Friends Gets Therapized The New Years Resolution Bet

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  • Friends Gets Therapized The New Years Resolution Bet //
    Have you ever tried to make a New Years resolution bet in an attempt to actually succeed with your New Years resolutions? Coming up on the end of the year, how can you make and keep New Years resolutions? The "Friends" will show us the way, you might say that, "They'll be here for us." Watch this video as the tv show Friends gets therapized with The New Years Resolution bet episode.
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  • @vanindrahargyono4772
    @vanindrahargyono4772 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Can you do The Good Place? I'd love to know your take on being a "good" person

  • @stardustkai
    @stardustkai ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The resolution Ross makes always sounded too hard to me. Like, every day? Try something new once a month or even twice a month would be doable but every day? Like what are you gonna do, take the trash out to a different bin??

  • @ThatRomyKate
    @ThatRomyKate ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I think the thing I’ve realised with resolutions or behaviour changes is not to say ‘I must do this every day’ because if I miss a day, I beat myself up about it and fall off the wagon. Instead I just say ‘I’m going to do this thing, and try to do it every day I can’. Then if for whatever reason it doesn’t happen that day, I tell myself that it’s ok, I can just try again tomorrow

    • @Siygrah
      @Siygrah ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really struggle with this. Thinking of goals as absolutes. I'm currently struggling with my overconsumption of sugar (sodas and chocolate). I keep falling off the wagon and with that comes self-loathing.

    • @Narra0002
      @Narra0002 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good strategy

  • @catherine7818
    @catherine7818 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Oh, we missed you! I'm glad that you managed to solve this problem. Welcome back ❤️

  • @LittleHobbit13
    @LittleHobbit13 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Would you react to The Owl House 2x04 "Keeping Up A-Fear-Ances"? Context: Eda's mother shows up with yet another "cure" for Eda's curse, which has been symbolic in the series for mental illness. Her mother refuses to listen when Eda tries to explain that she's happy and functional managing her curse and doesn't necessarily need to cure it. Would love to hear your thoughts on the messaging in the episode. :)

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 ปีที่แล้ว

      This sounds amazing!

    • @ghadeerjalal8742
      @ghadeerjalal8742 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES I love the owl house and it's themes and I would love for a therapist to react to it

  • @MorgynGreyWolfASMR
    @MorgynGreyWolfASMR ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Wow have I missed your videos. They help so much. So glad you guys are back.

  • @Minochu96
    @Minochu96 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    plis do Phoebe and Mike
    or Ross and Monica
    or even Chandler and Janice
    also Sheldon and Amy or Leonard and Penny from the Big Bang Theory would be nice to see too

  • @plumpmeup
    @plumpmeup ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If you are looking for actionable ways to make self-improvement goals, I recently learned about Gretchen Rubin's analysis on the 4 tendencies. She outlines 4 different "personalities" people fall into when creating habits and what strategies each one can use to maintain their goals. It is very simple and I think it is quite helpful.
    There is a book ( The Four Tendencies), but I listened to an episode of Ten Percent Happier podcast where she was a guest and outlined her theory. Very highly recommend, especially if you made a new years resolution that you want to follow through on!
    Thanks, Jono and Mended Light Team!

  • @ghjgme
    @ghjgme ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't know that I ever set a new year resolution, I dislike setting hard start dates, because this often sets people up for failure. If you think, well I messed up this year, there's never year, why not right now? I know not everyone thinks the same, but I know so many that make a single error and fully give up, just try again. OK, I didn't do the thing today, but tomorrow is another today. It is important to remember, if you're always waiting for tomorrow, that change will never come.
    2021 was the closest to a resolution, because I decided to prioritize trying to get physically back on track after getting covid Nov 2020. I had been physically active, but it really impacted my heart, so I gave up refined sugar, coffee, alcohol, and simple carbs, and did daily yoga w/ a short workout. It sounds like my goal was a diet, but I could suddenly not even walk 5 minutes without my heart racing/out of breath, when I had been running 2-3 miles a day. This year I am being an accountabili-buddy for my sister as she's trying to be more active. It's only for January, but so far so good.

  • @mariannaortiz2426
    @mariannaortiz2426 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    MENDED LIGHT! MENDED LIGHT! MENDED LIGHT! We missed you!

  • @Fallendown45
    @Fallendown45 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I turned 30 I decided that every year I will do something new.. 15 years on I am still doing it..

  • @Buffy8Fan
    @Buffy8Fan ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I never liked that the group chose the other's goals/resolutions. The goals/resolutions will ultimately fail if it wasn't the person who wants to do them's idea and their wish to try to stop. They all had to want to and he didn't. As much as I think it was a good idea to try, I dislike even more that the others set the goal/resolution/ for each other rather than themselves. I love that Jonathon Dekker agrees because I've run into so many FRIENDS fans who didn't understand or agree.

  • @carynfisher9463
    @carynfisher9463 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Once, many years ago, I resolved never to make another New Year's Resolution. I've kept it faithfully ever since!
    (Seriously though, if you're going to make changes to your life or yourself, don't wait until New Year's to do it.)

  • @mallisaunders4565
    @mallisaunders4565 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I decided against resolutions this year and instead made some achievable goals (Small achievable fitness goals, learning Spanish, and finishing my teaching degree). I am not beating myself up when I miss a day practicing Spanish because I can just try to do a little more the next day instead. I am making progress and I am not getting stuck in black and white thinking (either I did it or I failed). In case anyone is wondering, yes it is reasonable for me to finish my degree this year. Best wishes and Happy New Year all!

  • @noctilucera7585
    @noctilucera7585 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have set myself the goal 2020: no morê new years goals
    longest one Ive kept :D

  • @undeadliz
    @undeadliz ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel like I cant really set goals due to my mental health so all I said was "I want to wear more dark lipsticks throughout this year!". It might be vain and not something that most people would choose as a goal. But it is something for me and my personality. I like dark colors so why not have it more in my makeup routine?

    • @LastKnightKaname
      @LastKnightKaname ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I recently learned that it's easier to add a habit to something you already do. Sounds like you already apply make-up, so try placing dark colored lipstick in with what you typically use and you're more likely to do it/use it. If it's already there and you're thinking about it, it takes less time and steps in order to do the new habit you want. :D ♥ I hope this works out well for you! You got this!

    • @thatguywithanumbrella
      @thatguywithanumbrella ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I fixed my habit of chewing my nails to dressing them up in acrylic and colors. Replacing bad habits with a healthy habit is also an option. Sometimes it is best to focus on small changes like that rather than stress over something big.

  • @koalaskrypin
    @koalaskrypin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a fitness goal at the moment and I try to 1. listen to my body at all times to not push myself too hard and to take time to rest and 2. give myself grace when I do stumble. With grace when I stumble, it keeps me from falling off the timetable.

  • @merle309
    @merle309 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My new years resolution is to eat a lot and skip no single meal in 2023 (already failed though)

  • @alulia
    @alulia ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’d love to see your reaction to the episodes of when Daria ends up having a relationship with her best friend’s boyfriend.

  • @isabellakeman2016
    @isabellakeman2016 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im always do better with goals if they are 'imposed' on me, maybe because that person/those people then expect something on a particular day, while i'm just like meh i don't mind if i don't stick to this (until later)

  • @livialimaastrologia
    @livialimaastrologia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My boyfriend's resolution was to stop smoking after we lost a close friend because he was a smoker and didn't take care of his health, like my bf does. He asked me to help him. Two weeks on, fighting his cold turkey symptoms and mourning, he was smoking again and pissed that I was reminding him the reason why he decided to quit smoking. I'm very disappointed, because it would be so much easier if he used medical help, but no, he decided to go cold turkey. I knew he would fail, but he's never been so determined, so I really got my hopes up this time. 😞

  • @chromozomech
    @chromozomech ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm glad you are back! Hope that you're okay

  • @sarahkoren7294
    @sarahkoren7294 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Welcome back! ❤

  • @GeekEKittenGaming
    @GeekEKittenGaming ปีที่แล้ว

    Just saw a ton of videos get posted all at once so I guess there was some kind of problem with the channel. I was wondering why things were so quiet 😅 Glad you're back!

  • @livialimaastrologia
    @livialimaastrologia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Meanwhile, my resolution is to floss everyday, because both my parents startet to loose their teeth at my age. Somedays it's impossible, because I forgot to bring it with me, or, I was supposed to sleep at my place and ended up at my bf's. But I'm not allowing myself to not floss because I'm sleepy. I actually miss it when I skip a day.

  • @annamaegold
    @annamaegold ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOU ARE BACK! I would say with a vengeance but that's not very Mended Light.

  • @Musicandfilms7
    @Musicandfilms7 ปีที่แล้ว

    My new years resolution is to get to a better financial place, I've been struggling with money for many years now, so I don't expect to solve the problem completely this year but to work hard to make an improvement instead ( sorry if I made any English mistakes)

  • @sarahstrickland2986
    @sarahstrickland2986 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mended light is back! It was gone for a while, but why?

    • @chromozomech
      @chromozomech ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I remember reading on their Twitter account that they were hacked.

  • @jungessss338
    @jungessss338 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey! love your videos. Could you do a video on House of the dragon? I really want to hear your take.

  • @k.l.8702
    @k.l.8702 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just saw a video on Instagram about Phoebe and how her friends are bad friends to her. I myself find Pheobe is a bad friend and the guitar teaching is a great example for that. I would be very interested if I am right or if Pheobe actually is a good friend.

  • @timtheasianinc
    @timtheasianinc ปีที่แล้ว

    I study Spanish every day. And I try to be more proactive in my problem solving. I try not to make snap judgments. You know the usual. Lol =op

  • @NoudlePipW
    @NoudlePipW ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've kept a new years resolution for like, nearly 20 years.
    No more New Year's resolutions.
    Edit: Also, quit trying to make Lent happen. It's not going to happen.

  • @lucyairapetian407
    @lucyairapetian407 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you do Switched at birth? Recently started watching it and was pleasantly surprised

  • @juliamargaretcameron6207
    @juliamargaretcameron6207 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please make a video of phebe...❤

  • @thehuntersburrow7453
    @thehuntersburrow7453 ปีที่แล้ว

    you should do Owl house there some great episodes dealing with chronic illness and trauma

  • @kyihsin2917
    @kyihsin2917 ปีที่แล้ว

    My new year's resolution is 300 dpi

  • @meganharding5100
    @meganharding5100 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It least Rachel's not like just saying. Well, I'm a girl that's what I do. I'm saying that cause like I have a tendency to be aggressive. And typically when someone calls me out on it. I just say stuff like I'm a girl. OK girls, do that OK. Literally, that's my whole, no, it seems to be my whole excuse is I'm a girl, okay? It's just what girls do, what's is not intoxically true, some girls do it, but it's not just a girl. Thing