He wasted almost 10 years of her life. Boo hoo he lost a deal he was working on for a few months. Anyone siding with him is a cheater apologist and isn't worth keeping around anyways.
And somehow she owed HIM an "apology" for ruining a business deal that he spent several months working on when she lost a DECADE of her life to a sham marriage??? If there was any real justice in this world everyone in her family and friends circle that took HIS side and criticized her would have FULLY TAKEN HER SIDE and SHUNNED HIM. They disgust me almost as much as he does.
It is galling. OP could have decided early on whether or not she wanted to continue dating someone who had a baby on the way. He decided she wouldn't have that choice to make. And her own friends and family want to blame HER because he lost a BUSINESS DEAL??!! The AUDACITY!! He took YEARS of her life, had a whole frickin family on her.
This. As if you'd be sharing your labour/finances/body with someone if you knew the truth. You don't get to make unilateral decisions in a partnership, and you can't give people back their time. 'Elena' should watch her back: a vacancy just opened up for his next side-piece.
It is really damned EASY to sit on your high horse and criticize how another person reacts to an absolutely MONUMENTAL BETRAYAL that I posted above is even worse than "regular" cheating. It really angers me when people who have never suffered a certain situation think that they know how they would react and pass judgement on others when they have never been in that situation. I h8 every person who negatively criticized her almost as much as I h8 her husband.
I understand what you're getting at , but I think it's really ignorant to assume what other people have been Through when you don't know them ! Everyoneis entitledto their own opinions, you dont have to like it but you cant control others, The faster you accept that the better you'll feel.@Zurround
Robbie would have divorced her after bagging the contract...friends choose him for business contact and status....Elena will have her karma some day too.
I H8 her too but not as much as him. The worst victim in this story might not even be the OP. The affair child might end up suffering horribly as a result of what his or her parents got dragged into. Often that is overlooked in these stories.
@@Zurround In this case I don't think so. Everyone in Op's former social circle was firmly team husband, so socially the son will not have any problems.
@Zurround I seriously doubt it. I suspect that kid will be just fine and won't even know what happened. This OP was treated like shit by everyone including folks in these comments, some of which sound like they were written by a mentally ill monkey.
Elena is just Robbie’s next victim in my opinion. He cheated with her, so it’s only a matter of time before he cheats on her….wonder how long his friends and family would support that. Or would they also tell her it’s “none of her business”. I’m a firm believer that Robbie had more women than just Elena, but that’s the only one OP caught onto.
Lol I hate people that don't understand you have to be lying for someone to sue you for defamation. You can't be sued for telling the truth about someone😂😂😂😂
It's moments like this when you find out who your REAL friends are. And you get a real good look at your family too. I would expect the in-laws to be pissed as I'm sure they knew about his shadow family. But HER parents taking his side?? Yeah, my cut off game would be strong and swift.
NTA. What OP did to her husband might seem excessively harsh to some, but for me, it was justified revenge. The husband had been deceiving her for years, concealing the truth about their child. Had he been honest before their marriage, she could have made an informed decision and moved on. Instead, he chose deceit, starting an affair with Elena and wasting OP's time. OP's actions were justified because I couldn't bear the thought of such betrayal happening to me.
I would have sued the other woman too. Whatever lawsuit I could file against them, I would. He got off light compared to how deep she could've gone. Anyone who says she went overboard better pray they never get cheated on.
The legal term is "alienation of affection" but I do not know how the law works internationally as opposed to within USA. I think she should go "full scorched Earth" and try to dominate legally in whatever way possible (marriage fraud maybe?) and if he goes broke from this and ends up destitute GOOD.
@Zurround Thank you. My mind went blank regarding the legal term. Yeah, I would take everyone down. I don't care if I stubbed my toe on the way out, I'm suing for that too. I'm usually a walk-away and leave-the-mess type of person but there are times when being the bigger person just won't cut it. Sometimes you simply drag them to hell. This would be one of those times
@@HunnieSuckle24 "H311 hath no fury like a woman scorned" is very sexist proverb. I am a MAN and I would have been even more vengeful than her. I am not as CLEVER (the cake thing was brilliant) but when I suffer the ultimate betrayal I have zero moral qualms about how much damage I do to my betrayer, especially if its technically legal and just not "approved of" by @$$H0L3$ in my family.
Yes! The cake is classic, OMG! This is so embarrassing to hear and It’s obvious she was enraged and I can’t say I blame her. This is F-Up! Take him for everything he’s got, you deserve it!
I’m only in the middle of this now but does Robbie’s second family always have to visit him in hotel rooms? While this is highly unfair to OP, it’s unfair to the other family too. Robby is a sleaze bag.
There was a hint there near the end of the video where she said she was doing so much better financially. While she attributes it to her hard work (which is partly true), I believe that while she was in the marriage, she was carrying the bulk of their household expenses, but didn't know it. As she found out when she got a hold of his expense reports, huge chunks of his money was going out every month to support his shadow family. That man was using and financially abusing his wife. He lucky all he lost was a business deal.
NTA, he can’t sue her for defamation when all that was true and there are proofs…cruel as it is to publicly humiliate him it needed to be out anyway, he did blurt out he was going to file for divorce when he was sick of her so I can assume he will humiliate her even more if he does do it. The friends and family saying that is none of her business? Of course it’s her business, she is the LEGAL WIFE, he kept this from her for years and he made her feel like an idiot as he rendezvous with his mistress and child in those so called “business trips”. Also no wonder they were on robbie’s side, they are helping him all along and not tell the LEGAL WIFE. Glad he lost that deal with the CEO…the only one I feel sorry for is Robbie’s kid, for having parents like him and Elena, as for Elena well, time will tell when Robbie will be having secret business trips without her knowledge.
19:36 He can't sue for defamation when it's a truth !! Your friends and family that Took his side are horrible just like he is !! I feel terrible for the kid
Most people in business do not wish to work with people /companies that have no morals or ethics. Yes, maybe she could have taken a different approach, but she had lived with this individual for 10 years with no knowledge.
Not only that, but the fact that he said those awful things to his wife knowing he was wrong. He didn't even apologize. Why would any business want to work with him. He has no loyalty.
Op you are NTA. People should ask themselves how they would feel if this were them. Op I wish you all the blessings the world has to offer to you. Keep your head up. They haven't met karma yet. But they will. His parents should be ashamed, and may have already known about his other family and the child.
She was gentle given what he had done to her. I would have been a little more sneaky my approach, but then, I would be going for maximum financial and social damage, not humiliation.
The CEO probably didn't end the contract/deal with "Robbie" because of OP, but because of Robbie's volatility (screaming in OP's face), and his scheming behaviour and deceptive practices (planning and engaging in an affair, & hiding his child). As far as OP's parents and friends go, they're an embarrassment. I hope OP does choose to go NC with her parents and the friends who have betrayed OP's trust also, and have turned their backs on OP by blaming her for calling out her vile ex.
LITERALLY being MARRIED to another woman is an EVEN WORSE boundary violation and betrayal both morally and legally than "regular" cheating. If the OP is going to be criticized AT ALL in this story it should be for not being vengeful ENOUGH.
So, they think she is the party in the wrong, because she publicly humiliated and embarrassed him..... But by his own admission he was going to publicly humiliate and embarrass her by running off with some other tart after he divorced her..... Mmmmm. If you're going to have an argument best to do so in public, then the truth is available for all, be no I said this or that, I did nothing wrong...
Robbie really thought he could have two families. Robbie must have watched friends because of the whole cheating while on a break. How he couldn't tell op the truth. Which might of happened but then his kid wouldn't have grown up without his dad. I question if op has a history of mental health issues. Because of how everyone was on his side in this situation. Makes me feel like majority of them knew. Robbies parnets were acting like op is the other woman. But then again they would care more about their grandkid. Also how did the op get some big CEO to come to her husbands birthday party. I question how rich op and her ex husband are. With how Robbie acted showed the CEO that he couldn't be trusted or handle stress.
You never want to be the second class love. Glad you moved on AWAY from him. The new girlfriend is a cheater too. She broke up a marriage. It won’t go well for them. They are both cheaters.
Dear Rgirl, I hope that your video was heavily monetized because I have never seen so many commercial interruptions as I have with this video. Please make sure that TH-cam is not cheating you. Keep up the great work.
Send just counter sue for infidelity and go ahead and sue his homework and get some money from her too so she knew about you and was okay with it and watch how quickly they drop that lawsuit for defamation cheaters and homewreckers are trash
I can relate , man I have supported , got out of trouble and even gave money in 4 years, had an AP in Tennessee , and she knew about me and had the nerve to tell me I needed to find God … guess she found something else in the church, definitely don’t have a good impressive from Lebanon church neither their Morristown members
The handy thing is when people do horrible things like this you learn who are the people who really care and are in your corner and who needs to be cut off, shame your parents fall in that side but 10/ 20 years of being alone with their regrets will teach them or they will die alone and you will be better off.
Um... He had ANOTHER FAMILY on the side which in my opinion is an EVEN WORSE betrayal than "regular" cheating and um.... she owes HIM the apology??? If I was her I would do the exact opposite of apology and gleefully rub in my victory and taunt him with it and if possible get further revenge and do even more damage to his career. I would go full "Scorched Earth"....
😮p great job moving forward karma 👍 you're totally in the right. You definitely need better than what he's done to you. Take care of yourself first ✨️. Seriously self care is the best solution for you.
OP you did just fine. The bad guy here was the man who decided to marry you after he had a child with someone else. You had every right to know if he had a child even if the relationship at the beginning was Platonic Co=parenting. (As if). I say any family and friends who are telling you that you are wrong are total AHs. I think Robbie deserved it for not being honest with you. Oh, and to the people who say he can sue you for defamation of character. No he can't. To be sued for defamation of character the person sue has to have character first. You cannot be sued if you did not lie about the situation. He made it very clear to everyone there he was cheating on you and he had a second family. You did nothing to defame him, he is actually a POS cheater. And don't apologize. You did nothing wrong, you said nothing wrong. You spoke truth and had proof.
OP go ask your MIL if she would think it was none of her business when FIL cheats on her! Oh wait, maybe he already has and she forced herself to look the other way. 🤔🤦🏼♀️
Anyone that thinks in any way what he did is ok, i hope that they get the same level of betrayal and backstabbing friends and family. If you're ok with that horrible behavior, you shouldn't have a problem living it. Too many people are ok with the worst behavior, until it happens to them. What is with this sort of hypocrisy? I see it EVERYWHERE in all sorts of situations. People looking down on those in a lesser position in life, a different background or ethnicity or religion or political beliefs. We're all the same. Human beings. Unless you're an evil POS who deliberately hurts others for no reason. Try to think of how you would feel if you were in the other persons position.
I just don't understand his, his family's and may be some of his friends' logic that his other family is none of OP's business. She was his wife! How can his cheating not be her business? Does love, marital vows, and marriage itself mean anything to these people?
should not have brought his business into it, there are a lot of other employees that are affected by the loss of that deal and they are completley innocent. That was too far. If you want to punish him fine but leave the innocent out of it.
If he got Elena pregnant before he married OP the child should be about 9 or 10 yrs old, not 5 or 6 yrs old like OP said. Oh and to those people saying u went to far, simply say I neither asked nor care for your opinion, defamation only works if it's a lie.
She did the right thing in confronting him however, she did it in completely and totally the wrong way. What about all of those employees who are negatively financially impacted by her actions that affect their payroll and their ability to feed their families? What about if his company goes out of business? Do they deserve to lose their jobs because of his actions?
18:49 anyone who thinks you took it too far isn't worth your time/effort or friendship. As for your parents, time to go NC. how can your ex sue you for defamation? Or was all true
People: husband fckin around, havin kids, cheatin but u have no business with. Wtf is the logic HER husband is cheatin, ruined the marriage, trust the only person whose business it is , its HERS
If she booked the room with his secretary, for a surprise. How did he get the room.? Also take his family. Come on now. The reveal came to fast . No build up.
Op Husband Should have Come clean and tell op The Truth about that other woman and he have a son with that other woman and he Say Got Something to tell you, op that I got that other woman pregnant before I met you. Op parents should have yell at him for he did to their daughter aka op and op in-laws should have Berated his butt for that and Op husband should have not keep that secret and he should have come clean in the beginning of their marriage.
It’s not being on his side or your side. This was something just between the two of you. That would have been the adult thing. I can see why you’re so upset. Seems as if you’re going to be losing more than your x. I get the hurt you feel.
Robbie had two options, 1. Confess to OP about Elena and his son at the very beginning and co-parent with Elena while also maintaining a romantic relationship with OP or 2. Confess to OP about Elena and his son at the very beginning and break up. Robbie could then pursue a proper relationship with the woman “he actually wanted to marry” while OP then goes on to find someone else who actually loves her and potentially start a family of her own. Instead Robbie chickened out like a b!tch and strung OP along FOR 10 FREAKING YEARS because he “didn’t want to hurt her feelings in the beginning”. Screw Robbie, screw the “friends”, and screw OP’s parents that wanted her to apologize to him
I don't have such a flair for drama as OP does. He would have come home to an empty house. All my belongings would be gone. Anything I paid for would be gone. I would leave the business card of a divorce attorney where he would see it along with copies of the pictures. His number would be blocked
NGL her response was a bit over the top, but so is hiding a family for ten years from your wife! No apologies needed. As for the business deal… if he can go to such extremes in his personal life, who is to say he is not as deceitful in business. If anything, she helped warn the potential partners. He deserves everything she gave.
I don't think she owes _him_ an apology, but I do think she owes an apology to all the people who she dragged into the drama. That wasn't fair to them. They went to that party expecting a happy event, and instead they got that massive kick-in-the-teeth stress fest. Lying hubby deserved what he got, but nobody else deserved to be subjected to that.
@@Calories_To_Calibers Are you functionally illiterate, or just too drunk to read carefully? Nah, you're probably just a drama lover who wants to start a hate party and you think you've found your pet villain, so you carefully ignore anything that makes you wrong. You can get bent too.
Actually no because truth like this needs to be said. Lots of times there are those who tell you to keep the peace or anything else to not bring drama. And that is wrong for a whole lot of reasons like this guy cheating for example. So no, she does not owe an apology to those people who took his side.
I don't think you did anything wrong what a AH you married I would not have allowed him to get away either ten years of lying he was having a affair through our your relationship he cannot say he only started again three months ago that is a lying toxic person trying to justify what he did your ex husband didn't care about you he would have carried on for years
Either that or spellchecker on their devices is losing it's little electronic mind. Usually pretty on point with spelling and such but on a regular basis I'll be posting something and notice a word a sentence before I knew I'd spelled correctly had been replaced with a completely different word that makes no sense and when I click on the word to fix it the swap word option box offers to use the original word I'd typed. Don't even get me started on when it does the swapping in a word where I look at the word and literally ask my phone or tablet in what world would you think I wanted to use that word over the actual, correctly spelled and fitting word I used?
While I don't think that OP is in the wrong with what she did, the other innocent party is the child. Sure, Robbie should get the karma for cheating. But it could be difficult for his son if he's finding it difficult to find another job (possibly) after losing that important deal. Just saying 🙏🏾
The thing is though is that he cheated. That does a number on people and that includes children when it's actually found out. Now imagine finding out in another way if it hasn't been told. So really he should have thought of that before he cheated. That goes the same thing for women too who does this
He wasted almost 10 years of her life. Boo hoo he lost a deal he was working on for a few months. Anyone siding with him is a cheater apologist and isn't worth keeping around anyways.
And somehow she owed HIM an "apology" for ruining a business deal that he spent several months working on when she lost a DECADE of her life to a sham marriage??? If there was any real justice in this world everyone in her family and friends circle that took HIS side and criticized her would have FULLY TAKEN HER SIDE and SHUNNED HIM. They disgust me almost as much as he does.
He wasted a decade of OP's life. He is secretive, wicked, and very selfish. He is obviously selfish
It is galling. OP could have decided early on whether or not she wanted to continue dating someone who had a baby on the way. He decided she wouldn't have that choice to make. And her own friends and family want to blame HER because he lost a BUSINESS DEAL??!! The AUDACITY!! He took YEARS of her life, had a whole frickin family on her.
This. As if you'd be sharing your labour/finances/body with someone if you knew the truth. You don't get to make unilateral decisions in a partnership, and you can't give people back their time. 'Elena' should watch her back: a vacancy just opened up for his next side-piece.
Friends & family saying you did the wrong thing. Are Not real friends & family.
I cannot even coprehent the logic behind it
I take it they would be ok if they found out their spouse had done something similar. No?
It is really damned EASY to sit on your high horse and criticize how another person reacts to an absolutely MONUMENTAL BETRAYAL that I posted above is even worse than "regular" cheating. It really angers me when people who have never suffered a certain situation think that they know how they would react and pass judgement on others when they have never been in that situation. I h8 every person who negatively criticized her almost as much as I h8 her husband.
@@Zurround Right back at you.
@@lawsonallen7741 "Right back at you' means agree? Thank you then.
I understand what you're getting at , but I think it's really ignorant to assume what other people have been Through when you don't know them ! Everyoneis entitledto their own opinions, you dont have to like it but you cant control others, The faster you accept that the better you'll feel.@Zurround
Why is he miserable. He gets to be with the person he said he should have married
ikr? Didn't take him long...but I wonder if it's because his parents want to have their grandson in their lives.
Robbie would have divorced her after bagging the contract...friends choose him for business contact and status....Elena will have her karma some day too.
Yes, another clue to its fakeness. Claiming he was "upset" when he was planning a divorce anyway....yeah, right!
I H8 her too but not as much as him. The worst victim in this story might not even be the OP. The affair child might end up suffering horribly as a result of what his or her parents got dragged into. Often that is overlooked in these stories.
@@Zurround In this case I don't think so. Everyone in Op's former social circle was firmly team husband, so socially the son will not have any problems.
@Zurround I seriously doubt it. I suspect that kid will be just fine and won't even know what happened. This OP was treated like shit by everyone including folks in these comments, some of which sound like they were written by a mentally ill monkey.
He can’t sue for defamation because he admitted to it wtf lol
People just like to say that because they hope to scare off the other party and thus get their way. Often they don't follow through though.
Elena is just Robbie’s next victim in my opinion. He cheated with her, so it’s only a matter of time before he cheats on her….wonder how long his friends and family would support that. Or would they also tell her it’s “none of her business”. I’m a firm believer that Robbie had more women than just Elena, but that’s the only one OP caught onto.
Lol I hate people that don't understand you have to be lying for someone to sue you for defamation. You can't be sued for telling the truth about someone😂😂😂😂
They say that’s why Diddy’s never sued anyone.😂
(A few HAVE died though.😳🫣🫢😵)
Thank you for that comment
Exactly. The person being defamed also has to lose money for a lawsuit to be won. You can’t sue someone just because you got embarrassed.
I guess in this case Robbie did lose money because he lost that big deal but once again, OP has the truth on her side.
Another clue to its fakeness.
It's moments like this when you find out who your REAL friends are. And you get a real good look at your family too. I would expect the in-laws to be pissed as I'm sure they knew about his shadow family. But HER parents taking his side?? Yeah, my cut off game would be strong and swift.
I agree.
NTA. What OP did to her husband might seem excessively harsh to some, but for me, it was justified revenge. The husband had been deceiving her for years, concealing the truth about their child. Had he been honest before their marriage, she could have made an informed decision and moved on. Instead, he chose deceit, starting an affair with Elena and wasting OP's time. OP's actions were justified because I couldn't bear the thought of such betrayal happening to me.
U don’t have to feel sorry for a cheater
The people that feel sorry for a cheater are probably cheaters themselves or want to.
guys...it was the "none of her business" for me LOL
I would have sued the other woman too. Whatever lawsuit I could file against them, I would. He got off light compared to how deep she could've gone. Anyone who says she went overboard better pray they never get cheated on.
The legal term is "alienation of affection" but I do not know how the law works internationally as opposed to within USA. I think she should go "full scorched Earth" and try to dominate legally in whatever way possible (marriage fraud maybe?) and if he goes broke from this and ends up destitute GOOD.
@Zurround Thank you. My mind went blank regarding the legal term. Yeah, I would take everyone down. I don't care if I stubbed my toe on the way out, I'm suing for that too. I'm usually a walk-away and leave-the-mess type of person but there are times when being the bigger person just won't cut it. Sometimes you simply drag them to hell. This would be one of those times
@@HunnieSuckle24 "H311 hath no fury like a woman scorned" is very sexist proverb. I am a MAN and I would have been even more vengeful than her. I am not as CLEVER (the cake thing was brilliant) but when I suffer the ultimate betrayal I have zero moral qualms about how much damage I do to my betrayer, especially if its technically legal and just not "approved of" by @$$H0L3$ in my family.
Telling people the truth can not amount to defamation. If the truth hurts you, then you are the problem.
Yes! The cake is classic, OMG! This is so embarrassing to hear and It’s obvious she was enraged and I can’t say I blame her. This is F-Up! Take him for everything he’s got, you deserve it!
How do people have time to have extra relationships and families? I barely have time for one family!! Or money for it?!
I’m only in the middle of this now but does Robbie’s second family always have to visit him in hotel rooms? While this is highly unfair to OP, it’s unfair to the other family too. Robby is a sleaze bag.
As long as the other family didn't know about his wife then yes it's unfair to Eleanor, The child is always innocent.
@@perfectlyimperfect9129it said the lady knew but did not care cause he promised to leave her
Who leaves a hotel room door open wide enough for a photo to be taken and the occupants are not aware of it. This is bull
Yeah op did right cutting those toxic friends off! If he wanted his family why did he marry op?? Hope she got financially compensated for his BS
There was a hint there near the end of the video where she said she was doing so much better financially. While she attributes it to her hard work (which is partly true), I believe that while she was in the marriage, she was carrying the bulk of their household expenses, but didn't know it. As she found out when she got a hold of his expense reports, huge chunks of his money was going out every month to support his shadow family. That man was using and financially abusing his wife. He lucky all he lost was a business deal.
NTA, he can’t sue her for defamation when all that was true and there are proofs…cruel as it is to publicly humiliate him it needed to be out anyway, he did blurt out he was going to file for divorce when he was sick of her so I can assume he will humiliate her even more if he does do it. The friends and family saying that is none of her business? Of course it’s her business, she is the LEGAL WIFE, he kept this from her for years and he made her feel like an idiot as he rendezvous with his mistress and child in those so called “business trips”. Also no wonder they were on robbie’s side, they are helping him all along and not tell the LEGAL WIFE. Glad he lost that deal with the CEO…the only one I feel sorry for is Robbie’s kid, for having parents like him and Elena, as for Elena well, time will tell when Robbie will be having secret business trips without her knowledge.
19:36 He can't sue for defamation when it's a truth !! Your friends and family that Took his side are horrible just like he is !! I feel terrible for the kid
Most people in business do not wish to work with people /companies that have no morals or ethics.
Yes, maybe she could have taken a different approach, but she had lived with this individual for 10 years with no knowledge.
Not only that, but the fact that he said those awful things to his wife knowing he was wrong. He didn't even apologize. Why would any business want to work with him. He has no loyalty.
@@coureenlawrence4915it also proved that he has no issue lying, keeping secrets and screwing others over when given a chance
Op you are NTA. People should ask themselves how they would feel if this were them. Op I wish you all the blessings the world has to offer to you. Keep your head up. They haven't met karma yet. But they will. His parents should be ashamed, and may have already known about his other family and the child.
OP whoever said you were wrong have to be looked in to.
I would hire a PI to look into all these people.
Wrong, nope. Apologize, no!!I would sue the affair partner too.
She was gentle given what he had done to her. I would have been a little more sneaky my approach, but then, I would be going for maximum financial and social damage, not humiliation.
12 mins after the video uploaded.I love these kinds of videos .
The friends and family who are saying u took this way too far tell them u wish they face the same fate as u
See what their reaction is 😂
she told the truth he cant sue her for that.
How could anyone say that it wasn’t his WIFE‘S business that he cheated on her with another woman?
The CEO probably didn't end the contract/deal with "Robbie" because of OP, but because of Robbie's volatility (screaming in OP's face), and his scheming behaviour and deceptive practices (planning and engaging in an affair, & hiding his child). As far as OP's parents and friends go, they're an embarrassment. I hope OP does choose to go NC with her parents and the friends who have betrayed OP's trust also, and have turned their backs on OP by blaming her for calling out her vile ex.
I would have sent every single person a link to the post.
Text everyone he has his other family I don't need to do anything
LITERALLY being MARRIED to another woman is an EVEN WORSE boundary violation and betrayal both morally and legally than "regular" cheating. If the OP is going to be criticized AT ALL in this story it should be for not being vengeful ENOUGH.
I don’t feel sorry for cheaters and whoever feels sorry, is because they are probably one themselves.
So, they think she is the party in the wrong, because she publicly humiliated and embarrassed him..... But by his own admission he was going to publicly humiliate and embarrass her by running off with some other tart after he divorced her..... Mmmmm.
If you're going to have an argument best to do so in public, then the truth is available for all, be no I said this or that, I did nothing wrong...
Robbie really thought he could have two families. Robbie must have watched friends because of the whole cheating while on a break. How he couldn't tell op the truth. Which might of happened but then his kid wouldn't have grown up without his dad.
I question if op has a history of mental health issues. Because of how everyone was on his side in this situation. Makes me feel like majority of them knew. Robbies parnets were acting like op is the other woman. But then again they would care more about their grandkid.
Also how did the op get some big CEO to come to her husbands birthday party. I question how rich op and her ex husband are. With how Robbie acted showed the CEO that he couldn't be trusted or handle stress.
You never want to be the second class love.
Glad you moved on AWAY from him.
The new girlfriend is a cheater too.
She broke up a marriage.
It won’t go well for them.
They are both cheaters.
Dear Rgirl, I hope that your video was heavily monetized because I have never seen so many commercial interruptions as I have with this video. Please make sure that TH-cam is not cheating you. Keep up the great work.
What she did was pretty harsh and outsized but it was completely balancing to the outside thing he had done. They are even
It’s not defamation if it’s true.
Excuse me! Her parents felt bad for the cheater....tell me she didn't forgive them
Send just counter sue for infidelity and go ahead and sue his homework and get some money from her too so she knew about you and was okay with it and watch how quickly they drop that lawsuit for defamation cheaters and homewreckers are trash
I can relate , man I have supported , got out of trouble and even gave money in 4 years, had an AP in Tennessee , and she knew about me and had the nerve to tell me I needed to find God … guess she found something else in the church, definitely don’t have a good impressive from Lebanon church neither their Morristown members
The handy thing is when people do horrible things like this you learn who are the people who really care and are in your corner and who needs to be cut off, shame your parents fall in that side but 10/ 20 years of being alone with their regrets will teach them or they will die alone and you will be better off.
This woman needs a place in the cheater-busting hall of fame!
Um... He had ANOTHER FAMILY on the side which in my opinion is an EVEN WORSE betrayal than "regular" cheating and um.... she owes HIM the apology??? If I was her I would do the exact opposite of apology and gleefully rub in my victory and taunt him with it and if possible get further revenge and do even more damage to his career. I would go full "Scorched Earth"....
The people blaming OP are not worthy of friendships. OP should ditch them and get friends who are worthy of her.
Noo i would have bring the kid and the sidekick
😮p great job moving forward karma 👍 you're totally in the right. You definitely need better than what he's done to you. Take care of yourself first ✨️. Seriously self care is the best solution for you.
OP you did just fine. The bad guy here was the man who decided to marry you after he had a child with someone else. You had every right to know if he had a child even if the relationship at the beginning was Platonic Co=parenting. (As if). I say any family and friends who are telling you that you are wrong are total AHs. I think Robbie deserved it for not being honest with you.
Oh, and to the people who say he can sue you for defamation of character. No he can't. To be sued for defamation of character the person sue has to have character first. You cannot be sued if you did not lie about the situation. He made it very clear to everyone there he was cheating on you and he had a second family. You did nothing to defame him, he is actually a POS cheater. And don't apologize. You did nothing wrong, you said nothing wrong. You spoke truth and had proof.
OP go ask your MIL if she would think it was none of her business when FIL cheats on her! Oh wait, maybe he already has and she forced herself to look the other way. 🤔🤦🏼♀️
Bunch of crazys.
Anyone that thinks in any way what he did is ok, i hope that they get the same level of betrayal and backstabbing friends and family. If you're ok with that horrible behavior, you shouldn't have a problem living it. Too many people are ok with the worst behavior, until it happens to them. What is with this sort of hypocrisy? I see it EVERYWHERE in all sorts of situations. People looking down on those in a lesser position in life, a different background or ethnicity or religion or political beliefs. We're all the same. Human beings. Unless you're an evil POS who deliberately hurts others for no reason. Try to think of how you would feel if you were in the other persons position.
Hows it deformation if its true?
I just don't understand his, his family's and may be some of his friends' logic that his other family is none of OP's business. She was his wife! How can his cheating not be her business? Does love, marital vows, and marriage itself mean anything to these people?
Hell no
That was so undignified..
He should have told her she might have been more understanding hide it just means you have it you're cheating
should not have brought his business into it, there are a lot of other employees that are affected by the loss of that deal and they are completley innocent. That was too far. If you want to punish him fine but leave the innocent out of it.
If he got Elena pregnant before he married OP the child should be about 9 or 10 yrs old, not 5 or 6 yrs old like OP said. Oh and to those people saying u went to far, simply say I neither asked nor care for your opinion, defamation only works if it's a lie.
She did the right thing in confronting him however, she did it in completely and totally the wrong way.
What about all of those employees who are negatively financially impacted by her actions that affect their payroll and their ability to feed their families?
What about if his company goes out of business?
Do they deserve to lose their jobs because of his actions?
18:49 anyone who thinks you took it too far isn't worth your time/effort or friendship. As for your parents, time to go NC.
how can your ex sue you for defamation? Or was all true
Yeah, you can't sue someone if what you're saying is the truth.
If she doesn’t give a crap what ppl think, then why post it for the world to see. Well she screwed him, she screwed the kid. So bravo for being petty
You are not the ahole.❤
People: husband fckin around, havin kids, cheatin but u have no business with. Wtf is the logic HER husband is cheatin, ruined the marriage, trust the only person whose business it is , its HERS
If she booked the room with his secretary, for a surprise. How did he get the room.? Also take his family. Come on now. The reveal came to fast . No build up.
Hotel room ajar 🤨 Where? 😅
Yeah, I don't get the whole room setup, either.
Op Husband Should have Come clean and tell op The Truth about that other woman and he have a son with that other woman and he Say Got Something to tell you, op that I got that other woman pregnant before I met you. Op parents should have yell at him for he did to their daughter aka op and op in-laws should have Berated his butt for that and Op husband should have not keep that secret and he should have come clean in the beginning of their marriage.
It’s not being on his side or your side. This was something just between the two of you. That would have been the adult thing. I can see why you’re so upset. Seems as if you’re going to be losing more than your x. I get the hurt you feel.
Actually he was cheating on the other woman with you
Robbie had two options, 1. Confess to OP about Elena and his son at the very beginning and co-parent with Elena while also maintaining a romantic relationship with OP or 2. Confess to OP about Elena and his son at the very beginning and break up. Robbie could then pursue a proper relationship with the woman “he actually wanted to marry” while OP then goes on to find someone else who actually loves her and potentially start a family of her own. Instead Robbie chickened out like a b!tch and strung OP along FOR 10 FREAKING YEARS because he “didn’t want to hurt her feelings in the beginning”. Screw Robbie, screw the “friends”, and screw OP’s parents that wanted her to apologize to him
Everyone sucks here
I don't have such a flair for drama as OP does. He would have come home to an empty house. All my belongings would be gone. Anything I paid for would be gone. I would leave the business card of a divorce attorney where he would see it along with copies of the pictures. His number would be blocked
Who are all these teash people? Get what you can from this dumpster fire OP.
NGL her response was a bit over the top, but so is hiding a family for ten years from your wife! No apologies needed. As for the business deal… if he can go to such extremes in his personal life, who is to say he is not as deceitful in business. If anything, she helped warn the potential partners. He deserves everything she gave.
I don't think she owes _him_ an apology, but I do think she owes an apology to all the people who she dragged into the drama. That wasn't fair to them. They went to that party expecting a happy event, and instead they got that massive kick-in-the-teeth stress fest. Lying hubby deserved what he got, but nobody else deserved to be subjected to that.
You mean the losers who wanted her to apologize to a cheater? They can get bent and so can you.
@@Calories_To_Calibers Are you functionally illiterate, or just too drunk to read carefully? Nah, you're probably just a drama lover who wants to start a hate party and you think you've found your pet villain, so you carefully ignore anything that makes you wrong. You can get bent too.
Actually no because truth like this needs to be said. Lots of times there are those who tell you to keep the peace or anything else to not bring drama.
And that is wrong for a whole lot of reasons like this guy cheating for example.
So no, she does not owe an apology to those people who took his side.
I don't think you did anything wrong what a AH you married I would not have allowed him to get away either ten years of lying he was having a affair through our your relationship he cannot say he only started again three months ago that is a lying toxic person trying to justify what he did your ex husband didn't care about you he would have carried on for years
Is this the way young ppl write English nowadays? "presents of mine" instead of "presence of mind" smh
It's often done with a voice to text thing, so the technology often doesn't get the words quite right depending on the pronunciation.
Either that or spellchecker on their devices is losing it's little electronic mind. Usually pretty on point with spelling and such but on a regular basis I'll be posting something and notice a word a sentence before I knew I'd spelled correctly had been replaced with a completely different word that makes no sense and when I click on the word to fix it the swap word option box offers to use the original word I'd typed. Don't even get me started on when it does the swapping in a word where I look at the word and literally ask my phone or tablet in what world would you think I wanted to use that word over the actual, correctly spelled and fitting word I used?
Hook line and sinker. You are so vicious I feel sorry for anyone you have a relationship with. No apologies necessary but you sure have no boundaries
While I don't think that OP is in the wrong with what she did, the other innocent party is the child. Sure, Robbie should get the karma for cheating. But it could be difficult for his son if he's finding it difficult to find another job (possibly) after losing that important deal. Just saying 🙏🏾
he's CEO, he wouldn't lose the job.
Cheating has consequences for everyone involved even the affected children
He wasted 10 years of her life.
The sins of the fathers are visited upon their children.
The thing is though is that he cheated. That does a number on people and that includes children when it's actually found out. Now imagine finding out in another way if it hasn't been told.
So really he should have thought of that before he cheated. That goes the same thing for women too who does this
Haha! First!
Lol
Absolutely Nta he F around and found out
Your friends suck your husband sucks the affair partner sucks . Can't sue for defamation when it's all fact
Go no contact with your parents for a good bit