Types of “FRIENDS” You Should Avoid

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  • @marvinscarlett1
    @marvinscarlett1 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    This hits differently. I need to start listening to things like this more often

  • @jiwazahid
    @jiwazahid ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I just want to say your content has helped me in life TREMENDOUSLY, from my relationship to how i look, it's all gone better because of you, thanks a lot Shimon, i hope your channel keeps growing!

  • @dart838
    @dart838 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Shimon !! making quality friends is something Ive been struggling with, whether thats due to past trauma, my personality, my upbringing, whatever the reason might be. Ive made it a point to open my heart up but still struggle to make real connections. I would love to make friends that would last a lifetime but everyone just slips away one way or another, every time, maybe im too optimistic, maybe im too much of a romantic. Last year i wished to make connections and find friends, like minded people and for the most part failed. I know there out there, you and your channel is a perfect example. can you maybe make a video related to this ?

  • @SNAKETOOTH47
    @SNAKETOOTH47 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’ve been struggling a lot lately with my mental health. Watching your videos have helped me more than you know and I just want to say thank you. I’m happy I found your channel and keep up the great content🙏🏾

  • @thomas3574
    @thomas3574 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You funny as hell man, but also speaking facts. Appreciate the wisdom bro

  • @saltyishere9152
    @saltyishere9152 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You're amazing Im a complainer and you've opened up my eyes to how I act and sound its disgusting and Im going to improve thank you man🤛

  • @motionmafiaproductions
    @motionmafiaproductions ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I found your channel today man your content honestly is fulfilling and peaceful man real talk just to listen to something like this clears my mind for a second man its like meditating I can't wait to see you blow within the self improvement community

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome aboard and I appreciate you my g … the vibe won’t stop and I appreciate you for tuning in🤞🏾

  • @ItsssMarkus
    @ItsssMarkus ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I had A Lot Of Fake Friends in my time
    But Now I had to kicked a Bunch of People out of my Life
    It's How Life goes
    I had Some real Friends and I have a Few real Friends
    But I rather Have Few Friends then A Lot
    And Maya Angelou was Right
    When People show you who they Truly Are
    Believe Them

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      absolutely !

  • @mjlivetv8065
    @mjlivetv8065 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Man I love your videos🔥. It's like having a talk therapy but in the same way it's somehow a late night talk with a good friend.
    Thanks for your videos!

  • @greatgoodnessgoddessgratit5611
    @greatgoodnessgoddessgratit5611 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here from your‘People You Should Avoid Dating’ video… thank you for the reassurance your content provides.

  • @The_crab_guy
    @The_crab_guy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    honestly one of the best channels i've seen on youtube

  • @renhelsing
    @renhelsing ปีที่แล้ว +11

    DISCLAIMER: don’t feel like all your friends apply to these characteristics one way or another, it’s easy to tell when they’re a genuine friend or not. THEIR ACTIONS ARE TELLING.

  • @miguelplays2921
    @miguelplays2921 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How does one not be a man child I’m 18 and I’m torn between trying to be older and being young and playing the game and going out with friends to chill since my parents were strict during my younger teen years so I never really did those fun teen things and now it’s too late isn’t it. I feel like I take things to seriously maybe from time lost from COVID but W Vid man 💯🔥

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s never too late but it’s better to start improving now. The man thing with moving from child to man is responsibility. Get a job, save funds and invest in yourself, focus on things that matter. You can still play the game or chill with your friends but that should be your whole life. The balance is off, I know it’s hard not to when you’ve been deprived of something as simple as that but imagine you putting in work now, becoming successful, possibly even developing games with or for your friends and most importantly for yourself. Meeting new people and creating a much more memorable life. There’s many things you can do with life, and it could be more simpler things too, but just don’t get stuck in the nest.

  • @libralove3075
    @libralove3075 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love when you talk I go to sleep to your voice , I wish you did ten ppl to stay away from just hear you longer♥️

  • @FlozzioYT
    @FlozzioYT 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good advice thx

  • @shrooms679
    @shrooms679 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please make a Spotify podcasts 🙏 listening to your words is so therapeutic

  • @chepirator6618
    @chepirator6618 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very wise, thank you man

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you family

  • @loveisthehighestsourceofpower
    @loveisthehighestsourceofpower 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Competition is a miserable way to built a society! It is saying some people are worth more than others. You should only compare yourself with who you were before to improve. Each person is in this journey in a different part of their journeys at at different age and with a different path. Everyone makes their own path! I would suggest you do not compete but you only get inspired by the achievements of others! All you need is to seek to better yourself everyday, based o who you were yesterday!

  • @reesearnold9777
    @reesearnold9777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man I love what your doing. it has really helped me become a better person fr man!

  • @bupepalasidah3508
    @bupepalasidah3508 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally a channel that is helping my life thx bro ✍️❤

  • @Rayn-Beats
    @Rayn-Beats ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man this is some good advice, thank you man

  • @ethanvonbusch6366
    @ethanvonbusch6366 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you got a good heart bro, keep goin

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate that

  • @omuzchanoguzhanyani
    @omuzchanoguzhanyani ปีที่แล้ว +8

    1:40 I laughed hahahaha

  • @Wqlfyy
    @Wqlfyy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yo bro I’ve been cutting off some “fake” bad friends, how do I even meet some good people out here it’s getting tough g

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      just keep moving, experiencing new things that bring you joy and you’ll maybe meet someone of your liking. The best place to find a Liberian is in a library yk ?

    • @johnm2645
      @johnm2645 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AskShimonthat’s hella motivational my g

  • @justapotato88
    @justapotato88 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your channel is so underrated

  • @AzeTunez
    @AzeTunez ปีที่แล้ว +3

    im guilty for the first one tbh 😬

  • @monz_trum
    @monz_trum ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your content is beautiful bro😊

  • @sasuke7016
    @sasuke7016 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you for showing me I found my dude who can give me advise thank you from the bottom of my heart weather you read this comment or not i wanna say thank you stay blessed

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate you family❤️and you’re always welcome here

  • @yiun9822
    @yiun9822 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What happens if I am the person who complains

  • @rafaelmgoncalves
    @rafaelmgoncalves 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think you forgot to say the most important,
    Stay away from people who dont know what they want in life
    The one guy who goes to school just to be there, he doesnt try to do better and he doesnt care, cuz he das no perspective for life,
    Stay away from them cuz they will bring you down with them

  • @gwenaellewhite1796
    @gwenaellewhite1796 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Damn I think I’m a toxic friend

    • @servantofthelord8147
      @servantofthelord8147 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yo the fact that you’re self-aware is so awesome. Just keep growing - you’re on track to being the best friend somebody could ask for.

    • @working...pleasewait...
      @working...pleasewait... 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The buddy replyin is right! Listening to shimon on this opened my eyes about my toxic traits, you got this buddy! Let's keep growing!!

    • @yurilowell4878
      @yurilowell4878 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here brother, becoming self aware of what toxic traits you currently have is the first step you can take towards being great. Been dealing with major depression myself and that can exacerbate the toxicity higher than its supposed to be, but knowing you have decent friends around you, picking up better habits, and cutting things out that don't serve you will always benefit in the long game. Don't know if you'll see this, but keep on the path to be great bro, we go this ❤

    • @simplyysinaa
      @simplyysinaa 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      the self awareness is crazyy, ive never meet anyone that said they think theyre toxic now that you know your kinda toxic work on yourself and I hope everything works out for uu♥️

  • @id_mahi
    @id_mahi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you're someone i'd look up to.

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate you g

  • @bogatyrstudios1272
    @bogatyrstudios1272 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My friend does that exact thing when i get some money, "lets gable it" and also ppaying video games non stop while complaining that hes fat even though i dont think he truly cares enough since he still looks about the same as before. Idk what to do can someone help? Also racism is super super common about everything

  • @marvinzagorac3549
    @marvinzagorac3549 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know who to talk to about this.

  • @ipilot686
    @ipilot686 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man I would love to do this but these types of people are in my friend group so I can't do much about it. Any suggestions?

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Start back away my g, experience new things and new pieces

  • @swixswinggcswix7990
    @swixswinggcswix7990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo bro could u start making Spotify podcasts

  • @Matthewxwrld
    @Matthewxwrld 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whats the name of the background music?

  • @KrXzIfY_
    @KrXzIfY_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thx u bro I got a gf and started to hang out with her a little bit more than my friends and there starting to call me fake but outside of school they only wanna play the game but never text me unless it's just that am I being fake?

    • @supremenugget5433
      @supremenugget5433 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There's nothing wrong with you,your friends are the ones who need a reality check,they need to realize that they have their own lives and they need to do their own thing too.Its not always about getting on the game tonight, instead of them telling you shit they should support you or be happy that you're doing well for yourself, but you can't just ignore your friends too much because of your partner as well,if your partner makes you choose them over your lively hood and your friends and family then they weren't really meant for you.If your partner understands that you want to go out with friends and want to hang out now and then,then they're not the problem, it's your friends who expect you to be available whenever they want.
      Life is all about changes and embracing changes is the best thing you can do, wether its good or bad,we all have to learn to embrace it.

  • @lakkuuguddataa2832
    @lakkuuguddataa2832 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a child 👦 of him🙌🙏🙏🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍✝️

  • @shotsbysharp
    @shotsbysharp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you’re such a solid dude, i truly appreciate your words🤍