I'm not a mom but I truly believe I'm called to be a mom to many. It's tough yona but I have a lot of love to give and there are plenty of kids who need it.
Shame I feel for her, I'm a mom of 2 n I can't imagine my life without my kids. I've always wanted kids so not having them would break my heart. She's so beautiful & looks like a sweet person, I believe that she can be a wonderful mom aoooo it's sad tlhe 😢
Can she try a surrogate. She can use her own eggs. Instead of trying to carry the pregnancy. The baby will have her DNA. Sometimes we need to look at other options for our goals
Must be hell on earth. Such a darling of a person at that. Good hearted people should get everything they want. If I could change one thing in this life
I feel for her honestly however she has money she can go the surrogacy path and I understand she wants to feel the baby kicks and be the one that carries the baby full term but if thats not happening there's other options she has to look at .
I was literally coming to type this but I thought people are gonna say I'm insensitive, you know things get lost in writing. I'm glad someone said it, I'm curious as to why some people won't do surrogacy (if they can afford) or even adoption...
If I could, I’d tell her to stop thinking about it. Her body must be stressed and it can also factor in to how her womb operates. But Shem it’s not easy
She can also adopt, there's lots of children who needs her to be their mom. Get one why waiting for God's time. You will never regret it, I promise you ❤❤
@mukhubavincelly9831 no one asked you to listen to stories about her. It is very disrespectful and easy for you to say that she can just adopt. Have some empathy as a human being. Adopting is not the same as carrying your own child.
@@AziMan-k5yThese pple are talking nonsense.Imagine how pple bully Lerato on Social.media abt her miscarriages,how.much more when thwyl know.that she adopted a child. These pple are evil,theyl. nsult her till she hate that child. I will never advice some black.person to adopt in South Africa. Bcs black SANS are the ones who can even bully that adopted child. The society is not ready for such things,they must leave it for white people.If she wanted,she cld take a cousin kid but she know that kid will never give her love as her own kid would.
I feel for her aswell, I mean it took me a good 5 years to have my baby girl. I mean, at some point, I thought something was wrong with me. She must leave it to God he knows the right time for her 😢.
Lerato must just get a surrogate, matter finished. Any woman that’s been through miscarriages truly empathises with her. As a successful couple they must really consider surrogacy now
Guys don't look forward to retirement, parents really get depressed with nt doing anything, I've told myself that I need to start my own business way before retirement time, my dad does a lot of volunteering just to keep himself busy
I think she is being pressured behind closed doors it may not necessarily be her husband but maybe the in-laws. Or she’s scared that she’s getting older and nothing has happened. But one thing I know every blessing has its time, Jlo gave birth in late 40’s, Janet Jackson at 50, Mariah Carey mid 40’s. And these ladies are like her they got money and got their blessings after so many tries especially Jlo. So she’ll be alright. It’s sad but the baby will come at the appointed time.
"(Grateful For 'Sharing' Such A Very Sensitive/Emotive TOPIC'...'SESI LERATO - Please 'BE' Positive & 'Fokotja 'Pressure' Ya Monagano'...'The 'IDEA' Ya Go 'ADIMA NGWANA Has Worked 'WONDERS'...'O Hloka THEKGO Kudukudu From 'HUBBY'...'Please 'PRAY (Talk TO 'OUR CREATOR)'"
There’s kids sleeping under bridges as we speak I really can’t be playing pity party with people living in mansions and well fed sorry South Africans are going through a lot right now honestly this is nice life problems asumblif
As much as she might yearn for the pregnancy experience she needs to make peace with the fact it might not happen for her,she has enough money to try and have a baby using surrogacy,the goal is to have a baby,wish her all the best,i know her pain very well,
What's stopping her and her husband from going for adoption though? Even if they eventually have a child of their own, at least they'd have helped an orphaned child get a loving home.
@rosemah you mean it's not always what the man wants... Because chances are Lerato may want to adopt, but her husband could be putting pressure on her to conceive naturally despite seeing that it's not possible, subjecting her to more trauma.
Exactly haw or go for an IVF . I just don’t understand why she keeps on pushing to carry the child herself whilst she knows she can’t. This is a very stupid problem
@@hazeldladla5951 have you ever heard of surrogacy? Why not go for that then unless she doesn’t want anyone to carry her child then she will cry on social media untill she grows grey hair… us we are tired yoh! We also have problems of her own rather than her stupid drama
@@hazeldladla5951ever heard of surrogacy? Unless she wants to carry the child herself and cry on social media untill she grows grey hair. She has options
What if her husband udla la bantwana.... Sacrificing her womb for this money and grand living 😢😢😢khon'into e off. Evertime as she falls pregnant thez a loss maybe he made a deal with waterspirits. 😢😢
Shame maan 😢this just shows that God sometimes won't give you everything,but She must not give up ,Hannah had a healthy child at 80/90 ,but being pregnant physically isn't the only way .Not everyone is meant to have pregnancy experience,there are other ways like surrogacy &adoption .I know an Older Lady in my church married no kids but Hubby had one outside thy tried for yrs and nothing then finally about 2 yrs ago in Her very late 50s decided to adopt 2 toddler boys .Let me tell you She and hubby are having a time of their life raising those boys and enjoying every moment,so Sis I advise do consider other options you won't regret .🌸🌸🫂🫂
No she shouldn’t adopt she won’t be emotionally attached to the baby. In the state that she’s in you can see she wants to know how it feels to carry her own baby.
I'm not a mom but I truly believe I'm called to be a mom to many. It's tough yona but I have a lot of love to give and there are plenty of kids who need it.
Nam in total i have 9 kids all over SA ❤️😍
She will conceive and carry her own child ngegama lika yesu
Amen!❤
Amen💜
Amen 🙏🏾
May the good Lord just bless her with a baby nkosi yam👏🏽- just one. God knows that deep down I want her to be blessed with triplets.
My Mom was also an only child. This is why her entire everything was about us as her kids. I understood Lerato's yearning from my Mom's experience.
Shame I feel for her, I'm a mom of 2 n I can't imagine my life without my kids. I've always wanted kids so not having them would break my heart. She's so beautiful & looks like a sweet person, I believe that she can be a wonderful mom aoooo it's sad tlhe 😢
Can we leave her alone
May God bless her I know the pain went through it for 8 years in marriage
Can she try a surrogate. She can use her own eggs. Instead of trying to carry the pregnancy. The baby will have her DNA.
Sometimes we need to look at other options for our goals
@lulu...Lerato knows all dose options,I suspect she has been doing dem privately & failed.
God bless her with a child Amen may her womb be fruitfull in Jesus name
🙏 🤍🤍
As much as I’m also in her situation.i feel sad for her.she’s been through a lot 😢.hope she gets her rainbow baby 🙌
Wonder how it feels to be longing for a child,can't even imagine what she's going through
Must be hell on earth. Such a darling of a person at that. Good hearted people should get everything they want. If I could change one thing in this life
@@MissCombs1511 this life has no formula 🤞
Its the most painful thing ever something you dont even wish for your worst enemy
Sending her love and healing energy... And strength! She will have a baby of her own.
I feel for her honestly however she has money she can go the surrogacy path and I understand she wants to feel the baby kicks and be the one that carries the baby full term but if thats not happening there's other options she has to look at .
I was literally coming to type this but I thought people are gonna say I'm insensitive, you know things get lost in writing. I'm glad someone said it, I'm curious as to why some people won't do surrogacy (if they can afford) or even adoption...
exactly
@@nobathembujantjies7569same here,even adoption is another option.
God will Answer your prayers lerato
I wish i could carry a child for her😟
If I could, I’d tell her to stop thinking about it. Her body must be stressed and it can also factor in to how her womb operates. But Shem it’s not easy
My heart breaks for her😢💔
She can also adopt, there's lots of children who needs her to be their mom. Get one why waiting for God's time. You will never regret it, I promise you ❤❤
@@mukhubavincelly9831 you guys won’t understand till it’s you 😢
Or surrogacy, the money is there. Allegedly!
😅😅😅😅😅@@mukhubavincelly9831
@mukhubavincelly9831 no one asked you to listen to stories about her. It is very disrespectful and easy for you to say that she can just adopt. Have some empathy as a human being. Adopting is not the same as carrying your own child.
@@AziMan-k5yThese pple are talking nonsense.Imagine how pple bully Lerato on Social.media abt her miscarriages,how.much more when thwyl know.that she adopted a child. These pple are evil,theyl. nsult her till she hate that child. I will never advice some black.person to adopt in South Africa. Bcs black SANS are the ones who can even bully that adopted child. The society is not ready for such things,they must leave it for white people.If she wanted,she cld take a cousin kid but she know that kid will never give her love as her own kid would.
Mina mgamuthwalela omunye muntu untwana, ngiyafisa laba abangasibo omama ngelinye ilanga bakwazi kugona ezabo izingane
Maybe she should adopt
I feel for her aswell, I mean it took me a good 5 years to have my baby girl. I mean, at some point, I thought something was wrong with me. She must leave it to God he knows the right time for her 😢.
Oh she is overwhelmed as hell.
Lerato must just do surrogate once and for, she has a lot of money, they are going to afford it with her husband period!!!
exactly. She needs to accept
You will conceive in the name of Jesus it is well ❤❤❤
It’s boring to be home doing nothing it’s good her mum went back to work.
I can borrow her 3 for 3 months please Joh o need a break struu.
Strength to her.
Father in Jesus name remember Leratos womb amen
❤
I think she should consider surrogacy
She once tried it 🙃 search on TH-cam you will find something.
@ really lemme search…
@@Mokgadi_masedi I think it was uploaded by the same blogger ❤️
I pray all things works out for her🥹
I wish she had a sister who would carry for her. I think it's easier that way.
Lerato must just get a surrogate, matter finished. Any woman that’s been through miscarriages truly empathises with her. As a successful couple they must really consider surrogacy now
So true, they will use her eggs and husbands sperm. She truly doesnt have to carry the baby if the body cannot. You cant force it
Guys don't look forward to retirement, parents really get depressed with nt doing anything, I've told myself that I need to start my own business way before retirement time, my dad does a lot of volunteering just to keep himself busy
For real! My mom has been retired for 7 years now and she's been an annoyance to all her children. .. Sorry to say 😅. Free time is not always good
My dad has been retired for 14 years. He is the happiest pensioner on earth.Reads all day, everyday 😂😂😂Different strokes for different folks.
That’s very true, you need to keep your self busy.
Yohh 💔
I think she is being pressured behind closed doors it may not necessarily be her husband but maybe the in-laws. Or she’s scared that she’s getting older and nothing has happened. But one thing I know every blessing has its time, Jlo gave birth in late 40’s, Janet Jackson at 50, Mariah Carey mid 40’s. And these ladies are like her they got money and got their blessings after so many tries especially Jlo. So she’ll be alright. It’s sad but the baby will come at the appointed time.
We can hardly be surrogates for women with complications not for money but for humanity
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But she can go the surrogate's route..
She once tried it 🙃 search on TH-cam you will find something.
She can adopt
Surrogacy
She once tried it 🙃 search on TH-cam you will find something.
Leratos mom must take her mothong this is deeper than just having miscarriages and adoptions
And it's always the people who are fully loaded who can't conceive. Eish it's really sad 😢
She can do IVF
There’s kids sleeping under bridges as we speak I really can’t be playing pity party with people living in mansions and well fed sorry South Africans are going through a lot right now honestly this is nice life problems asumblif
As much as she might yearn for the pregnancy experience she needs to make peace with the fact it might not happen for her,she has enough money to try and have a baby using surrogacy,the goal is to have a baby,wish her all the best,i know her pain very well,
What's stopping her and her husband from going for adoption though? Even if they eventually have a child of their own, at least they'd have helped an orphaned child get a loving home.
It’s not always what couples that struggle to conceive want and that’s okay.
@rosemah you mean it's not always what the man wants... Because chances are Lerato may want to adopt, but her husband could be putting pressure on her to conceive naturally despite seeing that it's not possible, subjecting her to more trauma.
It is good to have a spy like you.. She was drunk 🙄.. She cant have kids? She must Adopt
Lerato can afford a surrogate. People have serious problems out there.
You are evil
Exactly haw or go for an IVF . I just don’t understand why she keeps on pushing to carry the child herself whilst she knows she can’t. This is a very stupid problem
Where is the empathy and compassion??? We don't know that she hasn't tried IVF, it is an option but it is not 100% guaranteed that it will work
@@hazeldladla5951 have you ever heard of surrogacy? Why not go for that then unless she doesn’t want anyone to carry her child then she will cry on social media untill she grows grey hair… us we are tired yoh! We also have problems of her own rather than her stupid drama
@@hazeldladla5951ever heard of surrogacy? Unless she wants to carry the child herself and cry on social media untill she grows grey hair. She has options
Being BARREN is a CURSE. Return to GOD Lerato
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No you’re wrong, is not a curse but a will of God, that doesn’t mean that God hates her, please stop it here
You're talking nonsense, you need to return to God yourself. GO READ YOUR BIBLE!
Who said she's Barren? Are you normal bathong😮
Shes not a barren...she can conceive but she can't keep the pregnancy on its full term..
@@AzulaZuko100 you need to repent... this is gross and inhumane. You can't be a Christian thinking like this. 🙄
What's sad here
Can she baby sit my 7 year old ? 😊😊😊
I think she's pregnant
🙄 aay unemali she will be fine , surrogacy or adoption ,,people have bigger problems
What if her husband udla la bantwana.... Sacrificing her womb for this money and grand living 😢😢😢khon'into e off.
Evertime as she falls pregnant thez a loss maybe he made a deal with waterspirits. 😢😢
This is not the first time she's had a miscarriage with a partner. She also had a miscarriages with her former long time soccer ex partner.
@Barbsie_M oh okay... Shemmm askies, she should consider surrogacy then.
@@Barbsie_M
I was about to say that clearly she does not know Lerato.
Be careful what you say, more especially if you have no proof of what you’re saying. Remember Jackie
@@ntombe1866 clearly nizihlobo ke nina....
Shame maan 😢this just shows that God sometimes won't give you everything,but She must not give up ,Hannah had a healthy child at 80/90 ,but being pregnant physically isn't the only way .Not everyone is meant to have pregnancy experience,there are other ways like surrogacy &adoption .I know an Older Lady in my church married no kids but Hubby had one outside thy tried for yrs and nothing then finally about 2 yrs ago in Her very late 50s decided to adopt 2 toddler boys .Let me tell you She and hubby are having a time of their life raising those boys and enjoying every moment,so Sis I advise do consider other options you won't regret .🌸🌸🫂🫂
No she shouldn’t adopt she won’t be emotionally attached to the baby. In the state that she’s in you can see she wants to know how it feels to carry her own baby.