when i was getting bullied I just found an outlet. my outlet was skateboarding, and i made a whole new circle of friends. and the thing about skating is that it helps you learn how to stand your ground no matter what the circumstances. I gave my bullies a VERY strong message that if they continue with their crap there will be repercussions. and it worked!
I've been picked on all my life. My right side is paralyzed . The used to trip me on the bus , knock my school books out of my hands . When they saw me they used to stick their arm out ( like it was in a muscle spasm ) . I know all about bullying . I took me until I was in my 40's until I finally didn't care anymore. I have only had one person in my life that actually looked at me , when I met her. Instead of my hand and foot. I also had a gym teacher that used to think I was faking it to get out of gym class. I NEVER want to see those people again in my life I was lucky that my parents raised me to figure out how to do things on my own . I always remember both of them telling me ......... It's okay if you don't do it like everyone else does , as long as you get the job done. To this day I have no problem getting help if I need it , because I ALWAYS try my hardest , before I ever ask.
Continued~~ Come on people there is enough hate in the World we don't need bullies. To many people take their own lives to get away from all the bulling.. So sad!
i love listening to clay talk. he is so intelligent and expresses himself so well. i feel bad that he had such a hard time growing up and i wish people would stop picking on him now. cathie fb ClayNation group
I am glad that they are talking about this but I wish they would also talk about adult bullying, too. And I think we need to start talking more about solutions.
It is so sad that there is so much bulling going on in the World today. It just makes me sick to my stomach.. It's just a shame. That girl was beautiful. And Mark was a cutie. Makes me crazy. Clay was bullied for years and look at him now. I just wish everyone could just love each other. Treat people the way you want to be treated or how you want people to treat your own family. I don't think bullies would stand by and let their sister or brothers get bullied.
I was a strong kid, not weak... football star... popular... I was also a victim of bullying... older kids, wanted to put me in my place... made me wanna stick up for the little guy. It's not only nerds, and fat kids that get bullied... the kids you don't expect get bullied too... probably what leads to them being bullies... they just didn't learn how I did.
I go to a prestigious private school, and unlike what Clay Aiken said, many of the bullies picked on people because the certain victim has no talent at all. i was one of the victims
Emily Wilson but it’s our job as parents to put the child straight. We need to teach them that it’s wrong , and impose consequences for our child if they keep on bullying . Bullies ruin people’s lives sometimes forever . That’s the parents responsibility, no matter what their friend do or how their friends parents react to their child being a bully.
i just did what i like humor art ect and i won they just left when they found people like me all around me always be yourself because you can make friends that enjoy the same things :)
I was a victim as well was my husband. it doesn't stop. today in 2018 our daughter is going threw this. she is only in the first grade. this is bad,i can't imagine what it will be like for her in highschool. probably homeschool when get in highschool. its better then them being a victim and getting hurt. why can't parents start teaching kids how to act!!
As the person who has the delete button, please be advised that I will delete any type of slurs against Clay. You are free to disagree with him, Dr. Phil, Jay, the kids on the show as long as you remain respectful. I do not tolerate any type of hate speech or any type of stereotyping (all of which is a form of bullying, my, how ironic). Guess that makes me kind of a bully too - the difference being I just delete and usually very quietly (but sometimes people just get on my last good nerve)
Well if you didnt have friends and didn't have parents that love you what then? That's main reason being bullied is self esteem issues because of lack of love
victimization can apply to both ends of the spectrum here, and your right it does nothing to justifiy what someone does to another. Forgiveness is all someone needs to end theses things, be the being that alters all perception
i was bullied a lot few years back, i didn't really solve it in a good way, cause i punched someone so hard he broke his nose, but i never got bothered again.. so i guess in a bad but effective way it helped me!
I also blame Clays parents for not teaching him how to be strong... I love Clay too, arguably best male voculasit of all time in my opinion... something made him strong, because it showed on Idol... I just also blame his parents for letting him be bullied.
i was a victim of bullying ... other peoiple would see it and say nothing ... even teacher saw it and didnt say shit fuck that ... i must say i thought of hundreds of ways to getting back at them ... believe me when youre bullied you have allot of time to think theres nothing else you can do ... i just wanted to freak out and do something stupid but i didnt ... it made me who i am today it changed me in a way that il never get over it and its not cool ... :(
Please STOP bullying kids. If you're not being bullied, then help someone who is being bullied. If you aren't a part of the solution then you are part of the problem.
I am. I remember he said something about being on a show and when I watched this I thought "HOLY CRAP!!" His name is Mark W. He also mentioned something about it too on our school yearbook but remained anonymous. He said Dr. Phil didnt really help him and just kept telling him how to look on camera :/ Just sucks that he got bullied. He wasnt at my middle school so I wouldnt have known
@scumgod13 there's plenty of places that people can post nasty comments on the internet. However, I've noticed that more and more sites have put comments on moderation - they delete anything that is overly inflammatory. I don't have posts on moderation (although I could) but if people are going to post extremely bigoted, off topic and inappropriate comments - I will moderate. They have a right to an opinion, and I have the right to delete them.
i appreciate that you monitor the aggressive, off color comments that people feel they need to make. i generally find you tube comments to be a battlefield of angry people getting their rocks off by telling people off. your like the dr. phil of youtube bullying haha! :)
As a victim of bullying, I bruttally took the lives of the people who did it, Im now living in a maximum security prison In Illinois for 3 consecutive Life sentences, You may ask why Im typing this to you and You'll hafe to forgive me If I do not finish this statement as I have Men yelling at me with Sniper rifles and M16's to drop the computer I stole during the hour we are aloud outside so I don't have alot of time I am going to
I hate to say it but the bullies are the real victims. Most bullies are people live tough lives, growing up with mean parents and poor neighboorhoods, they would never dream of the success this kid will have.
@scumgod13 Oh, and Freedom of Speech was put into place so that people had the right to disagree with the Government - freedom to voice a dissenting opinion. I am a firm believer in the First Amendment - as it was originally written, not what it's morphed into.
I was briefly bullied, and my English teacher in Junior High stank, because he allowed it, and thought it is funny. He is not a Christian, and will pay for that one day.
violentphotography What an incredibly ignorant comment. Lots of confident kids can get bullied, which can then turn them into insecure kids. You’re an idiot.
I was briefly bullied, and my English teacher in Junior High stank, because he allowed it, and thought it is funny. He is not a Christian, and will pay for that one day.
I was briefly bullied, and my English teacher in Junior High stank, because he allowed it, and thought it is funny. He is not a Christian, and will pay for that one day.
I was briefly bullied, and my English teacher in Junior High stank, because he allowed it, and thought it is funny. He is not a Christian, and will pay for that one day.
when i was getting bullied I just found an outlet. my outlet was skateboarding, and i made a whole new circle of friends. and the thing about skating is that it helps you learn how to stand your ground no matter what the circumstances. I gave my bullies a VERY strong message that if they continue with their crap there will be repercussions. and it worked!
Clay is amazing!
clay aiken was spot on!
I love how the girl glows looking at Clay
I've been picked on all my life. My right side is paralyzed . The used to trip me on the bus , knock my school books out of my hands . When they saw me they used to stick their arm out ( like it was in a muscle spasm ) . I know all about bullying . I took me until I was in my 40's until I finally didn't care anymore. I have only had one person in my life that actually looked at me , when I met her. Instead of my hand and foot. I also had a gym teacher that used to think I was faking it to get out of gym class. I NEVER want to see those people again in my life
I was lucky that my parents raised me to figure out how to do things on my own . I always remember both of them telling me ......... It's okay if you don't do it like everyone else does , as long as you get the job done. To this day I have no problem getting help if I need it , because I ALWAYS try my hardest , before I ever ask.
Dr Phi and Clay Aiken, Great lads!!
Continued~~ Come on people there is enough hate in the World we don't need bullies. To many people take their own lives to get away from all the bulling.. So sad!
i love listening to clay talk. he is so intelligent and expresses himself so well. i feel bad that he had such a hard time growing up and i wish people would stop picking on him now.
cathie
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I am glad that they are talking about this but I wish they would also talk about adult bullying, too. And I think we need to start talking more about solutions.
It is so sad that there is so much bulling going on in the World today. It just makes me sick to my stomach.. It's just a shame. That girl was beautiful. And Mark was a cutie. Makes me crazy. Clay was bullied for years and look at him now. I just wish everyone could just love each other. Treat people the way you want to be treated or how you want people to treat your own family. I don't think bullies would stand by and let their sister or brothers get bullied.
As a victim of bullying, I didn't care and went on with my life.
I was a strong kid, not weak... football star... popular... I was also a victim of bullying... older kids, wanted to put me in my place... made me wanna stick up for the little guy. It's not only nerds, and fat kids that get bullied... the kids you don't expect get bullied too... probably what leads to them being bullies... they just didn't learn how I did.
as a victim of bullying, i fought back and won my respect
I go to a prestigious private school, and unlike what Clay Aiken said, many of the bullies picked on people because the certain victim has no talent at all. i was one of the victims
Sorry to hear about that man. Really.
I don't think you can always blame the parents, they're not the kids only influence..
Emily Wilson but it’s our job as parents to put the child straight. We need to teach them that it’s wrong , and impose consequences for our child if they keep on bullying . Bullies ruin people’s lives sometimes forever . That’s the parents responsibility, no matter what their friend do or how their friends parents react to their child being a bully.
i just did what i like humor art ect and i won they just left when they found people like me all around me always be yourself because you can make friends that enjoy the same things :)
I was a victim as well was my husband. it doesn't stop. today in 2018 our daughter is going threw this. she is only in the first grade. this is bad,i can't imagine what it will be like for her in highschool. probably homeschool when get in highschool. its better then them being a victim and getting hurt. why can't parents start teaching kids how to act!!
look at that power ranger dude. everyone thought he was a weirdo. now hes aboslutely INSANELY ripped, is fully tattooed and looks like he kicks ass
thanks mate
As the person who has the delete button, please be advised that I will delete any type of slurs against Clay. You are free to disagree with him, Dr. Phil, Jay, the kids on the show as long as you remain respectful. I do not tolerate any type of hate speech or any type of stereotyping (all of which is a form of bullying, my, how ironic). Guess that makes me kind of a bully too - the difference being I just delete and usually very quietly (but sometimes people just get on my last good nerve)
I was bullied until the day I bought a .380 to the bully's hangout. I'm still here, he's not.
Well if you didnt have friends and didn't have parents that love you what then? That's main reason being bullied is self esteem issues because of lack of love
Dr. Phil - The biggest betrayal to manhood the world has ever seen.
victimization can apply to both ends of the spectrum here, and your right it does nothing to justifiy what someone does to another. Forgiveness is all someone needs to end theses things, be the being that alters all perception
people are evil it is in their nature to be cruel and pcik out the weakest
i was bullied a lot few years back, i didn't really solve it in a good way, cause i punched someone so hard he broke his nose, but i never got bothered again.. so i guess in a bad but effective way it helped me!
Blame parents. They are the cause of other kids becoming bullies. That is how they raised their kids.
I also blame Clays parents for not teaching him how to be strong... I love Clay too, arguably best male voculasit of all time in my opinion... something made him strong, because it showed on Idol... I just also blame his parents for letting him be bullied.
i was a victim of bullying ... other peoiple would see it and say nothing ... even teacher saw it and didnt say shit fuck that ... i must say i thought of hundreds of ways to getting back at them ... believe me when youre bullied you have allot of time to think theres nothing else you can do ... i just wanted to freak out and do something stupid but i didnt ... it made me who i am today it changed me in a way that il never get over it and its not cool ... :(
Please STOP bullying kids. If you're not being bullied, then help someone who is being bullied. If you aren't a part of the solution then you are part of the problem.
yea hahah were all 20 years old now. Hes up in Santa Barbara University if Im correct.
@deffgy Yup if the schools did there job of stopping bulling/harassment. shit like columbine would of never happen .........!
@TehCuteDuke Haha I try, I even ended It without finishing the sentence, to give people a hint.
I am. I remember he said something about being on a show and when I watched this I thought "HOLY CRAP!!" His name is Mark W. He also mentioned something about it too on our school yearbook but remained anonymous. He said Dr. Phil didnt really help him and just kept telling him how to look on camera :/ Just sucks that he got bullied. He wasnt at my middle school so I wouldnt have known
I was bullied until some girl jumped me and I knocked her out. Word got around. As far as what people said, who cares?
@scumgod13 there's plenty of places that people can post nasty comments on the internet. However, I've noticed that more and more sites have put comments on moderation - they delete anything that is overly inflammatory. I don't have posts on moderation (although I could) but if people are going to post extremely bigoted, off topic and inappropriate comments - I will moderate. They have a right to an opinion, and I have the right to delete them.
Wasn't that song Invisible a hit for a rather bad Irish boyband called D-Side?
Anyone know where I can watch the full video of thise? Where it tells about the kids bullying stories?
@bigpopparamma respect ....
Type your heading up correctly, Dr Phil is not bullying Guest Clay Aiken
I agree. I was shocked that Dr Phil had bullied someone. Then saw the show's REAL content.
Seriously, people...that's what that COMMA is for - separation. Get educated before you blast people over nothing.
i appreciate that you monitor the aggressive, off color comments that people feel they need to make. i generally find you tube comments to be a battlefield of angry people getting their rocks off by telling people off. your like the dr. phil of youtube bullying haha! :)
As a victim of bullying, I bruttally took the lives of the people who did it, Im now living in a maximum security prison In Illinois for 3 consecutive Life sentences, You may ask why Im typing this to you and You'll hafe to forgive me If I do not finish this statement as I have Men yelling at me with Sniper rifles and M16's to drop the computer I stole during the hour we are aloud outside so I don't have alot of time I am going to
hol fucking shit. i fucking KNOW that kid at the beggining!!!!! hes my friend!!!!!!! .____. he was BULLIED??????
I hate to say it but the bullies are the real victims. Most bullies are people live tough lives, growing up with mean parents and poor neighboorhoods, they would never dream of the success this kid will have.
@stopbringnasty 12 year olds can actually have a scooter over there? I love ur country..
@n1c0s1994 Whatever, even if that is true, it still not an excuse.
Haters gonna hate.
4:56 to 5:36
@scumgod13 Oh, and Freedom of Speech was put into place so that people had the right to disagree with the Government - freedom to voice a dissenting opinion. I am a firm believer in the First Amendment - as it was originally written, not what it's morphed into.
I was briefly bullied, and my English teacher in Junior High stank, because he allowed it, and thought it is funny. He is not a Christian, and will pay for that one day.
@METALMAN4Wii haha yea that's true, although i can understand some people do deserve that! it seems enough as a girl to punch a guy in the face.. :D
@lordvoldemort578 lmao this was funny
@megapupluv llllllol
@scumgod13 So Wrong!
I never been a fan of clay Aiken he's always been really rude to most of his fans 👌😳
what are parents doing to raise such insecure kids... I've never been bullied...
violentphotography What an incredibly ignorant comment. Lots of confident kids can get bullied, which can then turn them into insecure kids. You’re an idiot.
Wtf is a Clay aiken?
I was briefly bullied, and my English teacher in Junior High stank, because he allowed it, and thought it is funny. He is not a Christian, and will pay for that one day.
I was briefly bullied, and my English teacher in Junior High stank, because he allowed it, and thought it is funny. He is not a Christian, and will pay for that one day.
I was briefly bullied, and my English teacher in Junior High stank, because he allowed it, and thought it is funny. He is not a Christian, and will pay for that one day.