Sooo I see y’all are tripping over home girl wanting a man to have $500 a month to date her. So maybe I am out of touch but that wasn’t a lot of money to me. Lol. So maybe the answer is this. If you want to date a woman bare minimum have enough a month to at least take her to Applebees and a movie. Is that more acceptable? The bottom line is, if you want a woman you should have a budget to date her. If not get your money up.
i think its more the entitlement. cant say a man shouldn't lead with him money but then its a smart move to choose a woman who wouldn't date him if he can't give her $500 a month. if a man came on and said if a woman wants to date him, she has to cook 3 full meals a day 7 days a week, women would be screaming where's the ring etc.
Ms.Kendra thank you so much I thought I was the only one. $500 is nothing and MY GENERATION OF MEN are very stingy with their money nowadays SO THIS IS BASICALLY YOU SHOWING A WOMAN YOU’RE SERIOUS. A lot of these men want the woman that’s not in their budget. Date in your budget its that simple.
Kendra, no need to say Im not reliable in your intro. Just say Im not liable for anyone you meet. Reliable means trustworthy. Liable means responsible by law.
Maia you seem like an adorable young woman. You’re in college which is the best time to find someone around your age and on the same path as you. Instead of coming onto Kendra show go hang out around the law school, engineer school, science lab, or the gym to strike up conversations with young men you find interesting. Good luck with grad school.
As a young woman I never thought about what kind of qualifications my man had to have outside of character. We are going 8 years strong, married for 7. I thank God for my man. He is one of the sweetest human beings I know. We truly enjoy spending life together.
Me too! I'm old and married. I can't with the money and dating stuff. I never expected a man to buy my clothes, get my hair and nails done to go on a date. I don't expect my husband to do it, lol. Congratulations on going strong with your vows! Have many, many more blessed years together.
You are literally clueless and need to work on your projection. Someone who gives too much, can mean they neglect themselves, lack boundaries, and put others needs before their own. How about you expand your mindset to understand, first before trying to take a dig at another person. I can tell you don’t work on yourself and are very low vibrational!
Laalaa is a scammer lol self employed people still have to file taxes, 1099 or whatever. Its ok to have a regular job i prefer that than these so called "entrepreneurs" 🙄
Me and a girl went to Atlanta Hawks basketball game on date night and I spent over 300 hundred dollars. That Included tickets, food and train fair. That was just 1 date. Which means less than 200 would be left for rest of the month. Once we reach that amount, she would need to pay for any other dates or activities throughout the month. If you go get couples massages that 150 dollars. Just two dates alone will eat up 500 hundred dollars and women get bored fast and always want to do stuff.
These guests are very creative at disguising two things; being unemployed and begging 😂😂. Shorty been in the streets for a decade and the lucky man who gets to settle down with her after all her "fun" has to pay at least 500 a month in addition to everything else she's expecting him to pay for since she has 10 jobs and is still broke. All that, she will not fit into your box and you have to get on her program. make it make sense.
LaLa is heavily indebted and needs a man to rescue her. The problem is that she isn’t smart enough to present a package that will attract and keep that man. She’s still operating with a young/hot body mindset when that isn’t her anymore.
Right. I feel like if she showed up as a dime then she would've gotten more men lined up. That Kendra Kam was trash requesting a monthly allowance as a gf
I don’t understand why people complain about men wanting women that aren’t overweight. Yes “you can get a man at any size” because many men will sleep with anything but that doesn’t mean you should be triggered when a man says he won’t sleep with, date or marry anything. If you’re really that angry go to the gym and work it off.
For all the entrepreneurs tell me what your business brings home a year on average. If you don't know that you're terrible at business. Because having a business is not a flex when you can make more money and not struggle by having a job.
Laaa Laaa, just like that single 52 year old lady in Miami who was creative about her salary demands, you will also be 52 going on the 2041 version of the Kendra G dating show still single and still looking for a man. When you opened your mouth, attraction went out the window.
LaLa simply isn’t that bright. Maia is in the DMV area where smart, pretty, 20 somethings fly in and set up shot by the thousands every single August/September. The really smart ones lock down a provider by the time they’re 25 and head off to the burbs. Women like LaLa end up at hookah lounges with their girlfriends well into their 30s.
I’m glad Kendra talked about being assertive with Oronde. Being with someone who isn’t good with clarity is frustrating when it comes to building a relationship. Let your No be no and your yes be yes.
I don't think Kendra heard that part of what the young lady said. She honestly said that's what I want. So whether or not she is in a committed relationship she wants that money.
Maia find your man AT college, or in the college community. You will be more like-minded. Your 20s are for you! So focus on yourself, but also be open and have fun! Best wishes for you🎉
@maialafrance3396 are you able to join or start a social group or use the gym on campus? Like minded young men are definitely walking to and from class
I will try to be more active on the gym on campus and join groups :) I will keep y'all updated lol and same when I get accepted into grad school. I am focusing on myself this year @@blackfuery7633
I have no problem with the $500 a month but to be getting your cheeks clapped for 13 years with no relationships. 35 & single since 22, and to give those horrible "flaws" while referring to yourself as a "certain caliber o g woman" is crazy
The modern dating landscape is abysmal. Is there a correlation between how much a man earns, his height and relationship success? How are people continually expecting things of potential partners yet not embodying the expectations themselves? What man wants to date a woman that explicitly requests an allowance of $500 a month? Maybe a sugar daddy but that’s not an intentional relationship, that’s a transactional relationship. How is everyone an entrepreneur? Is having a regular stable job an anomaly these days? I wonder if the dating landscape is really this bad or this a highly selected sample based upon Kendra’s following? The ratio of truly good people to bad is like 1:1000. I don’t think that’s an exaggeration either. Wild.
It seems to be a common theme on all of the dating shows/podcasts that I've seen. I think women are just more comfortable online to say how they really feel.
I think the correlation between money, looks, and height is that more women are realizing they dont get alot of satisfaction out of relationships, so they want other factors to help keep them attracted to a guy once the honeymoon phase over. Those few moments of intercourse cost and risk women so much but they rarely climax or get anything much out of it that makes it worth the risk, and its usually something they regret doing most of the time and afterwhile it becomes just another chore that benefits the man not her. Which leads to why women feel entitled to expect from men things they don't embody themselves. To them opening up and trusting their life and womb to a man when divorces, single moms, and baby mommas are at an all time high more than compensates for what she's requiring up front that she may lack herself. To her, she's taking the most risk and reaping the least benefit out of the deal. If men didnt expect secx before marriage from these women I doubt women would have such tall financial expectations from men up front. So in that regard it is transactional in that men want something for free, and women are coming or have come to a point of collectively attempting to require money in lieu of marriage. The quote "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"...means why marry her if she's screwing you for free. To that, woman are attempting to charge for the milk now but not with marriage necessarily since they see divorce rates are high and nearly always initiated by women. Men get a lot of benefits on top of secxual stuff... they get a maid, cook, mother, nurse, financial manager, submission, ego stroking etc., There's coming a time and has come already where women no longer see men as something to be desired, but avoided; and vice versa for men I suppose, as the internet is exposing the mindsets and perspectives of both genders and revealing that they're really not all that compatible.
Re: Maia : The absolute best thing any woman can do to materially increase her chances of a successful life is to find and marry a man of substance with demonstrated husband and father characteristics and do so in her early twenties. Nothing else provides the same “return on investment”….nothing.
Married man here in the top 10% of men, if my wife required me to provide her with $500 per month while “dating” we wouldn’t have made it. Now she gets more than this just for her spa services alone. Also, we’ve been married for 15 years so I’m not sure of what people are doing now. Good luck to everyone, keep your standards and expectations, but I wanted to share my perspective.
LaLa said you got to have 500,000 just for her 😂😂😂😂😂im on the ground laughing 😂😂😂😂😂 my stomach hurt from laughing 😂😂😂 and she never been in a relationship since she been adult maybe it's the 500,000 dollars request 😂😂😂 but hey that's her preference nothing wrong with her having her preference but.. but good luck on that 😂 and Kendra agree with her but I understand you have to have money to date but 500,000 just for her it's only 2 percent of men who can do that and that's why she can't find a man
Maia is near perfect. She’s adorable, sweet, smart, funny, caring, and sacrifices her precious time in service of the less fortunate. She’s gonna be a wonderful wife! Good luck, Maia!!
@@Ambitiousgirl22 in case you haven't heard men and women are different genders and are held to different standards. It's not the tattoo itself but the placement of the tattoo coupled with the width of her back that makes her request unreasonable.
1:02:06 LaLa: This is why you need to listen intently to how people answer your questions. For some reason Lala tried to make it seem as if she hadn’t had sex in a long time when she said it was last Fall. Last fall was less than two months ago. It’s no big deal, but her desire to mask that is a red flag…..to go with all the others she exhibited.
Isebell, dump her husband because he liked to save money and let it grow. Its called delayed gratification which turns people into millionaires. Instant gratification will keep you poor. Her character has holes in it. Her new man need 100k but pookie can hit with no job. You do not deserve a good man, but a everyboby man.
I’m sorry I just didn’t like the way laaa laaa spoke about regular 9-5 jobs when it came to men .. idk she came off a bit cocky.. as a married woman, me n my husband work in healthcare and financial industry and it’s 9-5 jobs but hubby ur environment is your reality and clearly it’s not working!. Yes I know you want what u want, but don’t down other ppl to do so smh🤦🏽♀️
6:05 To the 22yr old… don’t judge people for not having it all figured out. Someone can be successful without knowing exactly what they want to do in life. Sincerely a 27yr old.
A lot of men spend $500 or more a month on dates and etc but wanting it in the form of an “allowance” is something I’d expect to hear from a 25 year old IG model.
@@bopbop11That's a family budget line item for your wife that is putting in work, but has no income. Direct payment as an allowance for someone you're dating is modern ish.
@@RemIsNice I mean, I'm sure she and he can work out the terms that work for them, but $500 is not far fetched and doesn't automatically indicate manipulative tactics.
@@bopbop11 I'm sure they can too. I'm just saying that's more of a new age type of discussion for dating. Unless you are talking about being a sugar baby.
She talking about she doesn't want to see your ex on your snap but you posing with a whole dude on your IG. Check your life before coming this show. People have no self-awareness. They can't even name 3 real flaws. Perfectionism, being late, giving to much, etc. IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP FLAW. A real RELATIONSHIP FLAW is being obese/overweight, in debt, multiple kids, multiple baby mommas/daddies, alcoholic, drug addict, cut off game strong, bad attitude, inconsistent, sleeping around, etc.
@@bigdunks4eva fam you're feeding the trolls. Comments like these are to imply men as insignificant. Any other time it's "she said what she said" except when it involves wanting a man.
Bad advice. Far too many black Americans feel a husband and an education are mutually exclusive. My daughter is a junior in college and is checking all boxes. Her boyfriend’s parents married right out if college and so did her mother and I. She knew the expectation was for her to do the same. She is also rocking a 3.8 GPA and will graduate with a double major….and all the bells and whistles.
Men if y'all stop paying for women's bills they will stop asking. The only reason they bold enough to ask is because somewhere some dude is paying her bills with no expectations of payback.
I may be mistaken, but I believe the $500/mo is for her personal use (unless I missed something) on top of the cost of dating. Sounds like payment for membership or something similar to me. Could be worse though she’s not asking to be totally kept and she’s being up front. All she needs to do is shuffle 2 or 3 “ members “ and pay her car payment and cell phone bill. 😂. I enjoy the show and am always amazed. Peace.
You are so right Kendra… marriage is freedom not bondage and if anyone speaks ill of it then they simply married the wrong person. My husband and I adore each other. He is obsessed with me after all this time. And the feeling is mutual. You have kinks u work them out .period! I hate when ppl speak bad of marriage. When it’s right it’s amazing.
TH-cam moved them. When you click on the video to watch, instead of clicking on "comments" you have to swipe the word "comments" to the left and it'll switch to live chat. At least that's how it is on my phone.
53:29 $500 per month…it’s not that it’s a lot of money, it’s how she said it. It’s the fact that we know that she doesn’t earn a lot of money and it comes across as bottom barrel gold digging. Any man of substance knows that a quality woman is expensive. Not because she demands it, but because he wants to give her the world. That woman that attracts and can keep that man of substance, she doesn’t want him to break his back for her, but she will give him the world for the desire to provide for her. Make sense?
Yeah kendra really missed the mark on that... men know dating cost thats fine but demanding how i give the money is different... imagine a man demanding the manner in which sex should happen... be a complete turn off
I'm BBW and I don't get mad at all when men don't like BBW. I rather know up front. I'm not your cup of tea cool. Everyone have preferences. I'm working on losing weight but still not trying to be skinny. I'll just keep dating men that love BBW and it's plenty out here 😉
Whales coming after Oronde😅😅😅🐳🐳🐳🐳🐋🐋🐋 he eliminated 95% of the women on this show. I'm disappointed he added size 10 😅. My wife stays in the gym, has been a 4 to 6 all her life. So many excuses "what if she gets the gout?" "What if she gets Dunlaps? " 😅😅😅
People (mostly women) don't want to accept that most successful high earning men don't settle for overweight out of shape women. They have options. Period.
If a woman I was dating in mid relationship said “since everything is going well and we like each other and it can be a future between us I require you to give me $500 a month 🥰”. I would smile in her face , say ok while simultaneously be blocking her all on platforms ✌🏾. It’s the audacity of these women smh… relationships should be genuine not transactional shes really selling herself short. Us men will give a woman our last without question when he know the value of her.
I think the guy she is looking for would naturally be inclined to spend on her without her having to ask. I'm guessing if it doesn't get to that point she'd move on. All assumptions though.
@@chantelvenessa if the guy is willing to give it to her without her asking then why get on a public dating platform and make that demand? if she's as great as she said she is, then it would come organically.
@@chantelvenessa she want a man who's confident. if she was confident in what she bring to a relationship, she wouldnt get on here and say that. but she's hoping she catch a simp who'll come in knowing he gotta pay her 500 a month 😂
Well she did say she doesn’t know how to be in a relationship, so she doesn’t know her value in a partnership or how to be selfless & genuine, only transactional
I would put an extra $500 a month into a Roth IRA or brokerage account. Those are investments that make sense. I would hope a potential partner is doing the same.
A 35 year old woman who's never had a relationship, and has been afraid of commitment, expects you to give her $500/month. How the hell does that sound like a good deal as a man? These women don't even respect the type of men that they desire.
@@beedubbya2278 Women expect men to spend money on them. Men expect to spend more money on a woman than she is going to spend on him. A stupid woman comes on the internet and announces a number she wants a man to spend on her monthly. I’m hoping you’re a smart woman, so _your unnatural allegiance to dumb women is unlike you_ .
My theory is that he has a wife or girlfriend and she had sex with him but is not trying to mess up his relationship. She posted him so that other women could see that she has the ability to bed men like him. It’s really pathetic, but each time she goes to her page, she gets a mental boost from seeing him that close to her. It’s a vision board.
@@RoccofanChile go to bed! Lol. How the hell you draw that long conclusion?! She literally explained why she did it.😂😂😂 and you still wrote a paragraph lol
@@KendraGMedia I love the show, Kendra. Set a minimum amount for Superchats that you will read, I’d recommend $20. Your time is worth way more than $5. It’s not that you have to announce it, but people will get the message over time. Also, tell people throughout the show to subscribe to your TH-cam CHANNEL. If you don’t care enough to distinguish between the channel and a “page”, others won’t care either. Yes, it does make a difference. You should easily be up to 500K subs by now. I wish you a prosperous 2024.
I can afford to date no problem...I just don't expect anything from anyone except for them to be true to themselves to different degrees depending on the situation. I don't approach women at all..cause I don't care...and when I do date..it's just for the moment...I'm not looking for anything else at all. It's just not worth it.
Maia is a sweet and pretty girl! She does not need to be with a anyone’s baby daddy. Kendra will ask the same exact question back to back three times in a row in her pass life she was a blond 😂😂😂
Every single person is a representation of others that look like them. The belief that you only represent yourself is why people are so embarrassing. Because they think they only embarrassing themselves.
Dating goes both ways. If you broke don't date. Nobody wants a liability or a bill. Women can pay for dates too. Nobody trying to be broke always feeding you, you're not a child. Most people 30+ y'all should be thinking more about your retirement than dating. 63% of Americans couldn't come up with a $500 emergency. So most likely most people don't have $500 for pleasure. Just because you spend it doesn't mean you have it it just might mean you are just financially irresponsible and not taking care of your other business.
Lala you said a man that short and confident of himself. Did you mean sure and confident? And you said he has to be taller than you but never said how tall are you?
Whenever someone says "serial entrepreneur" but all the businesses are running at one time and arent an integrated vertical, they arent good at running a business
Isabell allowed the guy who doesn't make six figures to hit for free, but now to be in a serious relationship requires the man to make over $100k. Make it make sense.
Isbell needed to be a little more honest about her picture. I've gone to a few work parties and if they are kisses like that then something popped off. But if the women does not make 100k and BD did not make it or the last random they let hit didn't make 100k but now your standards are that is an requirement. I understand that you don't want someone who is unemployed or struggling but be realistic they want a sponsor. Ijs
@KendraGMedia Don't fall for that senseless reasoning Kendra thats NOT a great point. Thats like trying a cheap restaurant getting food poisoning and vowing to never go there again. But people telling you nope you let the cheap restaurant poisom you so you can only go to cheap restaurants for the rest of your life.. Men only use this logic to keep the standard low so they can meet it....stay woke
I dont see why people get so upset by these delusional, out of touchz weirdos. People like Oronde and the girl asking for $500 a month likely wont find the person they're asking for anyway. Most women thought he was creepy and shallow, and the men thought home girl was not attractive enough for her requirements. No natter how mad you get, their life will humble them to where they'll get more realistic or die alone. Just laugh, pray for them and keep it pushing with your dating life.
Sooo I see y’all are tripping over home girl wanting a man to have $500 a month to date her. So maybe I am out of touch but that wasn’t a lot of money to me. Lol. So maybe the answer is this. If you want to date a woman bare minimum have enough a month to at least take her to Applebees and a movie. Is that more acceptable? The bottom line is, if you want a woman you should have a budget to date her. If not get your money up.
Kendra you look fabulous in that fuchsia pink ❤ your show 😘
I wouldn’t put a number on it but a man definitely should be in a position to date if he’s courting a women, period ❤
My love Kendra I have the money and the wealth to make you a queen 🫅 but you’re not agreeing to my proposal. I don’t know what to do now.
i think its more the entitlement. cant say a man shouldn't lead with him money but then its a smart move to choose a woman who wouldn't date him if he can't give her $500 a month. if a man came on and said if a woman wants to date him, she has to cook 3 full meals a day 7 days a week, women would be screaming where's the ring etc.
Ms.Kendra thank you so much I thought I was the only one. $500 is nothing and MY GENERATION OF MEN are very stingy with their money nowadays SO THIS IS BASICALLY YOU SHOWING A WOMAN YOU’RE SERIOUS. A lot of these men want the woman that’s not in their budget. Date in your budget its that simple.
Kendra, no need to say Im not reliable in your intro. Just say Im not liable for anyone you meet. Reliable means trustworthy. Liable means responsible by law.
That always annoyed me but she makes grammatical errors often 🥲
We’ll get that when we get proper usage of “were” and “was”. LOL. :)
Thank you! That's what I said!
I have BEEN saying this. To her defense, Kendras grammar isn't great; but i still tune in. 🤣🤣
@@maryakpadock34e.g., “chase”, and “pursue” are verbs…not adjectives. I still love me some KG though! 😂
Maia you seem like an adorable young woman. You’re in college which is the best time to find someone around your age and on the same path as you. Instead of coming onto Kendra show go hang out around the law school, engineer school, science lab, or the gym to strike up conversations with young men you find interesting. Good luck with grad school.
Excellent comment. I thought I was going to have to preach this myself. So glad I can turn this messaging over to you. Have fun… 😂
This 🎯💯
As a young woman I never thought about what kind of qualifications my man had to have outside of character.
We are going 8 years strong, married for 7.
I thank God for my man. He is one of the sweetest human beings I know.
We truly enjoy spending life together.
Happy for you! What a blessing!❤
Me too! I'm old and married. I can't with the money and dating stuff. I never expected a man to buy my clothes, get my hair and nails done to go on a date. I don't expect my husband to do it, lol. Congratulations on going strong with your vows! Have many, many more blessed years together.
Same. Married 25 years. ❤
I’m glad Kendra is speaking up more and offering her wisdom and insight, it’s truly needed.
Lolol lala talking about narcissists is hilarious when her 3 flaws are "I'm too awesome, and i will never change for anyone"
Can’t make this shyt up RIP Godfather 🙏🏾
Facts she sure sounding like one
The Silliness in these women 😢
Yes proclaiming “I’ll never change” is the most ignorant statement
LaLa should definitely be avoided by any marriage minded man
People’s “flaws” are always compliments to themselves.
Ex: I give too much, I think too little of my self, I’m too loyal…
Like geez.
They are full of it
You are literally clueless and need to work on your projection. Someone who gives too much, can mean they neglect themselves, lack boundaries, and put others needs before their own. How about you expand your mindset to understand, first before trying to take a dig at another person. I can tell you don’t work on yourself and are very low vibrational!
Laalaa is a scammer lol self employed people still have to file taxes, 1099 or whatever. Its ok to have a regular job i prefer that than these so called "entrepreneurs" 🙄
I feel u. I also have my guard up when someone refer to themselves as a serial entrepreneur
Me and a girl went to Atlanta Hawks basketball game on date night and I spent over 300 hundred dollars. That Included tickets, food and train fair. That was just 1 date. Which means less than 200 would be left for rest of the month. Once we reach that amount, she would need to pay for any other dates or activities throughout the month. If you go get couples massages that 150 dollars. Just two dates alone will eat up 500 hundred dollars and women get bored fast and always want to do stuff.
Exactly!! The flaws question should be what flaws you have impact/have impacted your relationship.
Whats the point of asking this question?
The pink is so cute on you Kendra 💕
I loved the pink tonight Kendra 💕
These guests are very creative at disguising two things; being unemployed and begging 😂😂. Shorty been in the streets for a decade and the lucky man who gets to settle down with her after all her "fun" has to pay at least 500 a month in addition to everything else she's expecting him to pay for since she has 10 jobs and is still broke. All that, she will not fit into your box and you have to get on her program. make it make sense.
forget clown that woman the whole circus lmao
Low key tricking hustle. Never been in a relationship but knows how to treat a man.
Low key tricking hustle. Never been in a relationship but knows how to treat a man.
LaLa is heavily indebted and needs a man to rescue her. The problem is that she isn’t smart enough to present a package that will attract and keep that man. She’s still operating with a young/hot body mindset when that isn’t her anymore.
Right. I feel like if she showed up as a dime then she would've gotten more men lined up. That Kendra Kam was trash requesting a monthly allowance as a gf
I don’t understand why people complain about men wanting women that aren’t overweight. Yes “you can get a man at any size” because many men will sleep with anything but that doesn’t mean you should be triggered when a man says he won’t sleep with, date or marry anything. If you’re really that angry go to the gym and work it off.
Because even though people will claim not to have a problem. The truth is many people do have a problem when a man has a specific preference.
Agree
Only people who usually have that problem are the ones who don’t fit the “preference”. Most people don’t like rejection.
Yes, only broke men are ok with fat ladies 😜
A few days ago we had a dude saying he looking for a lady with a FUPA!
He looked broke as hell 🤣🤣
For all the entrepreneurs tell me what your business brings home a year on average. If you don't know that you're terrible at business. Because having a business is not a flex when you can make more money and not struggle by having a job.
Laaa Laaa, just like that single 52 year old lady in Miami who was creative about her salary demands, you will also be 52 going on the 2041 version of the Kendra G dating show still single and still looking for a man. When you opened your mouth, attraction went out the window.
LaLa simply isn’t that bright. Maia is in the DMV area where smart, pretty, 20 somethings fly in and set up shot by the thousands every single August/September. The really smart ones lock down a provider by the time they’re 25 and head off to the burbs. Women like LaLa end up at hookah lounges with their girlfriends well into their 30s.
Maia seems to sweet and lovely. I can see her with a guy that has a close family and they all hang out together.
Sound like me
@@Thatbulgo and say hi!!
Kendra has her own KBI, Kendra Bureau of investigation. 😳🤣🙏🏽🌎🇪🇨🎭
I’m glad Kendra talked about being assertive with Oronde. Being with someone who isn’t good with clarity is frustrating when it comes to building a relationship. Let your No be no and your yes be yes.
She's 35 asking for an allowance like a child. Kendra keeps acting like what she's asking for are dates it's not she's asking for 500 and dates
I don't think Kendra heard that part of what the young lady said. She honestly said that's what I want. So whether or not she is in a committed relationship she wants that money.
Maia find your man AT college, or in the college community. You will be more like-minded. Your 20s are for you! So focus on yourself, but also be open and have fun! Best wishes for you🎉
Maia here! It’s hard since I commute and have been to a few college because of the pandemic 😭 thank you for the advice
@maialafrance3396 are you able to join or start a social group or use the gym on campus? Like minded young men are definitely walking to and from class
I will try to be more active on the gym on campus and join groups :) I will keep y'all updated lol and same when I get accepted into grad school. I am focusing on myself this year
@@blackfuery7633
I have no problem with the $500 a month but to be getting your cheeks clapped for 13 years with no relationships. 35 & single since 22, and to give those horrible "flaws" while referring to yourself as a "certain caliber o g woman" is crazy
Maia Lafrance girl, love you. Keep up with your career path focus. No babies please. You are on the right path.Praying for you❤️❤️❤️
lmao
I like the revised flaws question. Good suggestion from the chat!
That revised flaws question “staggered La la 🤣🤦🏾♂️
The modern dating landscape is abysmal.
Is there a correlation between how much a man earns, his height and relationship success?
How are people continually expecting things of potential partners yet not embodying the expectations themselves?
What man wants to date a woman that explicitly requests an allowance of $500 a month? Maybe a sugar daddy but that’s not an intentional relationship, that’s a transactional relationship.
How is everyone an entrepreneur? Is having a regular stable job an anomaly these days?
I wonder if the dating landscape is really this bad or this a highly selected sample based upon Kendra’s following?
The ratio of truly good people to bad is like 1:1000. I don’t think that’s an exaggeration either.
Wild.
It seems to be a common theme on all of the dating shows/podcasts that I've seen. I think women are just more comfortable online to say how they really feel.
No woman's perfect but good so biblically we all bad.
I think the correlation between money, looks, and height is that more women are realizing they dont get alot of satisfaction out of relationships, so they want other factors to help keep them attracted to a guy once the honeymoon phase over.
Those few moments of intercourse cost and risk women so much but they rarely climax or get anything much out of it that makes it worth the risk, and its usually something they regret doing most of the time and afterwhile it becomes just another chore that benefits the man not her.
Which leads to why women feel entitled to expect from men things they don't embody themselves. To them opening up and trusting their life and womb to a man when divorces, single moms, and baby mommas are at an all time high more than compensates for what she's requiring up front that she may lack herself. To her, she's taking the most risk and reaping the least benefit out of the deal.
If men didnt expect secx before marriage from these women I doubt women would have such tall financial expectations from men up front. So in that regard it is transactional in that men want something for free, and women are coming or have come to a point of collectively attempting to require money in lieu of marriage.
The quote "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"...means why marry her if she's screwing you for free. To that, woman are attempting to charge for the milk now but not with marriage necessarily since they see divorce rates are high and nearly always initiated by women.
Men get a lot of benefits on top of secxual stuff... they get a maid, cook, mother, nurse, financial manager, submission, ego stroking etc.,
There's coming a time and has come already where women no longer see men as something to be desired, but avoided; and vice versa for men I suppose, as the internet is exposing the mindsets and perspectives of both genders and revealing that they're really not all that compatible.
Re: Maia : The absolute best thing any woman can do to materially increase her chances of a successful life is to find and marry a man of substance with demonstrated husband and father characteristics and do so in her early twenties. Nothing else provides the same “return on investment”….nothing.
Lala says she doesn't know how to be in a relationship...but knows she wants $500 a month 😂😂😂😂 FOH
Someone has convinced these women that they are perfect. Therefore, they honestly believe they all deserve and can have it all. So unrealistic.
You sound so bitter ...
@@afro_buddha4977You prolley delusional.
Maia was so adorable!
Serial entrepreneur = NO JOB😂
Its the new would along side with narcissist. Smdh Lala said it so much, take a shot each time she said it and would be drunk
Married man here in the top 10% of men, if my wife required me to provide her with $500 per month while “dating” we wouldn’t have made it. Now she gets more than this just for her spa services alone. Also, we’ve been married for 15 years so I’m not sure of what people are doing now. Good luck to everyone, keep your standards and expectations, but I wanted to share my perspective.
LaLa said you got to have 500,000 just for her 😂😂😂😂😂im on the ground laughing 😂😂😂😂😂 my stomach hurt from laughing 😂😂😂 and she never been in a relationship since she been adult maybe it's the 500,000 dollars request 😂😂😂 but hey that's her preference nothing wrong with her having her preference but.. but good luck on that 😂 and Kendra agree with her but I understand you have to have money to date but 500,000 just for her it's only 2 percent of men who can do that and that's why she can't find a man
I think “bubble girl” should just continue to live in her bubble alone. Don’t bring stress to anyone else.
Maia is near perfect. She’s adorable, sweet, smart, funny, caring, and sacrifices her precious time in service of the less fortunate. She’s gonna be a wonderful wife! Good luck, Maia!!
Requesting six figures with a chest tattoo and a 40k a year body. 🚩
Plus a baby momma too, I guess the Ex-husband who did marry her, found out.
Please explain why someone with tats doesn't deserve a high earning man? What about character or morals? Does your sentiment also apply to men?
@@Ambitiousgirl22 in case you haven't heard men and women are different genders and are held to different standards. It's not the tattoo itself but the placement of the tattoo coupled with the width of her back that makes her request unreasonable.
1:02:06 LaLa: This is why you need to listen intently to how people answer your questions. For some reason Lala tried to make it seem as if she hadn’t had sex in a long time when she said it was last Fall. Last fall was less than two months ago. It’s no big deal, but her desire to mask that is a red flag…..to go with all the others she exhibited.
I find it alittle off when people call in for a relationship update and the other person is not there with you or willing to hop on a 2-way.
Someone in the chat section said "I spent all my money on you Diamond" from the players club lmfao lol
Isebell, dump her husband because he liked to save money and let it grow. Its called delayed gratification which turns people into millionaires. Instant gratification will keep you poor. Her character has holes in it. Her new man need 100k but pookie can hit with no job. You do not deserve a good man, but a everyboby man.
They were not compatible. People need to find a balance between now and the future. The future is not guaranteed.
I said the same on another comment.
All 4% of the black women who make 100k call in! SMH
@@leramfreeman2950 😆😆😆 and they having seggs on the first night. Smh
I’m sorry I just didn’t like the way laaa laaa spoke about regular 9-5 jobs when it came to men .. idk she came off a bit cocky.. as a married woman, me n my husband work in healthcare and financial industry and it’s 9-5 jobs but hubby ur environment is your reality and clearly it’s not working!. Yes I know you want what u want, but don’t down other ppl to do so smh🤦🏽♀️
6:05 To the 22yr old… don’t judge people for not having it all figured out. Someone can be successful without knowing exactly what they want to do in life. Sincerely a 27yr old.
Maia here :) agreed. Thank you 😇 I was nervous lol
A lot of men spend $500 or more a month on dates and etc but wanting it in the form of an “allowance” is something I’d expect to hear from a 25 year old IG model.
nah, listen to some old heads who are married. Allowance has been a thing. Esp for stay at home wives too.
@@bopbop11That's a family budget line item for your wife that is putting in work, but has no income. Direct payment as an allowance for someone you're dating is modern ish.
@@RemIsNice I mean, I'm sure she and he can work out the terms that work for them, but $500 is not far fetched and doesn't automatically indicate manipulative tactics.
@@bopbop11 I'm sure they can too. I'm just saying that's more of a new age type of discussion for dating. Unless you are talking about being a sugar baby.
@bopbop11 Shit, I wished my husband gave me an allowance. 😅😅
She talking about she doesn't want to see your ex on your snap but you posing with a whole dude on your IG. Check your life before coming this show. People have no self-awareness. They can't even name 3 real flaws. Perfectionism, being late, giving to much, etc. IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP FLAW. A real RELATIONSHIP FLAW is being obese/overweight, in debt, multiple kids, multiple baby mommas/daddies, alcoholic, drug addict, cut off game strong, bad attitude, inconsistent, sleeping around, etc.
Kendra way off the mark on some of stuff she said about man perspective tonight... must of been "execute order 66 tonight"
Maia is so sweet and smart. Please focus on your education and don't worry about "finding a man" right now. Enjoy life! Be safe out there!
Maia needs relationship experience. If not she's going to be 30yrs old work now relationship skills, expecting someone to marry her.
@@bigdunks4eva fam you're feeding the trolls. Comments like these are to imply men as insignificant. Any other time it's "she said what she said" except when it involves wanting a man.
Bad advice. Far too many black Americans feel a husband and an education are mutually exclusive. My daughter is a junior in college and is checking all boxes. Her boyfriend’s parents married right out if college and so did her mother and I. She knew the expectation was for her to do the same. She is also rocking a 3.8 GPA and will graduate with a double major….and all the bells and whistles.
Yeah there's no need to rush. Social media has young women thinking they must be in Relationships.
@@LoveAfterPookie What about her will make her more attractive to a man of substance with more time and relationship baggage?
😅😅😅 "it's relative to the weight gain" Oronde aint playing around.
Men, ladies should happily fit in your box and lifestyle. Women are the help mate, men are the protectors, providers, and guidance.
Men if y'all stop paying for women's bills they will stop asking. The only reason they bold enough to ask is because somewhere some dude is paying her bills with no expectations of payback.
They are seeing/hearing it on Instagram, not real life.😂
I may be mistaken, but I believe the $500/mo is for her personal use (unless I missed something) on top of the cost of dating. Sounds like payment for membership or something similar to me. Could be worse though she’s not asking to be totally kept and she’s being up front. All she needs to do is shuffle 2 or 3 “ members “ and pay her car payment and cell phone bill. 😂. I enjoy the show and am always amazed. Peace.
You are so right Kendra… marriage is freedom not bondage and if anyone speaks ill of it then they simply married the wrong person. My husband and I adore each other. He is obsessed with me after all this time. And the feeling is mutual. You have kinks u work them out .period! I hate when ppl speak bad of marriage. When it’s right it’s amazing.
The pink was pretty against your complexion ❤
TH-cam moved them. When you click on the video to watch, instead of clicking on "comments" you have to swipe the word "comments" to the left and it'll switch to live chat. At least that's how it is on my phone.
Some interviews I just had to fast forward
Thanks for having me 🙏🏾
You did a great job!
Your flaw about being condescending was so honest.
Where'd you get your specs 🤓?
You have great skin
@@LadyVeee7878thank u
$500 sista shudda said spend that on dates versus “give to me” lol
👀👀👀 you cute 😂
The Kendra Kousins Chat is RUTHLESS lmaooo 😂🤣😅…it’s like a roasting competition 🤷🏾♂️🙌🏾👍🏾
53:29 $500 per month…it’s not that it’s a lot of money, it’s how she said it. It’s the fact that we know that she doesn’t earn a lot of money and it comes across as bottom barrel gold digging. Any man of substance knows that a quality woman is expensive. Not because she demands it, but because he wants to give her the world. That woman that attracts and can keep that man of substance, she doesn’t want him to break his back for her, but she will give him the world for the desire to provide for her. Make sense?
Yeah kendra really missed the mark on that... men know dating cost thats fine but demanding how i give the money is different... imagine a man demanding the manner in which sex should happen... be a complete turn off
How in the world can a woman tell a man how much you should spend on her. You have just taken the fun out of it.
@@Chefcook4it Indeed.
Loving these two hour shows 🔥🔥🔥
Yes 🙌🏽 sis !!
Great smile you have !
I'm BBW and I don't get mad at all when men don't like BBW. I rather know up front. I'm not your cup of tea cool. Everyone have preferences. I'm working on losing weight but still not trying to be skinny. I'll just keep dating men that love BBW and it's plenty out here 😉
Whales coming after Oronde😅😅😅🐳🐳🐳🐳🐋🐋🐋 he eliminated 95% of the women on this show. I'm disappointed he added size 10 😅. My wife stays in the gym, has been a 4 to 6 all her life. So many excuses "what if she gets the gout?" "What if she gets Dunlaps? " 😅😅😅
I agree 💯 with you completely 👍 I am also disappointed that he went up to a size 10. 80% of black women are overweight and obese 😢
Congratulations Rustic! May God continue to bless U even more
Name 5 successful people that have big back wives. Quickly please.
😂😂😂 none
People (mostly women) don't want to accept that most successful high earning men don't settle for overweight out of shape women. They have options. Period.
Kendra, you are giving me Aretha Franklin vibes!!!! Lol
Ameer is telling the truth...here in NYC when the weather is good people are outside 24/7. When it's cold....not!🥶
If a woman I was dating in mid relationship said “since everything is going well and we like each other and it can be a future between us I require you to give me $500 a month 🥰”. I would smile in her face , say ok while simultaneously be blocking her all on platforms ✌🏾. It’s the audacity of these women smh… relationships should be genuine not transactional shes really selling herself short. Us men will give a woman our last without question when he know the value of her.
I think the guy she is looking for would naturally be inclined to spend on her without her having to ask. I'm guessing if it doesn't get to that point she'd move on. All assumptions though.
@@chantelvenessa if the guy is willing to give it to her without her asking then why get on a public dating platform and make that demand? if she's as great as she said she is, then it would come organically.
@@meloran2571yea you're right
@@chantelvenessa she want a man who's confident. if she was confident in what she bring to a relationship, she wouldnt get on here and say that. but she's hoping she catch a simp who'll come in knowing he gotta pay her 500 a month 😂
Well she did say she doesn’t know how to be in a relationship, so she doesn’t know her value in a partnership or how to be selfless & genuine, only transactional
Maia has a good head on her shoulder's. That's right represent "Maryland". Best wishes to you young lady.
You know she’s down the street from you in Accokeek or Waldorf. 😂😂😂😂
Allowance is for a wife.not a girlfriend
Kendra has such a unique laugh so cute
I would put an extra $500 a month into a Roth IRA or brokerage account. Those are investments that make sense.
I would hope a potential partner is doing the same.
Great outfit Kendra G 💯💯💯
A 35 year old woman who's never had a relationship, and has been afraid of commitment, expects you to give her $500/month.
How the hell does that sound like a good deal as a man? These women don't even respect the type of men that they desire.
Where did you hear “give” her 500/month? She said 500/month DATES! Thats not a lot sir
LaLa simply isn’t that bright.
@@beedubbya2278 Women expect men to spend money on them. Men expect to spend more money on a woman than she is going to spend on him. A stupid woman comes on the internet and announces a number she wants a man to spend on her monthly. I’m hoping you’re a smart woman, so _your unnatural allegiance to dumb women is unlike you_ .
@@beedubbya2278 one of the superchats said "that sounds like an allowance." The woman said "yes, it is."
Maia was cute! Seems like she has a good head on her shoulders. I hope she meets someone who’s gonna treat her well❤
Is Isabell being serious??? Why did Kendra need to tell you at your big age that it’s not smart to have a random coworker kissing you on your IG?
My theory is that he has a wife or girlfriend and she had sex with him but is not trying to mess up his relationship. She posted him so that other women could see that she has the ability to bed men like him. It’s really pathetic, but each time she goes to her page, she gets a mental boost from seeing him that close to her. It’s a vision board.
@@RoccofanChile go to bed! Lol. How the hell you draw that long conclusion?! She literally explained why she did it.😂😂😂 and you still wrote a paragraph lol
@@KendraGMedia I love the show, Kendra. Set a minimum amount for Superchats that you will read, I’d recommend $20. Your time is worth way more than $5. It’s not that you have to announce it, but people will get the message over time. Also, tell people throughout the show to subscribe to your TH-cam CHANNEL. If you don’t care enough to distinguish between the channel and a “page”, others won’t care either. Yes, it does make a difference. You should easily be up to 500K subs by now. I wish you a prosperous 2024.
@@Roccofan thank you for the suggestions! I appreciate your support!
I can afford to date no problem...I just don't expect anything from anyone except for them to be true to themselves to different degrees depending on the situation. I don't approach women at all..cause I don't care...and when I do date..it's just for the moment...I'm not looking for anything else at all. It's just not worth it.
1:24:30 I prefer “pursue”, not chase. No one should have to “chase” anyone.
Oronde looks like he dresses up at night, his brows scream heels
Maia is a sweet and pretty girl! She does not need to be with a anyone’s baby daddy.
Kendra will ask the same exact question back to back three times in a row in her pass life she was a blond 😂😂😂
Every single person is a representation of others that look like them. The belief that you only represent yourself is why people are so embarrassing. Because they think they only embarrassing themselves.
One love to the Kendra fans watching at 7am, the morning after , on the treadmill. Always avoid the perpetually sad and “unlucky”.
Dating goes both ways. If you broke don't date. Nobody wants a liability or a bill. Women can pay for dates too. Nobody trying to be broke always feeding you, you're not a child. Most people 30+ y'all should be thinking more about your retirement than dating. 63% of Americans couldn't come up with a $500 emergency. So most likely most people don't have $500 for pleasure. Just because you spend it doesn't mean you have it it just might mean you are just financially irresponsible and not taking care of your other business.
but men don’t care about woman’s finance is the narrative online. 😅
@@julistar90 keyword: online
Lala you said a man that short and confident of himself. Did you mean sure and confident? And you said he has to be taller than you but never said how tall are you?
Whenever someone says "serial entrepreneur" but all the businesses are running at one time and arent an integrated vertical, they arent good at running a business
I love her and her energy 🙏🏽❤️
The bubble is in lalas head😂😂😂...I'll grab a bag with one popcorn ...bout how long I'd be interested.
Isabell allowed the guy who doesn't make six figures to hit for free, but now to be in a serious relationship requires the man to make over $100k. Make it make sense.
Just like we guys let the big girl hit but want someone who is fit to walk around with. 🤷🏾♂️
@@chronometawhy great point! I will share that ❤
Also to be fair, Applebees and movies was on the list of places modern women don’t want to go to on a first date 😂 but I understand your point Ms KG.
Isbell needed to be a little more honest about her picture. I've gone to a few work parties and if they are kisses like that then something popped off. But if the women does not make 100k and BD did not make it or the last random they let hit didn't make 100k but now your standards are that is an requirement. I understand that you don't want someone who is unemployed or struggling but be realistic they want a sponsor. Ijs
@KendraGMedia Don't fall for that senseless reasoning Kendra thats NOT a great point.
Thats like trying a cheap restaurant getting food poisoning and vowing to never go there again. But people telling you nope you let the cheap restaurant poisom you so you can only go to cheap restaurants for the rest of your life..
Men only use this logic to keep the standard low so they can meet it....stay woke
So a man gotta pay a woman to date dem now wtf
I dont see why people get so upset by these delusional, out of touchz weirdos. People like Oronde and the girl asking for $500 a month likely wont find the person they're asking for anyway.
Most women thought he was creepy and shallow, and the men thought home girl was not attractive enough for her requirements. No natter how mad you get, their life will humble them to where they'll get more realistic or die alone. Just laugh, pray for them and keep it pushing with your dating life.
A millionaire wouldn't even give her $500 a month
Orondes, requirements are not delusional. Stop being sensitive and lose the weight if you are triggered.
40:26 Men are VISUAL first bottom line. I’m tired of hearing this from women.
Laaa Laaa, you are a pretty young lady. Beautiful smile!
I’ve been wanting to know this for a while. How come I can’t see the live comments anymore? Anyone else having that issue?
@laaa_laaa_ fellas keep going. We wasn't important when she was young.🤔🤔🤔🤔
Maia will be a wife someday.
Liked Amir. Nice young man. and that's my son's name.
Teneshia need to heal, get to know & love on herself.
I like Orande! All the best to him in his pursuit
He seems like a good guy, but he has a dry personality. I’m curious why he hasn’t married yet.
Looking real good Kendra G 😎👍🏽🔥👑🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I’d rather get another car for $500 a month😂
This is wild. A 35 year old wants money as investment into her.
You have to be 25 .😂
Why would i give money to a geriatric ?
Women are wild.
35 is geriatric to you?
@myias3592
Google GERIATRIC PREGNANCY.
Tell me what comes up according to Doctors. NOT ME.😮💨
I am loving all the paid comments and questions!! ❤