The fact that he is probably born being deaf and blind. Not even knowing what he is missing. But here we are taking this stuff for granted at times. I have huge respect for these people. I hope they get whatever they want in life.
Although if he was born both blind and deaf he wouldn't be able to communicate with people: how was he supposed to learn braille or sign language? I hear the story of a girl who was born both blind and deaf. She was placed in a psychiatric hospital, she could not communicate nor eat properly for instance. We really are lucky, we should be more grateful for what God granted us 🤲
so true man my uncle was blind and he got his masters degree by listening to his friends reading and then he would memorize by just listening strong people indeed 💪
@@beyondinfinity9792 Hey bestie! Know that you're not alone, we're in this together. Hope things turn out good for you in the near future. Stay hydrated. May God/Allah/Bhagwan/Tuhan/whatever they're called bless us all and also know that your troubles/experiences are super valid! Don't lose hope yet, take care.
Yea, even if some of us think we know the value of the blessings that we are born with, one cannot truly not take it for granted until we lose those things. On a side note, I wonder how he studies math. Braille isnt exactly a quick way to study. I feel like it would take one month to study one question.
People exist with the skills to help a guy like him study? People like him exist who are resilient enough to study, despite having a goddawful deal in life? It's more than impressive
Isn't it actually cynical when you spread the ableist prejudice that this man had a „bad“ life although you don’t know him? His disabilities are not the problem, but the barriers in society including your prejudices against him.
This is the kind of stuff i want my random youtube feed to be filled with. Everyone involved , from the teachers, the parents to the students, is an absolute inspiration! 👏
I can’t even sit down and take an exam without being jittery and frustrated. This young man is deaf and blind and is more composed than a musical masterpiece.
I think black people deserve the same rights as everyone else. #BLM EDIT: What a racist world we live in. I said that black people are the same as everyone else, but now suddenly everyone's bashing me :/
Today i failed in my CA attempt , i felt really very low....But after watching this hardworking boy , who has a passion for study...just lifted my spirits up...i felt like maybe it's just gods plan for me...and that plan is unique for everyone...just like me and this kid. May you become a star in future...
I had a teacher at our school (just a normal school) that previously used to teach blind, deaf and mentally challenged children including one of our friend's big brother who lost his sight at a young age in an accident and I have mad respect for her and the woman in this video.
Same here bro same here..🥺😞.. my tears suddenly came after watching this video that..how much I used to complain about studies and life and after watching this guy's dedication.. just tears were there in my eyes
sometimes we don't know how grateful we should be for things like hearing and seeing, the things that we take as trivial in our day to day life. God bless this boy, his hardwork and determination will pay off someday. shows us how we need to complain less and appreciate more.
Him being deaf and blind, and understanding the concept of education and participating in exams are just mindboggling! He is very smart, and whoever conveyed these ideas, concepts, and messages to him were an excellent one.
@@spiralghosts Yeah I was also wondering, Makes more sense that he lost his senses, Either he was born deaf and lost his eyesight after that, or he was born deaf and lost his hearing after that.
This is from Clarke's school in Chennai, India. I was there a few years back as part of a CSR initiative. The teachers there are truly angels and look after the kids with such tender love and care. It was sad to see the school lacked funding despite the managements best efforts.
did d shool try Or anyone appeal for the funding issue...coz appreciating d guy won't solve anythg unless schools like those cone out of improper facilities which needs to b uplifted by some sponsoring or undertaken by some institues Or person/s
Instead of idealizing those social workers as „angels“, why can’t you just normalize those people? Solidarity, Equity and Inclusion are totally normal. And it’s a shame that the social state doesn’t do more.
@@carelessbassreddit4378 agree, most of the teachers work just for money. Like they just explain without considering that all the students understood what they meant to understand.
He is full of confidence though he is both deaf and blind and not giving up on studies. God please Bless him and his family who is putting so much effort and encouraging him not to give up. Also Bless the lady and others who are willing writing for them.👏👏👏
I know I am 10 years late, but I hope this young man is now happy and has a big family, I hope he has made his parents proud and has excelled in the career he is doing...
Yea it makes me feel ashamed becuz i have taken things for granted but after witnessing this my eyes got filled with tears like if he can do this much struggle then why not me.
I can't even imagine how sharp his brain must have become at this point, if only his deaf and blindness were to somehow recover, he'll become a legit genius with that sharpened brain.
nah, just because he is deaf blind doesn't inherently make him a genius. just like people being sighted and hearing don't inherently make them geniuses. he might have to navigate the world differently and come up with different strategies, and while that is certainly hard to do sometimes, it doesn't automatically make him better at other things. it's doesn't mean he's not smart, and it doesn't mean that he's smart, it's just the way he is and that's all. he's a normal person, just like everyone else. also, if he did have sharp senses, being deaf blind wouldn't stop him from being a geniuse sorry if this came off as harsh, I didn't mean for it to be. I myself am disabled and I wish to correct the notion that disabled people are brave for literally just existing and living just like anyone else. it's not like we have a choice. and I don't praise abled people for existing, and I don't see a reason to think that disabled people differ from abled people in this way. I just want people to treat me normally, like everyone else, unless my disability impacts a specific area of my life that would require me to need a bit of help so that I can function like everyone else
Impressed by both the teacher and the student, hoping they are fine right now and have achieved their goals. But how did he learn sign language with blindness?
I have downloaded this video. Just when I am going to start complaining, this video will remind me of how much blessed I am, that nothing is impossible with grit and determination. This boy just taught me something very precious.
Respect to the lady teacher. She must have lots of patience , love and compassion to dedicate for our special differently abled brothers and sister. Bharat Mata ki Jai.
Feel so blessed and is like a wake up call for when ever I feel sad over silly things whereas there are kids like him who struggle so much. Have saved it will re watch whenever I feel like giving up.
Kindly do not consider everything you feel as silly things. As much as this video is valid, your emotions, fear, anxieties are also valid and never silly. There's a reason why you feel all these things. May you be able to find the reason, and heal :)
God bless this child, the person helping him and everyone like them ❤️ I feel grateful for what I already have and I wish happiness follows him and everyone here
Impressive and interesting, i can’t imagine what it would be like to live without my sight and hearing capabilities. We always take this things for granted, we shouldn’t, we’re lucky to have them.
It’s so… in awe? To think that he lives in a completely mute, quiet, nothing world, to contact others through just touch. All our senses are connected, and to have two important ones taken away is so mind boggling
The teacher have such good patience and so does the child, it's great to see both of the people trying their best:] hope that guy is doing good in life and so is the teacher.
Everyone is talking about the disabled student (as they should he is a LEGEND) but nobody's talking about how nice the teacher is. She was patient and didn't seem to mind as much as she treated like how a teacher usually would check an exam, despite this being completely different than simply checking papers a student wrote. Respect for these 2!
@@ArshavSemwal You see, maybe he is not blind completely but in his vision everything looks like fog in a windshield so he wears glasses to get minimum view but still he cant read or write thats the problem.
I remember how I used to crib about small things in life but when I see this I feel I'm in such a better condition. God bless this student with all the success in life.
May God shower his endless blessings upon this boy and the lady who is helping him out.U are an inspiration to all who are blind even having both eyes and deaf even having both ears.People like u are true winners.
@@Akshaytg don't make a mess here...I have seen many debates like this that has no ends...we never know why some ppl are born the perfect while some are not that lucky...maybe everything happens for a reason and even if you find no reason behind it, we still cannot do anything arnt we? So pls instead of spreading hate, show some love
@@Akshaytg We are no one to question God,he's is the supreme power and he is our creator as well.He has given very less to someone so that they can prove their worth and set an example to others having less compared to others.Whereas on the other hand he has given much more to many people so that they can help others with that extra.This way God is balancing the world.If all gets everything and the world is perfect then there is no need of God as we don't need anything. The NEED only reminds us about God and seeing less fortunate people we feel thankful to God that we are fortunate to have much in our life and should turn towards them to ease their sufferings.What you said is your feelings and pain for them no doubt 😊but to understand God's will we still need to go a long way.
@@aadarshkumarshah8795 Well said brother.Sometimes it's okay not to know every answer to our questions.God will unfold it at the right time.Yeah,hope we spread love towards each other.
I wish him all the best in his future. He's brave enough to know his disabilities but still, is able to write his exams. I respect the teacher as well.
Giving up is only for the people whom their lives where easier at some point and despite their expectations the world has shown its true face to them . Unlike this case ...
I'm fking sad right now... idk why This guy... He is the definition of perseverance. You see a guy like him able to study well and the teacher that really helps. I can't imagine if I was in his position. Knowing my life is going to be on ultra hardcore mode... Man... What a mixture of sadness and joy and excitement when i see this clip
@@aaravshah2223 there are a few types of blindness. I think he is not fully blind, he only can see something super close maybe about 1 cm from his eyes. Of course with such ability he can't even write comfortably on anything.
Damn. I'd admit, i even cheated on my exams because i was too lazy, but him here. That man did his exam without vision or even hearing. God bless this man. Hope things are going well to him.
The thing that he might me born deaf and blind, how he would have trained himself and how strong motivation it would be for him to study, unbelievable....Salute
How do someone who is born deaf and blind learn sign language and can study???? Like its just empty in their head just black, they can only touch. Like for example how tf is someone supposed to learn him the word human in sign language? how tf will he understand that with being deaf and blind? this shit is hella confusing on how they learn this shit, my brain is exploding
@@Wrecck12That's such a cruel comment dude . It's not his mistake that he was born like that . Despite all the difficulties he is moving forward. If you can't encourage or appreciate him then atleast don't post such cruel comments.
@@Wrecck12you are definatley sitting in dark room with no life and addicts with different drugs and writing this comment 😂, such a trash life of yours
Those who complain about their life should know that they aren't facing problems more than this guy then also he is fighting everyday and not giving up. Respect 💪
@@bhargavimn9932 its only natural to be like that.... imagine being born an average life, an average brain, an average family, an average money. While others are born rich, smart and gifted. Its only natural to crave for more.. since humans are greedy and they want to gain more than what they have. Even if others are poor or dumb or hated more than you, you just dont care, humans dont care about others.. they only care about themselves, about who they are, they only care about their loved ones or friends or other relatives... they dont care if people suffer from 1860s... they dont care if other people are dying from starvation, they only care about gaining more and more and more than what they already have.
Even with all abilities we're sitting like dumb but these guys are the real super humans who struggles to win and always ready to show their patience and sincerity on their works.☺❣️
this guy is simply impressive & genuinely inspiring, he's proving that despite things outside your control, there still remain actions you can take towards whatever you're facing, and that you're capable of achieving things similarly to others who have more senses available.
Thanx TH-cam for recommending this, I was having a hard time cause of all the entrance exams and here I saw him who lacks 2 of the 5 senses and still giving exam and studying. How brave he is, compared to him I am nothing. This made me realize how trivial I am.
@@Wrecck12 he won't stay useless bro, he's trying his best to overcome the physical limitations he's been born with. He could live his life in agony, jealousy that why only me, why only I have to suffer but instead he had the guts to accept the fact and move on to make his life a little better if not the best.
@@simpledude750 no please stop with the deluded optimism and think for a second. what can he do? what job can he take? he can't even make a family because let's be real, what person would want a blind-deaf husband? and if someone does marry him, the disabilities will just get passed down. Causing more suffering -
@@LEYTHLEGACY and what do you think he doesn't know all that? He know it all too well, he's the one experiencing one of the worst life experiences and still he have the courage to follow his heart and do things which seems impossible for him to do. He's brave at heart. Yeah, many things won't go as planned, he will lose most of the time, and the disability is the biggest handicap but still he's trying. I don't think I can survive even half a year in his position.
He knew the answer as soon as he read the question. And the slam on the table at the end, he was extremely confident with the answer. My man has been studying hard. 🙌
@@Sciencex bruh.. Since when did the word "disabled" become disrespectful. Chck the definition of disabled on google. He is disabled. Differently abled and disabled both are synonyms of each other, you can call him any of those two, it doesnt make a difference
There's nothing to cry..on the contrary I smiled at his determination to work hard and his perseverance..and I appreciate the tutor or scribe whosoever that Maam was for her amazing work and contribution to help people who needs and deserves..I dont think people whetherwith physical impairment of any sort or without it as well would want ur sympathy in that way where u drop tears..cos despite all the struggles the kid is working hard..so that itself makes me smile that humanity is still there and people like that Maam exists...
We all should learn from this kid to never give up and always be focused and determined towards the goal. No matter how difficult the life gets. God bless that kid!!
The way he immediately grabbed the ladies hand after just finishing reading the question is amazing. I can see and hear and still it takes me about 3 times to re read the question to understand it and another 10mins to think up of an answer😂😂😂😂. Guy's a genius. (Huge respect to the lady as well❤️❤️)
@@anim3197 I think they’re aware it’s for communication, I think Michael is trying to say that the boy immediately grabbing the lady’s hand after reading is amazing because he didn’t even have to think long for an answer.
I'm telling you we don't call them special people for no reason. Sometimes we can't even remember words that we use in our everyday lives (y'all gotta keep your pride aside and accept this) and these angels remember a massive number of signs and combine them without any mistake to form a perfect sentence. Bless these angels ❤️
Hearts to this strong will deterred boy. May he gets everything he has ever wished for. This reminded me to be sincere as well in my efforts. Thank you ❤️
Dont compare yourself or your hardwork with anyone,everyone have their own hardships but that doesnt mean if one's hardship is harder than you, than yours is invalid
I was just scrolling about , and saw your youtube banner and came here just to like the video The banner itslef forced me to visit this an like it ❤❤ Hatsoff sir ........ Hatsoff. 😢❤❤❤
Oh my god considering the amount of hardships they go through we really need to realise how its a real privilege to be born alright 🙏and make lives better for special ones like him💗💖
That man is just striving for education just like everyone else while she is doing the work of an educator, it’s normal. So can you please stop that with your positive ableism! This is not an inspiration porn, Sir.
@@iche9373 the guy which is blind and death doing that is insane and the woman teaching him is also insane imagine being death and blind? no watching on the internet no video games no sports no seeing your mother or father no listening to music no talking/listening
Truly heartwarming! May he fly high in life. We tend to take things for granted but people like them remind us of what life has showered upon us. This inspired me to study even harder.
I got tears in my eyes at the end of this video, he should get more time to do the exam and i cant beleive he studied for this exam the whole year like this and hes confident in his exams. And still he can write the exam this good? Impossible (nothing is impossible , impossible above meant just REALLY HARD). I wish him good luck in future exams...i hope he passes IIT and becomes an IIT student... (Indian Institute of Technology) (also thanks for whoever liked this video now or in future)
I'm sorry but he's not gonna be an IIT student no matter how hard he tries. The seats reserved for disabled people is filled by those with non working legs etc. , And everyone has a clear advantage against him
@@JohnWick-oj6bw Those with no legs or hands should get the best help too. And surely does this guy and much more. Government should definitely take him as ward of the state, bearing all expenses and such things.
@@kekhaunter8002 Well, government only cares about votes, which they get from SC/ST, OBC, etc. Or even girls. Unfortunately I don't think he's any of these, so government doesn't care bout him, and of course neither does society. It's an evil world we live in
@@JohnWick-oj6bw dude. Coding works for literally anybody who could grasp it. He will have advantage because he "sees" the world in symbols and shapes (brailles) instead of being muddled by embroidery and fashion. It's quite difficult to explain how or what I mean.
@@janewick509 I think I kinda get what u mean. Would appreciate if u elaborate. Anyways, the reason why we progressed as humans so far, is because of our ability to learn and share our knowledge. He clearly can't easily acquire knowledge, as u can see how hard it is for him to write even a few sentences. And this world is really mean, always looking to crush u, if u don't adapt and survive. Nah, in this world we live in, he stands no chance
Dipti, It's simply amazing what you do and have been doing for so many years now. You show great love and compassion and that's something so rare nowadays. How many students must have passed through your loving hands ... Thank you for being there for all your students. I'm deeply touched.
Back in college, I was also a scribe for children with special abilities. I still remember being assigned to this absolute wonder of a girl called Priya, and we conquered her exams together. We were together for almost a week, and those 3 hours and 20 mins that I spent with her each exam has been some of the most fulfilling aspects of my life ❤️
@@sumeshs8239 you don't write exams for the dumb. But for the uninterested. Those who didn't work hard.That maybe why you were arrested. But I doubt it. No ones shameless enough to reveal they were arrested. Either you are lying or you are not.
@@kolumbus1754 Unexpected "be careful what you wish for"... Yes, this guy is unimaginably determined, but the hell he has to put up with everyday was the cost for that determination. I wouldn't take that lightly.
I was worried about my upcoming exams and this video just made me cry. I'm so grateful for everything God gave me. I hope this special kids get everything. ❤
How it's heart breaking? People shouldn't view it as an disadvantage or abnormality and shouldn't sympathize at all. It should be viewed as something as normal as someone having sight and hearing ability. Our acceptance of them being normal like any other individual out there would serve them confidence in long term.
@@mookrage It is! But I don't feel it's appreciable when people undermine or over-sympathize specially abled individuals. To compensate their one disability, the other senses are much more developed and advanced compared to that of any completely abled person.
@@amritaparida3992 hence the 'inspiring' part of my post. Look. I agree that disabilities should be normalised as much as possible, but at the end of the day children with disabilities is tragic. You keep putting your special kind of positivity on things but ill refrain from celebrating the fact that this kid and others like him have challenges in life which I wish they hadn't.
The fact that he is probably born being deaf and blind. Not even knowing what he is missing. But here we are taking this stuff for granted at times. I have huge respect for these people. I hope they get whatever they want in life.
Probably was not born deaf and blind but born almost blind or his vision gradually got worse but deaf. Otherwise he wouldn't wear glasses.
@@jameschristophercirujano6650 good observation.
Although if he was born both blind and deaf he wouldn't be able to communicate with people: how was he supposed to learn braille or sign language? I hear the story of a girl who was born both blind and deaf. She was placed in a psychiatric hospital, she could not communicate nor eat properly for instance.
We really are lucky, we should be more grateful for what God granted us 🤲
@@nanteninsidibe807 such a terrifying reality
@@nanteninsidibe807 every heard of helen keller?
Sign language and braille are such underrated inventions
True
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Dude you're everywhere
Fact
Early
This is harder than having all the abilities and doing exams. Hats off for the determination.
Yep
you can do anything with determination, you can do nothing without it
Ofc it's harder than having all abilities that's common sense u dumb?
@@meekee8856 lmao bro thought he discovered the laws of gravity
bruh no shit
You see a deaf and blind child..
I see a strong man
Same!!!
Hmm
@@kshitij6344 wdym hmm
@@亗MR乂BUNNY I mean same
so true man my uncle was blind and he got his masters degree by listening to his friends reading and then he would memorize by just listening
strong people indeed 💪
Makes me feel guilty when I think about how much I work for my goal. They are truly inspiring.
@cool guy neengalam thirundha maatinga🤣🤣🤦
@cool guy kozhi spotted🤣🐓
Me too
@cool guy SIMP SPOTTED!
@@muneershakeel 😂
God bless this sincere person and everyone who is doing their best in life...
@@beyondinfinity9792 SABKA TIME AATA HAI...TUMHARA BHI AAYEGA!
@@beyondinfinity9792 god blesses everyone!!!
@@beyondinfinity9792 Hey bestie! Know that you're not alone, we're in this together. Hope things turn out good for you in the near future. Stay hydrated. May God/Allah/Bhagwan/Tuhan/whatever they're called bless us all and also know that your troubles/experiences are super valid! Don't lose hope yet, take care.
🙏🙏
they are just getting payed
His willingness to learn despite all the odds is amazing. People who have everything , don't know it's value .
Yea, even if some of us think we know the value of the blessings that we are born with, one cannot truly not take it for granted until we lose those things.
On a side note, I wonder how he studies math. Braille isnt exactly a quick way to study. I feel like it would take one month to study one question.
Yup I take things for granted as well. Sometimes you need to take a minute to appreciate all the things you have
@@fayetales8140 i lost sense of smell for a month bcos of c0vid it was horrible you wont know the value of something until it's gone
@@SurelyNotMEGA wow. You ok now? These past 3days everything is tasteless. Even spicy food. Bcs of my flu and it's suck
Yes
Two pure souls
God bless them 🙏🙏
Unbelievable grit and determination. Hats off to him, his parents and teachers
Yes you are right
And kudos to the great patience of his teacher!
Thts why we call them people of determination
Yes ❤
Yes, he is very determined
People exist with the skills to help a guy like him study? People like him exist who are resilient enough to study, despite having a goddawful deal in life? It's more than impressive
God bless the woman.
@@abdulaleem9207 Let’s hope for the woman at least, he didn’t make that good “blessing” with the guy
@@abdulaleem9207She is paid by the government, the government mandates people to help deaf/blind kids in exams
It's called solidarity and in a solidarity society one tries to create for everyone a space in terms of self-realization. It’s normal.
Isn't it actually cynical when you spread the ableist prejudice that this man had a „bad“ life although you don’t know him? His disabilities are not the problem, but the barriers in society including your prejudices against him.
i admire both the child and woman’s patience. god bless the kid and everyone that’s supporting him 🙏
Aameen
They’re Indian ❤️
@@Orioleexzz Indians aren't all hindus
@@isaka6361 um yeah I know that.
@@Orioleexzz why did u say they are Indian?
This is the kind of stuff i want my random youtube feed to be filled with. Everyone involved , from the teachers, the parents to the students, is an absolute inspiration! 👏
Imagine living like this. Huge respect. Hope everyone like him succeed in their lives. These people are the true examples of dedication.
From this we can understand
how lucky we are...🥺
Like Helen Keller
He seems very intelligent too
Doggo memes
As hard as it is, at least he doesn't have to hear and see things that we do.
I can’t even sit down and take an exam without being jittery and frustrated. This young man is deaf and blind and is more composed than a musical masterpiece.
I think black people deserve the same rights as everyone else. #BLM
EDIT: What a racist world we live in. I said that black people are the same as everyone else, but now suddenly everyone's bashing me :/
@@davidmccallum3950 :// he is wearing a hearing aid dude
@@davidmccallum3950 he ead wtf r u saying
@@davidmccallum3950 Hows he dead?
@@davidmccallum3950 man have some shame u are noticing his ears can't u notice how hard it is for a deafblind person to give a exam.l🤦
He's too amazing. Wish him all the best
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Wow, 10 minutes ago comment, lols
Yoo man
Go away go away
Don't hate this guy this guy is awesome
Today i failed in my CA attempt , i felt really very low....But after watching this hardworking boy , who has a passion for study...just lifted my spirits up...i felt like maybe it's just gods plan for me...and that plan is unique for everyone...just like me and this kid.
May you become a star in future...
Never give up on your dreams
The kid probably can score higher than me even when deaf and blind. Props to him
@@yourenemy2690 well, you are a clown in the circus
@@yourenemy2690 He's the clown and you're the whole circus
@@yourenemy2690 Being the whole circus is worse than being a clown btw.
@@yourenemy2690 you are the embodiment of a circus.
@@yourenemy2690 u r very rude can you be deaf and blind like him
He is a motivation himself of how being well facilitated we are and still have excuse for studying .
So true
totally agree mann
I came across this video while procrastinating when I have a test later 🥲
I was procrastinating and came across this video, I watched first few mins and immediately got back to studying. As U said, we still have excuses.
@@yasimmeaa yess i have exam tomorrow
I had a teacher at our school (just a normal school) that previously used to teach blind, deaf and mentally challenged children including one of our friend's big brother who lost his sight at a young age in an accident and I have mad respect for her and the woman in this video.
😔
😭🤧
@@novaplayz64 bro wanna play together?
@@ig.namicraxked1251 I play bgmi :)
@@ig.namicraxked1251 ye
This just made me cry. I'm so privileged and still a lazy ass unemployed guy who has a habit of overthinking. God bless this guy.
Same here bro same here..🥺😞.. my tears suddenly came after watching this video that..how much I used to complain about studies and life and after watching this guy's dedication.. just tears were there in my eyes
Kya baat khi h they r better then us
@@ompandey4595 sahi bola bhai 😢
I feel ashamed of myself ☹
Damn, even if he's blind he still persevere to be the best
The efforts he’s doing, just hats off to him.
If he was born like that he wouldn't know any different
sometimes we don't know how grateful we should be for things like hearing and seeing, the things that we take as trivial in our day to day life. God bless this boy, his hardwork and determination will pay off someday. shows us how we need to complain less and appreciate more.
well god didn't really bless him
@@lyoncurtis 😐
@@lyoncurtis 😐
@@lyoncurtis why you gotta be so salty man😐
@@harshgupta6761 i mean god did not give him sight and hearing
Him being deaf and blind, and understanding the concept of education and participating in exams are just mindboggling! He is very smart, and whoever conveyed these ideas, concepts, and messages to him were an excellent one.
no, he's dumb. He's learning for no reason
@@Wrecck12 You didn't get your 5 minutes of fame. Stop trying.
@@pixelhyHe got 5 milliseconds 😮
he wasn't born deaf and blind, otherwise he couldn't have learned sign language and braille.
@@spiralghosts Yeah I was also wondering, Makes more sense that he lost his senses, Either he was born deaf and lost his eyesight after that, or he was born deaf and lost his hearing after that.
This is from Clarke's school in Chennai, India. I was there a few years back as part of a CSR initiative. The teachers there are truly angels and look after the kids with such tender love and care. It was sad to see the school lacked funding despite the managements best efforts.
Endha area?
did d shool try Or anyone appeal for the funding issue...coz appreciating d guy won't solve anythg unless schools like those cone out of improper facilities which needs to b uplifted by some sponsoring or undertaken by some institues Or person/s
@@TopGHippie this is in RK Salai, mylapore
@@gashanu12345 Nice
Instead of idealizing those social workers as „angels“, why can’t you just normalize those people? Solidarity, Equity and Inclusion are totally normal.
And it’s a shame that the social state doesn’t do more.
God bless every teachers like her so motivating... Also her effort.... Literally one of my best video ever... Love you all guru,mom and dad
Such teachers are rare
@@carelessbassreddit4378 agree, most of the teachers work just for money.
Like they just explain without considering that all the students understood what they meant to understand.
@@joen4287 why work a hard job for less than 30k a year
@@joen4287 the vast majority of all my teachers were great
Guru in bahasa mean teacher
Kudo to such brave sweet peoples and their feathered families, Always...🥰🥰🦆🦆🐣🐣🐣🐥🐥🐥🐥🐥🐤🐤🐤🐤 0:58
Such a good video to remind you to love yourself
I see you everywhere
True
Is this a real guy or an AI? ,Im asking fr
@@JollyOliW you can see Xavier everywhere too
Right ❤️
He is full of confidence though he is both deaf and blind and not giving up on studies.
God please Bless him and his family who is putting so much effort and encouraging him not to give up. Also Bless the lady and others who are willing writing for them.👏👏👏
But to him this like a normal day. He doesn't think of himself as being disabled.
@@narsplace exactly
I know I am 10 years late, but I hope this young man is now happy and has a big family, I hope he has made his parents proud and has excelled in the career he is doing...
Yea it makes me feel ashamed becuz i have taken things for granted but after witnessing this my eyes got filled with tears like if he can do this much struggle then why not me.
❤
What company employs blind people, I bet he's unemployed. People like him are doomed from the moment they are born. Stop being this optimistic
He's dead --
Died in 2017
grateful to the people supporting him by his side, thankyou;
the best comment section I've ever seen. only positive vibes and sweet people and their sweet words.
I can't even imagine how sharp his brain must have become at this point, if only his deaf and blindness were to somehow recover, he'll become a legit genius with that sharpened brain.
His brain will not able to immedietly adapt to how bright and noisy our world is
nah, just because he is deaf blind doesn't inherently make him a genius. just like people being sighted and hearing don't inherently make them geniuses. he might have to navigate the world differently and come up with different strategies, and while that is certainly hard to do sometimes, it doesn't automatically make him better at other things. it's doesn't mean he's not smart, and it doesn't mean that he's smart, it's just the way he is and that's all. he's a normal person, just like everyone else. also, if he did have sharp senses, being deaf blind wouldn't stop him from being a geniuse
sorry if this came off as harsh, I didn't mean for it to be. I myself am disabled and I wish to correct the notion that disabled people are brave for literally just existing and living just like anyone else. it's not like we have a choice. and I don't praise abled people for existing, and I don't see a reason to think that disabled people differ from abled people in this way. I just want people to treat me normally, like everyone else, unless my disability impacts a specific area of my life that would require me to need a bit of help so that I can function like everyone else
@Dream Fan I do, why?
@Dream Fan I play everyhting
@Dream Fan wtf dream 1?1?1
Children like him are true inspiration. He is so sweet. He is working hard to give a purpose to his precious life... ♥️
You are absolutely right👍👍👍
@@padmajaofficial5863 🙂 🙏
Impressed by both the teacher and the student, hoping they are fine right now and have achieved their goals.
But how did he learn sign language with blindness?
@@劉芳穎-e8p They must have developed techniques for that. Helen keller also learnt reading even when she couldn't see or hear. Nothing is impossible. ❤
Precious life.... you are so right. Thank you for reminding us.
God bless the teacher also who chose this path as career and not only earning money but special student's blessings.
Amen!
I have downloaded this video. Just when I am going to start complaining, this video will remind me of how much blessed I am, that nothing is impossible with grit and determination. This boy just taught me something very precious.
Respect to the lady teacher. She must have lots of patience , love and compassion to dedicate for our special differently abled brothers and sister. Bharat Mata ki Jai.
I agree with you brother, Allahu akbar
@@yj9032. I also agree. Masha Allah
@@yj9032 hail Jesus, I do agree
@@yj9032 dude... You don't say that shit on the internet
Bharat Mata Ki Jai!
The writer is so patient. God bless both of them
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well shes paid to do it
Feel so blessed and is like a wake up call for when ever I feel sad over silly things whereas there are kids like him who struggle so much. Have saved it will re watch whenever I feel like giving up.
@@lmnop01 done that.... You will also start looking beyond those slowly
You said the real Mann Ki baat!
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Couldn't say it any better myself! ♡
Kindly do not consider everything you feel as silly things. As much as this video is valid, your emotions, fear, anxieties are also valid and never silly. There's a reason why you feel all these things. May you be able to find the reason, and heal :)
@@vineetha6942 well said! 🤍
This right here is dedication,huge respect for the champ for fighting against all the odds,hats off to him
When there's a will, There's a way!! More success to the teacher and this gentleman !! Also his family for supporting him❤️
God bless this child, the person helping him and everyone like them ❤️ I feel grateful for what I already have and I wish happiness follows him and everyone here
Is that shinobu
@@SaikouRaptor yess it is
He probably ain’t a child no more.
@@retrocollector101 😂 I just noticed this video was uploaded 6 years ago lmao yt suddenly decided to recommend it to us as usual
@@staraluminumltd nice
Impressive and interesting, i can’t imagine what it would be like to live without my sight and hearing capabilities. We always take this things for granted, we shouldn’t, we’re lucky to have them.
I don't have much to live for and I like reading novels and manga so much, I would kill myself if I ever lost my sight.
It’s so… in awe? To think that he lives in a completely mute, quiet, nothing world, to contact others through just touch. All our senses are connected, and to have two important ones taken away is so mind boggling
@@ritwikg.8006 ify
@@jjjean.7184 what does "ify" mean?
@@ritwikg.8006 I feel you
May God BLESS you 🙏 Work hard for your aspirations. Also, many thanks to the one who posted such a content. You have a kind heart indeed.
This is so divine. His persistence to learn is overwhelming.
All of us should be grateful for the vision we have.
Loved it. 🌻💖
The teacher have such good patience and so does the child, it's great to see both of the people trying their best:] hope that guy is doing good in life and so is the teacher.
Everyone is talking about the disabled student (as they should he is a LEGEND) but nobody's talking about how nice the teacher is. She was patient and didn't seem to mind as much as she treated like how a teacher usually would check an exam, despite this being completely different than simply checking papers a student wrote. Respect for these 2!
but brother i have a question not for joke if this student is blind so why is he wearing glasses
'goggles;
@@ArshavSemwalnot completely blind I guess
@@ArshavSemwal You see, maybe he is not blind completely but in his vision everything looks like fog in a windshield so he wears glasses to get minimum view but still he cant read or write thats the problem.
The teacher gets paid for it though, They have different teachers for special needs students
that's literally her job
god bless the boy and the woman who is helping him,hope they achieve whatever they want in their life
This boy is so dedicated.... May he reach his destination.... Hats off to his will power..! 🙌
where?
Lol these shits get college in 10 percentile only
@@mohitsinghnitjsr2652 these shits? What your mouth kid
There should be no failure for these guys in exams. The fact that they've just attempted to their best is enough.
Yeah💯💚🥺
There isnt
im still a little confused on why he has glasses (someone pls explain to me)
agreee❤️
@@ferpz968 im not sure but he might not be fully blind so glasses kinda help him or atleast that’s my guess
I remember how I used to crib about small things in life but when I see this I feel I'm in such a better condition. God bless this student with all the success in life.
This video still brings chills in my body that how lazy I am while being gifted to see this world everyday and listen to it
High level of respect for the teachers who actually responsible for giving life to these students after there parents !!
Yepp. I was searching for a comment on the teacher ❤️
He is not disabled , he is special , he is hardworking.. I wish him all the very best . Go great champ !
If he is not disabled, is he abled?
varun raste
If he disabled.. just turn enable?
Bruh he's disabled. I'm ugly but if someone comes up to me and says "ooh you're so good looking" that's disrespectful.
He is disabled. That's doesn't make him less than rest of us. Stop attaching "bad" to that word
May God shower his endless blessings upon this boy and the lady who is helping him out.U are an inspiration to all who are blind even having both eyes and deaf even having both ears.People like u are true winners.
And god isn't the one who made him this way in the first place?
@@Akshaytg don't make a mess here...I have seen many debates like this that has no ends...we never know why some ppl are born the perfect while some are not that lucky...maybe everything happens for a reason and even if you find no reason behind it, we still cannot do anything arnt we? So pls instead of spreading hate, show some love
@@Akshaytg We are no one to question God,he's is the supreme power and he is our creator as well.He has given very less to someone so that they can prove their worth and set an example to others having less compared to others.Whereas on the other hand he has given much more to many people so that they can help others with that extra.This way God is balancing the world.If all gets everything and the world is perfect then there is no need of God as we don't need anything. The NEED
only reminds us about God and seeing less fortunate people we feel thankful to God that we are fortunate to have much in our life and should turn towards them to ease their sufferings.What you said is your feelings and pain for them no doubt 😊but to understand God's will we still need to go a long way.
@@KidsStudyZone Well said my dear brother.
@@aadarshkumarshah8795 Well said brother.Sometimes it's okay not to know every answer to our questions.God will unfold it at the right time.Yeah,hope we spread love towards each other.
praising him and the person writing it for him. Both such amazing skills. God Bless ❤️
I wish him all the best in his future. He's brave enough to know his disabilities but still, is able to write his exams. I respect the teacher as well.
I literally appreciate both person's hardwork. Appreciate to the boy that he's not giving up 🔥🔥🔥
Giving up is only for the people whom their lives where easier at some point and despite their expectations the world has shown its true face to them . Unlike this case ...
you ruined the comment by putting a dumb edit
I'm fking sad right now... idk why
This guy... He is the definition of perseverance.
You see a guy like him able to study well and the teacher that really helps.
I can't imagine if I was in his position. Knowing my life is going to be on ultra hardcore mode... Man...
What a mixture of sadness and joy and excitement when i see this clip
If he is blind why is is wearing spects
@@aaravshah2223 legally blind people can see and differentiate between basic shapes, and the glasses enhance his ability
@@aaravshah2223 there are a few types of blindness. I think he is not fully blind, he only can see something super close maybe about 1 cm from his eyes. Of course with such ability he can't even write comfortably on anything.
He might be partially blind
The most determined person I've seen in a while. God bless them both.
Yeah
props to that wonderful teacher for helping him god bless both
Damn. I'd admit, i even cheated on my exams because i was too lazy, but him here. That man did his exam without vision or even hearing. God bless this man. Hope things are going well to him.
INSPIRATION FOR ALL OF US..😌
The thing that he might me born deaf and blind, how he would have trained himself and how strong motivation it would be for him to study, unbelievable....Salute
If that is true, I’m very impressed this guy is talented
How do someone who is born deaf and blind learn sign language and can study???? Like its just empty in their head just black, they can only touch. Like for example how tf is someone supposed to learn him the word human in sign language? how tf will he understand that with being deaf and blind? this shit is hella confusing on how they learn this shit, my brain is exploding
@@die9618 you can literally search for the explanation of it using the same application that you used to write this comment.
@@die9618 he was probably not born with the disabilities
These guys the real ones who succeeded in life
😂😂you know dam well he gonna maki his parents life awful and just leech of them forever
Ironic coming from your dumbass 😂@@Wrecck12
@@Wrecck12At least they actually do something productive unlike you being jealous of their skills.
@@Wrecck12That's such a cruel comment dude . It's not his mistake that he was born like that . Despite all the difficulties he is moving forward. If you can't encourage or appreciate him then atleast don't post such cruel comments.
@@Wrecck12you are definatley sitting in dark room with no life and addicts with different drugs and writing this comment 😂, such a trash life of yours
Those who complain about their life should know that they aren't facing problems more than this guy then also he is fighting everyday and not giving up. Respect 💪
There are poeple that can hear and see but never put efforts like this boy here , truly proud of him💯
I feel so ashamed of myself after watching this...
Even after having literally everything I need as well as want...
Even I was about to say this we hv everything ,but still we expect more
@@bhargavimn9932 its only natural to be like that.... imagine being born an average life, an average brain, an average family, an average money. While others are born rich, smart and gifted. Its only natural to crave for more.. since humans are greedy and they want to gain more than what they have. Even if others are poor or dumb or hated more than you, you just dont care, humans dont care about others.. they only care about themselves, about who they are, they only care about their loved ones or friends or other relatives... they dont care if people suffer from 1860s... they dont care if other people are dying from starvation, they only care about gaining more and more and more than what they already have.
@@NotaPlagueDoctor300 That's just human nature, which is a direct result of evolution and natural survival instincts.
@@gamistry2947 very true bro
Even with all abilities we're sitting like dumb but these guys are the real super humans who struggles to win and always ready to show their patience and sincerity on their works.☺❣️
Bilkul sahi baat h bhai
Well they got my will to live than the people who has abilities
@DestructiveEnergy But you try to manage
with it. That's the spirit man.. 😎
You might be sitting like dumb
Seriously
this guy is simply impressive & genuinely inspiring, he's proving that despite things outside your control, there still remain actions you can take towards whatever you're facing, and that you're capable of achieving things similarly to others who have more senses available.
Thanx TH-cam for recommending this, I was having a hard time cause of all the entrance exams and here I saw him who lacks 2 of the 5 senses and still giving exam and studying. How brave he is, compared to him I am nothing. This made me realize how trivial I am.
bro he forever gonna be useless. There's no way he better than you
@@Wrecck12 he won't stay useless bro, he's trying his best to overcome the physical limitations he's been born with. He could live his life in agony, jealousy that why only me, why only I have to suffer but instead he had the guts to accept the fact and move on to make his life a little better if not the best.
@@simpledude750 no please stop with the deluded optimism and think for a second. what can he do? what job can he take? he can't even make a family because let's be real, what person would want a blind-deaf husband? and if someone does marry him, the disabilities will just get passed down. Causing more suffering -
@@LEYTHLEGACY and what do you think he doesn't know all that? He know it all too well, he's the one experiencing one of the worst life experiences and still he have the courage to follow his heart and do things which seems impossible for him to do. He's brave at heart. Yeah, many things won't go as planned, he will lose most of the time, and the disability is the biggest handicap but still he's trying. I don't think I can survive even half a year in his position.
@@simpledude750yikes. To have give birth to a dolt like you...
Hats off to the dedication of this boy even after facing this much hardship he's not giving up on his dream of learning.
He knew the answer as soon as he read the question. And the slam on the table at the end, he was extremely confident with the answer. My man has been studying hard. 🙌
Kudos to the child 👏 and to his teachers as well...
He is a strong man may he be successful and happy in life❤❤
Everyone praising the kid, me: that teacher understands him so good
Props to that teacher too 👏🏻🙌🏻
They are specially employed to help the disabled. They need to know sign language.
They're specialist man
@@An_ony_mous don't call them disabled man! Say, differently abled.
@@Sciencex bruh.. Since when did the word "disabled" become disrespectful. Chck the definition of disabled on google. He is disabled. Differently abled and disabled both are synonyms of each other, you can call him any of those two, it doesnt make a difference
Feel like crying after seeing this, god bless his determination
I cried 😭
😭😭😭😭
There's nothing to cry..on the contrary I smiled at his determination to work hard and his perseverance..and I appreciate the tutor or scribe whosoever that Maam was for her amazing work and contribution to help people who needs and deserves..I dont think people whetherwith physical impairment of any sort or without it as well would want ur sympathy in that way where u drop tears..cos despite all the struggles the kid is working hard..so that itself makes me smile that humanity is still there and people like that Maam exists...
@@horrorripples3332 wow your thoughts are amazing really motivated me ✌👍
@@horrorripples3332 i am crying on myself that i have wasted my life after watching his hardwork
Even though i am healthy person . 😭😭
We all should learn from this kid to never give up and always be focused and determined towards the goal. No matter how difficult the life gets.
God bless that kid!!
yes, God bless him indeed
This world is filled with people that give me so much happiness, hope and strength.
Both the scribe and that ingenius, indomitable child.
I am literally crying after watching this. May god bless this boy and that ma'am who was so supportive and helpful to him. 😭😭❤️
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@@RavinderSaini09 🥺
@@nitrozengaming4964 🥺
@@mzzar_xd 🥺
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The way he immediately grabbed the ladies hand after just finishing reading the question is amazing. I can see and hear and still it takes me about 3 times to re read the question to understand it and another 10mins to think up of an answer😂😂😂😂. Guy's a genius. (Huge respect to the lady as well❤️❤️)
Absolutely how great they are and we have everything and someone student always trying to finding the way to absent in the exam so same of them
The reason he grabbed her hand is to communicate. You can see her doing signs with her hand. After all he can't hear her
@@anim3197 I think they’re aware it’s for communication, I think Michael is trying to say that the boy immediately grabbing the lady’s hand after reading is amazing because he didn’t even have to think long for an answer.
@@dna9095 👍👍
I'm telling you we don't call them special people for no reason. Sometimes we can't even remember words that we use in our everyday lives (y'all gotta keep your pride aside and accept this) and these angels remember a massive number of signs and combine them without any mistake to form a perfect sentence. Bless these angels ❤️
We do the same thing he does except with words
I bet he forgets signs just like we forget words
Why he have glasses?
@@shuangmingji4333 he was most likely deaf and (I’m guessing) after a few years he lost his sight. Happens to some people randomly
@@shuangmingji4333 I’m assuming he’s not completely blind, but has impaired eyesight which is why he wears them.
Why does he have glasses if he can’t see?
Hearts to this strong will deterred boy. May he gets everything he has ever wished for.
This reminded me to be sincere as well in my efforts. Thank you ❤️
This boy has willpower that none of us would ever be able to achieve💪
God... Kudos to his perseverance and will to learn.. God bless his parents too
If this guy can show so much determination and grit, then my achievements so far is just pile of dirt.
Dont compare yourself or your hardwork with anyone,everyone have their own hardships but that doesnt mean if one's hardship is harder than you, than yours is invalid
I was just scrolling about , and saw your youtube banner and came here just to like the video
The banner itslef forced me to visit this an like it ❤❤
Hatsoff sir ........ Hatsoff. 😢❤❤❤
Oh my god considering the amount of hardships they go through we really need to realise how its a real privilege to be born alright 🙏and make lives better for special ones like him💗💖
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❤️❤️❤️🙏🔥
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That moment when he grabs his teacher's hand to convey the answer .. it's so *heart warming*
Praying to god to give me 1% of the confidence and determination this child has..
True example of Hard work and dedication 💯
We must give huge amount of respect to both of them, both of them are doing their best. No words to explain
Explain what? Dumbahh
That man is just striving for education just like everyone else while she is doing the work of an educator, it’s normal. So can you please stop that with your positive ableism!
This is not an inspiration porn, Sir.
@@iche9373 the guy which is blind and death doing that is insane and the woman teaching him is also insane
imagine being death and blind?
no watching on the internet
no video games
no sports
no seeing your mother or father
no listening to music
no talking/listening
@@TheOneMrLebanon And yet, he finds meaning in life. And that’s all about what matters, Meaning in Life.
@@iche9373 yeah but the effort he does to do it is amazing
Truly heartwarming!
May he fly high in life. We tend to take things for granted but people like them remind us of what life has showered upon us.
This inspired me to study even harder.
I got tears in my eyes at the end of this video, he should get more time to do the exam and i cant beleive he studied for this exam the whole year like this and hes confident in his exams. And still he can write the exam this good? Impossible (nothing is impossible , impossible above meant just REALLY HARD). I wish him good luck in future exams...i hope he passes IIT and becomes an IIT student... (Indian Institute of Technology) (also thanks for whoever liked this video now or in future)
I'm sorry but he's not gonna be an IIT student no matter how hard he tries. The seats reserved for disabled people is filled by those with non working legs etc. , And everyone has a clear advantage against him
@@JohnWick-oj6bw Those with no legs or hands should get the best help too. And surely does this guy and much more. Government should definitely take him as ward of the state, bearing all expenses and such things.
@@kekhaunter8002 Well, government only cares about votes, which they get from SC/ST, OBC, etc. Or even girls. Unfortunately I don't think he's any of these, so government doesn't care bout him, and of course neither does society. It's an evil world we live in
@@JohnWick-oj6bw dude. Coding works for literally anybody who could grasp it. He will have advantage because he "sees" the world in symbols and shapes (brailles) instead of being muddled by embroidery and fashion. It's quite difficult to explain how or what I mean.
@@janewick509 I think I kinda get what u mean. Would appreciate if u elaborate. Anyways, the reason why we progressed as humans so far, is because of our ability to learn and share our knowledge. He clearly can't easily acquire knowledge, as u can see how hard it is for him to write even a few sentences. And this world is really mean, always looking to crush u, if u don't adapt and survive. Nah, in this world we live in, he stands no chance
I wish him all the success in life. Such a pure soul ❤
Dipti,
It's simply amazing what you do and have been doing for so many years now.
You show great love and compassion and that's something so rare nowadays.
How many students must have passed through your loving hands ...
Thank you for being there for all your students.
I'm deeply touched.
Bravo !
Hello sir🤩✌
hello sir
Hii Sir :))))
Sir hi
Sir aap ne galat news kyu de the 9 aur 11 class ke exams ka centralization hoga
Back in college, I was also a scribe for children with special abilities. I still remember being assigned to this absolute wonder of a girl called Priya, and we conquered her exams together. We were together for almost a week, and those 3 hours and 20 mins that I spent with her each exam has been some of the most fulfilling aspects of my life ❤️
I also write exams for other people who are dumb . They arrested me for that. Only blind people can cheat in exams.
@@sumeshs8239 you don't write exams for the dumb. But for the uninterested. Those who didn't work hard.That maybe why you were arrested. But I doubt it. No ones shameless enough to reveal they were arrested. Either you are lying or you are not.
Hey how to be a scribe for children with special abilities? I see it as an important work and I would like to be one.
@@sumeshs8239whatttt
@@sumeshs8239be nice
The way he kept holding her hand❤
I just pray to god to bless him and everyone like him for all the goodness, joy and success in their life and to achieve their goals 💜
Army ??
@@mananjain8886 No people with special needs
@@vaishuvenkat4142
No are you BTS army 💜 ?
@@mananjain8886 hahha... No why?
@@mananjain8886 Purple heart emoji stand for Thanking Parents, Soldiers and other. What is army?? 🤔🤔 Do u mean thanking millitary of course bro😁😁
The girt and determination this man has, God bless him and everyone he loves, truly a gift given by God ! What such talent and beauty :) ❤️
Yeah what a gift, I wish I were blind and deaf just for God to give me the ability on how to deal with this bullshit
@@kolumbus1754 Yeah kind of what I was thinking too
@@kolumbus1754 lmao
@@kolumbus1754 Unexpected "be careful what you wish for"... Yes, this guy is unimaginably determined, but the hell he has to put up with everyday was the cost for that determination. I wouldn't take that lightly.
@@youareloved1455 ever heard of sarcasm my guy?
We can guess how lucky we are ... How difficult it is for him to describe even a single word 🙏
I was worried about my upcoming exams and this video just made me cry. I'm so grateful for everything God gave me. I hope this special kids get everything.
❤
This is heart breaking that deaf blindness is a thing, but also inspiring in how these systems of communication work
How it's heart breaking?
People shouldn't view it as an disadvantage or abnormality and shouldn't sympathize at all. It should be viewed as something as normal as someone having sight and hearing ability.
Our acceptance of them being normal like any other individual out there would serve them confidence in long term.
@@amritaparida3992 because it would be much nicer if all children had the full use of their bodies. I thought that was self evident
@@mookrage It is! But I don't feel it's appreciable when people undermine or over-sympathize specially abled individuals. To compensate their one disability, the other senses are much more developed and advanced compared to that of any completely abled person.
@@amritaparida3992 Totally agree with you. People here are degrading them with pity
@@amritaparida3992 hence the 'inspiring' part of my post. Look. I agree that disabilities should be normalised as much as possible, but at the end of the day children with disabilities is tragic. You keep putting your special kind of positivity on things but ill refrain from celebrating the fact that this kid and others like him have challenges in life which I wish they hadn't.