2 months ago I was at an all time low when it came to girls, but after taking advice from Kam I really started to see an uprise in my game. 2 days ago I got rejected by a girl and honestly, it hurt, it was in front of a few people too and it took me a minute to retaliate but after about an hour or so I got over it and realized it wasn’t so bad after all. That same day I went to a party with a few friends and came out the party with a few girls in my dms asking me when I am free. Take this mans advice, apply it and it almost feels like magic.
I got the looks I’m just shy 😭 but I been watching ya videos fa like a week and my confidence has went up & I’ve been talking to girls more. Taking it one level at a time
Bro real talk man I got the looks but I just fumble , I tried gettin this girls number the other day in this shop and i really liked her and it made me so nervous , when I feel that a girl likes me I need to just approach her and see what happens if I mess up I should just keep moving on
@@djswirley You're nervous because when you're handsome women naturally expect you to have game You know this unconsciously and that's why you can't get bitches I've experienced this as well, Talk to more women and you'll get better Good luck
@@ymir9755 damn bro this is some of the realist stuff I’ve heard in a while bro, i see you got lots of experience I will take your advice bro and will try to keep approaching girls I just can’t be asked at the moment in my life I am 22 but just can’t be asked man but what you said is facts though bro honestly hope I can progress forward
Same brother I just cant seem to move forward towards that one damn girl. It's so hard 😂😂 and I stutter when am nervous I hope somehow i can man up and go over to her without stuttering
this video had me cryin bro 😂 quan or w,e his name is literally taking W's and dubbing even though he aint iced out like a glacier in terms of outfit and physique this honestly teaches us to strap up with confidence when going for the approach
It takes practice to approach girls, if you want to be successful you need to come out of your shyness and improve your social skills, you can't wait around hoping some miracle is going to happen to you. If you do that, you'll wait too long until your too old to do stuff like that.
I think it’s just the fear honestly that some guys that just don’t have you either have it or you dont some guys it takes a while to learn through exposure and experience but if all you do is stay living under a rock then yeah it is gonna be hard asf to put yourself out there
But yes I do agree with you bro I did fuck up a few times every now and then when it came to talking to chicks it’s rlly honestly through trial and error and learning from you’re mistakes it won’t be perfect the first time but you’ll gradually get better at it
Practice, but also it's based on her mood, and if she finds u good looking enough. Also, if she has a bf or not. It's a lot of random factors and luck.
The dude doing the approach is a TH-camr. He’s Good at it. He is so good because he has Done it a lot. Me myself I’ve been approaching about 10 girls a day and I feel like I’m on top of my game.
7:22 "Look how hard she thinking with that big ass forehead of hers" 😂 This is why I watch your videos Kam because not only do they lighten up my day and I learn certain things from them but they make me laugh so hard
Theres this chick at work whos in a different department that comes and walks around our department every now and then..(i originally thought she was just a contractor) i am a young guy and she looked close to my age... and she is SMOKIN.. so i decided to say F it.. went and approached her introduced myself asked her what she does, then asked if she wanted to hangout... convo went good, kept it short, she did most of the talking & she kept strong eye contact and all but told me she had a kid and shes married etc.. i just said thats alright, take it as a compliment, and kept it moving found out she is one of the big shots apparently... she is always watching me now prolly wondering who i think i am approaching her with confidence, being under her level and what not.. i caught her staring hard the other day.. i dont pay her any mind now
25:20 thank you so much of pointing that out, dawg. I remember when I was 17, Nathan noticed my lack of confidence in myself with girls & told me that I wouldn’t have any chance with females, unless I got lucky by getting drunk at a party. I haven’t smoked in 3 years, so drinking is the last thing I wanna do to my body. It’s not worth it to shave years off your lifespan & kill brain cells just for the sake of talking to women. Besides, I recently got a girlfriend without a drop of booze entering my system, so what Nathan told me is just straight cap. I wonder how Nathan would react to how I’m currently doing because I haven’t seen him since I graduated last summer, & I know myself even better now than in high school.
I agree with the advice he gave in not getting drunk to pickup girls. That is a crutch and won't get you far, but whoever commented that this TH-camr was drunk is dumb. I've seen his videos and it takes A LOT of practice to get that level of confidence. He even has a video talking about how he was not this confident until he started making videos like this for his channel. His channel is called Thatwasepic
The thing for me which I know is a part of confidence is talking to females with people around like say I tried to holla at a shawty in a store or shes a cashier or something shit be challenging lowkey
When you start praying for the girls BF at the 17 minute mark 🤣🤣🤣 Kam you're a fucking legend. This video was brutally honest (as always) but not like in a blackpill kind of way... you actually give me hope. So thanks again and keep it up 👌
You’re 100% on point bro but let’s be brutally honest here not every women you approach is gonna find you attractive or be attracted to you these are just facts but you should never try to change who you are for someone else why ???? If that person can’t accept you for who you are then that’s their loss it is not you’re job to change or please everyone on this earth why the fuck would u want that Bending over backwards for someone else
And thats so true so you gotta work on yourself as much as you can so that you can put that number of women that are unnatracted to you lower. But one thing you should never confuse is "trynna be someone else." There's a lot of things that people have about themselves that they should and they have to change but those other things that are good you should never change. It's not about becoming somebody else it's about becoming more you but a million times better. Either way bro God bless you never let down.
U should still try to achieve ur best possible looks by taking care of u. It's just not just to get girl but to feel good, healthy and also girl will be attracted to u more. A win win.
I’m 5’5 i look good i have the style but when it comes to height i’m fucked that’s why i barely cold approach, cause i know in 80% of the times i’m going to get rejected bc of my height it’s really unfair but it is what it is
it is what it is man, gotta get girls interested after meeting them from work, classes, volunteering, clubs, etc. Having the excuse of being part of the community or space when talking to girls goes a long way in showing what you got for guys average height and below. Cold approach really relies on that initial attraction factor cause approaching that way immediately signals you're there to get her number leading her to size you up before even you're given the chance to show what you got on top of your looks.
7:20 Idk if asking for the hangout/asking her when she's free is even the play anymore. Better just to hangout with her right there and try to pull her because girl's mood changes, life gets in her way, and she just forgets about u since she's got so many options with social media in her life.
Hey Kam I’d recommend checking his uncut footage at his other channel (AlmostEpic) on “I like you” it shows his misses but tbh not really he still has his swagger on 💪
You can tell this man watched a lot of stephiscold 😂😂 grammar and mannerisms are very telling, not so much ideology tho which leads me to believe his journey was a lot like mine. Fw you brodie w content as always
exactly a proof of cold approaching with confidence, you look good, dress good and can hold a convo it works. Rejection is part of the game you gonna wait for choosing signals till Christ's second coming 😂
Kam, this dude look average but he tall. You can do it too along as you ain't ugly and you can make up for it by your physique(if you ain't too short).Just have confidence.
Can you make a video on that inner peace you mentioned in stop being nice guy vid or if you did can you link in next video pls. Thanks your words are powerful
Now I know I'm not the one with the most game but I do got sense. Saying a white women would turn off a black dude makes no sense. Because white women love black men. Confidence bro Edit She folded 🤣
Him saying ill show you around is pretty typical yeah ic done it but its like being that positive to remember that shit is what comes into game a lot. Like a true faith in that your just playing ita nothing too serious
Come to think of it. I def agree that the man gotta take control and carry convos, but when it comes to decision making skills, Women don’t make good decisions. Like when planning on a date.
I have to disagree with you. Women are more biologically attracted to social status which is essentially traits of competence than looks. This is why confidence is more important. Women have a laundry list of requirements for men which is why Beautiful women will date uglier guys because there are many ways in which a guy can boost his social status and consequently tick more box’s of attraction. Women fall in love with competence not looks because women are attracted to a guy’s future which is signified by competence. This is also why young foolish women fall in love with “bad boys” because they portray fake competence via narcissism, arrogance, ego, and probably how they dress, but more experienced women don’t fall in love with them because they can tell the difference between real competence and fake competence. You’re a young guy like most of us and our dating pool consists women around our age so it seems logical to assume women care more about looks when most everyone is to inexperienced to understand the desirability a truly competent man has over a women because of how rare he is. Good looking men and women aren’t rare and men don’t really care about a women’s competence like women do so when a guy becomes competent he has all the leverage in relationships because he’s legitimately rare.
Dude has experience you can tell he’s been practicing guy doesn’t seem to be nervous or anxious from the jump
@JackAmen bredren🤞🏿🙌🏿
😊😊
He’s in a relationship. Several of the pickup TH-camrs do. Just stay doing vids for content.
slenderman stealing girlfriends haha
bro its easier to speak to females when u dont like them like them but when u actually do like like a girl u get nervous no matter what
FAX
True
2 months ago I was at an all time low when it came to girls, but after taking advice from Kam I really started to see an uprise in my game. 2 days ago I got rejected by a girl and honestly, it hurt, it was in front of a few people too and it took me a minute to retaliate but after about an hour or so I got over it and realized it wasn’t so bad after all. That same day I went to a party with a few friends and came out the party with a few girls in my dms asking me when I am free. Take this mans advice, apply it and it almost feels like magic.
What are your most recommended videos from him
@@David_99778 ngl bro watch TyKwonDoe he will get u right
Funny thing is, this is exactly how I analyze pickup videos. I pause and explain to my younger brother if he’s with me so he learns early on.
W mans
Better to show him how it's done too
God damn I wish my older brother told me this 😭
W brother🤟🏽
Damn your lil bro better appreciate what you're doing for him.
I got the looks I’m just shy 😭 but I been watching ya videos fa like a week and my confidence has went up & I’ve been talking to girls more. Taking it one level at a time
Bro real talk man I got the looks but I just fumble , I tried gettin this girls number the other day in this shop and i really liked her and it made me so nervous , when I feel that a girl likes me I need to just approach her and see what happens if I mess up I should just keep moving on
@@djswirley You're nervous because when you're handsome women naturally expect you to have game
You know this unconsciously and that's why you can't get bitches
I've experienced this as well,
Talk to more women and you'll get better
Good luck
@@ymir9755 damn bro this is some of the realist stuff I’ve heard in a while bro, i see you got lots of experience I will take your advice bro and will try to keep approaching girls I just can’t be asked at the moment in my life I am 22 but just can’t be asked man but what you said is facts though bro honestly hope I can progress forward
@@djswirley you don't have a choice, sit down with your boys and get 5+ girl's a day, you'll have rizz on the 3rd day
Same brother I just cant seem to move forward towards that one damn girl. It's so hard 😂😂 and I stutter when am nervous I hope somehow i can man up and go over to her without stuttering
15 seconds of watching the video.
He’s a TH-camr.
He’s good at approaching females.
He’s ganna kill it I learn game from him.
Can you tell me that TH-camrs name I like his style
Thatwasepic. He usually does prank videos and more recently giveaway type videos
@@filipinoboy8 thanks alot
😂
"Imagine your girlfriend let this tall ass slenderman looking dude walk up to her and say "I like you" and entertain the conversation?" LMFAO
That was some OP RIZZ! THIS is what I like to see. Sick of seeing dudes get rejected
Factz
this video had me cryin bro 😂
quan or w,e his name is literally taking W's and dubbing even though he aint iced out like a glacier in terms of outfit and physique
this honestly teaches us to strap up with confidence when going for the approach
It takes practice to approach girls, if you want to be successful you need to come out of your shyness and improve your social skills, you can't wait around hoping some miracle is going to happen to you. If you do that, you'll wait too long until your too old to do stuff like that.
I think it’s just the fear honestly that some guys that just don’t have you either have it or you dont some guys it takes a while to learn through exposure and experience but if all you do is stay living under a rock then yeah it is gonna be hard asf to put yourself out there
But yes I do agree with you bro I did fuck up a few times every now and then when it came to talking to chicks it’s rlly honestly through trial and error and learning from you’re mistakes it won’t be perfect the first time but you’ll gradually get better at it
Is 19 too old?
@@nightmid5785 No, that's still very young. Old is at least late 30s or so.
Practice, but also it's based on her mood, and if she finds u good looking enough. Also, if she has a bf or not. It's a lot of random factors and luck.
these videos help to gain confidence but still be creative add your own personality to whatever you do. appreciate the help man
The dude doing the approach is a TH-camr.
He’s Good at it.
He is so good because he has Done it a lot.
Me myself I’ve been approaching about 10 girls a day and I feel like I’m on top of my game.
What his name so we can check him out
@@JellyfromtheBthat was epic
I grew up watching Juan,time flies man
same bruh
7:22 "Look how hard she thinking with that big ass forehead of hers" 😂 This is why I watch your videos Kam because not only do they lighten up my day and I learn certain things from them but they make me laugh so hard
🤓😭😭😭😭
I was laughin my ass off lookin for a comment on this 😂😂😂😂😂
Bro fr you the realest self improvement youtuber out here im glad i found you keep that shit goin
I’ve seen this before. It’s real he just cut out the rejections
Confidence will take to the moon
It’s the atmosphere, that’s how you gotta move when you on a college campus
One of the first reaction videos on ur channel that got punching the air and not punching my bed
"Tough out here for certain people" 😅😅😅😅
you're friggin hilarious bro, this just made my day no cap
"I like you" geeked me everytime 😂😂
Theres this chick at work whos in a different department that comes and walks around our department every now and then..(i originally thought she was just a contractor) i am a young guy and she looked close to my age... and she is SMOKIN.. so i decided to say F it.. went and approached her introduced myself asked her what she does, then asked if she wanted to hangout... convo went good, kept it short, she did most of the talking & she kept strong eye contact and all but told me she had a kid and shes married etc.. i just said thats alright, take it as a compliment, and kept it moving found out she is one of the big shots apparently... she is always watching me now prolly wondering who i think i am approaching her with confidence, being under her level and what not.. i caught her staring hard the other day.. i dont pay her any mind now
What the hell?
25:20 thank you so much of pointing that out, dawg. I remember when I was 17, Nathan noticed my lack of confidence in myself with girls & told me that I wouldn’t have any chance with females, unless I got lucky by getting drunk at a party. I haven’t smoked in 3 years, so drinking is the last thing I wanna do to my body. It’s not worth it to shave years off your lifespan & kill brain cells just for the sake of talking to women. Besides, I recently got a girlfriend without a drop of booze entering my system, so what Nathan told me is just straight cap. I wonder how Nathan would react to how I’m currently doing because I haven’t seen him since I graduated last summer, & I know myself even better now than in high school.
I agree with the advice he gave in not getting drunk to pickup girls. That is a crutch and won't get you far, but whoever commented that this TH-camr was drunk is dumb. I've seen his videos and it takes A LOT of practice to get that level of confidence. He even has a video talking about how he was not this confident until he started making videos like this for his channel. His channel is called Thatwasepic
every hood needs a nigga like this
Bro got mad confidence even so seen some of his videos he does get rejected
What's the name of his channel ?
The thing for me which I know is a part of confidence is talking to females with people around like say I tried to holla at a shawty in a store or shes a cashier or something shit be challenging lowkey
When you start praying for the girls BF at the 17 minute mark 🤣🤣🤣
Kam you're a fucking legend.
This video was brutally honest (as always) but not like in a blackpill kind of way... you actually give me hope.
So thanks again and keep it up 👌
At 7:07 I would probably say smth like "idk maybe sometime I could take you around town get some coffee, whatever you like"
you wasnt cappin when you said confidence is key
For compliments keep this mentality, give them a reason for them to compliment you
18:15 bro jumped to light speed and had a mutation and started mimicking a gremlin while remaining sane lmaoo
You’re 100% on point bro but let’s be brutally honest here not every women you approach is gonna find you attractive or be attracted to you these are just facts but you should never try to change who you are for someone else why ???? If that person can’t accept you for who you are then that’s their loss it is not you’re job to change or please everyone on this earth why the fuck would u want that Bending over backwards for someone else
And thats so true so you gotta work on yourself as much as you can so that you can put that number of women that are unnatracted to you lower. But one thing you should never confuse is "trynna be someone else." There's a lot of things that people have about themselves that they should and they have to change but those other things that are good you should never change. It's not about becoming somebody else it's about becoming more you but a million times better. Either way bro God bless you never let down.
U should still try to achieve ur best possible looks by taking care of u. It's just not just to get girl but to feel good, healthy and also girl will be attracted to u more. A win win.
You're my 3rd mentor now besides AT and hamza. Mad respect for you✌
Bruh I learned this stuff abt a year ago threw some homies, best goddamn advice ever. Talk to yo btc, and be bold abt it
I’m 5’5 i look good i have the style but when it comes to height i’m fucked that’s why i barely cold approach, cause i know in 80% of the times i’m going to get rejected bc of my height it’s really unfair but it is what it is
it is what it is man, gotta get girls interested after meeting them from work, classes, volunteering, clubs, etc. Having the excuse of being part of the community or space when talking to girls goes a long way in showing what you got for guys average height and below. Cold approach really relies on that initial attraction factor cause approaching that way immediately signals you're there to get her number leading her to size you up before even you're given the chance to show what you got on top of your looks.
7:20 Idk if asking for the hangout/asking her when she's free is even the play anymore. Better just to hangout with her right there and try to pull her because girl's mood changes, life gets in her way, and she just forgets about u since she's got so many options with social media in her life.
This is the best one so far
Mom kam uploaded drop everything
Just tried this approach today, it works. Got a girl number with a boyfriend
The fucking reactions 💀💀💀
bro ngl you funny as hell, bro really started praying 😭😭
Hey Kam I’d recommend checking his uncut footage at his other channel (AlmostEpic) on “I like you” it shows his misses but tbh not really he still has his swagger on 💪
Ever since I started watching your vids I have been pulling left and right thank you I went from a 7 to a 9
When he said slender man dude 😂😂😂😂
Thank you.
“It’s just unfair. I can’t guarantee you can get away with the same thing” 😭
well damn ig i folded so HARD 😂😂😂😂😂
wishing you massive success
A that nigga pulling up from curry range!! 😭😭😭😭😭
You can tell this man watched a lot of stephiscold 😂😂 grammar and mannerisms are very telling, not so much ideology tho which leads me to believe his journey was a lot like mine. Fw you brodie w content as always
Thought I was the only one that peeped this but definitely not a bad role model Steph put alot of us on game.💯
bro is prestige master in confidence LOL
No this guy smooth Fs💯
Sneako of pickup videos
Amen brother 🙂
exactly a proof of cold approaching with confidence, you look good, dress good and can hold a convo it works. Rejection is part of the game
you gonna wait for choosing signals till Christ's second coming 😂
Kam, this dude look average but he tall. You can do it too along as you ain't ugly and you can make up for it by your physique(if you ain't too short).Just have confidence.
The best thing is to just talk to a lot of girls
i ain’t never see Kam act like this 😭
Kam your fashion takes are insane (not in a good way) keep droppin heat tho 🔥
Holy fuck that guy is the fucking king😂
18:16 female nature at its finest
14:00 i be telling everyone that, most of the time the dont really like u
Nah this video got me fuckin crying nigga reactions were hilarious
No rules bro. Go to the bar and approach a bunch of people every weekend you’ll understand
Dude is shooting from half court 😂😂😂
Can you make a video on that inner peace you mentioned in stop being nice guy vid or if you did can you link in next video pls. Thanks your words are powerful
Omg he’s breaking down that was epic guy who isn’t even a dating coach but has a nice game
Bro got gojo's level of confidence
i actually jumped out my chair just like you when she folded that was crazy fr 😂 14:35
Only way to win is not play
I'm really going to have to come out with a channel
Interesting. This kid at such a young age knows almost if not everything you need to know about a girl 😂
It's real his not from the fake ones. 💯
We needed this
I think there’s a full version with the rejections
which channel is this youtube video on
@@wxntta I need to know aswell
@@wxntta thatwasepic
Scandalous fr
It's a cold word out here -Future
Love these!
I love this dude oh my god😂
Now I know I'm not the one with the most game but I do got sense. Saying a white women would turn off a black dude makes no sense. Because white women love black men. Confidence bro
Edit
She folded 🤣
bro did a whole ass prayer for her bf😭😭💀💀
hey can you link the original video ?
Hey let me get his youtube link. I mean the guy you commenting damm its crazy
Practice makes progress fellas
bro is just him 😭
Him saying ill show you around is pretty typical yeah ic done it but its like being that positive to remember that shit is what comes into game a lot. Like a true faith in that your just playing ita nothing too serious
Lol you can’t judge juan he’s more of a player than you ever will be
Come to think of it. I def agree that the man gotta take control and carry convos, but when it comes to decision making skills, Women don’t make good decisions. Like when planning on a date.
where u bought the chain?
React to mcqueen pickup videos
I have to disagree with you. Women are more biologically attracted to social status which is essentially traits of competence than looks. This is why confidence is more important. Women have a laundry list of requirements for men which is why Beautiful women will date uglier guys because there are many ways in which a guy can boost his social status and consequently tick more box’s of attraction. Women fall in love with competence not looks because women are attracted to a guy’s future which is signified by competence. This is also why young foolish women fall in love with “bad boys” because they portray fake competence via narcissism, arrogance, ego, and probably how they dress, but more experienced women don’t fall in love with them because they can tell the difference between real competence and fake competence. You’re a young guy like most of us and our dating pool consists women around our age so it seems logical to assume women care more about looks when most everyone is to inexperienced to understand the desirability a truly competent man has over a women because of how rare he is. Good looking men and women aren’t rare and men don’t really care about a women’s competence like women do so when a guy becomes competent he has all the leverage in relationships because he’s legitimately rare.
yo i just watched this clip on ig💀
What's the name of the video you were reacting to so I can react
Wait I know this dude that was epic his name i used to watch some of his vids
If u don’t look like me or better 😂😂😂
Make a video on how to rock good fits
This a banger!!!
I think I have a new Personality
Thatwasepic is the goat frl love his videos