TELLING MY PARENTS I'M MUSLIM | ISLAM | MAKING UP FASTS FOR RAMADAN

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  • @alobany
    @alobany 7 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Asalaam Malikum sister. I am Caribbean Muslimah also. My parents are from St. Lucia and the United States Virgin Islands. I took my Shahada in 2007 in Ramadan. Your story is wonderful. alhamudallah

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      moni al-obany Yaaasss! Finally an island sister! My gyal. Walaikum Salam how are you? MashAllah you've been in the deen for quite some time now! Please tell me about your experience. How did you come to Islam?

    • @alobany
      @alobany 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Diaspora Ukhti I was married to an Arab Muslim we are divorced now. But I didn't converted until after my daughter was born. I was raised Pentecostal my mom was a pastor now deceased and my dad was raised Catholic but is non practicing. My ex husband had said to me that our children will have to be Muslim and since he work 24/7 I thought who would be a better teacher for my child. Before I converted I brought a Quran and other books about Sunni Islam and studied, my husband did not help me nor did he encouraged me to Islam. It was a friend of mine that encouraged me to go ahead and I decided for my daughter's sake to do it. I had covered for 4 years and then removed it. I still prayed and fasted but others were like so your not Muslim anymore and I'm like I am I just don't cover. But just recently about a month ago I recovered myself thanks to a cousin of mine and my fiancé. My Muslim community is small but we manage. I would say 5% is black 5% is Indian and the rest 90% are arabs

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      moni al-obany woooow Ukhti you have a story! I'm sure you have a lot of wisdom. Alhamdulillah you are preparing to re-marry again! How old is your daughter now? What made you take off the hijab initially? What marriage advice do you have? I actually just did I video on seeking a spouse/marriage that I'll be posting tonight. I'd like to know your thoughts.

    • @alobany
      @alobany 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Diaspora Ukhti my daughter is 9 turning 10. I took it off because I had an argument with someone about the difference of being an Arab and a Muslim one is a nationality and the other is a religion and that the person can't expect me to behave as a Arab woman would. The person threatened to hit me and I threaten to strangle them with my veil. But when I calm down I realize that wasn't the way to behave as a Muslim and I was tired as ignorant comments so I had took it off. As on marriage advice I have non sorry I met my ex husband because of my mom.

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahahahaha I love your story! The part about strangling them with your veil. The true islander came out! Ya Allah that's a very interesting story. I'm sorry about having to deal with so much ignorance but I'm glad you found your way back to the hijab. I have constant rebuttals with family members mainly about our religion and the hijab. I just had a debate tonight! But we have to do our best to remember that it's all a test from Allah and it will make us stronger. Our veil is an easy form of dawah as well so MashAllah. Keep striving. We chose a tough road but one worth fighting for. I'm shocked your mom found someone! Mine is the complete opposite lol ya Allah.

  • @N.a.n.a._
    @N.a.n.a._ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I really enjoyed your story, we have a lot in common. I also discovered Islam in 2013, it's been 3 years that I wear the hijab and I did it when I traveled away from home. I also sent a mail to my father to explain my choice about my hijab. ^^
    When I think of this year I become very emotional. Time goes by so fast subhanAllah and ramadan is coming again... Keep up the good work sister, I love you fillah ♥

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nana Mint what?! Hahahahaha that's insane! LoL we really are a lot alike. I thought I was the only one on the face of the earth who emailed their dad they were Muslim hahahaha! MashAllah we must be very similar.
      Times does go hey fast so. I read this Arab proverb yesterday. It goes: Time is like a sword, if you don't cut it, it will cut you. Meaning, use your time wisely before you look back and time has worn you out. I'm excited for Ramadan InshAllah we all reap the benefits. I'm in so much need of this.
      Thank you sister❤️ Speak to you soon inshAllah

    • @farhanps4463
      @farhanps4463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please make dua for me and my love partner to be together again and forever and Allah SWT bless us with guidance... Farhan from India

  • @amirah_costa
    @amirah_costa 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Ma shaa Allah! That's interesting story, it's so nice that your parents respected your choice, alhamdulillah my family also accepted very well when I told them. 🌹🌹🌹

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amirah Siddique Thank you! Alhamdulillah. They respect it although once in a while they have their comment, but nothing I can't handle 💪🏽How did you tell your parents?!

    • @wuraaris6915
      @wuraaris6915 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Al amdhulilah sister, Above all may the supreme being lead us aright

  • @iamizee
    @iamizee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Shes giving me inspiration right now.

    • @mofassy
      @mofassy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Muhammad Raped A Child Idiot

  • @redemptionofthebeast50
    @redemptionofthebeast50 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Black Muslim women are gorgeous

    • @missdee4927
      @missdee4927 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @SUFI-4- LIFE! what is that supposed to mean?

    • @dandelionsflower857
      @dandelionsflower857 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SUFI-4- LIFE! What that sounds. A bit racist

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      DEFINITELY RACIST! Nothing is wrong with culture as long as the culture does not cross the boundaries of Islam

  • @moham.279
    @moham.279 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    May Allah bless and protect you..

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Moha M. Ameen! Thank you so much! And the same for you as well❤️

  • @tablakaur
    @tablakaur 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    @Diaspora Ukhti Salam Alaikam! I want to convert to Islam, I've been praying every single day alhamdullilah and my family are sikh but my dad is black but born in Yemen, and my mum is Indian.....I'm 14 btw and I don't know how on earth to tell my family as they don't really like muslims and I already feel like I am a muslim ygm and I have started to listen to Quran every single day aswell I just don't now how to tell them

    • @zsofiapac5944
      @zsofiapac5944 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Nikki Kaur Hi there, sweetheart! I converted too a few years ago. There is this account called reverthelp on tumblr. They have been teaching, advising and helping me for a long time. Even with the relationship I have with my family. Do send them a message InshaAllah! They are very professional people and would love to assist you throughout your journey too. Much , much love!

    • @SaddamHussain-we9ec
      @SaddamHussain-we9ec 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zsofiapac5944 but we muslims like Sikhs very much, it's disheartening to learn that Sikhs don't like Muslims.

    • @farhanps4463
      @farhanps4463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zsofiapac5944 please make dua for me and my love partner to be together again and forever and Allah SWT bless us with guidance....Farhan from India

    • @shakeelasif5730
      @shakeelasif5730 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear sister, Sikhism is quite close to Islam. Guru Nanak himself believed in one God, Allah. Even Guru Granth Saheb begins with 'Awwal Allah noor upaya..... That means the light of Allah was the first...
      In my view, don't make haste in declaring your Faith or taking Shahada. Islam does not mean a formal declaration of Iman. If you believe your creator is only one God, you are already a Muslim. Meanwhile keep studing Islam, it's fundamentals, the teachings of the Qur'an, the biography of the Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) etc. and when you're mature enough and convinced, you may publicly declare your Iman. Trust in the Almighty God, and everything will be fine, In sha Allah.

  • @swafaasalim9802
    @swafaasalim9802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wecome sis, you are very pretty

  • @techmedandtravel
    @techmedandtravel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Walaikumassalam. More Power to you💪😇

  • @shah1783
    @shah1783 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It' s wonderful to hear your revert story.. may allah bless you sister..

  • @GameOnMe
    @GameOnMe ปีที่แล้ว

    You have great energy🤲🏾🤲🏾 may Allah bless you and keep you on the right path

  • @godknows4454
    @godknows4454 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just wanna hug u ❤ such a beautiful soul

  • @hassanmohammed480
    @hassanmohammed480 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Asalamoalakum how are you.Allah Paak give you strong Iman with lots of happiness Ameen.🌹🌷🌹Take care your self please.Remember me your Dua please.Allah hafiz 🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹

  • @anthonywilliam5534
    @anthonywilliam5534 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha ALLAH my sister l will pray ALLAH give you biggest home in Jannah. I'm lndian lslamic Muslim.

  • @nuddin2023
    @nuddin2023 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mashallah sister may Allah bless you FROM LONDON

  • @atiamj969
    @atiamj969 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    MashAllah sister ❤

  • @sacadabdi5276
    @sacadabdi5276 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Masha Allah sis ❤️❤️

  • @AB-pf3pv
    @AB-pf3pv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May Allah bless you and guide you.

  • @Stellarspace95
    @Stellarspace95 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the shepherd knows his sheep. He calls them by name and knows each and everyone of them. None of them may ever be lost, no matter how far they have wandered

  • @arifmsislam49
    @arifmsislam49 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Welcome sister.Allah bless you

  • @Jule-mm4dr
    @Jule-mm4dr 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ma sha Allah sister
    Salam from Bosnia and Herzegovina

  • @omarbenjamin7242
    @omarbenjamin7242 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    as salaam mualaikum waraghmatulahi wabarrakatu .Ma shaALLAH my sister,may ALLAH swt keep and strengthen your imaan and always keep you on the straight path IN SHA ALLAH ameen,please always make dua for our brothers and sisters across the world who is going through so much pain and sufferings,killings etc.and remove all from them what they are going trough and make life easy on them ameen

  • @idrisadem861
    @idrisadem861 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mashaalah Allah bless you inshaalah

  • @facts.explained.
    @facts.explained. ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha'Allah

  • @cgmohammed
    @cgmohammed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Allah الله

  • @sharifaparker2418
    @sharifaparker2418 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mashaa Allah..sister

  • @jayabrahamkamara1199
    @jayabrahamkamara1199 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha Allah sister

  • @shotsfired588
    @shotsfired588 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tears came out of my eyes the moment you said you're fasting because am ashamed of the state of my faith, am happy for you sister.

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I pray Allah has made it easier on you and you’ve found strength again. Ramadan is also coming up! Perfect time to focus!

    • @shotsfired588
      @shotsfired588 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DiasporaUkhti alhamdulillah sister, I am looking forward to this Ramadan inshallah, should be much easier with the lockdown, not much temptations.

  • @rezar7569
    @rezar7569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Allah blessed you, sis,

  • @sunshine_dolly312
    @sunshine_dolly312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good bless you❤️

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!!! Things are normal now lol

  • @Church2Mosque
    @Church2Mosque 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Asalam Alkum, love and respect from TX. May Allah increase you in righteous deeds.

  • @casanovathagreat329
    @casanovathagreat329 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the video

  • @abshan22
    @abshan22 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    May Allah grant you Paradise as you have selected the right path to Allah.

  • @sarahj1581
    @sarahj1581 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May Allah bless you ukhti xx

  • @rere5878
    @rere5878 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    John 14:6King James Version (KJV)
    Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.

    • @redemptionofthebeast50
      @redemptionofthebeast50 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Replaced Jesus with God.. Jesus brought a message from God to his followers

    • @captainccc5151
      @captainccc5151 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      we Muslims are the ones that are following Jesus's way, we don't eat pork, we don't drink wine, and we dress like his mother Mary, so you are the one that is missing out.

    • @malcolmx3776
      @malcolmx3776 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think Muslim are followers of Jesus not those so called Christians.

    • @missmatimba9706
      @missmatimba9706 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ReRe Amen. Muslims follow Jesus. They do what Jesus did 😊😊😊

    • @sarbinikarim3930
      @sarbinikarim3930 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatttt Allah is the one god muslim is not cristian :/

  • @rifaathanver1221
    @rifaathanver1221 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice to listen to your story almost 2 years after you published. How are you managing your life as a Muslim in the US? If you are working, is waring the Hijab a problem?

  • @elizabetmilovan8786
    @elizabetmilovan8786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mashallah❤️🙏🏾

  • @tonyabraham7718
    @tonyabraham7718 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ماشاءالله. amazing story

  • @hassanalinoo
    @hassanalinoo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Respect

  • @rexashoxib6082
    @rexashoxib6082 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    May allah bless you sister

  • @hassanalshaalan3014
    @hassanalshaalan3014 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    نحن معشر المسلمين نحب جميع الانبياء ومن لم يحب جميع الانبياء فهو خارج عن الملة ودائرة الاسلام ، الانبياء رضوان الله عليهم بعثوا لانقاذ البشرية من الظلمات الى النور ومن الجهل الى النور ، ادوا الرسالة ونصحوا الامة عليهم افضل الصلاة واتم التسليم.

  • @k9k4hi
    @k9k4hi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah

  • @hidayatkhan6007
    @hidayatkhan6007 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah your hijab very nice

  • @mofassy
    @mofassy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How did ur life change after being muslim
    Thank you

  • @samanthatrucka
    @samanthatrucka 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let's be friends 😌😌😌😌😩😩

  • @Hadimful
    @Hadimful 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My sister😍😘

  • @hassanalshaalan3014
    @hassanalshaalan3014 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    we love prophet Jesus and he is great prophet , and as Muslims if anyone doesn't love Prophet Jesus is not considered to be Muslim , allah almighty raised him up to the sky and he is going to come down to city of Damascus in the time of fajar prayer and going to lead the prayer and follow what was prophet Muhammad doing may almighty guide us all to the right path. salm

  • @ladyj08me
    @ladyj08me 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm confused. I thought you are allowed to take off hijab as long as it's a spouse or mahram. If you choose, couldn't you take it off around family?

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ladyj08me I can and I do take it off around family. However what I was saying is that when I’m with my family in public and what not my hijab will be on

    • @hawafarah4898
      @hawafarah4898 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ur take off around ur fmly only ur can't take ur causing from father side in front off them ur wear it ur uncle mother side father side is ok grandfathers both side also ur need to waer it

  • @nahiliomer8084
    @nahiliomer8084 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was born in a Muslim family

  • @k9k4hi
    @k9k4hi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love going to the miss a and praying and staying in a place where I feel safe

  • @marina33577
    @marina33577 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah you are so stunning.

  • @letthelightcomeinalmoslih5599
    @letthelightcomeinalmoslih5599 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hijab is a customs in oil rich Middle East countries
    now being converted by these Salafist /Wahhabis countries into a standard for
    women Muslims, and accepted by most western media as such!
    This is wrong!!!
    Look at women struggle in KSA and Iran
    against the hijab. Now, if some women really insist in wearing it, please stay
    home or immigrate to other Muslim countries, but NOT to western countries.

  • @shuaybgallo_abufadwa
    @shuaybgallo_abufadwa 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Assalaamualaykum

  • @dania2369
    @dania2369 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello sister 😘 im from morroco .

  • @michaelwilcox8187
    @michaelwilcox8187 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you prove it was the angel Gabriel who came to muhummad in the cave? Did he introduce himself?

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Michael Wilcox I'm not trying to prove anything. But what you can do is ask the people of knowledge and do some more research of your own. Possibly attending the mosque and asking the imam some questions would be beneficial.

    • @michaelwilcox8187
      @michaelwilcox8187 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Diaspora Ukhti
      You can't provide proof Gabriel spoke to Muhummad. No one can. I've studied Islam. I've asked imams. There's no proof. But I don't disagree with everything Islam teaches. I'm a Christian who says God is One. The Bible doesn't teach Trinity. Trinity was invented around 325 AD. It's false and no biblical.

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Michael Wilcox so what is it that you're seeking here

    • @michaelwilcox8187
      @michaelwilcox8187 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Diaspora Ukhti
      I talk to muslims. Dialogue important. Plus, you're black like me.. I have a muslim uncle and muslim grandpa (not by blood. He's Israeli) I know there's racism and such. My uncle had a hard time getting married.

    • @DiasporaUkhti
      @DiasporaUkhti  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Michael Wilcox interesting. So where do you stand in all of this?

  • @ibrahimmahoui5952
    @ibrahimmahoui5952 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Next video : Telling my fellow muslim I'm shia.

    • @casanovacasanova910
      @casanovacasanova910 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ibrahim mahoui shia or shiatan. is not muslim. Shop fooling your self

  • @postingyou
    @postingyou 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ew a kiss

  • @anime_edits.2824
    @anime_edits.2824 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love form Bangladesh 🇧🇩