I love this conversations...the three of you should do it more often...I loved the comment about women who text men they know are in a relationship...i prefer a monogamos relationship but here I have to defend their behavior...I come from a mindset where I believe that a quarter of the human population is made up of bonobos who cannot keep their trousers up...and these people are born that way or are shaped that way by their surroundings or both, but that is the way they are, they want or desire others and they chase them...I once invited a girl out and she said no...we lived in the same small town...a few months later I began dating a more beautiful girl who moved into town from a more develop country...after dating the more beautiful, well educated girl for about two months, the one that had turned me down approached me one day when she saw me alone and told me to let her know next time my live-in girlfriend went shopping into town so she and I could get freaky at her place...I told my girlfriend...when we ran into her at a party of common friends my girlfriend didn't shake her hand and gave her a Darth Vader look and after that this homebreaker never even looked me in the eyes...when she arrived somewhere and we were there she would leave upon seeing my girlfriend giving her that look...let me tell you, women have a power that we are only beginning to appreciate...
Leah, only 30 minutes after watching your video and wishing to see your energy in a particular frame, I just got to see short snippets of Shay (as a Patreon of Shay) and the inner-child meditation she did with you and Maya. I am soul surfing the flow of the universe. Peace and Love, B Goat
Good morning Leah, nice to see you today ❤ Soo much drama on Facebook in the Philippines 😂 I would love to have a conversation about how a filipina expects guys to use Facebook and what it looks like from the guys perspective. 😊
Hi Leah, the most intriguing part of this episode to me is that two such composed women where so deeply moved and emotionally drained from the inner-child meditation you guided them through. It would be interesting to witness your person/energy in that frame.... all the same I appreciated being a fly-on-the-wall as you three shared your thoughts and experiences about jealousy - albeit in a foreign language for our benefit... salamat po. As a loyal "Shayvian" I did Sub to your channel and will keep an eye out for your future offerings. Peace and Love, B Goat
hey there Billy, thank you sooo much for coming here and sharing your thoughts, I love the "Shayvian" term :) Im happy that Maya and Shay trusted my process :)
I understand jealously, it comes from a place of insecurity. Secure the heart, secure the home, relieve the jealousy, and enjoy true partnership. None of us has all the answers or certainty, but as a man, it is our duty to demonstrate behaviors that quell jealousy.
The real life explains how men act with other. A lot of it has to do with...what/who are you? That's how all real men react to each other, and then they find their place in the group. The same thing happens with women...but they work on emotion and the power ir brings around men. Women are far more brutal than men are to each other...period. Real men want comfort and happiness, because most real men deliver that to their respective other. All we really want is understanding for not acting like women.
Once again, this is another great video about the inner workings of a Filipina. Sorry, I've been away. I was on a small vacation. Away from social media.
Jealousy is a toxic emotion that rarely brings a positive outcome. Being able to control your emotions is a great power and will always be the better option and choice. Be honest with your partner and discuss to give clear boundaries
@@trujefe7367 some women keep and wear their emotions on their sleeve and over expose to others. Other women might still have these emotions but have learned how to cope with them and realize they have options how to react to them
Jealousy is not needed in this negative world. If you love your partner and married to her or dating her she's your world 🌎. But me myself I like being positive to everyone in the world. Due to my military experience I seen alot of negative and sadness. But that's me . Great interview when you 3 are together ❤️ ❤
Amazing interview and topic Leah. Emotional security, emotional maturity, communicating clear boundaries, and unwavering respect are some of keys to success in a successful relationship. My hope is that those attributes cross cultural boundaries and mindsets. The crazy trick that the universe plays on us is those attributes usually only come with age and experience for both males and females alike. This almost felt like a bit of a podcast with a general topic and a very unscripted conversation. I thoroughly enjoyed it. As I go through your library of content, your mindful and positive energy is very much appreciated. and inspiring.
unwavering respect! YES, and respect comes from valuing your partner. IF you do not show respect, then you also don't VALUE your partner. It is impossible to have a loving relationship without respect and showing value.
The major problem when it comes to some women being jealous is the fact they do not know how to communicate with us men. Usman is very easy we will tell you exactly how we feel especially us American men
New sub here after seeing you on Gio and Shay's channels. Great content in this video. Covered more in depth the reasons Filipinas get jealous and possible ways to overcome that. Nice approach to the topic. Take care there Leah!
I don’t pretend to understand jealousy, but it sounds to me like you’re just trying to protect a relationship you care deeply about… and I don’t see anything wrong with that. If you didn’t feel those emotions, what would that say about how much, or how little, you cared about the relationship you’re in? As a guy who has avoided any type of relationship or contact for the last 20 years, I think I’d probably feel flattered and grateful that someone could feel that deeply about their relationship with me… and I’ll shut up now.❣️
Yes it is right to want to protect a valued relationship, but that is different than "Distrust" and "Jealousy". Jealousy IS distrust! and that is not good.
maybe what you mean is a little jealousy that would make you feel like you are being cared for, you are valued for, that is okay but when too much, thats when it becomes toxic
Excellent video! Very nice to see the three of you together this way. For me it's pretty simple -- respect. If you respect your partner, then you avoid situations or behaviors that tend to create negative feelings in the other. No one can, however, prevent someone with a truly vivid imagination from becoming jealous over insignificant situations. But then again, culturally, those situaitons may not be so insignificant (smiling at the waitress -- meaningless AND polite, however.......... it may not be so meaningless to her).
Tough subject, emotions are real and if you feel jealous maybe you have a good reason, if you don't have a reason it's toxic. Trust and communication is key always.
Find one for you that is not jealous. Mrs. Rick is the least jealous Filipina in the world. I've worked over the decades with many beautiful, accomplished women, and not once has she ever said a word or hint that she was concerned. Of course, I did my part by not giving her any reason to be concerned.
Thanks for another great video. I enjoy seeing a group of Filipinas laughing and having a good time. Jealousy, and/or the thoughts on it seem to be quite different when comparing the US to Philippines. Perhaps this is a result of how easily a lot of Filipinos cheat? This would certainly affect your self image and confidence. I think this is a somewhat conscious emotion and can be tamed. Especially once you have a partner that makes you a priority and shows you what loyalty is really about.
Seems to me those that are bothered by another's jealousness are the ones that know this wooden stake can shine light on their infidelity. The analogy refers to their vampire trait. They would have you believe jealousy is a wasted emotion.
Hello again Leah. Congrats on your growing channel. Fortunately, there is not an ounce of jealousy or tampo in our marriage. We both trust each other 100% so I can't respond to your question. Decided to delay moving there. We're buying a beach house here instead. Maybe a second beach house there soon. I might even do a channel on our new area. A comparison between here and there. Maybe we'll be dueling channels soon. Haha. Best wishes and congrats on your success.
Wow... I cannot believe people got mad and asked for a refund simply because you had not been able to thank them immediately. While I understand it is a raffle, this just seems so selfish to me. A true humanitarian should give without the expectation of being touted. And yes, I gave to this cause. Now I understand why you reached out to me through PayPal the other day. That is never necessary for me. I give because it's the right thing to do in my heart and because sometimes I am able to share what I have for a good cause.
I don’t know if I can explain this clearly, but I will try. 👇 I ‘study’ people. People in general. Not just one gender. In America many people like to people ‘watch’. When Americans people ‘watch’ they are usually young and/or immature. People ‘watching’ is when a group of people go to the mall and laugh at people for what those people are doing in that second. But ‘studying’ people, I’ve learned to ‘read’ people. I’m not 100% accurate, but 70-80% accurate. Accurate enough to go with what I ‘read’ when studying a person. When I say study, it doesn’t mean staring at them. I’ve done it so long it doesn’t take much. When studying people, I have found that individuals can be put in columns. Like character trait columns as an example. Also, when I study people, I have a very good idea of they’re just normal, trustworthy or not normal or trustworthy. I can tell if they are up to something bad or the type of person who COULD be up to something bad at some point. It can also serve as a safety thing. It’s very helpful. Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes all the way through. Many times, all an attractive person has to do is talk to tell they are ugly inside, and that affects their outward appearance. I say that to say this. I’m have studied people for over 40 years now. It’s not forced. Almost like how you lady’s were talking about jealousy being deep rooted. Here’s my issue. If I am dating a Filipina and I study a female, maybe just 1 or 2 seconds, and the girl I’m dating notices, that would cause her to go into tampo. So, she would go into tampo, I wouldn’t understand why and either try 2 or 3 times to pull her out of tampo and if I can’t I would tell her “I guess you are in tampo. I don’t know what I said or did and we don’t know if it was a misunderstanding due to cultural differences. Whatever the reason, when you are ready, please tell me what it was. It could be a learning moment for one or both of us. Getting her to understand what I mean by studying people and why I do it could be very hard. But, if she will let me, I could show her how it is a good thing and at the same time prove to her that it means nothing concerning lust. As far as attractiveness is concerned, I am going to have an attractive woman. But not just physical beauty. She is going to be as beautiful or more inside as she is outside. That means I will have to do a lot of searching and have complete communication, which I prefer. Leah, if you have any input on this, I would like to know what it is. But if not, like you said in this video, you have a life beyond TH-cam. ✌️
hey there, wowww thank you for sharing your thoughts here... question: why did she go into "tampo"? for me, you can study a person without letting her know by asking questions, observing her mannerisms and gestures, in my opinion you dont have to show that hey Im studying you... get to know the person deeply by asking questions. I would say emotionally matured women don't do tampo much and they communicate if ever...
Hi are you single or do you have a partner ,you make so many great videos on interesting topics ,keep up the great content you do. You are truly an amazing person take care and stay strong always have a great day.
thank you so much, does it matter if I'm single or not? Sorry but Im not here to flaunt my status, Im here to share experiences and learnings :) thanks for being a supporter since the beginning of my journey :)
Yayy chill, of course a subscriber can ask a question and I can also answer right? I'm just asking if it matters to you or not for being here on my channel. Its my choice to keep stuffs for privacy right and I think subscribers should respect that if the vlogger do not want to share personal info. If you feel my channel does not resonate with you, then please best to unsubscribe, I do not want you to be here and be unhappy about it. A lovellyyy and amazing friyay to you 🙃
Hi Leah. When two people are in a relationship that territory should have already been claimed and requires trust from both sides. Great interview dear, let's talk later.
When two people are in a relationship that territory should have already been claimed and requires trust from both sides. . Good point. I never thought about it that way, but this makes good sense! Ty
Dear Leah, Maya, and Shay, what if you changed the direction? Does a lady there remain committed even if they are getting attention from other men? You talked about jealousy on the woman side (you left out clingy by the women) when her man is getting attention from other women. I am curious about how faithful are the women there? God's Blessings, Irish
hey good question Irish :) I believe attention from other men wont budge a lady's loyalty as long as she feels safe and secure from her partner, emotionally safe... once a lady has that, nothing can tempt her away from you
I am planning to retire in the Philippines my concerns are I have lots of female friends and ex girlfriends that we speak everyday. Sometimes I travel with them. They all know each other even at my wedding 4 ex girlfriends showed up. So is this going to be a problem. I am single now I have a good relationship with all my ex ?
PS. This is going to be a big problem in Philippines unless you have a very trusting girlfriend, also a big problem in most Asian countries. You only find your kind of relationship in US and Europe I think where everyone understands it just friendship, not sex.
oh wow this is interesting, the girls didnt pull each other's hair? hahahaha, kidding aside, I think its possible to be friends with exes but the moment you will have a gf, you have to communicate this with your partner if its a problem or not
I had a lot of guy friends before, it is possible to be friends with guys but when their gf came, it ended coz of jealousy and I didnt want to also push it, I gladly stepped away and understand... so goodluck Mike, I hope your next girl will be accepting and understanding with your friendships.
can you do an interview with random filipina on the street and ask " how much does a boy need to earn to date you? " I'd like to see their answer like 10k-20k a month or some will say 1 million a month 😂
I am going to suggest something completely different. I don't believe temptation can be avoided. There are attractive young women everywhere in the Philippines. At the mail, in the street, in restaurants, or even just walking out to get food from the carinderia. A facebook friend is the least of it. It is unreasonable and impractical for a woman to try to keep her man away from all of them. The better way is for the man to make sure the woman knows how much he appreciates her. To the point where she really believes he cannot find someone else as good and he knows that. Even better if it is true, but if he has to exaggerate a little about how great she is (whether in the kitchen or bedroom or whatever) then he should do that.
If usa women throw a jealous fit(and they do🤯) the only thing to calm them down is plenty of attention and buy them stuff....that's the same thing i would do if I had a filipina girlfriend ☝️🤷♂️
I've been told that buying a gift is rewarding bad behavior. Better just to demonstrate love, show that you care for her, and show affection, and give space if needed.
@@randyfocht737 maybe in some cases that might be true but not if they are jealous of another woman☝️....you better make them feel special and buy them something,give them peace of mind they have no competition ☝️
@@expatguideph I disagree because if your dating/courting her she has a right to be a little jealous because legally your not hers yet and could simply choose whatever woman she's jealous of....so set her mind at ease buy her something ,take her out and show her there's no reason to be jealous ...dont let things like that fester in a woman's mind ☝️
I love this conversations...the three of you should do it more often...I loved the comment about women who text men they know are in a relationship...i prefer a monogamos relationship but here I have to defend their behavior...I come from a mindset where I believe that a quarter of the human population is made up of bonobos who cannot keep their trousers up...and these people are born that way or are shaped that way by their surroundings or both, but that is the way they are, they want or desire others and they chase them...I once invited a girl out and she said no...we lived in the same small town...a few months later I began dating a more beautiful girl who moved into town from a more develop country...after dating the more beautiful, well educated girl for about two months, the one that had turned me down approached me one day when she saw me alone and told me to let her know next time my live-in girlfriend went shopping into town so she and I could get freaky at her place...I told my girlfriend...when we ran into her at a party of common friends my girlfriend didn't shake her hand and gave her a Darth Vader look and after that this homebreaker never even looked me in the eyes...when she arrived somewhere and we were there she would leave upon seeing my girlfriend giving her that look...let me tell you, women have a power that we are only beginning to appreciate...
thank you for sharing :)
Leah, only 30 minutes after watching your video and wishing to see your energy in a particular frame, I just got to see short snippets of Shay (as a Patreon of Shay) and the inner-child meditation she did with you and Maya. I am soul surfing the flow of the universe. Peace and Love, B Goat
hey there Billy, thank you sooo much, its not for everyone and Im glad you appreciate that :)
Maybe she'll go tampo when she's jealous. Glad to see you with these two ladies again.
haha you know that word ey, thanks for always supporting Chad :)
Great job ladies! Thanks for the mental health prep for my return to the Ph"s next March. And good cause, will contribute.
hey Bob, yayy :) haha, best of luck :)
Good morning Leah, nice to see you today ❤ Soo much drama on Facebook in the Philippines 😂 I would love to have a conversation about how a filipina expects guys to use Facebook and what it looks like from the guys perspective. 😊
ohh that will be a nice topic as Ive heard its been one of the reasons for arguments in relationships
@@expatguideph exactly, lmk
Hi Leah, the most intriguing part of this episode to me is that two such composed women where so deeply moved and emotionally drained from the inner-child meditation you guided them through. It would be interesting to witness your person/energy in that frame.... all the same I appreciated being a fly-on-the-wall as you three shared your thoughts and experiences about jealousy - albeit in a foreign language for our benefit... salamat po. As a loyal "Shayvian" I did Sub to your channel and will keep an eye out for your future offerings. Peace and Love, B Goat
hey there Billy, thank you sooo much for coming here and sharing your thoughts, I love the "Shayvian" term :) Im happy that Maya and Shay trusted my process :)
Jealousy means you become an ex.... Jealousy is ungodly
I understand jealously, it comes from a place of insecurity. Secure the heart, secure the home, relieve the jealousy, and enjoy true partnership. None of us has all the answers or certainty, but as a man, it is our duty to demonstrate behaviors that quell jealousy.
love this, thanks Brian :)
The real life explains how men act with other. A lot of it has to do with...what/who are you? That's how all real men react to each other, and then they find their place in the group. The same thing happens with women...but they work on emotion and the power ir brings around men. Women are far more brutal than men are to each other...period. Real men want comfort and happiness, because most real men deliver that to their respective other. All we really want is understanding for not acting like women.
thank you for sharing your thoughts, love it :)
Once again, this is another great video about the inner workings of a Filipina. Sorry, I've been away. I was on a small vacation. Away from social media.
Jealousy is a toxic emotion that rarely brings a positive outcome. Being able to control your emotions is a great power and will always be the better option and choice. Be honest with your partner and discuss to give clear boundaries
Agree. Stoicism, though, is a much more a masculine trait. Very few women are wired that way.
Women will always be emotional beings, can’t change it and frankly, you shouldn’t want to
@@trujefe7367 some women keep and wear their emotions on their sleeve and over expose to others. Other women might still have these emotions but have learned how to cope with them and realize they have options how to react to them
The day the woman becomes stoic, it has been over for months, years likely. 😢 I will take the emotional, passionate one anyway over the ice queen!
I love the discussion here about being an ice queen and being emotional :) thanks gentlemen :) I salute communication and honesty.
Jealousy is not needed in this negative world. If you love your partner and married to her or dating her she's your world 🌎. But me myself I like being positive to everyone in the world. Due to my military experience I seen alot of negative and sadness. But that's me . Great interview when you 3 are together ❤️ ❤
thanks so much Gio :) hope youre enjoying everyday here in Philippines
Great video, thank you.
thanks jSpice :)
Amazing interview and topic Leah. Emotional security, emotional maturity, communicating clear boundaries, and unwavering respect are some of keys to success in a successful relationship. My hope is that those attributes cross cultural boundaries and mindsets. The crazy trick that the universe plays on us is those attributes usually only come with age and experience for both males and females alike. This almost felt like a bit of a podcast with a general topic and a very unscripted conversation. I thoroughly enjoyed it. As I go through your library of content, your mindful and positive energy is very much appreciated. and inspiring.
unwavering respect! YES, and respect comes from valuing your partner. IF you do not show respect, then you also don't VALUE your partner. It is impossible to have a loving relationship without respect and showing value.
thank you so much for sharing your thoughts here :)
@@randyfocht737 Indeed Randy :)
The major problem when it comes to some women being jealous is the fact they do not know how to communicate with us men. Usman is very easy we will tell you exactly how we feel especially us American men
yes, I love that you emphasize communication :)
New sub here after seeing you on Gio and Shay's channels. Great content in this video. Covered more in depth the reasons Filipinas get jealous and possible ways to overcome that. Nice approach to the topic. Take care there Leah!
hey there Michael, thank you so much :)
@@expatguideph You are welcome!
Avoiding temptation is difficult when surrounded by beautiful women, but avoiding temptation is absolutely necessary to protect your relationship.
if you truly love someone, youll do anything to protect your relationship :)
Emotional Security is 51% internal.
Good video. I do follow all 3 of you and Gio.
thanks George
I don’t pretend to understand jealousy, but it sounds to me like you’re just trying to protect a relationship you care deeply about… and I don’t see anything wrong with that. If you didn’t feel those emotions, what would that say about how much, or how little, you cared about the relationship you’re in?
As a guy who has avoided any type of relationship or contact for the last 20 years, I think I’d probably feel flattered and grateful that someone could feel that deeply about their relationship with me… and I’ll shut up now.❣️
Yes it is right to want to protect a valued relationship, but that is different than "Distrust" and "Jealousy". Jealousy IS distrust! and that is not good.
maybe what you mean is a little jealousy that would make you feel like you are being cared for, you are valued for, that is okay but when too much, thats when it becomes toxic
@@randyfocht737 yes agree with you :)
@@expatguideph indeed. Two thumbs up👍🏻👍🏻
Excellent video! Very nice to see the three of you together this way. For me it's pretty simple -- respect. If you respect your partner, then you avoid situations or behaviors that tend to create negative feelings in the other. No one can, however, prevent someone with a truly vivid imagination from becoming jealous over insignificant situations. But then again, culturally, those situaitons may not be so insignificant (smiling at the waitress -- meaningless AND polite, however.......... it may not be so meaningless to her).
love your thoughts, thank you for sharing :)
Tough subject, emotions are real and if you feel jealous maybe you have a good reason, if you don't have a reason it's toxic. Trust and communication is key always.
love it Jamie, thank you :)
Find one for you that is not jealous. Mrs. Rick is the least jealous Filipina in the world. I've worked over the decades with many beautiful, accomplished women, and not once has she ever said a word or hint that she was concerned. Of course, I did my part by not giving her any reason to be concerned.
awww that is sooo awesome Mr. & Mrs. Rick :)
Honesty is the best remedy
exactly Charles :)
Thanks for another great video. I enjoy seeing a group of Filipinas laughing and having a good time.
Jealousy, and/or the thoughts on it seem to be quite different when comparing the US to Philippines. Perhaps this is a result of how easily a lot of Filipinos cheat? This would certainly affect your self image and confidence.
I think this is a somewhat conscious emotion and can be tamed. Especially once you have a partner that makes you a priority and shows you what loyalty is really about.
love how you say that, thank you :)
@@expatguideph just the views and opinions of an old man 🤣
Another good informative interesting video Leah.The chemistry, bonding, between the three of you is great. Thank you Leah for sharing.😊❤
thanks Mike for always supporting the 3 of us :)
@@expatguideph Your welcome.
Seems to me those that are bothered by another's jealousness are the ones that know this wooden stake can shine light on their infidelity. The analogy refers to their vampire trait. They would have you believe jealousy is a wasted emotion.
Have a blessed night/day, everyone, and stay safe!
thank you Ice Master
@@expatguideph How are you doing today so far?
Goodnight sweet dreams and sleep well Leah. Take care and God bless you 🙏 ❤
Hello again Leah. Congrats on your growing channel. Fortunately, there is not an ounce of jealousy or tampo in our marriage. We both trust each other 100% so I can't respond to your question. Decided to delay moving there. We're buying a beach house here instead. Maybe a second beach house there soon. I might even do a channel on our new area. A comparison between here and there. Maybe we'll be dueling channels soon. Haha. Best wishes and congrats on your success.
hey there John, sure let me know, I would love to visit your beach house and chat with your Filipina partner :)
It's an insane jealousy that can be problematic and dangerous
indeed :)
Wow... I cannot believe people got mad and asked for a refund simply because you had not been able to thank them immediately. While I understand it is a raffle, this just seems so selfish to me. A true humanitarian should give without the expectation of being touted. And yes, I gave to this cause. Now I understand why you reached out to me through PayPal the other day. That is never necessary for me. I give because it's the right thing to do in my heart and because sometimes I am able to share what I have for a good cause.
I don’t know if I can explain this clearly, but I will try. 👇
I ‘study’ people. People in general. Not just one gender. In America many people like to people ‘watch’. When Americans people ‘watch’ they are usually young and/or immature. People ‘watching’ is when a group of people go to the mall and laugh at people for what those people are doing in that second.
But ‘studying’ people, I’ve learned to ‘read’ people. I’m not 100% accurate, but 70-80% accurate. Accurate enough to go with what I ‘read’ when studying a person. When I say study, it doesn’t mean staring at them. I’ve done it so long it doesn’t take much.
When studying people, I have found that individuals can be put in columns. Like character trait columns as an example.
Also, when I study people, I have a very good idea of they’re just normal, trustworthy or not normal or trustworthy. I can tell if they are up to something bad or the type of person who COULD be up to something bad at some point. It can also serve as a safety thing. It’s very helpful.
Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes all the way through. Many times, all an attractive person has to do is talk to tell they are ugly inside, and that affects their outward appearance.
I say that to say this. I’m have studied people for over 40 years now. It’s not forced. Almost like how you lady’s were talking about jealousy being deep rooted.
Here’s my issue. If I am dating a Filipina and I study a female, maybe just 1 or 2 seconds, and the girl I’m dating notices, that would cause her to go into tampo.
So, she would go into tampo, I wouldn’t understand why and either try 2 or 3 times to pull her out of tampo and if I can’t I would tell her “I guess you are in tampo. I don’t know what I said or did and we don’t know if it was a misunderstanding due to cultural differences. Whatever the reason, when you are ready, please tell me what it was. It could be a learning moment for one or both of us.
Getting her to understand what I mean by studying people and why I do it could be very hard. But, if she will let me, I could show her how it is a good thing and at the same time prove to her that it means nothing concerning lust. As far as attractiveness is concerned, I am going to have an attractive woman. But not just physical beauty. She is going to be as beautiful or more inside as she is outside.
That means I will have to do a lot of searching and have complete communication, which I prefer.
Leah, if you have any input on this, I would like to know what it is. But if not, like you said in this video, you have a life beyond TH-cam. ✌️
Yes! " But not just physical beauty. She is going to be as beautiful or more inside as she is outside. "
hey there, wowww thank you for sharing your thoughts here... question: why did she go into "tampo"? for me, you can study a person without letting her know by asking questions, observing her mannerisms and gestures, in my opinion you dont have to show that hey Im studying you... get to know the person deeply by asking questions. I would say emotionally matured women don't do tampo much and they communicate if ever...
nice
Hi are you single or do you have a partner ,you make so many great videos on interesting topics ,keep up the great content you do. You are truly an amazing person take care and stay strong always have a great day.
thank you so much, does it matter if I'm single or not? Sorry but Im not here to flaunt my status, Im here to share experiences and learnings :) thanks for being a supporter since the beginning of my journey :)
@@expatguidephnot sure why a subscriber can't ask a question, mybe I need to unsubscribe.
Yayy chill, of course a subscriber can ask a question and I can also answer right? I'm just asking if it matters to you or not for being here on my channel. Its my choice to keep stuffs for privacy right and I think subscribers should respect that if the vlogger do not want to share personal info. If you feel my channel does not resonate with you, then please best to unsubscribe, I do not want you to be here and be unhappy about it. A lovellyyy and amazing friyay to you 🙃
Hi Leah. When two people are in a relationship that territory should have already been claimed and requires trust from both sides. Great interview dear, let's talk later.
When two people are in a relationship that territory should have already been claimed and requires trust from both sides. . Good point. I never thought about it that way, but this makes good sense! Ty
indeed :)
@@randyfocht737 yes I also agree, well said :)
going to bars and going on social media are not even fun for us single guys once we reach a certain age.
Leah, you should listen to Rascal Flatts Things That Matter.
Hi Leah!
Dear Leah, Maya, and Shay, what if you changed the direction? Does a lady there remain committed even if they are getting attention from other men? You talked about jealousy on the woman side (you left out clingy by the women) when her man is getting attention from other women. I am curious about how faithful are the women there? God's Blessings, Irish
hey good question Irish :) I believe attention from other men wont budge a lady's loyalty as long as she feels safe and secure from her partner, emotionally safe... once a lady has that, nothing can tempt her away from you
I don't their jealousy is their problem
Communicate.
The Philippines. The place of easy fitness tests, and hard comfort tests. 😛
I am planning to retire in the Philippines my concerns are I have lots of female friends and ex girlfriends that we speak everyday. Sometimes I travel with them. They all know each other even at my wedding 4 ex girlfriends showed up. So is this going to be a problem. I am single now I have a good relationship with all my ex ?
PS. This is going to be a big problem in Philippines unless you have a very trusting girlfriend, also a big problem in most Asian countries. You only find your kind of relationship in US and Europe I think where everyone understands it just friendship, not sex.
oh wow this is interesting, the girls didnt pull each other's hair? hahahaha, kidding aside, I think its possible to be friends with exes but the moment you will have a gf, you have to communicate this with your partner if its a problem or not
I had a lot of guy friends before, it is possible to be friends with guys but when their gf came, it ended coz of jealousy and I didnt want to also push it, I gladly stepped away and understand... so goodluck Mike, I hope your next girl will be accepting and understanding with your friendships.
@expatguideph my ex girlfriends always step aside when I really like someone. They know my heart ❤️
@expatguideph my father's funeral was scary I will say that. 😆 🤣 I respect all of my ex 💯
Great topic and advise from three of the most emotionally mature women around.
hey there Rick, thank you :)
can you do an interview with random filipina on the street and ask " how much does a boy need to earn to date you? " I'd like to see their answer like 10k-20k a month or some will say 1 million a month 😂
Hahaha great idea Peter, I'd do that 😊😊😊
Most girls say 50,000. Some 100,000.
@@expatguideph please do this for us to see. I bet some will say 1 million.
Leah looks good (very attractive) in your video ♥ I know she is married to Gio.
Maya
No I'm not married to Gio, it's Maya 🙂🙂🙂
I am going to suggest something completely different.
I don't believe temptation can be avoided. There are attractive young women everywhere in the Philippines. At the mail, in the street, in restaurants, or even just walking out to get food from the carinderia. A facebook friend is the least of it. It is unreasonable and impractical for a woman to try to keep her man away from all of them.
The better way is for the man to make sure the woman knows how much he appreciates her. To the point where she really believes he cannot find someone else as good and he knows that. Even better if it is true, but if he has to exaggerate a little about how great she is (whether in the kitchen or bedroom or whatever) then he should do that.
very well said Andy :)
If usa women throw a jealous fit(and they do🤯) the only thing to calm them down is plenty of attention and buy them stuff....that's the same thing i would do if I had a filipina girlfriend ☝️🤷♂️
I've been told that buying a gift is rewarding bad behavior. Better just to demonstrate love, show that you care for her, and show affection, and give space if needed.
@@randyfocht737 maybe in some cases that might be true but not if they are jealous of another woman☝️....you better make them feel special and buy them something,give them peace of mind they have no competition ☝️
thanks Randy, nice advice, I agree with you.
buying stuffs - this works only for immature childish women and some can manipulate you coz of that reward youre giving everytime she's jealous
@@expatguideph I disagree because if your dating/courting her she has a right to be a little jealous because legally your not hers yet and could simply choose whatever woman she's jealous of....so set her mind at ease buy her something ,take her out and show her there's no reason to be jealous ...dont let things like that fester in a woman's mind ☝️