Tiffany, a problem shared is a problem halved. By saying everything out loud you're allowing yourself to process what's going on. You're always trying to protect everyone but everyone wants to protect you, so please open up. You're doing amazing and allow emotions to flow. I'm six years cancer free from stage 3b lung cancer and have a CT scan 26th and nearer the date will be exactly how you're feeling, scared stiff. Until doctors say otherwise you're still cancer free and with the love of your beautiful family and friends you will come back smiling. We got this💙 for you Tiffany now and always. Love Bernie Dublin ☘️
Hi Tiffany.. be Strong, Positive nd be Brave.. yes! You have been through the worst... God has a purpose for you... I prophesy on you...A Miracle has happened and your Pet Scsn is going to be normal. You take care. Love you. God bless you🙏🥰♥️ Chin Up....MARIAH 🇱🇰 (SRI LANKA)
For us cancer fighters the answer is yes, we will always hold our breath every time we have any scans. I’ve been doing it for 12 years now and still have scans every 4 months due to a little growth and do a chemo infusion every month. It’s ok Tiffany you are allowed to be afraid, we all are. We got this! ❤
How can you not be sad? You are human and get to feel how you feel. Your attitude is your saving grace as well as the love and support of everyone who holds you dear.
Hi Tiffany, from Ottawa, Canada! I am a longtime subscriber but this is my first comment. I totally understand your anxiety thinking about your scan outcome. I also know you are a woman of strong faith, as I am. I want to remind you of an old saying, but which is still very effective: Let go and let God! In your prayers, offer up your uncertainty and anxiety and say, " I am leaving it in your hands now, Lord." Once you do this, give up your worry and fear b/c you have given your burden to God and you know he will take care of it. I know this is easier said than done, but it works, and it will work for you. Keep the faith and get on with your life in the meantime. God bless you always, Tiffany!
Very well said, I am 10 years cancer free and have had many many years of worry each time testing comes around. We got this, Burlington, Ontario, Canada
I hate you have to feel so down! Praying for great results for you! Hold on but cry when you need to. That is not a bad thing! We all love you so much! You Got This!
We have ALL GOT THIS!!! Lung nodules are incredibly common but with everything you have been through I know why you are concerned! I have great feelings about your results Tiffany! I am praying for you!
they are common but what's not common is if you have no lung nodules and then after cancer you all the sudden have a lung nodule that's not good. if the nodule is in the apex which is a very common area for CRC to go then it's more than likely cancer. if its a GGN there's a 50/50 shot if its a PFN then its almost 100% nothing to worry about.
Tiffany we are all here for you you are loved by so many people,you are an inspiration anyone who has had cancer will tell you its very stressful before each scan so this is normal you have got this Tiffany ❤❤❤❤
Just think of it this way Tiffany, a follow up pet scan after what you've been through is an excellent idea. Try to see it as a positive that if any region is misbehaving it will light up and you'll be sorting it nice and early. So the scan is actually a positive, regardless of the reason it is being scheduled 🥰
You are ALWAYS allowed to feel ANY way you feel. You can’t control your feelings dear girl. Sending you a warm hug from someone who knows how you feel💙
Poor you 💔 Only the one that have got diagnosed with cancer knows too well the feeling you have right now, sweetest Tiffany 💙💙💙 It’s nerve racking and totally understandable! I cross my fingers for you and hope and pray for good result after the PET-scan 🍀🤞🍀💙💙💙 Love you SO much 💙💙💙
Tiffany, please try not to worry hun, you’ve got this. Remember it is what it is, you’ve got lots of support, I know you’re scared too, try to leave this with God, love you your nephew is so cute and cuddly looking 💕
Tiffany, as a fellow cancer survivor, I know what you are saying.I'm quite a few years out but it really does get easier.I found if you keep positive and keep up your cancer checkups and get all your tests done, you just need to be your own advocate .Get your test results promptly, ask your Drs questions, no matter how stupid you may think they are( they're not!) and be aware of your body and how it feels to you, you are the one who knows better than anyone else what's normal and what's not for you.Sorry for the book but I hate seeing you full of worry and fear.Tale care and that nodule will probably be nothing but a granuloma, no worries.🫠💙🩵💙🩵💙
Tiff . You are so brave, and your positive attitude through all of your adversity is admirable. I pray that you are blessed with great health 🙏 God bless you 💙💙💙
It's natural to be worried. I took my dad for his 1st colonoscopy 21 years ago. They found stage 3 colon cancer. He had no symptoms. He had surgery and chemo, and he's still large and in charge today at 90 years old. Every time he goes for his cancer check-up and bloodwork, even 21 years later, he still worries a bit. The key is to do exactly what he does, and what you are doing. Go for all your check-ups and stay on top of things. You have so many people in your life who love you and are there for you. You are so strong and an incredible fighter. You will be fine. You've already fought the biggest fight. Have fun with your adorable nephew!
Talking out your anxiety is such a good thing to do. I know i would feel like you. One minute you're sure its fine and next minute you're going down that rabbit hole of the worst scenario. Such a roller coaster. You just need to know and move forward. No matter what though, you WILL be ok. You WILL have your life and all the joy you deserve. Hang in there. You got this. You really do 💕
Tiffany you are so loved and so respected in this community. Obviously nobody knows the future but whatever happens, we're in this together. You will never be alone in this. Worst case - and hopefully it's nothing -> they caught it super early so easily defeated. God bless you!
This is so perfectly normal Tiff!! Part of your fear is that you HAVE been thru the worst and I am sure a part of you would not want to have to go thru it again! Never doubt your emotions. So much is out of your control at this time. I feel strongly that you are gonna be just fine and we are all here as your army to lift you up thru the wait. Much love from Canada 🇨🇦 🩵💙🩵💙
You have every right to feel overwhelmed. Being in that tunnel can be very triggering, given what you’ve been through, fought through and survived. You’re as strong as you need to be no matter what.✨💙✨
I’m glad vlogging is a sort of therapy for you! Don’t worry about rambling if it was helping getting you through the scan! I would be scared if I was in your position too it’s hard not to think the worst!! Good luck! We got this💙!
Hi Tiffany, I’m in awe of your optimism and of your brain. You are such an amazing human. it’s so hard to remain positive with life in general these days let alone when you have cancer. I just love you and think of you often. You’ve helped me so very much. Much love from Ginny and Otto and the fur babies Darby and Narla
Being scared in your situation is normal. Give yourself some grace Tiffany. The good part of this thing is you are getting scanned quickly and your results will be available quickly. At least you didn’t have to wait for a long period of time….I know it’s easier said than done but you can do this. We are all praying and sending positive thoughts. Take care my friend.
Avoiding your emotions is a kin to living in a fantasy world. Once you have a life-threatening health issue, you can’t live in a fantasy world anymore. I think this is reflected in your fear of showing emotion, and also in your desire to return in your mind to Paris. The time when you could tune out all the bad stuff that’s happened. I hope the scans come back with nothing for you to be worried about. You’ve been through a lot and you shouldn’t have to go through more. But use this as a reminder that you have to stay in the present moment and not try to escape by avoiding your feelings. It’s normal to be sad. Sending much love Tiffany. ❤️❤️
I’m right there with you. Had my last scan on my liver on August 31st, and my Followup today. The news was good, and I’ll be having another at the end of December. Then. If everything is ok, it’ll be every six months.
Sending lots of prayers for you Tiffany. God willing your tests will come back all clear. You’re a very strong young woman and you’ve got this! Lots of love from Canada.🇨🇦
Tiffany sending you love, hugs and prayers at this difficult time. Stay positive and never be afraid to show your emotions! You have had a rough few years. Stay positive and know your army is here for you always. Prayers for a happy positive outcome. Happy Birthday to Matt. May you both have a happy wonderful day celebrating. Much love to all of you!
Tiffany, even though you have gone through more than most people have, each new experience is exactly that, a new experience. You are allowed to be sad more than once. Each experience evokes its own emotions. My prayers are with you. God will give you strength to get through whatever you must face.
I know what you mean by going to the worst scenario. I do the same everytime. I had a CT scan today, my first one since my bilateral mastectomy last year. I had to drink a lot, 900 ml of barium suspension, and iodine in an IV. I won't get the results until Monday at the oncologist appointment. What a way to ruin a weekend! I shouldn't complain because I have an amazing team of professionals and a supportive circle of family and friends. I wish you the best.
The nature of your video shows the incredible mental challenges that come with a cancer diagnosis. You are right when you say you’ve been through the hard part - which is the physical treatments you’ve endured. After successful physical treatment, there is an incredible mental challenge for many cancer survivors. The fear of recurrence. I recently joined a colorectal cancer support group, even though it’s been several years since my treatment was completed. I think it would be helpful for you to consider doing something similar. I had nodules in my lungs appear in CT and PET scans. I’ve been told not to worry about them. Sometimes scans don’t offer perfect information about what is going on in your body. I understand your fears, which I have as well, though I tend to suppress them. I hope your PET scan proves you are still cancer free and provides you with some stress relief.
Hey Tiffany, allow yourself to feel whatever you feel. You don’t have to be strong every day. Only those who wear the shoes know exactly how it fits. Give yourself some grace.
Tiffany, tears/crying are not weakness they are what make us human~ when you feel like crying do it. There are so many things that the tears help. Keeping things bottled up is not good. There are medical studies that show our crying tears have different chemicals in them than our regular tears (do you know this being an optometrist)? When we don't cry when we need to it actually can harm our heart, literally, some of the chemicals in our tears when crying, go after our heart. These a medical studies reported on in the USA. We can experience a lot of healing when we allow ourselves to feel and react to whatever is going on in our life. I completely get where you are coming from. I have 2 terminal diseases that there is no cure for and I probably have about a yr left in my earth suit. Having said this, I am actually quite grateful as I don't take my life or day to day for granted. I continue to send positive thoughts and energy your way, my dear. You have been doing an incredible job with all that you have been through.
You are so much stronger than you think Tiffany!! You have shown so much grace through this journey of yours. Please don’t be so hard on yourself! We are here for you when you need us! Love you ❤, Ann
Thank you for sharing yourself with us. Of course you are frightened of the outcome. You are calmer than I would be in the same circumstance. You are admired and loved, young lady! Hope you know that. WE GOT THIS!!!!!!!
Being frightened is okay...leaning in to your loved one's is okay...and knowing that each of us here are in your pocket praying for you and supporting you. You are well loved, Tiff...so well loved.
Ms Tiffany I would love to give you a hug right now. You are so strong and it’s ok to cry luv. We go through bumps all throughout life. My daddy has non-Hodgkin’s lymph Phoma and has had ups and downs too. Praying and sending love and strength luv! Big hugs
PTSD is real regarding all you have been through. Love the garden bench and WTP quote is so perfect. Keep your sunny up but to get there feel the sadness, we don’t mind, as you are an inspiration to us all. Therapy is so helpful for me on my cancer journey. 🩵👼🏻🩵
Living with cancer you have one very important thing that I don't and that is loving and supportive family. Scans are always anxiety producing and support would just be lovely. A hug and encouragement would make the biggest difference. You are blessed.
Tiffany you have come through such a major surgery with such bravery and positivity. It’s so understandable that you don’t want to be dealing with this 😢. Be strong and hold on strong. 🩵
I sincerely wish you will Tiff. I just got out of Hospital for diverticulitis and it sucked I worried about my mortality all night when i was told i had a perforated colon. It turned out the tear was small and anti biotics worked. I couldn't imagine what you've been through and i KNOW i wouldn't be as strong as you have been. You are a tower of strength and firmly believe you got this.
Tiffany we are all praying that everything is going to be fine and that your wonderful team are just being super precautious with any little thing they see. Aston has grown and he's such a gorgeous little boy and i love how you both have Crocs on as they are bugely popular today. Love you and remember We Got This Xxx
Tiffany....I watch you such owe.....I love how you address and communicate your feelings....something I wish I could do effectively. You're an inspiration
You know what Tiffany, if you want to cry then you cry, if you want to laugh then go ahead and laugh your socks off. There is no right or wrong. We’re all here for you, you talk away because we’ll all listen. It’s so lovely to see Amma, I hope she felt a calmness at the retreat. You message any one of us if you need us. We’ll be here for you. Much love to you all, Niki 🧡 💙💙💙✅✅✅
Aston looks so grown up! I'm happy he stayed with you as a wonderful distraction. I can't say I know how u feel, but I do know I think an awful lot of you for your attitude, sweet family, and open ❤. No matter what, WE GOT THIS
Tiffany, you have every right to be scared. Cancer is very cruel. If "pretending" everything is fine works for you, do that. If you're saying that but not really feeling it, push yourself to feel fine. The mind/body connection is amazing and sometimes what we think affects our bodies. Your family is with you whatever road you must travel. 💕💕
We love you Tiffany! Whenever you feel sad please put your head on your mom's shoulder and cry. Don't hesitate to cry. Let go of all that is inside you! Never feel bad about being sad or scared. When I watch you, i see the strongest person I know so please give credit to yourself. I'm even scared to go see the doctor so imagine how I would feel goong through what you are going through. You've got this!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
You are a remarkable person, like an angel on earth. Its easy to say to be strong but until a person goes through a life threatening illness they can never trully understand the fear and anxiety. I really hope everything will be okay Tiffany. Sending thoughts and prayers to you.
Tiffany its okay to be sad and not to be strong all the time, deal with your emotions and don't keep it bottled up inside. You are in my thoughts and prayers🙏 You got this❤
Hello beautiful Tiffany, sending good vibes and prayers. I have a feeling everything is good. You got this!! Lots of love from my family to yours!!🙏🙏💙💙🙏🙏
You are utterly amazing, Tiffany! Total love and respect to you! Just keep going! Totally extraordinary journey - supporting you all the way! Sending you much good luck and fortune for the coming days! Total admiration for you and your family
You are amazing, sweet Tiffany. It is so normal are a cancer diagnosis to be scared of the scans and having your mind race around with what ifs. We are all here for you and we are praying just like always. 💙🩵💙🩵
Oh darling, just be you, of course you can feel sad 😢, you are human, give yourself permission to feel whatever you want ❤ You’ve got this and we’re all here with you xx
I wish I could give you the biggest hug. 🥰🥰 You are brave and have such a positive attitude. You remind me of me and my thought patterns with coping through chronic illness. You've got this!! ❤😘
It’s natural for you to have fear. You are allowed to feel what you feel. The more you negate your sadness, the more it grows. Your feelings and your sadness are valid. We are all thinking of you.💜 We’re pulling for you Tiffany!💜💕 Hang in there.🙏🏽 Breathe.💙 Love the bench!👍🏽 You’ve got this!❤💕
Tiffany you are such a warrior your strong your very positive and it’s perfectly ok to feel the way your feeling - who wouldn’t - just know that we have such a loving God and you can pour all your anxieties onto him and he will get you through anything🙏❤️ sending you love thx for sharing all these videos with us you make us happy just as much as we do you 😀💕😀
Hey Tiffany, I was so happy for you when your tests after the surgery came back negative. It’s so difficult having those scary uncertain moments come back, but we’re all hoping for the best outcome! Good luck to you dear, and keep your beautiful chin up! ❤
I am praying that you will have the good report like I did recently. My PET scan showed NED! No evidence of the Melanoma after 8 months of Keytruda infusions every three weeks. YOU GOT THIS Tiffany!!❤ Best wishes from Michigan, USA
I don't like most Christmas movies. They make everything magical, and sadly it isn't for many people. I think the month of October should only have Halloween movies. The middle of November, they can start to have Christmas movies. My favorite Christmas movie is The Bishop's Wife, I'm not the Grinch after all!
Stay positive Tiffany. Don’t overthink. Your a overcomer! You have the right support team and this too shall pass. We’re praying for the best. We got this! Sending positive energy and prayers, hugs 🫂 ❤
Tiffany it’s only natural to be scared. I think it’s irrational to not be scared sweetheart. I’m terrified every time I have scans. Scanxiety is a real thing. I have breast cancer fr the 3rd time. I’ve been having chemo weekly until recently every week for a year. I’m starting a new treatment on the 18th. I wear my We’ve Got This merch every time I go for scans. I wear a vey oversized WGT sweatshirt for chemo. My friends, family and medical staff are all quoting your merch, even the tick tick tick shirt. I live near Tulsa Oklahoma but recently went to MD ANDERSON in Houston Texas for surgery. They are a world renowned cancer hospital. Everything went great and even my husband wore one of my WGT sweatshirts while I had surgery and on the plane coming home. You are absolutely amazing. I feel like you are family. Prayers for your health. God has plans for you my dear. If this is cancer WE GOT THIS and GOD has this.
Tiff it is normal to feel the way you do before a test. I have been a breast cancer survivor for seven years went through chemo and radiation both. I worry before each labwork or test I get. It helps to talk about this. By the way, Aston is adorable and has grown so much. Remember you got this, we do! 💙💙
Tiffany, a problem shared is a problem halved. By saying everything out loud you're allowing yourself to process what's going on. You're always trying to protect everyone but everyone wants to protect you, so please open up. You're doing amazing and allow emotions to flow. I'm six years cancer free from stage 3b lung cancer and have a CT scan 26th and nearer the date will be exactly how you're feeling, scared stiff. Until doctors say otherwise you're still cancer free and with the love of your beautiful family and friends you will come back smiling. We got this💙 for you Tiffany now and always. Love Bernie Dublin ☘️
Wishing you all the best Birn. God Bless you.🕊🌿🤍
Thank you so much ❤️
Hi Tiffany.. be Strong, Positive nd be Brave.. yes! You have been through the worst... God has a purpose for you... I prophesy on you...A Miracle has happened and your Pet Scsn is going to be normal. You take care. Love you. God bless you🙏🥰♥️ Chin Up....MARIAH 🇱🇰 (SRI LANKA)
Yes indeed 100%
Bravo 👏🏼 👏🏼, lung warrior here as well!! Best to you and may you’re granted many more healthy years!!!!
For us cancer fighters the answer is yes, we will always hold our breath every time we have any scans. I’ve been doing it for 12 years now and still have scans every 4 months due to a little growth and do a chemo infusion every month. It’s ok Tiffany you are allowed to be afraid, we all are. We got this! ❤
You got this too, and I am sending you good vibes!🥰
Wow you are so brave. 12 years is an amazing amount of stress and bravery. Sending strength and kind thoughts to you
I was going to say the same thing, Love you all !!!!
Totally agree as a stage 4 warrior myself…. It’s tough! stay strong lovely 💪🏼 we got this 💙💙💙
Totally agree I had breast cancer 2 years ago fear of recurrence is terrible at times and scan anxiety 😟
How can you not be sad? You are human and get to feel how you feel. Your attitude is your saving grace as well as the love and support of everyone who holds you dear.
You have the support and love of your followers. We lift you up in prayer and are always here for you. Keep your chin up, Tiffany.
You have so much love for kids. it’s very wholesome to watch your bond with your nephew ❤
Wishing for the best results. Love seeing Astin again.
Hi Tiffany, from Ottawa, Canada! I am a longtime subscriber but this is my first comment. I totally understand your anxiety thinking about your scan outcome. I also know you are a woman of strong faith, as I am. I want to remind you of an old saying, but which is still very effective: Let go and let God! In your prayers, offer up your uncertainty and anxiety and say, " I am leaving it in your hands now, Lord." Once you do this, give up your worry and fear b/c you have given your burden to God and you know he will take care of it. I know this is easier said than done, but it works, and it will work for you. Keep the faith and get on with your life in the meantime. God bless you always, Tiffany!
Very well said, I am 10 years cancer free and have had many many years of worry each time testing comes around. We got this, Burlington, Ontario, Canada
Everything you’re feeling is normal. You’ve been through so much. I think it’s wonderful that you’re volunteering there! God bless you!
I hate you have to feel so down! Praying for great results for you! Hold on but cry when you need to. That is not a bad thing! We all love you so much! You Got This!
We have ALL GOT THIS!!! Lung nodules are incredibly common but with everything you have been through I know why you are concerned! I have great feelings about your results Tiffany! I am praying for you!
they are common but what's not common is if you have no lung nodules and then after cancer you all the sudden have a lung nodule that's not good. if the nodule is in the apex which is a very common area for CRC to go then it's more than likely cancer. if its a GGN there's a 50/50 shot if its a PFN then its almost 100% nothing to worry about.
Always in MY Thoughts and Prayer Sweet Tiffany . Everything's going to be ok
You got this Tiff❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🇿🇦
They are very common my son and I both have it 🙏❤ it will be ok dear
Tiffany we are all here for you you are loved by so many people,you are an inspiration anyone who has had cancer will tell you its very stressful before each scan so this is normal you have got this Tiffany ❤❤❤❤
Just think of it this way Tiffany, a follow up pet scan after what you've been through is an excellent idea. Try to see it as a positive that if any region is misbehaving it will light up and you'll be sorting it nice and early. So the scan is actually a positive, regardless of the reason it is being scheduled 🥰
Thinking of you Tiffany. Nothing can take away the stress and worry that scans will bring to people like us, but please know that you are not alone xx
You are ALWAYS allowed to feel ANY way you feel. You can’t control your feelings dear girl. Sending you a warm hug from someone who knows how you feel💙
Poor you 💔 Only the one that have got diagnosed with cancer knows too well the feeling you have right now, sweetest Tiffany 💙💙💙 It’s nerve racking and totally understandable! I cross my fingers for you and hope and pray for good result after the PET-scan 🍀🤞🍀💙💙💙 Love you SO much 💙💙💙
Our thoughts, prayers and hugs are here for you. I hope you can feel their warmth Tiffany ❤
You’re scared Tiffany… and it’s ok. This moment is all that you need to worry about. WE GOT THIS💙
Beautiful comment @simpletruth119...another opportunity to practice being in the moment, letting go and caring for yourself...
We Got This! 💙 Thinking of you and sending you lots of love. Xx
Tiffany sending prayers and love thinking of you,!!🫂🫂hugs, and love,
Tiffany, please try not to worry hun, you’ve got this. Remember it is what it is, you’ve got lots of support, I know you’re scared too, try to leave this with God, love you your nephew is so cute and cuddly looking 💕
Tiffany, as a fellow cancer survivor, I know what you are saying.I'm quite a few years out but it really does get easier.I found if you keep positive and keep up your cancer checkups and get all your tests done, you just need to be your own advocate .Get your test results promptly, ask your Drs questions, no matter how stupid you may think they are( they're not!) and be aware of your body and how it feels to you, you are the one who knows better than anyone else what's normal and what's not for you.Sorry for the book but I hate seeing you full of worry and fear.Tale care and that nodule will probably be nothing but a granuloma, no worries.🫠💙🩵💙🩵💙
Tiff . You are so brave, and your positive attitude through all of your adversity is admirable. I pray that you are blessed with great health 🙏 God bless you 💙💙💙
It's natural to be worried. I took my dad for his 1st colonoscopy 21 years ago. They found stage 3 colon cancer. He had no symptoms. He had surgery and chemo, and he's still large and in charge today at 90 years old. Every time he goes for his cancer check-up and bloodwork, even 21 years later, he still worries a bit. The key is to do exactly what he does, and what you are doing. Go for all your check-ups and stay on top of things. You have so many people in your life who love you and are there for you. You are so strong and an incredible fighter. You will be fine. You've already fought the biggest fight. Have fun with your adorable nephew!
Talking out your anxiety is such a good thing to do. I know i would feel like you. One minute you're sure its fine and next minute you're going down that rabbit hole of the worst scenario. Such a roller coaster. You just need to know and move forward. No matter what though, you WILL be ok. You WILL have your life and all the joy you deserve. Hang in there. You got this. You really do 💕
Tiffany you are so loved and so respected in this community. Obviously nobody knows the future but whatever happens, we're in this together. You will never be alone in this. Worst case - and hopefully it's nothing -> they caught it super early so easily defeated. God bless you!
Your nephew is precious!!
Prayers for good results 💙
This is so perfectly normal Tiff!! Part of your fear is that you HAVE been thru the worst and I am sure a part of you would not want to have to go thru it again! Never doubt your emotions. So much is out of your control at this time. I feel strongly that you are gonna be just fine and we are all here as your army to lift you up thru the wait. Much love from Canada 🇨🇦 🩵💙🩵💙
You have every right to feel overwhelmed. Being in that tunnel can be very triggering, given what you’ve been through, fought through and survived. You’re as strong as you need to be no matter what.✨💙✨
Tiffany, love, hugs and prayers for one of the most courageous women on this earth. God bless you❣️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
Again, I’m relieved your medical team is so proactive with you. I wished someone had been with you during your scan.
I’m glad vlogging is a sort of therapy for you! Don’t worry about rambling if it was helping getting you through the scan! I would be scared if I was in your position too it’s hard not to think the worst!! Good luck! We got this💙!
Hi Tiffany, I’m in awe of your optimism and of your brain. You are such an amazing human. it’s so hard to remain positive with life in general these days let alone when you have cancer. I just love you and think of you often. You’ve helped me so very much.
Much love from Ginny and Otto and the fur babies Darby and Narla
It's perfectly ok to feel all the feels Tiffany. Remember, WE GOT THIS💙 You are truly deserving of good things!
Your nephew is so cute… you are too, Tiffany. So precious to see you both together.
We are with you Tiff. Never alone. We got this 💙🌻🥰.
He is just adorable and I’m sure he’s good for you to spend time with. Continuing to pray for you.
Being scared in your situation is normal. Give yourself some grace Tiffany. The good part of this thing is you are getting scanned quickly and your results will be available quickly. At least you didn’t have to wait for a long period of time….I know it’s easier said than done but you can do this. We are all praying and sending positive thoughts. Take care my friend.
Avoiding your emotions is a kin to living in a fantasy world. Once you have a life-threatening health issue, you can’t live in a fantasy world anymore. I think this is reflected in your fear of showing emotion, and also in your desire to return in your mind to Paris. The time when you could tune out all the bad stuff that’s happened. I hope the scans come back with nothing for you to be worried about. You’ve been through a lot and you shouldn’t have to go through more. But use this as a reminder that you have to stay in the present moment and not try to escape by avoiding your feelings. It’s normal to be sad. Sending much love Tiffany. ❤️❤️
Prayers for you as you have probably gotten your news by now. Life is meant to be lived and you are living it. You’ve got this and so does God 🙏❤️😘
You’ve got this. It was good to see your mom again. Love & hugs from the states ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
We’re all there for you Tiffany with our love and prayers.💙♥️🩵💙
I’m right there with you. Had my last scan on my liver on August 31st, and my Followup today. The news was good, and I’ll be having another at the end of December. Then. If everything is ok, it’ll be every six months.
That's great news ❤
We're all behind you too Maggie. ❤
God bless you!!!
Completely understandable. Every exam is a nail-biter! I hope all goes well. You have a great team.
Sending lots of prayers for you Tiffany. God willing your tests will come back all clear. You’re a very strong young woman and you’ve got this! Lots of love from Canada.🇨🇦
It’s perfectly normal to have those feelings Tiffany.I’m so confident that the scans are going to come back clean ❤
Tiffany sending you love, hugs and prayers at this difficult time. Stay positive and never be afraid to show your emotions! You have had a rough few years. Stay positive and know your army is here for you always. Prayers for a happy positive outcome. Happy Birthday to Matt. May you both have a happy wonderful day celebrating. Much love to all of you!
Tiffany, even though you have gone through more than most people have, each new experience is exactly that, a new experience. You are allowed to be sad more than once. Each experience evokes its own emotions. My prayers are with you. God will give you strength to get through whatever you must face.
I know what you mean by going to the worst scenario. I do the same everytime. I had a CT scan today, my first one since my bilateral mastectomy last year. I had to drink a lot, 900 ml of barium suspension, and iodine in an IV. I won't get the results until Monday at the oncologist appointment. What a way to ruin a weekend! I shouldn't complain because I have an amazing team of professionals and a supportive circle of family and friends. I wish you the best.
The nature of your video shows the incredible mental challenges that come with a cancer diagnosis. You are right when you say you’ve been through the hard part - which is the physical treatments you’ve endured. After successful physical treatment, there is an incredible mental challenge for many cancer survivors. The fear of recurrence. I recently joined a colorectal cancer support group, even though it’s been several years since my treatment was completed. I think it would be helpful for you to consider doing something similar. I had nodules in my lungs appear in CT and PET scans. I’ve been told not to worry about them. Sometimes scans don’t offer perfect information about what is going on in your body. I understand your fears, which I have as well, though I tend to suppress them. I hope your PET scan proves you are still cancer free and provides you with some stress relief.
Hey Tiffany, allow yourself to feel whatever you feel. You don’t have to be strong every day. Only those who wear the shoes know exactly how it fits. Give yourself some grace.
If you want to cry then cry you have emotions and feelings so let them out when you need to. It's impossible to be strong 24 7! You got this hun 💙🙏🙏🙏
Tiffany, tears/crying are not weakness they are what make us human~ when you feel like crying do it. There are so many things that the tears help. Keeping things bottled up is not good. There are medical studies that show our crying tears have different chemicals in them than our regular tears (do you know this being an optometrist)? When we don't cry when we need to it actually can harm our heart, literally, some of the chemicals in our tears when crying, go after our heart. These a medical studies reported on in the USA. We can experience a lot of healing when we allow ourselves to feel and react to whatever is going on in our life. I completely get where you are coming from. I have 2 terminal diseases that there is no cure for and I probably have about a yr left in my earth suit. Having said this, I am actually quite grateful as I don't take my life or day to day for granted. I continue to send positive thoughts and energy your way, my dear. You have been doing an incredible job with all that you have been through.
You are so brave Tiffany. You are allowed to feel scared at times like this- who wouldn’t! We are all here for you cc
You are so much stronger than you think Tiffany!! You have shown so much grace through this journey of yours. Please don’t be so hard on yourself! We are here for you when you need us!
Love you ❤, Ann
Thank you for sharing yourself with us. Of course you are frightened of the outcome. You are calmer than I would be in the same circumstance. You are admired and loved, young lady! Hope you know that. WE GOT THIS!!!!!!!
Being frightened is okay...leaning in to your loved one's is okay...and knowing that each of us here are in your pocket praying for you and supporting you. You are well loved, Tiff...so well loved.
Ms Tiffany I would love to give you a hug right now. You are so strong and it’s ok to cry luv. We go through bumps all throughout life. My daddy has non-Hodgkin’s lymph Phoma and has had ups and downs too. Praying and sending love and strength luv! Big hugs
PTSD is real regarding all you have been through. Love the garden bench and WTP quote is so perfect. Keep your sunny up but to get there feel the sadness, we don’t mind, as you are an inspiration to us all. Therapy is so helpful for me on my cancer journey. 🩵👼🏻🩵
Praying for good results stay strong Tiffany
Living with cancer you have one very important thing that I don't and that is loving and supportive family. Scans are always anxiety producing and support would just be lovely. A hug and encouragement would make the biggest difference. You are blessed.
Tiffany you have come through such a major surgery with such bravery and positivity. It’s so understandable that you don’t want to be dealing with this 😢. Be strong and hold on strong. 🩵
I sincerely wish you will Tiff. I just got out of Hospital for diverticulitis and it sucked I worried about my mortality all night when i was told i had a perforated colon. It turned out the tear was small and anti biotics worked. I couldn't imagine what you've been through and i KNOW i wouldn't be as strong as you have been. You are a tower of strength and firmly believe you got this.
Be positive beautiful and strong Tiffany...greetings from italy❤❤ we are all with you!!
Always good to see you, Tiffany!
Hello from California🌷
You are such a good Aunt!
Love you lots!
Hoping for the best results!💙
U are one strong woman! It’s ok to feel whatever u are feeling. Prayer to u and ur family 🙏🏼
Wishing you all the best Tiffany. Praying all is good with your scan 🙏
You are scared and it's understandable after all you have gone through.We got this Tiffany!
Many hugs from Canada.xx
Tiffany we are all praying that everything is going to be fine and that your wonderful team are just being super precautious with any little thing they see.
Aston has grown and he's such a gorgeous little boy and i love how you both have Crocs on as they are bugely popular today.
Love you and remember
We Got This
Xxx
Tiffany....I watch you such owe.....I love how you address and communicate your feelings....something I wish I could do effectively. You're an inspiration
Wishing you all the best, Tiffany. Sending my love x
You know what Tiffany, if you want to cry then you cry, if you want to laugh then go ahead and laugh your socks off. There is no right or wrong. We’re all here for you, you talk away because we’ll all listen. It’s so lovely to see Amma, I hope she felt a calmness at the retreat.
You message any one of us if you need us. We’ll be here for you.
Much love to you all, Niki 🧡
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Aston looks so grown up! I'm happy he stayed with you as a wonderful distraction. I can't say I know how u feel, but I do know I think an awful lot of you for your attitude, sweet family, and open ❤. No matter what, WE GOT THIS
Another bit of love and healing energy coming your way. Stay positive and remember we're all here praying for you.
We Got This💜🕯💜
Tiffany, you have every right to be scared. Cancer is very cruel. If "pretending" everything is fine works for you, do that. If you're saying that but not really feeling it, push yourself to feel fine. The mind/body connection is amazing and sometimes what we think affects our bodies. Your family is with you whatever road you must travel. 💕💕
We love you Tiffany! Whenever you feel sad please put your head on your mom's shoulder and cry. Don't hesitate to cry. Let go of all that is inside you! Never feel bad about being sad or scared. When I watch you, i see the strongest person I know so please give credit to yourself. I'm even scared to go see the doctor so imagine how I would feel goong through what you are going through. You've got this!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
You are a remarkable person, like an angel on earth. Its easy to say to be strong but until a person goes through a life threatening illness they can never trully understand the fear and anxiety. I really hope everything will be okay Tiffany. Sending thoughts and prayers to you.
Prayers for your strength and good results!! Sending hugs and love. 💓💙💙
Tiffany its okay to be sad and not to be strong all the time, deal with your emotions and don't keep it bottled up inside. You are in my thoughts and prayers🙏 You got this❤
You are always beautiful tiffany i hope everything works out for you tiffany you have been through so much you are an incredibly strong woman
Hello beautiful Tiffany, sending good vibes and prayers. I have a feeling everything is good. You got this!! Lots of love from my family to yours!!🙏🙏💙💙🙏🙏
Praying for you from New York, as I'm watching. You are allowed to be scared, as any of us would be. YOU got this!!
You are utterly amazing, Tiffany! Total love and respect to you! Just keep going! Totally extraordinary journey - supporting you all the way! Sending you much good luck and fortune for the coming days! Total admiration for you and your family
You have so many people praying for you. That is powerful. I hope the very best for you my sweet girl. ❤❤❤
You are amazing, sweet Tiffany. It is so normal are a cancer diagnosis to be scared of the scans and having your mind race around with what ifs. We are all here for you and we are praying just like always. 💙🩵💙🩵
Hi Tiffany, praying for you and the results! Love from the Gibson family! 🙏🏻❤️
Sending prayers and love and yes, YOU GOT THIS!
Praying for good news, we got this! 💙💙💙
Oh darling, just be you, of course you can feel sad 😢, you are human, give yourself permission to feel whatever you want ❤
You’ve got this and we’re all here with you xx
I wish I could give you the biggest hug. 🥰🥰 You are brave and have such a positive attitude. You remind me of me and my thought patterns with coping through chronic illness. You've got this!! ❤😘
It’s natural for you to have fear. You are allowed to feel what you feel. The more you negate your sadness, the more it grows. Your feelings and your sadness are valid. We are all thinking of you.💜 We’re pulling for you Tiffany!💜💕 Hang in there.🙏🏽 Breathe.💙 Love the bench!👍🏽 You’ve got this!❤💕
Tiffany you are such a warrior your strong your very positive and it’s perfectly ok to feel the way your feeling - who wouldn’t - just know that we have such a loving God and you can pour all your anxieties onto him and he will get you through anything🙏❤️ sending you love thx for sharing all these videos with us you make us happy just as much as we do you 😀💕😀
Tiffany you are such a strong woman. An absolute inspiration to us all 💙
Hey Tiffany, I was so happy for you when your tests after the surgery came back negative. It’s so difficult having those scary uncertain moments come back, but we’re all hoping for the best outcome! Good luck to you dear, and keep your beautiful chin up! ❤
Tiffany it’s ok to feel what you feel there’s no justification needed 💙💙💙
I am praying that you will have the good report like I did recently. My PET scan showed NED! No evidence of the Melanoma after 8 months of Keytruda infusions every three weeks. YOU GOT THIS Tiffany!!❤ Best wishes from Michigan, USA
I don't like most Christmas movies. They make everything magical, and sadly it isn't for many people. I think the month of October should only have Halloween movies. The middle of November, they can start to have Christmas movies. My favorite Christmas movie is The Bishop's Wife, I'm not the Grinch after all!
You have got this Tiffany 💙💙💙 God is in control🙏 so much love and lots and lots of hugs to you 💙
Stay positive Tiffany. Don’t overthink. Your a overcomer! You have the right support team and this too shall pass. We’re praying for the best. We got this! Sending positive energy and prayers, hugs 🫂 ❤
Tiffany it’s only natural to be scared. I think it’s irrational to not be scared sweetheart. I’m terrified every time I have scans. Scanxiety is a real thing. I have breast cancer fr the 3rd time. I’ve been having chemo weekly until recently every week for a year. I’m starting a new treatment on the 18th. I wear my We’ve Got This merch every time I go for scans. I wear a vey oversized WGT sweatshirt for chemo. My friends, family and medical staff are all quoting your merch, even the tick tick tick shirt. I live near Tulsa Oklahoma but recently went to MD ANDERSON in Houston Texas for surgery. They are a world renowned cancer hospital. Everything went great and even my husband wore one of my WGT sweatshirts while I had surgery and on the plane coming home. You are absolutely amazing. I feel like you are family. Prayers for your health. God has plans for you my dear. If this is cancer WE GOT THIS and GOD has this.
Give yourself grace. It’s okay to overthink - you have been through a lot. Praying for you.
I'm back........😊
You're looking so well!
And this pet scan is just 1 more small obstacle you will conquer. Always here.❤
Praying for you Tiff 🙏🏼 We got this 💙 sending positive thoughts Love you lots from Massachusetts 🌻🤗💙
Tiff it is normal to feel the way you do before a test. I have been a breast cancer survivor for seven years went through chemo and radiation both. I worry before each labwork or test I get. It helps to talk about this. By the way, Aston is adorable and has grown so much. Remember you got this, we do! 💙💙
Good news and all positivity coming your way! ❤❤❤❤❤