Overcoming Male Rap* Abuse by Brother | Lokesh's Brave Journey on Kissey Podcast

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  • Join us on the Kissey Podcast for a compelling conversation with Lokesh, a male sexual abuse survivor and proud member of the queer community. Lokesh's story has been featured in prominent publications like Brut, The Print, and Humans of Bombay. Now, for the first time, he shares his powerful journey on a podcast.
    In this episode, Lokesh opens up about his experiences with sexual abuse, the challenges of coming to terms with his identity, and the strength it takes to rise above trauma. We delve into the societal stigma surrounding male sexual abuse, the importance of mental health, and the resilience of the human spirit.
    Tune in for an eye-opening and heartfelt discussion that aims to break the silence, foster understanding, and inspire others to find their voice.
    TimeStamps:-
    (00:02):- Hidden male rape abuse
    (02:35):- Sharing Empowers
    (08:04):- Forced oral sex by his brother
    (10:28):- Traumatic experience of male rape
    (15:38):- Overcoming internal struggle
    (18:00):- Assertive refusal.
    (24:50):- Addressing family abuse.
    (29:35):- Overcoming brother's abuse.
    (31:59):- Understanding transgender.
    (39:21):- Importance of speaking up .
    (46:26):- signs of incest and unhealthy relationships.
    (51:45):- Infidelity ethics.
    (53:59):- Non-monogamous relationships.
    (59:04):- love and lust
    (1:01:44):- True soul and purpose
    (1:06:53):- Acceptance is key .
    (1:09:13):- Fighting male abuse.
    (1:13:48):- LGBTQ+ Confusion.
    (1:16:05):- Community support
    (1:20:49):- overcoming male rape abuse
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  • @NishaPotla
    @NishaPotla 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    I am not able to find the right words to explain how I feel about this podcast, it’s heartbreaking yet beautiful. There’s so much beauty in the fact that Lokesh is not only able to talk about the horrendous things he’s been through but also use his experiences as a weapon to protect others. I was on the verge of tears several times while listening to Lokesh and even though the podcast was supposed to be about this terribly awful time of his life, yet I could see Lokesh here so much more than I could his experiences. I could see the kind, intelligent man he is. His incredible, respectful character, the kindness in his voice, his ability to form beliefs but also be tolerant to other people’s beliefs, his knowledge about current affairs and just his charisma. Lokesh is really strong but not because he survived after he unfortunately had to go through one of the most horrible things anyone could ever go through. He’s strong because of who he has become, a really great person from what I can see. It’s so easy to be a “bad” person, it’s the easiest and most convenient thing, yet he has chosen to be a good person despite having reasons that can excuse him for being “bad”. That’s why I loved this podcast, because of the strength I can see in it not because he went through the worst abuse imaginable but because of the beautiful person he is. People around Lokesh must feel really lucky to have him in their lives, I felt really lucky to have the opportunity to hear him out. I know it means nothing coming from a stranger (even though you might have heard half-truths about me by chance, maybe.) but I am so proud of you, Lokesh and I wish to have the kind of strength you do. I hope you come across my comment and get to read this, it’s been sent with good intentions only.
    Dishank Timble. I don’t think I need to express how proud I am of you, but I will. You are in every way the person I thought you were and I am so, so proud of what you have built and the perfect person you keep growing into and shaping yourself to become. You’re doing so well. Thank you, from me and I’m sure from everyone who watches your podcast. You are making so much difference, in the best way possible. You are going to change the world someday, stick around and make it happen. Thank you for posting this. But also, I will call you on Friday to talk about this podcast, I will write down the points I need to discuss so I can make it quick, so please be available. Thank you

  • @sauravdhillon3265
    @sauravdhillon3265 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    The real hero of the story is Lokesh’s mom.The abuser was her brother’s son. She very well could have just shrugged the whole thing off and could have told Lokesh to be mum about it . But she fought and she made sure to confront the abuser and even had a conversation with the abuser’s mom. That act right there is what probably rendered Lokesh so much of strength.
    Lokesh if u are reading this know that am so proud of you. What you did is not easy. I hope you heal and be this incredible light that u are ✨

  • @BohoDevi
    @BohoDevi 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    These culprits are called 'groomers', they groom their victims over the years and hence it takes a lot time for the survivor to realize that they have been abused. Often they victim shame to get out of the guilt when they've been caught.
    Taking therapy and having such conversation on platforms such as Yt can only spread awareness.

  • @paruls636
    @paruls636 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    One of the most powerful episodes. It is very difficult for the victims to talk about this issue. Kudos to the host and the speaker both. 🙏🏼👍🏼🕊️

  • @Mahadev19373
    @Mahadev19373 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    Men not even leaving men:(

    • @amirbhat6143
      @amirbhat6143 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@Mahadev19373 A brother to A kido brother like you doing with youre own son..am so sad sad sad.

    • @harishnaik9079
      @harishnaik9079 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Ye uska apna saga bhai nahin tha,mama ka ladka tha,(cousin brother)

  • @yashika071
    @yashika071 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    My own teacher tried to do it and im still traumatized coz of it .i was one of the very good student of the school but us teacher ki personality usne aise bna k rakhi thi ki if i would have talked about it pta nhi koi mujhe believe bhi krta .. that's how these ppl r 2 faced
    I will gather some courage and tell my principal soon so that atleast at schools children could feel safe

    • @beelzebubleo284
      @beelzebubleo284 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Yes, true ,more power to you also please be safe , do inform your parents if you could or someone you trust. You never know how the principal would take it , most of them just try to get away with it to save their school's name and not be involved. 🌼

    • @jyotimaurya7639
      @jyotimaurya7639 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@yashika071 you go girl. More power to you. Always remember it's the teacher who did wrong. Never ever blame yourself for anything. Go and inform your parents.

    • @nanahaji6243
      @nanahaji6243 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Please share with your parents

    • @Gusjbwn6538
      @Gusjbwn6538 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Please share with your cousins for support or mother before complaining to principal, be brave and confident

    • @Jyotigautam52870
      @Jyotigautam52870 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Don't worry dear....if u have any doubt of not to b believed...try gathering proof...like ask him to meet u after school n let ur other friends come n record it....please...I faced it too..n nobody believed me..I had to gather proofs only then I was able to make that person pay for his sin...stay strong dear👍

  • @Gayatri1334
    @Gayatri1334 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    This is the podcast I'm talking about. The man is so courageous. This is gonna help so many people❤

  • @snehachakraborty2701
    @snehachakraborty2701 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    More power to you Lokesh....I can't even understand why people do such horrendous things with the victims but yes you are brave enough to talk and spread awareness about it.
    Thank you Kissey for providing the platform to him to have a proper conversation.

  • @ritulraj8484
    @ritulraj8484 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    Title is self explanatory itself and these things are not tolerable, can't even imagine what he has been gone through, this is beyond wrong, humans are loosing their humanity in the name of lust and glad that platform like kissey exist where people can share their traumas in a very comfortable environment n help others as well..

  • @gurpreetsinghbrar5773
    @gurpreetsinghbrar5773 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    This is the first time i have seen this being shared on an Indian Platform. No one talks about it unfortunately.

  • @sk5182
    @sk5182 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Well done guyz ...This was much needed 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @Lakshmi51234
    @Lakshmi51234 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    First of all homosexuality cannot be end .It just you control yourself and find higher purpose.Same as heterosexual you just know your soul purpose.
    So its not about homosexuality or heterosexualuty its about connecting soul to higher consciousness. Its weird how you said that they stop being homosexual .

  • @vdss2045
    @vdss2045 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    More power to you @kissey!! Keep Going 👏

  • @alien4189
    @alien4189 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    So I went through something a bit similar thing
    I haven't told this to anyone
    So jab mai shyad 7, 8 saal ki thi to I used to go to my mama ke ghr to
    There was my mama ka ladka
    Who used to touch me very weirdly so uss time pe ye insaan was like 14 or 15 he used to sleep on me and used to kiss me and I didn't know what it was mujhe Pata tha ki ye glt h but mai kisko batau cuz he used to care for me like my own brother so I still feel weird when someone touches me even in a good way FYI I am 17 now
    Idk when am gonna overcome this

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Hey you can feel free and talk to us or lokesh and we might help you overcome it as we spoke in the podcast but take care and all the best for your future

    • @vattamma20
      @vattamma20 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@alien4189 more Power to you for opening up. Please take professional help because it's not your fault. You are a victim.🙏💓

  • @taniyadalvi
    @taniyadalvi 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Lokesh more power & virtual hugs to you , asking the right questions , talking & spreading awareness around it & being such pure soul & kissey for being a great platform for people to have such open conversation 🤍

  • @gladwynferreira9308
    @gladwynferreira9308 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My heart goes out to Lokesh not out of sympathy but out of concern and support
    I would love to connect with him, if he agrees, to share my story.

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You can do so on his dms and you want to share it on pod you can connect with us

  • @rushikeshkharade8741
    @rushikeshkharade8741 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    U talked about lust..when my roomie was posted in psychiatry as mbbs intern..there was a case of 1st degree incest.. wife caught husband having sex with his mother..while listening that case our ass clinched in weirdest feeling ever..

    • @anuskachakraborty4639
      @anuskachakraborty4639 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@rushikeshkharade8741 oh no dude how tf

    • @rushikeshkharade8741
      @rushikeshkharade8741 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anuskachakraborty4639 that was horrible feeling..never going to forget it

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Kissey would love to host him as it is really needed for world to be aware of this!

    • @skj708
      @skj708 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anuskachakraborty4639 I know someone who is in similar situation. He has became alcoholic because of his mother

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Amygdala10 oh god that really dangerous 😳

  • @jayeshpatel1262
    @jayeshpatel1262 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The person who is conducting this podcast is very genuine and nice person. Really can see the pain and agony he felt while conducting this podcast and his feeling and concern for the community

  • @amarnathshagabanda9286
    @amarnathshagabanda9286 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Story was Somewhat relatable to me ..... But happy whatever happens it happens for a reason.... Lovely show .... I dint even felt that I'm watching a podcast.... Explained very well about the LGBT community.... Being a gay guy.... I agree whatever u guys spoke.... Felt very natural by watching the show.... Tq❤

  • @totallyinsane2148
    @totallyinsane2148 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Kissey is very friendly stage to tell a story

  • @hrys_321
    @hrys_321 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    When i was 4 my dad and mom used to have their own coaching classes, and one of their students' parents invited them for eid to serve sewaiyaan..my parents took me along with them and their student who was 16 at that time. Mom asked him to show me where the washroom was because i wanted to pee..then he told me that we both will be playing hide and seek i agreed..he said you can hide in the thick blanket and i wont find you..and i hid in it later he came and found me. He touched me inappropriately, he slide his hands in and even made me sniff his finger...i am a very strong girl now im 18, im not scared of rape or abuse but sometimes i just get shivers down my spine when i remember this incident as it is just so weird

  • @potheadhigh
    @potheadhigh 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I am a 19yo male and I've been molested by one of our neighbours with down syndrome when i was 8.... Because of which i am facing mental trauma now... No one knows about it as i didn't tell it to anyone then because I didn't knew what exactly happened with me, and telling this to anyone now doesn't really make any sense

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@potheadhigh speak up there is no harm to talk about that happened

    • @dhirajdubey2387
      @dhirajdubey2387 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@potheadhigh age form

  • @aakashrawat7424
    @aakashrawat7424 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    thank u so much guys, jb koi bhi kinner or male-jo talli baja ke pretant krte h ki wo kinner h train me to mujhe nhi pta tha ki unse kese bachna h qki kabhi mere papa ne bhi unko kuch nhi bola na koi or train wala but now i know ki unko bhi me no bol skta hu or ladh skta hu jbki mujhe laga tha ki wo aayenge or forcefully paise manenge or private part touch krenge to bohot dar lagta tha train me jane se but ab me esa kisi k saath nhi hone dunga or ye dar mera aaj 23 ki age me khatam hua h me sbse kisi bure kaam k liye fight kr skta tha but humari society ne bnaya h ki kinnar ko hum kuch bol nhi skte wo galat h aaj pata laga big thnx kissey

  • @tramatictitan
    @tramatictitan 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    So this happened with me too im a gay man, i always knew that something is up with me when it comes to boys and i was like 11 but i was not much sexually aware about all those things also i live in a village so my cousin brother who was like i guess 19 at that time once forced me to have anal sex with him i was very traumatized he even threatened me to not tell anyone or he would tell everyone what he did to me!? Idk i was scared and also afraid to tell my parents then it became a regualr thing he'd take me to his home on rooftop and would force me to induldge in the sexual activity! It became so normal that i myself then was not hesitant to do that, it continued for 3 years by the time i was 15 i looked upon to him as someone whom i can trust and get love! So in lockdown i rarely got out of my home and i started searching about my identity like being attracted to men and then this!? So i came to know about homosexuality and having uprotected sex with anyone can cause AIDS i was scared to death a very small allergy would give me horror thoughts! Time passed two years in between he asked me several time to have sex with him but i refused. i felt betrayed and also i came to realize how big mistake he made and me too! As i started being rebbelious he would call me by slurs whenever I'd come to talk to other boys of the village, he did tell some guys that he had sex with me and they approached me too and i felt really bad! Now im 18 i had sex with a man at the age of 17 as i thought he could be the ONE! he turned out to be married despite his age being 23! So after all this im just forced to not believe anyone! I sometime thinks that people say that we homosexual just seek sex but i believe that from the moment that i realised what precations should be taken and especially with whom we should have sex, i became more responsible in these things. I'd like more people to reach out for help when sexual harrasment is happening to them, just dont sit silent or you'll end up like me!

  • @ronyrod6971
    @ronyrod6971 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m really sorry about that man. Hopefully you find your peace.

  • @groot_here
    @groot_here 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    More power to you ❤️

  • @_UtSaVGhOsH_
    @_UtSaVGhOsH_ 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    54:02 Tharkipana in any form is wrong.

  • @sunshinestutorials6095
    @sunshinestutorials6095 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This has nothing to do with homosexuality so it if comes in ur mind , and What kind of a brother is aroused by his own brother like what the hell such a piece of menace , It is Heartbreaking to know such, Peace, me being sorry for him wont recover his trauma , so more power to you❤️

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@sunshinestutorials6095 read about victim grooming

    • @nikkuchoudhary9960
      @nikkuchoudhary9960 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Victim grooming has nothing to do with homosexuality.

  • @iftikharhussain5661
    @iftikharhussain5661 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So strong boy
    Hats off

  • @harishnaik9079
    @harishnaik9079 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Apne bhai karke kyon likha title per ,wo uska saga Bhai nahin tha ,mama ka ladka tha ,(cousin brother) isse galat information jata hai.......

  • @TruthfulHeart-c5d
    @TruthfulHeart-c5d วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm a 29 year old man,
    I'm so sad and being the same victim, I'm shocked that he was at the same age when I was also 6. Lokesh was abused by a cousin. But I was abused by my own brother. He was 15 years old. I've been abused by him until I was 17 years old. My parents went to work, I used to come home soon and he too comes home too and used to molest me often. And when my parents sleep he used to do the same sometimes. I couldn't say it to my parents that time as he threatened me. I still remember those days and how he made me to do bad stuff. The wound is still fresh on my heart. He expired when he was 23 years old. He was also caring at sometimes, yet, after his demise, I'm feeling a lack in my heart. Actually jealous of others who has good brothers where they support their younger kin. I hate his way that he abused me yet, I miss the caring part of a brother. I'm in ruins, please give me a solution.

    • @TruthfulHeart-c5d
      @TruthfulHeart-c5d วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thankfully, I'm straight!!!! 😊

    • @yuviraj6465
      @yuviraj6465 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Idk if ur straight or no but after getting abused u tend to become soft and if someone tries to over power you u tend to submit to them cuz of traumatic experience..​@@TruthfulHeart-c5d

  • @AadarshaniSharma
    @AadarshaniSharma 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Please Podcast Hindi Main Kare... Hindi Main log zyda dekh paege or relate kar paege.... Zruri nh h english main hi bat karo tbhi podcast log dekhnge

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@AadarshaniSharma agreed isiliye hindi english marathi subtitle available he please on kar lijiye

  • @Enigmatic_Baishakhi
    @Enigmatic_Baishakhi 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    More power to you 👐

  • @totallyinsane2148
    @totallyinsane2148 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Praise for your courage bro

  • @user-dk6hf5db1g
    @user-dk6hf5db1g 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hii,this same thing has happened with me.But many times with many men when I was 8 years,many things to say but can't say.Am a transwoman. ❤❤❤❤

  • @artbittu5175
    @artbittu5175 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It also had happened with me... A local brother in our neighborhood became so close to my family.. And my parents believed him and let me to go with him to his house. And he carry me to his home and everyday he do these things with me.... And i was hardly 8 or 9 year old and couldn't even tell this to anyone cause he threatened me saying that if i said this to anyone he gonna throw me under the moving car! And i got so scared!
    And he made a gang with his other two friends and they also brings boys and girls about my ages... And they put all of us in a room and one by one they forse us to put off the clothes! And forced us to have oral activities 🥹😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
    Fortunately my papa's transfer bring us to a different place i was saved!
    I dunno what had happened woth them.
    Now i have to live my life woth this memory to the rest of my life.

  • @saqlainmian9810
    @saqlainmian9810 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Abuser bring their victim to the point that he becomes habitual.... But what about professionals???

  • @sheetalagarwal1944
    @sheetalagarwal1944 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I think sab log kabhi na kabhi apne childhood me yeh sab face karrte hai n multiple times also

    • @N.Sudhanssu
      @N.Sudhanssu วันที่ผ่านมา

      not everyone

    • @N.Sudhanssu
      @N.Sudhanssu 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@traveller-paban987 r u serious??

  • @jayeshdani8964
    @jayeshdani8964 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ram ram both handsome yes stand up for the right to speak up. Very helpful yes I love the part listen to your heart is everything?🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @poojapant6954
    @poojapant6954 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    When you don't know how to say be blunt and say what you want . Simple

  • @sanjit1.-_ravani
    @sanjit1.-_ravani 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am one of them also😢

  • @aadilkhan3929
    @aadilkhan3929 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ye sab koi aaj se start nahi huya jab se inshan is duniya me aaye tab se

  • @yuviraj6465
    @yuviraj6465 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Girls getting forced and abused..I've seen a lot of cases regarding this..and guys getting abused is different from girls getting abused because guys will be curious to know the stuff even when ur kids..and you should've told your parents when ur hit with abuse in the 1st time itself..ok let's say he manipulated you not to tell and all but atleast you should try to avoid him if you don't like what he is doing with you...
    Basically when a kid is scared of sth parents will get to know..even if u don't like some people they will get to know by your behaviour..
    In those 5years of abuse your abuser didn't even faced your parents..i mean like he didn't come to your house or didn't even talked to your parents infront of you..
    5 years or 6 years kid going out with someone on bike without knowing parents knowing?? How is this possible.. repeatedly??
    It feels like your parents are at fault dude.. who leaves a kid with another person for so long and not able to guess your behaviour when ue abuser is around?
    Atleast around 10 years of age you came out and told your parents good for you..
    And now talking about it playing a victim card it feels like idk....
    So brother whatever you went through is horrible at that age
    But fault is your parents and you too...i know all my discussion will be biased but truth and reality will be different because i know..
    I enjoyed and was curious initially to know what is all this when i was abused around 8 years by my cousins.. I can't call it abuse because we both are involved and when ever he comes home i used to run to him and play with him cuz i liked him and like the stuff what we are doing at that point of time and my parents also didn't get to know cuz we were happily playing..now I'm 24 and around 14 years i told him ok we should stop this. And after that he left and we never talked after that and I'm 24 now and he's 32 and married and i danced at his wedding.boozed with his friends..and never discussed about the past..so now what I'm trying to say is when ur 6 years old and when ur abuser is coming to your house u will run away from him after experiencing the 1st incident itself..and your behaviour changes when u feel like ur abuser is coming near like children tend to run away to their room or go behind mother or father and not going out with him when he calls..
    This is the reality man..

  • @User254ghi
    @User254ghi 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @skyeverse-bm4wf
    @skyeverse-bm4wf 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i want to share my story, can you help me please.

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@skyeverse-bm4wf dm us on ig or mail

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@traveller-paban987 no one is inviting you it's free speach

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@traveller-paban987 ha bhai sure baki videos dekh mat aur bad bad karne chalu kar thikey, hope you or your family member never face this just hopping that you are triggered because you are a culprit just hopping.

  • @hashimkardaar3965
    @hashimkardaar3965 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Caption should be corrected.. cousin brother... but still.. it's barbaric.... and it's everywhere..... alot of people suffered and some still are suffering.....😢😢😢

  • @shivanshrattan
    @shivanshrattan 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    14:55-16:10

  • @Preetlawyer
    @Preetlawyer 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    If you are gay then law is there as per new law

    • @Akash-ms2bu
      @Akash-ms2bu 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Preetlawyer soory what did you mean? Could you explain this?

  • @ChiranjitDeb-sw5cf
    @ChiranjitDeb-sw5cf 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's not easy that homosexually ever been ended..sex is not just a physically matter..it also has sextually pleasure..if you are homosexual people you must find out a proper guy who love you properly .. otherwise it not been working properly only just an adjustment..open the society at first with broad mind and accepted all kind truth..sex is a part of life not hard of life..doing proper sex with girls or guys and recognize you properly. ..

  • @thewayiam30vamshi90
    @thewayiam30vamshi90 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It happened to me when I was in my school 5 th class when my friend during playground said lets play something different and we went through a lonely place and he said i will ask you a question will you satisfy ny desire you should answer yes then he and his friend slept on me and I had full bite marks all over chest. I thought it was rude but then thought it was play I said same thing to my parents too when they asked me what are those bites. I almost forgot about it but I think it didn't impact me much

  • @supratikpaul9772
    @supratikpaul9772 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is way too common than people talk about

  • @yuviraj6465
    @yuviraj6465 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    34:57 that is abuse and rape

  • @abrahamtamang9802
    @abrahamtamang9802 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg sorry for him it fell like you are dead

  • @vattamma20
    @vattamma20 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is an eye opening podcast. We tell our kids to be careful with strangers but we need to talk about our own as well.
    Thank you both for talking about this abuse.
    More power to Lokesh❤ Thank You both.

  • @Isla96
    @Isla96 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is the beauty of santaan 😡

    • @bluerayzzz
      @bluerayzzz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      we are condemning it not celebrating unlike you all who just marry brothers and sisters lol and also ola married 6 year old, i feel sad for her ola was a groomer

  • @JayVala520
    @JayVala520 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💔

  • @ajaysombansi8923
    @ajaysombansi8923 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    DEAR ,,AAJ KI DUNIYAA BAHUT NEECH HAI ,,,LOGON KA MAZAAK UDAATI HAI ,,,HENCE ITS BETTER TO LEAVE THINGS TO GOD AND DONT REVEAL WHAT YOU HAVE GONE THROUGH ,,OTHERWISE PEOPLE MAKE YOU A LAUGHING STOCK

    • @deepakyadav-yu6od
      @deepakyadav-yu6od 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ajaysombansi8923 it happens 20 year before now people reveals now what has happen to him before 20 year

  • @sam20002003
    @sam20002003 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    At 32:26, I agree many men pretend to be Kinners but not all of them are gays. Straight men also do this to get extra bucks. Your words only gay men pretend to be kinner and sell themselves to demean Kinners That is totally wrong.

  • @saketmishra7272
    @saketmishra7272 วันที่ผ่านมา

    May be a better empathy would be to listen and not be expert. You are sitting with someone who was raped by a man and you are saying that if that’s the sort of people your partner is watching then red flag. Not only are you shaming someone but also passing a judgement that those who went through that trauma without consent should be disowned by “normal” people. Seriously this is exactly why people don’t share why they were raped… ironic isn’t it

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  วันที่ผ่านมา

      For a fact I didn't wanted to say but what he has gone through has happened with me too 🙂. So speak using brains

  • @anilkamble9098
    @anilkamble9098 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So called bisexual logo ke liye muze kuch bolna hai

  • @no-trads
    @no-trads 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Ha ha... sux as lolly pop 😂 seems you both enjoying in hotel room 😅😅.And PR together 😊

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      You are talking to people who are coming out of molestation and assault please mind what you say

  • @alliswellindia8219
    @alliswellindia8219 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Mard ko accident hotha hai fir bhi wo mard hee rehtha hai gay nahi banjatha. Gay janamse hee hotha hai..kisee ke karan nahi banjatha...

    • @yuviraj6465
      @yuviraj6465 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly people won't get this

  • @adithyamohan6513
    @adithyamohan6513 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What 'Aatmagyan', that green guy is least interested in these stuffs.

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      its for one who takes and needs it stop atma gyan is self and here in this comment think of self

    • @adithyamohan6513
      @adithyamohan6513 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Kisssey I loved your way of presentation and analogies. Its all nice to hear. But difficult to practice. Do whatever is destined to each one of us. Don't try to be a yogi nor a bhogi.

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@adithyamohan6513 its what i practice again its your call to take or not as air water and food my information is selective but will help you grow nothing will harm you its what our goal is in kalyug

    • @adithyamohan6513
      @adithyamohan6513 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Kisssey What goal? What Kaliyuga? I don't understand buddy. It's your presumptions as you said in the video...

  • @BabliMall-o1z
    @BabliMall-o1z 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ..

  • @yatingaur6825
    @yatingaur6825 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The host is so ill- informed. It must ve been so difficult for the guest to tolerate this guy

    • @ritulraj8484
      @ritulraj8484 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      How bro? Which of his sayings made you say that?

    • @bluerayzzz
      @bluerayzzz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ritulraj8484 real id se aao bhai lol

    • @varenyapandey6536
      @varenyapandey6536 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@ritulraj8484 only the parts related with sexual abuse of the guest is somewhat dealt with care rest of the podcast is dogshit and shows the lack of education he has on different topics

    • @ritulraj8484
      @ritulraj8484 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@varenyapandey6536As an audience, we have also seen the podcast, and we didn't find anything insensitive or something you called "Shitty." Everyone has different opinions, and I respect yours, but you should be a little specific with your claims about the topic you're commenting on. And about the "lack of education" thing, I'd say, if you're well educated, then educate others or correct the host rather than judging and commenting; it will show your education, right? We work together and grow together.

  • @twiinklechaudhary
    @twiinklechaudhary วันที่ผ่านมา

    Salute 🫡... No words. I spent 30 mins thinking about writing my thoughts, i am lost.

  • @rakhshaparmar-cg4cg
    @rakhshaparmar-cg4cg 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bhai ye sabb astral domain me atta he..... Every fucked up thing like this gentleman is telling it's too much astral then physical and to know the astral we have to go back to our shastras.... Ye kalyug he matlab you have to know the astral and causal domain on your own ...do research......do not base on external perspective awek your intellectual body .... I don't knowhow to tell you but in a one word.. Do a RESEARCH

  • @user-lk5cl7fi3g
    @user-lk5cl7fi3g วันที่ผ่านมา

    What is this nonsense in internet plz stop bro

  • @surya-xp4lm
    @surya-xp4lm 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Aise bande hote hai jo uncles dhoodnte hai aur yaha unhi ko galat bol raha hai wa bhai wa😂

    • @thespeckybaker2744
      @thespeckybaker2744 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      @@surya-xp4lm seriously how insensitive can a person get

    • @Avalanche1970
      @Avalanche1970 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're bring sarcastic right?? Cause if not you're sick in head really.

    • @ayushparab160
      @ayushparab160 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@surya-xp4lm Are you even a person?

    • @Suhail-iw5ug
      @Suhail-iw5ug 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Actually ya un logu ma sa he ha in useless logu. Ko yahi ata ha

  • @gauravpandey4372
    @gauravpandey4372 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Jyada wrong hua hai toh court case kar internet par podcast kya kar Raha hai

    • @thespeckybaker2744
      @thespeckybaker2744 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Podcast woh sabko aware karne keliye kar raha hai pagal

  • @rahulkhurana8760
    @rahulkhurana8760 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ye kya utpatang trend chal pada hai.faltu ki bate hai

    • @quizudita
      @quizudita 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Toh mt dekh.. koi force kr raha h tujhe...

    • @rahulkhurana8760
      @rahulkhurana8760 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@quizudita par tu zaroor dekh aur apna dimag kharab kar.Agli baar tu bhi aisa hi ek video release kar ki tere kisi risthedaar ne tera rape kar diya

    • @Suhail-iw5ug
      @Suhail-iw5ug 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ha mut dkh tari ankha kya logu ka pakd kr rkhi ha dkna ka liya

  • @rahulkhurana8760
    @rahulkhurana8760 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Use ek hadsa samajh kar bhul jao,aage bado ,dhol Peet Peet ke khud ko hurt karna aur logo ko hurt karna band karo

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@rahulkhurana8760 uske sath jo hua wo bata raha he aur family me ese agar koi ho ya kisiko bhi ye problem ho toh avaj raise karne bolrahe he hum tumhe problem he toh mat dekho bhai jiske sath ho raha he wo hai yaha dekh raha he and help le raha he

    • @rahulkhurana8760
      @rahulkhurana8760 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Kisssey Ye pakka nautanki baaz hai.
      Jiske ke saath ye sab hota hai wo smile mar Mar Kar itna confidently camera nahi face kar sakta.
      Chehre par Sikan nahi hai sexual abuse ki,par aandaaz mai puri nautanki hai

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@rahulkhurana8760 ha na bhai life me fir wo Hansa hi nahi chaiye na hi wo khush hona chaiye na? Acceptance jese koi chij hi nai he! Aue judge karna aap jese ke liye easy he

    • @rahulkhurana8760
      @rahulkhurana8760 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Kisssey Hamari judgement ke liye hi to aap log aise videos promote karte ho
      Naya trend set ho gaya hai-Har dusre ladke ke saath rape ho jata hai-videos ban jati hai-popularity bhi mil jati hai,sympathy bhi
      Aur bahana Banta hai-jo hamare sath hua ,kisi aur ke saath na ho

    • @Kisssey
      @Kisssey  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@rahulkhurana8760 bhai ek bar na comments padhlo sare fir baat karna

  • @AzizulHaque-yp1pz
    @AzizulHaque-yp1pz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bhai ye sab Matt bolo ye actually. Such me gay hai aur saamne Wale ko jayese jayese samajh aata gaya iss ke sath who sex se juda jo sab hota hai who sab hota gaya ye sab har gay ka bahane baazi hai mai Chhota thha to mere saath huwa gay ho saamne walo Jaye se jayese samajh aata who aage badh kar karta hai bass mai Chhota to huwa ye sab bahene baazi hai aur 4. 5 sal ke bachcho ko koie fill nahi hota ayesa jab bhi kisi bachche ke saath hota hai 5 saal ka bachcha who aapne maa baap puchh ta hai zarur ye Kiya hai bhaiya uncle ayesa keu karte Kiya hai ye ise bolo bakwas na kare jiss age ko ye 5 bata raha hai who shayad 8 9 saal ki age rahi hogi bakwash karta hai koie bacha jo gay nahi hota hai who bachcha kisi bhi age ka ho who apne maa baap se puchh ga zarur batayega jiss ne nahi bataya uss ne maza liya who gay hai use sex ki filing aani shuru ho gayie bass har gay yahi aakar kahta hai mai Chhota thha aare aap chhote thhea to aap gay thhea na jise ladko me thoda sa bhi dilchaspe hoga who aage aakar karega

  • @DD-eo9bj
    @DD-eo9bj 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Tumko v MAJA ata tha......lekin avi Natak kar rahe ho.....#VictimCard

    • @Radhyeradhyejaimatadi
      @Radhyeradhyejaimatadi 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lagata hai aap tho paida hote hi gyan dena suru kar diya😂 kyuki mujhe lagta bachche right aur wrong ka matlab nhi pta hota hai jab tak pta na chale 😢

    • @DD-eo9bj
      @DD-eo9bj 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Radhyeradhyejaimatadi to bacha roj uske pas Q pahuch jata h. 🤔🤔

    • @Radhyeradhyejaimatadi
      @Radhyeradhyejaimatadi 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@DD-eo9bj ager main ye puch ki yek sharabi roj pine kyu jata hai jab ki use pta hai ki vo bahut galat matlab harm hai par bhi jata hai aur yaha tho yek bachcha hai jise kisi bhi chiz main kya sahi aur galat nhi bta sakta hai yek bachche ko room band kar diya fir 10 ya 15 saal baad city me lakar chhod diya fir dekho use duniya asi lagegi ki jaisi dekhi na ho

    • @Radhyeradhyejaimatadi
      @Radhyeradhyejaimatadi 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@DD-eo9bj because this happened with me and i feel this pain how much wrong

    • @DD-eo9bj
      @DD-eo9bj 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Radhyeradhyejaimatadi stop playing victim card like a woman...Har bar MARD galat nahi hota 🙄

  • @vikashsinghparihar8470
    @vikashsinghparihar8470 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The way he gernalise trans people and started talking about them, other than the incident he talked about. Make me feel that he's not a proper psychologist.

    • @varenyapandey6536
      @varenyapandey6536 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@vikashsinghparihar8470 the host is immature and uneducated about most of the things said in this podcast

  • @TomCat493
    @TomCat493 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sad 😢

  • @kartik9782
    @kartik9782 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Fir to khul gayi hogi iski

  • @nehagaidhane1416
    @nehagaidhane1416 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    More power to you guys who are suffering from this kinda situation SPEAK FOR YOURSELF ITS NEVER TOO LATE 🫂

  • @anonymous66606
    @anonymous66606 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    More power to you ❤

  • @shivanshrattan
    @shivanshrattan 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    16:14-16:40