurts me that I can't talk to him because I had to move out of state because me and his mom were too toxic, he never seen us holding hands or sleeping in the same room, tho I left a toxic environment I miss my kids and I didn't wanna be dead Or lock down I can't be a father to him so I decided to leave and I haven't heard his Lil voice in 7 months and it hurts I want to be in my sons lives I even chose not to go to my 17yr old high school graduation cause if me and her would've linked it would have been a argument and ruined his special day, I have to live with that sacrifice forever I love my boys all 4 of them damn yo I'm sorry for venting
Yet yall SHAME the mothers who loved you enough to raise you the best way she could and not dismiss or abandon you like your fathers do right?. I'm hear to tell you "brothers" something... The sisters have PROVEN they can do without the brothers but still love yall at heart but once from the heart IS GONE.. IT'S GAME OVER FOR YOU! And trust me if yall THINK you winning by running to other races of women. That's all apart of the strategy 😉👁
Sometime in life it was better certain people wasn't around sometime we didn't miss anything until other people start telling us we did can be a blessing all depends on perception
I always said as long as a daddy ain't beating or molesting a child every child has the right to go with dad and get to know him for who he is good or bad . Cause I see many woman keep child away out of spite. So as long as there is no abuse going on the child and the father should be made to be in each other's presents. Like if you can't pay child support you should be court ordered to still spent time together.
Too 💯. Man these women act like we have no rights and even u talking about he was a stranger says alot. Haven’t seen my son in a year because I’m not kissing no bitch ass ever never, I really appreciate dude answers
The whole thing is about listening... Charleston is trying to put them up on game on where his dad's coming from assuming that he is speaking from a her place then he's just trying to help him have understanding a little clarification so you don't be lost about the situation I guess you just got to live and learn to understand what somebody's trying to give you some game
He didn’t tell his other family about you that’s why he had to continue to lie and I’m not justifying his behavior I’m just assuming the reason behind his madness. Bottom line he wrote you off because if he couldn’t sacrifice to come and spend a couple of days with you under mom’s supervision then he probably didn’t care anyway. You can ease his pain though. Stay blessed.
Permission to see my son. I look at this as 50/50. 40% the woman. 40% the men 10 % is the grwy area Some people are scum bags and they need to ask for permission
So because there’s a logical reason he shitted on his own son he gets a pass. Nahh it don’t go like that. Ridicule him as a coward as needed and allow the light of the truth to put shame on his name. If your actions bring you shame, why everybody gotta pretend it don’t matter. It do matter. All deadbeat fathers have earned NO STRIPES and only their deeds matter not their words. Words ain’t shit
Nah sounds like his momma was a control freak. Should have let her son go to his daddy. But nah she wanna be Hitler and make a man have to go through her to see his illegitimate kid. Sometimes fathers dont wanna deal with the momma. I know wealthy men who have ex wives and kids they dont see because Moms wanna play games. They cut the check every month and move to different cities/states and find new wives and make new kids.
@@aneedkassim9727 yeah it is, years later he never came he could of came late a hour, a day, a week, years, but he never showed, if he did care, he didn’t care enough
a lot of these dudes are bad people and I don’t blame the women for keeping them away from their kids. Mama baby, daddy’s maybe. I’m good with mines. Married and treat her good so my kids see a proper example. Stop making excuses for these weak ninjas.
Speaking from experience, we don’t know the full dynamic of that situation as I grew up resenting my father and after hearing his side I gained an understanding. I don’t give him justification but I see the full perspective now. This life thing so complicated and that grace is allowing me to finally have a relationship with him.
No one said he wasn’t in the wrong . But y’all want to condemn people to death over their past actions . Some of y’all be worst than the worst dictators we’ve ever seen.
I'm Autistic and do the best I can. It's something I actually didn't realize I did. It's neurological. I'll try my best to do better. It's almost like Touretts. It's very hard to not do it. I'll work on that. Thanks for watching.
She made him a stranger to you,NO mother's are always RIGHT..period. Shame and Guilt ain't keeping men and women from abandoning their biological genders.
@@blackswan43237 mam with all due respect you heard what he said his mom said “ I don’t know if i will let you go with him”. I don’t care what happens between parents nobody should keep their creation from seeing its creator.
@@plugnation6516 clearly the mom said that with good reason.. it’s really not that serious… to go back and fourth… I feel bad for the bro … and the fact his dad let his own guilt keep him from his son!
@@countrygirl8295 you must be from a foreign country,how easily you used the crackhead LIE, you only know what your MASTERS tells you,but the data don't lie, black children without a father, fills up the prisons, graveyards, and criminal justice systems,l know women like you are happy.
A lot of women ain't crap. My mother did that same thing, and I didn't meet my dad until I was 31 years old. And to this day I don't have anything to do with my mother. No need for us to ever talk again
Something I learned is stop bothering people who don’t want you , specially a parent . all your life you’re given these signs and dismiss them in hopes for some smiles and laughs
I think you missed the message
@shamWOW 💯
@@samoti3092 what’s the message
@@samoti3092 exactly
@@jenlab4174 the messages is compassion...the father basically capping to avoid feeling/reliving the pain and shame of not being in his son's life. Now everyone gonna say fuck his pain what about the child and I get it but if the son not willing to feel enough compassion to at least understand what the father went/going thru why reconnect? They way out is for both of them to accept and understand each other's pain and mistakes to get thru it. And Mama can't act innocent cause she chose that man and unless they were married and he divorced her, she's just as guilty. Honestly when pops reached out moms violated by not sending him to his father. She scared to send him with this man but wasn't scared to make a baby with said man. These Mama's be full of shit.
Shame will make you hide from God….. that’s deep
Adam hid from God in the Bible out of shame. Shame is a weapon from the enemy
CW never fail to speak truth‼️
You lose your daddy, you lose his parents, his grandparents, his siblings, his cousins, his nieces n nephews, all so mama can prove a point that didn’t need to be proved
I've been saying this for decades. You're the first person who I've ever come across to convey this. They cut their children's lives in half, which is decreasing the child, instead of increasing the child, and they call it love.
It strips the child of their inheritance, for an empty flex. Great point!
Charleston has a lot of wisdom….!
Man this video need to be own every platform
Unfortunately it won’t be because there’s a lot of jewels in it. We’re so use to the mockery of others we can’t accept what CW is giving us. We’ll appreciate CW when his no longer here, unfortunately that’s how it is in our community.
Shame and guilt is crazy bro‼️ it will dradass make you feel like you not qualified for your purpose man overcoming shame is a different type of boldness.
CW is a breath of fresh air Foreal Foreal. Cant deny that
This hit deep
Mannnn this is deep on many levels! I too grew up without my dad, I harbored deep resentment for him up until my early 20's, I'm forty now! Good thing tho my mom never uttered a bad word on him, she always said, I Iaid with him! On TI's second album, he has a song called "I Still Luv Ya", in that song he says "without giving me anything dad you gave me everything" those words lifted twenty some odd years of anger and resentment for my dad off me, because I knew in that moment my pain, of not knowing him had birthed an unbreakable spirit of compassion in me for kids!
Boy I got tears in my eyes as I type this... Now after my epiphany, years and years ago, I began to look at it like, who knows what issues my Dad was dealing with that lead him to not be a present father, parents are human, they're not perfect, I had to forgive him! Now fast forward, I got nieces/nephews and God kids galore, and I make a real effort to be a model for them mentally, emotionally, and spiritually! That comes from my pain...
Now fast forward some more, I have my first child at 38, unfortunately things dissolved with his mom and myself... In lieu of walking away from her she's said and done and said some of the most vile and malicious, things to me, to the point I too thought about saying fuck it and walking away! Right now at this moment I got to ask her to see my son and it hurts like hell to have to play this game, but it's thru my past pain, that I have the strength and fortitude to not give up, but fight for my son!
So to my brother's that have dealt or are dealing with that pain of daddy not being around don't run from it, embrace it, be present in it, take it in, because if you harness it correctly, it will be the fuel that will turn you into an unbreakable father!!! Be blessed my young bulls🙏🏿 RIP daddy I love you!
@@jlockwood1073 I'm sorry for your unfortunate situation, though I get the feeling it's making you strong. You really shouldn't have to go through leaps and bounds to see your child, but I guess she is a woman scorned. So the easiest and simplest thing to do is to hurt you in the worst way, and what better way to hurt a man than to take away the thing he loves the most. You told this much of the situation, so what caused the dissolving of the relationship?
@@Equandra123 thanks for your kind words... I'll say this looking back on it from my perspective, she was used to chaos and it was hard for her to do that 180 and accept peace... Not saying I'm perfect, but I attempt to provide an element of peace, because peace is what I like, so that's what imma bring! Peace can be a crazy thing if a person is used to chaos, just as chaos is crazy to a person accustomed to peace, if that makes sense...
Very deep assessment!
He on to something
CW wisdom in this interview is next level. Salute.
Charleston for president
Man that brother speaking truth bullets
SHAME AND GUILT WILL KEEP U AWAY FROM GOD 😩💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 THE DEVILS BIGGEST TRICK TOO KEEP U IN SIN
WOW 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 CW
Dat message was for me fo sho ,hit me like a Lock in a Sock...Amen C.W.
Charleston is about to be a prophet
HE ALREADY THAT....CHRIST said I will make you FISHERS OF MEN....CW used comedy and a character to catch our peoples attention cause the mindframe of most of our folk is on foolishness, thus many preachers losing members
Man stop it. He making excuses for another man that don't want to accept responsibility.
@@larrycampbell6784 responsibility of not having a father in his life ok. Or responsibility of not recognizing what's destroying our communities
He spitting truth but he's not yeshua calm down
@@klavle3684 who is yeshua sounds like something you order off the Chinese food menu 😂
so many mothers has kept children away from their fathers! ( fathers always ain't the problem)
Cw always on point with Good Game
Going through that process currently with having to ask for permission to be with my children and paying child support just to get disrespect from the kids cause they momma teaching her hate for me! This is real, now as a married man the kids feel like they not loved when it’s their momma who’s hurt and pain has been passed down!
I'm going through the same thing brother but keep ya head up this shyt is not for the weak.
It’ll work out. Just be patient and stay persistent. Let her grow and heal. Don’t react to what she does or says emotionally. It’ll probably just add fuel to the fire.
Prayers up for you bruh, I too am currently going thru similar... Stay diligent
@@ryonworthy7990 prayers for you too bruh... The kids say stay dangerous, I like to say stay diligent!
Healing and reasoning
This channel is on the rise!
This hit 🎯🙏
Once again cw dropping facts
I love my kids and although they are grown except my 8yr old and we were inseparable, I love my baby boy and it hurts me that I can't talk to him because I had to move out of state because me and his mom were too toxic, he never seen us holding hands or sleeping in the same room, tho I left a toxic environment I miss my kids and I didn't wanna be dead Or lock down I can't be a father to him so I decided to leave and I haven't heard his Lil voice in 7 months and it hurts I want to be in my sons lives I even chose not to go to my 17yr old high school graduation cause if me and her would've linked it would have been a argument and ruined his special day, I have to live with that sacrifice forever I love my boys all 4 of them damn yo I'm sorry for venting
This dude Charleston White be speaking some Gems 💎
Brothers remember this don't matter if you have a father that ain't shit he still your father look at him and his mistakes and do better than he did
Yet yall SHAME the mothers who loved you enough to raise you the best way she could and not dismiss or abandon you like your fathers do right?. I'm hear to tell you "brothers" something... The sisters have PROVEN they can do without the brothers but still love yall at heart but once from the heart IS GONE..
IT'S GAME OVER FOR YOU! And trust me if yall THINK you winning by running to other races of women.
That's all apart of the strategy 😉👁
@@ytallowskids2seedepravityb219 well idk anything about that don't doesn't apply to me I give credit to mothers and fathers check my resume..
I don’t think women raise the best kids when a good father figure isn’t around
@@underworldmobrecords a women cannot raise a man women raise daughters men raise men because iron sharpers iron
Good stuff man hope u continue this up we need this information and interviews all of them shout of to the podcast and MR C.W.
Let’s get this channel to 10k subs!!
Sometime in life it was better certain people wasn't around sometime we didn't miss anything until other people start telling us we did can be a blessing all depends on perception
He spoke some rs I’m going thru it right now
Charleston is a very wise Man.
That's powerful
Great interview!!!No Cap fam you should put this voicover with a trap beat your adlib "RIGHT"
But unfortunately it's the lack of shame and guilt that will be our final downfall.
Charleston White a therapist now
Literally
I always said as long as a daddy ain't beating or molesting a child every child has the right to go with dad and get to know him for who he is good or bad . Cause I see many woman keep child away out of spite. So as long as there is no abuse going on the child and the father should be made to be in each other's presents. Like if you can't pay child support you should be court ordered to still spent time together.
that boy got the big boy whiskey glass true texan
I understand I deal with this
Better to have never see you then see you once then never again.
He was afraid of taking on the addiction of seeing his seed.
Out of sight out of mind
Too 💯. Man these women act like we have no rights and even u talking about he was a stranger says alot. Haven’t seen my son in a year because I’m not kissing no bitch ass ever never, I really appreciate dude answers
Brilliant
Give CW his credit on giving all PC their flowers regardless of the foundation of the platform.
Tru guilt shame will take you somewhere,admit your wrongs and move on
is this crip mac podcast CW u said it!!!
I’m still wondering if the man he called is the same man his mother put him on the phone with when he was a kid
Talk to em cw
The whole thing is about listening... Charleston is trying to put them up on game on where his dad's coming from assuming that he is speaking from a her place then he's just trying to help him have understanding a little clarification so you don't be lost about the situation I guess you just got to live and learn to understand what somebody's trying to give you some game
Right
He didn’t tell his other family about you that’s why he had to continue to lie and I’m not justifying his behavior I’m just assuming the reason behind his madness. Bottom line he wrote you off because if he couldn’t sacrifice to come and spend a couple of days with you under mom’s supervision then he probably didn’t care anyway. You can ease his pain though. Stay blessed.
CW💯
Permission to see my son. I look at this as 50/50. 40% the woman. 40% the men 10 % is the grwy area
Some people are scum bags and they need to ask for permission
So because there’s a logical reason he shitted on his own son he gets a pass. Nahh it don’t go like that. Ridicule him as a coward as needed and allow the light of the truth to put shame on his name.
If your actions bring you shame, why everybody gotta pretend it don’t matter. It do matter. All deadbeat fathers have earned NO STRIPES and only their deeds matter not their words. Words ain’t shit
But shame and guilt is what the god from the bible wants us to feel
He didn’t show up
Cause he ain’t care
Nah sounds like his momma was a control freak. Should have let her son go to his daddy. But nah she wanna be Hitler and make a man have to go through her to see his illegitimate kid.
Sometimes fathers dont wanna deal with the momma. I know wealthy men who have ex wives and kids they dont see because Moms wanna play games. They cut the check every month and move to different cities/states and find new wives and make new kids.
not always that cut and dry.
No excuse not to be there for your kid… not one
@@aneedkassim9727 yeah it is, years later he never came he could of came late a hour, a day, a week, years, but he never showed, if he did care, he didn’t care enough
@@blackswan43237 ah i see you’ve done this to someone before and u go blame them
a lot of these dudes are bad people and I don’t blame the women for keeping them away from their kids. Mama baby, daddy’s maybe. I’m good with mines. Married and treat her good so my kids see a proper example. Stop making excuses for these weak ninjas.
Naw fr💯
Mama was right tho
Speaking from experience, we don’t know the full dynamic of that situation as I grew up resenting my father and after hearing his side I gained an understanding. I don’t give him justification but I see the full perspective now. This life thing so complicated and that grace is allowing me to finally have a relationship with him.
How mom was right do yk the situation???
He wrong in this one. Mamas baby, daddy’s maybe.
Dad probably was on Drugs
I disagree his dad was in the wrong then and now
No one said he wasn’t in the wrong . But y’all want to condemn people to death over their past actions . Some of y’all be worst than the worst dictators we’ve ever seen.
You missed the message I see
@@samoti3092 I didn't goofy
@@hellnaw3127 who is y'all? Get out your feelings I always rock with Charleston
@@myfathersson3751 boy ya sound hurt
Sound likr his mom might have been talking to a different man. Ijs
Stop saying right so much and just listen
I'm Autistic and do the best I can. It's something I actually didn't realize I did. It's neurological. I'll try my best to do better. It's almost like Touretts. It's very hard to not do it. I'll work on that. Thanks for watching.
We ❤yuuuuuu
Gaslighting.
Most BS I've heard in awhile
She made him a stranger to you,NO mother's are always RIGHT..period.
Shame and Guilt ain't keeping men and women from abandoning their biological genders.
He made hisself a stranger
@@blackswan43237 mam with all due respect you heard what he said his mom said “ I don’t know if i will let you go with him”. I don’t care what happens between parents nobody should keep their creation from seeing its creator.
@@plugnation6516 clearly the mom said that with good reason.. it’s really not that serious… to go back and fourth… I feel bad for the bro … and the fact his dad let his own guilt keep him from his son!
Please tht dad could've been a crackhead who don't have a stable home........I wouldn't send my kid with him either
@@countrygirl8295 you must be from a foreign country,how easily you used the crackhead LIE, you only know what your MASTERS tells you,but the data don't lie, black children without a father, fills up the prisons, graveyards, and criminal justice systems,l know women like you are happy.
Bro the intro 😂Mac 2 decimals to loud🦅🫡🙏🤪🗣️
Blessit real dialogue n communication
A lot of women ain't crap. My mother did that same thing, and I didn't meet my dad until I was 31 years old. And to this day I don't have anything to do with my mother. No need for us to ever talk again
GOVERNMENT MAKE IT ONE SIDED...AND YOU DOING WHAT THEY WANT YOU TO...
CW RUCKUS don’t believe in GOD though