Why we can't have a baby.
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So sorry you’ve gotten these types of comments 😞 I’ve never understood some people’s obsession with asking such invasive questions and leaving such rude comments about other couples’ reproductive choices. Will your choice to have kids or not affect these random people’s lives as it will affect your own lives? Of course not. I really wish more people would be more respectful of people’s life choices ♥️
But thats what it means to dishes out ur life on public média...anyone allowed to their opunion
@@joefaridahnur7586 that's understandable but people also left rude comments. It's never okay to do that.
영어 잘해서 부럽다
@@wildrice3050 yeah
I completely agree, nosy people are ridiculous. Let them live their lives, stop focusing on what’s not your business.
아이를 가지는건 새로운 생명에 대한 책임을 지는건데 당연히 다들 자신에게 맞는 시간과 시기가 있는거라고 생각해요 물론 모두의 생각이 같은건 아니지만 그런거에 대해서 이래라 저래라 하는건 정말 아닌거같아요 그리고 아이는 모든게 준비된상태에서도 불안한 경우가 대부분인데 정말 이해가 안가네요 정말 그런 댓글들 보시면서 속상하셨을거같아요..ㅠ 샤샤님과 제이님 너무 속상해하지마시고 이쁜 사랑하시는 이쁜 모습 앞으로도 응원할게요!
yup that's right💚
Right
@@Maria-p2k7z 즈
Same 💜☺️
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Я так обожаю корейский менталитет именно за ответственное отношение к институту семьи. Женщины там рожают довольно поздно (только по сравнению с привычным возрастом деторождения в СНГ), НО осознанно и в полной уверенности, что ребёнок желанный и что семья сможет обеспечить ему будущее (дорогое обучение, медицинские услуги, внеклассные занятия и т.д.). Вы очень милая пара и всё обязательно будет хорошо в вашей семье. Так что некоторым зрителям, наверное, стоит иногда не деть в слишком личные вопросы только двух людей
Полно прекрасных молодых родителей, в основном это верующие люди .
Поэтому у них самая низкая рождаемость в мире. Как во время войны.
Рожать довольно поздно тоже ничего хорошего. Я хочу быть относительно молодой бабушкой своим внукам , а не со старческим маразмом и кучей болезней. Мои родители поженились в 23 и к 28 годам уже имели двух детей. Отличный вариант. А 47 мама уже была бабушкой.
@@nastya_rus а при чем тут верующие?
@@helloworld-ti5zs ты в 19 родила?
@@helloworld-ti5zs ну и прекрасно, что низкая рождаемость. Везде бы она была такой же низкой. На планете людей мало, что ли? Недостатка нет, наоборот за последние 10 лет миллиард прибавился. Ужас.
Thank you for your thoughtful comments. I’m over 70 and love seeing you establishing a solid loving relationship as a couple. Raising children is a delight, a great joy, expensive and challenging. My greatest joy in life! So enjoy your time together, solidifying the two of you first, then go with your gut and common sense as you bring children into your world. Your lives will change but love is the strongest glue and children are bundles of love❤ Remember dear ones, no one has walked in your shoes, don’t let them tell you what how will fit you. Keep us posted. With love from America ❤
Sasha and Jay, having a kid is a huge responsibility, you'll decide yourself when's the best time! Don't let people influence your decision 💞
This is the best comment and opinion. I like your attitude and understanding in this era.
True. Enjoy each other's company. It's a different story when the baboescome. Very wise advice. Make your decision to have a baby based on your own readiness and situation. Weigh the changes it would entail. It is another person's life placed under your responsibility. It is you and your spouse's responsibility not anyone else, not evenolo and lola, so think hard about it. Prepate yourselves mentally, emotionally and financially. Spiritually too because you will pass on your moral values toyour childten. Be great examples of humankind, decent, moral and woth high integrity. GOD BLESS YOU.
Хороший коммент❤❤
You marry because you love someone, not because you want babies..
Isn’t that the only reason to be married,everything else is secondary:)
Love you guys and take care 💜❤️
But not every man think so
@@meii2387 bruh
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I agree this👍👍
I agree
Don't mind those people who say that. Both of you clearly told us already that you still don't want to have a baby, it's their fault for trying to not understand you both! Don't feel pressured by comments like that. Take your time and enjoy your life! Love you both❣️
Exactly, we love you guys 💜 be happy and stay blessed
ikr theyre just being close minded at this point
Это так глупо, когда люди думают, что рождение ребёнка так важно и обязательно. Не все хотят, могут и тд. Это не ключевая цель брака...
Но когда люди захотят, то они сами всё сделают.
Вы замечательные, я недавно увидела вас, спасибо за видео!
Trueeeee
Полностью поддерживаю.Я родила свою единственную дочь в 36 лет.До этого получила высшее образование,попутешествовала по миру.
А у моих друзей нет детей и они счастливы,путешествуют по миру,есть любимая работа.
Каждому свое.
Я тоже не понимаю одержимости рождением детей.
Они с моей точки зрения ещё очень молоды для детей.
Ребята,успеете.
Не торопитесь.
@@margaritajonaton9688 Полностью согласна
когда женщина не хочет детей, это как отвернуться от природы, бога, своей сущности. со временем, как мне кажется все девушки пожалеют о том что не завели детей. а вот эта девушка ведь скоро потеряет свою внешность, и там как все повернется, кто ж знает.
@@anatoliish1590 Да, конечно. Ведь только это и важно, а то, что у нас до сих пор смертность нормальная от рождения ребенка, потеря здоровья, вас это не волнует. Прошу не нести чушь, которую легко оспорить. Вы смехотворны.
Not everyone wants to be married and have kids. For some, they just want to be with their partner, and that's completely okay. We live in the 21st century, and everyone has a right to make their own choices. So take care, and make your choices in your own time❤
People from 20th century : we don't have any right to make our own choice?
@@muhamadnurizzat29 🤣
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I am afraid of the idea of love and marriage for fear of the future I have some health problems for fear that I will not have children 😔💔
Exactly!!!! I agree.
As a 14 year old who personally watches her parents struggle financially it ‘s fairly understandable that they want to have good finances before having a child and yeah they’re finances might seem good in your eyes but financially set means being able to take care of of 10 children if you wanted to because anything can happen hospital bills,insurance, health medication, etc
I babysitted babies and twins during I was in high school. I didn't have time to do homework or eat. It's extremely hard and stressful. I can't imagine working and making time to care for a baby. I think, its important to be financially stable and have enough time in your life.
If you wait for the "perfect moment" you will never have a kid.
@@alexanderdimitrov6916 And you need to understand that not everyone wants a kid and not everyone has the same way of thinking as you are.
@@alexanderdimitrov6916 😧😡🤬😒
This is the best comment. Every elder who leaves such unnecessary and illogical comments for others should see this comment. Being a 14 year old and this matured enough, which most of the elderly people are lacking.!!!
Not everyone gets married to have kids. It is also about enjoying your life and making the bond more beautiful.
Take care!! Get well soon!!😊😊
So is everywhere else! Not just Korea
Он всё время смотрит на неё, с каждой фразой, это так очаровательно.
в реках
Ещё бы у неё то нормальные глаза...
@@KilianLoyn4089 а у тебя нет?
@@storm4227 А что, интересно? 😄
@@KilianLoyn4089 ну да
Саша настоящая кукла, а Джей выглядит как айдол! Не могла перестать любоваться😍
Yes❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗🥲🥲🥲
Такое ощущение что она накладывает фильтры на себя
@@Любимая-ч9у да нет, тогда бы и на джее фильтры были бы
@@eyupyruxokycaumoko2566 так и он выглядит не естественно,будто на нем тонна макияжа
@@Любимая-ч9у да нет как раз, выглядят естественно. Просто они ухаживают за кожей, это ведь корея, там лицо должно сиять чтобы ты выглядел нормально:)
I think it's respectable how they want to be financially prepared before having a child. It's how you know that they genuinely want their children to have a good life with as many opportunities as possible. Family planning is important and they're still so young, they're on the right track. Also, so much respect to them for being so courteous with their replies despite the comments being so, so rude.
This is soo right!
Sasha and Jay got married when they were 19 and 21? I'm 19 and wished I had someone. You are living the dream life, take care and have children whenever you feel like it. Don't let anyone pressure you!!!!
Agreed!! My husband and I married at 20/21 and we didn’t have our first baby until we were 27/28! We got educated, saved money and built our life first so we could responsibility welcome our daughter into the world!
Rather think of how becoming indipendent and learn a profession that you are passionate about. Everything else has planty of time to come. Dream life is having someone that really cares for you while being indipendent. I mean, it's important to stay on your own two feet. Never depend on someone, not even your parents! You never know when you might be on your own again.
Me too I'm 19😂😂 I still enjoy studying, and I had never been on a date with someone😂😆
@@novanyaagungwulandari3639 I’m 22 years old and I’m still stuck being single. Never date anyone cuz I don’t love someone yet. (Even people confess to me but I don’t want to hurt their feeling with my half-heart pretend to love them)
vivendo la vida de tus sueños??? hay gente con diferentes necesidades y gustos nena esta mal que hables asi
Мои хорошие:) в комментариях я так рада что вас поддерживает много людей со всех стран, ведь сейчас время идёт и люди начали меняться….☺️💖 столько поддержки для вас от русских людей американцев может и японцев и корейцев,и других) я так рада за вас..!) конечно в один момент про то что вы прожили меня очень шокировало всё что случилось у вас..Я соболезную Александре в том что она потеряла родного человека.. но сейчас всё отлично, поэтому не торопите жизнь и удачи вам!).💜👂🏿💜
사람은 준비가 되어야 아이를 가지는겁니다.무작정 으로 낳는 종족번식이 중요한 동물들과는 다르게요...
내가 아닌 다른누구에게 아기를 낳으라고 강요할수있는 권한은 없어요ㅠ 정말 팬이라면 둘만의 결혼생활을 행복하게 지켜봐줍시다.
준비가 되었다고 다 가질수 있는거 아닙니다. 어렵게 가지는 사람들도있고 못가지는 사람들도 있습니다. 안갖는걸 비난하는 사람들은 선을 넘는거구요 그들을 비호할생각은 없습니다만 전 개인적으로 안갖는걸 비난하는게 아니라 일부러 안갖는걸 걱정합니다. 그러다가 힘들게 갖거나 못가질수도 있습니다. 한생명을 만드는게 만들고자해서 만들어지는게 아니니까요. 제가 어렵게 아이를 가진 사람으로서 가질수 있을때 가지시는게 순리라 생각합니다.^^
People don't married just to have kids....
Marriage is declaring ur love with ur spouse
And it's so narrow minded and low thinking if u think marrying is only to have kids
@Pearl Jimin it's not about age really, it's more of a person's personality and their ability to take responsibility rather than a matter of young and old
@@Sxrr8822 Yes but if you are gonna have a baby anyway, it's better to do it before 35 because health. But other than that it's completely their choice whether they want a baby and if they do then again it's their choice to choose when they do want it.
@@GamerPro-wd7eh yes it does play a role but my point was a person should have the ability to take responsibility and can raise a child but yeah it's their choice and also it comes unexpected mostly 👍🏻
@@GamerPro-wd7eh I mean yeah but they are people who have babies at 38 and 40 and are still healthy
@@pravallicanemalipuri1307 Yeah but that doesn't come without risk. Women can have children up to 50 or something I guess but the risk goes up as people age older.
애기 가지고 말고는 둘의 선택이어서 한번도 궁금한적도 없고 댓글 단적도 없지만, 이영상을 보니 둘의 유전자가 합쳐진 애기가 언젠가 태어나게 된다면 애기 너무 귀여울거같다는 생각이 들었어요☺☺ ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Ну с этим я согласна😶
Yo tambien estoy deacuerdo
😁💛
나는 모르겠는디
저도요
Из моего опыта, я родила в 18 лет по залëту, но я всегда любила детей и хотела этого ребёнка, слава богу у нас с мужем были нормальные отношения, а через семь лет родился второй сын, но это было осознано, и запланировано. Мальчишки росли хорошими добрыми, учились не плохо, ничего не предвещало беды, но так сложилось, что оба они прошли через тюрьму. Родили по ребнку, оба развелись, и как то жизнь до сих пор не складывается, но это на данный момент, дальше будет видно... Вот я и думаю, где я сделала не так, что упустила..... Да нифига, всë было и любовь, и где надо наказывала, и хвалила. Теперь, очень понимаю людей которые не хотят детей,сразу, планируют их, всë для лучшей жизни в дальнейшем... Хочу добавить, ребëнок ,это не котëнок, и чтобы вырастить достойным человеком, нужно столько сил, нервов, самообладания, что не у каждого это присутствует!.... Вот тут и подумаешь????????..... 🤦🏻♀️ Удачи вам, и правильно что всë планируете!!! 💪🏻🙋🌹
Не всегда родители бывают виноваты в обстоятельствах детей. Это может и дурное влияние близкого окружения.
родители не всегда виноваты , а были у вас аборты?
Вы не несете 100 процентной ответственности за жизнь взрослого человека
@Latin_Girl😘 No creo que te entienda 😂. Igual ella solo dijo que tener un hijo no es como tener un gato y ella amo y espero a su primer hijo , solo que no hay que normalizar los embarazos sorpresas muchas veces no estás ni mental ni económicamente preparado y que uno debe tomarse tener hijos en serio. Ella no dijo que no merezca ser amado , ¿Que madre no ama a su hijo?
샤샤 말대로 아이 없는 가정에 아이 가지라고 공격적으로 얘기하는건 굉장히 실례일수 있어요.지금 옛날 시대도 아니고 결혼했다고 아이를 꼭 가져야 할의무도 없구요.오지랍이 큰 악플들이네요.
그리고 이건 딴 얘기인데 괜찮으시면 잠깐이라도 키우시는 고양이도 영상에 보여주시는건 어떠세요?^^ 영상에 스쳐지나가듯 잠깐 봤는데 고양이 너무 귀엽더라구요♡
아이를 가지는건 부부 그리고 누구보다 임신과 출산을 몸으로 겪게될 아내의 선택에 따라야해요.
절대 당사자인 부부외에 부모님들이 강요하거나 스트레스 줄 부분이 아닙니다. 마음 고생많으셨습니다!
맞는말..
You are still young, there is no rush! Your choice is very responsible. My husband and I did the same. We were together from 2010-now and we got married in 2013. Our daughter was born in 2020. We got a lot of pressure from family and fans to have a baby sooner but we didn’t listen. We wanted to have stable jobs, savings and a house first. I’m glad we took our time and did it that way. Now we have the ability to give our daughter the time and attention that she needs to grow and develop well and have a good relationship with her parents. I’m able to be a stay at home mom and it’s the best gift I can give my daughter. Worth the wait!! ❤️❤️❤️
I think culture in Korea is different. Parents and friends always asking like "When will you get married" "you are getting too old" "hurry up" and stuff like that
🥱🥱🥱🥱😴😴😴😴😴😴😴
My parents were married when my mum was 20 and my dad was 26
I was born after 8 years after their marriage
Your right mam we just have to wait!
No need to pressure yourself to do something that other people told u to do !
How old is sasah?
London review
Искренне желаю вам счастья! Я думаю, появление ребенка это личное дело каждой пары. Главное, чтобы в семье были гармония и понимание! Уважайте и любите друг друга! Все у вас будет хорошо, мне этого очень хочется!
I truly agree with them. Not all want children or if they want children, they don't to give birth. Rising a child is really hard and a personal choice. You can't force. Some want to have adopted child with their partner and sone want to become a single parent which is absolutely fine. Indeed you can be whatever you want.
샤샤님과 제이님의 마음가짐이 정말 멋있어요ㅠㅠㅠ 두 분 다 힘든 환경에서 자라셔서 그런지 아이에게는 물려주고 싶지 않은 부모로서의 바람이 잘 느껴지네요ㅎㅎ 터무니없는 댓글은 무시하시고 언제나 행복한 가정 이루시길 응원합니다❤️🔥
Todavía son muy jóvenes ❤️ disfruten el tiempo ❤️ la decisión es de Ustedes ❤️❤️ son muy bellos!!!
It’s your choice. My Japanese husband and I had two ectopic pregnancies. His mother said it was because I was American. OMG! As it worked out we have been happily married for 39 years. Children was not meant to be. With the state of the environment and political turmoil … enough said. Happy that your relationship is acceptable to most compared to when ours was. ❤️❤️
Very Very nice I like it 😢😻😘
oh my life girl.... what a thing to say.. sorry to say the mentality of people boggles my mind.. wish you many more years of happiness my dear.
@@sumi1956 thank you!
Ребят, вы такие искреннние. На ютубе много каналов интернациональных пар, но вы одни из самых любимых. Вы действительно вместе выросли из такой подростковой влюбленности в настоящих осознанных людей, которые стали лучше прислушиваться к желаниям друг друга
А тут походу мало Русских
@@zuhrasamandarova3416 да(( У меня одной перевод не на всех комментариях есть?
@@kamishop8 не одной. :")
Русских много, привет со Свердловской области!!!!! 👍👍👍👍🍁🍁🍁🍁🇷🇺🇷🇺🇷🇺🇷🇺🇷🇺
7:51 헐 사샤언니 웃는 거 왜이리 이쁘세요 진짜 제 심장 녹이심...ㅜㅠㅠㅠ
I don't understand these people who are "concerned" about other people's lives. they will have children if they want, life is theirs and they decide.
Lmao, of course they're just roommates, making money off youtube and pretending to be a couple
@@z0_EL Do you have to pull that nonsense? If you think so then no need to write bad comments. Just..... Dont watch. As simple as that. I'm not going to start a fight. Just stating a better option.
@@kritikakhanna257 lmao period
@@kritikakhanna257 th-cam.com/channels/497tVZykgrFrJvDXdI_-SA.html real couple
@@z0_EL You can compare if you want, even though that's awful. I refuse to argue.
Just realised that Jay is such a diplomatic person. He really knows how to put his opinion out there without being impolite and blunt. That's so great to see. Much love !
사샤님 화장법이 바뀌신 건지 그냥 제가 갑자기 든 생각인진 잘 모르겠지만 이번 영상에서 너무 예쁘세요ㅜㅜ 특히 눈이 더 맑고 초롱초롱하신 느낌?? 흑 언제나 예쁘셨지만 오늘 더 예쁘세요ㅜㅜㅜ
영상내용이랑 뭔 상관없는 얘기만 하고있네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
저는 애기를 갖기 위해서 치료 받았었는데 그 때 주변 사람들이 아무것도 모르고 애기 언제 가질꺼냐고 묻고 그거에 웃으면서 대답하는게 힘들었어요.
시대가 바껴서 안 가지는 사람도 있고 못 가지는 사람도 있고 나중에 가질 생각인 사람도 있으니 함부로 묻지 않았으면 하네요.
물론 두분 잘 생기시고 예쁘셔서 궁금해서 그런걸 수도 있는데...
영상 잘 봤습니다!두분의 인생 응원합니다^^
I love how you both want to have a kid when it’s sure you’ll give them more better life and think about finances of it because some couple really don’t mind about it. hope you both have a nice future ahead and don’t mind rude comments.
Yeah even in my country everyone will asking you "when will you get married" and after that they will asking again "when will you have children?" Everyone and everytime you will surrounded by toxic people like that here, making everyone gets married and having children easily without thinking for better financial or better life for the children, they really dont mind such an important thing like that, i feel so bad surrounding by people like them
Lmao, they're just roommates, making money off youtube and pretending to be a couple, th-cam.com/channels/497tVZykgrFrJvDXdI_-SA.html this is a real couple
정말 어리시다 여유가 있으니 환경이 갖춰지고 천천히 가셔도 충분한 나이라고 생각해요
Sasha is 23 and Jay is 25, no need to rush to have a kid now. Just enjoy being young and can travel around without kids. Having pets is enough responsibility too
Not everyone wants children when beeing married…its okay because having a baby is a lot of work and i can understand it!! :)
I love u the way u areee❤️
Thumbnail 😭😭😭😭 scared the shit out of me 🥺 take care Jay Sasha 🌼 it's your life , it's ur choice I'm ur true fan, I'm happy if you guys are happy ❤️😘
두 분 생각대로 열심히 살고 나중에 아기가 찾아오면 멋진 엄마아빠로 더욱 행복하게 잘 살았으면 좋겠어요. 부정적인 댓글에 상처받지 말고 늘 행복하세요~♡
두 분이 행복한 게 최고죠!
잘생긴 남편, 아리따운 부인!
응원해요!
Do things when you're good and ready. It's just wonderful to see 2 young people that love one other the way you do. May you be blessed with continued happiness and prosperity.
다 각자 본인의 삶이 있는건데
자기인생 돌아볼시간에 잘 살고 있는 남한테 인생 훈수를 두는
그런 사람들의 말은 들을 필요가 없다고 생각됩니다..
제이사샤 커플 항상 응원합니다!
Вы очень красивая пара! Люди любят давать непрошенные советы. Они ведь не думают что возможно вы пока не готовы к этому , или у вас возможно другие причины. Счастья вам и всех благ!
Им просто повезло с внешностью
i'm so sorry you have to keep explaining this. having a baby is not a simple decision and people need to understand that. also why are people still living in the 19th century lmao marriage does not mean you have to have a baby, you marry someone cause you love them and want to spend your life together! even though it's hard, try to ignore hate comments and you two do what's best for you. love ur channel so muchhh! stay safe
I agree with you and just wanted to say that your dp of Baekhyunee is adorable 🥺
Sir/Madam I have a doubt as well as I couldn't understand , what is the mean "why are people still living in the 19th century". Why is that any rule 21th century people don't need baby?. This scenario looks like 21st century people doesn't need baby.If 19th century people also think like this, can you live your life now? But I am not pushing you if you marry next You have to born a baby because having a baby is not a simple decision at the age of 18 to 30 but after 30 you may experience your life, So What my opinion have a baby in the age after 30 or 34. So please think because the most important thing in a family is LOVE as well as BABY. Why baby means your child will support and protect you in your older age. you may ask do you think now a days children will support or protect our parents?, Yes if You foster your child correctly. If you think in my older age I will protect myself then don't have a baby. If I say any wrong or if may i hurt you I am very very sorry. Stay safe and be happy.
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@@iswaranand2020 oh shut up.
@@ML-sv5ez Truth always make angry
Just leave them alone when they are metally financially and physically prepared they will have one
Don't listen to those negative word or comment yeoreobun 🥺..that gonna hurt you so please don't..btw stay safe everyone and for Jay and Shasha unnie, Hope you two get a cute baby one day..❤️❤️
Вы очень красивая и гармоничная пара,счастья и благополучия, вам! проживайте свою жизнь с радостью
Им просто повезло с внешностью
@@Skairipa002 ?.. Ну повезло и повезло, что с того? Завидуете?) зачем под многими комментарии писать это? И с каких это пор людям запрещено быть красивыми?..
@@artfilo6675 да, я очень сильно завидую , так как я низкий урод. Дальше что?
@@Skairipa002 да ничего, просто хотела понять почему ты это пишешь под многими комментариями. Теперь понятно:)..
I'm learning more and more every day that people should be able to live their lives the way they want, without people sticking their noses into peoples private lives.. It annoys me that there are still such stereotypes towards people single, dating, and married... Everyone is different, everyone has different life experiences/situational things that are going on. And everyone should be able to live their life the way they want.. And be respectful of such decisions :C
I personally think that getting married is loving your partner and staying beside them (not literally), having baby is not easy and it’s not for everyone (the responsibilities). Jay and sasha don’t listen to those people and enjoy your married life ❤️❤️
Keeping aside "the responsibilities",it is God's will if we have a child or not. I mean some want to have a son while they got daughter,some want to have child but could not while some doesn't care if they have a child or not but end up with many children.
@@daisyhmar7461 That's right
Having a kid is a really big responsibility and as sasha said that her mom had to work from morning to late night and for that's she couldn't spend time with her so she doesn't want her child to experience the same we understand you guys and support and ignore the bad comments stay safe 👍🏻👍🏻💜
Саша мои соболезнования насчет мамы.Пусть земля ей будет пухом.Берегите ваши отношение ,счастья вам огромного и всех благ.Вы очень красивая пара.
что случилось? в смысле?
@@домино-х4х в видео сказано
Take care of yourselves!
First of all you need to healthy to be happy so take care! When you (Jay & Sasha) will be ready for this kind of things they will happen! There's no need to hurry🥰
Be happy and smile! 💙
Alguien que hable español?👀
En fin... concuerdo totalmente con ellos, todo a su tiempo, aparte aún son jóvenes...💜
Presente jajaja
Yo!
Yo
Yo también hablo español
Pueden hacer un vídeo sobre a cual país que es de Latinoamérica quieren ir cuando la pandemia se termine porfavor?(Colombia ;España;Panamá ; Chile ;etc menos los países asiáticos )
Саша и Джей, вы молодцы! Очень приятная и разумная пара) Люблю смотреть ваши видео ❤️ Очень жаль, когда парам пишут коментарии по поводу детей. Я знаю много одиноких людей на которых давят, чтобы они завели семью. Так же есть пары, на которых давят, чтобы завели детей. Дети- это не животные и не растения, чтобы их заводить. Это большая ответственность вырастить и воспитать ребенка. Люди не имеют права вмешиваться в жизни чужих людей и давить на них подобными вещами. Мы живем в современном обществе и каждый сам решает кого и когда ему заводить потому, что ответственность он понесет, а не тот, кто советует) Так,что вы молодцы, что подходите к этому вопросу вдумчиво)Саша и Джей, желаю вам хорошего настроения и всего самого лучшего 👍❤️😍
Tienen razón chicos, mi mamá y papá cuando tenía 5 o 6 años ellos trabajaban demasiado no había tiempo para mi , eso me hacía sentir triste de vez en cuando, por eso estoy de acuerdo, cuando esten listos pueden tener un bebé y brindarle cuidado 💜
Жертва аборта?
Cuando decidan tener un bebé, sin duda será tremendo visual ♡
Tomense su tiempo, Yo también pienso igual que ustedes, disfruten su matrimonio, su juventud, y ahorren mucho.
No me entienden pero igual escribo xd
jssjjsj xd
😅
ajajajaj se la revivia
Jajajajsjajajajaj
Jejejeje tmb iba a decir lo mismo xd
Having a baby is huge responsibility....it doesn't depend on being married or unmarried...jay and Sasha got married early due to their own personal reasons and they did it so that they could live happily together...... Having a baby is their own choice..... why can't people understand that they are not ready for it and I really appreciate them for their decision to not have one until they are capable enough to raise the baby both financially and mentally😀 Love you both ❤️
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Su forma de pensar como familia es de mucho respeto. Bendiciones y mucho amor para ustedes 💜
Hey it's absolutely alright, take ur time.I just love the way Jay looks at Sasha again and again.It melts me. 🥺💜
Saben, me encanta la manera tan responsable de pensar sobre un bebé, mucha de esa gente lo hace porque no sabe el cuido que tiene un chiquito, es fundamental planificar, para no lamentarnos en el futuro, recuerden en una Vida que necesita y depende al 💯 de los padres por lo que si debe ser tratado como tema serio y privado! Es en pareja! No entiendo cuál es la manía de forzar a tener un bebé a todos los influencers que aparecen! Vive y deja vivir en paz!
I don't understand how people can be so close-minded when they think like that... Some of them are really young but seems like they were born in the 1920's! I'm 38 and got married at 25. My husband and I decided to be childfree. It was our choice! People are more than baby factories and able to do what they want with their life and not what others want! So, leaving comments requiring other people to have children when they won't be the ones raising them is completely insane! What is wrong with people?! Maybe they are the ones who need to fill their own lives with some meaning since they worry so much about other's lives! Today's society is not pressuring anyone to do things they don't want to do, things that used to be mandatory in the past. So, it's ok not to want to have children, like it's ok to want to have them. Everyone has a choice and no one has anything to do with it!
So true
best comment
Ребята, не спешите с детьми, ещё успеете. Вы и правда ещё молодые, наслаждайтесь друг другом.
Мне нравится, что вы взвешено подходите к вопросу. Мы с мужем после свадьбы жили 6 лет прежде, чем завели ребёнка. Не спешили по той же причине, что и вы.
Ура ещё одна русская как я
너무 귀여워 보이네요 ❤😍
I’m not finished watching the video. However, even since I started watching you and learned your backstory about marrying young, not even for a second has it crossed my mind you having a baby yet! Although you’re both well-rounded, independent, and responsible adults I think there’s still so much growing left to do as a couple and individually. On the other hand, just think that you can’t ever be too ready for them. All a child needs above all is love and attention. God will provide the rest! 🥰
Amen! My family and I, we don't have much, but we lack nothing... He truly does provide, our every day is a miracle, how we get to eat and be warm and safe and full of joy... Our sweet little child laughs every day, sends kisses to every creature and helps us rediscover the wonders of God's creation... making our days complete... If we receive nothing more from God, we will just be forever grateful for our child, whom we don't deserve...
Happy friendship day to all 💜💜
아이 때문에 결혼한다는 고정관념좀 버렸으면..그냥 남녀가 사랑하니까 결혼하지 꼭 아이가 없으면 소용없다는 생각은 버려야됨
ㅇㅈㅇㅈ
인정인정 쌉인정이라...
에휴...
국제커플은 나도 잘 보고 있어서 이유가 이해도 되고 그래서 더 응원하고 싶은경우 이지만(두사람 다 진심이 느껴진다)
현실적으로 이야기 해줄께
소용없다는 물론 잘못 되었다가 맞는말이지만
대부분의 경우 "가정"이라는 단어가 주는 무게는 크다
인정 인정 쌉인정 하는 니들은 그 무게부터 알고 댓글을 제대로 이해하고 써라
세상 어느 누구도 인정 인정 쌉인정 하는 니들 아버지 대신에 먹여 살려 줄 남자 없다
왜 니들이 생각없는 "여ㆍ자"라고 확신 하는지는 그냥 느낌으로?ㅋㅋ
그런 고정관년으로 결혼하는 사람 한명도 못 봤는데
@모가디슈 네 그부분은 저도 공감합니다
먹고 사는거 자체가 어려운 사람들이 많은걸로 알고 있습니다 그래서 어쩔 수 없이 포기하는 그런 세대에 우리가 살고 있지요
님을 빼고 나머지 사람들 답글 보고 한심해서 쓴거임
인정ㆍ쌉인정ㆍ어쩌라고ㆍ그런고정관년 ㅉㅉ 누가봐도 사랑받지 못하나 있지도 않은 유리천정 이야기나 하는 사이버 세계에 사는 사람들임 ㅡㅡ
@모가디슈 지금 당장은 아니지만 빠르면 10년 20년 안에는 망할 수도
One of my best friends has been married for 25 years and they've never had children. They have had a wonderful and fulfilling marriage. It's no one's business if you do or do not have children. Just be happy with the life you both are living together. If you choose to have children one day then I wish you many blessings but I wish you those same blessings even if you have no children. Much love 🖤
Такая позитивная парочка, заметила, когда смотрю ваше видео, все время улыбаюсь!
사샤진짜 사람이어떻게 저렇게생기셨지...눈동자색부터 웃는거랑 피부랑 머리랑 완벽🤭
Ребята! Желаем вам здоровых и счастливых детишек! У вас точно получится! Всему свое время! У такой красивой пары будут замечательные малыши!!!)))
Новиопы выродятся
Все верно, все в последствии будет хорошо, только не зря у нас считается женщина после 27 лет (старородящая), т.к. женский скелет окончательно формируется и кости таза могут затруднить роды. А традиции не зря сформулированы, что самые здоровые дети до 30 лет их родителям. У вас еще время есть и пожить для себя, и родить не в ущерб себе. Здоровья, успехов и радостей! Спасибо.
@@ИринаВеселова-я5э старые исследования времён мезозоя. Новые почитайте.
제이와 사샤 악플 신경쓰지 말아요 잘보고 생각하세요 당신을 사랑하는 사람이 200만명이 있습니다 당신의 관심이 필요한건 악플과 악플이 아니라 긍정적인 댓글입니다 사랑합니다.❤
Hola! Que bueno que quieran prepararse económicamente antes de tener al bebé, ya que es súper difícil y costoso criar bien a un hijo, a mí me encantaría pasar más tiempo con mi hijo, pero no puedo por que pasó trabajando todo el tiempo para poder criarlo! Sigan con sus planes y que Dios bendiga su matrimonio por siempre! Saludos!🤗
I can totally relate. My husband and i have been together for 4 years. I told him im not prepared to have a baby yet and he's fine with it. Good for you if you were prepared but you dont have to be mean and force your opinion on others. I mean, do you marry your partner for the sake of having children? That's just BS.
Ignore those negative comments. Even if both of you have 1 kid now, those type of people with that kind of mindset will still ask "when are you having a 2nd kid, that 1 kid will be lonely without a sibling etc.." keeping up with society expectations is a never ending task. Do it at your own pace and time!
😌🤣Totally agree even in my country Malaysia , we have a lot makcik bawang keep asking this kind of question to every single lady / man 🤦♀️
Просто будьте счастливы. Когда я смотрю ваши видео мое сердце начинает трепетать. Сейчас мне 20, и как у Саши, есть желание завести ребёнка, но я так же понимаю, что хочу лучшей жизни для него. Так что я разделяю вашу позицию, и рада, что в наше время, люди думают о благополучии и счастье своих детей.
My from
When the time is right and it’s meant to be it will happen for you. Stay safe, positive and God bless 🙌💯
Что за глупость, я тоже не хотела рожать рано, и родила в 29 лет. Если у вас со здоровьем все хорошо, и вы можете родить когда хотите, тогда зачем спешить? 🤷🏻♀️ Вы слишком молоды ещё, по-моему. Вы должны хорошо прожить самые лучшие годы вдвоём без забот. Когда придёт время, вы сами поймёте, что уже готовы! И вообще кому какое дело? Да вы блогеры, но это не значит, что вы должны делать то, что от вас ждут ваши подписчики🤦🏻♀️
Вы очень милые 😍😘 оставайтесь всегда такими
밸런스게임 해주세요!!!! 영상 항상 잘보고있어요!! 사샤언니 빨리 나으세요ㅜㅜ
Que terrible, yo estuve 40 años casada,con un matrimonio hermoso y armonioso y no tuvimos hijos. Lo más importante es la pareja, que no hay obligación de ser solo reproductores. Vivan felices y no tomen en cuenta esos horribles comentarios
XD
샤샤님 진짜 존예..!!제이님은 존잘이시네요..힘내세요~!!
What a beautiful couple your children are like ... we are the ones we love a lot !!! ❤❤ LOVE THEM !!! ❤❤ Greetings from Argentina❤
The first comment that Jay read was so offensive. Even I got angry when jay read that.😤 Especially the part where the commenter said that their relationship won't last long without a baby. Guys don't listen to these negative comments. There are many people who love you guys and support every decision you guys make, including me. 🥰🥰
They're just projecting because their marriage was a failure haha.
Yea exactly I agree yo!!
@@skyecloud968 who’s marriage?
@@sjj3lemon267 the haters
imagine having children just to pawn ur marriage 😭
Eu sou brasileira, casei com 31 anos e só fui ser mãe ais 50. Sim, eu tinha 50 anos quando meus gêmeos nasceram, tive que fazer fertilização em vitro por causa da idade, hoje tenho um casal de gêmeos com 8 anos de idade e estamos super felizes, tudo tem seu tempo! Eu na verdade queria aos 35, mas não aconteceu, depois de muita oração eles chegaram pra alegrar nossas vidas!!!!
Александра, 제이, очень жаль что многие люди лезут не в свои дела со своими непрошенными советами. Я давно смотрю вас, и вы такая прекрасная пара. Я очень умиляюсь смотря на вас, спасибо вам за классные видео😄🤣
Надеюсь после этого умники перестанут писать подобный бред, всего вам самого наилучшего❤❤❤
Дина, Вы совершенно правы. Прийдет время и ребята сами поймут что ребенок им необходим. А в чужой монастырь со своим уставом не лезут.
Согласна с каждым словом)
I love that you agree to be responsible when planning something so important. You are a beautiful young married couple and have a long way to go, personally and as life partners. If there is something that bothers me, it is that indiscretion, recklessness, and stubbornness of trying to regulate the lives of others according to social precepts (Date = Grooms = Married = Children = Happy life..., WTH). I appreciate that you share part of your days, however, I trusted that you will maintain the fortitude to be and make of your lives as you please (without harming each other). Enjoy the moments, make plans, travel, consolidate personally and as a couple, and have happy lives. That's what matters in our short journey. If someone wants to pay support for your lives, then sign it and you will see what to do ;) Good vibes!
I love that you are addressing this especially the fact that it could scar those couples who may be trying or can't get pregnant. ❤️
офигенный инглиш у Джея!! я не понимаю, почему некоторых заботят чужая детоспособность, когда захотят заведут
Как я вас отлично понимаю... Очень хочется дать ребёнку больше, чем имел в детстве сам, дать ему больше любви и заботы, чем получал. Это очень здорово, что вы имеете такую прекрасную позицию.
По сути, такая позиция - это огромная забота о ребёнке, которого ещё нет, и проявление большой любви.
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힘든 일도 많겠지만 두 분이서 서로 의논하면서 서로 아끼며 사랑하며 열심히 일하며 행복하게 사세요
그런 악플러한테 무너지지마시고
아이 잘낳아서 행복한가정을 가꾸면 좋겠습니다
악플러들 생각없이들적고,할거없어서 그러는거에요
제이&샤샤부부도 정말많이 고생하고 있는거 독자들이 알고 있으니
아이 낳으시면 악플 달려도 무시하세요
세상에 그런 사람들 많아요,
그런거에 무너지지 마시고
아이 낳으신다면 단단한 악플에 무너지지 않는
부부가 되주세요
항상 화이팅입니다^^
지금 현재 인생을 즐겨라 아이는 서로가 원하면 만들면 된다 지금은 두분이 잘웃고 행복하게 지내면 됨 난 이렇게 생각함 짜샤 이쁜 아내 얻었는데 잘좀 챙겨주삼 아내한테 상처 주지 말고 머든지 아내를 생각하는 그 마음만 있음 서로의 사랑은 더 깊어질거임 행복 행복 행복 이 두글자가 최고임*^^♡
As public figures, you both have to learn to: not let people’s opinions sway you, not let them have power over how you feel, or lower your vibrations. You had both decided to open up & share/show some parts of your private lives/home to the public, and thus, there will always be judgmental or opinionated people out there in the world who might think they have the right to tell you what to do/what not to do. My advice is, simply ignore those types of comments & focus only on what you love to do/be. No need to care much about what others want you to do/be. Our thoughts, feelings, words & actions are what we can control; it’s our responsibility. Other people’s words, feelings and actions are their own responsibilities, never yours. The Law of Karma is always at play, so just paying special attention to our own expression/words/actions is enough. With love and light✨💖✨
Agreed.
I agree with you, on the other hand I also think it's good that they address those repetitive comments, only because they share much wisdom and knowledge through these videos.
Lmao, they're just roommates, making money off youtube and pretending to be a couple, th-cam.com/channels/497tVZykgrFrJvDXdI_-SA.html this is a real couple
Your life is your life, do not let anyone tells you what to do and what not to do (well except your wife so don't make her angry Jay).
I agree! And lol, never anger the wifey 🤣
@@KaychanArts for your own safety an health 😂👍🏻
A baby is such a big responsibility so I support you both on wanting to have children in the future♡😊
말하는 비바인형 진우군도참잘생겻고
믿음가는청년이네요
두리 정말잘어울려 😍 💕 💜 💏 💙 💚 😍 💕 허세요 축복합니다
De todas maneras cuando decidan tener un bebé serán grandes padres....hacen linda pareja, disfruten su vida!😊❤️
I really hate all the pressure from society about having kids. I want kids but I am not ready (nor married right now). My parents are always bothering me about getting married and having children and I’d rather be childless than put a child in a bad situation because of pressure from others to have one before it’s “too late”.
nah take your time luv
Being married is showing how much y’all love each other. Having children isn’t always necessary. Please enjoy the time you have now and don’t worry about those ignorant comments!
둘이 사는것도 많이 행복하단말이죠! 이상한 댓글 신경쓰지마시구! 둘이 행복하게 사세요!!:) 언제나 응원하고 있답니다! 파이팅하시구~언제나 행복하고 건강하세요:)